I absolutely am very happy with my Aquarius man I met, first one.. he is amazing, very sweet, but... lately he has been kind of not calling me back right when he says he will, or if he can... he's done it only two times in the same week. I hate it! The first time was ok, maybe he got very busy.. which he did explain.. but the second time... he was working, but even after work he didn't call back - the first and second time, it made me feel like he was trying to hide something. He didn't answer any of my questions the last time about his weekend with his friend, how it went. He replied, "are you at work?" "can I call you?" and I said, "no, I don't work today" "Sure, you can call me" and I stayed waiting.. until this day (this was last Friday...) Normally we don't call or text on a daily after we don't see each other, which is fine with me, but.. ever since he added me to his social media - it hasn't gone well. I removed him from there, because that shouldn't be a reason why he doesn't follow-through with following up with his own word and not act on it. I miss him, but I am not going to keep reaching out to him - if I will be ignored. I need to keep myself emotionally safe to remain emotionally healthy. I am considering to move on and let him go.. but I don't know if I should clarify with him how I feel with him first, before doing that and end up ghosting him, unless he is already doing it to me now. We met a little over 3 months ago, I met his mother 2 weeks ago. I don't know if that had anything to do with it, or if he just got bored of me. We live 2.5 hours away from each other too, so it's not like we're neighbors. So far we have mutual respect for one another and are very honest with each other. But, tbh, I don't know what's going on in his mind right now, and what he is going through, he hasn't shared too much with me, but that the last time we spoke about him visiting his parents out of the country, he had heard that the Russians were the best there... I replied, he should go and have a great time, and then he replied, Nah, I'm just kidding babe.. and later changed the subject, asking about my family. He hasn't met my friends or family yet, but I have met many of his friends and their girlfriends already. We have fun together. I feel we complement each other in many ways even though we're different in every way. But today, as of this weekend, I don't know what to do... he posted a pic of him (an old screenshot photo maybe) and a female (friend maybe) on his social media... and I didn't know how that made me feel... but I didn't comment on it. I don't consider myself a jealous type of person, but.. maybe I might be a teeny bit, only because I like to be respected. He has a lot of friends, (as do I, I am a social butterfly myself) but I don't know what his boundaries are I guess with the ladies. He said we're dating. But.. earlier before we actually met in person he told me he was looking to find someone to have a long-term relationship with, serious, as was I, so.. and since the first day we actually met, we didn't separate from each other for at least the first week. He is a dream. He's not perfect, but I don't want perfect, I like him just the way he is. I just need more clarity and sincerity I guess. I would hate to waste my time if he is no longer interested in pursuing me and is looking elsewhere without letting me know. I'd really hate that and it would hurt me if I was taken off-guard, and I am not trying to get myself hurt.
I'm an Aquarius man. I don't typically buy into zodiac signs, but I'm told that I fit the astrological mold of a stereotypical Aquarius (Aquarian?) man. If you're interested in an Aquarius man, my biggest piece of advice is to become his friend before you attempt any romantic pursuits. If he's going out of his way to spend time with you, he likes you, but he's not going to jump into something serious until he trusts you.
Nonsense. Stay single you have too much expectations for people yet you give very little back. Who wants to be with someone who plays mind games and is detached. 90% of aquarius people especially men I know are always single
@@trixieke8462 Shame , they not clingy and can live without you . Perhaps you cant stand that since you seem the type who wants to be constantly assured and validated in order to feel good about yourself.
Lol! Us aquarians don't know it all but we know a lot, we are very intelligent... and if we LET you catch us we ARE a great prize! I know my worth. Maybe you've come across an Aqua who also has a psycho sign lurking in the background? What is your astrological sign by the way? My words will always match my actions unless I don't think it's any of your business. I owe very few people an explanation... like maybe only a cop on why I took a left turn in a right turn only lane.
You gotta understand when your in a world of average people being taught to have a stupid level of confidence then us aquarians who actually have talents typically feel the need to remind the herd that they sound ridiculous to us lol
the part of me that lacks confidence would just submit and agree with you. But this is not true, you don't get to tell people who they are. Aquarians like advancing their knowledge, and have so many avenues they want to explore, allow them to hone in on what they truly can thrive in, and you will see just how much their words can match their actions
Aquarius… man.. I’m a Taurus woman. We’re connected at physical and mental level. He loves my sensual side. He’s weird. Scattered.. me too in my own way. lol 😅
I’m a Scorpio, for some reason I’ve only dated and married/divorced Aquarius males. I know them but simultaneously can never quite figure them out… a challenge! They are ferociously independent, unbelievably loyal, devoted to pleasing me… but my god do they love their space lol! Luckily I love my own space too. ❤
Scorpios are known for drama due to their suspicious and controlling nature. Probably one of the worst type of people I’ve personally met. Its the same story with most of you. Aquarius will never be faithful to those type of energies no matter what you say. Do yourself and him a favor and give someone else a chance.
I’m an Aquarius female and for the first time working with an Aquarius male colleague. Definitely intelligent, witty and a good problem solver. However, I do agree on the quiet, aloof and detachment energy. Most days we just get along and work so well together, other days he is so quiet and detached. It’s hard to pin him down, definitely not an open book and you need to give him space and time to open up to you. If you are an independent and low maintenance female then, the Aquarius male is perfect for you. He thrives on sprinkling you with his wit and charm while fluttering around, but you can never quite catch him.
I’m an Aquarius female. I’ve been with my Aquarius male for the last 8 years. It’s not for the weak. It’s an acquired taste. Most people will not be able to deal with the way we do things. You’re going to always feel like you need MORE…but at the same time, you’re going to love how it feels when they love you back. It makes you feel really special. It’s addictive. But you’re never going to have the text book relationship. If you need the ability to understand your partner….We are NOT FOR YOU.
An open relationship isn't a relationship. Better don't waste your time with 💩 . Stereotypes, although entertaining, aren't always true, neither. I'm an ♒, I know am different, cause of ♈♈0° 😉
@@kal9th You do mix different things. Monogamy, means a life-long relationship. An open "relationship" is like being single pretending to be in a relationship (so, neither single nor bonded). It lacks the core element of loyalty and trust, and for sure isn't good for raising children, neither, because children needs stable bonds.
@@kal9th There are some good reasons why those so called "open relationships" aren't the standard relationship model. That model is probable promoted by people that do have bonding issues, or their parents hadn't a stable/healthy relationship. You're free to bond to whoever you want, even bonding-incapable people, am pretty sure it will end in a healthy relationship. Good luck 🤣 [better don't mess with ♒♈⚡😉😂]
I’m dating an Aquarius man & I really like him and I find that he is very clingy like we talk throughout the day and he’s always the one messaging me first he’s very good with chatting especially texting. I love it but sometimes it’s too much me as Capricorn need my space too. I thought Aquarians are distant, aloof and wants their space? What could it possibly be in his chart? But we’re getting on so well together.
Great articulation of the intellectual nature. I think what we all benefit from realizing is that no energy type is good or bad by default but rather energies must match each other. As a highly mentally driven female with almost all air (all Aqua) and fire energy, prominent water and earth combos are not a good fit for me and vice versa. It's just a different wiring and needs and not an implication that either side is superior to the other.
I’m an Aquarius my bf is an Aquarius. We’re basically the same. I’m independent so is he. We’re both in our own worlds and it’s comfortable. It takes one to know one but I can see how people who need more attention and time together and don’t like someone disappearing to do their own thing eg hobby for hours it won’t work.
I was married to a Feb Aqua male for 30 years, he passed away a few years ago. I am a Jan female Aqua and we had a great relationship! I think both of us intuitively gave each other exactly what we needed and wanted because we needed the same things in a marriage and in life. I once read Aquarius is the only sign that can live with it's own sign successfully... does anyone know if that's true? Don't get me wrong, we had arguments, I'm Irish/French and he was Italian/Hungarian😂 He let me be the boss, I let him be the man. 🥰 TY 😊
@@lovelock1994didn’t go much further. Super distant and popped in and out of my popped life. We had a couple of convos about it but things stayed the same it wasn’t what I wanted so I let the connection go.
@@adamireya3643 the way this man chased and was consistent in the beginning, you would think we were going to be something. What was he telling you during your conversations about it and has he tried to come back after you let the connection go?
Interesting to see in the comments how many people dating an Aquarius are also Aquarius. I am also an Aqua who dated an Aqua and although it ended bad it felt like the only relationship I have ever been in where the other person really understood me. Unfortunately he came with all the other typical Aqua shenanigans and I guess I did too. We were both too unpredictable and impulsive but there was a lot of love there (that was rarely expressed since we were both so bad at expressing emotions 🤣).
In my experience, everything you said in this video is true about an aquarius man. Definately not for the faint hearted, my cancer self was not prepared😂
Its very much take it or leave it with them. They are never willing to make any adjustments and they cant talk about their feelings and they dont want you talking about yours. They are soooooo emotionally unavailable. They can go the extra mile for you today and tomorrow you mean nothing to them. it is so strange.
I’m a Libra woman too and was with a 2/6 Aquarius man for 9 years. I left him 3 years ago and he’s been begging me to cone back. Just broke up with a 1/31 Aquarius who was controlling. We didn’t live together but he would have me sleep at his house for days without going home. Catering to his needs. Then when he’s ready for space he tries to send me home
Exactly my fears, I recently got feedback from my family that I'm cold . It's great feedback but it's still hurts. Being described as an Ice king is really nice. I'd noticed that about myself and tried to learn to be emphatic but I feel hopeless now. How can I have family like this, I feel so devastated I want to cry
My best friend is Aquarius man, we enjoyed each other looks like the same too, when it comes to mindset, core values and beliefs. I'm scorpio sun, but Aquarius rising. This video is very accurate. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Aquarius hmmm, the ironic thing is the guys are the most emotional sign I been around, with Gemini and Cancers too, but unlike the airy Gemini which will use words or find ways to express and work through their anguish, an Aquarius may be as if they don't want to address these emotions at all, so, the wall goes up, or the masks put on, or the personality doubles up or they start to get angry, a sudden complex or something bold or wild happens. I don't know if I ever got close to this water bearer sign before... I can't tell, it's so casual I never even had an argument with one (that I am aware of lol) we're both chilled/fixed signs but Aquarius, it's like air... I can't see them, I can't touch them... it's just the air, take it or leave it. Aquarius is probably the most entertaining people EVER so it sure is colorful air.. and it's pretty like a rainbow. I feel they could benefit a lot with having an Earth or Water moon.
@@Naampetra Yeah that's cool to see what's deeply going on, I feel like Aquarius reads people very well, I have a few tell me they like me, but I am guarded and not opened up... they must be reading something, and can tell, they do have good minds, also remembering things very well.
I’m an Aquarius Sun, Gemini Rising and drumroll…. Cancer Moon. Cosmic joke for sure 😂 Head vs heart. I’m always going to think it through, but I can’t deny those damn feelings!! I think it makes me balanced. Lovey dovey if you’re my cup of tea- but plenty of space when needed. 🌟
Im dating one and he’s loyal but not very attentive. I feel forgotten about most of the time. He can go almost a full day without Hardly communicating. Then when we do communicate it’s usually the same topics. I try to change topics but the change will always come from my end. I have to make initiative for everything and If I mention anything I don’t like he usually Changes the subject so issues never get discussed. Recently I mentioned I felt neglected and explained that he could go a whole day without barely messaging me and he told me that’s just the way he is and that was it. I thought he would say he would at least work on it but I’m starting to realize the personality is more like take it or leave it .
How you feel should be discussed and and yes us aquarians are independent, individualistic and stubborn but because he is that way, naturally he may not be as attentive or appreciative as much as you’d like him to be. It’s important for the both of you to communicate with each other and compromise. Don’t pressure him too much because the more you push the more he’ll pull away. Give him his space and be patient because that’s how we recharge. If he isn’t willing to communicate and compromise after that, he probably isn’t the right man for you.
I’m Aqua, I like my space and all but I like connection ( But with the right people ) I won’t just opened up to anyone, Trust has to be earned. I am the most loyal committed grounded person. Not all Aquas are the same and it pisses me off for we all get put in the same box as every other Aqua man and tarnished with a bad reputation. And some of us don’t even come close to the accusations that are presented on here in these comments. Not all of us are the same 👊🏽✌🏽🙏🏽
I am a Capricorn woman who met an Aquarius man recently. We have been getting to know each other but very quickly a couple of issues came to the light. First, he still has some sort of attachment to his ex girlfriend. Second, I had expectations that because he has shown interest in me and we spent good times together both alone and with friends that he would do an effort to plan some more of such like times with me, which was not the case. He told me that his job and passions are a priority and I felt bad because of that outlook. He was for a more spontaneous “planning”. And lastly, I felt that my emotional investment is not seen very well by him. The last thing I told him is that I have a sense of freedom when my emotions are taken into consideration i.e. seen without judgement. I know what I spoke about. I am able to handle them but I don’t feel well when that side of me is criticised or brushed off as too much. I do find him to be very funny, witty and adorably expressive and talented. I don’t have any problem with praising him. However, I don’t feel like giving him more of my attention and ❤ when his might still be pulled towards someone else.
@@trixieke8462 I do get your point and concerns. I am not in contact with him at the present which is why I may be so unconcerned… Or because he uplifted me in a certain way ✌️I think he would reply here, “None can save you but yourself.” And I would add, “Yes and ‘happiness is only real when shared’.” 😛
I gave him freedom, he always came back. My intuition said something was up, I asked my tarot, it said he cheated. I confront him, he cries. I say - that’s a red line for me, let’s cut it off. He agrees. Three months later, he texts me like nothing happened. We text and chat. He calls, I talk and he just sits on the phone not wanting to hang up. Then he says, tell me about all your dates. I said, I haven’t been on any, still healing. He said , whaaaat and starts listing all the guys he thinks I should date. Then ends with saying, I care about you a lot and I’m holding back from driving to your house. I told him I don’t need 100% loyalty, just honesty. He goes quiet. Hangs up, send ls me heart emoji. Goes ghost for 6 weeks. I’m expecting a text anytime soon. 🙄 I caaaaaan’t anymore. It’s so exhausting.
Omg I’m a Pisces we met 2 weeks ago he told me he’s looking for something serious and I thought we was hitting things off then after a good conversation no arguing either. He just ghosted me haven’t heard from him in 2 days 😢
2 days? 😂 I’ve been in a committed 2 year relationship with an Aquarius man and he up and moved thousands of miles away to work and said if he was offered a permanent position he was taking it. Poof ghosted after 2 years! We don’t even talk anymore. I told him if he came back to where I lived give me a call. I am not expecting to hear from him again. I feel it was a waste of 2 years. I was married to one man for 40 years. My Aquarius was married for 2 years. Totally makes sense. Guess it’s time for me to move on. Too bad I really do still love him.
That’s no fun. It’s hard to play psychic and there are always other factors, some in Astro, some beyond. But definitely can be consistent with certain expressions of awua energy, even if not in ways we like
maybe there was something he felt was off about the dynamic, he may have felt you were forcing compatibility/closeness. The Pisces I know can be too much for me, they either idealize you or hate you and think you deserve suffering for "mistreating" them.
It's more like SUDDEN big picture changes, and little ones....he woke up at 3 am and decided we should go to breakfast. We're Renting, he suddenly decided I should go get my camper out of storage TODAY so we can start living in it Boon-docking and save money on rent. SUDDEN. CHANGES!!! If that's your Style, you'll do Great! I'm an Aquarius to, so I just roll with it, it's definitely FUN!! Not like my stick-in-the -mud ex's!!
I'm Aries with Aquarius man it's true about his nature don't miss understand them am in relationship sometimes I haven't got clue 🤷 what he is thinking he is very secretive try to ask him it's just like a time bomb.
Thank you for replying back to me regarding my relationship with my Aquarius man been with him nearly 12 months every time I ask him something about his life he throws back like he doesn't want to tell me he is very secretive ' am very trustworthy and honest and the truth ' To all the people is thinking of dating a Aquarius do your reach first.
I have a few Aquarian friends and I've discovered the secrets to keeping them in a very casual way. I started a new job, and like every Scorpio, I turned all my energies into this new phase of my life and forgot about these friends. Nowadays they look for me more than I look for them 😂😂😂 The key is to want it, but never need it. Just like us Scorpios, Aquarians don't like people in need of them.
Interesting. I'm Scorpio, but this is pretty much opposite of me. I like to feel useful or needed, it gives purpose and also can build close bonds which I want. I don't change much at all entering new phases, I pretty much was grown up already since birth, and if I make a friend they aren't going anywhere, unless they leave, move etc. Then I miss them forever, I check in once or twice if possible to jump start the friendship again, if not I wish them well and move on or just move forward.
Ok ok..can someone help me out. Was dating an Aquarius that claimed to have a crush on me for a couple years. Finally give him a chance, things were great, consistent and then poof here comes the distance. Tried talking about it thought it was working and it happened again. But then he started being weird and watching my social media like a hawk. First to view stories and like them. But won’t say a word. WTH is that about
@@OhSoCarmen I’ve definitely been doing that since my last comment. He’s still doing the same weird shit. We even had one brief conversation and this mf said, I got his mind gone and he doesn’t like that. 🤔 umm boy what??? Nothing since but still watches me like a hawk.
@@OhSoCarmen girrrllll well his mind really about to be shook because I deactivated my social media for a bit. You think he go notice lol? And would you believe that the universe had us in the same area at the same exact time…so much so that he almost crashed into my car 🙄. It looks sooo crazy because then we ended up on the same street passing each other in opposite directions. Omg I really hope he didn’t recognize it was me.
Bc we have our sacred space that we go to in order to reset from LIFE and it needs to be separate from everyone else. Sometimes people don't get that relationships for Aquas don't mean becoming the same person but rather mutual understanding and respect; you don't need to know what that sacred space is or what they do all the time; bc even if they're fooling around you'll know - likely they'll tell you.
I have always been against these astronomical signs but the way it perfectly explains me just amazes me. I’m not sure if there is actually something behind these signs or if I am just reflecting these attributes of an Aquarius onto myself.
Just a weirder Astro sign folks, no need to overdress it.😄 I’m an Aquarius male and yes, I’ve ghosted in relationships and returned and ghosted again and returned and ghosted again and pressed the bye buttons finally. If I really like you and I catch feelings or feel this strong tingly thingy in my emotion, I may avoid you in every way possible. Not sure why I do so but it happens😂. Maybe because I don’t know what to say to you. But you will surely see me rolling the balls with others. If I can’t avoid you or if you like me back and I smell it, and feel like your energy is safe for me to be ME, hmm, Love on the brain. I’ve filed for divorce within 3months of marriage (won’t do so again, it’s a dark spot for anyone to live.) That happens because it’s a distant relationship. It was not sustainable in the long run for a free-spirited falcon of impulse.😢 Emotionally aloof, scattered brain, true. Normally I’m either in my head policing unwarranted thoughts, or in my heart experiencing empathy for me and my world to come. Oh and depending on what time of the day you show up into my world, you get served what is trending😩 Thinking fast and slow, and abrupt changes are what you get with this version of a human.😅 But honestly, it’s for the eventual good if you calm your nerves through the wind. Smart, intellectual, protective, creative, rebel spirit, romantic, adventurous, and vision of what is possible in life are part of the package. I over-prioritize my “me space” to be a healthy human in a society that is impossible to fit into, and if that is not good for anyone’s moral compass, those fireworks from the supermarket can explode to your face.🎉
You have no capacity to love someone it's no surprise you got divorced in 3 months. Most aquarius I know are extremely selfish. What do u expect someone to do when u take considerable amount of space what's the point of even being in a relationship
Polyamory is not Aquarius. That is more Pisces or Sagitarius. Aquarius freedom is entirely different to sag freedom. It's the freedom of letting them be who they are. (Not the freedom to roam around) Aquarius is the Final and the OLDEST fixed sign. There is a higher chance of an aquarius leaving you if you mention 'other people'. Aquarius is on the same axis as Leo. They also want to be doted on and put on a pedestal by you
So if you are in a long term relationship with an Aquarius man and you tell him you want to start having relationship with other male friends with “benefits” your Aquarius man would be totally fine with it? Or is just the Aquarius guys that can have an open relationship but their girlfriends need to be committed to them?
It really depends on the person. I would say more likely that Aquarius energy might be more into “independent” arrangements in love. But wouldn’t be accurate to say, Aquarius automatically means “fine with it.”
The problem with Aquarian males is they can’t commit more than 3 months at a time that’s it. So think of it like going to a college based on a quarter system. You’re committed for the next three months but after that it’s a crap shoot. Maybe you’ll take classes the following session or Maybe you’ll just take the next session off and travel with another women you just met that is more exciting than you are right now. But then maybe she turns out to be more boring than he thought so he takes a flight back to his ex and tries to rekindle her love 🤷♂️ but then maybe he meets an interesting woman on his flight and decides to try the city she lives in and sees what happens 🤔 so many fantasies to explore yet so little time 😢
Ownership will NEVER occur. In ANY way. There is no “I can change him”…. You have to love that because it pops up a lot. These signs will wave an issue off the bat: SCORPIO, Virgo, Pisces … some LOVE this and we mesh Sag, GEMINI, cancer. With us, it’s better we hate you than we are indifferent. Indifferent with an Aquarius is death. This for sure when we had a closeness and now it’s gone….you might as well be dead. We invented a cold shoulder and when it done, it’s done…. However; the cold shoulder is still better than who?
“Not AS scatter brained as PISCES..” I damn near dropped my phone laughing so freaking hard 😂😂😂 I had to recover to comment. I am a scatter brained Pisces 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm a Gemini. Tried dating one. Got ghosted and dont know what happened. He moved towns after he ghosted then texted me out of the blue. I'm like wtf?? Couldn't figure out if I was still interested or not. I replied like 3 weeks later lmao.
An aqua man perusing me. He thinks hes all that. But he dsnt knw im even a bigger player thn he ever will be. Its sad how some ppl take kindness for granted and after the relationship is lost..they realise what they lost. Im not coming back for u ever
Let him.pursue u but never consider him long term they are the worst sign to date trust me. I wasn't prepared for the emotional damage I had to repair. He is kind of back but I'll wait for him to get attached then leave him as I pursue others
@@trixieke8462 thats right! I loath him. And i know the damage u r talking about. It was severe. Never again i will be with him. I blocked him everywhere. Best thing i did for my mental health
@@trixieke8462 if hes like my guy, hes not going to get attached. He was mean and calculative as f. This sign is a waste of time and good kind ppl should stay away from them at all costs
If u ever meet an aquarius just get to know his weak points before emotionally attaching yourself . They are only safe if they love you more. They should never even sense you like them
Long term relationships with Aquarius men (2) and they were both cheaters and liars, one was a diagnosed narcissistic sociopath 🥴Incidentally I too am an Aquarius and found them both to be a flat out disgrace to our sign.
@@Tnc874 riiiight! I just found it so weird that both ( different times of course) were so despicable and sneaky 😕 I thought all aquarians were supposed to be good people.....my mistake 🥴 never again
I dated 2 as well . The first one for 9 years he was 2/6 and the other 1/31 and we broke up last night. We dated 3 months. Dated 3 months 4 years ago too so I’ve known him 4 years. The 1/31 Aquarius was controlling and verbally abusive when he felt i didn’t submit to what he asked of me. The 2/6 one i found out cheated with multiple women when he would tell me he’s on a business trip. I’m a Libra woman. Both have in common that although they’re sexual they will starve you of sex at times. It makes me feel they are holding out for someone else. They are flighty and unpredictable
My father is an aquarius and know some aquarius men. One common thing for them is an emotional daltonism and detachment. Really. Most of them are drown in their own reality where physics law doesn't exist and they try hard to prove everyone their irrational point of view. Even facing pure facts they can't accept them and try to corner you by their witt and mess in your head so they can win an argument. They like logic but in their own terms. Pretty smart and unconventional, technology lovers. Every one was very creative. Life with them is tough but if you have your own life, can entertain them by your intellect and you're not so emotional or needy, this one is for you.
Is tgere any way to not attract aquariusi keep attracting them but im not into them more than a conversation. I seriously attracted 3 while out this year and im sick of it. C😂😂😂
Just being goofy here, basically just meant don't show personality or lock doors so Aquarius can't get in, but truthfully if someone proves trustworthy, doesn't matter what the sign is :)@@fancylyrics.
Good luck! You must be young? At 63 I’ve had both short term relationships and a 40 year marriage. Men are interesting, I’ve learned to not take them seriously anymore.
There is way more than just a Sun sign. His sun might be is in aqua but his mars maybe in cancer etc. sun is just a core but other planets will tell more about the person. I am cap woman and I am very drawn to aqua energy.
Tlkn to an aquarius male im a cancer women .. he txtz me everyday very nice and affectionate he told me he loved me 5 days after tlkn lolz is this normal for an aquarius? Lolz
Drop off an Aquarius dressed in jeans, sneakers and a t-shirt in the middle of nowhere and come back a year later. You'll find hi-rise buildings, infrastructure, services, jobs and an economy..Oh yeah and people too..None of them frowning....
Wow i dont know why star signs should work but you have exactly desrcibed my aquarius boyf. And im an anxious oberthinking capricorn lol. So lets just say the last 5 years have been hairy..... scary.... hard work. But the other day he said he wants to be with me forever. To him that means my total.loyalty but i may not see him for months. Lol.
Okay so im a libra and i was talking to an Aquarius we know. Eachither from highs chool its been years im 33 hes 33 we finally just seen eachither on facebook and eas just joking srkund snd than fkirting snd than flriting led to us takiing getting to know eachither more than when we was in high school he came over and seen me snd we just clicked he would even drive snd hour to get to me but long story short we would rarely talk and he would make sure that he did text me and stuff snd than ill just be up sll night texting him ehile hes at work he loved that part but anywho im overthinker and so by him not rarelt talking to me i feel like j was in competition with ither fenales or i feel like he didnt like me so he finally got tired of ny iver thinking and told me just cause hes not hitting me up sll day dont mean he dont like me but he said he wanted to be friends snd i said just give me one more chsnce he told me hes better of being my friend snd i said eell i cant right now cause i like you and i said bye he said he dint have to be like this though so i chose to be his friend but really i want it back lole it was before and see where it goes but im afraid i could nevee hsve that chance agsin even though we still text but nothing flirtatious anymore what do i do cause he really did like me he wven said he dont get why im singke when im smart funny and he even spent the night and didn try to have se x with me he said he was out of repect webjust kissed the next day and he left idk i just dont get it right now ibneed help please
He is probably on the DL..😂 not trying to have sex with you. How? He will also be emotionally unavailable for you. Please don't even attempt to get attach you will cry
Aquarius man is WILD . We already agree to be friends with benefits.. so now ….when I can’t give him more time /attention….he BLOWS UP to the point he starts being disrespectful ….. After today we won’t even having nothing because he’s too clingy , and it’s becoming disrespectful
Be watchful to the eye 👁️... Life concerns us all... Friends will leave you, and possibly negative beginning just courting fixed people is a loyal suggestion... I'm a Capricorn and I'm aloof to be a generous stick man 😉 don't be so passive with Aquarius men because he's very out the box and distasteful at times... U can't make much of a dreamer and acholicism like to drink and drive... But attendance is always needed
He knows because of the child you're going to want him to be there for his child. This is how they try to stay in your life for the rest of your life, have sex with you when they feel like it, then go back to doing whoever they had on the sidelines. Don't give him sex.
Your first mistake was that awful analogy. Second was trying to put aquarius in a box As an Aquarius ♒ man the main thing you should know is we value intelligence if you can talk about a wide range of topics hold a conversation are ambitious loving mature funny you're in Second we don't like clingy, selfish immature nasty awful people. Aquarius are one of the most loving, loyal signs however we don't show it instead we DO that's how we show affection through our actions words mean nothing to us if not followed up with actions
Dating an Aquarius man and I'm a Leo and he opened up to me about his problem and it was his first time finally opening up to me which makes me feel thankful and really really special but now he is detached again 😶 suddenly, we only talk once or twice a week which we dont usually do. But it made me think as well that there's a lot of things in his mind right now. So, what could Aquas in this comment section can advice? Like, when you're dealing with personal problems. Do you prefer to shut people out or ask for help? 🥲
On behalf of all Aquarius men, we are aware of our flaws and we are working on them.
Please date me.
Nope. You are the worst people I have ever come across. Very detached and then expect people to chase after you .
@@Thekaydacap they won't. Please save your sanity this is the worst sign they waste your time like nothing
I absolutely am very happy with my Aquarius man I met, first one.. he is amazing, very sweet, but... lately he has been kind of not calling me back right when he says he will, or if he can... he's done it only two times in the same week. I hate it! The first time was ok, maybe he got very busy.. which he did explain.. but the second time... he was working, but even after work he didn't call back - the first and second time, it made me feel like he was trying to hide something. He didn't answer any of my questions the last time about his weekend with his friend, how it went. He replied, "are you at work?" "can I call you?" and I said, "no, I don't work today" "Sure, you can call me" and I stayed waiting.. until this day (this was last Friday...) Normally we don't call or text on a daily after we don't see each other, which is fine with me, but.. ever since he added me to his social media - it hasn't gone well. I removed him from there, because that shouldn't be a reason why he doesn't follow-through with following up with his own word and not act on it. I miss him, but I am not going to keep reaching out to him - if I will be ignored. I need to keep myself emotionally safe to remain emotionally healthy. I am considering to move on and let him go.. but I don't know if I should clarify with him how I feel with him first, before doing that and end up ghosting him, unless he is already doing it to me now. We met a little over 3 months ago, I met his mother 2 weeks ago. I don't know if that had anything to do with it, or if he just got bored of me. We live 2.5 hours away from each other too, so it's not like we're neighbors. So far we have mutual respect for one another and are very honest with each other. But, tbh, I don't know what's going on in his mind right now, and what he is going through, he hasn't shared too much with me, but that the last time we spoke about him visiting his parents out of the country, he had heard that the Russians were the best there... I replied, he should go and have a great time, and then he replied, Nah, I'm just kidding babe.. and later changed the subject, asking about my family. He hasn't met my friends or family yet, but I have met many of his friends and their girlfriends already. We have fun together. I feel we complement each other in many ways even though we're different in every way. But today, as of this weekend, I don't know what to do... he posted a pic of him (an old screenshot photo maybe) and a female (friend maybe) on his social media... and I didn't know how that made me feel... but I didn't comment on it. I don't consider myself a jealous type of person, but.. maybe I might be a teeny bit, only because I like to be respected. He has a lot of friends, (as do I, I am a social butterfly myself) but I don't know what his boundaries are I guess with the ladies. He said we're dating. But.. earlier before we actually met in person he told me he was looking to find someone to have a long-term relationship with, serious, as was I, so.. and since the first day we actually met, we didn't separate from each other for at least the first week. He is a dream. He's not perfect, but I don't want perfect, I like him just the way he is. I just need more clarity and sincerity I guess. I would hate to waste my time if he is no longer interested in pursuing me and is looking elsewhere without letting me know. I'd really hate that and it would hurt me if I was taken off-guard, and I am not trying to get myself hurt.
@@trixieke8462 Control your emotions, stop expecting people to save you and maybe the aquarius will notice you
@@trixieke8462 Wish I could have given you 2 thumbs up.
I'm an Aquarius man. I don't typically buy into zodiac signs, but I'm told that I fit the astrological mold of a stereotypical Aquarius (Aquarian?) man. If you're interested in an Aquarius man, my biggest piece of advice is to become his friend before you attempt any romantic pursuits. If he's going out of his way to spend time with you, he likes you, but he's not going to jump into something serious until he trusts you.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤
Nonsense. Stay single you have too much expectations for people yet you give very little back. Who wants to be with someone who plays mind games and is detached. 90% of aquarius people especially men I know are always single
@@trixieke8462
Shame , they not clingy and can live without you . Perhaps you cant stand that since you seem the type who wants to be constantly assured and validated in order to feel good about yourself.
@@Hunkzilla not clingy but full of themselves and are never wrong t he other people are always the problem
@@trixieke8462I agree
Married to one and it’s so boring and uneventful, no communication, no romance, not sure why I’m still here
Stop wasting your time
Stand
Up
Lol
Aquarius man I feel uncomfortable always
Is it possible he would say the same about you?
Aquarius are know-it-all and think they’re the prize. When their words don’t match their actions
Lol! Us aquarians don't know it all but we know a lot, we are very intelligent... and if we LET you catch us we ARE a great prize! I know my worth. Maybe you've come across an Aqua who also has a psycho sign lurking in the background? What is your astrological sign by the way? My words will always match my actions unless I don't think it's any of your business. I owe very few people an explanation... like maybe only a cop on why I took a left turn in a right turn only lane.
You gotta understand when your in a world of average people being taught to have a stupid level of confidence then us aquarians who actually have talents typically feel the need to remind the herd that they sound ridiculous to us lol
😂😂
@@creations4ewesuch an Aquarius thing to say 🤣
the part of me that lacks confidence would just submit and agree with you. But this is not true, you don't get to tell people who they are. Aquarians like advancing their knowledge, and have so many avenues they want to explore, allow them to hone in on what they truly can thrive in, and you will see just how much their words can match their actions
I'm an Aquarius woman, and I just started dating an Aquarius man. Let the adventures begin!♒♒
Have fun with that
exiting and all loving and crazy at first then you'll see how lazy he is romantically after commitment . boring relationship run girl
@@lana3878True dat.
Aquarius… man.. I’m a Taurus woman. We’re connected at physical and mental level. He loves my sensual side. He’s weird. Scattered.. me too in my own way. lol 😅
I’m a Scorpio, for some reason I’ve only dated and married/divorced Aquarius males. I know them but simultaneously can never quite figure them out… a challenge! They are ferociously independent, unbelievably loyal, devoted to pleasing me… but my god do they love their space lol! Luckily I love my own space too. ❤
Ive dated 4 scorpio woman
Aquarius men cant do the scorpio we are too free and when confronted often dont understand the conflict
Scorpios are known for drama due to their suspicious and controlling nature. Probably one of the worst type of people I’ve personally met. Its the same story with most of you. Aquarius will never be faithful to those type of energies no matter what you say. Do yourself and him a favor and give someone else a chance.
Funny story. I have only dated married or separated Scorpio women. Definitely sexual tension and excitement about this match up
You should be so strong to date him, give him freedom and trust him, he will always come back to you when you least expect it
Good point, thanks for sharing!
what a great quality in a relationship partner lol
U know something, give Aquarius your trust and they’ll do whatever to keep it
@@yudahel8521very well said
@@lyb244ikr 😅 lies lies lies
Never again
Uh oh..
I agree they turn everything to a conflict, hypersexual, lair manipulative and money hungry just not good.
Plenty of woman out here wdngaf
@@jokerspartan7175 *women
@@jokerspartan7175Spoken like a true Aquarius🤣🤣. I should know; am one.
I’m an Aquarius female and for the first time working with an Aquarius male colleague. Definitely intelligent, witty and a good problem solver. However, I do agree on the quiet, aloof and detachment energy. Most days we just get along and work so well together, other days he is so quiet and detached. It’s hard to pin him down, definitely not an open book and you need to give him space and time to open up to you. If you are an independent and low maintenance female then, the Aquarius male is perfect for you. He thrives on sprinkling you with his wit and charm while fluttering around, but you can never quite catch him.
The males should be alone. Or date other men they have no capacity to love.
People often forget the difference between a mature and immature signs are huge no matter the sign
I’m an Aquarius female. I’ve been with my Aquarius male for the last 8 years. It’s not for the weak. It’s an acquired taste. Most people will not be able to deal with the way we do things. You’re going to always feel like you need MORE…but at the same time, you’re going to love how it feels when they love you back. It makes you feel really special. It’s addictive. But you’re never going to have the text book relationship. If you need the ability to understand your partner….We are NOT FOR YOU.
You understand us ❤
I don't understand him at all, but he keep me on my toes and I love mystery 🤷🏾♀️
@@debbiieesmiles Are you Aquarius also? Or what’s your sign?
@@daniellefarrow7956 Im a Scorpio...
We are definately and acquired taste! 😂
There is no difference In being single or being with an Aquarius man. So then why to be in a relationship with him?? 😂🙊
An open relationship isn't a relationship. Better don't waste your time with 💩 . Stereotypes, although entertaining, aren't always true, neither. I'm an ♒, I know am different, cause of ♈♈0° 😉
@@ロース-z7man open relationship is a relationship as well. Humans arent really monogamous by nature.some can be but not all
@@kal9th You do mix different things. Monogamy, means a life-long relationship. An open "relationship" is like being single pretending to be in a relationship (so, neither single nor bonded). It lacks the core element of loyalty and trust, and for sure isn't good for raising children, neither, because children needs stable bonds.
@@ロース-z7m your assumption is erroneous
@@kal9th There are some good reasons why those so called "open relationships" aren't the standard relationship model. That model is probable promoted by people that do have bonding issues, or their parents hadn't a stable/healthy relationship. You're free to bond to whoever you want, even bonding-incapable people, am pretty sure it will end in a healthy relationship. Good luck 🤣
[better don't mess with ♒♈⚡😉😂]
Pisces lady (Me) happily married to my Aquarius husband for 10 years 🧠 ♥️
Awe me too ❤
I love my Pisces queen so much. Aqua here btw 👋
@@thanumba1stunnaawesome!!
Any tips I am Taurus and married to aqua man! Kind of disappointed
So happy knowing it
I’m dating an Aquarius man & I really like him and I find that he is very clingy like we talk throughout the day and he’s always the one messaging me first he’s very good with chatting especially texting. I love it but sometimes it’s too much me as Capricorn need my space too. I thought Aquarians are distant, aloof and wants their space? What could it possibly be in his chart? But we’re getting on so well together.
Going through the same thing and I’m Aries . I almost feel smothered
They are very clingy but it's weird because they will ghost you for no reason and come back..very Strange
Maybe Cancer moon
This aquarius isn't clingy at all! Love bombed me and then ghosted. 😮 I'm so confused. I'm also over it!
Aqua men are workaholic too or when they get caught up with hobbies and other passions, the rest including love interest will fade.
Great articulation of the intellectual nature. I think what we all benefit from realizing is that no energy type is good or bad by default but rather energies must match each other. As a highly mentally driven female with almost all air (all Aqua) and fire energy, prominent water and earth combos are not a good fit for me and vice versa. It's just a different wiring and needs and not an implication that either side is superior to the other.
I’m an Aquarius my bf is an Aquarius. We’re basically the same. I’m independent so is he. We’re both in our own worlds and it’s comfortable. It takes one to know one but I can see how people who need more attention and time together and don’t like someone disappearing to do their own thing eg hobby for hours it won’t work.
I'm Aquarius female. My first ride with Aquarius male. I almost knew what to expect. But God is he confusing
Your first “ride” 😂 Damn. Gurl you make him sound like an Uber.
@@byefelicia8632 where I'm from- We use the phrase "This is my first rodeo ". Lol
I was married to a Feb Aqua male for 30 years, he passed away a few years ago. I am a Jan female Aqua and we had a great relationship! I think both of us intuitively gave each other exactly what we needed and wanted because we needed the same things in a marriage and in life. I once read Aquarius is the only sign that can live with it's own sign successfully... does anyone know if that's true? Don't get me wrong, we had arguments, I'm Irish/French and he was Italian/Hungarian😂 He let me be the boss, I let him be the man. 🥰 TY 😊
Love hearing this, ty for sharing
I think virgo can also get along with each other. As a virgo woman I love virgo men.
Most signs get on their own signs very well..
Aquarius and Leo relatonships
Mann! U're Giving Me A Hope To Try An Other Alien For A Chance!🥴😄
~Aqua Fem. Here..👽
Thank you for this. I’m dating an Aquarius man and it’s fairly new and this describes him!
Awesome, thanks for watching. Stay tuned for more content and good luck with the romance :)
Hey what’s the update
@@lovelock1994didn’t go much further. Super distant and popped in and out of my popped life. We had a couple of convos about it but things stayed the same it wasn’t what I wanted so I let the connection go.
@@adamireya3643 the way this man chased and was consistent in the beginning, you would think we were going to be something. What was he telling you during your conversations about it and has he tried to come back after you let the connection go?
@@adamireya3643 They seem to be so full of themselves. Honestly not worth to waste your time on people who are like this. Lol
Interesting to see in the comments how many people dating an Aquarius are also Aquarius. I am also an Aqua who dated an Aqua and although it ended bad it felt like the only relationship I have ever been in where the other person really understood me. Unfortunately he came with all the other typical Aqua shenanigans and I guess I did too. We were both too unpredictable and impulsive but there was a lot of love there (that was rarely expressed since we were both so bad at expressing emotions 🤣).
This is really funny😂😂😂
You are not capable of love. Even data shows you people being single most of the time
In my experience, everything you said in this video is true about an aquarius man. Definately not for the faint hearted, my cancer self was not prepared😂
I’m a cancer too and mannnn I wasn’t ready. How did it go for you?
Same here..he loves to ghost and reappear..I'm done it's so exhausting..he's a liar
Thts the thing with them. All adjustments have to be made by us. Never them. Im done.
Its very much take it or leave it with them. They are never willing to make any adjustments and they cant talk about their feelings and they dont want you talking about yours. They are soooooo emotionally unavailable. They can go the extra mile for you today and tomorrow you mean nothing to them. it is so strange.
😂😂😂
I have children by an an aquarius man abd i am a Libra he is nerve racking i can't do it
Thanks for watching and commenting. Much love to you!
I’m a Libra woman too and was with a 2/6 Aquarius man for 9 years. I left him 3 years ago and he’s been begging me to cone back. Just broke up with a 1/31 Aquarius who was controlling. We didn’t live together but he would have me sleep at his house for days without going home. Catering to his needs. Then when he’s ready for space he tries to send me home
@@soyicasweet99i dont like that
Exactly my fears, I recently got feedback from my family that I'm cold . It's great feedback but it's still hurts.
Being described as an Ice king is really nice.
I'd noticed that about myself and tried to learn to be emphatic but I feel hopeless now.
How can I have family like this, I feel so devastated I want to cry
@@NdifrekeabasiUmoh-rc8wq learn how to be selfless or you will loose people who truly care about you
My best friend is Aquarius man, we enjoyed each other looks like the same too, when it comes to mindset, core values and beliefs. I'm scorpio sun, but Aquarius rising. This video is very accurate. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Thanks, I appreciate that feedback!
Aquarius hmmm, the ironic thing is the guys are the most emotional sign I been around, with Gemini and Cancers too, but unlike the airy Gemini which will use words or find ways to express and work through their anguish, an Aquarius may be as if they don't want to address these emotions at all, so, the wall goes up, or the masks put on, or the personality doubles up or they start to get angry, a sudden complex or something bold or wild happens.
I don't know if I ever got close to this water bearer sign before... I can't tell, it's so casual I never even had an argument with one (that I am aware of lol) we're both chilled/fixed signs but Aquarius, it's like air... I can't see them, I can't touch them... it's just the air, take it or leave it. Aquarius is probably the most entertaining people EVER so it sure is colorful air.. and it's pretty like a rainbow. I feel they could benefit a lot with having an Earth or Water moon.
They like you if they show those emotional
Depths
@@Naampetra Yeah that's cool to see what's deeply going on, I feel like Aquarius reads people very well, I have a few tell me they like me, but I am guarded and not opened up... they must be reading something, and can tell, they do have good minds, also remembering things very well.
I’m an Aquarius Sun, Gemini Rising and drumroll…. Cancer Moon. Cosmic joke for sure 😂 Head vs heart. I’m always going to think it through, but I can’t deny those damn feelings!! I think it makes me balanced. Lovey dovey if you’re my cup of tea- but plenty of space when needed. 🌟
@@Naampetra😊. Thank you for this comment 😊
@@jayjaygothicI have terrible memory 😂😂😂😂
Im dating one and he’s loyal but not very attentive. I feel forgotten about most of the time. He can go almost a full day without Hardly communicating. Then when we do communicate it’s usually the same topics. I try to change topics but the change will always come from my end. I have to make initiative for everything and If I mention anything I don’t like he usually Changes the subject so issues never get discussed. Recently I mentioned I felt neglected and explained that he could go a whole day without barely messaging me and he told me that’s just the way he is and that was it. I thought he would say he would at least work on it but I’m starting to realize the personality is more like take it or leave it .
What sign are you? I’m an Aquarius and I think I might be able to help.
How you feel should be discussed and and yes us aquarians are independent, individualistic and stubborn but because he is that way, naturally he may not be as attentive or appreciative as much as you’d like him to be. It’s important for the both of you to communicate with each other and compromise. Don’t pressure him too much because the more you push the more he’ll pull away. Give him his space and be patient because that’s how we recharge. If he isn’t willing to communicate and compromise after that, he probably isn’t the right man for you.
I feel same way with my aquarius bf. He make plans telling me that we will see each other then he will ditch me. So frustrating as a taurus woman
@@GeneOridonnDaemonIm a gemini
@@k8kyle20 I think whether or not u keep your word to things like that is more of a personal thing and not necessarily due to him being an Aquarius
I’m Aqua, I like my space and all but I like connection ( But with the right people ) I won’t just opened up to anyone, Trust has to be earned. I am the most loyal committed grounded person.
Not all Aquas are the same and it pisses me off for we all get put in the same box as every other Aqua man and tarnished with a bad reputation. And some of us don’t even come close to the accusations that are presented on here in these comments.
Not all of us are the same 👊🏽✌🏽🙏🏽
I am a Capricorn woman who met an Aquarius man recently. We have been getting to know each other but very quickly a couple of issues came to the light. First, he still has some sort of attachment to his ex girlfriend. Second, I had expectations that because he has shown interest in me and we spent good times together both alone and with friends that he would do an effort to plan some more of such like times with me, which was not the case. He told me that his job and passions are a priority and I felt bad because of that outlook. He was for a more spontaneous “planning”. And lastly, I felt that my emotional investment is not seen very well by him. The last thing I told him is that I have a sense of freedom when my emotions are taken into consideration i.e. seen without judgement. I know what I spoke about. I am able to handle them but I don’t feel well when that side of me is criticised or brushed off as too much.
I do find him to be very funny, witty and adorably expressive and talented. I don’t have any problem with praising him.
However, I don’t feel like giving him more of my attention and ❤ when his might still be pulled towards someone else.
Please for your own sanity never ever give these people any attention. You will always be lonely in the relationship
@@trixieke8462 I do get your point and concerns. I am not in contact with him at the present which is why I may be so unconcerned… Or because he uplifted me in a certain way ✌️I think he would reply here, “None can save you but yourself.” And I would add, “Yes and ‘happiness is only real when shared’.” 😛
I gave him freedom, he always came back. My intuition said something was up, I asked my tarot, it said he cheated. I confront him, he cries. I say - that’s a red line for me, let’s cut it off. He agrees. Three months later, he texts me like nothing happened. We text and chat. He calls, I talk and he just sits on the phone not wanting to hang up. Then he says, tell me about all your dates. I said, I haven’t been on any, still healing. He said , whaaaat and starts listing all the guys he thinks I should date. Then ends with saying, I care about you a lot and I’m holding back from driving to your house. I told him I don’t need 100% loyalty, just honesty. He goes quiet. Hangs up, send ls me heart emoji. Goes ghost for 6 weeks. I’m expecting a text anytime soon. 🙄
I caaaaaan’t anymore. It’s so exhausting.
Male Aquarius Moon here 👍 my character
i love this video! with an Aquarius man myself
Ah thanks so much!!
Me too
Omg I’m a Pisces we met 2 weeks ago he told me he’s looking for something serious and I thought we was hitting things off then after a good conversation no arguing either. He just ghosted me haven’t heard from him in 2 days 😢
2 days? 😂 I’ve been in a committed 2 year relationship with an Aquarius man and he up and moved thousands of miles away to work and said if he was offered a permanent position he was taking it. Poof ghosted after 2 years! We don’t even talk anymore. I told him if he came back to where I lived give me a call. I am not expecting to hear from him again. I feel it was a waste of 2 years. I was married to one man for 40 years. My Aquarius was married for 2 years. Totally makes sense. Guess it’s time for me to move on. Too bad I really do still love him.
That’s no fun. It’s hard to play psychic and there are always other factors, some in Astro, some beyond. But definitely can be consistent with certain expressions of awua energy, even if not in ways we like
maybe there was something he felt was off about the dynamic, he may have felt you were forcing compatibility/closeness. The Pisces I know can be too much for me, they either idealize you or hate you and think you deserve suffering for "mistreating" them.
@@penniroyal4398 don't ever give him a chance again. They are terrible people
@@EmanuelGene everybody is too much for an aquarius. It's best to never attach yourself too them. The are never emotionally available for anyone
It's more like SUDDEN big picture changes, and little ones....he woke up at 3 am and decided we should go to breakfast. We're Renting, he suddenly decided I should go get my camper out of storage TODAY so we can start living in it Boon-docking and save money on rent. SUDDEN. CHANGES!!! If that's your Style, you'll do Great! I'm an Aquarius to, so I just roll with it, it's definitely FUN!! Not like my stick-in-the -mud ex's!!
That's extremely selfish and unrealistic
I'm Aries with Aquarius man it's true about his nature don't miss understand them am in relationship sometimes I haven't got clue 🤷 what he is thinking he is very secretive try to ask him it's just like a time bomb.
Thank you for replying back to me regarding my relationship with my Aquarius man been with him nearly 12 months every time I ask him something about his life he throws back like he doesn't want to tell me he is very secretive ' am very trustworthy and honest and the truth ' To all the people is thinking of dating a Aquarius do your reach first.
I have a few Aquarian friends and I've discovered the secrets to keeping them in a very casual way. I started a new job, and like every Scorpio, I turned all my energies into this new phase of my life and forgot about these friends. Nowadays they look for me more than I look for them 😂😂😂
The key is to want it, but never need it. Just like us Scorpios, Aquarians don't like people in need of them.
Interesting. I'm Scorpio, but this is pretty much opposite of me. I like to feel useful or needed, it gives purpose and also can build close bonds which I want. I don't change much at all entering new phases, I pretty much was grown up already since birth, and if I make a friend they aren't going anywhere, unless they leave, move etc. Then I miss them forever, I check in once or twice if possible to jump start the friendship again, if not I wish them well and move on or just move forward.
Im an aquarius and this is Soooo true, and I can definitely relate, I like people who also have their own life going on
Because it seems parasitic and our initial reaction is to call the exterminator but society says that’s insensitive lol
Wow I’m a Scorpio moon & I hate when a man is needy
@@whatshappening3327😂😂😂
Ok ok..can someone help me out. Was dating an Aquarius that claimed to have a crush on me for a couple years. Finally give him a chance, things were great, consistent and then poof here comes the distance. Tried talking about it thought it was working and it happened again. But then he started being weird and watching my social media like a hawk. First to view stories and like them. But won’t say a word. WTH is that about
They are deep thinkers and they play mind games. Live your life and give him space. Don't think too much about it.
@@OhSoCarmen I’ve definitely been doing that since my last comment. He’s still doing the same weird shit. We even had one brief conversation and this mf said, I got his mind gone and he doesn’t like that. 🤔 umm boy what??? Nothing since but still watches me like a hawk.
@@lovelock1994 🤣🤣🤣 you have him shook. Let him think alone while you keep living your life!
@@OhSoCarmen girrrllll well his mind really about to be shook because I deactivated my social media for a bit. You think he go notice lol? And would you believe that the universe had us in the same area at the same exact time…so much so that he almost crashed into my car 🙄. It looks sooo crazy because then we ended up on the same street passing each other in opposite directions. Omg I really hope he didn’t recognize it was me.
@@OhSoCarmen lol I was like ohhhh the Universe is sending me a message
Why aquarius man is so secretive.
They are independent and self protective of their space. Its not necessarily negative, but that observation is consistent with Aquarian archetypes
Bc we have our sacred space that we go to in order to reset from LIFE and it needs to be separate from everyone else. Sometimes people don't get that relationships for Aquas don't mean becoming the same person but rather mutual understanding and respect; you don't need to know what that sacred space is or what they do all the time; bc even if they're fooling around you'll know - likely they'll tell you.
I have always been against these astronomical signs but the way it perfectly explains me just amazes me. I’m not sure if there is actually something behind these signs or if I am just reflecting these attributes of an Aquarius onto myself.
Other signs not accurate but aquarius are the worst people to be in a relationship with
I love mine. He love me . 💕🥰
That’s wholesome
Exactly
Just a weirder Astro sign folks, no need to overdress it.😄
I’m an Aquarius male and yes, I’ve ghosted in relationships and returned and ghosted again and returned and ghosted again and pressed the bye buttons finally.
If I really like you and I catch feelings or feel this strong tingly thingy in my emotion, I may avoid you in every way possible. Not sure why I do so but it happens😂. Maybe because I don’t know what to say to you. But you will surely see me rolling the balls with others. If I can’t avoid you or if you like me back and I smell it, and feel like your energy is safe for me to be ME, hmm, Love on the brain.
I’ve filed for divorce within 3months of marriage (won’t do so again, it’s a dark spot for anyone to live.) That happens because it’s a distant relationship. It was not sustainable in the long run for a free-spirited falcon of impulse.😢
Emotionally aloof, scattered brain, true. Normally I’m either in my head policing unwarranted thoughts, or in my heart experiencing empathy for me and my world to come. Oh and depending on what time of the day you show up into my world, you get served what is trending😩
Thinking fast and slow, and abrupt changes are what you get with this version of a human.😅 But honestly, it’s for the eventual good if you calm your nerves through the wind.
Smart, intellectual, protective, creative, rebel spirit, romantic, adventurous, and vision of what is possible in life are part of the package. I over-prioritize my “me space” to be a healthy human in a society that is impossible to fit into, and if that is not good for anyone’s moral compass, those fireworks from the supermarket can explode to your face.🎉
That's him for sure. I am a Libra so let me ride this out to see.
U sound nuts. Please be alone before you ruin other people . 😅
You have no capacity to love someone it's no surprise you got divorced in 3 months. Most aquarius I know are extremely selfish. What do u expect someone to do when u take considerable amount of space what's the point of even being in a relationship
@@TyRochedo not trust me you will regret it it will take you months to detach. They are emotional vampires😅
They are cold and aloof. They are bullies and love to point other peoples flaws.
They are not for the faint of heart
Polyamory is not Aquarius. That is more Pisces or Sagitarius.
Aquarius freedom is entirely different to sag freedom. It's the freedom of letting them be who they are. (Not the freedom to roam around)
Aquarius is the Final and the OLDEST fixed sign. There is a higher chance of an aquarius leaving you if you mention 'other people'. Aquarius is on the same axis as Leo. They also want to be doted on and put on a pedestal by you
So they want monogamous? Sometimes I'm not sure what he wants
@@Helium333-pj2jt monogamy without any titles besides marriage, supposedly and truthfully.
So if you are in a long term relationship with an Aquarius man and you tell him you want to start having relationship with other male friends with “benefits” your Aquarius man would be totally fine with it? Or is just the Aquarius guys that can have an open relationship but their girlfriends need to be committed to them?
Aquarius man have many gf bt once they commited they stay
It really depends on the person. I would say more likely that Aquarius energy might be more into “independent” arrangements in love. But wouldn’t be accurate to say, Aquarius automatically means “fine with it.”
The problem with Aquarian males is they can’t commit more than 3 months at a time that’s it. So think of it like going to a college based on a quarter system. You’re committed for the next three months but after that it’s a crap shoot. Maybe you’ll take classes the following session or
Maybe you’ll just take the next session off and travel with another women you just met that is more exciting than you are right now. But then maybe she turns out to be more boring than he thought so he takes a flight back to his ex and tries to rekindle her love 🤷♂️ but then maybe he meets an interesting woman on his flight and decides to try the city she lives in and sees what happens 🤔 so many fantasies to explore yet so little time 😢
Ownership will NEVER occur. In ANY way. There is no “I can change him”…. You have to love that because it pops up a lot. These signs will wave an issue off the bat: SCORPIO, Virgo, Pisces … some LOVE this and we mesh Sag, GEMINI, cancer. With us, it’s better we hate you than we are indifferent. Indifferent with an Aquarius is death. This for sure when we had a closeness and now it’s gone….you might as well be dead. We invented a cold shoulder and when it done, it’s done…. However; the cold shoulder is still better than who?
Aquarius people play the detachment game. As a cancer once we realise these mind games we can play a better game than you. 😂
“Not AS scatter brained as PISCES..” I damn near dropped my phone laughing so freaking hard 😂😂😂 I had to recover to comment. I am a scatter brained Pisces 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am a Pisces and not in the least scatter brained.
I'm a Gemini. Tried dating one. Got ghosted and dont know what happened. He moved towns after he ghosted then texted me out of the blue. I'm like wtf?? Couldn't figure out if I was still interested or not. I replied like 3 weeks later lmao.
If a gemini cant figure this out, dont knw who can 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Run as fast as you can.It's like dating Doctor Jekyll and Mr Hyde ..
@@rose7777 she should never let him back in or take him seriously they are the worst sign to date
@@trixieke8462 i second that
"You know you are a know it all." That's funny
😂😂
And Nobody is going to influence or change you Mind!
Nope not doing it again am a virgo and he is a rollercoaster
An aqua man perusing me. He thinks hes all that. But he dsnt knw im even a bigger player thn he ever will be. Its sad how some ppl take kindness for granted and after the relationship is lost..they realise what they lost. Im not coming back for u ever
Let him.pursue u but never consider him long term they are the worst sign to date trust me. I wasn't prepared for the emotional damage I had to repair. He is kind of back but I'll wait for him to get attached then leave him as I pursue others
@@trixieke8462 thats right! I loath him. And i know the damage u r talking about. It was severe. Never again i will be with him. I blocked him everywhere. Best thing i did for my mental health
@@trixieke8462 if hes like my guy, hes not going to get attached. He was mean and calculative as f. This sign is a waste of time and good kind ppl should stay away from them at all costs
If u ever meet an aquarius just get to know his weak points before emotionally attaching yourself . They are only safe if they love you more. They should never even sense you like them
@@trixieke8462 the one i had was like a goon, rude and mean. Very abusive. So dsnt matter. Im done
We move 100 but when we stop were 100
Long term relationships with Aquarius men (2) and they were both cheaters and liars, one was a diagnosed narcissistic sociopath 🥴Incidentally I too am an Aquarius and found them both to be a flat out disgrace to our sign.
Sounds like you just described a man lol
@@Tnc874 riiiight! I just found it so weird that both ( different times of course) were so despicable and sneaky 😕 I thought all aquarians were supposed to be good people.....my mistake 🥴 never again
I dated 2 as well . The first one for 9 years he was 2/6 and the other 1/31 and we broke up last night. We dated 3 months. Dated 3 months 4 years ago too so I’ve known him 4 years. The 1/31 Aquarius was controlling and verbally abusive when he felt i didn’t submit to what he asked of me. The 2/6 one i found out cheated with multiple women when he would tell me he’s on a business trip. I’m a Libra woman. Both have in common that although they’re sexual they will starve you of sex at times. It makes me feel they are holding out for someone else. They are flighty and unpredictable
Yeah, a lot depends on individual maturity and other chart factors. All signs have their gifts and limitations!
Sounds like that’s what YOU attracted to YOU. Haven’t experienced that at all.
Spot on true about Intense Energy...Wow this described an Aqua. Man i know to A.T.
The first rule is never date a Aqua man that's the only way
My father is an aquarius and know some aquarius men. One common thing for them is an emotional daltonism and detachment. Really. Most of them are drown in their own reality where physics law doesn't exist and they try hard to prove everyone their irrational point of view. Even facing pure facts they can't accept them and try to corner you by their witt and mess in your head so they can win an argument. They like logic but in their own terms. Pretty smart and unconventional, technology lovers. Every one was very creative. Life with them is tough but if you have your own life, can entertain them by your intellect and you're not so emotional or needy, this one is for you.
Getting to know one, he’s a doctor, so darn talkative and smart. He’s very judge mental and critical as well. Not sure about this!! Lol
Sounds like an issue in reaction to his parental
Figure
Don't take him seriously trust me u will be disappointed
The fireworks metaphor is right on 😂
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"Intellectualize their emotions instead of actually feeling them" real af. You ate that
Is tgere any way to not attract aquariusi keep attracting them but im not into them more than a conversation. I seriously attracted 3 while out this year and im sick of it. C😂😂😂
lol, you’re a magnet
Girls what ur sign..??.. and what do think the reason you attract them..??..
Hahah, Aquarians love charm and personality, so you're gonna have to be like a robot, or change the locks lol.
@@jayjaygothic What do you mean by being a robot or changing the locks..?..
Just being goofy here, basically just meant don't show personality or lock doors so Aquarius can't get in, but truthfully if someone proves trustworthy, doesn't matter what the sign is :)@@fancylyrics.
Im realizing that a man is a man is a man is a man. And its up to us, the woman, to guide him
I’m not sure I would agree with that!
Good luck! You must be young? At 63 I’ve had both short term relationships and a 40 year marriage. Men are interesting, I’ve learned to not take them seriously anymore.
Ahem, do you know where the weight room is??
@penniroyal439😂😂
@@penniroyal4398 exactly 💯
Ahh yes, Aquarius are my FAVORITE
one of a kind for sure
Hmm the Aquarius people I know are very clingy and emotional
Lol... I was thinking the same thing just now....lololol
In the beginning but once u get attached they will ghost you. Don't try it
There is way more than just a Sun sign. His sun might be is in aqua but his mars maybe in cancer etc. sun is just a core but other planets will tell more about the person.
I am cap woman and I am very drawn to aqua energy.
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Lfg!
Tlkn to an aquarius male im a cancer women .. he txtz me everyday very nice and affectionate he told me he loved me 5 days after tlkn lolz is this normal for an aquarius? Lolz
Once you like him he will ghost you trust me
This video is literally you describing my Aquarius male item by item!!!!
Certainly not for the faint hearted, but this Libra thinks it’s worth it…
Are you sure ? Your comment gave me hope in some way. So I can be loved? I can be wanted ?🥹
@@NdifrekeabasiUmoh-rc8wqomg yes of course!!
@@NdifrekeabasiUmoh-rc8wq don't listen to her. Aquarius are incapable of receiving love. She will learn the hard way😅
It won't be. Run when u have still time
Drop off an Aquarius dressed in jeans, sneakers and a t-shirt in the middle of nowhere and come back a year later. You'll find hi-rise buildings, infrastructure, services, jobs and an economy..Oh yeah and people too..None of them frowning....
Wow i dont know why star signs should work but you have exactly desrcibed my aquarius boyf. And im an anxious oberthinking capricorn lol. So lets just say the last 5 years have been hairy..... scary.... hard work. But the other day he said he wants to be with me forever. To him that means my total.loyalty but i may not see him for months. Lol.
Now? still together with him?
You will always be lonely with them . Don't take them seriously
@@trixieke8462 oh thank you, one guy reached me for marriage but he aqua and me caps.. so I said no 🤭
Okay so im a libra and i was talking to an Aquarius we know. Eachither from highs chool its been years im 33 hes 33 we finally just seen eachither on facebook and eas just joking srkund snd than fkirting snd than flriting led to us takiing getting to know eachither more than when we was in high school he came over and seen me snd we just clicked he would even drive snd hour to get to me but long story short we would rarely talk and he would make sure that he did text me and stuff snd than ill just be up sll night texting him ehile hes at work he loved that part but anywho im overthinker and so by him not rarelt talking to me i feel like j was in competition with ither fenales or i feel like he didnt like me so he finally got tired of ny iver thinking and told me just cause hes not hitting me up sll day dont mean he dont like me but he said he wanted to be friends snd i said just give me one more chsnce he told me hes better of being my friend snd i said eell i cant right now cause i like you and i said bye he said he dint have to be like this though so i chose to be his friend but really i want it back lole it was before and see where it goes but im afraid i could nevee hsve that chance agsin even though we still text but nothing flirtatious anymore what do i do cause he really did like me he wven said he dont get why im singke when im smart funny and he even spent the night and didn try to have se x with me he said he was out of repect webjust kissed the next day and he left idk i just dont get it right now ibneed help please
He is probably on the DL..😂 not trying to have sex with you. How? He will also be emotionally unavailable for you. Please don't even attempt to get attach you will cry
lmao i'm illegal stale fireworks
Aquarius man is WILD . We already agree to be friends with benefits.. so now ….when I can’t give him more time /attention….he BLOWS UP to the point he starts being disrespectful ….. After today we won’t even having nothing because he’s too clingy , and it’s becoming disrespectful
I've suspected that some Aquarius male wanting to be FWB is to avoid accute emotional attachment, but they do care
@@lizzieh431 yes and I did want to avoid that too… I just don’t understand why he’s so clingy . Then blocked me
@@ReynaebhbWilliams he is clingy cos u don't like him try and get attached you will see fire.
They NEVER say what they mean or mean what they say....ugh!
9th of Feb and I was born 1980...in the 80's the 80's 😂
Aquaman delivers ever time 🌊😎♒
Surfs up
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So we make people anxious!! Smh
Yes. Be alone please😂 most of you can stay in relationships
Lady hes not boring ue has left u a long time agowake up ur history u cant leavehim hes already left u
If you want to ruin your life ... settle for Aquarius.
Be watchful to the eye 👁️... Life concerns us all... Friends will leave you, and possibly negative beginning just courting fixed people is a loyal suggestion... I'm a Capricorn and I'm aloof to be a generous stick man 😉 don't be so passive with Aquarius men because he's very out the box and distasteful at times... U can't make much of a dreamer and acholicism like to drink and drive... But attendance is always needed
Yeh got me pregnant and then dumped me.
Not a good one, huh
He knows because of the child you're going to want him to be there for his child. This is how they try to stay in your life for the rest of your life, have sex with you when they feel like it, then go back to doing whoever they had on the sidelines. Don't give him sex.
Shame, u take care if yourself sweety ❤❤❤
Your first mistake was that awful analogy.
Second was trying to put aquarius in a box
As an Aquarius ♒ man the main thing you should know is we value intelligence if you can talk about a wide range of topics hold a conversation are ambitious loving mature funny you're in
Second we don't like clingy, selfish immature nasty awful people.
Aquarius are one of the most loving, loyal signs however we don't show it instead we DO that's how we show affection through our actions words mean nothing to us if not followed up with actions
Not my analogies bro, they’re all I got
Lol u like intelligent conversation??? How about u let the other person speak? 😂😂❤
@@rose7777 sounds like you're doing plenty of that already fools often do
@@Chris-c5t3u hhahaaa apply burnol. Truth hurts 😁😁
@@Chris-c5t3u 😂😂😂apart from that putty mouth what u got? Typical 😂😂
Dating an Aquarius man and I'm a Leo and he opened up to me about his problem and it was his first time finally opening up to me which makes me feel thankful and really really special but now he is detached again 😶 suddenly, we only talk once or twice a week which we dont usually do. But it made me think as well that there's a lot of things in his mind right now. So, what could Aquas in this comment section can advice? Like, when you're dealing with personal problems. Do you prefer to shut people out or ask for help? 🥲
Don't try and change him. Have a separate life . If I can't accept as it is now u will have a difficult time