What To Do When An Aquarius Man Pulls Away! (Detaches)
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- Опубліковано 30 гру 2022
- Today's Video discusses- What To Do When An Aquarius Man Pulls Away.
This video is for Aquarius Sun,, Aquarius Moon, Aquarius Rising, Aquarius Mars, Aquarius Venus, and Aquarius Mercury. Aquarian's lets discuss this in the comment section below. Hello Cross-Watchers, Please feel free to share you thoughts if you've ever experienced this with your Aquarius, you are welcome here- xoxo
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And the crazy part is how Aquarius are okay with being toxic.
Because it's fun it's not normal we don't consider ourselves THE NORM it has to be intense
I think you're projecting, or haven't met enough aquarius. sadly I'm an emo aquarius
@TBWS I'm a Gemini and definitely feels like a projection statement.
As an aqua, I think being so guarded, and keeping feelings unseen, is what you perceive as toxic, makes things look suspicious. That being said there definitely is toxic aqua men and women, along with all other signs, and i think that prob comes from them giving in to people labeling them that way.
Apparently its toxic to remove yourself from drama made up from someone else
Needing space is all FINE and dandy but without communicating it - is where I draw the line .
I don’t reads minds
I need to have communication.
If a person doesn’t have the respect to communicate with you, then I don’t have time for all that.
I m stuck in this, he doesn't reply me for 2 days , anyone helps me
@@lalhriatpuiinutlai8309 trust me hun - you don’t need him a part of you. If a man can go a day without/ few hours without communicating- let that dusty go!
So true!
Same
Facts mines was aqua and did not hear from him in a week then I been a grown woman and said hey how are he said sorry I went mia I been a bad friend I rather not bother u I took it as he didn’t want to mess with me anymore then I said I wish him all the best and I said I rather pursue someone since u said u don’t want to be bother with me and I felt like he wasn’t pursuing me since I haven’t seen him in three weeks or heard from him in week and whole thing came out of context I been a bigger person to apologize and didn’t want to talk so really am I wrong ?
Scorpio sun here, ladies stay away from aqua men. On and off, up and down for no reason 🤦🏻♀️ too toxic too cold too detached, life’s too short for that BS. We worth more than that.
I love them and totally understand their detached ways lol just be patient and funny. Be direct in a gentle way.
Yes ❤❤
What Aquarius man hurt you so bad in life XD That Aquarius man wasn't detached, he just wasn't interested in you lol. Gotta be interesting enough to make us attached XD
I just can’t with Aquarius people…. Never again… very inconsiderate and selfish people…
Exactly 💯
It comes across that way if you aren't in their circle. Very few people get to experience genuine consideration from aquas because of how long it takes to develop depth in a relationship with one.
@@nate5773Agreed. As a Cancer woman, I can see the Aqua man I'm interacting with considerate and action-oriented - in some ways, his consideration and action are stronger than me as a Cancer. They surely need space and very very rarely speak sweet words, but critical actions speak louder volume.
Aquarius here. The thing is at some point in our early lives we were the most caring most loving people and wanted to build lasting friendships or even relationships…..more like partnerships. Unfortunately at some point people have seen our kindness and generosity and took full advantage of us. So after a while that warm heart has built a fortress around it.
It’s not that we want to be toxic in fact we want to love we want to build with you it’s just that we will not just let anybody in. We want communication effort and above all else honesty and loyalty.
Trust me when we want to love someone we love them hard. Otherwise we will simply move on.
Exactly, and people try their best to control us, and when it doesn't go their way, they start name calling us and bullying us.
@@Skrhcj it’s not about control , it’s about having communication as an adult . For me I draw the line between disrespecting me for asking questions . But I’m glad I moved on.
Everyone has been through some sort of betrayal and trauma in their life - to different degrees. It's not just Aquarians that go through that? We haven't all had a meeting and decided to only mistreat Aquarians so the rest of us will be fine. Everyone has their own trauma. So the question and focus is rather: how can one move past that and heal and evolve? And not expect others to "obstacle course" their way through these defenses, by waiting or having to prove something, waiting some more and all the rest etc. Healthy relationships require healthy relating
Don't waste your time dating them or even talking to them. They are extremely selfish and you'll fare better by being their friend than a lover. Aquarius tends to treat their friends pretty amazingly. But when it comes to romance? Selfishly disgusting.
real
i’m an aquarius but i laughed at that (ps im so sorry that was ur experience)
you sound like a side piece ngl
Superb ❤❤❤❤
I agree.
Make good friends & for conversation (rubbish for emotional relationship in general).
They have no depth or warmth where it counts for romance.
Its pretty weird to go from 100 to 0.
I'm not checking in on shit 😩😩😩😩 I'm a Leo ♌ babyyyy we won't ever talk again .
Hello am leo too
Lol
I’m an Aquarius and I agree with you lol
Same lol Aries not taking that ish
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯
I feel like wanting to do our own thing and giving ourselves ample time to work on things independently shouldn't be considered toxic. If you want someone who's clingy and possessive then search elsewhere. I believe space is important in all relationships regardless of your sign. Aquas actually grow fonder of people when they are at a distance (true for me and some aquas in my life). Just because we aren't present in the moment doesn't mean we don't deeply care about you
Aquarius here and my last situationship-mate broke it off explaining they needed more and I made them feel tolerated vs celebrated. My "random ghosting" played a major part in their decision to end it. Now, I do try to articulate my need for autonomy and be intentional with actions of love. Trying, at least...lol Great video. 🙌🏾
So sad this is how I feel constantly in my relationship
i’m trying too hang in there 😂
Dam Rude wtf who wants to date a stone... No! all wrong! walking on hot ROCKS Its always Aquarius taking...... do they realise how hurtful ghosting is thats awful.
it's true.
Very true
Date a stone.very true.lol
I loved your comment
I second your comment ❤
Cancer sun and Scorpio moon here, presently going through the ghosting with a male aquarius ♒️ I am not chasing or checking on him. I won’t let him back him in my space ever again. That’s toxic behavior which I won’t tolerate. Don’t check in - just ignore him too!
Exactly!!! I'm cancer sun & cap moon & rising. This behavior is unacceptable for me. I'm gemini venus so I get the need for independence but the random silence, aloofness & distance, even through texting (in between face to face meet ups), just won't do for me. I've raised two sons & this sounds too much like babying & coddling a grown ass man. This will not do. He's out!!!
@@LilithSpeaks.88has he tried to reach out once he seen you stop reaching out?
Has he tried to reach out to you?
@@lovelock1994 aquarians don't reach out once they move on.
Thats what people don't understand, it has nothing to do with toxic.
If you are unstable with your emotions, we will walk away, because clearly you are not mature enough to talk calmly and with reason.
Aquarians have a very low treshold for emotion outburst etc, thast fine for kids, but not for anything above 18year old.
Kids in +20 year old bodies today think they are mature just because of age? Nah Age means nothing.
Learn to handle your emotions or be a slave to them, aquarians chose freedom always above slavery.
@@lok6314 that is why most Aquarians end up single. Emotions is part of life which helps in getting to know your person
Yes, Aqua Moon here.
Check in but don’t get over 🖤 emotional.
I think most Aquarians, male or female, are natural introverts. My brother is an Aquarius and one minute he is next to you, you look away, and before you look back into the direction he is in, poof; he's gone. He's silent and charming. He's a pretty loyal person but when he has something to do. He won't tell you what it is, he'll just vanish on you! It's annoying... But I know he'll always come back 💞
He doesn't talk much. He's more of a listener, thinker. He reminds of a doctor that asks you questions of some sort. He gives me "doctor vibes." Like he usually has his hand stroking his beard... He usually grins and sighs with a smile. He laughs here and there, but that is rare. He's a full time writer. He was almost married twice, to both of his beautiful exes, who are now married, with children. But he claims he was not ready for marriage or to be a father.
He enjoys being single, as he once stated. He used to box, swim and play basketball, so he's a pretty fit guy. He's always in his own world and I look up to him so much because of how he's always bouncing back and forth to one continent to another. He's also a polyglot, of course, because of our parents being immigrants. But he is fluent in 4 other languages, outside of the one language we grew up speaking within our household. He's just inspiring. The last time we were talking on facetime, he was just completely quiet, with his head down, looking at something with immense concertation lol, then I asked him "What's on your mind?" and his response was "I don't know yet."
Everything said in this video sounds like him lol
Stop on
I don’t think taking a job 3,000 milles away is pulling away! I think it’s dumping your relationship and not having the guts to say so!
Does not work for me. I’m not insecure nor do I need validation. I understand space, but I also understand the need of the other party and there should be communication and compromise. I don’t need a 20 minute call, but a text or response is what I’m willing to compromise, needless to say I broke it off
Aries woman here. An aquarius man has been chasing me lately and I need help understanding the situation. I think my aquarius is applying his out of the box thinking on my boundries in the name of love and romance. And for ref, I'm crazy but I'm 25 and a lawyer and choose to be ne crazy w very specific people. I am an emotionally available and literate lover, I walk carefully on face value, am. Learning the importance of privacy, consent, free will and boundries. My past has taught me maturity. I'm 25. I'm single by choice. He is 35. A burocrat lol. Powerful, gentlemen, responsible but goes completely nuts around me. And I love his honesty and softness. I do. I just don't invest in unsure energy. And I need proof of what people claim. I have discipline and I fall hard and I take proper care of those in my life. He knows how devoted I am he has seen me be myself to my people. Yes he craves that level of commitment from me but he is not committing himself lol. He says oh he will.
I am attached I just have values and standards that I adhere to by choice and they're for my good. I have a histroy of putting the needs of another before me. This phase is about mindfulness and taking things slow and being sure. In this situationship he wanted to be a friend and I knew straight off its a cover. He wants to get close. But is shy maybe. Later when he started giving mixed signals I called him out that it's creepy that you pretend to be a friend and also are bothered by other men around me and distance. If you're into me, face it and pursue me in a dignified fashion of walk back into the careful zone of being an acquaintance. I have no respect for weak and scheming people. Clarity, confidence and commitment. That is how I go. I I don't have time of romanticsim for years if courting and unsure unreliable attachments. I'm in a place in life when I need sure energy. Not someone who wishes to see how it goes. Nah. That was me years ago. I'm attractive af, w standards and w values that include being devoted to my husband and family. and brainy too because law school and I'm ready to settle down, cook daily, not have extensions like male friends and all. I'm a hopeless romantic and I want to build a strong and beautiful family. I'm also playful and nurturing and I sing and know 7 languages and almost always have options. I get to say yes and no. Men of alllll groups and classes fall for me. I am not arrogant I'm at most careful w my energy. This guy, fits a lot of lists. Even has curly hair lol. Something I always wished for. He heard me talk, he lost his calm. He fell bad. approached me. He begs me to talk to him. He said he worships me. And I'm the one telling him to calm down and take it one day at a time. He was just vulnerable too soon. And okay I'm careful and I honor fragile things but then it's not right that I too am pushed to open up top which I would do otherwise anyway but tf why are you pushing me? how dare he violate the boundries of appropriate. I myself am inappropriate lol but that's a stage when I feel the person has that place w me. Intimacy is sacred for me. He wanted to arouse me against my will when I consistently warned him to avoid such topics until later that I was uncomfortable. I wasn't uncomfortable I am not shy of my body. It's just over a phone call when he still isn't dating me and I've told him to meet my family before asking me out. He isn't doing that. Says he will. But also complaining how non human I am relying on my fam.
My fam is the best fam. They respect me and support me and I trust them. I'm not dependent on my fam. I'm a fierce woman. It's just in our customs this is more safe for the woman that the family meets the dude and varifies whatever he claims to be and all. I'm a lawyer lol. I'm pro vigilance. And this aquarius dude has heard my boundries, values and reservations. But does as he wishes and when also violates social protocols and promises and apologizes and then goes against his words. Anddd when I call him out tries to appeal to my emotions lol 'where is your emotion? Do you not feel a thing? Why are you denying you joy' like wtf. A boundary is not open for negociation. I repeatedly said either you fit in my life or you don't. He said but I can. I said okay I'm watching you. You take in data. Go against it. Take feedback. Still go against it. And except me to use your love for me as bargaining chip? Oh and yeah deal breakers included alcohol addiction. He has it. Every time I have a conflict w him. He spends the night drinking.
Me too❤ it was very disrespectful behaviour mixed with immaturity
@@fakefakefake7952girl. I will be very honest. Im the epitome of patience and forgiveness, but the way he treated ppl, my friends and others around…i dont want anything to do with Aquarius anymore. And if u r ok with this hot and cold behaviour the unsurity, u can proceed but this will be your life
Aquarius men. Insecure, cold,bad communication,liar, selfish etc...
Thats exactly what people think of us 99% of time we are misunderstood and taken as a toxic person thats what hurt us the most we detach from people ourselves to process the emotions
As a gemini my problem is no i am not gonna check in and no i am not gonna text back - and usually the aqua dude starts texting more. And then i throw a crumb. Rinse repeat
As an Aquarius, this works for me. It's the crumbs...they tend to be there when my mind switches back on and I feel secure enough to jump back in. I also get the message that you're good without me...kind of a challenge.
I agree I have one and at times he becomes dry and other times loving. Us gemeni need stimulation mentally etc . They just not very talkative. 😅 I think I am too much to handle and decided to fall backwards 😔 until I just don't care all to together
@@celiaperez1062 I hate how boring they get 💀💀 like Bru wtf
@@ghostsheet777 I have this problem as an aqua. One day I'm able to have an enriching conversation with someone and the next day I'm boring as hell. Honestly, we get in our own heads and try not to disappoint those around us so we just shut down and stay quiet as a defense.
Lol I'm a gemini as well ....dating an aquarious man and I literally do the very same thing. I won't check in ... I leave him be until he resurfaces and even then I may not answer right away
Just make them your side piece lol. If you've shown them love and affection and they act like that to you find someone else but string them along make them number 2...or 3 or 4 lol
Thank you for acknowledging that the detachment stemmed from something!!! Most of the time it’s something that was said or a way of thinking! Keep in mind that an Aquarius is an open minded, Self identity respecting sign. We respect everyones’s quirks. And 👉🏾 no smothering! We value our personal time!
Then the Aquarius definitely deserves to be alone. 🙂
You deserve to be alone selfish people
I’m an Aquarius male, and you make me feel extremely light headed, you take my breath away. ❤
The intro said enuff and said it all. Aquarius men are too aloof for me.
I’m a Virgo who started dating an Aquarius man. This dating experience has the most ebbs and flows I’ve ever seen. We’ve been seeing each other for two months. One minute things seem good and out of no where he disconnects. We spend every week together on his days off because he works a lot!The first time he disconnected for two days and said he didn’t want to be friends. Then two days later, he was back saying he overreacted. This past week, he corrected me for being a worrier, and I haven’t heard from him since Monday. This is a lot for me😅
Yes they do that, they ghost reappear then ghost again, u need extra patience for a male Aqua, best advice I can give is if this is something your interested in pursuing when he is detached let your independence shine and focus on making you a better you, know that his detachment is NOT about you it’s how they recharge, now I’m not saying when he detached from you he is not attaching to someone else but usually that’s NOT the case they are pretty honest plus what’s done in secret usually comes to light…wishing y’all the best!!
@@jkweili I appreciate your advice. I honestly don’t think he’s seeing anyone else. I made the mistake of expressing this last night and he came with receipts and explained the situation. He’s very honest with me and he takes time to recharge but it’s never more than a day. This helps a lot! I appreciate you!
Lol hold back on revealing so much of the Virgo anxiety. It's a lot for Aquarius trust me. I'm a Virgo moon 🌙. Call your friends about your anxieties at first until he's comfortable with getting to know you. Just be funny, witty and chill with him before showing all of that.
Same here. It can be hard. So attractive though. Its a pull.
@@Abstractthoughts007 you are exactly right! I fell back. I stopped talking and texting him, suddenly he appeared lol talking and texting, asking me to go places with him. I still talk to him, but I let him do the reaching out.
Thank you for this. Scorpio here, dating an Aquarius man since late December, we already broke up once because he said the commitment (HE ASKED FOR) freaked him out. Then 1 day after that, he begged me to be with him again and everything was even better than before. Now, I'm not pushy, I'm just emotional, in general. And now, after some ups and downs we had because of his own insecurities about me wanting him enough or not, he disappears. WHA THE HELL, GUYS? I don't want to break up w him again....
Same situation but we both Aquarius ♒️ . I went silence on him and he blocked me the 3 rd day on everything. He just unblocked me on his mobile but not responding to my last message. Just letting be. Be strong … it’s sucks
@30kisses
Can you suggest me or guide something for my relationship as I am AQUARIA and my girl is also SCORPIO.
could you please give some suggestions, tips or anything that I may need in future please
@@sauravsingh8356 Scorpios are deeply possesive, you NEED to be reassuring them with both actions & words that you're theirs and you trully want them in your life. For me, it's the small stuff that matter. A call or text in the morning, checking up on their wellbeing during the day, etc. Hope that helps somehow.
Bro this exact same thing happens with my Aquarius
He’s scared of committing
Hell push me away cause he’s “scared”
Don’t really express his feelings
He’ll need attached to me one minute then dump me the next 🤦🏽♀️ I can’t
@@starsun40Why the block the people who care and love them. Other people took advantage for there kindness which they not see but i can see it and protect from those people. They want real relationship but due to there freaked out habit sometimes without any reason or make small thing as a big issue and then blocked.. Instead of communicating.I know its hard to communicate there feelings but give us some hint.
They have very creative thinking 🤔... So always remember to get your flowers 🌺
very informative video. It really helps how to deal them
The aquarians always defend themselves until they get betrayed by another Aquarius🤣🤣🤣
they are meant for a few types of people, they know that, and some of you painfully figure that out... it comes off like immaturity but most underestimate the calculating mind of an aquaruis man...
he's got long term vision and he stays there... long term or life time success takes some mental gymnastics...
they just forget to take breaks and acknowledge human beings are around and can be part of the journey...
if you're kind and patient, when they fall for you, it feels like flying all the time...
this isn't funny but sometimes, I think of someone with a disability that they can't control... if you realized they cant and lived your life without taking things personally or like they were intentional... they will love you and show you the side that you want, all the time ... not just on and off
but you have to wait a million years for it to happen 😂 so stop waiting, live your life, love yourself ❤
I have the best advice ever for people getting the silent or breadcrumb treatment from an Aquarius. Don't do a got damn thing. Aquarius individuals are so comfortable being toxic individuals that there is no point in dealing with them unless what makes other people miserable makes you happy. This is why I think Libras or Pisces are perfect matches for Aquas, they will keep dealing with their bs and be toxic with them until it gets so bad that the aqua gets overwhelmed with the fires they created and runs away for good. Don't waste your time.... They are giving to people that don't want them.. So unless this is a Aqua chasing you because they know you don't want them.. Kiss them goodbye. Most selfish partners I've ever experienced. Stay away from aqua moon's too!
Bol funny you say that. Bc I’m a Libra and baby I dealt with an aqua recently , and I mirrored him. But I cut that shi off . It’s annoying dealing with them.
I'm Aquarius myself, so it's different he's way younger than me and I lost my childhood at a young age so that's why I was feeling him, now this young Aquarius guy likes the game
Thank you for this video. I’m a Gemini dating an Aquarius man.
The struggle is real and we are supposed to be the most compatible
Right I’m dating one too; it’s hard
Is good boy when they into you. When they not just find someone or something to keep you entertained
Because toxic people are okay being toxic otherwise they would no longer be toxic
I feel this and I’m a Pisces I was dating a aquarius and we are on a break
I’m Pisces with Venus,Neptune AND Uranus in Aquarius more attached than any Aquarius man I’ve ever met 😂😅
aquarius sun here, perfect explanation. i instantly knew you understood. not a lot of people understand this/ care to act in this way. most feel it's unfair or selfish in a way.
If most see it as selfish, it's because it IS selfish. It's a unilateral decision made with no regard for the person or people you all consciously choose to bring into your personal intimate lives. The need for space & independence is fine & works great with the right partner(s).... but the silence, the aloofness & unwillingness to communicate your needs so people know what's up is just plain childish. I have never dealt with an aquarius man till now, & I see why. Never again 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾
I started talking to an Aquarius late December, he got my number from my homeboy, we spoke he says he likes me and he was feeling my vibe ok.. we text then he goes ghost, I’ll reach out like r u ok, he do text back 2-3 days later, i texted him he could’ve had me but u f^ked up and I’m over it. That was Saturday.. I’m a move on.. I’m a Leo ♌️
I think if your confident and don’t live in fear of rejection! Understand that showing someone your willing to be vulnerable with them to allow growth ! The.Aquarius is not someone we should be be considering! That don’t operate from emotions, and having that quality but not being able to express it but instead sabotaging it to feel safe is very sad indeed . Yes they will have a life of friendship and lovers but noting that is sustainable for life as they will forever be fearing boredom or lack of losing out if they aren’t socialising ,partying or enjoying others sexually . I just cut my self off emotionally from one it was Intense we where all over each other but she just didn’t know how to tell me what she wanted or felt! It was so awkward! Yet she could willing talk to others and run from me after wanting me to hold and smother her physically ! Slow process and it felt like I was pulling g teeth! 3 steps forwards 10 steps back 5 steps forward 15 steps back ! The pull and push thing although intoxicating it’s also toxic . I had to break of the connection! She will notice it’s gone next time we meet , as I can’t keep my self soul tied to this situation . I’m setting her free to be with everyone else .!
Why do other signs expect us Aquarius to chase them? That's so arrogant to say he could've had me. That's weird getting a text from a girl you just met saying are you ok? That's clingy AF.
@@Skrhcj i don’t expect nobody to chase me, I’m not a animal. He could’ve had me meaning we could’ve been chilling like hanging out. i was talking slang. Imagine texting someone everyday for a month or so then u don’t hear from them, of course imma text are u ok, i don’t know what’s going on.. That’s not being clingy that’s being concern..me and him still talk… Be safe & Enjoy your day….
@@Skrhcj🤔 asking someone if they’re okay is considered being “clingy af” or is it showing concern?
@@ms.bellajones7731how did you guys overcome that situation
Everything you sre describing is toxic. Stop saying its not 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 . We wants to deal with nonstop hot and cold. I get everything you're saying tho! You have to real deal be okay with not hearing from them. I'll say date somebody else at the same time. Space is FINE but ongoing nonsense i think not 😂😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯
1/check in 2/do nothing/do your normal thing then ask 3/reflect
Thanks girl
Aries woman here. An aquarius man has been chasing me lately and I need help understanding the situation. I think my aquarius is applying his out of the box thinking on my boundries in the name of love and romance. And for ref, I'm crazy but I'm 25 and a lawyer and choose to be ne crazy w very specific people. I am an emotionally available and literate lover, I walk carefully on face value, am. Learning the importance of privacy, consent, free will and boundries. My past has taught me maturity. I'm 25. I'm single by choice. He is 35. A burocrat lol. Powerful, gentlemen, responsible but goes completely nuts around me. And I love his honesty and softness. I do. I just don't invest in unsure energy. And I need proof of what people claim. I have discipline and I fall hard and I take proper care of those in my life. He knows how devoted I am he has seen me be myself to my people. Yes he craves that level of commitment from me but he is not committing himself lol. He says oh he will.
I am attached I just have values and standards that I adhere to by choice and they're for my good. I have a histroy of putting the needs of another before me. This phase is about mindfulness and taking things slow and being sure. In this situationship he wanted to be a friend and I knew straight off its a cover. He wants to get close. But is shy maybe. Later when he started giving mixed signals I called him out that it's creepy that you pretend to be a friend and also are bothered by other men around me and distance. If you're into me, face it and pursue me in a dignified fashion of walk back into the careful zone of being an acquaintance. I have no respect for weak and scheming people. Clarity, confidence and commitment. That is how I go. I I don't have time of romanticsim for years if courting and unsure unreliable attachments. I'm in a place in life when I need sure energy. Not someone who wishes to see how it goes. Nah. That was me years ago. I'm attractive af, w standards and w values that include being devoted to my husband and family. and brainy too because law school and I'm ready to settle down, cook daily, not have extensions like male friends and all. I'm a hopeless romantic and I want to build a strong and beautiful family. I'm also playful and nurturing and I sing and know 7 languages and almost always have options. I get to say yes and no. Men of alllll groups and classes fall for me. I am not arrogant I'm at most careful w my energy. This guy, fits a lot of lists. Even has curly hair lol. Something I always wished for. He heard me talk, he lost his calm. He fell bad. approached me. He begs me to talk to him. He said he worships me. And I'm the one telling him to calm down and take it one day at a time. He was just vulnerable too soon. And okay I'm careful and I honor fragile things but then it's not right that I too am pushed to open up top which I would do otherwise anyway but tf why are you pushing me? how dare he violate the boundries of appropriate. I myself am inappropriate lol but that's a stage when I feel the person has that place w me. Intimacy is sacred for me. He wanted to arouse me against my will when I consistently warned him to avoid such topics until later that I was uncomfortable. I wasn't uncomfortable I am not shy of my body. It's just over a phone call when he still isn't dating me and I've told him to meet my family before asking me out. He isn't doing that. Says he will. But also complaining how non human I am relying on my fam.
My fam is the best fam. They respect me and support me and I trust them. I'm not dependent on my fam. I'm a fierce woman. It's just in our customs this is more safe for the woman that the family meets the dude and varifies whatever he claims to be and all. I'm a lawyer lol. I'm pro vigilance. And this aquarius dude has heard my boundries, values and reservations. But does as he wishes and when also violates social protocols and promises and apologizes and then goes against his words. Anddd when I call him out tries to appeal to my emotions lol 'where is your emotion? Do you not feel a thing? Why are you denying you joy' like wtf. A boundary is not open for negociation. I repeatedly said either you fit in my life or you don't. He said but I can. I said okay I'm watching you. You take in data. Go against it. Take feedback. Still go against it. And except me to use your love for me as bargaining chip? Oh and yeah deal breakers included alcohol addiction. He has it. Every time I have a conflict w him. He spends the night drinking.
Shit I ain't going nowhere if you was mine lol nah but I'm a jan 20 aquarius i detach quickly and don't even realize it...just need a partner to give me my space and understand it...I do take care of the bills and shit like that but emotionally just gotta remember to tap in
Jan 20 as well!
Jan 20 as well. Whazzzzupppp
We toxic by default mane istg😂😂😂i dont even understand my bs very aloof detached but my heart is pure as gold and i think thats what draw women in but like she said we need a little extra tlc literally.
Very skillful in seductive things... But it's a necessary matureness is needed cause this zodiac sign ☢️ likes to consume in quantities... My spelling is detaching error that I use sometimes
For an Aquarius Capricorn are the best partner no other sign can understand us better like a Capricorn does....all the other sign should stay away from Aquarius cos Aquariuses are not for fainted heart, emotional sensitive people who complaint and get mad evrytime... Aquarius dont like cry baby needy clingy wishy washy people who are desperate to be in a relationship commitment n marriage easily and last but not the least please.. Please do not rush and Aquarius for God sake!
Stay by yourselves and buy cats then. 😅
Plz understand, we r not interested 😅
😢... Yep 😮😮?? Run for your life that's all I say
Best to leave as soon as they "show it".
I found out the hard way.
Trust ur intuition once someone don’t check in u check out don’t text or say anything look for someone else one thing they want you to do is chase them not me
Im watching this and he just texted me after almost 2 weeks silence, wtf!!! I'm a Scorpio. At least I got a Merry Christmas.
lol what happened since then?
If my aqueous has asked for some time and has pulled away. Is he coming back? Or is this just something they say to end a relationship.
Be prepared for this constant confusion
@@rose7777😂😂😂 they are crazy people u have to have be strong dealing with their aloofness. Also they are very active posting and they dont even reply your text
Hello 👋🏼,
I am an Aquarius ♒️ man haha.
When yall disconnect yall are obsessed with someone or something else.
Am Pisces woman sorry can't deal with my Aquarius man
Not me getting this after he broke up with me after only like a month of dating
Mines was a miscommunication on text I wanted to talk it out and he said no so I explain and left it like that
Reading these comments and watching this video and I don’t think people really understand lol
Mine ghosted me it’s been 31 days NC😅
He'll be back!!! And he's going to ghostly again . Get use to it
@@debbiieesmiles I'm a Gemini with 4 Aquarius exes. I've never been ghosted for more than a day. Something is wrong. Drop them
The abuse made me ghost him. I never want to be with Aquarius person
@@rose7777 Run!!!!
Dude told me he likes me he just wanna take it slow me and him kinda had an argument though and I apologized and he texted apologized back saying he got a lot on his plate and he was stressing so yea he was the last person to text should I text him back or wait for him to text me back? I’m Aquarius too by the way but I think I was suppose to be a Pisces really cause I was born a bit early
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Everyone chases someone. So who are the Aquarius chasing
They dont lol
Maybe the least out of everyone I think.
They chase things that are vanity. Like working too much and money.
They’re chasing things that are vanity. Like working a lot and money. Barely spend time with their own family
Very true.
Like falling on a knife 🔪...
Thank you! My Aqua friend is teaching me how to be more independent 🥰
Woah 🤯
Aquarius and fake dont go well together.
Y’all really hate us😂😂😂😂😂😂
Walk im aquriurs woman dont go there again with aquarius man date 2 no thanks
Preach I dated 2 worse experience
Really tho whats ya sign .. im brand new heaven new earth ... ♒♒♒.. the top of the air look like smoke n ghost... U aqua .. I heard you .. wya 🗽🗽
I don’t need a woman or women 🫰🫰👏👏🎬