LOL. This is absolutely true, that they are no fun anymore. TU as I was just crying earlier and now realize here-It’s the fake BS from early last year I miss. Not even real. One day in May he exclaimed: ‘This is too hard, gotta go back to being me.’ (What does that mean?) I thought. Lost his job, started drinking, chasing after a new person. Ok learned some on Avoidant. And endured for months. Now see Narcissistic Personality Disorder and that this is way worse. Be careful. I knew this person from long ago but not really. Isolation is his other life. 😮
Mine did that. Told him i was making his life boring af. Then he left me. Then realised his life isn't going too well without me. Then begged me to come back and i had gained my confidence by them and had realised what he was doing. So i said hell no and moved on with my life. I've never been so happy and proud of myself before
I have been watching you in 3 years ago and I'm a lot better now. Since then I have already been divorced. Thank you for everything honey. I'm still recovering. I have trust issues.
EXACTLY what happened to me, 100%. Bullied me until I turned into everything he said I was, then left and threw it all in my face. I was boring, fat, etc. I put on 100lbs in 3.5 years, he left last April and I’m down 60 of those pounds
@@deborahwales1717Literally! We were married 10 years, but it took awhile for the stress to really start affecting my health. Once I had the second baby, my body couldn’t take it anymore and I piled on the weight and my health deteriorated so fast. My health not even a year later is like I went back in time. I’m healthier at 40 now than I was at 35 with him
@@earthelucidatoryep! And I will never let anyone do this to me ever again. Took me til 40 to learn this. When you’re “raised” (if you even want to call it that, hardly raised) by toxic parents, it takes so long to move through that and see what healthy relationships should look like.
My parents knew I loved to save money and that Im always there to support my family. They came with various reasons why they would need money even if I needed it more urgently. Then (!) when I tried to ask someone else for some money to lend, they asked me to leave. It took me several years and a couple of honest people to get to know that my parents spreaded lies about me not being able to take care of money properly and not being reliable. They will never ever see their money again. 😢😵💫
Quite often, they are the reason you get sick. They frequently tend to drug their victims to keep them under control. A physically and emotionally strong person can never be in control of a narcissist. Always be cautious of what you eat or drink, if the said food or drink was left around a narcissist. They never miss an opportunity. If you prepare a food or a drink, consume it before the narcissist lays his dirty paws on it.
They always say the word JEALOUS or insecure! In all reality, it's them the entire time. 💯 I couldn't be near or around any colored person period (male/female). I can't stand in the grocery line with a man who has a FULL SET OF HAIR, who has a nice cut & that dresses well. I can be in line first & if a man/female comes, it is my fault. Smh. 💯😂🤣
Yep they sure will !!! They will blame you for eternity!!! They will blame until the cows come home !!! I can’t even believe they actually believe themselves and they really do blame like that!!! That’s unbelievable!!! I have seen it happen !!! No consequences, no empathy!!! No reason for them to think that they did it when they started the whole process and arguments!!! It’s so shocking to see them do that !!!!
This is SOOOOOOO accurate! 😢..i went from a very verbally abusive narcissist to someone i THOUGHT was a good Christian man. He ended up being worse than the 1st. He was the covert narcissist. After 9yrs with him i found out he was a psychopath and had been molesting my kids! 😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬 After several years with him i started hearing "what happenned to the strong willed confident woman i fell in love with?!?!? I dont even know who you are anymore! Do YOU even know??!? This isnt who i fell in love with. This isnt the person i want to spend my life with. Where did she go????" 😟....its ok..hes gone now. I threw him out the second i found out what he did to my kid! 😡😡
The only answer, but then a person who has never encountered narc wouldn't get this either but this is actually the most accurate answer for why did they do so
I say last night to him " this is what you made out of me. And now u complain? You should be a leader and I'm a reflection of your love, which is now depression, it's all on you bc of your actions and how mean u are. So yes look at me and watch your art. But I am done
Totally agree with you sir. My narssist husband says I became like this because of you as long as me and my siblings were with my father and under his control we were safe we were happy were all with good health and as soon as we all got married especially his brothers all started drinking and died accidentally. Infact all brothers used to harras and beat used to formally allowed to drink phinoil and one wife among them were beaten up during her pregnancy. But all blame goes towards their wives and all were which I saw them were humble and housewives too
I was lucky, people used to ask him in front of me, how did he end up with someone beautiful in and out like me, Of course it meant accusations and more abus3 two weeks straight. I still have things I don't do to enhance my beauty because his voice still lingers In my ears. Last time I saw him for the kids' event(I don't to him,I don't care how close we'd be sitting next to each other),he later texted me "I see you've gone through revenge weight loss"😳. I left him 8yrs ago, that's why I don't talk to him,he always tries to trigger me.
Absolutely 💯. What type of creatures are this narcissistic personalities oh god unpredictable. Y are they soo stone hearted and hurting n try to destroy those who love them the most.
I ended up burned out from trying so hard for seven years. Id dress up and scrub the floor only to be told I was doing it wrong. After a while I sat on a chair and the anxiety was so bad I couldn't do anything but Rock back and forth. I was lazy then and got too skinny I couldn't leave the house and I already had AVPD and went night after night believinging I was going to die. Just sliip iout of my body. I couldn't ask for help and was alone trying to keep moving so my circulation kept flowing. My children paid for a lot of my mistakes and fear. all I wanted was to be a good mom that would have been enough for me. I left to take care of my father when I was 5 I rememered that i promised him Id take care of him when he was old. Then I felt I lost control of my children, we lived across the street and Id tell my dad what I made for dinner and his beautiful sweet wife would be told the kids were going hungry. So she'd make a beautiful dinner. She was so kind. And my dinner would serve as leftovers. It wasn't till I had my children that I realized my dad's suicide pact when I was 15 wasn't an honor I felt special he chose me to die with. Divine intervention God sent my older sister home from college that night just as he was holding my hand to do this. It was our secret and I felt special to be chosen until I had my own children. My son has developed some traits of narcissism he's 30 and I'm in the process of having to disconnect because he's treating me horrible. But I'm trying to give the grandchildren unconditional love so they have a safe free outlet. I wanted to talk to his wife about him but he doesn't let her speak to me alone. You're videos have helped me soo much. I am so grateful to understand myself and know how to grey Rock I'm sorry this is such a a long comment. Anyway, Thank you, especially for adding the spiritual part of this sickness. 😭 I truly and grateful!
Oh my god I’m so sorry. I escaped from my narcissistic mother four years ago. I would take you out of that situation if I could. Nobody should have to go through that. My thoughts and prayers and positive energy go out to you
ive been there. narc mother then narc mother in law i lived with. i felt like you, trapped and hopeless and powerless. like there is no future or light at the end of the tunnel for me. but that’s a lie they desperately want you to leave so you don’t realise your inner strength to leave and flourish. you’re not alone, so many are going through the same and understand you. and so many, including me and those in the comments, got out. set an immovable goal to get out. no matter what your age is, if you’re 14, start babysitting or dog walking to make some cash and get out of the house. if you’re old enough to get a job start saving, if your plan is to go to uni/college, focus on that. if you’re older, get a full time job to be out of the house and save. it might sound hard or even impossible bc of the depression hole they put you in and cptsd symptoms, but it really only takes a little strike of a match to start a huge fire.
@ I love this. You said everything I wanted to say and more. I escaped from mine four years ago and it’s actually a miracle that I’m alive. It IS possible, because you’ve got something they don’t: eyes to see a bright future and a heart to truly love others around you. Two things they will NEVER have
Danish you are right I had a same experience for 40 years now I am divorced and very happy thank you for your help that makes me so proud and happy. Now I feel like I did a good choice to divorce him. Thank you and God bless you.
My parents are plus sister is just like her my mother too a covert they are always looking for ways to Abuse and all mental health issues I got too so am wrongly held forever
Yeah i know really sick ppl and so true. Not to mention im the crazy one but yet they were hacking my phone and stalking me. When im at home mindingy own business doesn't make very much sense does it. Sick sick ppl
I have an idea for a video subject. We need better verbiage for their constant pettiness. People think their abuse isn’t “that bad”, because it is little things. Petty things. Except for the fact that they weaponize pettiness. I have come up with the term “Petty 1000”, but this still doesn’t even say it well enough. Ugh it’s infuriating how horrible they are every single day and then ask “why is everything so difficult when making plans with you?” It’s them!!! Ugh They put off making a plan. Something you have to do with then like exchange children for childcare at a midway meeting point. Hours drive… they delay making a decision on a time and place. Then, they select a time and place. Then, they change it. Then, they ask for a “favor” and want you to drive longer than your fair share. Then, they change that location! When they had weeks to decide. They claim their work is last minute schedule all the time. That is a lie! So many lies. So many delays. So many last minute changes. So many times all they care about is how it affects them and not you or the children’s plans or friends or meals… Then, they have the nerve to say “why is this always a problem?” ?????!!!!!! Why? Because you make it that way Every Single Time.
Petty 1000 examples: I forgot their baseball for their baseball practice I forgot their mouth guard for their hockey practice I forgot their night diapers I forgot to return their shoes I forgot to get food It’s ridiculous! Any human being would be understanding of forgetting one time, but they weaponize it! They forget on purpose in that THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT THEMSELVES. Having to think about someone else’s needs is always last minute and a horrible imposition and impossible situation they were put in. You’ve had children for 10 years already. How is it you don’t know they need food??? Why is it always a drastic last minute thing to take care of? You don’t even have the children for weeks, bc you don’t have primary custody. You have all your off work time to yourself!!! Still, you can’t plan a grocery shop or even a delivery or pick up to be prepared ahead of time? Your entire visit with them is sighing and dragging them to the grocery store and making them stay outside while you cook and complaining I didn’t make food pre-packed for you for them.
I literally am going through this so I just gray rock and stonewall now. Or don't say anything back bc all that's said it's going to turn to argument bc I point out how mean they are. there is no explaining to them bc either way they won't see it and won't want to.
They leave saying that you need time to get yourself and your health together, but then they keep coming back for this and that, because they are helpless fools.
My mother is a narcissist and I was born sick and I will be sick my whole life. My organs just don’t work right. I remember being on my deathbed, not even able to hold my head up while my mother was pacing the room and screaming at me ‘you have no idea what I do for you!’ Meanwhile I imagined rolling my eyes (I didn’t dare to actually do it) and then thought to myself ‘I would love to be a fly on the wall watching the chaos unfold on the day I leave when nothing gets done and she’s forced to realize that I really did do more than she gave me credit for’. But then again, that’s in an ideal world, not a real world. There’s a difference, unfortunately
I used to get upset when the narcissist talked nonsense. Today, I'm laughing at his stupid logic. If he talks like that today, I tell him to pack and go.
Oh “this look at you” is used by narcissists all over the world! Needless to say how the narcissist puts the spotlight on the victim by using this phrase and after that how the narcissist bombards the victim with everything they did to them hence making themselves the victim…and the end result is more confusion shame and guilt for the real victim of the abuse.
At this point , i think it's time to stop giving a &#%#...about what they admit or not , i wouldn't waste one minute with them ... i regret all the time i gave them ..
I am sure my daughter lives with a covered narcissist, but she resists my help. He does not allow her to use a psychologist. I am her mother and she shouted at me, when I tried to help her. I am desperate 😢
My ex was trying too hard. I chose silence. I knew what it was. I just turned resilient waiting for that right moment. His grandiose was such. He thought I was too dumb to realise his trauma. He holds the audacity to tell me "everytime I come home. And we get intimate. You fall ill severely-i said. I would've been dead without you". I let him climb as high as he could using his delusional mind. I knew I will pull off the ladder once he reaches the epitome of his insanity. Which I did.
Then, you realize they always want to be “under the influence” when you are intimidate to hide the fact of how bad they are!!! Similar to how they create daily chaos to obfuscate their bad behavior.
Actually, I would have been in this same situation, but unfortunately for him I was too observant to sort this out and the damage was minimal, cos I took on spirituality. Yes, but even now when I think in retrospect I think, "How did I go through all this"
I been dealing with child alination with all the proof I feel defeat today when they turn your young child to repeat the don’t want too see you the courts can’t do much I just feel if I lied I would have got justice tho nearly three years it’s worst before I can see my child broken orders seem to be on going ok issue from our son father l totally law needs to be changed Thu out the lands
They make you exhausted and sad, then say “you’re no fun, anymore!”
LOL. This is absolutely true, that they are no fun anymore. TU as I was just crying earlier and now realize here-It’s the fake BS from early last year I miss. Not even real. One day in May he exclaimed: ‘This is too hard, gotta go back to being me.’ (What does that mean?) I thought. Lost his job, started drinking, chasing after a new person. Ok learned some on Avoidant. And endured for months. Now see Narcissistic Personality Disorder and that this is way worse. Be careful. I knew this person from long ago but not really. Isolation is his other life. 😮
Mine is ancient history.
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Mine did that. Told him i was making his life boring af. Then he left me. Then realised his life isn't going too well without me. Then begged me to come back and i had gained my confidence by them and had realised what he was doing. So i said hell no and moved on with my life. I've never been so happy and proud of myself before
I have been watching you in 3 years ago and I'm a lot better now. Since then I have already been divorced. Thank you for everything honey. I'm still recovering. I have trust issues.
That's one perfect word: AUDACITY!!!
Humm
You become invisible. Then be blamed for it.
EXACTLY what happened to me, 100%. Bullied me until I turned into everything he said I was, then left and threw it all in my face. I was boring, fat, etc. I put on 100lbs in 3.5 years, he left last April and I’m down 60 of those pounds
He was the extra weight !!!
He was the extra weight !!!
Crazy how other people's toxicity can literally create a hell around us.
@@deborahwales1717Literally! We were married 10 years, but it took awhile for the stress to really start affecting my health. Once I had the second baby, my body couldn’t take it anymore and I piled on the weight and my health deteriorated so fast. My health not even a year later is like I went back in time. I’m healthier at 40 now than I was at 35 with him
@@earthelucidatoryep! And I will never let anyone do this to me ever again. Took me til 40 to learn this. When you’re “raised” (if you even want to call it that, hardly raised) by toxic parents, it takes so long to move through that and see what healthy relationships should look like.
My parents knew I loved to save money and that Im always there to support my family. They came with various reasons why they would need money even if I needed it more urgently. Then (!) when I tried to ask someone else for some money to lend, they asked me to leave. It took me several years and a couple of honest people to get to know that my parents spreaded lies about me not being able to take care of money properly and not being reliable. They will never ever see their money again.
😢😵💫
because when you get visibly sick (if its invisible, they don't care), it exposes their mistreatment and ruins their image
Quite often, they are the reason you get sick. They frequently tend to drug their victims to keep them under control. A physically and emotionally strong person can never be in control of a narcissist. Always be cautious of what you eat or drink, if the said food or drink was left around a narcissist. They never miss an opportunity. If you prepare a food or a drink, consume it before the narcissist lays his dirty paws on it.
Exactly
Yes and you are useless for them 😵💫
Very true...i reallly dont know I'll hear the same words again...such a traumatic time it was😢
This is why i will spend the Holidays with friends and other family members
They are despicable.
Thats what he did.
First discouraged and made it impossible for me to pursue career and now praises other career women and labelled me as jealous.
I had the exact same experience. I could have been so much more successful than he will ever be.
They always say the word JEALOUS or insecure! In all reality, it's them the entire time. 💯 I couldn't be near or around any colored person period (male/female). I can't stand in the grocery line with a man who has a FULL SET OF HAIR, who has a nice cut & that dresses well. I can be in line first & if a man/female comes, it is my fault. Smh. 💯😂🤣
Yep they sure will !!! They will blame you for eternity!!! They will blame until the cows come home !!! I can’t even believe they actually believe themselves and they really do blame like that!!! That’s unbelievable!!! I have seen it happen !!! No consequences, no empathy!!! No reason for them to think that they did it when they started the whole process and arguments!!! It’s so shocking to see them do that !!!!
This is SOOOOOOO accurate! 😢..i went from a very verbally abusive narcissist to someone i THOUGHT was a good Christian man.
He ended up being worse than the 1st. He was the covert narcissist. After 9yrs with him i found out he was a psychopath and had been molesting my kids! 😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬
After several years with him i started hearing "what happenned to the strong willed confident woman i fell in love with?!?!? I dont even know who you are anymore! Do YOU even know??!? This isnt who i fell in love with. This isnt the person i want to spend my life with. Where did she go????"
😟....its ok..hes gone now. I threw him out the second i found out what he did to my kid! 😡😡
Why did they abuse you? Free will: they chose to.
The only answer, but then a person who has never encountered narc wouldn't get this either but this is actually the most accurate answer for why did they do so
@@spdadventurer1754yes
NO NO NO..I MAKE him do it..
It feels like a Demon draining me Ugh 😫😢🤢
Thanks for sharing. You are absolutely right.
I say last night to him " this is what you made out of me. And now u complain? You should be a leader and I'm a reflection of your love, which is now depression, it's all on you bc of your actions and how mean u are. So yes look at me and watch your art. But I am done
Totally agree with you sir. My narssist husband says I became like this because of you as long as me and my siblings were with my father and under his control we were safe we were happy were all with good health and as soon as we all got married especially his brothers all started drinking and died accidentally. Infact all brothers used to harras and beat used to formally allowed to drink phinoil and one wife among them were beaten up during her pregnancy. But all blame goes towards their wives and all were which I saw them were humble and housewives too
The only person who can spot each & every detail in a narcissistic relationship 🙏
I was lucky, people used to ask him in front of me, how did he end up with someone beautiful in and out like me, Of course it meant accusations and more abus3 two weeks straight. I still have things I don't do to enhance my beauty because his voice still lingers In my ears. Last time I saw him for the kids' event(I don't to him,I don't care how close we'd be sitting next to each other),he later texted me "I see you've gone through revenge weight loss"😳. I left him 8yrs ago, that's why I don't talk to him,he always tries to trigger me.
Absolutely 💯. What type of creatures are this narcissistic personalities oh god unpredictable. Y are they soo stone hearted and hurting n try to destroy those who love them the most.
I ended up burned out from trying so hard for seven years. Id dress up and scrub the floor only to be told I was doing it wrong. After a while I sat on a chair and the anxiety was so bad I couldn't do anything but Rock back and forth. I was lazy then and got too skinny I couldn't leave the house and I already had AVPD and went night after night believinging I was going to die. Just sliip iout of my body. I couldn't ask for help and was alone trying to keep moving so my circulation kept flowing.
My children paid for a lot of my mistakes and fear. all I wanted was to be a good mom that would have been enough for me. I left to take care of my father when I was 5 I rememered that i promised him Id take care of him when he was old. Then I felt I lost control of my children, we lived across the street and
Id tell my dad what I made for dinner and his beautiful sweet wife would be told the kids were going hungry. So she'd make a beautiful dinner. She was so kind. And my dinner would serve as leftovers. It wasn't till I had my children that I realized my dad's suicide pact when I was 15 wasn't an honor I felt special he chose me to die with. Divine intervention God sent my older sister home from college that night just as he was holding my hand to do this. It was our secret and I felt special to be chosen until I had my own children.
My son has developed some traits of narcissism he's 30 and I'm in the process of having to disconnect because he's treating me horrible. But I'm trying to give the grandchildren unconditional love so they have a safe free outlet. I wanted to talk to his wife about him but he doesn't let her speak to me alone.
You're videos have helped me soo much. I am so grateful to understand myself and know how to grey Rock
I'm sorry this is such a a long comment. Anyway, Thank you, especially for adding the spiritual part of this sickness. 😭 I truly and grateful!
Yea that involves accountability. Something "they" dont have an understanding of.
I was never happy- not since I was adopted into a narcissistic cult family.
Very true I'm trying to heal but its a struggle because i live with the narcissistic (mother)
Same here, I am mess now, these are criminal act as I would say
Oh my god I’m so sorry. I escaped from my narcissistic mother four years ago. I would take you out of that situation if I could. Nobody should have to go through that. My thoughts and prayers and positive energy go out to you
@@ksenijaorel6386absolutely had the same thought
ive been there. narc mother then narc mother in law i lived with. i felt like you, trapped and hopeless and powerless. like there is no future or light at the end of the tunnel for me. but that’s a lie they desperately want you to leave so you don’t realise your inner strength to leave and flourish. you’re not alone, so many are going through the same and understand you. and so many, including me and those in the comments, got out. set an immovable goal to get out. no matter what your age is, if you’re 14, start babysitting or dog walking to make some cash and get out of the house. if you’re old enough to get a job start saving, if your plan is to go to uni/college, focus on that. if you’re older, get a full time job to be out of the house and save. it might sound hard or even impossible bc of the depression hole they put you in and cptsd symptoms, but it really only takes a little strike of a match to start a huge fire.
@ I love this. You said everything I wanted to say and more. I escaped from mine four years ago and it’s actually a miracle that I’m alive. It IS possible, because you’ve got something they don’t: eyes to see a bright future and a heart to truly love others around you. Two things they will NEVER have
Danish you are right I had a same experience for 40 years now I am divorced and very happy thank you for your help that makes me so proud and happy. Now I feel like I did a good choice to divorce him. Thank you and God bless you.
My parents are plus sister is just like her my mother too a covert they are always looking for ways to Abuse and all mental health issues I got too so am wrongly held forever
Yeah i know really sick ppl and so true. Not to mention im the crazy one but yet they were hacking my phone and stalking me. When im at home mindingy own business doesn't make very much sense does it. Sick sick ppl
It’s completely crazy!!!!! 1,000,000%
I have an idea for a video subject. We need better verbiage for their constant pettiness. People think their abuse isn’t “that bad”, because it is little things. Petty things. Except for the fact that they weaponize pettiness. I have come up with the term “Petty 1000”, but this still doesn’t even say it well enough. Ugh it’s infuriating how horrible they are every single day and then ask “why is everything so difficult when making plans with you?” It’s them!!! Ugh
They put off making a plan. Something you have to do with then like exchange children for childcare at a midway meeting point. Hours drive… they delay making a decision on a time and place. Then, they select a time and place. Then, they change it. Then, they ask for a “favor” and want you to drive longer than your fair share. Then, they change that location! When they had weeks to decide. They claim their work is last minute schedule all the time. That is a lie! So many lies. So many delays. So many last minute changes. So many times all they care about is how it affects them and not you or the children’s plans or friends or meals… Then, they have the nerve to say “why is this always a problem?” ?????!!!!!! Why? Because you make it that way Every Single Time.
Petty 1000 examples:
I forgot their baseball for their baseball practice
I forgot their mouth guard for their hockey practice
I forgot their night diapers
I forgot to return their shoes
I forgot to get food
It’s ridiculous!
Any human being would be understanding of forgetting one time, but they weaponize it! They forget on purpose in that THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT THEMSELVES.
Having to think about someone else’s needs is always last minute and a horrible imposition and impossible situation they were put in. You’ve had children for 10 years already. How is it you don’t know they need food??? Why is it always a drastic last minute thing to take care of? You don’t even have the children for weeks, bc you don’t have primary custody. You have all your off work time to yourself!!! Still, you can’t plan a grocery shop or even a delivery or pick up to be prepared ahead of time? Your entire visit with them is sighing and dragging them to the grocery store and making them stay outside while you cook and complaining I didn’t make food pre-packed for you for them.
I literally am going through this so I just gray rock and stonewall now. Or don't say anything back bc all that's said it's going to turn to argument bc I point out how mean they are. there is no explaining to them bc either way they won't see it and won't want to.
They leave saying that you need time to get yourself and your health together, but then they keep coming back for this and that, because they are helpless fools.
My mother is a narcissist and I was born sick and I will be sick my whole life. My organs just don’t work right. I remember being on my deathbed, not even able to hold my head up while my mother was pacing the room and screaming at me ‘you have no idea what I do for you!’ Meanwhile I imagined rolling my eyes (I didn’t dare to actually do it) and then thought to myself ‘I would love to be a fly on the wall watching the chaos unfold on the day I leave when nothing gets done and she’s forced to realize that I really did do more than she gave me credit for’. But then again, that’s in an ideal world, not a real world. There’s a difference, unfortunately
Whenever you chose your LIFE you will be HAPPY. No mattee what age.
😢❤
We both turned into a mess because of a narcissist and there flying monkeys
I used to get upset when the narcissist talked nonsense. Today, I'm laughing at his stupid logic. If he talks like that today, I tell him to pack and go.
Oh “this look at you” is used by narcissists all over the world! Needless to say how the narcissist puts the spotlight on the victim by using this phrase and after that how the narcissist bombards the victim with everything they did to them hence making themselves the victim…and the end result is more confusion shame and guilt for the real victim of the abuse.
Excellent
At this point , i think it's time to stop giving a &#%#...about what they admit or not , i wouldn't waste one minute with them ... i regret all the time i gave them ..
Yas he say my life ruined when IM see you go away i Will happy 😅 that he say to me but he still stick around me 😂😂
Thats sadly how my asshole so called best friend has done to me for 13yrs on n off
Thank you
I am sure my daughter lives with a covered narcissist, but she resists my help. He does not allow her to use a psychologist. I am her mother and she shouted at me, when I tried to help her. I am desperate 😢
Your right and it sucks
So true.....ai heard each and every word
WOW! What you said here is a 'copy paste' of the rubbish I have to listen to!
Yep
Yet we are constantly told that we should never blame others for our own problems. 😊 I smell hypocrisy.
My ex was trying too hard. I chose silence. I knew what it was. I just turned resilient waiting for that right moment. His grandiose was such. He thought I was too dumb to realise his trauma. He holds the audacity to tell me "everytime I come home. And we get intimate. You fall ill severely-i said. I would've been dead without you". I let him climb as high as he could using his delusional mind. I knew I will pull off the ladder once he reaches the epitome of his insanity. Which I did.
Thank you, Danish Bashir.
My husband would often say" khoda paghar Nikla chooha",.. And he hated me for not giving him any excuses 😂for abusing me!
When you learn that they project their flaws onto you. Then, they say you are bad in bed… uhhhh. It’s you!!!!!
Then, you realize they always want to be “under the influence” when you are intimidate to hide the fact of how bad they are!!! Similar to how they create daily chaos to obfuscate their bad behavior.
Thank you so much.
Narcissistic,Not trustworthy .
Always excused others and very negative impact,mentally disordet.keep away.
Actually, I would have been in this same situation, but unfortunately for him I was too observant to sort this out and the damage was minimal, cos I took on spirituality. Yes, but even now when I think in retrospect I think, "How did I go through all this"
He is so rite
I been dealing with child alination with all the proof I feel defeat today when they turn your young child to repeat the don’t want too see you the courts can’t do much I just feel if I lied I would have got justice tho nearly three years it’s worst before I can see my child broken orders seem to be on going ok issue from our son father l totally law needs to be changed Thu out the lands
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Narc says he is my und bad Karma?!?
Mother and husband
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Danish I wanted to ask:
Is it possible to develop ADHD in such a relationship (15years), eventhough the childhood was good?
Thank you for your help!
Do you think most people in the ghetto are narcs?
You end up in abusive relationships.
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Sons of the demons 😂garbage
#audacity
Yep