Best of RMG - Tips For Men in a Marriage or LTR
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Thanks for watching, leave a comment below with your thoughts on how you maintain desire in a LTR.
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Just act as though you're not committed.
Women want excitement, not stability.
Courting a new guy is exciting, sharing an insurance policy and discussing throw pillows isn't exciting
I had this dude asked me, why do you workout out so much you are married, and I thank you for your honesty, I have a handsome athletic husband, I have to keep myself up... thank you 😊
Gabriella Dots
Yes, I do.. and I love that Planet Fitness is open 24/7.... discipline, determination, dedication... Beachbody are awesome programs... I don't want to see a fat me having sex... 🤣🤣🤣..love it... love these dudes 😂
Divorced 16 months now after a 17 yr marriage. Have both realized in retrospect and ingested all of this content through you gents & other red pill content providers. Crystal clear now to me. Happily spinning plates now as a 49 yo small business owner who stays in great shape.
Thanks for what you do & keep up the great work!
Do you mostly meet women within 10 yrs of your age, else how are your finding and attracting women < 35yrs old?
What did you do wrong?
Married 12 years, 2 kids, 40 years old and wife gave up on sex long time ago. She’s religius and considers sex dirty. Told me a few times that sex is like rape for her. It was difficult for me to digest that. Spoke to her many times about the importance of sex for me but shes not interested. After a mild mid life crisis last year I found your channel and I decided to improve my self. Getting my masters, lost 20 pounds, killing it in the gym and trying to get promoted at work.
Told the wife that I don’t need sex from her any more and now she’s starting to sligtly worry.
Still no sex buy honestly I don’t really even want sex with her. Don’t want sex with a woman that doesn’t desire me. I made that peace with myself. I stand for something and will not lose face for very basic vanilla sex.
Again thank you guys for all that you do. You really don’t understand how much this is needed.
Note: not getting divorced or thinking about divorce but I told my wife that if she ever divorced me I would be Ok with out her.
What's your status now? Divorced?
Why did you marry this girl? No sex? No passion? Sounds to me she only sees a friend in you
How do you fulfill your sexual desire? Lovers on a side or do you pay for sex?
Way to stay strong my friend you are a valuable asset.
I'm 22 now, I don't event think about an LTR. Its my time to just enjoy & explore.
Enjoy and explore.. keep yourself in shape .. dress well, have a clean cut, smell good, mind your business, date often, and if it makes you happy don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Once you meet a girl +1 point higher than what you’re used to - that’s the real challenge. Good luck not trying to lock it down
Bro you’re so lucky learning all this shit now. All I knew at your age, 11 years ago, was game. It took me far, quite far, but not enough to keep my unicorn (10) LTR in tact long term. Met her when I was 25. Lost her at 31. They’re like balloons man. You’re lucky. Absorb as much as u can.
@@albertodeulofeu5277 I'm dating a unicorn right now. I'm 6'3, handsome and fit and have been very successful with women (I'm only 21 tho). What happened in your LTR and do you have any tips?
Thanks in advance, God bless
This one is Gold, wished I would have watched this 10 years ago, it would have definitely speeded up my long red pilling! Lol
Gabriella Dots No doubt, but in my experience women still live with a hypergamous agenda, whether they are red pilled or not, just a slightly different version. Being completely open about their aim in life is still extremely difficult, red pilled or not.
The guessing game becomes tedious and irrelevant to play when men are red pilled yet all women as far as I can see are still playing it.
That's just what I have witnessed, maybe there are real life unicorns! 😉
Gabriella Dots ...but not in equal ways and definitely not as much. I'm not going to make excuses for a passionate and sensual human being (If that's what makes me a man, I'll take it as a compliment). I can't speak for all men, but passion and intimacy are a "part" of any relationship (that should include after the first 18 months), along with trust, respect, chemistry etc etc they are all parts. With with most (maybe not all, but most) women hypergamy holds a VERY big part of a relationship, beginning, middle and end.
An ugly arsehole with lots of money will be more successful in an LTR than a bitch who doesn't "turn it off" like so many women do with such ease (ask any married man about that that bit, in fact, ask rich married men then ask mediocre and poor married men just to put the nail in the coffin).
You only have to watch a few gold digger pranks on UA-cam instead of trying to convince me otherwise. I dumped my last gf because she was playing silly little games and she didn't want to communicate, the chemistry and sex was exceptional all the time!
I had a spiritual awaking, thanks for your time guys..👊
This is an amazing conversation.
Great video. Love the topic and would love to see more like this.
This is gold. Glad you reposted this from 4 years ago.
Excellent video. So damn good. I’ve always had frame but I have a tendency to get lazy. I needed to see this vid.
On point. Sharing this with my man
Daily content - excellent!
This information would have saved my marriage, noting for next time! Thank you gentlemen.
I love Rollo. And have read his book twice. But it has to be said, it's impossible to know when he is going to stop talking...
Alan W what do you mean
Meaning that in all the interviews I've seen Richard do with him, including this one, it feels as if, if you wanna get a word in edge wise or switch to another guest or change to another topic, you're gunna have to cut Rollo off. Otherwise, he'll just keep talking. You never get the sense he is coming to the end of an answer or point he is making. The words just keep coming out. There is no transition point with him. I think it's because he is filled with so much information.
@@Alan_Wigz Must be his big ass mouth. Just answer the fucking question, Rambling Rollo!
Dread is your best friend.. it is a master move in a relationship. However, it is an art.
This is the video that has put the final nail in the quote unquote LTR or Marriage coffin. Thank you guys for making that now crystal clear for me.
I was married for over 21 yrs, now thankfully divorced and NEVER again.
7.5 years together, no drama - manufactured or other wise. Life is hard, love isn't. We have chemistry, that keeps it hot. We have mutual respect for each other in all facets of life, from privacy to opinions. Treat your partner with as much respect as you show any of your closest friends. If you notice, not a lot of people do that - if ever - and that's why they fail as lovers.
Spot on. Mutual respect is huge. My almost now ex treated me like crap, and he wonders why I don’t think he’s all that and a bag of chips. If you want respect, try being respectful. It’s a two way street.
Give it another 20 years.
Man, some social proof, pre-selection, competitive anxiety would go a long way towards my wife's desire. I'm tall, fit, good looking. But as said in the video, there aren't a lot of opportunities to be around other women or in social situations with my wife due to COVID, having kids, working, etc.
Powerful stuff.
Please more of this content. Married 5 years and sometimes it’s a battle to keep the passion going. Everything you’re saying makes sense
Laren P hehe, I think there’s some truth in this
Captain Tsubasa 10 married lol what a simp
scott sanger haha, not bored but trying to make sure I don’t get bored. But yes, they are all crazy, some just hide it better than others.
Syco Fire Oh I know, why do you think I’m on here? Trying to better myself. Seems like you have it figured out, when are you starting your UA-cam channel to help us “simps” out with your wisdom?
Wow this is a gem
You say sex is number one priority in a relationship, but an emotional bond creates the need for sex later in a marriage when the passion is gone. Therefore an emotional bond is more important, good sex is a byproduct of that emotional bond. Once that bond is gone, your sex life is going to suffer no matter how hard u try. What your saying about sex being the number one priority implies treating the symptom before the ailment
As a newly married man, if i could give younger me or anyone else any advice... RULE #1 AND MOST IMPORTANT!!! :HAVE MONEY/MAKE MONEY...
how much you might ask?
MORE!
Good words, guys
deleted my tinder after watching you guys :D Prepare and just getting out there is better idea
Manufacturing fights to pacify a female is insanity.
It’s not if you understand the full scope of what he’s saying. It’s much better to have healthy problems to solve together like advancing in life etc… but often most men aren’t always pushing the relationship in that manner. So sitting around and becoming comfortable will likely lead you to the end of relationship (for her anyway. ) Instead you can manufacture some element of this drama to help keep it exciting for her. There’s definitely a element of truth in it.
Amazing info
I'm loving this new panel of red pilled men. I'm currently in a long term relationship and took the red pill just prior to getting involved. I'm still working on passing shit tests and trying to handle conflict in the relationship without reverting back to my blue pilled ways. I've been reading, "No More Mr. Nice Guy" which has helped, but I'm looking for some concrete ways to respond, rather than 'DEER'. I think this is one of my most challenging areas. She often wants to sit down and talk because she feels, "disconnected" usually after I tell her, "no" and then I receive the silent treatment for a couple days, which I usually don't respond to. Do I just tell her, "Look, this is me, take it or leave it?"
Edit: I'm 33 and we've been dating for 1 year.
Sounds to me she is gaming you
@@CHWEESE69 Can you expand on that?
Are you still together?
@@VoiceOfThe Nope! Got rid of her!
Exactly, being in a false bad mood ,arguments over nothing and putting them down is essential. I was the nice guy and both my kids moms got bored and cheated. I treat them both like children now and I'm an ass and mean in a playful manner and they both can't get enough. It's like they need to be on the edge of losing you to want to be with you.
interesting. ..... thanks guys
Just like Rollo, I'm a musician who, got red pilled late in life.
LTR? LOL! 2-3 months tops. At least those are the types of girls/women I aim for. Nonetheless, great video as always Mr. Cooper.
We’ll see what happens when you meet an actual hot one you’re not used to.. lmao
This is a tutorial how to keep up appearances you're not a mangina in order to keep your personal parasite whose greatest challenge in life is not to get fat.
What did the speaker at the end mean by hard yes or hard no?
Thanks in advance.
Ryan = Professional handler!!
Nobody will ever just love you for you except your mom. You have to apply energy to game and fun with your wife.
Hey dude, what was that guy's MOS in the military?
wow this rollo classic needs to be a clip rich,
Anyone care to elaborate more on the last dudes comments at the end about driving the hard NO or the hard YES? How does that work?
Hard no means if she not interested just move on. No ifs buts or maybes plenty more fish in the sea. Gym analogy is perfect for hard yes, dont think about the gym just go in and do it.
It’s a woman’s biological responsibility to care for her children, so of course they come before my husband. That said, I try to make sure he gets what he needs…he’s a man though, so he can care for himself. My kids can’t yet. I find it surprising that the expectation would be to come before the children who depend on her for everything.
I’m surprised he’s still around. Your kids will develop and move out of the house. You will then be that much older and have not a lot to show for it outside the kids
a married man has even MORE of a burden of performance ... his economics is at stake as not to a single guy... just staying single is the best position to be in.
... single men get laid , married men get fucked...
Thanks Dots now I know without the external validation of sex with a woman my life will not be complete....
I can tell that Rollo has more than one woman - just no way that he is with only one.
Elliot Hulse’s latest video? Red pill/ Mgtow could you share your thoughts?
what podcast is this from
Easy: just break up
rian is so smart lol
I understand all of these examples but my question is: Is she interested in a LTR? If so what part does she play to make this happen? All I hear is what men need to do,what happens to her part of the equation.
She has the power to royally screw you so you must placate to save your own ass
Do a mic check before recording and help them understand how a live conference call works.
What happened to the rest of the video...?
FINALLY FIRST!
Playing dumb is pointless. It doesn’t solve anything. Maintaining frame - definitely
Man rollo and rían are lucky.
Wow this was 4 years ago…! What ever happened to Carl???
So be like mr& mrs adams
My reaction to this is the same as when I read the Mars/Venus book: I will never be able to maintain the gamesmanship or the tolerance for irrationality long-term. 'Proactive fighting,' ...holy crap, I would rather be sexless or only expecting romances to last 18 months (or less). I'm the same way with my non-romantic relationships. The only time I'll tolerate this type of narcissistic -irrational need in others is while earning money. I suspect you guys would agree that although this is the way of the world, it's a spectrum. A guy like me who finds the whole 'game' sickening can still find a few things that are within my values and abilities to do to keep the estrobeast at bay. To not do so is like a woman who stops shaving her legs. The feminist male (I'm now a 'recovering' feminist) usually has the worst possible reaction when the estrobeast makes an appearance, and it manifests as something like: "What's this shit? I thought you were a strong, independent woman." Simply not reacting that way is progress.
So what happens when the husband stops having sex because he has stress at work.
Men stop having sex for a bunch of reasons, mostly if 1) wife gets fat 2) has a mistress 3) hates wife.... stress usually isn't one of them.
ebecerra85 tried. He said no
L. I was told his love language is money and stress from work makes him not interested. Mind u he lost a shit ton of money on an investment and that would break a dick too. Totally get it
Remington Pony well you got bigger problems. I couldn't refuse
Entrepreneurs in Cars or hormone imbalance
I'v been trapped in a 31 year sexless marriage. Number 1 tip for men, Get married forget about sex.!
What's LTR?
Long term relationship
@@thijsjong thanks
SO many comments here that are EXACTLY what these guys are talking about, having a big fucking cry because they wish the rules of the game "should" just evaporate into thin fucking air now that she's your girlfriend. Her nature and needs don't just change suddenly when she enters a relationship. You're not living in a fairy tale where you can just get the girl, kick back, not have to try or care, and hope you'll live happily ever after. You have to keep up your end of the bargain, get over it.
Great discussion but God damn Rollo, let someone else hold the fuckin mic.
4th?
what the hell is RMG?
Red man group. Whole issue happened with its host, so they decided to switch to Rule Zero.
For a while I would take pleasure in arguing with girls/ women n making them mad. Hell I actually enjoyed teasing them but as I got more mature n blue pilled, I kinda stopped. Thanks to the redpill, I'm going to bring that back out in me lol.... What can I say, it's fun to watch them get mad n watch their reaction. Don't get me wrong, I don't cross the line much, but if she lays a hand on me for a simple tease, it's another story. I don't tolerate physical violence
taype wart. Nope
So glad I’m a Christian and don’t have to deal with this shit. feel bad for you guys but that’s the consequences of rejecting Christ.
What are you talking about, deal with what ?
Of course you do. If you don’t think so you’ve already lost.
What?
@@elijahwise3060 total depravity
@@kennythompson513 there is fallen man and there is regenerate man. They are different ontologically. I can’t imagine having to try to make a relationship work with the overwhelming selfishness and idolatry of a modern pagan woman. If it wasn’t for vanity, they are almost like animals, controlled by survival instinct.
second :'(
I have to disagree with rian. Picking intentional fights to manipulate your wife is stupid. Has way to many ways it can backfire innaddition to being disrespectful and not loving her. Sorry. It's just stupid
I have been married for 5 years and can honestly say that it is not stupid. It is a way for a woman to realize her desire for Drama and negative emotions in her life. Unless she has enough of those already than no need to add extra. But if you have a normal routine happy life then its worth adding them.
@@Mindreader231 I'll be married 17yrs in Sept. And I'm 56 this month. Intentionally pi$$ing "anyone" off just "add drama" is stupid and dangerous to relationships. Its manipulative, controlling and disrespectful. And Respect is the key and foundation of any relationship, but especially marriage. Good luck there, but you're creating a monster that will be biting you in the a$$ down the line. Cheers.
@@recoveringknowitall1534 wow, quite an experience you have!)) Stick with whatever works for you. I do respect and love my wife there is no question that those qualities matter. I am a nice and really calm guy not giving shit about most of the nonsense. So over exaggerating my response releases the tension and allows her to feel the negative side and emotions. Not releasing them in a safe and playful manner might result in them being built up and released in a hurtful way. IMHO