IF you're dealing with a narcissist, they're intimidated by anyone who's better looking than them or who receives more compliments than them. Therefore, they'll ALWAYS either put you down re your looks and then gaslight you or they'll find a mean nickname for you & say that you're just too sensitive.
There is a woman engineer who's a 4 in looks, but her style of talking and confidence gives her so much rizz. She's married, I havebno idea what her husband looks like but I am sure they're both happy. Confidence is key, people.
When I was in school as an "ugly" student, I had teachers who ignored me on purpose when I raised my hand to pick the more attractive students to participate for class points, and people who participated enough got candy at the end of the year. Most students got candy, but I didn't get candy. When my class did presentations, teachers smiled at them and read their facial expressions while listening to the other students perform, but they looked away or down at their desks when I did mine. When teachers took attendance, they sometimes sighed before calling my name, while not doing so for any other student, even the kids who caused trouble. When it came time for photo days (for student cards or for yearbook pictures), the more attractive students got asked if they wanted a retake. The photographer just wanted to be done with me immediately. I also had a picture taken with a group of girls, and friends of friends pointed out that I ruined their otherwise perfect group photo. One day in 10th grade, a friend of mine alerted me that I had a note on the back of my shirt. I picked up the note, which had "Pooface" written on it along with a picture of feces surrounded by flies. I still have no idea who made that note, but I'm over it now. This was 15 years ago.
@@TECHMAFIASSS I'm doing infinitely better in life now, thank you. None of this happens to me anymore. I just wanted to share my perspective from back then.
I’m a 6’4 guy with a very deep voice for my age, and I’ve haven’t gotten any compliments yet. The most complimenting thing that’s been said to me out in public is that I look like a bodyguard. I have a natural poker face and I am average fit for my age, and I get a few head-turns with nothing more. I get even more stares when I’m walking around with my 5 yr old sister. Maybe people just feel intimidated by me? I am a lot taller than most people I pass whilst out in public, and I wouldn’t want to make anybody uncomfortable or feel uneasy. I’m a really gentle and friendly person once you get to know me.
My wife get complimented all of the time and yet she doesn't believe in her own attractiveness. She says "oh people are just being nice". I told her "you know people suck! No way strangers are always that nice!". She gained weight and attributes that to her not being a attractive , nevermind the fact that she is tall and busty with the prettiest skin ever; and very beautiful walnut brown eyes.
I really just want to give the man in this ( 17:26 ) story a big hug , he seems like he’s actually a pretty nice dude - he probably just comes across a bit intimidating :(
I’ve been called beautiful many times in person and ugly many times online (with pictures I think are better than my current not-so-great one) so idk what to think except I’m usually not photogenic and rarely have posted videos of myself online anywhere. This is partly why I almost never have even tried online dating and prefer meeting people IRL.
I recently learned how to spin silk from my own body. I’ve been having so much fun making doilies and other household ornaments for my friends and family! I have an Etsy store if anyone’s interested!
@@restlessbanisheddreams I’m working on a course that will teach you the secrets of mastering this ancient skill, forbidden by the Chinese-controlled media and Big Textile. But for now here’s a beginner’s guide: 1. Be grateful for what you have. 2. Focus on your goals. 3. Don't be afraid to take risks. 4. Believe in yourself.
15:08 as a Muslim I’d like to elaborate on this part You can protect yourself from the evil eye by saying Ma Shaa Allah (as willed by Allahسبحانه وتعالى/God) or the other person saying Allahumma Barik (may Allah سبحانه وتعالى bless you) and other ways I say this to mention it can be protected against and isn’t just an inevitable thing when someone is jealous of you سبحانه وتعالى = “Glory to him the exalted” (an honorific used in Islam for God)
I’ve always been self conscious. I’m a 5’7” 185lb 24M. Alot of muscle. Sure some body fat, I work in the woods (wildland firefighting, forestry etc. I forget to clean my beard up my hair gets wild. I am always hard on myself. I’m no supermodel never will be.
That first one doesn’t really work for me because I absolutely terrify almost everyone in the town I live in mostly because I’m a big 6’2 270 pound almost 17 year old but apparently I don’t look like I weigh 270 from what many many people have told me apparently I look like I’m more around 210 I also apparently look older as well some guy said I looked like I was 25, but basically most people don’t talk to me because of that but tonight it was weird everybody in the store I went to anytime they saw me they smiled and I don’t mean like a few people I mean everybody in that store
If you say "Hi" and she immediately calls HR, you're probably "ugers." To be serious men, a 2 is a 10 if he has enough money. That's a proven fact. And there's nothing wrong with it, the ability to secure resources is an attractor, just like big melons for women. If you don't have the height or the looks, get a build and some income.
Oh, come on, AI narrator guy, there's beauty in lines of code, too. Don't be to hard on yourself, your 1s and 0s will thank you.
IF you're dealing with a narcissist, they're intimidated by anyone who's better looking than them or who receives more compliments than them. Therefore, they'll ALWAYS either put you down re your looks and then gaslight you or they'll find a mean nickname for you & say that you're just too sensitive.
Ugh. Spent most of my life hearing, "Ugh, you're so SENSITIVE!" Yeah, but you're also a butthole.
There is a woman engineer who's a 4 in looks, but her style of talking and confidence gives her so much rizz. She's married, I havebno idea what her husband looks like but I am sure they're both happy.
Confidence is key, people.
Your clearly not an AI you have too much emotion in your voice
When I was in school as an "ugly" student, I had teachers who ignored me on purpose when I raised my hand to pick the more attractive students to participate for class points, and people who participated enough got candy at the end of the year. Most students got candy, but I didn't get candy.
When my class did presentations, teachers smiled at them and read their facial expressions while listening to the other students perform, but they looked away or down at their desks when I did mine.
When teachers took attendance, they sometimes sighed before calling my name, while not doing so for any other student, even the kids who caused trouble.
When it came time for photo days (for student cards or for yearbook pictures), the more attractive students got asked if they wanted a retake. The photographer just wanted to be done with me immediately.
I also had a picture taken with a group of girls, and friends of friends pointed out that I ruined their otherwise perfect group photo.
One day in 10th grade, a friend of mine alerted me that I had a note on the back of my shirt. I picked up the note, which had "Pooface" written on it along with a picture of feces surrounded by flies. I still have no idea who made that note, but I'm over it now. This was 15 years ago.
Sounds like the kind of nonsense I put up with. I no longer care if I look good.
sorry to hear it brother,just try to improve is sadly only thing that i can tell u
@@TECHMAFIASSS I'm doing infinitely better in life now, thank you. None of this happens to me anymore. I just wanted to share my perspective from back then.
@@hnkul702 yeah,proud of u brother
@@TECHMAFIASSS I just want to point out that I'm a girl, but I don't mind being called brother in terms of solidarity! Have a good day, brother!
I’m a 6’4 guy with a very deep voice for my age, and I’ve haven’t gotten any compliments yet. The most complimenting thing that’s been said to me out in public is that I look like a bodyguard. I have a natural poker face and I am average fit for my age, and I get a few head-turns with nothing more. I get even more stares when I’m walking around with my 5 yr old sister.
Maybe people just feel intimidated by me? I am a lot taller than most people I pass whilst out in public, and I wouldn’t want to make anybody uncomfortable or feel uneasy.
I’m a really gentle and friendly person once you get to know me.
You’re attractive if you turn heads and get asked out by strangers. People don’t always tell you, even if they don’t know you!
My wife get complimented all of the time and yet she doesn't believe in her own attractiveness. She says "oh people are just being nice". I told her "you know people suck! No way strangers are always that nice!". She gained weight and attributes that to her not being a attractive , nevermind the fact that she is tall and busty with the prettiest skin ever; and very beautiful walnut brown eyes.
I really just want to give the man in this ( 17:26 ) story a big hug , he seems like he’s actually a pretty nice dude - he probably just comes across a bit intimidating :(
I’ve been called beautiful many times in person and ugly many times online (with pictures I think are better than my current not-so-great one) so idk what to think except I’m usually not photogenic and rarely have posted videos of myself online anywhere. This is partly why I almost never have even tried online dating and prefer meeting people IRL.
That metric is ridiculous, less useful and correct than a heywise quiz to figure out what Pokémon you are
I recently learned how to spin silk from my own body. I’ve been having so much fun making doilies and other household ornaments for my friends and family! I have an Etsy store if anyone’s interested!
Are you a caterpillar
@@porcelainboy264 Most definitely in a past life
Is it possible to learn this power?
@@restlessbanisheddreams I’m working on a course that will teach you the secrets of mastering this ancient skill, forbidden by the Chinese-controlled media and Big Textile. But for now here’s a beginner’s guide:
1. Be grateful for what you have.
2. Focus on your goals.
3. Don't be afraid to take risks.
4. Believe in yourself.
When Daphne and Celeste sing about you
I've been stalked by an ex friend that barely knew me but was really into me, does that mean I'm pretty?
Possibly. Though that could also have just been because your ex friend is crazy.
@@chaossnowkitsune6377 That whole question was a joke lmao
I am well aware I'm conventionally attractive
Oh I know that. My answer was also a joke. Sometimes I forget just how hard it is to convey that through text. lol
People are insane, I'm hoping I'm not beautiful to others lol
LMAO! Oh I fully agree there. I'm so grateful I am average looking at best with a bad personality. Keeps most people away. Which is so very nice.
The best way to find out is to take the reflection test.
What's that?
@kikiolaf5114 if the mirror shatters, you're probably ugers.
I’ve noticed I get more compliments when I’m with my mom. Likely because I still look similar when I was 13.
15:08 as a Muslim I’d like to elaborate on this part
You can protect yourself from the evil eye by saying Ma Shaa Allah (as willed by Allahسبحانه وتعالى/God) or the other person saying Allahumma Barik (may Allah سبحانه وتعالى bless you) and other ways
I say this to mention it can be protected against and isn’t just an inevitable thing when someone is jealous of you
سبحانه وتعالى
= “Glory to him the exalted” (an honorific used in Islam for God)
I’ve always been self conscious. I’m a 5’7” 185lb 24M. Alot of muscle. Sure some body fat, I work in the woods (wildland firefighting, forestry etc. I forget to clean my beard up my hair gets wild. I am always hard on myself. I’m no supermodel never will be.
I don't really believe in physical ugliness; everyone is attractive to someone. If they're not my type, that doesn't make them ugly.
Cope
Nah, there's some pretty ugly mf out there.
That first one doesn’t really work for me because I absolutely terrify almost everyone in the town I live in mostly because I’m a big 6’2 270 pound almost 17 year old but apparently I don’t look like I weigh 270 from what many many people have told me apparently I look like I’m more around 210 I also apparently look older as well some guy said I looked like I was 25, but basically most people don’t talk to me because of that but tonight it was weird everybody in the store I went to anytime they saw me they smiled and I don’t mean like a few people I mean everybody in that store
Lol if you have to ask you probably are.
I'm ugly ok bet
🤜🟥🟦🤛💁🟣
Most people are average
If you say "Hi" and she immediately calls HR, you're probably "ugers."
To be serious men, a 2 is a 10 if he has enough money. That's a proven fact. And there's nothing wrong with it, the ability to secure resources is an attractor, just like big melons for women. If you don't have the height or the looks, get a build and some income.
Oh please! This is mostly all not true and myths that need to go away!
@caiseejc no, it is actually fact. If you search it I'm sure you can find the studies. (And yes, I know the part you have a problem with)
It worked for ugly men like Trump and Elon Musk.