im a burnt victim, burns on my face chest and lesft arm. Cashier looked up at me and said. "Why is there something wrong with your face?" I got mad. but couple days after a 3 year old kid said I look like im from a spooky movie but he likes those movies so he likes the way i look :)
That's so sweet. I had a friend with burns all over their face too, unfortunately they were also a total asshole. They borrowed my gamecube and then deleted ALL the saves from all the games me and my brothers had played over hundreds of hours...so he could play smash bros melee and unlock everyone. JUST UNPLUG THE MEMORY CARD YOU PSYCHOPATH. I stole all his pokemon cards in retaliation and never told him. ...I feel like I just got really sidetracked, what were we talking about?
I got one: getting banned from tinder within 6 hours for harassment despite not interacting with anyone Edit: what happened was, a bit before lockdown I was hanging with friends, they said I should try tinder. Did all the sign up stuff, swiped a few times, went back to talking to friends. Swiped a few more times before bed, woke up; boom, banned. That's all that happened
@@itsyaboiChubbs youll be fine man. Get off the apps. Ik its cliche but you have a better chance finding a good girl through happenstance going about your life. Dont give up hope man
Everyone that says looks don’t matter are usually way more attractive than you trust me they do matter because when you’re unattractive people don’t want to talk to you nor is anyone willing to give you a chance
As a certified ugly person (credentials: got asked out by 1 person in the span of 20 years and guys would always approach my friends while ignoring me) appearances make a good first impression but never a lasting one when you're ugly on the inside. A lot of attractive people have the confidence and charisma because they don't really get rejected whereas the unattractive people do which in turn, makes the unattractive person doubt their ability to exist. But, correlation is not causation. There are lonely, rejected attractive people and popular, beloved ugly people. 8:32 is the real truth of ugly vs attractive. When you're unapproachable because of your vibes, people won't come up to you. This is likely so when you believe your existence is worthless because of a trait you have, like ugliness. However, even if you spontaneously become pretty or get rid of your unwanted trait, if you're not happy with yourself, it's going to show
Good signs are - general avoidance of you, - opposite sex showing slight signs of fear and being uneasy when interaction is necessary, even when you yourself behave nice (but not fake nice) and professional, - not listening to what you say, even if you are an expert in something or can talk from experience, - talking over you constantly, - telling you 'I can't judge your behavior' And many more bullet points I can't even remember...
This seems to me like just being a girl... Guys are usualy scared and uneasy around you, they don't listen to your explanations even when you are expert in the field and generally talk over you (esp. at work)
Oh the hugging one. At school, there was this girl I knew who hugged literally everyone....except me. I remember pointing this out to a friend of mine who got one like, once a day, who said, "Just go up to her and ask". I didn't deciding, it wasn't worth sacrificing what little pride and dignity I had.
You should've asked. Provided you are relatively clean, not covered in sweat, didn't grope, or make a huge deal of it during or after, its pretty harmless. Unless the girl in question was just sticking to close friends and people she'd clicked with in a moment.
Ask her for a hug, and if she says no call her a shallow p**sy Infront of the class. I swapped numbers with a girl and she texted with zero effort. I think she just liked the attention. I gave her phone number back and told her I didn't want it anymore. As I watched her throw it in the bin, I could tell that it really hurt her ego. She dropped her attitude and stopped looking down on me after that.
@@prod.arcsyne2990dental health is also a lot more important than most make it out to be. One of the best uses of $80 is a Waterpik (you get a big one and a small, travel-sized one).
I mean, that is more of a critique of society and their treatment of the black community than a reflection of himself. Seeing as how there were the internet Karens who called the cops on people just hanging out with their family.
it happened to me honestly but it werent cops were guards at a bar where i was trying to talk with a girl..... The worst part its that i just said a few words! I dont consider me ugly maybe a 4 or 5 hahahahaha
I didn't realise I was that bad until the pandemic. My brother is very handsome (looks remarkably like Chris Evans, actually), and I've always gotten comments about how we don't look alike, but I figured that was because he's blonde and blue-eyed like our mother, and I have dark hair and eyes like Dad. My eyes have always been my best feature, but I didn't realise the rest of my face was so much less attractive. When the pandemic hit and I wore a mask all the time, people treated me better- day to day interactions went from polite/neutral to positive, and even occasionally flirty. I changed nothing else about how I presented myself in that time. I didn't start working out, or taking better care of myself. I was just going about my business in my suburb in oversized band shirts and jeans. I wish I didn't know. I used to feel neutral about my appearance, and my self esteem used to be based more on my achievements and happiness, but now I feel that I am lacking something.
I mean people just make fun of me of how i am on the outside but when they get to know me they try to set me up por a date(P.S. Neither of the dates they set me up with didnt work bcs of my looks)
I have a lazy left eye. I was not born with it. It was knocked out of my socket at age 7 and I had to put it back in myself. It has made me homeless. I have a friend who has essentially worked everywhere in town. He has had enough of hearing people gossiping about it at work and he quit a job because of that shallow bull. He's been my friend for 21 years now. So I may not be attractive and can't get a job for crap, but my friends are Angels in disguise, my dog loves me, and I'm getting on disability and housing. Remember Kings and Queens, you may be ugly to some but to others you are beautiful inside and out. And that's all that matters in the end.
😅 holy shit thats metal asf tho like how did you eye get knocked out and your telling me you popped that bich back in at 7 years old 😂 lol i whould hate to be the one that fucks whith you
I have a super short one 4 words to be exactly, "You're different to love." Or when you give someone a compliment and they just completely ignore it too
@@elian1352 I really can't do that when I was born ugly. All I have to rely on is my personality, but I do get that my personality is ugly too. That's why I've been working on that more than something that changes drastically over time. Looks is inevitable on having change. Personality is by choice
@@Mistah_Boombastic_BiggieCheese pretty much to skip the internet and dating apps, and try to look for a girl out in the real world. Except the IG part stay away from those
I feel the “invisible and no girl talks to you.” So much💀 One year later update, I talk to girls now and everyone calls me handsome and loves my hair (still not close to a girlfriend though💀🙏)
I literally never said anything in my class for a while and some people said I was too quiet, so I tried talking more and I'd just be told to shut up or be interrupted/ignored
Don't know if this applies but for me most guys avoid me or don't even register I'm there. Girls think I'm a creep & mothers think I'm a pedophile. It sucks but hey at least it makes it easier to live alone knowing that you'll only have to worry about 1 person financially & maybe even a pet or 2. I'm just glad most dogs like me.
@@sheen621 No it wasn't. As @paprikagames said, nowadays women will automatically assume a single father or even just a man playing or interacting with children is a paedophile. Based on nothing more than the fact that all men interacting with kids must be paedophiles right ?
@@thewateringwiz7118 tbh I don't remember why I wrote that I was probably just trying look reason to argue anyway makes more sense looks like I owe @paprikagames an apology but I do see this a lot it is quite ridiculous like I remember I had this teacher and we got along very well and he would help me out with my math homework even though he didn't teach that subject but there were people who would accuse him of being a pedophile, like we had to go to the cafeteria to do homework because of assumptions/rumors and I can tell you he wasn't he was just devoted to his job, the church and he wanted to help people the best he could
I've been denied entry to clubs for being too ugly. I was even hit by a bouncer. I was eating pizza with a friend and a guy came up to me saying i look old and i should go home..thanks. thanks
Many people called me old, too. They thought I was the DAD of my teenaged siblings, but I was only 16 at the time. Even now (19) people think I middle-aged!! So flipping infuriating! My family doesn't even understand why I feel so angry about this, besides my dad because he goes through the SAME thing. People think he's an old man married to a young woman... he's older than my mom by 10 years but people act like he's REAL old.
If another guy offers me a seat but the girl next to him immediately tells him, “please no!” Is that clear solid proof that I’m ugly? I don’t think average guys experience that
@@pantherman8719 yea since this comment Ive pretty much figured out im a hideous man. People constantly call me shaggy and say i look ‘unique’ their way of calling me ugly. I’m cooked to infinity.
@@oddhaunts6197 ah don't worry. I've been trying to improve for years. I know the feeling. Because in the end, everyone is just gonna blame you like it's the right thing to do. The amount of times I've been stood up by women, unintentionally creeped them out, etc, I just kinda stay away. It can be very hard but if no one loves you, you gotta try loving yourself. We're our worst enemy. May not always bring a lover into your life, but it just helps to be at peace with yourself.
One of the popular girls from my class was asked which guys around the class she would go out with or something to that effect. I wasnt the only one she said no to, but i was the only one she said no to while pulling a facial expression of disgust. Wasnt the first time that happened either. My entire school life was filled with this. That is why at 28, after 4 years of consistency at the gym, I'm still not used to the few and far between moments where hot women hit on me. And 3 out of 5 of them are usually older. Another obvious one, superficial as it may sound, is an average of 20 likes on selfies posted.
once i had a blind date on a summer day. I told her in a call how i was going to be dressed, so when i was waiting for her, she called and told if i was the short fat guy with the blue t-shirt, i told her i was, she replied "i see" and then hung up... never to answer my calls again. Another thing i installed bumble, i paid for the premium account, i start liking people until i ran out of women in my area. Not a single match. Not a insgle one. That means a whole city of women close to your age think they should not date you. I think the most painful thing isn't being rejected. The worst thing is being ignored, not being attractive enough to find a person that would date you.
i went to a mcdonalds overheard some ladies saying "hey look, there's a cute looking guy there." i can see them in my peripheral vision pointing and staring at me while im ordering food in the counter. beneath my mask i already know to myself that iam not really that good looking (*yes i am wearing a mask, i just got used to it and its kinda still mandatory on some establishments. and yes also to hide the face*) still in my peripheral vision i can still see and feel them staring at me. And in my head im like "These ladies gonna be so disappointed." i put down my mask and they were like "aw, i thought he cute." - i heard it. very quite audible btw.
When I was in high school, the girls in my class ranked boys from most to least attractive and wrote it on the board. Out of 13 boys, i was ranked at 12. It bothered me for a while but I'm over it now.
@@karma1507 yeah this sucks imo. imagine if it happens on twitter like "top 10 most attractive woman on earth" ppl would be kill the guy who made that list
something like this happened in my primary school, I wasnt even on the list, and when I asked I was told that I would be at the very bottom still the brief conversations I had with people were closest things I got compliments in late primary school
I'm 29 and still a virgin, I go to the gym at least two to three times a week and I've lost at least 60 lbs in the last 5 years, but I'm 5 ft 7 and I already know women don't want me, if I do attract any it'll be out of pity, or they'll see me as a pet they keep in the friend zone... Screw that.
You'll die alone if you keep this mindset How exactly do you expect to get together with a woman and be happy if your mindset is "they all despise me (because of height?? Dumb take), and if one does seem to like me it will be 100% out of pity" What do you mean to achieve with this? People dont start pity relationships, they have better things to do. Stop boohooing yourself and get yourself shit together, it's not just about getting fit and having a healthy body You must get your mind healthy too, drain that toxicity away. Learn to love yourself. And then, only then, may someone love you too. Sorty for being abrasive in tone, but shit like this needs to be said with no sprinkled sugar, wish you the best, but youre not getting any of the best in life if you profess "I dont deserve it"
@@miguelpadeiro762 Wow you must be a SIMP, dude women know what they want, the most attractive, rich and hopefully tall men out there. I don't give a crap about being the richest guy, I only want to have enough money to survive and pay my bills, which is what I'm already been doing most of the time anyway, outside of writing and going to the gym... If any woman does show any interest in me like I said it's either it's out of pity(more if it means they can emotionally manipulate me based on how I look) or they're just desperate because all the better options have ignored or cast them aside, for younger and more gullible chicks. I'm not dealing with her emotional baggage or be her emotional tampon, how did she get pumped and dumped by the guy she most likely would cheat on me with anyway. Plus I've been alone most of my life anyway so I could give less of a damn.
Definitely can relate to a few of these stories... While it hurts I'd rather someone tell me I'm not attractive than lie to my face only to then proceed to mock or ridicule me. I know they're trying to be nice, but still... Shit hurts lol
In 8th grade I once asked a girl in my class for advice on how I could make more friends. She told me that I didn't have any friends because I was ugly and they wouldn't want to talk to me.... The same girl asked me out in 11th grade, and didn't even remember me despite us being in the same school for the previous 3 years. I wasn't even mad anymore, just flabbergasted that I'd let the opinion of someone like her erode my self esteem for so long.
from my own personal life lesson: being ironically weird. even if youre being weird to be funny, a lot of people find it extremely offputting. being weird isnt a bad thing, per se, but everyone says there is a difference between being good weird and bad weird which is 100% true, and i realized just being overly strange and "quirky" for the reaction is in the bad weird category. i stopped doing and saying weird shit to people i just met, and i ended up making a lot more friends and getting a lot more date requests. the weird stuff came later when everyone got comfortable and by that point, being super weird can be seen as a joke because they know thats not how you usually act
Hilariously by the logic of this video I'm not as bad as I thought I was I'll add... pre-17 I absolutely got the looks don't matter, aw you're not ugly treatment, so I fully agree with all the sentiments
-When a full grown adult walks up to one of your friends/family members and asks them "What's wrong with them?" while pointing at you, right in front of you. Or they ask questions concerning you to whoever you are with, instead of asking you directly.
I grew up very unattractive. I had very bad ance was pretty overweight/fat and was generally an ugly person, I also had really crooked teeth. So I had to get braces and I looked like a geek. Not that's anything wrong with that. But you get my point, I was not pretty. People would always comment how smart and nice I was and it was never on my looks. It's not until I got older. Now that I'm 19, I'm starting to get compliments on my looks. I have lost 33 pounds, my face has cleared up for the most part. Have gotten my braces off. So guys who I used to have crushes on and rejected me, are now suddenly in my dms. Trying to catch up with me. 🤨 But here comes the double edge sword. I don't how to act in this in state. Guys never really gave me much attention, now that the tables have turned, people expect me to act a certain way. Like so and so act to "cool". But I'm still pretty nerdy. And some friends, from what I noticed don't want to hang out with me, and have talked behind my back. As they said I've have "changed". And yes I have changed physically and mentally. But now, I guess from being ugly to now somewhat attractive. I can see how some people are really shallow. And some people would never give me the time of day. Until I look some what pretty to their standards. But overall people should look beyond just looks. Everyone should be given a fair chance but sadly that's not how the world works. And stay true to yourself. Don't let these people get into your head. Just do you and you'll be happy.
Thanks for that. As a permanently ugly person, this made me feel better. Like I actually have a chance of someone, somehow, someday, somewhere actually liking me.
Gonna be honest, reality is no one cares about you if your ugly, guys are only going to be interested in you only based on looks, personality is what makes them not do P&D.
I like how alot of these that are related to being unforgettable i am, i don't like to stand out, i've had friends forget i was i the room despite me sitting like right behind them(in school). No joke, sure yall say there bad friends but for me i prefer it like this, because i am introverted. And also they are actually not bad to me, basically i tend to blend in too well and i personally like it.
Oh man i got so many stories about this. Usually friend groups make you realize it due to how they treat you compared to the other guys in the group One time we went to youth summer camp and we started playing this game where you ask the whole group a question and they have to answer it with honest. One of the girls asked the other girls who they would date and would like to spend their lives with, well, all the fingers pointed at my friend who was next to me. There was 11 of us. 2 guys and 9 girls. As a 15 year old guy, that stung a lot. It was years ago though but still affects my self esteem to this day. And that's just one story out of many. I spent about 4 years with that group and every week was just my self esteem getting lower anf lower to downright nonexistent. Back to the present, i made peace with knowing I'm unattractive and will probably stay that way till I'm gone lol
A bunch of people should not make u feel something like this. You can be better than them, focus on your own life because that group of yours won't feed you in future. I hope you are out of that group.
to be fair, people will vote with the majority or the group leader, especially at a younger age, there may have been one girl who would've picked you, you never know right?
I can tell I'm ugly because A: I relate to everyone in this video, B: online I can pick up anybody and more or less get a long way with everyone I meet, so I know I have good game. But irl, people will typically look at me with disgust. C: a group of girls once called me a "funny little man" I am short and at the time had a beard. D: confiding in my friends that I'm ugly just makes them feel sad
Sigh, these remind me of my early days of high-school. Im on my way back to class from the bathroom, and a junior girl walks around the corner ahead of me. Now my very confident self proceeded to quickly but shortly inhale and hold my breath before we crossed paths. This girl that i dont know and barely remember at all save for this one interaction closed her eyes, faced my way, and calmly said "no." At first i was confused but it wouldn't take long to figure out this was a rejection before i could get any words out. Decades later it still bothers me when i decide i wanna be depressed for the next few hours or days.
There is always light at the end of the tunnel but most don’t see it. Most don’t see it because it’s too dark, others because there never was a tunnel for them to suffer through. But no matter what it always is there. Much love, stay strong❤️❤️❤️
Bro nothing hurts more than the pity lap dance I got from a friend once. I said "no thanks, you really don't have to" the girl of course said "yeah I don't really want to" and her friend kept pushing, so she did it to get it over. Just awkward for everyone and solidified the idea that dating me is 100% a joke.
A few months ago, I seen a Facebook post that made me realize how unattractive I am. It said "you know you're ugly when the only compliments you get are on your hair and eyes". FYI, I have long hair and brown eyes. My hair is brown and some natural blonde streaks of hair in the back of my head.
There aren’t many body parts that you can compliment specifically without it being considered weird. Imagine if someone said you have great fingers or toes😂 and don’t get me started on the uproar if a man said anything about a woman’s chest, legs or bottom😂
I never get any compliments in the first place I have boring brown eyes and brown hair that has horrible texture. I work out a crazy amount and I am 6’1, but my face is so ugly it don’t matter.
I promise you that's bs😂 like those are the only normal things to compliment someone on- like "hey...i really think your chin is hot😏" 😂 or like "damn, your ear is just looking fire today" 😭
This actually made me feel a little better. I've come to the conclusion that I'm not ugly. It's just the tism. Honestly, I don't know if that's better or worse.
I think the best compliment I’ve gotten about my physical appearance is that I look like a lumberjack. Bear in mind, I’m a bit on the pudgy side, have a beard and have had people (from what I’ve noticed) compliment me on my personality.
Dude, lumberjacks are hella cool. Take that compliment in stride. Also, as a guy that does not look hot or handsome, try your best to take in every compliment. We barely get those, lol.
@@alceusrydan6237I got that compliment too and I wear plaid from time to time. Last girlfriend said I looked like a bear and a wolf had a baby and it came out humanoid. Giant feet, giant hands and girls are very intimidated by me. Underneath my stoic exterior I am a teddy bear that loves hugs.
People used to go out of their way to call me "nosferatu" and "ghoul" in highschool. I would just be minding my own business when they'd come up and say it. Once I got a reputation for criminality all of that stopped.
Whats ironic is that not only do they talk about people saying how their unattractive physically, but also show how the other people in their story are unattractive on the inside.
Well you can easily change the way you treat people, but you can’t really change the way your face looks, so I’d rather be ugly on the inside than ugly on the outside.
All my friends hate hanging out with me cause I'm annoying and ugly, I'm sort of fat (I've been working hard to get down to like 125 - 130), and my friends still act like I'm the size of a whale, so dont feel too bad
Story 66: You watch a UA-cam Video about signs that you are Ugly and over half of the Stories happend to you or you match their description. I really want to cry right now
I really relate to you. I watched UA-cam videos about signs that I’m ugly and matched almost all of them. It really does hurt. I can’t seem to come to terms with it. It’s hard.
@@Jensjwjej Thank you and please do me One favor. Never give up. Not on your self, not on believing, and not on Love. We will find our place in the World. Both of us. I believe in you.
I once had a girl tell me I hurt her feelings by asking her out. She lectured me about how I should be more sensitive because it's hurtful to have an unattractive person think you're down at their level. She accused me of insulting her and nearly started crying over "how mean" I was
I've always been a quiet guy since 6th grade. In elementary I was too talkative and now Im just forgotten. I hope I have better luck with friends and girls when I start college. I'm not trying to stand out, I just want people to at least know I exist and not look at me with disgust or contempt. Edit: 2 years in. No such luck but then again I don't talk to anyone, exercise as often, and my dreadlocks grow so fast they go from looking freshly done to nappy and bunched up
Hmm, I'm not sure how to feel about this one. I grew up thinking I was ugly. I also happened to live in a small town and was of a different ethnicity from my peers. I moved to a different small town in high school and got mixed results with some people avoiding me and others approaching me. My conclusion is that I appeal to specific women.
What I've learned to do: act like you aren't interested at all in the hot people you're interacting with like pure business. They question themselves after that and are more curious about you not that that will lead to anything but it is fun.
Last week a girl i met on internet told me i'm too ugly for her to talk with me. She said ”I'm not pretty, but you are a completely different league” lmao. Darn narcists
I always have a poker face. My eyebrows kind of naturally tend to look angry and I don't smile much because I have no reason to. Plus my antisocial and introverted maybe just introverted behaviour does not assist this plus I don't talk to often and I speak quietly and walk quieter then most, I have genuinely scared people by walking so quiet.
I have never experienced or watched someone being treated like this...in my case I have been told I am "handsome" by some people that are not my mother (needed to clarify), even though I am kind of an antisocial weirdo, but I have never seen someone being treated so horribly before, or at least not in their face. And the anecdotes I have, usually the one doing such an humilliating statement or action is shunned or called out for that. They are treated like what they are, assholes. This is why all of this anecdotes are surprising to me...is this an american thing? I always thought that what appears in american tv shows about the cheerleaders and the football players and the bullies and the nerds was all an exaggeration, but is american culture really like this???
I just need to look at myself in the mirror. That’s all the signs I need, right there. Not being much to look at in general and also being chubby, I like to say „I have a face that is best suited for radio“. Gets laughs more often than not, sometimes accompanied by something on the lines of „you look alright“. But realistically, in the Looks department I would give myself maybe a 4 out of 10 - on a good day.
I was once told when I was a kid “You must be the smart one in your family” I actually thought it was a compliment till latter on I realized what he meant 🤣🤣🤣
When I was a kid we used to play tag with the extra rule of the floor is on fire at the local playground. At good times we were like 15-20 people (boys and girls) and as you can imagine while some people in one corner of the playground were hunted the others were able to chill at the other side of the playground. One day I went to a pretty girl who also happened to be at the safe side of the playground. When I tried to say hi and talk to her she looked at me annoyed and said 'I don't want to stay with you' and just left me there flabbergasted. In my life I often was discriminated because of my looks but this one really hurt because it happened while playing an innocent game with no intentions of flirting to that girl. She just treated me like a second class human being not worth of her time.
Been there done that. By 32 you just kinda accept that you are below a 6/10 and start looking at other sub sixes hoping they figured it out too. Then you realize a sub six woman can get hotter guys than a sub six guy can get women.
Yeah, I straight up asked my Ex if she thought I was attractive and instead of a proper answer she said "I'm not with you because I think you look good"
I have 2 younger brothers with a diff dad. I remember when I was in 9th grade some girls from my school asked if they had a brother their age, they said yes but when they saw me they said "oh, nvm". BUT I hit puberty and became a pretty decent looking guy but I feel like I became more humble because of the experience of being "ugly" when I was younger
In middle and high school I was the girl guys used to dare their friends to ask out as a prank. It's hard to ignore being the butt of the joke constantly
For me this one made me feel very unattractive. My ex told me “you know if I wasn’t disabled, I’d probably never dated you” I asked why but I can’t remember what she said exactly, something along the lines of being able to hang out with the popular people. It just crushed me, made me feel unattractive
I realized that I was ugly when... 1. Kids said I was. 2. People think I'm OLD enough to be my 15 year old brother's DAD (I'm 19). 3. No girl approaches me... at least because I look good (one time I got approached because I was "polite" and I said yes... got ghosted and no date). 4. You get compliments for your clothes. People will say "your clothes look nice" not "YOU look nice." 5. Girls talk to you only because your male friends are around... (some of my crushes started dating my friends in high school). 6. NOBODY says you look handsome besides your mom or grandma. 7. People forget you exist even though you are literally standing RIGHT. THERE.
Yeah, little kids really will tell you anything. Once little kid walking in the park pointed at me and said to her mother: "-Mommy look, this mister looks like a criminal." I was supressing my laugh while his mom immediately walked another direction holding his hand. Fun times.
I once dated an asexual girl and she told me once she found me romantically attractive not physically. Now i know she meant she's not physically attracted to anyone but it still hurt to hear
I feel like it's because I'm short for a guy (5'5), bald due to my age, and if women found out I have ASD. Who wants to be in a relationship with a man whos on the spectrum of Autism. 😔
I feel fat, ugly, and balding, but I have never been outright called ugly. I don't have too many issues getting a date. Maybe I'm cuddly and some chicks like that?
I mean if your only issue is that your fat then you are pretty blessed compared to the people in the video atleast all you gotta do is lose weight and for balding part just shave it off or get treatment
In 7 Years i can cast spells too! (Asuming whatever wicked memories i have of my early childhood, are just funky dreams i remember) Exited to cast the following: - Homines abhorrens - Radio Vox - Cibus abito - custodire e* gelu - pati e* aestus
Actions speak louder than words. You can be assured that you're attractive all they want, but never being hit on by actual people does take a toll on a person. I guess that's why I don't like most pop music, at least the ones about love.
I've been laughed at before when i asked someone out. Man does it hurt... ive found it easier just to give up. There's nothing in romance worth the pain ive gone through, and wouls continue to go through if i kept trying
If (by some miracle) people interact with you, they either want to make fun of you or want something from you. I call it a game of T or S (transaction or set-up)
I have one. I was on a dating app for a time and was having absolutely no luck, so stepped away for a little while. I suddenly got pinged about a bunch of messages and went back on. Turns out the account got hacked by some guy who was spam emailing a bunch of 50+ woman. The kicker? He was posing as a young woman who was looking for a date for their 'dad' and, instead of keeping my photos on there, (I'm a young woman that isn't 'terrible' at taking selfies or so I thought) he splashed some stock photos of a 'pretty' girl in their place... And it wasn't even to cat-fish dudes, it was to cat-fish older woman... geez...
As someone with ugly duckling syndrome this brought back some memories. Damn. I was ugly from 4th grade till basically a year after highschool. I started to take care of myself and work out. The good thing was that it helped me build a personality and be more out going.
I have heard people talk about my appearance behind my back. Got ignored when i tried talking with my relative...man they didnt even answer my greeting...got cropped out from the group pic with that same person...they dleted that pic cuz i was there...people always always always ignore me when am with a beautiful friend/relative...they only talk to you to know about others and people also behave rude if youre not good looking enough... Looks matter...people say that personality matters more...but i think look matters more than that
Honestly, I think I'm ugly but people say I'm not. Have never noticed being flirted with because I jus think I'm genuinely unattractive and I just fail to pick up signs of flirting. Once i graduated I found out a lot of girls had a crush on me in both middle and high school but gave up after about a month. I just thought they wanted to be my friend. A lot of them said they liked the "mysterious aura" about me when really I was depressed all the time due to abuse. Kind of funny, though. While the people around me where trying to make them apart of their world, I was thinking about 6,000 ways to burn mine.
The mysterious aura on ugly people is not being mysterious but treated as creepy. In other words, you look decent to be crushed on and not physically unattractive.
Imo I'm attractive, like my face is ok and I have a decent height 185cm. Problem is my bucket load of problems such as mild scoliosis, dcd, autism, and other ones I reckon I have such as scalp psoriasis. I don't think I will ever bother being in a relationship till I have my shit together.
the dude going for my friend is too relatable. now everytime someone compliments me im like wtf are you talking about, and its usually people i dont want to approach me 🤷🏽♀
I really like making friends regardless of how they look and like if they’re mentally attractive that’s all that truly matters to me and that’s sadly really rare… I don’t think I’m that attractive but the many people flirting with me and trying to hold my hand or kiss me seem to think so… there is this odd societal privilege with it for sure and I for one really despise it because everyone deserves to be seen and loved. That said, many times I don’t receive love from people because their too stuck in lust… and that I’d say is a major disadvantage when I’m trying to find genuine people. It’s why most of the time, I don’t aim for physical attractiveness when on dating apps. But regardless of how attractive someone might be, anyone can have an ego and lust… especially people who think their attractive and it’s a huge reason I try to see myself as average regardless of what people tell me.
The two most successful relationships you've been in in your life have both been with visually impaired people. You go out and spend a bunch of money on nice clothes and it doesn't help.
I've gone through periods of being unattractive and periods of being attractive, currently I'm in the former category (the fact I was ever attractive to me means I can get it back, just gotta stop drinking so much). When I was attractive, believe it or not women approached me. In this period I had 3 or 4 women approach me in a 3-4 year period, doesn't sound like a lot to girls I'm sure, but for me it was unheard of, for my entire life before and since this period, I have NEVER been approached by a woman. When you're attractive, older people will tell you to go have fun and stop hanging out with them because "You're an attractive young man, and you shouldn't be wasting your time hanging out with us!". Women in my social circle would sit close to me, male friends would be uncomfortable with how they're girlfriends talked to me (I never did anything to encourage this), and in general people treated me better. When you're unattractive, you are invisible. I never really get treated badly, just not really interacted with at all. The only times it feels like people are genuinely upset about how I look is when I'm speaking to a stranger of the opposite sex. They'll generally just try to get me away from them as quickly as possible, if it's customer service they'll just give quick answers, if it's a group project they'll leave me out of the group text until I ask to be included. Also the "People will be uncomfortable when you make self deprecating jokes" thing I didn't even realize until watching this video. When I was hot, the same jokes that I always made were reacted to with laughter, but now I'm ugly the same jokes are met with "Stop, you're not ugly/fat".
im a burnt victim, burns on my face chest and lesft arm. Cashier looked up at me and said. "Why is there something wrong with your face?" I got mad. but couple days after a 3 year old kid said I look like im from a spooky movie but he likes those movies so he likes the way i look :)
That's so sweet. I had a friend with burns all over their face too, unfortunately they were also a total asshole. They borrowed my gamecube and then deleted ALL the saves from all the games me and my brothers had played over hundreds of hours...so he could play smash bros melee and unlock everyone.
JUST UNPLUG THE MEMORY CARD YOU PSYCHOPATH. I stole all his pokemon cards in retaliation and never told him.
...I feel like I just got really sidetracked, what were we talking about?
“That’s rough buddy”
You unlocked, fire resistance
I feel you
@@flashfreak62😂
I got one: getting banned from tinder within 6 hours for harassment despite not interacting with anyone
Edit: what happened was, a bit before lockdown I was hanging with friends, they said I should try tinder. Did all the sign up stuff, swiped a few times, went back to talking to friends. Swiped a few more times before bed, woke up; boom, banned. That's all that happened
BROOOTAL
That app is a joke anyway. Scams you for your money and the women are not even worth it when you do get a match
@vigilr6595 still a major blow to what little ego I have
@@itsyaboiChubbs youll be fine man. Get off the apps. Ik its cliche but you have a better chance finding a good girl through happenstance going about your life. Dont give up hope man
Tinder ban speedrun 💀
I once asked this girl out. She apologized and claimed that she was Lesbian but gave me a hug for trying.
Weeks later, she has a boyfriend.
Ow
He’s a lesbian too
@@Michaelengelmann trapped in a man’s body. Tragic, really.
@@angrygarbanzo5436 nah. Like what Drake said 😂
Meh I mean she definitetly wasn't into you but that's just a rejection from 1 girl not a sign that you're ugly.
Everyone that says looks don’t matter are usually way more attractive than you trust me they do matter because when you’re unattractive people don’t want to talk to you nor is anyone willing to give you a chance
Ikr
Sad but true.
I've had this argument so many times with young beautiful women and it makes me wanna scream
This is VERY TRUE. People who say otherwise are delusional.
As a certified ugly person (credentials: got asked out by 1 person in the span of 20 years and guys would always approach my friends while ignoring me) appearances make a good first impression but never a lasting one when you're ugly on the inside.
A lot of attractive people have the confidence and charisma because they don't really get rejected whereas the unattractive people do which in turn, makes the unattractive person doubt their ability to exist. But, correlation is not causation. There are lonely, rejected attractive people and popular, beloved ugly people.
8:32 is the real truth of ugly vs attractive. When you're unapproachable because of your vibes, people won't come up to you. This is likely so when you believe your existence is worthless because of a trait you have, like ugliness. However, even if you spontaneously become pretty or get rid of your unwanted trait, if you're not happy with yourself, it's going to show
Good signs are
- general avoidance of you,
- opposite sex showing slight signs of fear and being uneasy when interaction is necessary, even when you yourself behave nice (but not fake nice) and professional,
- not listening to what you say, even if you are an expert in something or can talk from experience,
- talking over you constantly,
- telling you 'I can't judge your behavior'
And many more bullet points I can't even remember...
Damn why does all of this happen to me
@neochairs oh yeah
This seems to me like just being a girl... Guys are usualy scared and uneasy around you, they don't listen to your explanations even when you are expert in the field and generally talk over you (esp. at work)
@@Maya47745 🤣🤣🤣 Well, that's an angle I didn't look at that topic from...
It works both ways poeople forget that@@wiedapp
Oh the hugging one. At school, there was this girl I knew who hugged literally everyone....except me. I remember pointing this out to a friend of mine who got one like, once a day, who said, "Just go up to her and ask". I didn't deciding, it wasn't worth sacrificing what little pride and dignity I had.
You should've asked. Provided you are relatively clean, not covered in sweat, didn't grope, or make a huge deal of it during or after, its pretty harmless. Unless the girl in question was just sticking to close friends and people she'd clicked with in a moment.
Peep game how dude assumed you were a weirdo and smelled bad
🤣🤣🤣
@@blastphantomgames6369broooooo 😂😂😂💀
Ask her for a hug, and if she says no call her a shallow p**sy Infront of the class.
I swapped numbers with a girl and she texted with zero effort. I think she just liked the attention. I gave her phone number back and told her I didn't want it anymore. As I watched her throw it in the bin, I could tell that it really hurt her ego. She dropped her attitude and stopped looking down on me after that.
Brutallll
Theres being unattractive and being someone who doesn’t care about themselves and it affects their appearance. It’s important to know the difference
We making excuses I see however they use ugly people for spys etc because they are forgettable and people have no desire twords them
That and it's important to know what u can change, and what u cannot, such as ur skull or skin.
@@Ninjadoku3779 change no, take care of? Totally! Been using a skin care routine and it’s making a huge difference
@@prod.arcsyne2990dental health is also a lot more important than most make it out to be. One of the best uses of $80 is a Waterpik (you get a big one and a small, travel-sized one).
@Ungabunga.44 ok
"You get the cops called on you just for existing in public. *And I'm not even black.*"
...really?...
I thought I trippin when I heard that!😂
I mean, that is more of a critique of society and their treatment of the black community than a reflection of himself.
Seeing as how there were the internet Karens who called the cops on people just hanging out with their family.
@@cavalierliberty6838its reddit cringe
like maybe that’s why ppl don’t like u not bc of ur looks
it happened to me honestly but it werent cops were guards at a bar where i was trying to talk with a girl..... The worst part its that i just said a few words!
I dont consider me ugly maybe a 4 or 5 hahahahaha
I didn't realise I was that bad until the pandemic. My brother is very handsome (looks remarkably like Chris Evans, actually), and I've always gotten comments about how we don't look alike, but I figured that was because he's blonde and blue-eyed like our mother, and I have dark hair and eyes like Dad. My eyes have always been my best feature, but I didn't realise the rest of my face was so much less attractive. When the pandemic hit and I wore a mask all the time, people treated me better- day to day interactions went from polite/neutral to positive, and even occasionally flirty. I changed nothing else about how I presented myself in that time. I didn't start working out, or taking better care of myself. I was just going about my business in my suburb in oversized band shirts and jeans.
I wish I didn't know. I used to feel neutral about my appearance, and my self esteem used to be based more on my achievements and happiness, but now I feel that I am lacking something.
🪦🪦🪦
Rip brother. It’s even worse when you interact with the person and you take off your mask and their whole interaction you changes and you can tell
Same, enjoy the blackpill brother, it's saved a lot of depressed people from thinking something is wrong with them personally
You are lacking self respect bro, if you let others decide what kind of person you are than u are done.
@@Sernival what you mean blackpill?
Yeah guys no one gives a s##t about how you are inside, everyone of us judges people from how they look
@@Kat-go3euappearance plays into how people feel about you "on the inside" lol, dont gaslight this poor guy or you'll set him up for more hurt
As an ugly korean guy, I concur
@@Average_Turkish frrrrrr
Yes that's how things work generally, just get over it
I mean people just make fun of me of how i am on the outside but when they get to know me they try to set me up por a date(P.S. Neither of the dates they set me up with didnt work bcs of my looks)
I have a lazy left eye. I was not born with it. It was knocked out of my socket at age 7 and I had to put it back in myself. It has made me homeless. I have a friend who has essentially worked everywhere in town. He has had enough of hearing people gossiping about it at work and he quit a job because of that shallow bull. He's been my friend for 21 years now. So I may not be attractive and can't get a job for crap, but my friends are Angels in disguise, my dog loves me, and I'm getting on disability and housing. Remember Kings and Queens, you may be ugly to some but to others you are beautiful inside and out. And that's all that matters in the end.
I feel u bro, hope your life becomes better some day
😅 holy shit thats metal asf tho like how did you eye get knocked out
and your telling me you popped that bich back in at 7 years old 😂 lol i whould hate to be the one that fucks whith you
I have a lazy left eye as you can see and i didnt realize back then that it contribued to my unattractiveness alongside my nose
I'm so sorry 💝 I hope things work out for you
@@Li8aGun92 they will one day. Hopefully soon. It's been a long ride. But I've been taking steps to make sure this nightmare ends. Bless up brother.
I have a super short one 4 words to be exactly, "You're different to love." Or when you give someone a compliment and they just completely ignore it too
Damn those are brutal
at the very best you get a small and really quick 'thank you"
@@ElGringoFuerte I don't even get that XD
@@devry792be better looking
@@elian1352 I really can't do that when I was born ugly. All I have to rely on is my personality, but I do get that my personality is ugly too. That's why I've been working on that more than something that changes drastically over time. Looks is inevitable on having change. Personality is by choice
When I was 15, I asked a girl out and she looked me dead in the eyes and said "no, I can do better"
Atleast she didn’t lie I guess
dude thats just a horrible person
She was merciful to you... those same girls are the kind to tell guys to off themselves if they don't live up to their lofty expectations.
Damn
"The worst she can say is no"
Everyone asks why you're still single, but no one offers any solutions.
What does it mean if I get told to look for a girl at a yoga class or the gym or even IG?
@@Mistah_Boombastic_BiggieCheese pretty much to skip the internet and dating apps, and try to look for a girl out in the real world. Except the IG part stay away from those
What if no one asks why you're still single?
Well, I have a solution: true story, one of the last women who hot HARD on me was... legally blind. Date blind women , they like your sense of humor.
@@Mistah_Boombastic_BiggieCheese Going to the gym, doing yoga are opportunities for chance encounters with other people.
I feel the “invisible and no girl talks to you.” So much💀
One year later update, I talk to girls now and everyone calls me handsome and loves my hair (still not close to a girlfriend though💀🙏)
I literally never said anything in my class for a while and some people said I was too quiet, so I tried talking more and I'd just be told to shut up or be interrupted/ignored
@@kumara6665thats how it was in school for me as well. I hated it.
Yeah, but that is just the experience as the average guy, we don't get free attention.
same
Whoa, what did you change? Im just doing a compilation of what makes people charismatic lol
Don't know if this applies but for me most guys avoid me or don't even register I'm there.
Girls think I'm a creep & mothers think I'm a pedophile.
It sucks but hey at least it makes it easier to live alone knowing that you'll only have to worry about 1 person financially & maybe even a pet or 2.
I'm just glad most dogs like me.
I'm sure there's more reasons for mothers to assume ur a pedo aside from being unattractive, like how do you interact with kids?
@@sheen621being seen as a pedo is no longer a attractive or non attractive thing. they almost automaticaly asume u are.
@@paprikagames that was my point
@@sheen621 No it wasn't. As @paprikagames said, nowadays women will automatically assume a single father or even just a man playing or interacting with children is a paedophile. Based on nothing more than the fact that all men interacting with kids must be paedophiles right ?
@@thewateringwiz7118 tbh I don't remember why I wrote that I was probably just trying look reason to argue anyway makes more sense looks like I owe @paprikagames an apology but I do see this a lot it is quite ridiculous like I remember I had this teacher and we got along very well and he would help me out with my math homework even though he didn't teach that subject but there were people who would accuse him of being a pedophile, like we had to go to the cafeteria to do homework because of assumptions/rumors and I can tell you he wasn't he was just devoted to his job, the church and he wanted to help people the best he could
I've been denied entry to clubs for being too ugly. I was even hit by a bouncer. I was eating pizza with a friend and a guy came up to me saying i look old and i should go home..thanks. thanks
Sucks ass. The looks aren't even supposed to matter in this situation, like, hit by a bouncer? That's awful.
yo, that's messed. whatever happens, keep your chin up!
Bouncers are f**kwits
Many people called me old, too. They thought I was the DAD of my teenaged siblings, but I was only 16 at the time. Even now (19) people think I middle-aged!! So flipping infuriating! My family doesn't even understand why I feel so angry about this, besides my dad because he goes through the SAME thing. People think he's an old man married to a young woman... he's older than my mom by 10 years but people act like he's REAL old.
That's horrible man
If another guy offers me a seat but the girl next to him immediately tells him, “please no!” Is that clear solid proof that I’m ugly? I don’t think average guys experience that
Unfortunately, I think the girl, certainly believes so.
Yes. Which automatically places you in the creepy zone.
@@pantherman8719 yea since this comment Ive pretty much figured out im a hideous man. People constantly call me shaggy and say i look ‘unique’ their way of calling me ugly. I’m cooked to infinity.
@@oddhaunts6197 ah don't worry. I've been trying to improve for years. I know the feeling. Because in the end, everyone is just gonna blame you like it's the right thing to do. The amount of times I've been stood up by women, unintentionally creeped them out, etc, I just kinda stay away. It can be very hard but if no one loves you, you gotta try loving yourself. We're our worst enemy. May not always bring a lover into your life, but it just helps to be at peace with yourself.
Pretty much yes.. happens to me when i sit in public areas. I sit down and immediately women a seat or 2 away move immediately lolz.
I held the door for a girl one time. She walked passed, thanked me, then turned around and said, “Ew” when she saw my face.
She a type that would a man just to divorce him and take everything from him. It’s unnecessary for her to say that but she did.
Doesn’t necessarily mean you are ugly. Could mean she’s a man hater and wanted to deride you.
Damn that's cold
Huh? You look average mate. You definitely do not deserve that response.
She didn't say that, come on man
When you go into a haunted house and come back with a job application 💀💀
Oh nah, I'm not known for my looks but that's just crazy 💀
One of the popular girls from my class was asked which guys around the class she would go out with or something to that effect. I wasnt the only one she said no to, but i was the only one she said no to while pulling a facial expression of disgust. Wasnt the first time that happened either. My entire school life was filled with this. That is why at 28, after 4 years of consistency at the gym, I'm still not used to the few and far between moments where hot women hit on me. And 3 out of 5 of them are usually older.
Another obvious one, superficial as it may sound, is an average of 20 likes on selfies posted.
Never Chase any hoe, keep focus on your Job and gym.
@@Saveek666 You aint never lied. 😄
once i had a blind date on a summer day. I told her in a call how i was going to be dressed, so when i was waiting for her, she called and told if i was the short fat guy with the blue t-shirt, i told her i was, she replied "i see" and then hung up... never to answer my calls again.
Another thing i installed bumble, i paid for the premium account, i start liking people until i ran out of women in my area. Not a single match. Not a insgle one. That means a whole city of women close to your age think they should not date you. I think the most painful thing isn't being rejected. The worst thing is being ignored, not being attractive enough to find a person that would date you.
I have bumble AND hinge and I refuse to get a premium account.
Same, I had Bumble on premium for the pas 6 month I only talk talk to one gril only one time. She was about 1h30 drive form my place.
This
Lose weight then wtf
i went to a mcdonalds overheard some ladies saying "hey look, there's a cute looking guy there."
i can see them in my peripheral vision pointing and staring at me while im ordering food in the counter.
beneath my mask i already know to myself that iam not really that good looking (*yes i am wearing a mask, i just got used to it and its kinda still mandatory on some establishments. and yes also to hide the face*)
still in my peripheral vision i can still see and feel them staring at me. And in my head im like "These ladies gonna be so disappointed."
i put down my mask and they were like "aw, i thought he cute." - i heard it. very quite audible btw.
When I was in high school, the girls in my class ranked boys from most to least attractive and wrote it on the board. Out of 13 boys, i was ranked at 12. It bothered me for a while but I'm over it now.
What about 13
@@dynias7282 We didn't keep in touch but I remember only the top 5 boys actually felt good about the list.
@@karma1507 yeah this sucks imo. imagine if it happens on twitter like "top 10 most attractive woman on earth" ppl would be kill the guy who made that list
You should’ve retaliated with the rest of the boys with your own list of least to most attractive girls
something like this happened in my primary school, I wasnt even on the list, and when I asked I was told that I would be at the very bottom
still the brief conversations I had with people were closest things I got compliments in late primary school
I'm 29 and still a virgin, I go to the gym at least two to three times a week and I've lost at least 60 lbs in the last 5 years, but I'm 5 ft 7 and I already know women don't want me, if I do attract any it'll be out of pity, or they'll see me as a pet they keep in the friend zone... Screw that.
Screw them and don't quit gym.
I like that "screw that" lol.
Dude there are a Lot of mentally unstable gals out there they aren't that picky. You just gotta scratch that psychological itch they have
You'll die alone if you keep this mindset
How exactly do you expect to get together with a woman and be happy if your mindset is "they all despise me (because of height?? Dumb take), and if one does seem to like me it will be 100% out of pity"
What do you mean to achieve with this?
People dont start pity relationships, they have better things to do.
Stop boohooing yourself and get yourself shit together, it's not just about getting fit and having a healthy body
You must get your mind healthy too, drain that toxicity away. Learn to love yourself. And then, only then, may someone love you too.
Sorty for being abrasive in tone, but shit like this needs to be said with no sprinkled sugar, wish you the best, but youre not getting any of the best in life if you profess "I dont deserve it"
@@miguelpadeiro762 Wow you must be a SIMP, dude women know what they want, the most attractive, rich and hopefully tall men out there. I don't give a crap about being the richest guy, I only want to have enough money to survive and pay my bills, which is what I'm already been doing most of the time anyway, outside of writing and going to the gym...
If any woman does show any interest in me like I said it's either it's out of pity(more if it means they can emotionally manipulate me based on how I look) or they're just desperate because all the better options have ignored or cast them aside, for younger and more gullible chicks.
I'm not dealing with her emotional baggage or be her emotional tampon, how did she get pumped and dumped by the guy she most likely would cheat on me with anyway.
Plus I've been alone most of my life anyway so I could give less of a damn.
Honestly, I came here expecting to get my self confidence shattered. And even though I still feel unattractive, my confidence hasnt gone down atleast.
Definitely can relate to a few of these stories... While it hurts I'd rather someone tell me I'm not attractive than lie to my face only to then proceed to mock or ridicule me. I know they're trying to be nice, but still... Shit hurts lol
When your grandma doesn't say things like "I'm sure you get all the girls, you're so handsome."
In 8th grade I once asked a girl in my class for advice on how I could make more friends. She told me that I didn't have any friends because I was ugly and they wouldn't want to talk to me....
The same girl asked me out in 11th grade, and didn't even remember me despite us being in the same school for the previous 3 years.
I wasn't even mad anymore, just flabbergasted that I'd let the opinion of someone like her erode my self esteem for so long.
Damn... She was blackpilling you right from the beginning 💀
from my own personal life lesson: being ironically weird. even if youre being weird to be funny, a lot of people find it extremely offputting. being weird isnt a bad thing, per se, but everyone says there is a difference between being good weird and bad weird which is 100% true, and i realized just being overly strange and "quirky" for the reaction is in the bad weird category. i stopped doing and saying weird shit to people i just met, and i ended up making a lot more friends and getting a lot more date requests. the weird stuff came later when everyone got comfortable and by that point, being super weird can be seen as a joke because they know thats not how you usually act
So ugly but not ugly ugly then
mhmm ima do that bc tbh i think that it will help me
Hilariously by the logic of this video I'm not as bad as I thought I was
I'll add... pre-17 I absolutely got the looks don't matter, aw you're not ugly treatment, so I fully agree with all the sentiments
-When a full grown adult walks up to one of your friends/family members and asks them "What's wrong with them?" while pointing at you, right in front of you. Or they ask questions concerning you to whoever you are with, instead of asking you directly.
I grew up very unattractive. I had very bad ance was pretty overweight/fat and was generally an ugly person, I also had really crooked teeth. So I had to get braces and I looked like a geek. Not that's anything wrong with that. But you get my point, I was not pretty. People would always comment how smart and nice I was and it was never on my looks. It's not until I got older. Now that I'm 19, I'm starting to get compliments on my looks. I have lost 33 pounds, my face has cleared up for the most part. Have gotten my braces off. So guys who I used to have crushes on and rejected me, are now suddenly in my dms. Trying to catch up with me. 🤨
But here comes the double edge sword. I don't how to act in this in state. Guys never really gave me much attention, now that the tables have turned, people expect me to act a certain way. Like so and so act to "cool". But I'm still pretty nerdy. And some friends, from what I noticed don't want to hang out with me, and have talked behind my back. As they said I've have "changed". And yes I have changed physically and mentally. But now, I guess from being ugly to now somewhat attractive. I can see how some people are really shallow. And some people would never give me the time of day. Until I look some what pretty to their standards.
But overall people should look beyond just looks. Everyone should be given a fair chance but sadly that's not how the world works. And stay true to yourself. Don't let these people get into your head. Just do you and you'll be happy.
Thanks for that. As a permanently ugly person, this made me feel better. Like I actually have a chance of someone, somehow, someday, somewhere actually liking me.
welcome to adulthood i guess, we all suck some way
Gonna be honest, reality is no one cares about you if your ugly, guys are only going to be interested in you only based on looks, personality is what makes them not do P&D.
I like how alot of these that are related to being unforgettable i am, i don't like to stand out, i've had friends forget i was i the room despite me sitting like right behind them(in school). No joke, sure yall say there bad friends but for me i prefer it like this, because i am introverted. And also they are actually not bad to me, basically i tend to blend in too well and i personally like it.
Same situation here, at some moment my friends tought that i teleported.
@@diegoignacioavilesvalencia1991 amazing how not bringing attention to yourself can do aye?
@@Stardust_the_F-104C yeah it is really impresive and useful if the conversation turns akward
Oh man i got so many stories about this. Usually friend groups make you realize it due to how they treat you compared to the other guys in the group
One time we went to youth summer camp and we started playing this game where you ask the whole group a question and they have to answer it with honest. One of the girls asked the other girls who they would date and would like to spend their lives with, well, all the fingers pointed at my friend who was next to me. There was 11 of us. 2 guys and 9 girls. As a 15 year old guy, that stung a lot. It was years ago though but still affects my self esteem to this day. And that's just one story out of many. I spent about 4 years with that group and every week was just my self esteem getting lower anf lower to downright nonexistent. Back to the present, i made peace with knowing I'm unattractive and will probably stay that way till I'm gone lol
A bunch of people should not make u feel something like this. You can be better than them, focus on your own life because that group of yours won't feed you in future. I hope you are out of that group.
to be fair, people will vote with the majority or the group leader, especially at a younger age, there may have been one girl who would've picked you, you never know right?
Right? Noting bothers me anymore, I lost my virginity to a prostitute and I’m not embarrassed about it, don’t care.
I can tell I'm ugly because A: I relate to everyone in this video,
B: online I can pick up anybody and more or less get a long way with everyone I meet, so I know I have good game. But irl, people will typically look at me with disgust.
C: a group of girls once called me a "funny little man" I am short and at the time had a beard.
D: confiding in my friends that I'm ugly just makes them feel sad
You can confide in your friends but sooner or later, they'll get tired of it. Be careful with that. Just telling you from experience.
Sigh, these remind me of my early days of high-school. Im on my way back to class from the bathroom, and a junior girl walks around the corner ahead of me. Now my very confident self proceeded to quickly but shortly inhale and hold my breath before we crossed paths. This girl that i dont know and barely remember at all save for this one interaction closed her eyes, faced my way, and calmly said "no." At first i was confused but it wouldn't take long to figure out this was a rejection before i could get any words out. Decades later it still bothers me when i decide i wanna be depressed for the next few hours or days.
Hang in there brother!! I promise it always gets better❤️❤️❤️
There is always light at the end of the tunnel but most don’t see it. Most don’t see it because it’s too dark, others because there never was a tunnel for them to suffer through. But no matter what it always is there. Much love, stay strong❤️❤️❤️
@@Capsule-tu6mu there are tunnels and there are holes. Which you choose or get shoved in does make quite the difference in seeing light ever again...
Bro nothing hurts more than the pity lap dance I got from a friend once. I said "no thanks, you really don't have to" the girl of course said "yeah I don't really want to" and her friend kept pushing, so she did it to get it over. Just awkward for everyone and solidified the idea that dating me is 100% a joke.
This says a lot more about her than you. Maybe worth going to therapy
I was talking to this one chick for like an hour on the bus and then we had to make a quick stop , she didnt sit beside me after the lights came on
A few months ago, I seen a Facebook post that made me realize how unattractive I am. It said "you know you're ugly when the only compliments you get are on your hair and eyes". FYI, I have long hair and brown eyes. My hair is brown and some natural blonde streaks of hair in the back of my head.
There aren’t many body parts that you can compliment specifically without it being considered weird. Imagine if someone said you have great fingers or toes😂 and don’t get me started on the uproar if a man said anything about a woman’s chest, legs or bottom😂
That’s legitimately false. Don’t worry about it.
I never get any compliments in the first place I have boring brown eyes and brown hair that has horrible texture. I work out a crazy amount and I am 6’1, but my face is so ugly it don’t matter.
I promise you that's bs😂 like those are the only normal things to compliment someone on- like "hey...i really think your chin is hot😏" 😂 or like "damn, your ear is just looking fire today" 😭
This actually made me feel a little better. I've come to the conclusion that I'm not ugly. It's just the tism.
Honestly, I don't know if that's better or worse.
Better because so long as you’re attractive, creepy traits seen in people can be treated as cute quirks.
I think the best compliment I’ve gotten about my physical appearance is that I look like a lumberjack. Bear in mind, I’m a bit on the pudgy side, have a beard and have had people (from what I’ve noticed) compliment me on my personality.
Dude, lumberjacks are hella cool. Take that compliment in stride.
Also, as a guy that does not look hot or handsome, try your best to take in every compliment. We barely get those, lol.
Do you also wear plaid shirts?
@@alceusrydan6237I got that compliment too and I wear plaid from time to time. Last girlfriend said I looked like a bear and a wolf had a baby and it came out humanoid. Giant feet, giant hands and girls are very intimidated by me. Underneath my stoic exterior I am a teddy bear that loves hugs.
@@alceusrydan6237 I do own and wear a few plaid shirts
I was told by one of my friends I was tall to her, she's 4'11
People used to go out of their way to call me "nosferatu" and "ghoul" in highschool. I would just be minding my own business when they'd come up and say it. Once I got a reputation for criminality all of that stopped.
Nice
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@@theinternetdebateman3437 do the thug shaker
Criminalmaxxing
Whats ironic is that not only do they talk about people saying how their unattractive physically, but also show how the other people in their story are unattractive on the inside.
i would rather be told at face value "your ugly" instead of people trying to give me the hint im ugly or trying to convince me im not
Thats just cope man, ugly people operate the same way, they just look bad
Well you can easily change the way you treat people, but you can’t really change the way your face looks, so I’d rather be ugly on the inside than ugly on the outside.
I got blocked because a girl saw my face after i sent a selfie...... still hurts, but i don't take many selfies now.
All my friends hate hanging out with me cause I'm annoying and ugly, I'm sort of fat (I've been working hard to get down to like 125 - 130), and my friends still act like I'm the size of a whale, so dont feel too bad
Lol. Me too. I actually laughed when it happened to me. Because it was either a scammer or that person really had the wrong number.
its when your fellow classmates make a "touch" named after you and it actually gains some traction in the class.
i feel sorry for that guy my class made a “touch” out of
Can you explain? ESL person here
@@pc_suffering6941 its a game, if someone has a touch then the goal is to avoid that person and stay away from them or you will have it too
Oh, just like the cheese touch lmao
@@pc_suffering6941t means someone who is so ugly or unlikable, people dont want to touch them and make a game out of avoiding it like tag
Story 66: You watch a UA-cam Video about signs that you are Ugly and over half of the Stories happend to you or you match their description. I really want to cry right now
It's really depressing
I’ve come to terms with it, nothing bothers me anymore
the fact you even have to watch a video or read a thread like this in the first place. If you're hot, you'll know already.
I really relate to you. I watched UA-cam videos about signs that I’m ugly and matched almost all of them. It really does hurt. I can’t seem to come to terms with it. It’s hard.
@@Jensjwjej Thank you and please do me One favor. Never give up. Not on your self, not on believing, and not on Love. We will find our place in the World. Both of us. I believe in you.
I once had a girl tell me I hurt her feelings by asking her out. She lectured me about how I should be more sensitive because it's hurtful to have an unattractive person think you're down at their level. She accused me of insulting her and nearly started crying over "how mean" I was
I've always been a quiet guy since 6th grade. In elementary I was too talkative and now Im just forgotten. I hope I have better luck with friends and girls when I start college. I'm not trying to stand out, I just want people to at least know I exist and not look at me with disgust or contempt.
Edit: 2 years in. No such luck but then again I don't talk to anyone, exercise as often, and my dreadlocks grow so fast they go from looking freshly done to nappy and bunched up
So relatable it stings ngl
Literally same dude I went from the most talkative, to quiet and invisible
People I meet often compare me to celebrities who are ugly
Hmm, I'm not sure how to feel about this one.
I grew up thinking I was ugly. I also happened to live in a small town and was of a different ethnicity from my peers.
I moved to a different small town in high school and got mixed results with some people avoiding me and others approaching me.
My conclusion is that I appeal to specific women.
and im not even black is WILD
LMFAOOOOOO bro 😭
What I've learned to do: act like you aren't interested at all in the hot people you're interacting with like pure business. They question themselves after that and are more curious about you not that that will lead to anything but it is fun.
That works well with the self conscious people
Well that's just manipulative.
Last week a girl i met on internet told me i'm too ugly for her to talk with me. She said ”I'm not pretty, but you are a completely different league” lmao. Darn narcists
I always have a poker face. My eyebrows kind of naturally tend to look angry and I don't smile much because I have no reason to. Plus my antisocial and introverted maybe just introverted behaviour does not assist this plus I don't talk to often and I speak quietly and walk quieter then most, I have genuinely scared people by walking so quiet.
I have never experienced or watched someone being treated like this...in my case I have been told I am "handsome" by some people that are not my mother (needed to clarify), even though I am kind of an antisocial weirdo, but I have never seen someone being treated so horribly before, or at least not in their face. And the anecdotes I have, usually the one doing such an humilliating statement or action is shunned or called out for that. They are treated like what they are, assholes.
This is why all of this anecdotes are surprising to me...is this an american thing? I always thought that what appears in american tv shows about the cheerleaders and the football players and the bullies and the nerds was all an exaggeration, but is american culture really like this???
Neither did I.
No. Like the video says, if you're unattractive, people just don't want to talk to you.
These are frickin brutal man… my life is not in the best place right now and yet these stories made me 10x more grateful my goodness…
I just need to look at myself in the mirror.
That’s all the signs I need, right there. Not being much to look at in general and also being chubby, I like to say „I have a face that is best suited for radio“. Gets laughs more often than not, sometimes accompanied by something on the lines of „you look alright“.
But realistically, in the Looks department I would give myself maybe a 4 out of 10 - on a good day.
Same I am also a 4/10
I was once told when I was a kid “You must be the smart one in your family” I actually thought it was a compliment till latter on I realized what he meant 🤣🤣🤣
When I was a kid we used to play tag with the extra rule of the floor is on fire at the local playground.
At good times we were like 15-20 people (boys and girls) and as you can imagine while some people in one corner of the playground were hunted the others were able to chill at the other side of the playground.
One day I went to a pretty girl who also happened to be at the safe side of the playground. When I tried to say hi and talk to her she looked at me annoyed and said 'I don't want to stay with you' and just left me there flabbergasted.
In my life I often was discriminated because of my looks but this one really hurt because it happened while playing an innocent game with no intentions of flirting to that girl. She just treated me like a second class human being not worth of her time.
Been there done that. By 32 you just kinda accept that you are below a 6/10 and start looking at other sub sixes hoping they figured it out too.
Then you realize a sub six woman can get hotter guys than a sub six guy can get women.
Blackpilled
Sad to say, but looks DO MATTER!
Trust me I know this personally.
Can I just say that I appreciate somebody finally playing a racing game in the background of one of these videos.
I was an ugly baby (currently recovering). Was pretty funny hearing my uncle tell my mom "i told you he'd look good once he grew up".
Yeah, I straight up asked my Ex if she thought I was attractive and instead of a proper answer she said "I'm not with you because I think you look good"
I have 2 younger brothers with a diff dad. I remember when I was in 9th grade some girls from my school asked if they had a brother their age, they said yes but when they saw me they said "oh, nvm". BUT I hit puberty and became a pretty decent looking guy but I feel like I became more humble because of the experience of being "ugly" when I was younger
What's your pf pic?
In middle and high school I was the girl guys used to dare their friends to ask out as a prank. It's hard to ignore being the butt of the joke constantly
For me this one made me feel very unattractive. My ex told me “you know if I wasn’t disabled, I’d probably never dated you” I asked why but I can’t remember what she said exactly, something along the lines of being able to hang out with the popular people. It just crushed me, made me feel unattractive
I realized that I was ugly when...
1. Kids said I was.
2. People think I'm OLD enough to be my 15 year old brother's DAD (I'm 19).
3. No girl approaches me... at least because I look good (one time I got approached because I was "polite" and I said yes... got ghosted and no date).
4. You get compliments for your clothes. People will say "your clothes look nice" not "YOU look nice."
5. Girls talk to you only because your male friends are around... (some of my crushes started dating my friends in high school).
6. NOBODY says you look handsome besides your mom or grandma.
7. People forget you exist even though you are literally standing RIGHT. THERE.
The last one very relatable
Now that I think about it my own mother never even once called me handsome or cute 👹👹👹
When you're female friend doesn't want to rate you and be "mean".
One of my female friends called me tall, she's 4'11
Yeah, little kids really will tell you anything. Once little kid walking in the park pointed at me and said to her mother:
"-Mommy look, this mister looks like a criminal."
I was supressing my laugh while his mom immediately walked another direction holding his hand. Fun times.
You ain't black, are you?😭
That balcony looking hella jumpable rn! ☺️
I once dated an asexual girl and she told me once she found me romantically attractive not physically. Now i know she meant she's not physically attracted to anyone but it still hurt to hear
you should be with her
try
Hey, she said you were good
That's more than what many have
I feel like it's because I'm short for a guy (5'5), bald due to my age, and if women found out I have ASD. Who wants to be in a relationship with a man whos on the spectrum of Autism. 😔
I'm almost 19 and 5'5, my mom tells me it's normal height but it definitely doesn't feel like it, I am short as hell
I feel fat, ugly, and balding, but I have never been outright called ugly. I don't have too many issues getting a date. Maybe I'm cuddly and some chicks like that?
yes they like you
I mean if your only issue is that your fat then you are pretty blessed compared to the people in the video atleast all you gotta do is lose weight and for balding part just shave it off or get treatment
How tall?
In 7 Years i can cast spells too! (Asuming whatever wicked memories i have of my early childhood, are just funky dreams i remember) Exited to cast the following:
- Homines abhorrens
- Radio Vox
- Cibus abito
- custodire e* gelu
- pati e* aestus
Actions speak louder than words. You can be assured that you're attractive all they want, but never being hit on by actual people does take a toll on a person.
I guess that's why I don't like most pop music, at least the ones about love.
Hit on or be complimented for your looks. Yeah. Even if you get compliments, it’s out of courtesy anyways.
When only your family compliment you. Never had a compliment from anyone but family and always feel the "invisible guy" when anywhere
I've been laughed at before when i asked someone out. Man does it hurt... ive found it easier just to give up. There's nothing in romance worth the pain ive gone through, and wouls continue to go through if i kept trying
This actually made me more depressed than I’ve been in a while.
Dang dude, wait till you discover the blackpill and truth about human nature lol
@@iiCounted-op5jxIt’s over for a lot of these men unfortunately
Fuck it go even further
When you're with people that make you feel alone.
I used to have an entire class that made fun of me, even the teacher.
@@kumara6665 And they wonder why that's your pfp and handle name.
@@Sanctuary_0 uhh ok obito named sanctuary...
@@kumara6665 Lol bro don't take it personal I meant as in that's exactly why my name is the name it is and profile pic because I understand you bro.
@@Sanctuary_0 I thought you were saying it made sense for them to bully me cause of my pfp and name
Back in middle school we had dance classes as part of our schedule, when it came time to pick dance partners, I always ended up with the broom
wish i would of faked an injury. girls hated me i had tons of acne.
If (by some miracle) people interact with you, they either want to make fun of you or want something from you. I call it a game of T or S (transaction or set-up)
When your mom keeps going on about how much she wanted a son with curly blond hair and blue eyes, give you one guess which thing my sister's missing.
I’m a dwarf and therefore the shortest guy anyone has ever met. Automatic L from birth
How tall are you
@@iiCounted-op5jx How tall is sonic the hedgehog
Never began
@@DarthForte7 damn bro
@@DarthForte7...wow
you always get ignored and not even looked at as if you're invisible
I have one. I was on a dating app for a time and was having absolutely no luck, so stepped away for a little while. I suddenly got pinged about a bunch of messages and went back on. Turns out the account got hacked by some guy who was spam emailing a bunch of 50+ woman. The kicker? He was posing as a young woman who was looking for a date for their 'dad' and, instead of keeping my photos on there, (I'm a young woman that isn't 'terrible' at taking selfies or so I thought) he splashed some stock photos of a 'pretty' girl in their place... And it wasn't even to cat-fish dudes, it was to cat-fish older woman... geez...
Thanks for the checklist!
to be unnatractive all you have to do is be me
have you been told to kill yourself by your friends for being so ugly? didn't think so
or me!! i basically look like a troll lmao
@@Silencer333damn IT must hurt
i tell everybody i look like the south end of a horse heading north
As someone with ugly duckling syndrome this brought back some memories. Damn. I was ugly from 4th grade till basically a year after highschool. I started to take care of myself and work out. The good thing was that it helped me build a personality and be more out going.
Looking average isn’t much better. You’re pretty much invisible to everybody.
I have heard people talk about my appearance behind my back. Got ignored when i tried talking with my relative...man they didnt even answer my greeting...got cropped out from the group pic with that same person...they dleted that pic cuz i was there...people always always always ignore me when am with a beautiful friend/relative...they only talk to you to know about others and people also behave rude if youre not good looking enough...
Looks matter...people say that personality matters more...but i think look matters more than that
I like how boi cant even drive a single lap around Brands Hatch without going off or completely messing up the corner XD
Honestly, I think I'm ugly but people say I'm not. Have never noticed being flirted with because I jus think I'm genuinely unattractive and I just fail to pick up signs of flirting. Once i graduated I found out a lot of girls had a crush on me in both middle and high school but gave up after about a month. I just thought they wanted to be my friend. A lot of them said they liked the "mysterious aura" about me when really I was depressed all the time due to abuse. Kind of funny, though. While the people around me where trying to make them apart of their world, I was thinking about 6,000 ways to burn mine.
The mysterious aura on ugly people is not being mysterious but treated as creepy. In other words, you look decent to be crushed on and not physically unattractive.
Imo I'm attractive, like my face is ok and I have a decent height 185cm. Problem is my bucket load of problems such as mild scoliosis, dcd, autism, and other ones I reckon I have such as scalp psoriasis. I don't think I will ever bother being in a relationship till I have my shit together.
I feel so bad for everyone in this video. 😭
I feel bad for them too, but also I'm one of them. I was told to kill myself cause I was so ugly
@kumara6665 Oh my gosh I am so sorry about that. 😭
@@kumara6665 same
the dude going for my friend is too relatable. now everytime someone compliments me im like wtf are you talking about, and its usually people i dont want to approach me 🤷🏽♀
Its always wise to remember that Beauty is in the eye of the beholder their is someone for everyone
What about people who get aborted? Or are hit by a car at 16? Couldn’t be someone for them, or there’s someone with nobody for them.
There isn't someone for everyone the world isn't so clean cut.
I really like making friends regardless of how they look and like if they’re mentally attractive that’s all that truly matters to me and that’s sadly really rare… I don’t think I’m that attractive but the many people flirting with me and trying to hold my hand or kiss me seem to think so… there is this odd societal privilege with it for sure and I for one really despise it because everyone deserves to be seen and loved. That said, many times I don’t receive love from people because their too stuck in lust… and that I’d say is a major disadvantage when I’m trying to find genuine people. It’s why most of the time, I don’t aim for physical attractiveness when on dating apps. But regardless of how attractive someone might be, anyone can have an ego and lust… especially people who think their attractive and it’s a huge reason I try to see myself as average regardless of what people tell me.
Let's be friends
The two most successful relationships you've been in in your life have both been with visually impaired people.
You go out and spend a bunch of money on nice clothes and it doesn't help.
I've gone through periods of being unattractive and periods of being attractive, currently I'm in the former category (the fact I was ever attractive to me means I can get it back, just gotta stop drinking so much). When I was attractive, believe it or not women approached me. In this period I had 3 or 4 women approach me in a 3-4 year period, doesn't sound like a lot to girls I'm sure, but for me it was unheard of, for my entire life before and since this period, I have NEVER been approached by a woman.
When you're attractive, older people will tell you to go have fun and stop hanging out with them because "You're an attractive young man, and you shouldn't be wasting your time hanging out with us!". Women in my social circle would sit close to me, male friends would be uncomfortable with how they're girlfriends talked to me (I never did anything to encourage this), and in general people treated me better.
When you're unattractive, you are invisible. I never really get treated badly, just not really interacted with at all. The only times it feels like people are genuinely upset about how I look is when I'm speaking to a stranger of the opposite sex. They'll generally just try to get me away from them as quickly as possible, if it's customer service they'll just give quick answers, if it's a group project they'll leave me out of the group text until I ask to be included. Also the "People will be uncomfortable when you make self deprecating jokes" thing I didn't even realize until watching this video. When I was hot, the same jokes that I always made were reacted to with laughter, but now I'm ugly the same jokes are met with "Stop, you're not ugly/fat".