Thanks for this video. I purposely didn’t watch that video because my now 9 month old STILL struggles with sleep even after I’ve done all the research and taken sleep courses. All babies are different. What works for one doesn’t always work for another. Sleep is a sensitive subject and can be very triggering for those of us who have kids who aren’t the best sleepers. I love your heart and am SOOO truly happy that you’ve found some tactics that work well for Luca. You’re awesome! Keep doing what you’re doing! 💛
As a second time mom I strongly recommend not watching the kind od videos you deleted. Every baby is different, every family is different. Some might have babies with stronger temperamets. Some might not be willing to give up breastfeeding. Listen to your intuition and it will be better for your child and you.
I think that is so sweet of you Morgan! I’ve truly discovered how tough the comparison is in motherhood. And rarely is it reality online. So the realness you bring is a breath of fresh air. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing this! I struggle with feeling inadequate too, in being a mom and with a lot of other areas. It’s not something that people talk about a lot so I really appreciate you being willing to share the same thing.
You’re not alone in this as a first time mom! It’s taken me 7-8 months to get back into the swing of life and even then I still feel inadequate in many ways as a mother. Gotta extend a lot of grace to ourselves and remember that a valley always turns to a peak eventually and the sun always rises after a storm. And that we are literally new at this! It takes TIME and that’s okay!
Wow, I really appreciate your heart in this, Morgan… as a mom who has a baby who doesn’t sleep through the night, I didn’t want to click on that specific video because I thought it would make me feel bad about where I’m at with my baby… even though I know all babies are different and this season won’t last forever, I still get depressed sometimes with my sleep deprivation and just straight up exhaustion most days… I didn’t know how much this video would encourage me, but it did! So thank you 💛
Replying because I see myself in this comment- I was in the same place as you a year ago. I cannot find words to describe the mental anguish I was in because my 3 mo old wouldn't sleep through the night, and because of the sleep deprivation. I did a lot of research on this and found that /SAFE/ coslesping on a SAFE sleeping surface, coupled with responsive parenting, and breastfeeding on demand was what worked for us. Now I do not believe that it is biologically normal for babies to "sleep through" in their first year of life, even often into their second... 15 months in and she sleeps great, but I figured I would mention this because I was in the same boat as you and would have avoided so much mental agony had someone told me about this.
Replying because I see myself in this comment- I was in the same place as you a year ago. I cannot find words to describe the mental anguish I was in because my 3 mo old wouldn't sleep through the night, and because of the sleep deprivation. I did a lot of research on this and found that /SAFE/ coslesping on a SAFE sleeping surface, coupled with responsive parenting, and breastfeeding on demand was what worked for us. Now I do not believe that it is biologically normal for babies to "sleep through" in their first year of life, even often into their second... 15 months in and she sleeps great, but I figured I would mention this because I was in the same boat as you and would have avoided so much mental agony had someone told me about this.
I have great respect for you and Paul for being soooo vulnerable. I REALLY appreciate your honesty and putting yourselves out there. I wouldn’t last a day on a UA-cam channel. Thank you soooo much. 😊😊😊😊
Wow, girl! We're in two different life stages (I'm 21 and single), but I feel you on so many different levels!😭 I feel so exausted, so weak, so dumb, so inadequate! My feelings of failure and unworthiness make me struggle in my relationship with God.😞 I've just been disqualifying myself from things because I feel this way. So much of what you said--feeling like your failing when you see your peer group thriving and being brought to your knees begging for strength to simply be able to function and get through a day--is exactly me right now! But that is the beauty of this, isn't it? It's so, so painful, but there's something very blessed about truly feeling helpless on your own and crying out to the Lord as your Savior--realizing you need Him to carry you even through little things. Thank you so much for always being so open about what you're feeling, there's something extremely powerful in that. It's so special and helps me so much to not feel so alone and pathetic. Praying for you!!!💖💖💖
Thanks for always sharing your heart and keeping it real. I Personally been very discouraged because my 7 month old struggles in the sleep department and I would get very overwhelmed and discouraged by watching or hearing about successful sleep stuff. It was more overwhelming to me. Take all the time you need! You always seem to have it together. And yes, feel inadequate a lot . Keyword “feel” gotta go back or Gods word and definitely pray to him for strength!!! But I think women in general are always hard on themselves about all the roles they have to fill. It’s ALOT.
I do the same thing, feeling like when one thing goes wrong everything is in shambles! I have been dealing with that recently too and feeling inadequate as a wife, friend, daughter, AND mom even though I haven't even had my baby yet (but I'm preemptively worried about it, and about all these postpartum feelings). You said that you had a hard time posting because you didn't feel like you had anything to give, and I just wanted to let you know that just saying that WAS giving something. It really touched me to hear that I wasn't the only one feeling this way. :') Thanks Morgan, and I hope you continue to come out of this season with hope and joy, and feeling more confidence in who you are! Thank you as well for the reminder that we can always turn to God for help - I tend to feel like I have to do it all alone until someone reminds me that I don't. :)
Hey Morgan, You’re doing an amazing thing raising Luca and being a full time mom! It’s okay if you haven’t posted on social media, you deserve to focus on being a SAHM and let Paul be the main income earner while your child/future children are young. I would encourage you all to consider letting Paul support and provide for the family so you don’t have any pressure whatsoever to post or create content.
I have so been there, Morgan! I have often felt inadequate as a wife, mom, & working, etc. Trying to balance everything is overwhelming at times. I’m sorry you have been feeling that way. ❤️
Saying hey, to say hey, you are like SOOOOO many mommas! I think you’re right about coming back too quick after he was born. Feeling “ok” may have felt ok, but there’s times in life to pause and that is very OK🙂 You’re growing and learning a whole new way of life ❤ And that is GOOD and WONDERFUL but also hard and challenging. You’re doing GREAT! Truly! So humble.
Loved this, love the way you filmed this too, just having an honest conversation. Felt like catching up with a friend. Really love it. I'm a mom of 4, had my first at 20 and did not know ANYTHING. I think after the 1st one we do have a bit more wisdom, but I feel like we have more grace for ourselves after the 1st one which makes it feels "easier".
I appreciate your caring heart for others Morgan! 💕 I think that shows maturity being sensitive to others. All of us momma’s are learning as we go. Even with an 8 and 11 year old, I have SO much to learn. Also, I relate to feeling really inadequate as well. I think God can use it to bring about humility like you said, but the devil can use it to bring shame. We have to listen to Christ and take those destructive thoughts captive. Another thing, I’m still learning to do! 😅❤
I relate to the feeling of inadequacy and this was encouraging just listening to someone else’s insights on that whole experience so thank you Morgan. There’s a quote that goes ,”Humility is not thinking less of yourself,it’s thinking of yourself less.” And I believe that perspective has helped me tremendously in my walk with the Lord. ❤ I so enjoy watching your content. Keep up the good work!
Thank you for sharing Morgan Definitely relate to feeling inadequate & My brain can try to tell me everything is a mess just because 1 or 2 things are messy at the moment. I know what it’s like to feel like you need so much help from the Lord to get through the day. It’s hard to find balance- it’s so good to have an outlet as a mom but it’s also a great thing that how much work you’re involved in will vary & depend on what’s currently going in your mothering role.💗💗💗Love & hugs to you.
I appreciate your honesty, because I feel like you described how I've been feeling as a new mom!!! Just inadequate and exhausted and trying to get through one day at a time. And praying UNCEASINGLY because it's been a struggle and I cannot do it without Christ! FYI, I watched your sleep video, and it didn't make me have an emotional breakdown, but it did make me think "I did all that and my baby who is older than Luca still wakes up once a night". All that to say, I appreciate you sharing your heart, because I know almost ALL of us mommas can relate. You are doing an amazing job, momma ❤
You are so real and I love that about you! And you are definitely not alone. I feel inadequate as a mom pretty much every day at some point in the day. But He is more than adequate, so praise God He carries us! You are doing a fantastic job. Take all the time away you need and feel no guilt about it.
Morgan, I appreciate you more than you can ever know..I’m a new mom to a 4.5 month old and I’ve been feeling the exact same way lately, like I’m just not a good mom/wife/friend etc..my baby had her 4 month appt recently and found out she has a rash, her head is flat in the back, she was crying the entire time and I just felt like a complete failure. She is teething and just crying all day and I constantly lose my patience and feel like a failure once more. I have to pray constantly for patience, wisdom and guidance otherwise I could not get through this season of motherhood. So often I have to stop looking at Instagram because all these moms to newborns make everything look so perfect/beautiful, they have time to make elaborate meals, have clean houses, etc…it’s very discouraging when I feel like I’m falling apart lol…I just love your realness SO MUCH and I wish more people would share their true feelings like you do. I love you so much girl, you are doing amazing and you are just SO appreciated. This really spoke to me and I rarely comment but I’ve been following you and Paul for so long and just wanted to share how much you guys mean to me. Thank you again for sharing!! ❤️
I relate to you so much when you talk about feeling inadequate and not good enough in things you do. I think we see a lot of people thriving in ways that seem effortless for them compared to what we think we would be able to accomplish (For me, past experiences and struggles I have cause me to struggle badly with this). As a mom, though?! Woo girl! Whooole different level, and when you feel you finally have it somewhat down, a new challenge always comes along because change is inevitable and you're back to trying to figure out new things! Take it one step at a time, 30 minutes at a time.. we are not alone, So many of us struggle to figure out our new identity as a mom 🥺 I pray God gives you the wisdom and strength you need girl 💜💜💜
Now I actually want to hear your take on the baby sleeping topic 😃 I didn’t get to watch the video before you took it down. Wish you well 💜 you have had a rough start on motherhood - it’s a joy to see that you are still standing ☀️
Omg yes girl. We all relate!!! And if you need to fully stay off YT for a couple months - even now - do it!!! Put your (and your baby’s) health first!!!
You are not alone. Mom brain and hormonal stuff is for real ! All you don’t have to be an expert or have it all together to share. It’s actually great to hear from someone who is humble and honest. Thank you! 🤍🫶🏼
Hi Morgan. Thanks so much for being real and sharing your heart and struggles. What I needed to hear. Am a currently single momma of an almost 8 month old baby boy. We are hanging in thank the Lord. But yes , inadequacy and dealing with regrets. But still working on being joyful in the Lord and being content where I’m at. The Lord is at work even when I can’t see it . But thanks again Morgan. You are being a great sister in Christ to me and you don’t even know me. 🤗💜🕊️✝️
Oh ! I Just wanted to let you know I pray for you and Paul just about daily. Your ministry has been super impactful to me. You and Paul are like a brother and sister to me and I’ve so enjoyed getting to be a little part of your lives ! Keep on keeping on ! :)
♥️ you are so thoughtful. I can completely relate to what you have said, but I loved your vulnerability and honesty on what you have been going through and how you relied on God to get through it. I dont have a young babies anymore but it brought me back and reminded me of those days and how hard it was, everything felt like a huge burden
I hate to hear you are feeling inadequate! You are NOT. The fact that you are feeling that way makes you the perfect person to give encouragement, advice, and to share your life because we have ALL been there and that is what is relatable and helpful. Would love it if you posted more ditl videos because I love seeing the “mundane” simple parts of peoples lives/motherhood. Like literally just watching someone get up, make coffee, make their kid’s breakfast. Lol that’s what my life is and it’s nice to see someone else in the same season. ❤️
Morgan, I commend you for sharing the reality of feelings we can sometimes face as imperfect Christian moms and wives. I completely understand the feeling of inadequacy and think it’s great that you continue to pick back up, keep trying and learning through it.
I completely understand what you are talking about. I can COMPLETELY relate. I have been out of work for nearly a year and a half. It doesn’t matter what I do, where I apply, I can’t seem to get a job. We have begun living off credit cards again after becoming debt free in 2021. It incredibly frustrating. I feel inadequate because I can’t get hired. I feel unwanted, unneeded etc in that aspect of my life. I was literally bawling my eyes out 30 minutes before watching this. I get you. I understand ❤
Don`t pressure yourself that much. You are amazing and I am sure you are doing the best that you can despise how you are feeling, that is very real. I am sure motherhood is not easy at all, it must be challenging. Ask for help and remember you are doing your best and everything passes :)
Hi Morgan! Dina here. 👋 I am so sorry you felt like you had to take the video down. I love watching your videos, all of them! 😃 I have a seven month old too, and I just though the video sounded so cool and interesting to watch. Like “good job Morgan! Let’s celebrate that!” 🎉❤😃 My kid does not sleep through the night yet. Some times I would love more “quality” sleep, but I also love breastfeeding and snuggleing up with my baby, because it is only a season. - So all of us moms (and momos) have different journeys, lets celebrate the good parts in each our different seasons, which look different for everyone of us. Thinking about Romans 12:15 - Just an encouragement Morgan, you are an amazing mom and UA-camr (both of you are), love following you and your family!❤️🎉
Hi, Morgan. Forgive if someone has already commented on this. Sucralose is the generic name for the artificial sweetener, Splenda. Ingredients ending in “ose” usually are sugars, but sucralose is an exception. Blessings and hugs to you and your precious little family.
It's rather the other way round, actually. Splenda is based on sucralose (but not pure sucralose if I understand correctly) and is one brand name that is used to market a sucralose product. (But I guess, some people might be more familiar with that brand name than with the substance itself.) And yes, you're right of course that sucralose is not a sugar.
Hey! First time mom of my own Luca and there are moments I feel out of control and have to give it back to God. God just uses this to hone my feminine energy which is flexible, nurturing, and persistent. Thanks for the update!
Hey Morgan! 👋 you're not alone! I go through different seasons of feeling like an inadequate wife and Christian. Lately I feel like the season comes and goes and comes back so fast, I feel stuck in it a lot of the time! Needing to ask God for strength to just get through the day is humbling, but also God wants us to ask him for everything! All the little stuff too. And it is a humbling experience, for real, but it also makes us closer. We can't even breathe the next breath unless the Lord wills it. ❤ take your break if you need! I was surprised how fast you jumped back into main channel videos 🤗 even if you need to take a break now that you didn't back then, you should feel welcome to! ❤
Heyy!! Kinda new here… but honestly once I started creating my faith based content on UA-cam every emotion you describe was me!!! I took a break myself and during that time just realized that the enemy was trying to make me feel so guilty and inadequate and trying to stop me from stepping out and encouraging people. He knows the impact little or big that we will have and so of course he is going to put those thoughts in our head. So yea, you aren’t alone and I feel like this is so normal especially for those trying to make a kingdom impact. PLUS your a new mama trying to re-adjust everything! So continue to give yourself grace. Continue to rest in our father 💜 He’s so faithful and understanding. God bless you!
I feel for you. We both had babies around a month apart so I relate to you so much. I feel like I’m not enough too so much of the time. Praise God He doesn’t expect me to be everything. You are doing an amazing job being Lucas mama. I hope you are feeling better ❤️
You’re doing a great job. I know I’m a stranger on the internet, But there is not a doubt in my mind that there is nothing you wouldn’t do for your baby. It takes time to heal from giving birth too. Not just physically. But mentally and spiritually. I’m 16 months post and still not quite myself. And that’s okay. Give yourself grace. Go at your own pace. You are NOT a failing anybody. You are a warrior doing one of the hardest things a woman could ever do. Idk if you’ve ever heard of the show called Bluey, it’s a kids show on Disney, however it is also very much created for the parents too. And watching it has helped me gain the important perspective that having kids means life will always be a little unpredictable. The show really gives great examples of how to cope as not just a child but a parent as well. Literally such a feel good cozy show that will warm your heart and make you feel a little less bad about being a mess. 10/10 recommend to all parents.
I've been there. I'm not a wife or a mother, and I think the pressure would feel even heavier if I were, but I've definitely felt inadequate at times. Nobody's perfect, and we're not all supposed to be experts. But just because we're not "experts" doesn't mean we're worthless or have nothing worth sharing.💜💜💜
I pray that the Lord strengthens and lifts you up my dear sister!! I can totally relate to feeling inadequate. Cling on to Jesus! He is your rock! God bless u richly!:):)
Very responsible and sweet of you to deeply think about the content of the vids you make :) smart, considerate women make great moms! God bless you and your fam in Jesus name 🙏
OH YEAH I feel inadequate sometimes. I felt inadequate especially during a big life transition when I went to college. It was horrible, I stopped dating this bad guy, I had horrible acne (lol), i was isolated ...it was a rough time. Self esteem was at 10%, but my Church had resources and prayers that helped me, and God...He is the only one who cares for me and offers mercy like no person could or can! When I felt and feel inadequate, getting close God is comforting. Now I'm in my early 20s and want to be a mom. your video is encouraging to me because motherhood is sometimes overlooked as being legit work but it definitely is legit work (feminists saying stuff it's unfair moms are not getting paid to raise their own children like their husband who are the main breadwinners...hmm). Thanks for this video. It makes me want to prepare to be a mom right now...even though I'm learning about how being mom is a struggle I want to be a mom. Motherhood may not be God's plan for me but who knows.... Just a journey, this life! Take care, Morgan!
yes i can relate girl ;( 17 months later and my son still doesnt live with me for complicated reasons. pregnant with my second child, excited but scared. still managing and figuring out my 2nd year of marriage. i am tired. we are poor. we are struggling. it aint easy but God is good and he has a plan. Amen.
Morgan, I have found that dwelling on social media too much is unhealthy for me and when I recognize I have similar unhealthy thoughts, I need a break from certain social media platforms. Facebook for me is the worst. Please take care of yourself. I would you be healthy inside and out. Social media I think is constantly making us compare ourselves with someone else and that can be good and that can be really unhealthy. It can steal our joy for what God has given us. Prayers for God to give you and your husband wisdom on this.
This was a lovely video, Morgan! You keep on calling the videos and things your job, but being a mama is your job. C.S. Lewis said, “the homemaker has the ultimate career. All other careers exist to support the ultimate career” and “homemaking is surely in reality the most important work in the world.” In this case, you are making a home by doing what you are doing. Do you think even with the best child of all, Jesus Christ, Mary had her stuff all together? Of course not! Life is messy, and it stinks, and it doesn’t make sense sometimes! But actually that has so much more meaning and beauty, at least to me, than if you had a perfectly curated life and a child who was as good as a wind up doll! Even if you can’t see it, I know it is beautiful, because God doesn’t make mistakes, not when He made Luca, and not when He made you his mama! Keep up the good work, Morgan! (Also, sorry to ramble on and on! I really can’t seem to keep myself to short and snappy comments! 😏)
Be easy on yourself! Every good (or not) thing that happens in our lives has the potential to offend SOMEONE. As parents, we are ALL just winging it and sometimes get lucky with something that works.....and hopefully what works for us can help someone else. I respect you putting good thought into what you post, but PLEASE don't over think....thats dangerous for new parents. Lol. Things change and go SO quickly with children that as soon as you think you have it figured out things will change again. I absolutely know the "imposter" syndrome of being a mom....I have three children age 18, 12, and 7....and I can absolutely tell you that even after three kids in, I still have the same worries that I'm not good enough. Get OK with NOT always being sure, that's most important. As long as you are moving forward with love in your heart for your family, you will be OK. It's exhausting and an emotional rollercoaster....but no one else has it figured out either. Much love and prayers for you and your family....stop second guessing yourself, be willing to adjust when needed, and love your family. Your doing great.
Taking it down shows how humble and wise you are in my opinion ❤ I’ve heard you say you’re dumb or you feel dumb in your other videos and I just want to say- you are NOT dumb! Do not let Satan allow you to think so poorly about yourself. God has given you a mind to speak out on theological issues and now marriage/relationship. Don’t let the enemy win by speaking those words out loud! You are beautiful, intelligent and most importantly, a child of the Lord!
Boy, do I get what you are feeling. Every time I think about posting something, there is a mountain of overwhelm to attempt to overcome. Which of the dozen topics floating around in my head do I feel the most called to talk about? Should I post a song first, or a speech? How do I state anything different or interesting that someone else hasn't already done? What about my age, weight, grey hair, absurdly outdated equipment? What about the time I would need to devote to filming and editing, especially now that I have to take care of my mother full time? All of this requires a great deal of prayer, as well as gentle self-care. I'm cheering you on, girlie, as you continue to journey on this new path of motherhood.
I always feel inadequate when there is a major change that I am adapting to in life. I hear you. You’re very thoughtful! We all need that reminder that we always need God!
11:31 what if instead of lives you guys do a super short bible study on certain verses? Maybe just fun facts/context of verses or putting it in ur own words --like light hearted stuff--- 12:27 oh true girl its ok to go on a social media fast at anytime , u can do it whenever u feel the Lord calling u to temp isolation
Maybe it would be helpful if you pictured yourself as a different person. Would you think someone else was stupid or inadequate if they weren't 100% perfect in everything? Then don't judge yourself on a different scale than you would judge others. Also, would you think that Luca was a stupid and inadequate baby because he needs you so much? If that seems ridiculous to you, it's just as ridiculous as thinking that God would think that way about you. 😂
I mentally collapsed last night about feeling like a dumb person, so hearing you talk about this very topic, and reading through these comments, it’s very special. Thank you🤍
Hey Momo’s! It’s a real talk today 💜 drop a comment if ya just get it 🙏🏼
girl you can do videos however you want! we love anything you create. mistakes and all ❤️
Thanks for this video. I purposely didn’t watch that video because my now 9 month old STILL struggles with sleep even after I’ve done all the research and taken sleep courses. All babies are different. What works for one doesn’t always work for another. Sleep is a sensitive subject and can be very triggering for those of us who have kids who aren’t the best sleepers. I love your heart and am SOOO truly happy that you’ve found some tactics that work well for Luca. You’re awesome! Keep doing what you’re doing! 💛
As a second time mom I strongly recommend not watching the kind od videos you deleted. Every baby is different, every family is different. Some might have babies with stronger temperamets. Some might not be willing to give up breastfeeding. Listen to your intuition and it will be better for your child and you.
I think that is so sweet of you Morgan! I’ve truly discovered how tough the comparison is in motherhood. And rarely is it reality online. So the realness you bring is a breath of fresh air. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing this! I struggle with feeling inadequate too, in being a mom and with a lot of other areas. It’s not something that people talk about a lot so I really appreciate you being willing to share the same thing.
You’re not alone in this as a first time mom! It’s taken me 7-8 months to get back into the swing of life and even then I still feel inadequate in many ways as a mother. Gotta extend a lot of grace to ourselves and remember that a valley always turns to a peak eventually and the sun always rises after a storm. And that we are literally new at this! It takes TIME and that’s okay!
Wow, I really appreciate your heart in this, Morgan… as a mom who has a baby who doesn’t sleep through the night, I didn’t want to click on that specific video because I thought it would make me feel bad about where I’m at with my baby… even though I know all babies are different and this season won’t last forever, I still get depressed sometimes with my sleep deprivation and just straight up exhaustion most days… I didn’t know how much this video would encourage me, but it did! So thank you 💛
Praise God! 🥹💜 hang in there girl!! You’re super woman!
Replying because I see myself in this comment- I was in the same place as you a year ago. I cannot find words to describe the mental anguish I was in because my 3 mo old wouldn't sleep through the night, and because of the sleep deprivation. I did a lot of research on this and found that /SAFE/ coslesping on a SAFE sleeping surface, coupled with responsive parenting, and breastfeeding on demand was what worked for us. Now I do not believe that it is biologically normal for babies to "sleep through" in their first year of life, even often into their second... 15 months in and she sleeps great, but I figured I would mention this because I was in the same boat as you and would have avoided so much mental agony had someone told me about this.
Replying because I see myself in this comment- I was in the same place as you a year ago. I cannot find words to describe the mental anguish I was in because my 3 mo old wouldn't sleep through the night, and because of the sleep deprivation. I did a lot of research on this and found that /SAFE/ coslesping on a SAFE sleeping surface, coupled with responsive parenting, and breastfeeding on demand was what worked for us. Now I do not believe that it is biologically normal for babies to "sleep through" in their first year of life, even often into their second... 15 months in and she sleeps great, but I figured I would mention this because I was in the same boat as you and would have avoided so much mental agony had someone told me about this.
I have great respect for you and Paul for being soooo vulnerable. I REALLY appreciate your honesty and putting yourselves out there. I wouldn’t last a day on a UA-cam channel. Thank you soooo much. 😊😊😊😊
Wow, girl! We're in two different life stages (I'm 21 and single), but I feel you on so many different levels!😭 I feel so exausted, so weak, so dumb, so inadequate! My feelings of failure and unworthiness make me struggle in my relationship with God.😞 I've just been disqualifying myself from things because I feel this way. So much of what you said--feeling like your failing when you see your peer group thriving and being brought to your knees begging for strength to simply be able to function and get through a day--is exactly me right now! But that is the beauty of this, isn't it? It's so, so painful, but there's something very blessed about truly feeling helpless on your own and crying out to the Lord as your Savior--realizing you need Him to carry you even through little things. Thank you so much for always being so open about what you're feeling, there's something extremely powerful in that. It's so special and helps me so much to not feel so alone and pathetic. Praying for you!!!💖💖💖
Thanks for always sharing your heart and keeping it real. I Personally been very discouraged because my 7 month old struggles in the sleep department and I would get very overwhelmed and discouraged by watching or hearing about successful sleep stuff. It was more overwhelming to me. Take all the time you need! You always seem to have it together. And yes, feel inadequate a lot . Keyword “feel” gotta go back or Gods word and definitely pray to him for strength!!! But I think women in general are always hard on themselves about all the roles they have to fill. It’s ALOT.
I do the same thing, feeling like when one thing goes wrong everything is in shambles! I have been dealing with that recently too and feeling inadequate as a wife, friend, daughter, AND mom even though I haven't even had my baby yet (but I'm preemptively worried about it, and about all these postpartum feelings).
You said that you had a hard time posting because you didn't feel like you had anything to give, and I just wanted to let you know that just saying that WAS giving something. It really touched me to hear that I wasn't the only one feeling this way. :') Thanks Morgan, and I hope you continue to come out of this season with hope and joy, and feeling more confidence in who you are! Thank you as well for the reminder that we can always turn to God for help - I tend to feel like I have to do it all alone until someone reminds me that I don't. :)
Hey Morgan,
You’re doing an amazing thing raising Luca and being a full time mom! It’s okay if you haven’t posted on social media, you deserve to focus on being a SAHM and let Paul be the main income earner while your child/future children are young. I would encourage you all to consider letting Paul support and provide for the family so you don’t have any pressure whatsoever to post or create content.
I have so been there, Morgan! I have often felt inadequate as a wife, mom, & working, etc. Trying to balance everything is overwhelming at times. I’m sorry you have been feeling that way. ❤️
Saying hey, to say hey, you are like SOOOOO many mommas! I think you’re right about coming back too quick after he was born. Feeling “ok” may have felt ok, but there’s times in life to pause and that is very OK🙂
You’re growing and learning a whole new way of life ❤ And that is GOOD and WONDERFUL but also hard and challenging. You’re doing GREAT! Truly! So humble.
Loved this, love the way you filmed this too, just having an honest conversation. Felt like catching up with a friend. Really love it. I'm a mom of 4, had my first at 20 and did not know ANYTHING. I think after the 1st one we do have a bit more wisdom, but I feel like we have more grace for ourselves after the 1st one which makes it feels "easier".
I really understand that your son comes first! If you need a break take one. I am glad that you shared your heart with us.❤️
I appreciate your caring heart for others Morgan! 💕 I think that shows maturity being sensitive to others. All of us momma’s are learning as we go. Even with an 8 and 11 year old, I have SO much to learn. Also, I relate to feeling really inadequate as well. I think God can use it to bring about humility like you said, but the devil can use it to bring shame. We have to listen to Christ and take those destructive thoughts captive. Another thing, I’m still learning to do! 😅❤
Just here to say hey! 😂 praying for ya girlie ❤
I relate to the feeling of inadequacy and this was encouraging just listening to someone else’s insights on that whole experience so thank you Morgan. There’s a quote that goes ,”Humility is not thinking less of yourself,it’s thinking of yourself less.” And I believe that perspective has helped me tremendously in my walk with the Lord. ❤ I so enjoy watching your content. Keep up the good work!
Can definitely relate to the struggles of feeling inadequate. Thank you for your thoughts:) Also, you are stunning, Morgan!
Thank you for sharing Morgan
Definitely relate to feeling inadequate & My brain can try to tell me everything is a mess just because 1 or 2 things are messy at the moment. I know what it’s like to feel like you need so much help from the Lord to get through the day. It’s hard to find balance- it’s so good to have an outlet as a mom but it’s also a great thing that how much work you’re involved in will vary & depend on what’s currently going in your mothering role.💗💗💗Love & hugs to you.
I appreciate your honesty, because I feel like you described how I've been feeling as a new mom!!! Just inadequate and exhausted and trying to get through one day at a time. And praying UNCEASINGLY because it's been a struggle and I cannot do it without Christ! FYI, I watched your sleep video, and it didn't make me have an emotional breakdown, but it did make me think "I did all that and my baby who is older than Luca still wakes up once a night". All that to say, I appreciate you sharing your heart, because I know almost ALL of us mommas can relate. You are doing an amazing job, momma ❤
Morgan, Thank you for shining light into our lives even when the evil one is telling you that you are inadequate! ~Powerful!
You are so real and I love that about you! And you are definitely not alone. I feel inadequate as a mom pretty much every day at some point in the day. But He is more than adequate, so praise God He carries us! You are doing a fantastic job. Take all the time away you need and feel no guilt about it.
Morgan, I appreciate you more than you can ever know..I’m a new mom to a 4.5 month old and I’ve been feeling the exact same way lately, like I’m just not a good mom/wife/friend etc..my baby had her 4 month appt recently and found out she has a rash, her head is flat in the back, she was crying the entire time and I just felt like a complete failure. She is teething and just crying all day and I constantly lose my patience and feel like a failure once more. I have to pray constantly for patience, wisdom and guidance otherwise I could not get through this season of motherhood. So often I have to stop looking at Instagram because all these moms to newborns make everything look so perfect/beautiful, they have time to make elaborate meals, have clean houses, etc…it’s very discouraging when I feel like I’m falling apart lol…I just love your realness SO MUCH and I wish more people would share their true feelings like you do. I love you so much girl, you are doing amazing and you are just SO appreciated. This really spoke to me and I rarely comment but I’ve been following you and Paul for so long and just wanted to share how much you guys mean to me. Thank you again for sharing!! ❤️
I relate to you so much when you talk about feeling inadequate and not good enough in things you do. I think we see a lot of people thriving in ways that seem effortless for them compared to what we think we would be able to accomplish (For me, past experiences and struggles I have cause me to struggle badly with this).
As a mom, though?! Woo girl! Whooole different level, and when you feel you finally have it somewhat down, a new challenge always comes along because change is inevitable and you're back to trying to figure out new things!
Take it one step at a time, 30 minutes at a time.. we are not alone, So many of us struggle to figure out our new identity as a mom 🥺
I pray God gives you the wisdom and strength you need girl 💜💜💜
Now I actually want to hear your take on the baby sleeping topic 😃 I didn’t get to watch the video before you took it down.
Wish you well 💜 you have had a rough start on motherhood - it’s a joy to see that you are still standing ☀️
Omg yes girl. We all relate!!! And if you need to fully stay off YT for a couple months - even now - do it!!! Put your (and your baby’s) health first!!!
You are not alone. Mom brain and hormonal stuff is for real ! All you don’t have to be an expert or have it all together to share. It’s actually great to hear from someone who is humble and honest. Thank you! 🤍🫶🏼
you’re AMAZING and we appreciate you! Keep being real & vulnerable because that’s like Jesus
Hi Morgan. Thanks so much for being real and sharing your heart and struggles. What I needed to hear. Am a currently single momma of an almost 8 month old baby boy. We are hanging in thank the Lord. But yes , inadequacy and dealing with regrets. But still working on being joyful in the Lord and being content where I’m at. The Lord is at work even when I can’t see it . But thanks again Morgan. You are being a great sister in Christ to me and you don’t even know me. 🤗💜🕊️✝️
Oh ! I Just wanted to let you know I pray for you and Paul just about daily. Your ministry has been super impactful to me. You and Paul are like a brother and sister to me and I’ve so enjoyed getting to be a little part of your lives ! Keep on keeping on ! :)
♥️ you are so thoughtful. I can completely relate to what you have said, but I loved your vulnerability and honesty on what you have been going through and how you relied on God to get through it. I dont have a young babies anymore but it brought me back and reminded me of those days and how hard it was, everything felt like a huge burden
I hate to hear you are feeling inadequate! You are NOT. The fact that you are feeling that way makes you the perfect person to give encouragement, advice, and to share your life because we have ALL been there and that is what is relatable and helpful. Would love it if you posted more ditl videos because I love seeing the “mundane” simple parts of peoples lives/motherhood. Like literally just watching someone get up, make coffee, make their kid’s breakfast. Lol that’s what my life is and it’s nice to see someone else in the same season. ❤️
Morgan, I commend you for sharing the reality of feelings we can sometimes face as imperfect Christian moms and wives. I completely understand the feeling of inadequacy and think it’s great that you continue to pick back up, keep trying and learning through it.
I completely understand what you are talking about. I can COMPLETELY relate. I have been out of work for nearly a year and a half. It doesn’t matter what I do, where I apply, I can’t seem to get a job. We have begun living off credit cards again after becoming debt free in 2021. It incredibly frustrating. I feel inadequate because I can’t get hired. I feel unwanted, unneeded etc in that aspect of my life. I was literally bawling my eyes out 30 minutes before watching this. I get you. I understand ❤
Morgan, don't worry. You are an amazing lady, wife, and mom! The Lord is faithful and He will carry you. Just keep positive!🙏🏻🤗
Don`t pressure yourself that much. You are amazing and I am sure you are doing the best that you can despise how you are feeling, that is very real.
I am sure motherhood is not easy at all, it must be challenging. Ask for help and remember you are doing your best and everything passes :)
Hi Morgan! Dina here. 👋 I am so sorry you felt like you had to take the video down. I love watching your videos, all of them! 😃 I have a seven month old too, and I just though the video sounded so cool and interesting to watch. Like “good job Morgan! Let’s celebrate that!” 🎉❤😃 My kid does not sleep through the night yet. Some times I would love more “quality” sleep, but I also love breastfeeding and snuggleing up with my baby, because it is only a season. -
So all of us moms (and momos) have different journeys, lets celebrate the good parts in each our different seasons, which look different for everyone of us. Thinking about Romans 12:15
- Just an encouragement Morgan, you are an amazing mom and UA-camr (both of you are), love following you and your family!❤️🎉
Hi, Morgan. Forgive if someone has already commented on this. Sucralose is the generic name for the artificial sweetener, Splenda.
Ingredients ending in “ose” usually are sugars, but sucralose is an exception.
Blessings and hugs to you and your precious little family.
It's rather the other way round, actually. Splenda is based on sucralose (but not pure sucralose if I understand correctly) and is one brand name that is used to market a sucralose product. (But I guess, some people might be more familiar with that brand name than with the substance itself.)
And yes, you're right of course that sucralose is not a sugar.
Hey! First time mom of my own Luca and there are moments I feel out of control and have to give it back to God. God just uses this to hone my feminine energy which is flexible, nurturing, and persistent. Thanks for the update!
Hey Morgan! 👋 you're not alone! I go through different seasons of feeling like an inadequate wife and Christian. Lately I feel like the season comes and goes and comes back so fast, I feel stuck in it a lot of the time! Needing to ask God for strength to just get through the day is humbling, but also God wants us to ask him for everything! All the little stuff too. And it is a humbling experience, for real, but it also makes us closer. We can't even breathe the next breath unless the Lord wills it. ❤ take your break if you need! I was surprised how fast you jumped back into main channel videos 🤗 even if you need to take a break now that you didn't back then, you should feel welcome to! ❤
Your decision was wise Morgan ❤
Heyy!! Kinda new here… but honestly once I started creating my faith based content on UA-cam every emotion you describe was me!!! I took a break myself and during that time just realized that the enemy was trying to make me feel so guilty and inadequate and trying to stop me from stepping out and encouraging people. He knows the impact little or big that we will have and so of course he is going to put those thoughts in our head. So yea, you aren’t alone and I feel like this is so normal especially for those trying to make a kingdom impact. PLUS your a new mama trying to re-adjust everything! So continue to give yourself grace. Continue to rest in our father 💜 He’s so faithful and understanding. God bless you!
I feel for you. We both had babies around a month apart so I relate to you so much. I feel like I’m not enough too so much of the time. Praise God He doesn’t expect me to be everything. You are doing an amazing job being Lucas mama. I hope you are feeling better ❤️
You’re doing a great job. I know I’m a stranger on the internet, But there is not a doubt in my mind that there is nothing you wouldn’t do for your baby. It takes time to heal from giving birth too. Not just physically. But mentally and spiritually. I’m 16 months post and still not quite myself. And that’s okay. Give yourself grace. Go at your own pace. You are NOT a failing anybody. You are a warrior doing one of the hardest things a woman could ever do.
Idk if you’ve ever heard of the show called Bluey, it’s a kids show on Disney, however it is also very much created for the parents too. And watching it has helped me gain the important perspective that having kids means life will always be a little unpredictable. The show really gives great examples of how to cope as not just a child but a parent as well. Literally such a feel good cozy show that will warm your heart and make you feel a little less bad about being a mess. 10/10 recommend to all parents.
Give yourself some Grace Morgan. You’re an amazing mom. I’ve had 4 children and they will suck the life out of you. You’ll pull though.
I've been there. I'm not a wife or a mother, and I think the pressure would feel even heavier if I were, but I've definitely felt inadequate at times. Nobody's perfect, and we're not all supposed to be experts. But just because we're not "experts" doesn't mean we're worthless or have nothing worth sharing.💜💜💜
I pray that the Lord strengthens and lifts you up my dear sister!! I can totally relate to feeling inadequate. Cling on to Jesus! He is your rock! God bless u richly!:):)
Very responsible and sweet of you to deeply think about the content of the vids you make :) smart, considerate women make great moms! God bless you and your fam in Jesus name 🙏
OH YEAH I feel inadequate sometimes. I felt inadequate especially during a big life transition when I went to college. It was horrible, I stopped dating this bad guy, I had horrible acne (lol), i was isolated ...it was a rough time. Self esteem was at 10%, but my Church had resources and prayers that helped me, and God...He is the only one who cares for me and offers mercy like no person could or can! When I felt and feel inadequate, getting close God is comforting.
Now I'm in my early 20s and want to be a mom. your video is encouraging to me because motherhood is sometimes overlooked as being legit work but it definitely is legit work (feminists saying stuff it's unfair moms are not getting paid to raise their own children like their husband who are the main breadwinners...hmm). Thanks for this video. It makes me want to prepare to be a mom right now...even though I'm learning about how being mom is a struggle I want to be a mom. Motherhood may not be God's plan for me but who knows.... Just a journey, this life! Take care, Morgan!
yes i can relate girl ;( 17 months later and my son still doesnt live with me for complicated reasons. pregnant with my second child, excited but scared. still managing and figuring out my 2nd year of marriage. i am tired. we are poor. we are struggling. it aint easy but God is good and he has a plan. Amen.
I can definitely relate to being inadequate. Compared to my peers, friends, other Christians, other musicians
Feeling good. Summer to explore le cantique des cantiques with the birds and stuff.
Sucralose is Splenda and Splenda is reallly bad 😅. I’m sorry you’ve been feeling badly ❤️
LOL I couldn't help but laugh. First there's wind but not wind and then an apparent construction going on
Morgan, I have found that dwelling on social media too much is unhealthy for me and when I recognize I have similar unhealthy thoughts, I need a break from certain social media platforms. Facebook for me is the worst. Please take care of yourself. I would you be healthy inside and out. Social media I think is constantly making us compare ourselves with someone else and that can be good and that can be really unhealthy. It can steal our joy for what God has given us. Prayers for God to give you and your husband wisdom on this.
Your so beautiful inside and out ❤️
You are such a blessing Morgan ❤
Could you repost the video with just your nap time routine? Or add it in another video?
Miss your videos xo
I've been feeling inadequate too recently. It's a struggle 😔
Sucralose is actually not sugar, but it’s not really great for you either in super large quantities, haha!
So it probably IS sugar-free! Yay. 😄👏🏻
Correct, not good. I think she is confused with sucrose....
I feel that way most days too it's draining and exhausting
This was a lovely video, Morgan! You keep on calling the videos and things your job, but being a mama is your job. C.S. Lewis said, “the homemaker has the ultimate career. All other careers exist to support the ultimate career” and “homemaking is surely in reality the most important work in the world.” In this case, you are making a home by doing what you are doing. Do you think even with the best child of all, Jesus Christ, Mary had her stuff all together? Of course not! Life is messy, and it stinks, and it doesn’t make sense sometimes! But actually that has so much more meaning and beauty, at least to me, than if you had a perfectly curated life and a child who was as good as a wind up doll! Even if you can’t see it, I know it is beautiful, because God doesn’t make mistakes, not when He made Luca, and not when He made you his mama! Keep up the good work, Morgan!
(Also, sorry to ramble on and on! I really can’t seem to keep myself to short and snappy comments! 😏)
Hey girl appreciate your honesty xo
Be easy on yourself! Every good (or not) thing that happens in our lives has the potential to offend SOMEONE. As parents, we are ALL just winging it and sometimes get lucky with something that works.....and hopefully what works for us can help someone else. I respect you putting good thought into what you post, but PLEASE don't over think....thats dangerous for new parents. Lol. Things change and go SO quickly with children that as soon as you think you have it figured out things will change again. I absolutely know the "imposter" syndrome of being a mom....I have three children age 18, 12, and 7....and I can absolutely tell you that even after three kids in, I still have the same worries that I'm not good enough. Get OK with NOT always being sure, that's most important. As long as you are moving forward with love in your heart for your family, you will be OK. It's exhausting and an emotional rollercoaster....but no one else has it figured out either. Much love and prayers for you and your family....stop second guessing yourself, be willing to adjust when needed, and love your family. Your doing great.
Taking it down shows how humble and wise you are in my opinion ❤ I’ve heard you say you’re dumb or you feel dumb in your other videos and I just want to say- you are NOT dumb! Do not let Satan allow you to think so poorly about yourself. God has given you a mind to speak out on theological issues and now marriage/relationship. Don’t let the enemy win by speaking those words out loud! You are beautiful, intelligent and most importantly, a child of the Lord!
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Hey Morgan! 👋💐
Boy, do I get what you are feeling. Every time I think about posting something, there is a mountain of overwhelm to attempt to overcome. Which of the dozen topics floating around in my head do I feel the most called to talk about? Should I post a song first, or a speech? How do I state anything different or interesting that someone else hasn't already done? What about my age, weight, grey hair, absurdly outdated equipment? What about the time I would need to devote to filming and editing, especially now that I have to take care of my mother full time?
All of this requires a great deal of prayer, as well as gentle self-care.
I'm cheering you on, girlie, as you continue to journey on this new path of motherhood.
I always feel inadequate when there is a major change that I am adapting to in life. I hear you. You’re very thoughtful! We all need that reminder that we always need God!
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Hey!!! You’re so cute!!! You’re not alone and don’t feel obligated to post if you don’t want to. Healing will come. With Jesus 😊
My son didn't remotely sleep until like 26 months. It was bad! But he's 11.5 now and sleeps amazing! 😂❤
I think it was the right move
sucralose is not sugar
Pray,Repent and Stay in GODS Word Daily....JESUS CHRIST is the Only way ❤
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Maybe it’s postpartum hormones?
11:31 what if instead of lives you guys do a super short bible study on certain verses? Maybe just fun facts/context of verses or putting it in ur own words --like light hearted stuff--- 12:27 oh true girl its ok to go on a social media fast at anytime , u can do it whenever u feel the Lord calling u to temp isolation
now's the time SwEeTiE heh heh 3:47 😂
Maybe it would be helpful if you pictured yourself as a different person. Would you think someone else was stupid or inadequate if they weren't 100% perfect in everything? Then don't judge yourself on a different scale than you would judge others. Also, would you think that Luca was a stupid and inadequate baby because he needs you so much? If that seems ridiculous to you, it's just as ridiculous as thinking that God would think that way about you. 😂
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I mentally collapsed last night about feeling like a dumb person, so hearing you talk about this very topic, and reading through these comments, it’s very special. Thank you🤍