There’s No Crying in Cross Stitch - Flosstube 25.5 -March 26, 2024
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- Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
- Just the ramblings of me on my way home from work today…didn’t mean to get emotional but it’s always good to remember where you’ve been at different times in your life!
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Thanks for the heartfelt message. I've been without lots of times, but always had lots of love. I don't care what you have as long as you're happy. Cross stitch has been a lifesaver for me. I lost my daddy(who raised me)to cancer in '89 and my 3 yr old grandson in a tragic accident in 2020. People need to stop judging, because they don't know what you have been through and be thankful for the joy you bring to so many. God Bless You!
Best video of the day!!! Thank you.
Oh my gosh this touched my heart so much and I really needed to hear it today. Brings back memories of a time when my husband and I scrounged through seat cushions and compartments to find exactly $1.00 in change so we could split a McDonalds cheeseburger. No fries. No drink. And how blessed we are today to be able to enjoy our hobbies.
You’re so right. Do what makes you happy and use the tools that bring you joy and that are right for you in your circumstance. Doesn’t matter if it’s fancy floss or DMC; or what scissors you use. They all cut floss.
I appreciate you and you’re sharing today. So wish I lived closer; would love to hang out and have fun with y’all.
Happy Easter!
All the love, enjoy those blessings.
I just love you!!! And I'm glad you got those special scissors. And it doesn't bother me in the least that you wish for all of us to own a pair. I'm sure if you could buy us all a pair you would. You do you!!! And I love u for it!!!❤
Love you two ladies also!!!!❤
Hi sweetheart. Still trying to catch up on older videos. I can't believe how rural it is where you live - Alabama the Beautiful!! Love all your videos.
What a sweet message! ❤
enjoyed coming along for the drive...I think I was a dog in a former life...cause I love a good car ride :)
Christy…… been in your shoes before. There’s nothing wrong with what you have or don’t have. No one is here to judge and if they do they can find another road to travel. You are very genuine and sweet. Have a wonderful week and Happy Easter……Debbie
Good talk 😉. I’m happy you addressed the range of comments on all the cross stitching “stuff”. Your story of the $5 pizza with your daughter illustrates being grateful for what you have 🥰, and one you will always carry with you. It took me awhile to realize (& mainly due to my increasing faith in God) that there will always be those who have more than me & those that have less…. But none of the “stuff” guarantees a happier life. We cannot take any of it with us. We are only here for a short time. So as you said, if you enjoy it & can afford it - buy it. That’s each of our decision. Plus we often make things for others, and that brings them joy! However we shouldn’t boast or brag, or put anyone down if they don’t or can’t have the “stuff”. Also as you said, this is a wonderful, supportive community (I’ve never met anyone in person, but I know this by watching, listening, & learning from all on-line). FlossTubers are our teachers…. We can learn through what you do & what you have. And there are many who have more than they will use & share with others 😍. Anyway, good talk. You & Callie are special stitchy friends we who watch you know your hearts. You are good people 🥰. Bless you both!
I wish you and your family a Happy Easter and as for finding all the eggs, ha ha, we don’t have any little ones visiting any more so the errant Easter egg in the grass is no longer a problem. I do miss those happy times though when my seven grandkids would come to do a hunt in our front yard and the one egg had a five dollar bill inside!! My baby brother who passed away some years ago would fill that golden egg and smile so big when the first child found it! They talk about it to this day as grown adults!! Family times and good memories last a long time❤ Had me tearing up with your pizza story too! We never should take our blessings in life for granted and so glad you had that five dollar bill that day for a sweet memory to cherish🤗
Bless your heart honey your the best, Keep up the great work.
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Love you!
Thanks for sharing your love of this fun craft. I’ve never been to a retreat but I’d love to go to one. And I love me some Holly “Ho” too ❤
Well said. Thank you.
Well yes, there is crying in cross stitch! You had me crying with your story, remembering the time i scroundged thru the house to find enough change to walk into WM (this was before they had DG every half mile) and buy 1 tube of toothpaste, nothing else. If anyone out there cannot relate, then get on your knees and thank God you didnt have to put your kids through that!! As to our stash and stuff, there is a place for all of us in this community. We cant all be youtubers, if i were i would have no haul for months at a time and most of my patterns would be free stuff i find online! But i love watching all the youtubers and seeing all the things that are out there. I get jealous from time to time, its just a bit of envy, but nothing that prompts anger!! Some of us are doers, most of us are watchers, we all have a place and a calling. Just enjoy where you are with what you have, life has a way of changing on a dime! Love you Christy and Callie, keep on keeping on, the majority of us appreciate your time with us!!
Your story hits home from a time I could not treat my kids to a meal out. but we still had a special love between us and were blessed with good health. You need to grab on to the positive in life and hold those moments dear.
Girl, I’m right there with you. I was a single mom when my kids were little and we were so poor, looking back on it I can’t even get my head wrapped around it and I have some incredible stories that I’d share with you sometime if we ever meet up in person. I’ve been there so glad those times are behind me but it does structure into the people that we are today. The kind of people who can be truly humble and truly happy with very little and also thankful for everything we have. Love you girl.❤
grateful for you too 💔
My best friend taught me about doing what makes you happy. I appreciated that so much because when I question myself about wanting to do something or thinking about something I have done, I stop and think about her and ask myself, does it make you happy. Thanks for sharing that because hopefully others will think about it and take it heart. It’s a wonderful philosophy to live by. Wish had I had learned it years ago. Thanks for sharing your story about your daughter and the pizza. I’ve had times like that in the past and it reminded me to really remember how nice my life is now and to appreciate it. I hope you have better days ahead and enjoy your weekend.
Very well said. IT's the same with quilting. I've seen some put down people that bought fabric from Walmart. I've bought fabric from WM and from the fabric stops. Nothing wrong with either one. If you can afford expensive shops great. If you can't use what you have. It's all about the craft and what you enjoy doing. Enjoyed your mini you tube but missed Callie!!!
I love to watch you ladies, and I’ve been there with you when we were younger I would sew stuff together because I couldn’t afford clothes the kids always got first , now the kids are grown we can afford nicer stuff and like you I appreciate everything I can buy and let me tell you I LOVE to see what you and Callie buy,,, the patterns the bags the scissors gives me great ideas x if anyone has a problem it’s their problem and you work hard and deserve everything have a great Easter love to you both xx
What a sweet message you left with me Christy 🥲 Thank you
What a sweet story you told at the end of your video. Many parents have had similar situations. You are not alone. I love that it is a good memory for you.
I feel like you do. I have friends that choose to not spend lots of money on supplies, either by necessity or by choice. I have the ability to spend a bit more and I do. To each her own. No one should try to make others feel bad just because of how much money they spend. I look at it as supporting small businesses. Love you girls!
Thank you for sharing with us Christy! So sorry that your day started out a bit rough, but so glad things improved and the sun was shining on your way home. I love watching flosstube, but when I first started watching some of the videos I felt like I “needed” all of the shiny things, and all of the linens, treads, stickers, charts, well, you get the idea. I soon realized that I have way more than I’ll ever need or will have the time to finish! And it became obvious that no matter how hard I tried, I would never be able to “catch up” with someone else! There is no need to have something just because someone else does. All that matters is that you do what you love, what makes you happy, and what you can afford. It is all beautiful in the end! I just love you and Callie, thanks for being real!
If I purchase expensive needlework accessories, it’s a legacy piece. I have LE Gingher scissors that I have used for years….i have a pair for each one of my children. (Even my boys). They have watched me use them most of their lives.
Your comment was just fine, it just shows you love your Cohanas & and shared that joy with us. It was a figure of speech. Maybe someday I will splurge, but in the meantime You & Callie just keep being yourselves. Stitchers who truly love this hobby also love the x-stitch community. Many years ago we lived paycheck to paycheck, and one time I got the checking account down to 17 cents, never forgot that day. Hugs! 💞
Happy Easter sweetheart!! I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said. I have lived on Ramen noodles in my life, and I have traveled to Egypt and back on a 3 week adventure of a lifetime, when I perhaps should have spent that money elsewhere, but... My long gone daddy said, "Teeny, you can't take it with you. Live your life NOW." My poor hubby rues the day he met me I think, but he tolerates me for some reason or other (smile). Sending you hugs across the miles from NE Ohio.
I really enjoyed this video. I wish we could meet in person. I really enjoyed the scenery on your way home. Looks like a beautiful area. Happy Easter!
Thanks so much for sharing. I never think twice if someone says “you gotta get or…”. Why can’t you be happy about getting things you really want! Just sounds like jealousy to me. Your video was very touching. Thanks again ❤
You hit on a touchy subject, but I am so glad you addressed it. This is the same lesson we teach our kids growing up. It’s not about the “haves & the have nots”. You do you…if you can’t afford the pricey stuff, doesn’t feel like you have to have it to keep up. My situation was a lot like yours when my kids were little. It was more about putting clothes on their backs & food on the table. Now, kids are grown…we have better paying jobs, therefore you can afford the pricey stuff…sometimes. 😊. We told our daughter we could not afford to buy her a car, but if she got a job (& she saved her money) we could help her buy a car. Her very first job at 15 years old was Cici’s Pizza.
Enjoy the sun! Glad you’re ending the day better. You are a gift to the stitching community!
I understand what you are talking about. I remember when I didn't have any money and had to use a roll of penny's to buy some bread to feed my kids.
Love your car chats❤❤❤
I loved riding home with you today. You are so right about this being about the joy of stitching. I stitch on Aida and linen, and I stitch with DMC, overdyed floss, and silks. It just depends on the project and what I can afford at the time. I stopped stitching when my kids were young because we didn’t have the money for my hobbies. Girl, we have all been there at one time or another digging through the console for a few dollars to afford a meal/snack for our kids. That’s those sweet momma memories we hold onto when they’re grown. Love you 😍
Loved the "on the roll" video. Felt like I was there with you. I've had omg days also. Thanks for the share. 😊 By the way I bought 2 pairs of Cohanas. I've never used them. I use Ginghers multi pack that I bought on Amz
Sometimes you just gotta cry. I cried some yesterday. It just needs to get out, then we feel better.
You are so right, sometimes we feel like we have to keep up with the Joneses. Thanks so much for addressing this. I’m so grateful to have a love for this hobby because I then get to know wonderful people like you and Callie! So sorry for your rough day! I wish I could go to stitch con but haven’t worked up the nerve to attend a big retreat yet. I am going to an open stitch next week so this list is so timely - thanks for doing a run down. I do think I need the Halo Bolt, it looks perfect and I love your back pack! Hugs and blessings on your coming week sweet friend! ❤
It's a blessing to have joy in our stitching and contentment in our lives. Stitching is a gift we have to share.
Youre so right. ❤
Hi Christy, thank u for sharing your story about u and Whitney I think we all have had something like that happen in our life’s and we can relate to it. I just want to say u have such a big kind heart and sweet spirit and I’m so glad that I came across your floss bossin cousins channel u and Callie r special ladies or heifers as u say and I enjoy u both so much, big hugs and Happy Easter Christy enjoy your family. 🩷🩷🩷🪡🧵🐰🐣🐥
Thank you for sharing your story❤ I recently found this Hobby 4 months ago and I absolutely love it. I have watched so many flosstubes , that I feel like I know you all personally 😅. Have a beautiful blessed Easter 🐣 🐇💐
Hugs and kisses and Pizza Pizza!
You are so beautiful
Thank you for sharing your life and your love of stitching
You and Cali make me laugh while I stitch along with you
I am so sorry you had a rough day! I knew when you said that you were just kidding. I remember a time when my children were young that we didn't have money for extras. I was with a man that put himself first. I worked as a HHA at the time. I always kept $5 in my wallet just in case. I had to work a night shift and didn't get the chance to eat because I was at a school function with my daughter. On my way I said I have $5 in my wallet and will stop at McDonald's and get a happy meal. I could afford that and could eat it on my way. Well, I pulled up ordered my food, went to the next window to pay, and my money was gone. That bastard had took my money! It's ok. I now have a wonderful husband that gives me anything that I want or need. Lessons=blessings ❤
Happy Easter to you
You and Callie bring me joy! I love you guys ❤
Thank you for sharing your pizza story.
Christy, thanks for sharing your love of stitching with all of us. I know both you and Callie have blessed me with all of your cousin fun. Thanks for sharing such a timely message. Have a blessed Easter, Janine
You (and Ilbert when she’s around☺️) make me so happy Miss Christy!!! Thank you for sharing your heart with us - it’s a beautiful one! 😘
Thanks for sharing your ride home with us. I really enjoyed it and the chat with you. I feel so blessed to have found you!💕
Love your update on retreats, going to my 1st one in April Needle Bling Designs get your stitch on 2024 retreat in Bloomington Mn maybe stitch con in a year or two
I totally agree with you about the retreat experience. I have been to one, Stitchaway in Cincinnati and it was fantastic.
Christy, you are so sweet! I can completely relate, and I agree that you just need to do what can to make yourself happy! Thank you for your heart-felt videos. ❤
Sometimes life just tests us. We need to take a deep breath and let it go.
Take care of yourself
Amen ! You could not have expressed your thoughts any more clear. Life is too short to not enjoy what makes a person happy. Hope you enjoyed your pizza with hubby and had a wonderful afternoon - keep up the beautiful stitching
We need a car ride home with you often, maybe once a week?
Sweet Kristy thank you for sharing your heart and encouraging each of us. You have enriched our cross stitch community so much!
Thanks for the retreat info and I hope one day I can go to a retreat, they sound so fun!
Happy Easter and hugs to you and Callie!
Thank y’all for taking the time to do the videos and for sharing what we all love and that is stitching. 😊
Christy! LOVED this video! You’re a treasure!
Girl, you had me crying…those sweet memories of our past make us who we are!! And let’s talk, there was nothing wrong with your comment! Being a Southern girl myself, I completely understand where you were coming from with your comment! Sometimes people just try to make more of what is said than needs to be! You just continue being the sweet person that you are and sharing your love of cross stitch with all of us!😊❤
What a dear, wonderful friend you are to everyone. ❤️
Christy, thank you for sharing your heart with us! What a sweet and important message!
Aww, you are so sweet! I remember days like that in my past. A lot to be grateful for. Happy Easter 😊
You heifer, you made me cry before I left for work. It makes you appreciate what you have when you come from nothing. I thought I was the only one who had morning like yours. When it rains, it pours. Love you lady. Keep up the good work. I hope I can meet you two one day.
Girlfriend I have been there. God has always provided what I needed. I thankful for all that He has provided me and to be able to enjoy such a beautiful hobby I am thankful. We appreciate it more when we have been through tuff times it means more ❤❤
I enjoyed sharing your ride home. It's so true that some stitchers feel like they have to keep up with all the new "shiny" things. Do what make you happy whether you want to splurge or not. Blessings to you and Callie.
Love driving with you. You said nothing wrong. Have a wonderful week hugs.
Thank you for sharing. You are right that so many times we are pressured to keep up with the Jones. It is a good reminder to do what is within your budget and have what you love and, most importantly stitch what you love on fabric you love using floss and tools that you love.
Thank you Christy for sharing your experience.
I’m thankful for God’s grace seeing me through. Happy Easter, God bless. ❤
I cried along with you when you told the pizza story. There have been lean times in my life as well. I have found that the things that matter, don't cost money. Thank you for sharing yourself and your love of stitching. I hope to meet you at Stitch-Con in June.
Bless you friend! I have stories in my life very much like yours and I remember how it humbled me to see others who treated us like we were less than them because of financial status. Later in life, God has blessed us so much, and I try to be careful never to flaunt where I am today because of those memories. Thank God we live in a country where we can change our circumstances, with faith and hard work and God's blessing! I just wish you and yours all the blessings your heart desires this Easter season!
I knew what you meant about your scissors, although I don’t have Cohanas! I stitch on whatever I have, mostly thrifted or from estate auctions. I’ve gone down the rabbit hole of specialty flosses, fabrics, accessories, charts and subscription boxes. Still come back to my old Aida, DMC (sometimes even unmarked old anchor or unknown maker), and charts of old. It all brings the same joy. I’ll soon have knuckle replacement surgery, so my joy will be through everyone else’s stitching for hopefully only a few weeks. ❤ keep on and don’t worry about the sensitive souls that take your words literally (I still remember the messy shelf hater! 😂).
Enjoyed your drive home. I love hearing what everyone has and what they are doing. Retreats sound like so much fun and I love hearing about them. Take care and just let me say you and Callie make my day. Smiles and hugs.
Wow! You had a rotten day. I’m sorry. Tomorrow will be better. ❤ Thanks for the list of retreat supplies. Very helpful. Hugs!❤
Thanks for an uplifting Flosstube!
There’s always more joy in appreciating others successes . I remember a Mother’s Day where my five boys wanted a cheap hamburger. We only had enough to share two burgers. My boys were smiling and that’s all that mattered You’re a great person.
What a special video. Thanks for sharing your heart.
I have faith that you will have a better day. Thanks for sharing your story, i for one remember those days when you have to watch what you spend. Happy Easter 🐰❤🙏🏻❤
Love this video, you are a genuine, kind soul!! 🥰 We have been in the same position - scrounging up change in the console - it's family and friends and the love in those memories that makes us feel so blessed! Hope you have a great rest of the week!! 💖 I'm so excited to hear about you and Callie's stitchcon adventure in June 😊
I watched that Flosstube you were talking about. So much of it rubbed me the wrong way. Do I have Cohanas? Yes, but I like my $20 embroidery scissors better. And I certainly don’t begrudge someone who buys a $500 pair of scissors. Anyone who’s watched your channel for any length of time would know that you are a nice, kind and generous person who wouldn’t intentionally hurt someone’s feelings.
Even though we haven't met in real life, You and Callie have made a major difference in my life. ♥♥♥♥
Love you ❤️ thank you so so much for sharing your journey home with us all 💘 loved it so much 💗
Loved your touching story. Years ago, when we had less, I had a friend who was constantly giving us stuff. One day I said I would never be able to repay her. She told me I would help others when I could, that it wouldn’t be her that I paid back. I’ve never forgotten that. And it was way before the pay it forward movie. And, yes I help others as often as I can. I pretty much buy all the stitchy stuff I want, but not every shiny new thing LOL. Loved this video. Keep them coming.
Lovely video. Lovely message. Lovely you.
Love you girl! Your comment was just fine, we knew exactly what you meant. Enjoy your hubby and the pizza 🍕. ❤
I love my Cohonas and think of you every time I use them. I look forward to seeing y’all in Huntsville!❤
Happy to ride home with you. The pizza story is so special. Drive safe always.
I love you and Callie so much! I am grateful for what I have but I work hard for it! I do get jealous of the amount of stitching and finishing some people get done. I realize that I work full time right now but someday I will have more time. I enjoy stitching so much so I will focus on that and not worry that I can’t get as much done as I would like.
Thanks for the message about keeping up with the joneses. Glad the end of your day was better than the morning. What is half and half tea?
Half sweet/half unsweet
How sweet, Christy. Love you ladies. Stay happy.
Thank you for sharing your retreat tips. We’re headed to our first one in July. Love you Christy!❤
Dear sweet cousin... I wish I was there to give you a great big hug... and I'm not a hugger! We traveled from MN to Ohio, hoping to get to Keepsakes, but its not looking like I'll make it. Seems like an Arc is getting in the way. Life is about experiences and choices, some easier than others, so find the ones that bring you JOY! Love you!
Lawd honey, I could tell you some tear jerker stories about being poor. But times have changed and we have been blessed. No apology necessary.
I have never been to a retreat but hope I get to go to one some day! Thank you for sharing your heart Christy. You and Callie bring so much joy to so many and I always look forward to your videos! 😊
I can relate to being able to remember not having enough money to cover expenses, and like you, am always so grateful things are different now and dont forget what it is like to not have enough to go around. You and Callie mentioned the cost of groceries on your last flosstube and that's for real! I think of how people must be struggling (i remember shopping w a calculator when I was young, so i stayed within how much money I had!) Anyways, I'm rambling....you're so sweet. I hope you enjoyed pizza and sunshine! And hello from Minnesota! Im visiting the south (Kentucky and Tennessee) for the first time next week. Save me some sun....its been snowing here for 3 days!
❤️😘😘😘❤️ Love you sweet friend.
I love you and I’m so thankful for the Jingle Ball for bringing us together!!! Can’t wait for our trip to the Attic!!!
I love console money!!!
It definitely comes in handy sometimes!
I have been there right with you. Your story hit home with me. I know the hurt when you have to tell your little ones we just can't . So I love what I have. Do I splurge once in a while, sure. But I think I have earned it with all the times I have done without so my kids could have new shoes or a special surprise or whatever. I try to pay it forward now when I have the ability to do it. Keep on trucking and enjoy those scissors, they are something special for you and it don't matter what others think.
I would love to have the money we have now when my kids were small. Although when do we get to the age where they support us lol