A girl was loading her shopping from the trolly on to the checkout till and I was at the end of the isle. I looked over at her and whilst leant over the trolly she looked up directly in to my eyes for about 3 long seconds and gave the most sexiest smile I'd ever seen. Trouble is, Tesco isn't the right place or time to approach someone giving you signals right? And if someone says I should of talked to her, I am going to feel like an idiot!
You will only see these poses in ice cream or fashion commercials. Real women don't smile at a stranger, half the time they are A: absorbed in whatever they are doing, or B: fingering their iPhones. If you're real lucky, both of those at the same time. No woman is purposely looking out for guys in real life, at least in the bars I've been to.
you go the wrong bars ;-) well, I can tell you from my experience, those women DO exist...try this: when you're walkin' down the street, just smile to a woman. Most women do appreciate that and then you can see how she's smillin' back to you...just smile :-)
The eye contact thing about 2-3 seconds means she's interested? She could just be an Alpha Female. (woman did this with me, but she's had a bf for over a year, so wtf does that mean?)
I wish I had "dating" course, teached by you, in high school. That could've been the most useful course that I would've taken as a student. What a pity - it's too late now!
This is a part of the unnecessary games that women play with men. If you like the guy just say hello or start a conversation. All this mystery only leads to missed opportunities for both. Average looking women are being deceived by attractive women who will be approached more to play this game. Don't be a fool.
Theres this one who more than the other types of looks.. does the straight gaze. Like she looks at me.. and I look back.. and she actually holds the look without saying a word for a good 3-4 seconds. And shes not even smiling, or frowning, idk what it is but whats always been consistent is her eyes, shes got the type of eyes that just drills you.. like she makes them bigger. Anyway, she does this alot to me.
It's nothing. If she was putting something out there you would notice, from her hands or eyebrows.... maybe she's just a slow thinker. what's your communication like with her? if she does that with everybody then it's just her style.
That is such a twisted society. Girls are trained to show no feelings by these stupid models and think they must get even hotter, so a guy talks to them. But they just need to let some feelings happen. It could be so easy. The more I understand the more I hate what mass media has done to us. BTW: I don't need these big signs. That can disturb, too - because it feels like she gave me this big invitation. Just let the feelings (weakness) happen.
Peter aus Pattaya those signs don't need to be obvious, but if a girl gives you those kind of signals you should be equipped to translate them .. this is what all of Hayley is about
Women want to be submissive it's hard wired into them. Thing is you as a *man* have to make her feel OK with being submissive, that is difficult. Why? Because as much as women want to be submissive they are also very defiant and combative (biology and some other stuff I don't have time to go into right now), and for them to be submissive the *man* has to be worthy of them submitting too. Women want a leader, a _man_ , but women are also very strong (in many ways stronger) which means they will constantly challenge you and your leadership just to make sure you still have it. If you don't have it she will eventually lose attraction for you (you go from ALPHA male to BETA male. A BETA male is a dog, simple as that, a pussy whipped toothless guy) and she will become abusive, in turn you will become abusive, and the relationship will (if not crash) be extremely dysfunctional from there on . Also, if you are a weak or poor or abusive leader she will start to lead her self, thus fucking up the entire dynamic and eco system of the relationship. It's like dancing, the man leads the woman follows!!!! Not because she is forced (you cant force her) but because she *wants* to. When someone is a BETA male and have a girlfriend men like me swoops in, sometimes just for a few hours. If you catch my drift. You have to be an ALPHA male but also dial it down a bit when so is required when you are in a steady relationship. Calibration.
good explanation Eric u nailed it. but again u cant explain this to man, its either in them, or not, like u, u know it hence why u know it u can do it or u can live it or try to do it etc, but try teaching this to a guy its worthless i think
I meet a girl and I was talking with her and at one point she keep her gaze in my eye's so I did like wise and then she looked down and then looked back into mine with a smirk. Then she left.
Gee, I get a lot of those flirty glances and smiles from women especially the up and down look. I just smile back. I mean after all, those women would require alot of my energy
whats alittle strange is Hayley keeps saying women only use 2 tools.....but that might be women of the west specifically America and Europe...but in other parts of the world women can be more forward....ask u out for drink, museum , club and etc....i don't think men should assume women of the west represent women everywhere....there are exceptions in west of course!!
In my current destitute, despondent and depressed state, I left the house yesterday with hair unwashed and slicked back, stubble on my face, gaunt, and disheveled. Three women reacted to me with smiles, and one even came up and talked to me. From a statistical point of view, that was the equivalent of being attacked by a brown bear, a polar bear and being hit by lightening on the same day. Of course they were all hookers, but I still claim it was still an improvement brought upon me by adversity.
I’m a strong and independent woman, so I will hint instead of approach. It’s because you “love to chase.” You love it when we reject you. It has absolutely nothing to do with (her) being terrified of rejection. Yup, not terrified at all. Men don’t like women coming on to them... *whistle in the dark* What a bunch of crap. If you are interested in him, put on your big girl pants and go say hi. Yes you might get rejected but I promise you it won’t be even close to what the average guy deals with. It’s just life. Sometimes the answer is no.
How about this : if you wanna talk to a guy, walk over and talk to him.... we aren't Sherlock Holmes nor do we want to be ! When girls smile at me I nod and keep it moving... I'm a good looking guy so I treat women how most women treat other guys, INVISIBLE !!!
These ladies are very nice and they have attractive attitudes. Unfortunately, they're the exception and not the rule. This whole flirt thing is rarely fun for the average guy. Women generally don't notice a guy unless he's 2 points over her league. So an average fairly attractive guy of a 6 or 7 will never or very rarely get flirty looks from women over a 4 or a 5. Most men don't care much about 4's and 5's, they're basically invisible. There are also those attractive gals that usually have a name like Tiffany or something. Nice on the eyes but crazy. And then there's the ones that either have a bunch of kids or are too old to have kids. You often get multiple combinations of these things. Not trying to sound negative, but this is the truth. A woman will generally not show the average guy interest unless she has absolutely nothing left to offer except companionship (unless he has status). Many guys are actually more content going MGTOW and taking up interesting hobbies.
fuck me shouldve watched these sooner just missed out on the most beauitful girl ive ever seen in my life last week and i was getting all of these but i thought she was just being friendly -.-
we know men get the signs wrong, but women do too. Even the slightest thing. I was passing through this poorly lit area yesterday and I was on my phone (headphones on.) Some lady and I make eye contact as we're passing each other and she gives me this ridiculous look. I continue my conversation, but my reaction in my head is "WTF?!"
+anon annon I cant decide if your being funny, but if not....here you go. Soooo, it looked like you were talking to HER. Talking + eye contact= talking to recipient of eye contact. She probably figured out you were on the phone two seconds after you told her you were 'heading home to take a shower and would meet up later', and about one second after she gave you the weird look.
anon annon 0_o ah, yeah, I get that...that was kind of the whole point of my comment. Yes you were on the phone. You, also made eye contact, while talking. Like I said, eye contact + talking = talking to. Its been a fundamental rule in communicating since before we even had social protocols, its not going to go away in a night. Here, try this experiment. Stand with your group of friends, talk to one of them, while making eye contact with the other, and tell me how it goes :p
@Hayley You have very beautiful hands. This is what I always liked about women (besides eyes, smile, boobs and butt). Using hands while talking is so attractive and hands are so personal and intimate because we do everything with them, we eat, use tools, hug, stroke and cuddle someone or hold each other‘s hands while having sex etc. Often before I check a women‘s body my eyes are looking for her hands. „Big boobs and butts“ are so overrated, if a woman has stunning eyes, cute smile and beautiful hands then she already has my attention. And her personality and the fact that she likes laughing is what makes me even more want to talk to her and be with her so badly. ps: I like your videos 👍🏼 (English is not my first language)
this akward moment, when you realize: damn those girls are right. I just realized how many times this was true, the "If she spents more time to be available to you" or the "If she is being akward in a conversation" or the "eyecontact thing". Damn....had more chances, then I actually thought of. Actually some tips how to have a good conversation would be cool, as this is my sticking point :)
+swissy kokah not to mention, the moment, when she starts to boxing you. I think that wasn't an act of violent, more an act of: "I like you, let me give you a fist of love"
+swissy kokah I can give you my tip. I usually just talk about anything really:p Also it really depends on the person you are talking to, because some people suck so bad at talking and other people are really engaging in the convo and kan keep going along with you :p If she has no interest or cannot say anything more than yes no or maybe then usually I find an excuse to go away lol, or she defo wont be my girlfriend by any chance:p
The camera farted at 6:03 XD Great video though!
How did I miss this video of us? Look at my face I'm so in awe of you lol Love it!
I don't get a sexy smile. I get a rolling of the eyes and mace bottle.
A girl was loading her shopping from the trolly on to the checkout till and I was at the end of the isle. I looked over at her and whilst leant over the trolly she looked up directly in to my eyes for about 3 long seconds and gave the most sexiest smile I'd ever seen. Trouble is, Tesco isn't the right place or time to approach someone giving you signals right? And if someone says I should of talked to her, I am going to feel like an idiot!
You will only see these poses in ice cream or fashion commercials. Real women don't smile at a stranger, half the time they are A: absorbed in whatever they are doing, or B: fingering their iPhones. If you're real lucky, both of those at the same time. No woman is purposely looking out for guys in real life, at least in the bars I've been to.
CellGames2006 Fingering their phones--LMAO
you go the wrong bars ;-) well, I can tell you from my experience, those women DO exist...try this: when you're walkin' down the street, just smile to a woman. Most women do appreciate that and then you can see how she's smillin' back to you...just smile :-)
The eye contact thing about 2-3 seconds means she's interested? She could just be an Alpha Female. (woman did this with me, but she's had a bf for over a year, so wtf does that mean?)
'people often use their eyes to look where they want to go'... now that is good advice, thanks!
I wish I had "dating" course, teached by you, in high school. That could've been the most useful course that I would've taken as a student. What a pity - it's too late now!
Why is it to late
I always look at a persons eye when they are talking and then look down cuz it's just awkward staring at them and then I look back at them
This is a part of the unnecessary games that women play with men. If you like the guy just say hello or start a conversation. All this mystery only leads to missed opportunities for both. Average looking women are being deceived by attractive women who will be approached more to play this game. Don't be a fool.
I could tell this one girl was looking at me from the corner of my eye. And when i went to make eye contact she immediately looked away. What is this?
Well I still don't understand
Theres this one who more than the other types of looks.. does the straight gaze. Like she looks at me.. and I look back.. and she actually holds the look without saying a word for a good 3-4 seconds. And shes not even smiling, or frowning, idk what it is but whats always been consistent is her eyes, shes got the type of eyes that just drills you.. like she makes them bigger. Anyway, she does this alot to me.
It's nothing. If she was putting something out there you would notice, from her hands or eyebrows.... maybe she's just a slow thinker. what's your communication like with her? if she does that with everybody then it's just her style.
Fatal Wreck smile when she does this. if she smiles or looks away, ask her out.
How accurate is this? I seen a girl look at me, and when i pass by , they look down and hide their face with their hair
Your advice is spot on Hayley thank you.
Good tips all round. Thank you, ladies.
This was excellent! More videos on the topic of signals please!
Do men really need to hear this. This is human body language. It is intrinsic. It's more natural than spoken language.
That is such a twisted society. Girls are trained to show no feelings by these stupid models and think they must get even hotter, so a guy talks to them. But they just need to let some feelings happen. It could be so easy. The more I understand the more I hate what mass media has done to us.
BTW: I don't need these big signs. That can disturb, too - because it feels like she gave me this big invitation. Just let the feelings (weakness) happen.
Peter aus Pattaya I want to be the hunter and not the guy who came on invitation :-)
I disagree. I don't like having to be a blind hunter. I like it when a girl gives you a signal.
SuperYtc1
Of course. I just don't need a learned invitation - just the natural reaction when she is attracted to me.
Peter aus Pattaya those signs don't need to be obvious, but if a girl gives you those kind of signals you should be equipped to translate them .. this is what all of Hayley is about
I like the more obvious signals.
I have a much simpler system. If the smile is in my direction, it's fear, error, or gas.
Women want to be submissive it's hard wired into them. Thing is you as a *man* have to make her feel OK with being submissive, that is difficult. Why? Because as much as women want to be submissive they are also very defiant and combative (biology and some other stuff I don't have time to go into right now), and for them to be submissive the *man* has to be worthy of them submitting too. Women want a leader, a _man_ , but women are also very strong (in many ways stronger) which means they will constantly challenge you and your leadership just to make sure you still have it. If you don't have it she will eventually lose attraction for you (you go from ALPHA male to BETA male. A BETA male is a dog, simple as that, a pussy whipped toothless guy) and she will become abusive, in turn you will become abusive, and the relationship will (if not crash) be extremely dysfunctional from there on . Also, if you are a weak or poor or abusive leader she will start to lead her self, thus fucking up the entire dynamic and eco system of the relationship. It's like dancing, the man leads the woman follows!!!! Not because she is forced (you cant force her) but because she *wants* to. When someone is a BETA male and have a girlfriend men like me swoops in, sometimes just for a few hours. If you catch my drift. You have to be an ALPHA male but also dial it down a bit when so is required when you are in a steady relationship. Calibration.
good explanation Eric u nailed it. but again u cant explain this to man, its either in them, or not, like u, u know it hence why u know it u can do it or u can live it or try to do it etc, but try teaching this to a guy its worthless i think
Well for me it's going to be helpful about eye contact after I got a date or after approach
Thank you for the video by the Way
I just need to wink once in the club and girls are all over me.
most girls would never pick up on these signals.
I meet a girl and I was talking with her and at one point she keep her gaze in my eye's so I did like wise and then she looked down and then looked back into mine with a smirk. Then she left.
Steve The Man you took too long to ask her out. she thought you weren't interested.
That or she was a flirt and then she lost interest.
Gee, I get a lot of those flirty glances and smiles from women especially the up and down look. I just smile back. I mean after all, those women would require alot of my energy
good advice ladies!
Most women walk around with a damn attitude and a guy doesn't have a damn chance to start with
what if they don't look at you.?
whats alittle strange is Hayley keeps saying women only use 2 tools.....but that might be women of the west specifically America and Europe...but in other parts of the world women can be more forward....ask u out for drink, museum , club and etc....i don't think men should assume women of the west represent women everywhere....there are exceptions in west of course!!
yeah.. except I don't recall a single instance in the last 25 years where a woman has smiled at me like that.
wait there is a friendly smile too???!! it all makes sense now! :D
I make deliveries to hospitals and i wonder if the doc is into me i dont know if i should say something or what plzz help
It's spot on, but anything more to make it work?
So what's up with all the games
What about if she just scowls the whole time?
What if she's just acting to test if it gives any result?
Ah, but a question: how does one approach Hayley? She know the game all to well! xD
she can stil play it i suppose...
Why didn't my mother tell me this?
So if there keep staring at me for like 15 a
Seconds or more, whats my Probbleeemmm, Realleeeyyy.....????? ;)
I noticed a lack of 'friendly smiles' in this video.
6:04
In my current destitute, despondent and depressed state, I left the house yesterday with hair unwashed and slicked back, stubble on my face, gaunt, and disheveled. Three women reacted to me with smiles, and one even came up and talked to me. From a statistical point of view, that was the equivalent of being attacked by a brown bear, a polar bear and being hit by lightening on the same day. Of course they were all hookers, but I still claim it was still an improvement brought upon me by adversity.
I’m a strong and independent woman, so I will hint instead of approach. It’s because you “love to chase.” You love it when we reject you. It has absolutely nothing to do with (her) being terrified of rejection. Yup, not terrified at all. Men don’t like women coming on to them... *whistle in the dark*
What a bunch of crap. If you are interested in him, put on your big girl pants and go say hi. Yes you might get rejected but I promise you it won’t be even close to what the average guy deals with. It’s just life. Sometimes the answer is no.
Personally, I like the "Hi, there, How/who are ya" looks...
it's in the eyes
What if your busy?
I love smiling eyes. Like here: 0:15
Because most women want to play crazy goofy games
I really like your videos but it is very simple if a girl likes you she engages with you either with her eyes or socially.
a lot of woman use the eye brow raise (double eye brow) but they have boyfriends what they hell.
Exciting video :-)
This is just batshit insanity
she kinda looks like kate beckinsale, also british
Rebecca reminds me of Mrs. Slocombe.
YEAH SHE MIGHT LIKE ME..
where is Michael?
How about this : if you wanna talk to a guy, walk over and talk to him.... we aren't Sherlock Holmes nor do we want to be ! When girls smile at me I nod and keep it moving... I'm a good looking guy so I treat women how most women treat other guys, INVISIBLE !!!
But what if women never give you these looks?
How many times this has failed. It's turns out 9/10. It's just a friendly smile. Bye. Epic Fail.
intro song?
Funny video. Both are pretty beauty woman.
- quite something...
I think rebecca is hot. I loved your eyes, your hair color just everything.
Nice refused handshake/high5 at 0:11. Maybe you gave her the wrong smile. No wonder men get confused. :P
These ladies are very nice and they have attractive attitudes. Unfortunately, they're the exception and not the rule. This whole flirt thing is rarely fun for the average guy. Women generally don't notice a guy unless he's 2 points over her league. So an average fairly attractive guy of a 6 or 7 will never or very rarely get flirty looks from women over a 4 or a 5. Most men don't care much about 4's and 5's, they're basically invisible. There are also those attractive gals that usually have a name like Tiffany or something. Nice on the eyes but crazy. And then there's the ones that either have a bunch of kids or are too old to have kids. You often get multiple combinations of these things. Not trying to sound negative, but this is the truth. A woman will generally not show the average guy interest unless she has absolutely nothing left to offer except companionship (unless he has status). Many guys are actually more content going MGTOW and taking up interesting hobbies.
I failed...
fuck me shouldve watched these sooner just missed out on the most beauitful girl ive ever seen in my life last week and i was getting all of these but i thought she was just being friendly -.-
we know men get the signs wrong, but women do too. Even the slightest thing.
I was passing through this poorly lit area yesterday and I was on my phone (headphones on.) Some lady and I make eye contact as we're passing each other and she gives me this ridiculous look. I continue my conversation, but my reaction in my head is "WTF?!"
+anon annon I cant decide if your being funny, but if not....here you go.
Soooo, it looked like you were talking to HER. Talking + eye contact= talking to recipient of eye contact. She probably figured out you were on the phone two seconds after you told her you were 'heading home to take a shower and would meet up later', and about one second after she gave you the weird look.
+Memento Mori no I had on either beats or Sony headphones with the built-in Mic, so I was on the phone with someone.
anon annon 0_o ah, yeah, I get that...that was kind of the whole point of my comment. Yes you were on the phone. You, also made eye contact, while talking. Like I said, eye contact + talking = talking to. Its been a fundamental rule in communicating since before we even had social protocols, its not going to go away in a night. Here, try this experiment. Stand with your group of friends, talk to one of them, while making eye contact with the other, and tell me how it goes :p
@Hayley
You have very beautiful hands. This is what I always liked about women (besides eyes, smile, boobs and butt). Using hands while talking is so attractive and hands are so personal and intimate because we do everything with them, we eat, use tools, hug, stroke and cuddle someone or hold each other‘s hands while having sex etc.
Often before I check a women‘s body my eyes are looking for her hands. „Big boobs and butts“ are so overrated, if a woman has stunning eyes, cute smile and beautiful hands then she already has my attention. And her personality and the fact that she likes laughing is what makes me even more want to talk to her and be with her so badly.
ps: I like your videos 👍🏼
(English is not my first language)
6.30 what did she say? i didnt catch that....
Talaramama she said do what diddy diddy dum diddy do
If you call yourself in the intro an "expert" i just can't take you seriously anymore, sorry.
no need for this, just act yourselves.
EVERYTHING DEPENDES OF THE EYES I THINK....
I find it irritating that they both love to claim to be experts
What does it mean when a woman stares at you while she eats a banana? Just kidding, Hayley! You're beautiful and AWESOME!
What in bloody hell
I would love a 10 second video where you would show 5 seconds the normal smile and 5 seconds the sexy smile. But well women are women. :') xx
this is the most childish thing I've heard of. So these are supposed to be potential mates?
this akward moment, when you realize: damn those girls are right.
I just realized how many times this was true, the "If she spents more time to be available to you" or the "If she is being akward in a conversation" or the "eyecontact thing". Damn....had more chances, then I actually thought of.
Actually some tips how to have a good conversation would be cool, as this is my sticking point :)
+swissy kokah not to mention, the moment, when she starts to boxing you. I think that wasn't an act of violent, more an act of: "I like you, let me give you a fist of love"
+swissy kokah I can give you my tip. I usually just talk about anything really:p Also it really depends on the person you are talking to, because some people suck so bad at talking and other people are really engaging in the convo and kan keep going along with you :p If she has no interest or cannot say anything more than yes no or maybe then usually I find an excuse to go away lol, or she defo wont be my girlfriend by any chance:p
+swissy kokah also, ask questions :) Sometimes I feel that works too :)
male alpha behavior is about asking question and leading the conversation to where YOU want it to go.
I cant really say that im a male alpha, but I usually lead the convo yeah
6:03 And when a woman add a sexy fart to the sexy smile ? What should we think ? :D
Lol I heard that!!! They shared a moment!!!
See if a dude did this these same woman wuld be screaming harassment
checkout my toothless grin
flash some cold hard cash and you will get her to smile with both her lips.
hotter than kezia
Did she poot? 6:04
o k !