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  • Опубліковано 10 січ 2025

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  • @poky1958
    @poky1958 Рік тому +102

    36 years, i have lived with this virus, I was told I would be dead in 2 to 5 years. but here I am 65 years old and no plans for my future, because I didn't think I would be here, You are young and you Must plan for your future and keep on living.

    • @mulqitsani
      @mulqitsani 10 місяців тому

      At what age did you start treatment?

    • @Mech20900
      @Mech20900 7 місяців тому

      I start traitement before 7 months 🥹 i so scare

    • @munakay6914
      @munakay6914 4 місяці тому

      Aids isnt nice at all just a virus who eats your immune system 24/7​@Oula1994

  • @patrickborro2000
    @patrickborro2000 3 роки тому +85

    Beautiful soul. And for the rest of the people with HIV, don't ever forget that you guys are the same old you with or without the virus. You matter and are all loved by your family, friends and the same God.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +6

      Thank you so much for your kind comment. Sending love 💙

    • @patrickborro2000
      @patrickborro2000 3 роки тому +3

      @@meandhiv you welcome Matt.

    • @bladebrown4341
      @bladebrown4341 3 роки тому +2

      @@meandhiv First thank you for being so brave to share your story. Im became HIV positive because I was stab with something in my back on a city bus. The guy sitting behind me stabbed me with something, and I didn't check it immediately and the window period had passed. I was 41 at the time and never thought I'd have to deal with something like that. I made a mistake not going straight to the hospital, and now I have this disease. I thinking about dieing everyday now, and before this happened I was looking forward to getting old. Again thanks for sharing your story

    • @Ronny-Loy
      @Ronny-Loy Рік тому

      @@bladebrown4341 ohh really, so sad 🥺🥺🥺

    • @patriciarowe6685
      @patriciarowe6685 Рік тому

      ​@@bladebrown4341My heart broke for you. How can people be so cruel. Sending you love ❤

  • @thairs3141
    @thairs3141 3 роки тому +135

    I was diagnosed two months ago, some people dont feel any symptoms. I went in for a infection on my right foot that was caused by a bug bite and they couldn't find an infection source. I was then told they did a hiv test and i came reactive. I can still hear the Drs voice and the feeling of emptiness in my stomach. I wanted to end my life at that moment. Im lucky to have a supportive mom and sister who i have only told but not everyone is as lucky. Thank you for your story.

    • @thairs3141
      @thairs3141 3 роки тому +3

      @@Lee-1 years back before my partner and i started dating.

    • @thairs3141
      @thairs3141 3 роки тому +1

      @@Lee-1 and all these years i never experienced that really bad cold or flue alot of people experience when first infected. I was checked by my dr and they also said im lucky to not have developed the physical changes that comes with having hiv. Those changed being unsual rashes, whitening of the tounge, white puss or bumps on my genitals.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +16

      I'm sorry to hear of you diagnosis. How are you coping with it? Around 20% of people don't have any symptoms, and some times it can be years before HIV is picked up. I'm so glad to hear that your family have been supportive - it's so important to have that support around you. 💙

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 роки тому +13

      I had no symptoms. I got tested because I kept hearing that the guy I had been with had it for a long time before we ever got together and he knew he had it. After I broke up with him, he was gloating that he gave it to me. Luckily word got back to me but denial is a powerful thing and I waited a year to get tested. That was a different time and I was only 19 caught somewhere between a boy and a man. The good meds had just been made available, thank God!

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I'm now HIV negative, Dr Abiola cured me from HIV virus, Introducing a tested and trusted HIV cure to the world from #drabiola 🇺🇸💙

  • @tinacollins9213
    @tinacollins9213 11 місяців тому +13

    Matt thankyou for your story I’ve lost 3 men friends with HIV , people need to talk more about this

  • @juliorosales769
    @juliorosales769 2 роки тому +12

    This video is very touching, and helps clear the stigma around HIV! You’re a brave man, and a beautiful human being! We’re all proud of you for this!

  • @ryanblack2986
    @ryanblack2986 3 роки тому +68

    I can definitely relate to facing stigma from hiv. I've been poz since 2002. I was 19 then when someone intentionally infected me. I never thought I'd ever meet someone so evil. To those just finding out, you will live a long life. I've had it almost 20 years and I've been undetectable for the 18 years that I've been on meds. I just wish it wasn't such hell on dating! Not like I could accidentally give it to anyone since undetectable equals untransmittable. Wish ppl were educated about it. It's not so bad though really. Don't give up on your hopes and dreams in life and you'll live a normal life!

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +4

      It's so sad to hear of people intentionally passing HIV on. I'm sorry you went through that experience. I echo your comments - thank you for sharing. Stigma is still rife and education is key to challenging stigma and fighting the negativity around HIV

    • @bladebrown4341
      @bladebrown4341 3 роки тому +11

      @@meandhiv It happened to me last year on a bus. Something stuck me in my back and the guy sitting behind me was acting weird just looking straight. I should have check it out immediately at a hospital to see if there was puncher hole but didn't. I have been celibate for over 2yrs. I got sick in August with all HIV symptoms. I'm now positive. How could someone be so evil to stick some with a needle

    • @astiolagaga9245
      @astiolagaga9245 2 роки тому +1

      Wow, ❤️❤️❤️

    • @jamiefreedom8320
      @jamiefreedom8320 2 роки тому

      hiv can be naturally cured within the body within a period of time. This is directly said by the DOCTOR who discovered the HIV virus.

    • @mukisapius2635
      @mukisapius2635 2 роки тому

      I need your help

  • @petithibou1891
    @petithibou1891 3 роки тому +46

    I would rather have HIV than cancer .
    I lost my dad over throat cancer and he suffered terribly.
    You live as healthy as any people with hiv nowadays.
    Thank you for sharing your story 🥰

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +4

      I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. It's true, many of us do live lives as healthy as anyone else. Sending love 💙

    • @jamiefreedom8320
      @jamiefreedom8320 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PyPq-waF-h4/v-deo.html The hiv virus is curable and can be cured naturally with proper diet excises and nutrition, this is said by the doc who discovered the virus. he says we can be exposed to it many times and it can be expelled from the body over a period of time depending on the persons immune system. Watch the documentary the doc who discovered the virus exposes it. Im sure there is so much big pharma propaganda out there fear campaigns to get people hooked on the meds

    • @Tradewuthshivi_01
      @Tradewuthshivi_01 Рік тому +5

      U cannot compare diseases

    • @latoshaworley8239
      @latoshaworley8239 Рік тому +7

      Be careful with your words. Life and death is in the power of the tongue💯‼️

    • @djwolffe_OG
      @djwolffe_OG Рік тому

      Hiv/aids sucks, but there are so many worse things to get. Cholera, for one.

  • @doncrossfield7636
    @doncrossfield7636 4 роки тому +34

    Proud of you. You’re becoming the best version of yourself and you don’t even realise it. To the moon and back, pup. 🖤

  • @Luvforalll
    @Luvforalll 3 роки тому +11

    You’re beautiful inside and out. Thanks for being open and sharing, this helps others be brave about their life.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much, very kind of you.

    • @bladebrown4341
      @bladebrown4341 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv Someone poked me in my back on a bus in NY last year. I wasn't sure what poked me so foolish me didn't go straight the hospital. Then I got sick and 11months later I have HIV symptoms. I've tested several times since then so far the test have came back non reactive. A doctor recommend I test another 6months to be sure. I'm having white tongue sore throat, ulcers, weight loss fatigue.
      Edit... This happened when I was 41yr and I just turned 42yr. Never thought at my age i would be in this situation

  • @MustacheCashStash125
    @MustacheCashStash125 Рік тому +5

    I hope you’re still living with happiness you deserve. I’m rooting for you Dude!

  • @JimmiAlli
    @JimmiAlli 3 роки тому +15

    This is a very brave story. Good on you and keep well. We need to end the stigma.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you very much! We do, and we will end the stigma!! 💪🏻

  • @glyndarby4234
    @glyndarby4234 4 роки тому +17

    Thank you for sharing your story. It’s so important for people to know that HIV isn’t a death sentence anymore. Xx

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому +5

      Thank you Glyn. I completely agree. With the virus under control we can like a healthy and long life as anyone else 💙

    • @fransgolden1068
      @fransgolden1068 Рік тому +2

      It’s a life sentence

    • @marcK599.
      @marcK599. 7 місяців тому

      Yes and no. Some don’t respond to medicine and some can’t afford the medicine

  • @CharlesPieterse
    @CharlesPieterse 6 місяців тому +5

    Hope youre doing well brother. Im also getting tested for HIV next month and ive had sleepless nights over it. I havent had any symptoms and its been about 1 year since contact but im still scared shitless.
    I cant imagine how you felt... I hope youre doing better now and that you are coping. Peace

  • @jemportal4166
    @jemportal4166 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much Matt. You are so needed in this world!

  • @MargaretNgangaNetwork
    @MargaretNgangaNetwork 4 роки тому +17

    I subscribed already and am proud of you for having the courage to speak about it

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому

      Thank you for your support Maggie! I'll be putting some more videos out over the next few weeks

  • @lorraineslattery7260
    @lorraineslattery7260 4 роки тому +15

    Bravo Matt. So proud of you. Beautifully done xx

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому +2

      Thank you, Lorraine. That means a lot to me. X

  • @tchambers1701
    @tchambers1701 6 місяців тому +3

    I Just Truly wanted to Thank You for this Heartfelt Message😞 I could feel not just your pain, but also the pain you feel for others whom are less fortunate dealing with this global crisis. Again Thank You….❤

  • @Zee-ob1pe
    @Zee-ob1pe 3 роки тому +21

    Great informative video for those who are newly diagnosed or engaging in risky sexual activities💕.
    I’m having my own HIV scare due to a finger prick at work from a dirty needle. The sharps container on my medication cart was overflowed.
    I am currently HIV negative it has been a little over a month since the incident. I know the chances of contracting HIV is next to nothing but it is still possible. I haven’t been thinking about it much...I will know my true results within a few months from now (the body takes months to develop antibodies to the illness) It’s too early to tell.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching and commenting! I'm really sorry to hear of your recent incident. I do hope all is well and you receive a negative result. Sometimes it's good to not think about these things too much isn't. Just make sure to take care of yourself 💙

    • @mmaxud1319
      @mmaxud1319 2 роки тому

      How did it go? Plz update us

  • @elizabethjohnson4748
    @elizabethjohnson4748 3 роки тому +6

    I'm so happy you are doing well. Please keep raising awareness. I wish I would've told my friend to get tested regularly when he came out to me several months ago. When we found out he was HIV positive after being in the hospital for sever symptoms we thought he would eventually be fine too. Bone marrow surgery, blood transfusions and medication. He passed a week ago and I still don't understand why. Why him?! I miss him so much.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for you comment, Elizabeth. I'm so, so sorry to hear about your friend - I can't imagine how hard that must be. It's so sad to still hear stories of HIV taking the lives of loved ones far too early. Sending you all the love in the world. Take care of yourself. 💙

    • @Wisdomforthehour
      @Wisdomforthehour 6 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry to hear you lost your friend. I know it's been 2 years now it appears but I hope you are feeling peace today and have found comfort since then.

  • @asianwithacapbackpack3053
    @asianwithacapbackpack3053 2 місяці тому

    You are so courageous to have shared your story. Thank you. Much love and strength to you brother!

  • @veshzain994
    @veshzain994 3 роки тому +9

    God Bless you Matt and wish you a long and healthy life.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you! And same back at you 💙

  • @twigagawizard
    @twigagawizard Місяць тому

    I was diagnosed in 2018... I'll never forget that same feeling you had... my heart stopped and I felt so disoriented.

  • @ajeeshsurendran3701
    @ajeeshsurendran3701 3 роки тому +6

    Ur a brave man.... I loved the way u were honest about yourself and the health.. God bless you dear....

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much. Its important to share I believe.

  • @rooweb
    @rooweb 4 роки тому +26

    Good job little brother! Even if this video helps one person then its done a good job!

  • @siddharthagoyal41
    @siddharthagoyal41 2 роки тому +18

    Hey Matt! I share the same pain with you. I got diagnosed with HIV in Feb 2022 and the world seemed to have fallen apart when i got my results. But my doctors gave me hope that HIV is not the end of life as it used to be in the 80s. 9 months down the line in the journey i thank God , my beautiful family who stayed beside me in these tough times. And i am living a life way healthier than I ever did. Cheers to you, cheers to us ❤️

  • @key981
    @key981 3 роки тому +4

    God is leading you to tell your story I had to pause this video because it had tears running down my face. Thank you for posting :)

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much. Sorry to have made you upset! 💙💙

  • @Casper-ob1fm
    @Casper-ob1fm Рік тому +1

    Very brave man! Best of luck Matt!

  • @didequen3339
    @didequen3339 Рік тому +1

    i am so sorry to hear this and really really appreciate your story.

  • @ela536
    @ela536 Рік тому +2

    You are incredibly strong!! God bless you ❤

  • @JamieLofthouse
    @JamieLofthouse 9 місяців тому

    I hope tgis finds you well. Thank you for sharing your lived experience of HiV. This is important for education and highlighting prevention lile PrEP and highly effective treatments too.

  • @nailanoorkhan7370
    @nailanoorkhan7370 3 місяці тому +1

    You are so brave. I am a sexual abuse victim which stayed continued for years. Later, i came to know he came out HIV positive. That was painful. I got traumatized. I couldn't sleep at nights. It took me 16 months to gather courage to get tested. I came out negative. I wish you a good life ahead, matt. ❤

    • @JimmyF-q9o
      @JimmyF-q9o 2 місяці тому

      Can you help me

    • @nailanoorkhan7370
      @nailanoorkhan7370 2 місяці тому

      @JimmyF-q9o how?

    • @JimmyF-q9o
      @JimmyF-q9o 2 місяці тому

      @@nailanoorkhan7370 because i am going through same

  • @emmasamarasinghe4655
    @emmasamarasinghe4655 4 роки тому +4

    Absolutely amazing. Well done Matt x

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому

      Thank you so much Emma! X

  • @freezingcocacola7201
    @freezingcocacola7201 4 місяці тому +2

    You missed an important part of your story > what led you to getting infected because between the words I could tell you were not the victim of accidental infection e.g. dentist procedure etc. This is the most important part that needs to be said to others.

  • @M1020-e3o
    @M1020-e3o 4 роки тому +8

    Due to my HIV infection, I lost everything, I was dismissed from the university, and currently, also, I will be deported from the country and unfortunately, I have no place in the homeland because of that. it has been a year now and I'm not receiving any medication. How cruel is life :(

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому +6

      I'm really sorry that this happened to you. No-one should be discriminated against in this way due to their status. Is there a specific reason why you're not receiving treatment? General guidance is to start ARVs as soon as you receive a diagnosis

    • @M1020-e3o
      @M1020-e3o 4 роки тому

      @@meandhiv Thank you for your concern, will, I'm not receiving any treatment because I'm not a citizen. ( that's the law for foreigners). So I have to leave immediately, but because of the pandemic, I still have a reason to stay until I find a solution.

    • @growmance2191
      @growmance2191 3 роки тому +9

      What their doing is not legal as you shouldnt be descimitated due to HIV status .

    • @Damarleylaing
      @Damarleylaing 3 роки тому +5

      Where are you located ? Let me help you !

    • @M1020-e3o
      @M1020-e3o 3 роки тому

      @@Damarleylaing Thank you so much, I still in Russia

  • @sirenasirian4036
    @sirenasirian4036 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤you are so brave. Please keep educating people against HIV stigma!

  • @hamishpaterson2413
    @hamishpaterson2413 9 місяців тому

    Huge respect to you Matt! 🤝🤝

  • @luishenriques7246
    @luishenriques7246 5 місяців тому +2

    When I found out like you, a similar experience happened to me like you. The doctor told me not to worry, as I could live a normal and long life 🙏🙌 Thank you for sharing your experience. As for me, I found out three weeks ago 😔 I was a blood donner, not anymore.
    I'm already on antiviral treatment.

    • @JimmyF-q9o
      @JimmyF-q9o 2 місяці тому

      How are you now bro ?

  • @joellemansfield-osborne8182
    @joellemansfield-osborne8182 4 роки тому +5

    So proud, you are amazing and an inspiration. Xx

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому

      Thank you Joelle. 💙

  • @patriciarowe6685
    @patriciarowe6685 Рік тому +2

    I only just found your channel. Thank you for beinb so brave. Bless your heart. I have subscribed to your channel. Sending you love ❤

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 2 роки тому

    Your story is AMAZING!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING

  • @patrickmusera3450
    @patrickmusera3450 3 роки тому +7

    Its 4months now when tested hiv and lhave it ,started medicine in time ,ltold my wife and she run away ,ltold my close friend and now lsee he doesn't want to be close to me lfear to tell anyone, sometimes lfill lonely no jobs to struggle is hard,you wake up sometimes tired side effects of drugs lfill nothing to the world 😭😭😭

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      I'm really sorry to hear this, I can't imagine how hard it must be but try not to lose hope. you are strong and you will make it through this, then you'll come out the other side even stronger!
      If you're struggling with side effects, speak to your doctor and make sure they're aware. They may be able to suggest a different medication. Look after yourself!

    • @patrickmusera3450
      @patrickmusera3450 3 роки тому +1

      @@meandhiv thanks

    • @marklewis4647
      @marklewis4647 3 роки тому +4

      You will be fine I'm positive two weeks ago.. im still coping for my depression but im getting there... I can sleep now but not normal but im still thankful I get hours of sleep it makes me feel good and it give me chance that I can live healthy and happy.. im getting there... we can fight this...

    • @patrickmusera3450
      @patrickmusera3450 3 роки тому +4

      @@marklewis4647 that's good my brother now lam strong

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 роки тому +1

      When I first was diagnosed I made the mistake of telling too many people, it was freeing for me and that's just how I coped with it. I live in a small town though and all these years later ppl don't see me, they only see hiv. I've learned to stop caring what others think. Sometimes you don't know how strong you are until you don't have a choice. Use this as a tool to find out who your true friends are. Best of luck to you and God bless!

  • @a_latzz2993
    @a_latzz2993 Рік тому +1

    It's been 24hrs since I received my result, I can relate to the feelings you described, I got tested just to cover all bases, I had flu like symptoms, followed by a rash and sore throat.
    The rash was super itchy and thought it was scabies, when after treatment it hadn't died down I went and asked the doctor to test me for everything they could...the last thing I ever suspected was HIV, but here I am. And still have to tell my partner who is overseas for another 6 weeks...I think I'm dreading this more than all the treatment

    • @takeiteasy-g3z
      @takeiteasy-g3z Рік тому

      Damn.
      Sending all love and compassion to you.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  Рік тому +1

      Hey. I hope you are ok. It's a challenging situation to be in, but I'm sure it will be OK when you tell them. Just keep calm and make sure they have the information they need. Sending you all the love

    • @Factsunite
      @Factsunite Рік тому +1

      You are hiv postive or not bro?

    • @a_latzz2993
      @a_latzz2993 Рік тому

      @FactsUnite_ yes it was caught very early, my advice is if you have a slight feeling you have been in a situation that put you at risk and have any symptoms like fever, sore throat or rash...go immediately and have a test

    • @a_latzz2993
      @a_latzz2993 Рік тому

      @meandhiv thank you! Already on the ARTs and have had amazing help from doctors and counselors...still brings it home around medication time but I'm glad I went and got tested and they caught it early

  • @Luvforalll
    @Luvforalll 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. Love from Sydney

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thank you for the love! 💙

  • @spiritualnexus2449
    @spiritualnexus2449 3 роки тому +4

    We proud of you. Stay strong

  • @clinton8677
    @clinton8677 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi Matt. Thanks for your honesty and for being brave to talk about it. You are really a good and gentle person.

  • @bububella40
    @bububella40 3 місяці тому

    So scary,this is why I'm more than happy living my life alone in solitude 😔😔💔

  • @jamravful
    @jamravful 4 роки тому +5

    Brilliant Matt, so proud of you for doing this! You're a pro infront of the camera btw ;-) Xx

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому

      Thanks James! Haha - I'm not sure if I'd call it pro just yet 😅💙

  • @ridoyislam9126
    @ridoyislam9126 3 роки тому +2

    Brave story . Keep going buddy 😎

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much! 😊

  • @billymccaughey3741
    @billymccaughey3741 3 роки тому

    So thankful for your message. Live your beautiful life friend.

  • @goldenstormzzs
    @goldenstormzzs 11 місяців тому +1

    How many years does it take to be undetectable?

  • @انورانور-ز4ح7غ
    @انورانور-ز4ح7غ Рік тому +1

    Hi there iam glad that you are living an excellent live just have a question lknow you are positive but how long were you hiv positive before you fond out your results did you find out right away lknow people say after 3 or 6 months from a possible exposure so is this ? thanks

  • @Readyteddygo
    @Readyteddygo Рік тому +1

    Thank you for telling us your story ❤

  • @michealfarquharson540
    @michealfarquharson540 2 місяці тому

    Hello, how do you prevent liver toxcicity while on the medication? What is your diet like?

  • @key981
    @key981 3 роки тому +2

    Aww thank you for posting many suffer from this

  • @brocoteo
    @brocoteo 3 роки тому +4

    Blessings for you 🙏🏻🧘🏻‍♀️

  • @fernandocorreia5096
    @fernandocorreia5096 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks. I got hiv with 65 , 3 months ago . God help me

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. How are you doing?

    • @fernandocorreia5096
      @fernandocorreia5096 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv I m ok, facing some side effects, not important, but i am worried abo

    • @fernandocorreia5096
      @fernandocorreia5096 3 роки тому +2

      @@meandhiv worried about my health in the near future,

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      @@fernandocorreia5096 Have you started on treatment already?

    • @fernandocorreia5096
      @fernandocorreia5096 3 роки тому +2

      @@meandhiv i did . I ve started on 16th september 2021

  • @AyoMindset
    @AyoMindset 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for the brave sharing of your story

  • @ramfranc4357
    @ramfranc4357 3 роки тому +2

    HI there I am glad that you are living an excellent live! I just have a question I know you are positive, but how long were you hiv positive before you found out your results, did you find out right away? I know people say after 3 or 6 months from a possible exposure, so is this right? thanks.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Hello. For me, it was around 3 months before I showed symptoms. I can take a while for HIV to develop and become detectable, which is why it is so important to test regularly. You usually need to wait at least 2 weeks, but it can also take longer depending on different circumstances

  • @Liberty309
    @Liberty309 3 роки тому +7

    The cure is almost here.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +5

      Fingers crossed! Trials have started 🤞🏻🤞🏻

    • @Liberty309
      @Liberty309 3 роки тому +1

      @@meandhiv Have you seen the videos from American Gene Technologies ?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      No I haven't. I'll have a little look

    • @Liberty309
      @Liberty309 3 роки тому +1

      @@meandhiv Absolutely amazing work they're doing. The FDA and NIH have both given the green light on testing. It's a single dose treatment.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +3

      Thats fantastic news. It does look like they're doing great work! We're still waiting for approval on long lasting injectables in the UK, however they are trialing a cure with Oxford at the moment and it looks promising

  • @paulinenasimiyu426
    @paulinenasimiyu426 3 роки тому +8

    I pray that one day I will have the courage to speak up

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +2

      Take your time and love and look after yourself. When the time's right, you'll know 💙

  • @rachelsnyder5510
    @rachelsnyder5510 2 роки тому

    You touch my heart and thank for the video

  • @parzival_ns8885
    @parzival_ns8885 2 роки тому +1

    Help me somebody.. i tested my self after 40 days i had a doubt of being exposed to HIV by the symptoms of sour throat ,fever, cold and some basic symptoms ..luckily my result is negative .. 100 days passed and now i m having sour throat and red headed small rash here and there on my body .. do i have a chance of being positive .. i m so scared about thought of test also.. help me some body..

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola 🥰

    • @abdelgadiribrahim3158
      @abdelgadiribrahim3158 2 роки тому

      Hi dude how do you feeling now ? Did u test again

    • @parzival_ns8885
      @parzival_ns8885 2 роки тому +3

      @@abdelgadiribrahim3158 its clear... Negative..thank you bro

    • @Factsunite
      @Factsunite Рік тому

      ​@@parzival_ns8885bro I have also same kind of symptoms but but 60 day's hiv Elisa test negative buy still symptoms 😢

  • @leoneco1904
    @leoneco1904 3 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your experience. I have a doubt about the rash. How it looks like ? Was flat or bump ?

  • @Hariom-h4g
    @Hariom-h4g Місяць тому

    How many days after exposure rashes appear on the body

  • @sophiea6435
    @sophiea6435 3 роки тому +4

    It must have been a hard time for you. We can be glad that we have medication nowadays. I wish you the best
    . Thank you for sharing. 🙂❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your lovely comment! It was very tough at the start. The meds are amazing! 💙💙

  • @green8934
    @green8934 3 роки тому

    Any side effects from the medications. What was ur cd4 and vl when were u diagnosed with hiv

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +2

      I had side effects from my first meds, Atripla but now I'm on Stribild and don't have any. My CD4 was 719 and VL was 193072

  • @reyneerleon3851
    @reyneerleon3851 4 роки тому +3

    Did you feel early HIV symptoms in the first weeks when you got infected? Did you get fever in the early weeks?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  4 роки тому +2

      Hi Reyneer, I didnt feel much in the first few weeks. I think it was around the 6-8 week point when I had fever, a rash and sickness

    • @hftg642
      @hftg642 Рік тому

      Was it a whole body rash mind if i ask

  • @tonyp1158
    @tonyp1158 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. You are brave.

  • @malclmhexed5978
    @malclmhexed5978 3 місяці тому

    Did the rash u have itch ?

  • @KittWiliams
    @KittWiliams 4 місяці тому

    I’m gay as well I’ve been paranoid about this virus scary stuff so did you have this from the start or did you mean you got it from your first partner

  • @sriamarnathm.k.coachingcen6672

    Thank you for your telling Story

  • @DaySon-d5z
    @DaySon-d5z 5 місяців тому +1

    Extensively times that step we are afraid to take might be the right one. I thank you, Doctor Igho for your inducement and for not allowing me down throughout the whole revolution. Your medication that cured my HIV naturally is super tremendous I am delighted I came across your channel.

  • @le.7644
    @le.7644 3 роки тому +4

    Guys, i had sexual exposure on the 13 of last month, after two weeks, my body literally burning from inside like lava i feel it in my back all over my body and i have small discharge on penis it looks pale than usual. But those are my only symptoms. Should i be worried

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +2

      Hey. As a start, I would say try and not be worried. Make sure you test regularly for all sexually transmitted infections and HIV. That's the only way to know if you've contracted anything. HIV can usually take anywhere from a few weeks to a few months to show symptoms.

    • @goldenstormzzs
      @goldenstormzzs Рік тому

      Have you tested?

    • @le.7644
      @le.7644 11 місяців тому +1

      @@goldenstormzzs yea im good

    • @rohitjaiswal9818
      @rohitjaiswal9818 6 місяців тому

      Are you hov positive@le

    • @le.7644
      @le.7644 6 місяців тому

      @@rohitjaiswal9818 I'm negative thankfully

  • @itsfunnyd
    @itsfunnyd Рік тому

    So because you didnt get tested for so long do you think you've passed it on to alot of other ?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  Рік тому

      I didn't sleep with anyone without a condom after I slept with that individual

    • @RyanWilliam-u7k
      @RyanWilliam-u7k 5 місяців тому

      Can I ask the guy who infected you did you.use a condom at all like do they work against hiv ?

  • @JakazuV2
    @JakazuV2 3 роки тому +2

    I fear getting tested. I'm a heterosexual male and I use Japanese polyurethane condoms during my time with sw all the time. I won't have fun unless it's with a condom. I avoid sw who offer services with no condoms as well. Lately I have this irrational fear that I have contracted HIV even though the condom was intact a week ago. My risk should be minimal, I'm heterosexual so I am the insertive one and I wore a condom so my risk should be non existent but I feel different since my last encounter and I wonder if I am losing my mind and I am afraid because I can't deal with a life change and I did the best to protect myself.

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I'm now HIV negative, Dr Abiola cured me from HIV virus, Introducing a tested and trusted HIV cure to the world from #drabiola 🇺🇸💙

    • @tinishaavay7263
      @tinishaavay7263 9 місяців тому

      I recommend that you get tested regularly especially because your lifestyle puts you at high risk due to multiple partners regardless of wearing condoms. How can you fear the results of your behaviors yet enjoy your behaviors in the heat of the moment? It's contradictory. In other words if we feel that we are adult enough to live the way we want to live, then we must also be adults in holding ourselves accountable to our patterns. Wishing much peace and good health. ❤

  • @tinacollins9213
    @tinacollins9213 11 місяців тому +1

    Hope you find happiness in your life

  • @teyahming9488
    @teyahming9488 7 місяців тому

    after 3y.. are you still ok?wish all good

  • @sylvainhyais8166
    @sylvainhyais8166 Місяць тому

    Great video. Nice soul

  • @isaacboateng3040
    @isaacboateng3040 Рік тому

    Which country are you?

  • @bbcbiafra2755
    @bbcbiafra2755 3 роки тому +1

    Was that the only symptom you got?
    Pls reply me 😭😭

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      My symptoms were flu-like. I had aches, cold sweats, nausea, headache, weakness and eventually a rash

    • @bbcbiafra2755
      @bbcbiafra2755 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv pls what is nausea and how do you know you having nausea

    • @bbcbiafra2755
      @bbcbiafra2755 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv like symptoms of nausea

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Nausea is having stomach pain and the feeling like you want to vomit

    • @bbcbiafra2755
      @bbcbiafra2755 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv I got exposure and went for blood test 4weeks later and it was non-reactive but am having this kind of weird noise on my tommy during midnight and am planing for another test at 12weeks later

  • @musictorelaxandunwind
    @musictorelaxandunwind Рік тому +1

    take pomogranate juice and Sumac Spice both regularly antiviral properties

  • @Primefootballangel
    @Primefootballangel 6 місяців тому

    Brother go to church pray to jessus he loves u ✝️✝️✝️

  • @jd8391
    @jd8391 Рік тому

    you're amazing!

  • @sanjmahesh4639
    @sanjmahesh4639 6 місяців тому +1

    See people are worried of course I understand avoid less sexual behaviors.

  • @abhilashnair-mx1hu
    @abhilashnair-mx1hu 5 місяців тому +1

    Why u r not active in your channel?

  • @bikramjena2249
    @bikramjena2249 Рік тому

    Sir PEP wark or not

  • @melvinramos1197
    @melvinramos1197 6 місяців тому

    He is so beautiful ❤

  • @MasterYoda7
    @MasterYoda7 5 місяців тому

    thanks for sharing, i want to know does using condoms still cause HIV?

  • @kidamusic2057
    @kidamusic2057 3 роки тому +1

    How are you now ?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +3

      I'm doing absolutely great, thank you!

    • @bladebrown4341
      @bladebrown4341 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv Thank for being so brave and telling your story. I was infected with HIV last year. A crime was committed against me on a bus here in NYC. The guy sitting behind me in a bus poked me with something in my back. I didn't check it out within the 72hrs, so I end up with HIV

  • @anonymous739
    @anonymous739 Рік тому +2

    Brotha thank for the story and stay strong. I do have a question if you don’t mind, You got HIV because you had s*x without condom? Just asking because I need to know. And thanks again.

  • @aslamkhan2909
    @aslamkhan2909 3 роки тому

    By which type of test you confirmed that you have hiv . And how many days after exposure ???

    • @aslamkhan2909
      @aslamkhan2909 3 роки тому

      Bro please tell me

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +2

      So my diagnosis was picked up by tests when I was admitted to hospital after I got ill. This was around 3 months after I think I contracted HIV

    • @aslamkhan2909
      @aslamkhan2909 3 роки тому +1

      I also was ill after unsafe sex . But i tested negative after 3 months but symptoms still present . What i do ???

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      How long after potential exposure did you get tested? Some tests have different exposure windows. I'd maybe suggest another test if you're worried

    • @aslamkhan2909
      @aslamkhan2909 3 роки тому +1

      Hiv ag ab combo test after 97 days of initial exposure

  • @goosefarm3602
    @goosefarm3602 Рік тому

    thank you for your story

  • @MusingsofaMystic
    @MusingsofaMystic 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      It's a pleasure to be able to share. Thanks for watching 💙

  • @stananders474
    @stananders474 10 місяців тому +3

    U r a brave young man. I'm 72 gay and was tested 6 months ago because i wanted PrEP. It was negative.
    what was that blue pill ? Pep ?

  • @jodiannesweetieogarro4807
    @jodiannesweetieogarro4807 3 роки тому +1

    You are so brave

  • @key981
    @key981 3 роки тому +4

    I had a rash too on my inner thighs and same symptoms 😢

    • @key981
      @key981 3 роки тому

      Yep

    • @key981
      @key981 3 роки тому

      Are u

    • @MrSIVA-pn3to
      @MrSIVA-pn3to 3 роки тому +1

      Bro are u hiv positive

    • @MrSIVA-pn3to
      @MrSIVA-pn3to 3 роки тому

      Bro i also had rash on my inner thighs and fever and presistent diarrhoea

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Have you been for a test?

  • @andrewjohannes6044
    @andrewjohannes6044 3 роки тому

    What symptoms did you have for ur flu like symptoms of

  • @JamieLofthouse
    @JamieLofthouse Рік тому

    How are things? I hope you are well and happy. Disease doesn't discriminate but bigots do! :)

  • @Ella-lu9xw
    @Ella-lu9xw Рік тому

    👋Hi Matt thank you for sharing a little your story. Love casts out fear♡♡🌸🌸You are not alone. I am here for you. God is always in control of your life🙏✝️🕊

  • @AqueousSip
    @AqueousSip 2 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏 ❤