How I got HIV

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  • Опубліковано 4 гру 2024

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  • @ryanblack2986
    @ryanblack2986 3 роки тому +26

    My 1st bf at 19 intentionally kept it from me he was poz. It's awful to not be forthcoming with that information and to put ppl at risk. All the best! Xoxo 😄

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

    • @carreviewer6345
      @carreviewer6345 Рік тому +4

      Yeah people who don't tell their partner about their sexual health are pricks

  • @AMPFIELDVISION
    @AMPFIELDVISION Рік тому +10

    For you to get it the very 1st time having unprotected sex with that one guy, he must've been VERY sick and had a super high viral load because it doesn't spread that easy

    • @marshalmallow7192
      @marshalmallow7192 8 місяців тому +3

      It depends on the sexual act. Receptive anal sex hiv transmission occurs approx. 1 out of 72 times. That could be the first, the 18th, or the 72nd. Or his partner could have been recently exposed. He told him he was “clean” and he may have believed he was. During stage one of the virus, HIV is rapidly replicating and thus, leading to more HIV in the body. The person may not even experience symptoms during this phase of transmission and if they do it may be a light headache or a cough. At this point, the person is highly contagious and more likely to spread the virus. Just because a person doesn’t appear sick does not mean they do not have HIV.

  • @_letstartariot
    @_letstartariot 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for your courage. It’s not easy to post a video talking about something so personal. But you did it to educate others. Its commendable. Cheers mate.

  • @XxxX-wx3er
    @XxxX-wx3er 3 роки тому +30

    People have unprotected sex all the time. You did it just one time. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️

    • @Henry.Wallace
      @Henry.Wallace 9 місяців тому

      Or so he says

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp 8 місяців тому +1

      But one time is higher risk for that demographics.

    • @tinacollins9213
      @tinacollins9213 8 місяців тому +1

      They have had 10,000 new cases in Pattaya people think it won’t happen to me , I’ve lost 3 friends to this , thankyou for talking about this

    • @DrAriba-rt8zo
      @DrAriba-rt8zo Місяць тому

      @@Bri-nc8yphi

    • @DrAriba-rt8zo
      @DrAriba-rt8zo Місяць тому

      @@Henry.Wallacehow do you do ?

  • @Luvforalll
    @Luvforalll 3 роки тому +10

    You’re helping a lot by telling your story. I love watching your vids. Thanks for helping others learn

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much! That means a lot, thank you for watching

  • @MichelleisMarried123
    @MichelleisMarried123 3 роки тому +34

    Hi, Back in 2020 I was tested for HIV and I was HIV negative. I only got tested for the nasty migraines I was getting. Dr said Have you ever been tested for HIV? I said no why? Well she said your a married woman and have severe migraines, and migraines usually are a sign of HIV. I was scared as f•••! Took my blood sent it too the lab and in 2 weeks I got my results and thank god I was HIV negative🥰❤️ My husband told me babe if u ever had HIV I wouldn’t love you any less😭 we would always be together! 16 years of marriage and 2 boys later! Now that’s true love❤️ Thanks for sharing your story and I hope that your doing ok? God Bless and stay safe from Covid-19!

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +6

      Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you received a negative result and that your husband is supportive!
      All is well here, thank you. And hope you are too. Sending love 💙

    • @colleenstack210
      @colleenstack210 3 роки тому +3

      Very common chronic migraines in women for a doctor to do a work up for Multiple Sclerosis from the lesions on the brain. Just responding to the one lady that mentioned migraines. God Bless you Matt and stay strong!

    • @Naijella86
      @Naijella86 2 роки тому +5

      I took a negative HIV test and got the results in 20 minutes last year. Why did you have to wait for two weeks in 2020?

    • @MichelleisMarried123
      @MichelleisMarried123 2 роки тому +5

      @@Naijella86 Hi, I guess my Dr’s office is slow😂

    • @MultiMcgurk
      @MultiMcgurk 2 роки тому

      Sinisitis maybe?

  • @doncrossfield7636
    @doncrossfield7636 3 роки тому +11

    Love this. Honest and open and super informative as always. Keep up the awesome work Matt 🖤

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +3

      Ahh, thank you! Means a lot. 💙

    • @markfox566
      @markfox566 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv Hope you are doing well. Thank You for this video. Know that many people respect you.

  • @sylvainhyais8166
    @sylvainhyais8166 7 днів тому

    Great video,congrats . You 're a very nice and sensible guy,wish you all the best from France

  • @growmance2191
    @growmance2191 3 роки тому +18

    Man that the worst luck ever just doing it once unprotected and getting hiv. .

    • @Sadude13
      @Sadude13 3 роки тому +1

      right. Some people fuck for years unprotected and never get it. This poor guy fucks once raw and he gets it!!!

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @julianaguirre5882
      @julianaguirre5882 Рік тому

      You know that is the worst? I hadnot sex, i touched a vagine with mi finger. That is bad luck :( .

  • @kvngkhii6819
    @kvngkhii6819 Рік тому +11

    Ive had unprotected sex twice .the first time was2 years ago and last time was march 15 this year. Ive had no issues symptom wise not flu like symptoms nothing. I hope im all good and ill never be reckless like that again. Its bad to be Young and naive

    • @mingakinsgibayuxds7542
      @mingakinsgibayuxds7542 Рік тому +3

      And many of the times, people live with the disease for decades without symptoms.

    • @killerStranngle
      @killerStranngle 11 місяців тому

      hiv symptoms take 2-7 years to show, after 7 years you will almost have aids.

  • @skyisthelimit9897
    @skyisthelimit9897 5 місяців тому +1

    God bless you that you live a full! Confessing your truth and educating us! God certainly has a purpose for you!! People with HIV are outliving people without it! Thanks so much for your courage and testimony! Love this.

  • @ela536
    @ela536 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for spreading awareness! You are an incredibly strong man ❤

  • @rooweb
    @rooweb 3 роки тому +4

    Good video kid! Keep informing people and im sure it will help people with hiv and help stop people getting it. Well done for putting the message out and being open about it.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thanks brother! Appreciate your comment 💙

  • @maldives-joshuajoseph6032
    @maldives-joshuajoseph6032 3 роки тому +13

    4.15 " I got HIV from having sex ". God bless you, live a full life !

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +3

      Absolutely. Being diagnosed with HIV has taught me we need to live our life to the fullest

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 Рік тому

      HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN RAW FOOD THERAPY. You can try & SEE A MAGIC.

  • @nicsinger18
    @nicsinger18 3 роки тому +10

    Wow very brave for putting yourself out there! 💪🏼 young people need to be more educated on the subject of hiv and schools shouldn’t shy away from teaching it just because it’s a taboo subject. great video well done ❤️

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Totally agree that schools and the education system need to be doing more! 💙

    • @mollysteel142
      @mollysteel142 3 роки тому

      @@meandhiv have you eaten any fecal matter or used poppers during XXX??

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola

  • @okimlistening2u
    @okimlistening2u Рік тому

    Hey buddy, just found you and subbed. From the USA and want to thank you for this video, it will save lives I am sure. Thanks for your time and effort in producing it............God bless.............Ray

  • @Proud5050man
    @Proud5050man Рік тому +6

    I was tested for hiv when i had tiredness for no reason and poor sleep
    Turns out i have sleep apnea😢

  • @KimPhilby203
    @KimPhilby203 3 роки тому +4

    Balls of Steel...sending love

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much 💙💙💙

  • @daviddinkins7009
    @daviddinkins7009 5 місяців тому

    In 2020, there's no reason not to remain vigilant about your own health, so good luck.

  • @susangodblessuratemo2485
    @susangodblessuratemo2485 3 роки тому +5

    U are Strong guy and you are open

  • @le.7644
    @le.7644 3 роки тому

    Thank you Matt, all the best we got u

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      My pleasure! Thanks for watching 💙💙

  • @marquese1960
    @marquese1960 3 роки тому +2

    Good luck very everything mate ! Stay well.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Thank you so much. And you too!

  • @richierichnumber1
    @richierichnumber1 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Matt and your a beautiful man also glad you educated yourself about the disease HIV & Aids, yes we were all ignorant in the beginning, and after new medications out there gay men can live a longer, happy , productive life with these new medications. As an old timer now these days I lived negative existence from the disease for fear at first and after educating myself and with the help of an honest loving partners it hasn't stopped me from dating positive men who take care themselves. Honestly, if I'd feel I had met my soul mate it wouldn't have been a problem making our relationship long term. Peace.🥰

  • @luishenriques7246
    @luishenriques7246 4 місяці тому

    Thanks Matt, for sharing your experience, I know what you went through 😔 To me, it happened like you.

  • @rachelgracedelariarte3027
    @rachelgracedelariarte3027 3 роки тому +7

    HiV/AIDS is treatble now a days. 😊

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 Рік тому

      NO....! ONLY IN RAW FOOD THERAPY.

    • @ADkhar-mh7lz
      @ADkhar-mh7lz 6 днів тому

      But they die from side effects not from hiv

  • @markfox566
    @markfox566 3 роки тому +4

    I am curious. Can you contract HIV if you are only a bottom, or can you contract HIV is you are bottom or top?

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 роки тому +9

      You can get it either way

    • @markfox566
      @markfox566 3 роки тому +1

      @@ryanblack2986 Good to know. Thanks.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +3

      @@ryanblack2986 absolutely. Anyone is potentially at risk of HIV, no matter whether you're top, bottom, vers. Anyone can get HIV regardless of gender, sexuality or sexual preferences

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 роки тому +1

      @@markfox566 👍

    • @ryanblack2986
      @ryanblack2986 3 роки тому +1

      @@meandhiv 👍

  • @ravishdhir972
    @ravishdhir972 3 роки тому +7

    Sir if men sex with other men but both are not infected with HIV does they get hiv

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +6

      If both parties are negative for HIV, then it can't be transmitted. There is still a risk from other STI's and/or HIV as they can be asymptomatic

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 Рік тому

      HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN THE RAW FOOD THERAPY.

  • @onnislee1
    @onnislee1 11 місяців тому +1

    How do they know how many people have it and don't know? Are you saying that the doctors or government know and not telling people? Otherwise how would they know over 6000 has it and not know? Make it make sense to me. And why do people comment that they are negative on everyone who does these types of videos?

  • @imgurkirat
    @imgurkirat 11 місяців тому

    Did u got any symptoms or after that u go for test?

  • @adriandc9761
    @adriandc9761 Рік тому

    Did you have any symptoms?

  • @jaleosupply9145
    @jaleosupply9145 3 роки тому +3

    Matt dont worried about anything ok??? Now is not a death sentence. you wont died from this but if with this, dont forguet you pill, sleep good, look after your diet and take care of your sexual life. I wishyou all the best,...Best wishes. FROM Valencia.............................................

    • @sherrysimpson9536
      @sherrysimpson9536 2 роки тому

      I have been dealing with HIV for the past 5 years until i got review on UA-cam about #drabiola and I got Dr Abiola herbal medicine last month, now I am free from HIV #drabiola ..:

    • @anilchopra4751
      @anilchopra4751 Рік тому

      HIV IS ONLY CUREABLE IN THE RAW FOOD THERAPY WITHOUT MEDS. & MONEY.

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan 9 місяців тому

    Sorry you had to learn such a hard lesson, but bless you for putting out this video.
    #BeWell

  • @fp5940
    @fp5940 5 місяців тому

    Pls inform if you have suspicion at all whatever it maybe. You need to save lives and use condoms.

  • @gamestriker3705
    @gamestriker3705 3 роки тому +5

    After exposure when you tested for HIV?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +4

      For me it was roughly two to three months after exposure

    • @ashleychumney5268
      @ashleychumney5268 Рік тому

      ​@@meandhiv but you had symptoms two-three weeks later. Wow took three months to find positive. Yet you probably had sex in between that time and transmitted it to others.

  • @Tainted3840
    @Tainted3840 2 роки тому +1

    You're amazing.
    Simple as that 👍

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 роки тому

      Aw, thank you so much! 💙

    • @Tainted3840
      @Tainted3840 2 роки тому +1

      @@meandhiv Keep doing what you're doing, your response to this is tremendous, courageous and inspiring. This could happen to absolutely ANYONE irrespective of gender, race or sexuality, a virus doesn't discriminate whatsoever. You did NOTHING wrong and have since done everything right in your attitude since your diagnosis. You, of course, know all these things but I just wanted to reiterate and show my support. I think you're fantastic, how eloquently you speak and educate and I hope I haven't come across as patronising. My intention was to elevate what you already know - you're a warrior 👍. So happy you have the support system you have too 😀

  • @ghalicobain8893
    @ghalicobain8893 11 місяців тому +1

    How is 2.7 % unknown what do you mean ?????

    • @MeldrineOrtiz
      @MeldrineOrtiz 8 місяців тому +1

      2.7% of people with HIV do not know how they got it.

    • @marshalmallow7192
      @marshalmallow7192 8 місяців тому +1

      Some people may have engaged in multiple risk areas or do not wish to disclose how they contracted HIV.

  • @FlavioMarceloSousa35
    @FlavioMarceloSousa35 9 місяців тому

    Unprotected sex, in my case. I was taking PrEP but got careless and didn't take the pills everyday, as I should.

    • @marshalmallow7192
      @marshalmallow7192 8 місяців тому

      You were taking the appropriate steps! We are all human. I hope you don’t blame yourself. It sucks that this virus exists.

  • @nikicarrie4071
    @nikicarrie4071 3 роки тому

    This is informative thank you

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your comment!

  • @nuage9727
    @nuage9727 2 роки тому +1

    Matt I hv a question

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 роки тому

      Hey. What's your question? Feel free to ask anything.

    • @nuage9727
      @nuage9727 2 роки тому

      @@meandhiv hey what are the odds of getting hiv through oral. It's been 6 weeks I've not experienced anything out of the ordinary. And he was negative then.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 роки тому +1

      The chances are very low of contracting HIV through oral sex

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  2 роки тому

      www.tht.org.uk/hiv-and-sexual-health/sexual-health/improving-your-sexual-health/oral-sex

  • @chrisallen6362
    @chrisallen6362 3 роки тому +3

    Matt I would love to know more if you were open to talking about your experiences

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Hi Chris. Absolutely. I'd be more than happy share my experiences

    • @chrisallen6362
      @chrisallen6362 3 роки тому +1

      @@meandhiv I'm not sure if you saw the link I left below in the comment section but if not, could you please fill out that quick survey and leave a form of contact and I will get back to you. Your feedback means a lot Matt. Thank you sir.

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому

      Sorry - I missed that! All done.

    • @kingslong5937
      @kingslong5937 3 роки тому +1

      @@meandhiv do u know what ur symptoms was if u don’t mind sharing sir?

    • @meandhiv
      @meandhiv  3 роки тому +1

      @@kingslong5937 of course. For me I had kind of flu-like symptoms; muscle aches, headache, nausea, night sweats, and fever. I also ended up with a rash down my arm

  • @Mech20900
    @Mech20900 6 місяців тому +1

    I got HIV 💔

    • @Keepthepeacesharethelove
      @Keepthepeacesharethelove Місяць тому

      Everything will be alright. Take the medication and you will have a normal life.

  • @xelefonte
    @xelefonte 5 місяців тому

    The only time negativity is a good thing is when it comes to std testing, you want to remain HIV negative.

  • @stephenobudho4538
    @stephenobudho4538 Рік тому +5

    Repent, the end is near. God save this world. John 3:16.

  • @kittykat135
    @kittykat135 3 роки тому +3

    u take long to tell us

  • @ERICANDYJASMINE
    @ERICANDYJASMINE Рік тому

    All lim activate

  • @upendarkumar22
    @upendarkumar22 3 роки тому +1

    Dwarka sarve ka dikha do didi Badi Sundar Hogi Badi

  • @killerStranngle
    @killerStranngle 11 місяців тому +1

    if you are going to go against god's command and do they unnatural you should be using protection.

  • @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn
    @FernandoCorreia-fm6pn 11 місяців тому +1

    Hello , like your vídeo .is it possible to chat with you in private?