So you thought being quiet was love, letting him walk all over you was love. Calling him out on his bullshit was not love, it was insecurity and all that. Feeling of drowning, exhaustion, were not enough tip-offs? You called him out for his bullshit but never spoke up about how you felt to those who told you all those things about love? That break up saved you indeed, but what might push you towards a much better life would be to cut out those people who told what love was. They were the ones who misguided you. Even the Meta AI chat from WhatsApp would seem to be a better guide for you than the ones who guided you.
I get what you're saying, and you’re right that the breakup was a wake-up call in many ways. But sometimes, it’s hard to see things clearly when you're in the middle of it, especially when the people around you are pushing their own ideas of love. I’ve learned a lot since then, and cutting out the negativity, whether it’s from a partner or others, is definitely part of that growth. Appreciate the input!
@@that_goofy_freak Yes. The things you learn about what you did wrong will come to you in its own pace. But what is of utmost importance is your surroundings. A good enemy is better than an idiot friend. You can count on poor advice from your enemy as you know they are your enemy. But half-ass friends are the quicksand of your life. And unfortunately many bullshit advice comes from our seniors, who have normalised abuse in their relationships and think it is okay to teach the next generation to tolerate it. Anyways, I guess not all puzzles come together fast. In my case, what seemed alarming to me was the circle you were surrounded with. A good circle can pick you up at the worst of times while a bad one can you kick you down to the abyss in a instant. To better beginnings!!
Good in the way that you learnt a lesson out of it!
That’s what I meant🌸
His loss!!❤❤
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Same broooo. Aisa lg rha hai somebody is narrating my story
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So you thought being quiet was love, letting him walk all over you was love. Calling him out on his bullshit was not love, it was insecurity and all that. Feeling of drowning, exhaustion, were not enough tip-offs? You called him out for his bullshit but never spoke up about how you felt to those who told you all those things about love? That break up saved you indeed, but what might push you towards a much better life would be to cut out those people who told what love was. They were the ones who misguided you. Even the Meta AI chat from WhatsApp would seem to be a better guide for you than the ones who guided you.
I get what you're saying, and you’re right that the breakup was a wake-up call in many ways. But sometimes, it’s hard to see things clearly when you're in the middle of it, especially when the people around you are pushing their own ideas of love. I’ve learned a lot since then, and cutting out the negativity, whether it’s from a partner or others, is definitely part of that growth. Appreciate the input!
@@that_goofy_freak Yes. The things you learn about what you did wrong will come to you in its own pace. But what is of utmost importance is your surroundings. A good enemy is better than an idiot friend. You can count on poor advice from your enemy as you know they are your enemy. But half-ass friends are the quicksand of your life. And unfortunately many bullshit advice comes from our seniors, who have normalised abuse in their relationships and think it is okay to teach the next generation to tolerate it. Anyways, I guess not all puzzles come together fast. In my case, what seemed alarming to me was the circle you were surrounded with. A good circle can pick you up at the worst of times while a bad one can you kick you down to the abyss in a instant. To better beginnings!!