How to Stop Feeling Like a Victim (with a Specific Person)

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  • @luisterrust
    @luisterrust 4 роки тому +70

    When you go from the victim stage to the manifestation stage. Life begins 💪🏼🌟

  • @flyawaybutterflyhealingchannel

    Broke out of a narcissistic abusive relationship...it almost did me in. It no longer has power over me...leaving it in the dust! Ty

  • @Manni-lk1oz
    @Manni-lk1oz 4 роки тому +7

    So easy to be a victim. But so easy to switch it around. All is created within 💖

  • @paveekazhagana3106
    @paveekazhagana3106 2 роки тому +3

    Wowow, the exact solution for my problem , why I didn’t see this video five years back , atleast happy I got it now 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

  • @NinaBanina647
    @NinaBanina647 4 роки тому +37

    Neville "Change what you're thinking and feeling siiistuurrr." lmao Whenever I slip into the victim state I am now gonna hear Neville with an attitude. lol I love it! :)

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 роки тому +2

      Just re-watched and I'm laughing at myself too! 🤣

    • @NinaBanina647
      @NinaBanina647 4 роки тому +1

      @@ShellyBullard hahahah i love it! I feel like if I were to ever help or coach people I would be a little sassy. lol

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 роки тому

      @@NinaBanina647 Yasssss.

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 роки тому +44

    You're not your past, your past does not define you! We're blessed every day with a new opportunity to reinvent ourselves and become our greatest version. You light up this world!!! ❤🌸

  • @brynnk3434
    @brynnk3434 4 роки тому +27

    This video really resonates with me. I AM the one in control of my reality!! Inner world = outer world. Thanks Shelly!✨

  • @arielharp1026
    @arielharp1026 4 роки тому +2

    Everyday is a new day to start something new and create a new world!

  • @richalfernandes7726
    @richalfernandes7726 4 роки тому +38

    How to stop / release feeling like a victim.?
    Or any circumstance eg.life.
    * Essentially the core essence of feelin like a victim is you feel like some outside thing - person, force , government anything.
    Is having an impact and power over you and essentially has control over how you feel.
    * Often when we feel like a victim with our sp it is like they are doing something that makes us feel a particular way we do not like .
    * When you feel like a victim in a relationship one of the common things to do is try to manipulate the other person's behaviour to get them to try to change .
    * We basically try to manipulate the situation either through our own behaviour or trying to convince them to be a different way with you.
    * As we know this wont work at all and will not make you feel better.
    -------------------------------------------
    * The corner stone of feeling like a victim is feeling like you are powerless.
    * Like something else has control over how you feel .
    * Anytime you feel like and feel powerless you have forgotten that you are god that you are the creator . And literally one to mold and shape the entire reality.
    * If you choose to uphold the victim feeling like
    - I do not have control over this person
    - This person is treating me this way and there is nothing i can not do about it.
    * You are unfortunately creating this reality.
    * If you choose this reality and remind yourself.
    + I have all the power.
    * In your own reality you have all the power.
    * When you land in your power again you are the opporent power and you are in full control.
    * This is not a dillusional manipulation this is the felt sense of your own infinite nature like look
    + People can only treat me in a way that i belive i am gonna be treated .
    +Life can only happen to me i believe and expect its gonna happen.
    + I am the one in power here.
    * when you realise this and direct people to treat you this way you are creating it.
    * start telling yourself a new story and change the thoughts and they will show up to you like that.
    * Soemtimes going into the victim mentality we feel and know that its worthy of getting care and love.
    * remeber you mold the enitre world. Based on your state of being.
    * So best have the letting go of your victim mentaliy and choose what is best for you cause you are in control and you have the power.
    Thank You Shelly❤

  • @daniangel64
    @daniangel64 4 роки тому +7

    Those "inner conversations" we love to have with ourselves have to reflect what we want to experience. It works, one example with my job, I hear how great I'm doing, I go above and beyond ect. I had a client email me almost those exact words, the email was sent to my boss and it was so nice to actually physically see what I told myself. So instead of mentally arguing, fretting, mulling over what isnt right, repeat what you want to hear and feel.

  • @meli1368
    @meli1368 4 роки тому +2

    This topic is not spoken enough in the law of attraction community. Thank you🙏💕

  • @maryuhh89
    @maryuhh89 4 роки тому +3

    Ohhhhhh I remember that Neville goddard story! It’s the power of awareness! And she changed ohhh yes! Thank you Shelly... I used his teaching in getting a brand new apartment next to the elevator with an eviction on my name and I’m just like WOW! 🤯 I cried so hard and now I’m acting brand new because it’s a person as opposed to an apartment smh.. I GOT THIS THANK YOU!!!! 💋

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 роки тому +1

      Glad it resonated girl!

    • @maryuhh89
      @maryuhh89 4 роки тому

      Shelly Bullard yassess because of you! Thank you!!

  • @AshtasticAcrobat
    @AshtasticAcrobat 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you making this!! I was waiting for more manifestation teachers to come out and make these types of videos. With all the rhetoric going on right now this EXACTLY what people need to hear. Every single person is capable of manifesting their ideal experience. EVERY SINGLE PERSON ON THIS PLANET.

  • @sarter4737
    @sarter4737 4 роки тому +12

    A message that is so important for all aspects of our lives! Everyone is you pushed out, so we need to change our own sense of victimization so we stop seeing it in the outside reality. Thank you Shelly

  • @flowerp5282
    @flowerp5282 4 роки тому +2

    Yes- i take responsibility for my world- good and bad 🤗

  • @brittneysepulvado7629
    @brittneysepulvado7629 4 роки тому +6

    Words cannot describe how much I LOVE you, Shelly. And once again, you read my inner turmoil and have released a video on what I needed to hear today.

  • @nehaupreti5555
    @nehaupreti5555 4 роки тому +2

    I'll be never be a victim again. Thank you Shelly. I am so blessed I found you..Much love.

  • @ChristineSetTheScene
    @ChristineSetTheScene 2 роки тому +1

    Shelly you are an angel ❤️ I would do love to know if you taught yourself all these things or if you had "teachers" too 😊

  • @arsheenap3711
    @arsheenap3711 4 роки тому +6

    I have all the power! I am the operant power in my reality. I am the in the driving seat and have full control over this steering wheel💯🙌🏽

  • @presentfuture7563
    @presentfuture7563 4 роки тому +2

    I WANT this to be true. I feel so discouraged tonight that I've written and deleted comments over and over. So I'll just leave it at that.

  • @arvj123
    @arvj123 4 роки тому +5

    Shelly you don't disappoint. I thought there was no video for today but here it is. And it's an important topic. Yay!

  • @christinebrooks5258
    @christinebrooks5258 4 роки тому +4

    Victim mentality never equals being seen Yes I’m empowered

  • @msssarahg
    @msssarahg 4 роки тому +2

    We are only victims when we perceive a loss of personal power; however, we only lose power when we hand it over. That is still a choice and we can chose again, so really we are never ever powerless.

  • @amylever5687
    @amylever5687 4 роки тому +2

    I feel like the perfect manifesting song is I've got the power! 💪💕 Xxx

  • @IammilliondollarmonthMauimama
    @IammilliondollarmonthMauimama 4 роки тому +1

    Absolutely! Im respected and admired by everyone.

  • @natalieahadji7839
    @natalieahadji7839 4 роки тому +1

    Yess so true, we often think someone out there can keep our manifestation out of reach while all this time it was us, thinking this way and in result manifesting these "circumstances "

  • @ruthcarlisle2663
    @ruthcarlisle2663 4 роки тому +2

    Never let anything from your past dictate anything in the now/future.
    Only think thoughts about anyone in the way you want them to be in your life.
    Another wonderful video.
    Thank you.
    🌌❤🙌🙂💕

  • @astridastrid22
    @astridastrid22 4 роки тому +1

    We love you Shellyyyyy

  • @nenababic4001
    @nenababic4001 4 роки тому +3

    First like than watch. My queen 👑
    Thanks Shelly ♥️
    Practice, practice, practice and work on yourself every single day, live consiously and take responsibility for everything what happens in your life. Self love- most important. Victim? No thanks. Not any more. When you come to the point where realize that you are the love of your life, everything changes ✨

  • @rebeccaurmann3109
    @rebeccaurmann3109 4 роки тому +1

    My husband just moved out and blames me for many things. I am watching your videos and it is helping me leaning to love myself again to get through this hard time in my life. Thank you for these videos you have available.

  • @fannyhuang1898
    @fannyhuang1898 4 роки тому +1

    Needed to hear this, Is so easy to feel a victim and absorb all the negativity that’s been going around on the world, specially at this crazy times and all the news...
    Time to turn off that noise as I am the one in charge of what enters and stays in my mind 🍀

  • @thegeneralrock86547
    @thegeneralrock86547 4 роки тому +1

    Oh dear. This is THE video. 💜

  • @sigalm8205
    @sigalm8205 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for always thinking of us! Beautiful!

  • @juditmonoki5216
    @juditmonoki5216 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Shelly! It just came at the perfect time. Recently I felt like a victim, and there was a chaos around me. I just realized that actually I did that so it is time to get up and take back my power! :)

  • @iados
    @iados 4 роки тому

    Shelly from all your videos this is the one I most needed to hear right now, yesterday I had one misunderstandment with my SP and I was feeling powerless; not anymore, I’m god and I’ll change it

  • @DD-on8zn
    @DD-on8zn 4 роки тому +3

    I LOVE YOU 💕👑

  • @EvaAntonia1
    @EvaAntonia1 4 роки тому +1

    I absolutely felt and I guess still feel like a victim sometimes, so thank you

  • @linda.ll.7744
    @linda.ll.7744 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Luv! Reassuring for many!

  • @sot.c
    @sot.c 4 роки тому +1

    Also what is interesting for people who have a hard time thinking this is possible, people who don't even know about manifesting will straight up tell you as a 1st piece of advice after a breakup to work on yourself & people will treat you based on your self confidence & how you feel about yourself... so very obviously this is a natural knowing that all people already have whether or not they refer to it as manifesting. I just think that is really cool.

  • @akansha8022
    @akansha8022 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks Shelly for constantly making us understand that the inner and outer world are of our control.....
    Thank u for all❤❤

  • @jessicagozun1045
    @jessicagozun1045 4 роки тому +1

    This helps a lot! Thank you Shelly! Your vids help me overcome my anxiety. Everytime my heart feels heavy, I watch your vids and feels like everything will be alright. It is done! Everything that I desire and manifest are all done. I am God. I am the Creator of my reality. Thank you.

  • @Conectadacomouniverso
    @Conectadacomouniverso 4 роки тому +1

    Wow. Just in time!🙏🙏❤

  • @beshiny1291
    @beshiny1291 4 роки тому +1

    These lessons are so amazing and eye-opening...Growth is beautiful

  • @perrianellesse
    @perrianellesse 4 роки тому +1

    Yes! I remember the woman and her boss story. I cant remember which book in...love this video! Such important stuff. You are incredible 💛🙏

  • @tacobelle69
    @tacobelle69 4 роки тому +1

    Great topic Shelly! I enjoyed it as I feel victimized a lot. It doesn’t feel good. I need to learn how to love myself 💗💗

  • @charitysells5804
    @charitysells5804 4 роки тому +2

    I really enjoy your channel! Thanks for your content 😊

  • @venty5197
    @venty5197 4 роки тому +1

    Omg I just started thinking like this.. thanks for correcting me right on time, I will teach people how to treat me nobody has any power over me.

  • @coolpriyanka1667
    @coolpriyanka1667 4 роки тому +1

    You are god.you got all power and you can create anything you want.once you get into that state of believing that you are powerful then everyone will treat you the way u wanted them to treat you.Thank you Shelly💙❤️

  • @sharonthomas865
    @sharonthomas865 4 роки тому +5

    Hi Shelly and Everyone 😊🌹💕🦋

  • @mariaguardado4311
    @mariaguardado4311 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video Shelly! 💖😊

  • @amyleblanc3531
    @amyleblanc3531 4 роки тому +2

    I needed this today! I was going into freak out mode

  • @theessentialsarah8871
    @theessentialsarah8871 4 роки тому +1

    This is gold!...😊

  • @shameikar2123
    @shameikar2123 4 роки тому +1

    I have to stay on top of my mental diet and not react..and change the inner dialogue. Thank u!

  • @AD-cs6rp
    @AD-cs6rp 4 роки тому +3

    ❤️❤️❤️ As always what you share is appreciated

  • @nativeceltbirdog1527
    @nativeceltbirdog1527 4 роки тому +1

    Good knowing..thankyou

  • @arpuga104
    @arpuga104 4 роки тому

    I definitely need to show this video to my daughter.

  • @georgianacatescu4551
    @georgianacatescu4551 4 роки тому +1

    Beautifully explained 💕. I've been intending for him to make better life choices and for me to make progress with my studies and they're both starting to show up!

  • @SkyAngelNYC
    @SkyAngelNYC 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you. I needed to hear this tonight. I’m grateful. Xo

  • @deeptiraut4712
    @deeptiraut4712 4 роки тому +2

    I have the full power of my life.. and that's true. whatever and wherever I am, is because of only me and what had I chosen. But, the best part is I can still recreate things the way I want because I am whole and magnetic to things, people and everything I wish to attract. 💗

  • @loveisreaal
    @loveisreaal 4 роки тому +4

    I am the one 💛

  • @mrs.o-hairofthetigerbeauty2178
    @mrs.o-hairofthetigerbeauty2178 4 роки тому +1

    This came at the right time! 👍🏻

  • @eloelizacija
    @eloelizacija 4 роки тому +1

    Exactly what I needed to hear right now 💙

  • @dianasuciu6004
    @dianasuciu6004 4 роки тому +1

    Another video just in time! Thank you, you are amazing Shelly!

  • @raescream5144
    @raescream5144 4 роки тому +1

    So powerful ❤️ thank you for this lesson

  • @samhitaparab
    @samhitaparab 4 роки тому +2

    I was wondering since the past one hour why are you not uploading a video today 😅and here you are!

  • @sot.c
    @sot.c 4 роки тому +1

    Awesome topic I haven't thought of or seen anyone else do- & so on point, thank you!!!! ♡

  • @aye1237
    @aye1237 4 роки тому +1

    Love this!! I am in charge of my reality ❤️

  • @yaarahaim6143
    @yaarahaim6143 4 роки тому +1

    Great Video Shelly💖:-)

  • @samanthathaver9725
    @samanthathaver9725 4 роки тому +1

    As always...perfectly timed message 💕

  • @marianagomez5200
    @marianagomez5200 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for yet another beautiful video Shelly!! Needed this! 💖✨

  • @dhwanidave4657
    @dhwanidave4657 4 роки тому

    Thank you for all your videos. It is really helpful. Gratitude from India. 🙏🏻

  • @betsylewis5749
    @betsylewis5749 4 роки тому +1

    Wow! This is so very important. Thank you for making this video! Your videos are fantastic!😍

  • @francesconicolaci5736
    @francesconicolaci5736 4 роки тому +1

    Lovely!!

  • @ramanchawla369
    @ramanchawla369 4 роки тому +3

    Fantabulous✌️ as always u rock SHELLY🧚‍♀️🥰❤️💛🧡

  • @jesscaballero8808
    @jesscaballero8808 4 роки тому +1

    This is a nice reminder! Thank you,Shelly!

  • @KaisaSalonpaa
    @KaisaSalonpaa 4 роки тому +1

    I've been watching your videos so much lately I truly resonate with your energy! 💖

  • @EA-jh7tf
    @EA-jh7tf 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @rtjbhasme
    @rtjbhasme 3 роки тому

    Thank you soooooo much for this video Shelly. Love you a lot...❤️

  • @kristendrayton
    @kristendrayton 4 роки тому +1

    This video came at the perfect time! Wow 🤩

  • @useyourwandbro
    @useyourwandbro 4 роки тому +1

    This was wonderful, thank you for talking about this ❤️

  • @sonnyrachel90
    @sonnyrachel90 4 роки тому +3

    6:03 Periodt. 😂👏🏻♥️ Love it!!

  • @ravneetkaur4213
    @ravneetkaur4213 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks Shelly for this video. Very helpful😊

  • @crystalbowland8093
    @crystalbowland8093 4 роки тому +1

    Literally my fave

  • @dedemomo4193
    @dedemomo4193 4 роки тому +1

    Love this one, love ya Shelly 💚😽

  • @divyanair4297
    @divyanair4297 4 роки тому

    Oh I really badly needed this video ...Thanks a lot Shelly♥️

  • @Tammywiiliams69
    @Tammywiiliams69 4 роки тому +1

    Needed this

  • @ninjettegirl
    @ninjettegirl 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you ❤️ just what I needed to hear.

  • @raniyuna2930
    @raniyuna2930 4 роки тому +1

    I feel regret that this video don't see my friend and if she will she doesn't know english. I tried exactly same thing explain her. That if she think how he is horrible, so it's her mantra. Thank you so much, for this video. I will remind her.🙏🏻❤

  • @iffatjahan1111
    @iffatjahan1111 4 роки тому +1

    Waooo....I do have this victim mentality....thank you Shelly....from now on I am going to be different 😍

  • @annielankford7127
    @annielankford7127 4 роки тому +1

    You're amazing

  • @ryancoe1686
    @ryancoe1686 4 роки тому +2

    Entering again to win 😂

  • @shamaaara8056
    @shamaaara8056 4 роки тому

    Hey Shelly! Can you make a video on moving on and letting go of the emotional pain given by your sp?

  • @sophiatsouroufli5890
    @sophiatsouroufli5890 4 роки тому +1

    Infinite creators of our own preferred reality

  • @garycoates4987
    @garycoates4987 4 роки тому +1

    I was thinking about this idea at work today,, so you ended up answering my question,, do you hear me thinking out loud?? lol

  • @arunimadutta3110
    @arunimadutta3110 4 роки тому +1

    I would love to win the giveaway! I am excited to read them :)

  • @ditikasharma
    @ditikasharma 3 роки тому

    Weirdly enough, having studied and applied manifestation techniques for the past 6 years now, I've begun noticing that these days I feel a victim of my own self which is crazy. Indeed Nev was right, you have to change your face, rather than the mirror 🙄

  • @cutelilstory2222
    @cutelilstory2222 4 роки тому

    Hi Shelly! Is it really that easy and simple?
    By the way love your content and your calmness.

  • @TheVikasas
    @TheVikasas 4 роки тому +1

    Shelly, Shelly, Shelly. Yesterday I was feeling like a victim when my sp blocked me and it was totally a wreckage because I was very angry on her, very pissed at her even though I do your inner child meditation every single night, it became too much for me and she disrespected me a lot. I have all the power, doesnt matter what she is doing. I went back to your inner child meditation and it was excellent to be more peaceful and a great one to go ahead with.You are an excellent human or is it just my own thoughts?

    • @ShellyBullard
      @ShellyBullard  4 роки тому

      Aw, so Glad you found peace. 🙏🏼✨

  • @sharonthomas865
    @sharonthomas865 4 роки тому +2

    Thank You Shelly for sharing your Video with all of us 😊❤🌹

  • @rahafbash2652
    @rahafbash2652 4 роки тому +1

    I wanna win!