Parental Trauma | Possibility Of Relapse ! | 8 Steps Of Forgiveness

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  • Опубліковано 19 гру 2024

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  • @Blossomed77
    @Blossomed77 4 роки тому +15

    This hits home...I recently relapsed cus of issues with family ..they refuse to take responsibility for alot of trama they've caused...so I had to shut them out for my own personal growth..becoming more independent and taking heed more to my own personal choices and standing ground on what I believe and not being influenced by what they taught me. They dont take my issues as serious I do. So I cannot go back and fix them or ask them for acknowledgement if they refuse. So I listen to platforms like this for support that I know Ill never get from family. Its easier to hear someone say yes quit smoking and they quit and smoked just as much as me before ..but to hear it from someone that smokes constantly that tells me yes good job don't smoke. Where is the excitement if the encouragement is coming from the problem?..makes no sense ..its healthier for me to detach from my family. Im 31 I have to be influenced by different sources other than where I came from and thats the only way Ima make thru this thing.

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому +2

      Exact same thing happened to me, they wouldn't take responsibility, my mom even went as far as telling me i need therapy smh, and i shut her out for the longest time with no communication only for me to still feel negative about it and im just the son, i changed everything from what i was taught and i became way more wise, and the thing isi feel the same way you feel, i feel like i can't go back and try to fix it because they just won't recognize the issues, but its just gonna continue to affect us, i detached for years, but it still have emotion connected to it, we can't mask the truth forever ! and if you become sober the truth smacks you the face more than ever because of the power of your divine truths !! My Coach Told Me That The moment most people admit their wrongs is on the death bed, right before they go they wanna get it off their chest like "oh i stole that $100" or "oh thats not really your father" "Oh i did you wrong and i just couldn't face it" etc but they can't that hurt with them !! so for me im gonna try one last time and if it doesnt work, im gonna let go and move on !!! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR EXPRESSING THIS !!!

    • @playboycaam
      @playboycaam 3 роки тому

      I hope you got yourself together it’s you guys that’s my motivation to staying clean

  • @mandalaqueen828
    @mandalaqueen828 4 роки тому +7

    Bro I feel this so much. Been smoking for 13 years now and finally remembering some of the severe childhood trauma that made me so susceptible to addiction in the first place. Weed is helping me heal and process everything right now (the things I’m remembering are so bad I would fall apart sober) but I want to quit soon and your videos are really inspiring me so thank you 🙏🏼 I hope I’ll be where you are in time! Stay strong bro 🙌🏼

  • @rcc019
    @rcc019 4 роки тому +2

    Went through the same exact thing with my mother coming up. I feel you bra. You are the pillar to break that generational curse with your family and you are doing the right thing for forgiving and also repairing your relationship with your mother. I know it might not be easy but you will set your soul free and be completely fulfilled. Nothing like the feeling when your soul is no longer in turmoil. 💯✊

  • @SIMPLYR.A.W
    @SIMPLYR.A.W 3 роки тому +1

    1 month sober& have been crying like a baby the last three days because I recently realized I’m still pissed for how I got treated as a kid & I hope one day soon I can have this conversation with my mom

  • @arneishatanner1240
    @arneishatanner1240 3 роки тому +1

    Respect. I can definitely relate. Thanks for the encouragement.

  • @broadwaykiry
    @broadwaykiry 3 роки тому

    im trying to quit smoking and came across your videos.. super appreciate you sharing your story bro 🙏I relate to everything your saying and idk it feels a bit of relieving to know im not the only one out here with these similar issues.. I hope you finding the healing you need with your mom & good luck with your youtube journey and the sobriety! Keep it up bro

  • @arthurtheartist
    @arthurtheartist 3 роки тому

    I can relate.. thanks for putting this out there. It's helping to keep me on track. God bless 🙏🏾

  • @fakehorse2818
    @fakehorse2818 4 роки тому +4

    Your videos are really helping me, thanks so much, I want to start the journey too and you're helping coz you get it. Keep it up you're carrying the torch for many!

    • @fakehorse2818
      @fakehorse2818 4 роки тому +1

      RayOfLight ⛅

    • @Blossomed77
      @Blossomed77 4 роки тому +3

      Factz❤can you imagine what we could do if we simply just put the weed out!?...Thats craaaazzy

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому +3

      Wow Thank You So Much For The Encouragement!! This Was Really Hard For Me To Make Public, But If I Touch 1 Person I Feel Like I Did My Job !!

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому

      @@Blossomed77 Deeeeep !!!!

  • @turbodood637
    @turbodood637 3 роки тому +1

    Good on you for sharing your story, I know it isn't easy. The important part is forgiveness. Your parents likely suffered trauma, and although it isn't right to pass it on, perhaps it's something they just aren't capable of wrapping their mind around. All we can do is learn from it and give our children a loving home. I hope you can make peace with this, some people just aren't capable of seeing their errors because it of the pain it causes them. Thanks for the content, it's helped me on my sobriety journey.

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  3 роки тому

      i really appreciate you taking the time to write me this, i need to start making videos again !

  • @whoaitsrichify
    @whoaitsrichify 4 роки тому +3

    Hey man, keeping up with your channel and telling you that you're strong for even realizing this and to just be honest and genuine about it. I'm sorry about your past parental trauma as I can't really relate, but one thing I can relate is the process of forgiving and knowing the delusion that weed causes to some of us here. I always got your back just like you got ours.. and please keep posting whatever you need cus it enlightens all of us. Still staying strong from weed as well. Cheers bro

  • @Blossomed77
    @Blossomed77 4 роки тому +4

    That spiritual feeling hit different then the weed tho💪❤

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому +2

      Thank You So Much For Your Consistent Feedback, This Was Hard To Express, But The Spirituality Don't Hide No Truths, It Brings Everything To The Surface !

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому +1

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  • @tiabriana9395
    @tiabriana9395 4 роки тому +1

    Dope that you shared this. Praying you and your sister get the healing you need 🙏🏾

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому +1

      Thank You So Much For The Encouragement !! REALLY APPRECIATE YOU !

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому

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  • @ilannyshrodriguez297
    @ilannyshrodriguez297 4 роки тому +2

    All your videos literally relate to my life right now. Every time you post a new video I’m like wtf cause it resonates so much with me!! Keep making videos!!!

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you soooo much I be needing the feedback 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I really appreciate it 🎯🎯😭😩

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому

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  • @heatherriley4647
    @heatherriley4647 4 роки тому +2

    Stay strong! I feel you, this kinda inspired me to make my own video documenting my experience

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому

      Thanks so much for the feedback, i think you should express experience id watch it forsure, its hard to share this kind of stuff... follow my instagram @hustle.to.corporate

  • @Yung.Mar6
    @Yung.Mar6 3 роки тому

    Appreciate you’re vids man #BikeLife 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @chicagodoula
    @chicagodoula 4 роки тому +1

    You over here teachingggggg !! I'm going to try the 8 steps

  • @mx.mendoza6767
    @mx.mendoza6767 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for your honesty. I definitely feel you. I know I’m smoking bc of my poor relationship with my mom. Watching you talk about this is so validating. Thank you.

  • @chelseareedberry118
    @chelseareedberry118 3 роки тому

    This!! Is everything for me!! I relapsed when my dad came. Looking back, the whole reason I started smoking was because of him when I was 13.

  • @lt9061
    @lt9061 3 роки тому

    so wise, thank you for sharing :)

  • @Hinleyyy
    @Hinleyyy 2 роки тому

    Hi man how are you doing? I really appreciate your videos and you are a real beacon of light for people I just wanted you to know.

  • @michelleslegacy9393
    @michelleslegacy9393 3 роки тому

    Rays of Life

  • @chicagodoula
    @chicagodoula 4 роки тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤ inspiring me! Because idek if I'm ready to forgive my mother 😫

  • @tyreecesealy449
    @tyreecesealy449 3 роки тому

    Bro rate what ur doing keep it man bmt

  • @ourconversationswithgod
    @ourconversationswithgod 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you!

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  4 роки тому

      your welcome! I'm assuming you related ?

  • @tyreelassic4965
    @tyreelassic4965 3 роки тому +1

    i smke bc of parental trauma,

  • @tyreelassic4965
    @tyreelassic4965 3 роки тому

    i can relate

  • @chelseareedberry118
    @chelseareedberry118 3 роки тому +1

    How about RayIsPeace

    • @raygood7986
      @raygood7986  3 роки тому

      i might actually change it to this ! thank you