The Myth of Normal: Why the Modern World is Killing You with Dr. Gabor Maté: Ep 182 | Win the Day

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @erikapleasants4886
    @erikapleasants4886 7 місяців тому +12

    Astonishing. I've listened to so many of Gabor's interviews but I think I achieved more insights and revelations than ever before from this interview. Thank you.

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  7 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for your comment! This is exactly what we're going for with the podcast. So happy you enjoyed it 💜🙏

    • @hodgkissnick79
      @hodgkissnick79 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes I agree. I've listened to Gabor for over 10 years, and I have to say your interview style most certainly has created one of his best ever interviews that I have had the pleasure of listening to.
      Well done 👏
      I also am the founder of a wellbeing facebook group with approaching 700 members. I feel inclined to share this video, and I will subscribe to your channel
      Thank you

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  6 місяців тому

      @@hodgkissnick79 Thanks for your comment and for sharing the interview! Gabor is an extraordinary individual. Honored he could share his brilliance with us all. I appreciate your support 💜🙏

    • @hodgkissnick79
      @hodgkissnick79 6 місяців тому

      Absolutely, James. I have worked in the field of addiction for approaching 15 years now, but prior to this, I had my own addiction problems that led me to spending 1 year in a residential rehabilitation unit. Despite this being amazing, life changing treatment on discharge, I had a desire to understand myself and my behaviour at a deeper level. That's when I found the profoundly unique Gabor Mate. To this day I feel indebted to his work and teachings. A truly incredible man.
      In respect to my own project, my goal is to create a "wellbeing hub" and I have ambitious plans. It's only been up and running for 2 months, but we already have approaching 700 group members.
      I wonder if this is something we could maybe connect about at some point.
      Thanks again for the video. Your interview style was excellent. Its good to connect with you.
      Regards

  • @dearnatashaneilson
    @dearnatashaneilson 7 місяців тому +16

    From Australia, currently reading the 'Myth of Normal' book, and already, in my opinion, it is a must-have book for EVERYONE to read. When I need a rest from reading, I search UA-cam for more of Dr Gabor Mate`. My bookcase is stocked with many, many non-fiction books, and none (some of which are best sellers) come close to such understanding, insight, hope & healing. Thankyou Dr. Gabor Mate` your story, expertise, knowledge, wisdom, passion & compassion, all your works are invaluable. And I am grateful for the positive impact you have made on mine, and the lives of many 💐💯🌟❤️🙏

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  7 місяців тому +1

      It’s a fantastic book. Some incredible insights in this interview. Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts 💜🙏

    • @Campingwilder
      @Campingwilder 5 місяців тому

      Could you actually say way? Or fall into the category of 'those who have to say something'. Rather than those who have something to say...

  • @philippedefossez3421
    @philippedefossez3421 7 місяців тому +16

    “When children are traumatized, one of the ways they cope is to self-soothe, and that's where addictions come in. But another way to cope is: when you get the message that you're not good enough , that you are not worthy enough, then you could spend the rest of your life trying to prove that you are.
    And how do you do that? By being very nice to everyone, by never saying how you feel because they might not like how you feel, by never expressing healthy anger when someone crosses your boundaries. By working too hard to prove your worth.
    Well, then you spend the rest of your life compensating by taking on too much, and you cause yourself stress, and that stress impacts your physiology. They have an impact on your immune system, they have an impact on your cardiovascular system, on your heart, on your nervous system. They can cause diseases.
    So most of the diseases that most of my colleagues - the doctors - think are just random or coincidental diseases... are not random or coincidental at all. They are the result of lifelong stress.”
    - Dr. Gabor Maté.
    This man deserves a Nobel Prize for his work.

  • @bugsstar
    @bugsstar 2 місяці тому +1

    Gabor is the most generous presence, I am SO grateful for him ❤

  • @jadeshaw3621
    @jadeshaw3621 7 місяців тому +3

    Gabor is life 🔥🌎🫡❤️ all about compassionate practise for those traumatised. What a man. X

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  7 місяців тому +1

      Agree 100%! What a gift for humanity. Thanks for watching 🙏💜

  • @ColettePearson
    @ColettePearson 6 місяців тому +1

    This man must be nominated for the Pulitzer Prize! I would but do not know where to start. He’s a precious gem, love him.

  • @suhairaziz7129
    @suhairaziz7129 6 місяців тому +1

    Highly appreciate you GÁBOR!🩵

  • @wambuialice957
    @wambuialice957 6 місяців тому +3

    New subscription from Gabor fan in norway

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  6 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching! So happy you enjoyed it. Gabor is an exceptional human. Plenty more great episodes to come 💜🙏

  • @ricardoarevalo6369
    @ricardoarevalo6369 4 місяці тому

    Get the book but not from Amazon please, thanks

  • @drendelous
    @drendelous 7 місяців тому +2

    ty so much for inviting him. he is my light

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  7 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for watching! He's an incredible man 💜

  • @MrJuliocarrero
    @MrJuliocarrero 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you both of you

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  7 місяців тому

      Thank you for watching! Hope you enjoyed it 🙏

  • @willforward
    @willforward 7 місяців тому +1

    Truly inspirational. Thank you James & Gabor ❤

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  7 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching! He’s an amazing man 💜🙏

  • @VidaMace
    @VidaMace 6 місяців тому +3

    You can educate yourself so you can make better choices

  • @mariettestabel275
    @mariettestabel275 6 місяців тому

    Every normal human knows that we live in a disgusting World. No Wars no refusees, no trauma's.
    Stress is everywhere power,greed
    Dife deep to stop all this...🙏

  • @samuelhumphrey5908
    @samuelhumphrey5908 3 місяці тому

    Well i live in the past so i have no idea if there isnt a modern world. I hope so.

  • @VidaMace
    @VidaMace 6 місяців тому +1

    You can hate the action, but don’t hate the actor, they are just play a part…

  • @avi3920
    @avi3920 3 місяці тому +1

    45:40 - trump

  • @dryan6793
    @dryan6793 2 місяці тому

    I wish he was my head doctor, but since he isn't. Bye Bye cruel world.

  • @lenablochmusic
    @lenablochmusic 4 місяці тому

    I can't imagine a child doctor telling parents that the child has asthma because of how the family atmosphere is acting on him. It will be considered extremely rude and the parents will report this doctor. No doctor in the West has any ethical right to touch on their patients' life or family. Such is the unwritten code of conduct. Any inquiries about patients' lives will be perceived as invasive and inconsiderate. THAT is the Western medicine's problem: they must deal with the body only, and not just the body, but separate organs in the body. Otherwise they will be seen as rude. Which parents would listen to the doctor asking what the child might be reacting to, with his asthma?

  • @teldero
    @teldero 7 місяців тому +2

  • @Leemeelone
    @Leemeelone 7 місяців тому +1

    Seemed like he pronounced the right to me 🤷‍♀️

    • @JamesWhittaker1
      @JamesWhittaker1  7 місяців тому +1

      I actually practiced it beforehand too 😂

  • @mesutakalan9395
    @mesutakalan9395 5 місяців тому

    Tol'ko chto raspustivshiysya list pomidora snizil pul's na chetyre udara. Khotya yego bylo sem'desyat chetyre, ono postepenno umen'shalos' do semidesyati. Dyshat' stalo nemnogo legche. Ob"yem zabora sostavlyayet nol' tselykh odin kvadratnyy sm.

  • @evegoodmon
    @evegoodmon 7 місяців тому +1

    Yawn