THIS IS NOT NORMAL! || CONSCIOUS PARENTING!
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- Опубліковано 3 чер 2024
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I’ve haven’t came across a UA-cam as honest as u , we appreciate u jazzy
The most transparent channel on UA-cam. Love Jasmine so much 🫶🏼
Yes it is true. When you are cruel to animals you pay for it dearly, life will not stop letting you have it
Your brother was a sociopath….
Right, that's what I was thinking, Lol.
Yeah, exactly what it sounds like
Ya she has mentioned before that he’s not mentally stable.
Is! 🥺
I had to forward the animal cruelty parts 😭😭😭😭😭😭I’m a animal lover through and through
Girllll I wasn’t ready for these stories. My heart broke hearing these stories. I just want you to know how proud of you I am! You’re so strong and have overcome so much. ❤
Jazzy you are very courageous to share your life with us. What we were exposed to as children affects us as adults. Thanks for sharing❤🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing ❤ my childhood trauma came from my stepdad. He made me feel like our home wasn’t my home. Him and my mom would sit in the living room watching tv and I had to stay in my room. When I was home alone I wasn’t allowed to sit in the living room. He would set traps to see if I’d been watching tv in the living room. I make sure that my kids know that our home is their home! I gladly allow my kids to eat freely (within limits of course) watch what they want in the living room and just be kids. Sometimes they will take over the tv in the living room and I’m just as happy as I can be to let them.
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I understand where you’re coming from, as a child we were not allowing in the living room period. To see cousins your age come to visit and be allowed to sit in there was sad and something that stays with you. Not being allowed to go in the refrigerator until you were 13/14 years old🥺…..I could go on and on.
Wowww i had this same exact experience ❤
Oh no. I’m so sorry you went through that and I’m soo sooo happy that you created a safe space for your babies. Kudos to you!
"Everyone is a predator" 💯💯💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 same here sis. Everyone is guilty till proven innocent and that's on period 😡
Girllllll keep your eyes on your girls. These predators are REAL and it be in the family ... that drunk uncle, nasty cousin etc.
You are a great mom and I wish I had the open communication that you provide. They may say you to much but trust and believe they taking it all in.
I hope these 30 days BLESS you with every dollar you need to move. 😊
Wow Jazzy I’m a 25 year old single mom of 2 baby’s and believe it or not when I watch ya videos each day it gives me strength, please do more videos like this we have so much in common that i didn’t even know , & No ya Childhood wasn’t normal smh 💔 .. sending love & light ya way ❤️Godbless you & ya family ❤️🙏
Never Putting a man before my kids
I’m so sorry you had to go through these terrible things in your childhood Jazz 💔
I’m so happy I ran across your page. With so much fakeness going on in the world today i love a person that can stand in their truth.
Your story is sooo familiar its scary that i can relate to your experiences. All the way down to living in the shelter in BK when we was kids (East New York). Crack was in full effect. My childhood trauma shaped me to be a better version of my addicted family. Thats why i refuse to touch any substance majority of my family is deceased from drugs. when I’m parenting my 16 year old son he don’t understand why i am overprotective. Still On my Healing ❤️🩹 journey. Sending love and positive energy 💯💜
Jazzy I continue to see you as one of the most resilient individuals. This video only cemented that. That you can smile, laugh, be an amazing mother and person after these horrible experiences is a testament to your strength. May you be healthy, happy, safe and at peace throughout your life. ❤❤❤
Imma need you to write a book friend.
Friend, your transparency is next level. I aspire to free myself in such a way. Thanks for inspiring us all to let it out. 💛✨💛
Jaz went through a lot & still came out to be a good person 💯 trauma isn’t talked about enough within our community.
You’re a great mother, Jaz. A lot of mothers out there who will call their daughters grown for getting groomed or SA’d smh. Thank you for your stories and for looking out for your babies 🩷🩷🩷
People don't give there self respect and appreciation for how resilient we are for surviving the atrocities we have been thru. We are not our trauma. Much love to everyone. Stay strong!
Yess I’m with you on seeing everyone as a predator. If you been experienced some things you will think that way as a default
I believe this is your best video yet, thank you. It really makes you think about the things you’ve seen, heard, and done as children, processed as a child, and kept moving. I love you for that. Also the thing your brother hid in was a dumb waiter, it was used to send the garbage to the basement in the very very old days, we had one too. ❤️
My most embarrassing moment as a child was dating a 21 year old when I was 13 years old!! thinking I’m a very mature girl for my age so it was ok smfh thankfully in my case I didn’t lose my virginity to him because at the time my mindset was no sex before marriage, but we dated for a damn year and everyone around me let it happen it was weirdly normal back in the days but I’m disgusted with the thought of it I was a BABY And so brainwashed
Sending you lots of love and support ❤ there is a lot of things as children that we innocently did not notice until we got older. For me, it was not realizing why when certain people in my family came over, we had to damn near put on turtle necks and long pants. Now, hearing what they were doing to other members, I understand
I went through a very similar thing. Expect we were active. The man was 10 yrs older than me. Found out he was sa'ing my younger cousin's which are 10 yrs younger than me!
My sister is 60. She met her husband when she was 13. He was 19 turning 20. Our mother passed 2 years later. My grandmother would no longer allow him to come visit her 2 weekends a month. She ran away to him 6 months later. They have 4 sons and are still together. Maybe your family just trusted that you had a mind of your own and knew right from wrong. By the way, my grandmother came to love him so much, because see saw that he was a good man. He ALWAYS brought my sister and nephews to visit us. Time is the only thing that changes. There are so many couples that met their mate in their teenage years. So don’t feel bad that you thought he was the one.
This was me but my situation ended differently…. I was 14 he was 21, I didn’t get a baby, but worse…😢😢
@@kaylabrown2463 thank you ♥️
You should write a book! Put this in a book I'll buy it and read it!!
Wow your bro was cruel poor animals 😢
Yeah he was cruel sad shame. Mental illness is real.
Girl, you need to write a book
Damm when I hear some of what you went through it saddens me 😢God has a plan for your life,keep going ❤️
Girl I couldn’t wait until I was grown & got my own place, so I could control who came over & stayed. I got tired of living with relatives 😅
Although I know and knew my mama loved me, she never said I love you. She def showed it. With my kids we say it literally everyday all day…and now so does my mama. She’s not so open to sharing her child hood trauma but I know she prob has some.
Mannnn!!!! I definitely understand everything you're saying!!!! I consciously try my best to not yell at my son!! If someone yells at or around me i shut down and go into fight or flight mode. Sometimes i slip but i ALWAYS apologize to him when i see it!!! I tell him to speak up(mumbling) when he's talking to ppl, because i had to be seen and not heard as a child.. whewwwww i could go on and on but I'm so glad we're all consciously breaking the cycle!!! Nothing's ever perfect but we are dang sure trying!!🎉❤
You survived so much Jasmine and you are such a strong, kind, intelligent woman and an excellent mother and you should be so proud of yourself❤ I thought my childhood was bad living with an alcoholic father, being poor and us having to move constantly as a kid, and I have stories but not like yours. And so happy you’re posting every day in June!! 🥰
Gurl when is the book coming out. Baby the stories are mind blowing
You are my absolute favorite UA-camr. I look forward to your content because I feel I can relate a bit. I have a truck load of trauma, but too much to say so I won't unload. Keep up the good work.
You’re not wrong for thinking like that once you’ve been through something traumatic you are on high alert! Keep asking the kids so you can stay preventative cause baby folks nowadays are a different kind of predator!
22:37 Thank you for sharing Jazzy. I too struggle with seeing people as predators. I was sexually molested by my mother’s boyfriend when I was 13-14. He was a serious groomer. Your transparency is healing others. ❤❤❤
When you said you were walking and saw posters jaw dropped😱😱
Jazzy Girl you have been through a lot,glad you’re building a strong foundation and community for yourself and your kids.
Love your stories .. your honesty and realness .. love it! ❤
So awful what he did to those dogs 😢, and sorry you had to witness those traumatic things.
That’s some real law and order SVU stories. You should definitely write a book. Or make an appearance on law and order SVU. Especially that baby story and missing girl story.
I so love watching your videos,not to mention your accent ❤ So happy you’re in a space where you love you which also allowed you to find and experience true love with Keisha!!
My parents never attended any school events to support me. So while everyone had someone there to cheer them on or watch them receive awards, whatever it was, I never had anyone there for me. Now that I’m a mom, I make sure I’m in attendance to EVERYYYTHING my daughter is apart of so when she looks in the crowd she sees me there because I never want her to feel how I felt. ❤️🩹
Same. My family didn’t care to come, it was like it was a waste of time for them. I’ll never make any child feel that way
You are so brave to share your story. I grew up in a house of chaos both my father and brother became alcoholics. I don’t have enough time to tell my story. I made a conscious choice to have peace in my home for me and my children.
Thank you for sharing your stories and vulnerabilities. I know I can relate to SO much of what you said. I’m happy you’re sharing this here, so your girls can see how you are working lovingly, tirelessly, and selflessly to break generational traumas - so they can lead better lives and make better choices. So proud of US all, for doing the best we can every day to create a better life for our children and ourselves!!! ❤
My God. Thank you for bringing Jazzy out❤. You never know anyone’s story. That’s why I always treat people with the highest respect. I pray for your continuous healing and peace 🫶🏽.
I really enjoyed this video! Thank you for sharing your experiences and traumas. Im so sorry you had to experience those things. I can relate to some things. One of my biggest traumas is abandonment from my dad and ex husband. Ive been left and without explanation and the way i deal (similar to you) is get into a relationship thats not healthy and very one sided. As a result I was in an abusive relationship and it affected me emotionally. I can never have children. So how i deal with my traumas is I work hard and dont rest. I strive to be the best at everything I do. Sadly after my ex-husband left me, i crashed. I found out im diagnosed with depression, anxiety and PTSD. Ive had 4 major surgeries, my most recent a back spinal surgery which im recovering from. I may need another one. So i am alone but I thank God for my mom for being here for me. I'm grateful to people (my internet friends) who show me love and encourage me. Im still struggling but I live by my motto, try your best. I try my best. Hope I didnt bore you with my story but its my hope through my work as a teacher and author that i can inspire people. It truly takes a village. Love you my Brooklyn sis ❤❤
This is your best video to date. Your trauma makes you who you are . Your children are lucky to have a mom like you to teach them
This explains a lot.How did you become so optomistic? Thank Goddess I cant relate.I applaud you young woman!!
I just love your personality ❤️
Jazz you’ve been through so much. I commend you for keeping such a light spirit and energy. God is with you. I wish you all the best with everything is about to unfold for you and your family. You deserve it!
I admire your honesty and sharing your stories
I love your channel!!! You are a gem!
It takes a lot to share childhood trauma and tell it in the way you do!
Keep pushing and stepping on necks beautiful!❤️💯
You’re one of the realest person on UA-cam I know I’m so sorry you had to go through all of this. Yes your brother most definitely was a Psychopath but my brother introduced me to some weird things in my life that I wished I had never had to go through I suffered some Molestation from him and through the years it made me make some bad choices in my life. Some of the things I never shared with my mother until I was an adult. But for the most part I had a great childhood and my stepdad was awesome! And my brother has changed his life around tremendously! Thanks for sharing and I think you are an amazing mom! Keep up the good work! Until tomorrow 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️👍🏾🥰😘
You doing great Jazzy keep crushing your June goals!!!🩷
I love this video ! Gurlllll the trama I experienced is crazy I’m still scared to come out and say it because it’s going to be a very big thing but I can’t let it go 🥺😭
I just love your story time... Don't feel bad boo ...Im very verrryyy over protective of my kids.. I dont play that they are with me.. Because something i went thru when i was really young n when i got a lil older.
Same
Hey Jazz I'm so proud of you and the woman you have turned out to be from listening to what you've shared. I have alot of respect for you lil sis. You definitely been through a lot in your childhood. I like you and some of that made me sad for you. Protecting them girls is an automatic thing for you. God 🙏🏽 bless you and your family.
I love other people's stories! This was very interesting and nothing I've ever heard before!!! I'm glad you survived to share some of your stories and do better by your children! Please know I think you are an incredible mother in spite of your circumstances, but now I understand those circumstances better. God bless you and your's!!! ❤❤❤
you have no idea how much i needed this today
Love you jazzy God has your back keep going
Nothing wrong with keeping ur babies aware. The ones who aren't aware is the ones it happens to. But uk trust them to tell u after u educated them on it
Don’t stop, you should always talk to your kids and ask them questions. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Love you Jazzy! You are strong and courageous. Trust your healing process. You’ve gone through so much. I love that you don’t allow your past to keep you stuck in life. God has been with you and will continue to help you. Stay positive and keep moving forward. What’s ahead is greater than what’s behind you! God bless!🙏🏾💕
Yup hunts point ! In the bronx
Jazz I’m the same way! Stay that way! It’s for the best.
4 minutes and 170 views already…. We were waiting for you friend lol
Always ❤
Sure was 🙌🏾 She is so honest with us about her life. I respect Jazzy.
Yup, yup, yup!!
❤❤ Ms. jazz THANK YOU for Sharing All the experiences You Shared with us Today. I Have MAD Respect for YOU SISTER. WOW, YOU ARE A REAL WOMAN.
Great Commentary!💯
I see people like that also. Smh when I was 12/13 I was touched I appropriately. Im 35 now and I thought I let it go but when I had my daughter at 31 all the emotions came back at once. I was worried who was around us if someone would try that on her. But no one was around us and we moved out of the country, plus i don't play. But im always watching her cause you never know how other people was raised
May every one of us be healed beyond the people & the pain. Remember that God loves you and He has a strategy for your life even now. He’s an amazing healer.❤
I did not have child trams but this really helped me to understand my husband more and young women at my church better to guide them to freedom of Trama
We’re on a similar journey right now. Can’t wait to see u all the way on the other side ❤❤
Don't stop if you don't protect your babies who will? My sister don't talk to me to this day cause I don't let my daughter be alone with her kids 4 boys, hell no🙅🏾♀️the first time I was touched was by a cousin...ain't no hiding go get with my child.
Heyyy Jazzy, my childhood trauma that has lived with me for so long is whooping ass then asking questions later, and also always being in a relationship or situationship jumping from one to the next! But now I love to love on me baybeeeeeeew🫶🏾❤
Sistah queen U R going to be the best there is . ENJOY YPUR BLESSING!
As a child, starting at age 5, I had a female cousin that taught me how to touch her (finger, rub, rub nipples, kiss, etc) She was only two years older than me now mind you but it went on for a few years. As an adult, I wonder who introduced her to those things and why she introduced me. We both have daughters now. Hers is 6 and mine is 3. There are certain things that I’m not allowing my daughter to do…such as go over her house without me. Or anyone’s house for that matter. And it’s not that I think she’ll touch my daughter, it’s more so that I know how flippant adults can be when kids are playing, they’ll put multiple kids in the tub together, multiple kids in the same bed and not even think that something sexual could be happening. I’ve never questioned my cousin about any of it or even acknowledged to her that I remember it. I don’t hold ill will or bad feelings toward her for it. Me and her are close and talk a few times a week. I told my mom when I became an adult and she asked why I never said anything. And I honestly don’t know why. The grownups would be in the next room.
4:59 I can’t listen. Your brother is a psychopath 👀 I can’t stand ppl who could even think to hurt an animal. You poor thing! Being exposed to that. Think of all the animals that are abused at the hands of of assholes 🤬🤬🤬. I’ve never been triggered but Bang 😣🫶🏼🦋💜🦋 see you in the next 😘
I don’t remember feeling the love so I make sure I hug and kiss and tell my babies I love them everyday
The shit we went through back in the day!!!! I feel everything you are talking about
My grandmother has always been verbally and sometimes physically abusive, with everything she says being negative. I was never allowed to stay at others' houses, unlike other family members. My mother was never defended when wronged by family. She once stayed with my grandmother's sister-in-law, who told her to scrape her dark knees, leading to a skin condition. I understand why my mom is overprotective, but she sometimes does things I hate. I've vowed to raise my children differently(if i ever have any), as trauma sticks with you, no matter how old you get.
Dang this story is worse than I thought Jazz smh so much love and respect for you because that is horrific memories foreal. 😢
I been checking since 8 to see if you posted🤣🤣🤣 we love you!!! Yep yep yep 📌
Hi Jazzy that last part was me I never was by myself this is the first time I’ve been by myself at 52 years old and I am loving it 🥰 and I’m loving on myself Thank you for that story ❤
Jazzy you have been through so much but you would never know by looking at you!!!🥰🥰
Love you Jazz! ❤
Love you and content 💕 ❤️
You're spoiling us with a video everyday in June and I'm here for it.!
Girl you need a podcast or hotline! Just so I can call in I got stories to tell baby whewwwww!😂 I hardly comment but this is so real!
My life was the same way….. monkey barred from one relationship to the next. When my marriage was over Had a bf and another baby B4 I even finalized my divorce. Then I met someone who just wasn’t moving in didn’t want to & couldn’t be at my house everyday…. We’ve since broke up & now I don’t even wanna date… I mean I do. But I’m fine home all by myself.. idk how I’ma meet someone but I’m not stressin it either🤷🏾♀️…. Prior to this I was afraid to be alone. Now I’m afraid to date cause I don’t want them to destroy the peace I’ve built being by myself
Wow. I'm a faithful watcher I don't really comment a lot but I do faithfully watch and I just want to commend you for being so strong and sharing this with your subscribers. Prayers to you and your family. You are a good person and a good mother. I know times are hard but you should be very proud of where you are and what your future holds ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My child hood trauma came from my mother crack addiction😢....Because folks would not say the bullshit to my mother directly I felt I had to deal with it from others, siblings, outside folks....As I gotten older I have realized all of what I have endored was not my fault nor was I the cause. I was just left with fucked up folks😒
Thank you, I appreciate you so much for having the courage to share your truths. Jazzy, in my mind you are my Sista from another Mr. and to me you are family. I will continue to include you all in my prayers. Sending love and much respect to you. Praying that you be blessed abundantly with every happiness in Jesus’ name Amen.😊😇🙏🏽
Damn Jaz this was such a good video! I really related to a lot that you said... you make me want to just make video diaries to get some of this pain out, not to share with anyone but to share it with myself.
This was dope 😊
Hey just jazzy I came across u like a month oh so I really like watching u God bless u and your family
Jazzy you're so strong and smart beyond your years, now I know Why!!!😢 you're Great for kids, especially those Girls, God Bless You GurrLLL 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤❤❤❤👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing ❤
I see myself in you and my past trauma and how I parent 😢❤
This video got me shook 😮
I didn't know what love was until I had my son . My mom never showed me that or paid any attention to me, called me names, never said I love you or hugged me I learned a lot on my own . No one cared what I was doing which is why I was pregnant at 17 wanted to give love to my son the way I never had it looking for love and attention in all the wrong places my mom and dad both suck 😕
Lol.. I literally was on standby😅😂😊