Conserve Your Energy for Those Who Truly Value It
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
- In this video I thought I would simply read something which I found inspiring and thought many might benefit from hearing... a powerful message about conserving our energy for those who value us, and also learning to value ourselves.
This message has recently been attributed to Anthony Hopkins, though I could not verify that he is the author. Another source indicates that the author is actually Brianna Wiest. You can find the article by Brianna Wiest here:
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I also did some editing, as the original piece had a few parts that we're difficult to understand, or could be too easily misinterpreted, or simply didn't flow well. (No disrespect to the author who presented us with a wonderful and inspiring message)
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"The truth is that you're not for everyone and everyone is not for you." Priceless.
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Not even his own words
@@jessynicholle he never said it was please stop being negative
@RONIN why make it about her being a woman? not cool bruh, we're all just people
@@jessynicholle sad
"You are the one you have been seeking. Be the love you never received."
@Evelyn Marks "The kingdom of God is within"
@Evelyn Marks Jesus is the sun.
Be the love you never received
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Turn your life into a sanctuary where only those who are appreciative can gain entrance to that sacred space.. THIS!!!!
so beautiful ⚘
Words to live by.
Mmmm. That’s dope. 🤙
My dad says that a lot.
Jesus loves you all. Repent and put your faith in Him!
Energy is EVERYTHING, I literally had to stop associating with many of my “friends” because their energy was sooooo draining and negative, it’s been more peaceful than ever
Ditto
Energy is what will live on for us, long after the physical is dead and buried.
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I could have saved myself a lot of heartache, time, and energy if I had known this decades ago. I learned the hard way. But the important thing is that I learned this lesson. Love and light from Germany.
Me too, good luck from Scotland
Imagine how lucky we are. Others are still trying to understand why they feel tired so often without understanding that others can drain their energy.
And @Hugh McMillan: Scotland... what an amazing country.
Same here. Never lament learning you had been totally wrong. Blessings to you as you continue to learn and grow.
Me too! 🤔 But forgive yourself! Do not dwell on the past mistakes. We all have regrets about things because we are only human. Don't lose even more energy over regret.
Me too ... From India
Yea I get it just freakin sux when it’s YOUR FAMILY.
Hahaha, so true! They say every family has a problem person. If you think you’re family doesn’t have one, it’s you ☺️
That's exactly what I was thinking whatching this. I believe it may be the exception
I'm sorry and i know exactly what you mean
It’s even harder when it’s your own grown-up kid💔 And I try and I try and nothing
Yah me too
It’s taken me 69 years to realize how much I have craved for love and acceptance from sources outside myself and what it has been costing me to behave in ways I thought would bring me such acceptance. Now I am amazed at how powerful & mostly unconscious that drive is to please others. It is exhausting and can never be enough. Thank you for passing on this wisdom.
same here, 48 years and finally reached the point where i am ok with not giving my all to everybody. I need that energy for my own growth. The last two years have been so empowering and i see things so clear.
So, beautifully spoken. You just summed up in a couple paragraphs the struggle I have been semi consciously aware of and fighting desperately to be free of for the last couple years. Thank you for sharing and shrinking the monster down to size for me.
We are complete with everything. We have more love in us than we will ever know
@Richard Gerson, respect to you (yeah... pleasing eh)..
@@imbolc8024 😂
I have wasted so much energy on those who didn’t appreciate me or reciprocate 😔Thank you for your gentle words.
Deena Sayed . Yes..ditto! And I'm still learning at age 60 !
Yes, me too.... in one relationship in which I gave and gave and gave so much love energy and time... but got abuses in return.
I'm learning at 53+three children...
Appreciate yourself.
"Be with those who help your Being.
Don't sit with indifferent people whose breath comes cold out of their mouths." that's the first few lines of a poem by Rumi.
Thanks. 🌏✌
Rumi ❤️
❤ Love Rumi!
Sit with trees that have blossoms. -Rumi
@@jumpingship1362 ❤️
Wow. Profound.
Thank you very much I did listen to this video my 35 year old son that was in the Marines send it to me and me being a mother of six Sons and one daughter I Only Have One Bad Apple in my basket which is my 41 year old son and I just sent him this video heavy into drugs he depends on Grandma and Mama to do everything for him I told my mother 86 year-old mother enough is enough I am no longer contributing to him and I'm stopping my mother from giving him money God bless you abundantly my children no longer need me early 40s 30s and late 20s I did thank my lord for them I dedicated them back to the Lord at the age of 66 I am conserving my energy I am so much at peace with myself all I do is bless everybody for them to be on their way
I find this video so powerful and liberating that I'm watching it over and over again. I'm 56 and for my entire life I've made the tragic mistake of giving my time and energy to relatives, friends, and girlfriends who cared little for me. It's been emotionally draining and exhausting. I suppose I've done it because of low self-esteem and not loving myself. Those days are over. I'm going to learn to love myself and be my own best friend. I'll only give my time and energy to those who will reciprocate. Life is short 😢
Life is short. Value every moment.
Easy to say, impossible to do, especially if "every moment" is not happy.
Value even the unhappy moments. They make happy moments that much more special.
They say you only regret something if you didn’t learn from it. ?
And check out some of my spoken word for more thoughts on exactly this!
Strangely enough, I started feeling this way about 3 weeks ago. I don't have time to waste energy on people who are staying the same. People can drain your energy real quick and it goes unnoticed for way too long. I had to stop showing up, giving my time and knowledge to some people never willing to change. It can also be something different than just people. You can waste your energy on other things or thoughts that are never going anywhere. Choose wisely what you spend your energy on. For it is really not just your energy. It belongs to the universe. It is gifted and trusted to you.
"Be the love you never received"
Took me a long time to stop trying to love people who took my love and abused my love. I've learned o stop interacting with all people who have not been nice to me.
Most humans are demons. There's literally 0 people that are good.
Thank you for sharing I’ve gone through so much the same
@@strategicthinker8899 darn near. Few. Narrow is the gate. Keep the faith in Abba
It sounds so simple, but those are profound words. Thank you 🙏🏽❤️
@@strategicthinker8899 id say 99.9% are horrible ppl
This video came right in time because I was about to waste my energy on people who don't deserve
"Turn your life into a sanctuary where only those who are appreciative can gain entrance into that sacred space" loved this
Other than my kids, I don't know who actually truly loves me. Pray my kids always know who loves them. I'm empathetic. I've learned to keep my energy safe as I can. I'm learning to love myself.
This is so true. However for me unfortunately this is 90 percent of all the people that have ever been in my life, thus I am now a loner...
I literally let go of all of these types from my life and now I am left with no one
In the same situation I believe asking with faith will bring truthful and more fulfilling relationships....eventually.
Perhaps the letting go prepares and clears the old stale energy for a new fresh life.
@@vals74 yes ive been using these past 4 years alone to heal and work on myself and learn and grow..
@@j.sony.I wish I could say I am there alone with you and in ways many of us suffer this collectively. I feel very alone. I do know however that nothing is forever permanent. Good , mediocre or bad this too will pass.
Yes it's a tough one
2021 is the year of avoiding and keeping the 'THIEVES OF JOY' out of my energy field. Thank you Covid for this opportunity 👏
Xmas day was pure joy on the beach around a campfire with my son and not a thief of joy in sight! Love it.
Love and light every one 💖xxxxx
Thieves of joy, yes! hate to say it but sounds a lot like my dad. So many special occasions he has turned up to and deliberately sabotaged. Another way I like to describe ppl like that is Energy vampires, they lay in wait on a daily basis hoping to siphon energy from unsuspecting ppl, could be the bus driver, a member of staff in a store, anyone!!
Stay home.
Protect your energy.
Save yourself.
Only open the door with your coat on.
If you like the person, you're just come in.
If you don't, you're on your way out 🤣
Drastic times call for drastic measures.
Stay safe everyone x
As someone who has been going through a bullying situation, this is very relevant to me.
stay strong! eye love you! have a amazing day/night💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love you bro, there are strong people who would love you
Do not care about those damn bullies. What do they know about life anyway ? I would suggest reading about stoicism it kinda helped me
@@Anna_-hi5re, have Marcus Aurelius's Meditations from the library to read. 😁 Great minds think alike.
Regain your mental power , it will manifest physically
Obsession with another can be due to an indescribable need for their approval.
Despite intellectual awareness the obsession remains.
Facing this is an ongoing process.
Sometimes feels as strong as addiction.
I feel you. Been there💯
Needed to hear this. Friedrich Nietzsche wrote in the book thus spoke Zarathustra, 'Such people seat themselves at the table and yet bring nothing to it, not even a healthy appetite: and then they blaspheme, 'all is vanity'.
Me to! Full moon of change incomming
@@PratibhaRaut333 your welcome
“Background option “ that is so true . Sanctuary and conserving energy, for those who deserve. I was used as a background option and fill in someone’s blank space in there life . Felt like a prop . But have left all that behind . And have started doing things for myself. Felt guilty , even selfish in the beginning. But Had to do this for myself and my well-being.
I learned this so many years ago...lost some so called friends...sat in the many days,weeks,even months in what felt like isolation... being truer to myself...but now at peace with all that is.
Yes, that is how it is for me.
What I still have difficulty with is accepting the one who blames me all of the time; I need to start seeing him as a child of God just like everyone else. And I can only manage that when he isn’t blaming me.
“ You are not for everyone .. and everyone is not for you “ 🧿🧿💙
Love and light 💫💫
Several years ago was advised, “Don’t throw your pearls before swine.” I forgot this bit of wisdom, and your words helped me remember. Thank you.
Calling someone swine is not a good idea❣️🙏🏽😃
@@stebarg but if they treat you in such a way, I think it is only fair 😏
If the shoe fits...
@@PolarBear-rc4ksWhat way?
@@stebarg only wrote this a week ago but I can't remember why lol
Thank you so much for being and loving yourself. We are all on our own path and to the same direction, to the light.
i WAS A HEALER FOR MANY MANY YEARS I GAVE MY ENERGY AWAY CHEERS
Recently had a messy breakup with my friends. One a narcissist the other a perpetual victim. Wish I understood this lesson before they got their hands on me.
There's a difference between niceness and kindness.
This message is EXACTLY what I needed to CONFIRM what My Soul has been whispering to My Heart 💜 Thank You 🙏 namaste
When that moment comes...everything makes sense. Sometimes in order to see light, we must see darkness. But we take that darkness and observe it, study it, learn from it, use it, and then, it comes to us. And when it does...that fucker is shinning really bright.
Monica Guizar . Absolutely DITTO ! I've spent wasted years on those who either, used, belittled, patronised, manipulated, were jealous and wanted to enjoy bullying me . I need to learn to ( which I am, though a little late in life age 60 ) block, move away, on from people who bleed me dry . I could listen to this voice and advice all day . Thank you
After hearing this i think this is the time to share my own quotation, "Manipulate yourself for your own advantage, before others manipulate for their own advantage."
So I am not the only one who has poured themselves into empty wells! I AM “ the one who I have been looking for!” I have love and joy and wisdom from beyond to share, but no one is volleying back! I AM better off shining my light into the infinite instead of letting others play moth to my flame, thus diminishing both. Thank you to all who have made this message reach my soul today. I do know what it is like to see another illuminate in my presence. I blush to have settled for less from a place of perceived aloneness. I do prefer the company of infinite trees to a single wooden person! My blessing to all who walk a different path now that I am unbound and infinitely free.
Been watching for a few weeks and honestly Im glad the algorithm recommended your channel, your content has been very helpful and honestly I'm glad we have people like you.
I second this. 🙌💜
Me too! Somehow Nada's videos showed up in my recs. So glad I found him.
Yes also for me. These videos are wonderful.
@@fiestapais me three! Best channel on the web!
Same❤️
Thank you for this 🙏. It took me 26 years but I am grateful that I am now able to walk away from people who don't appreciate "Me". Much love 🇯🇲
You are not responsible to save anyone, it's not your responsibility to convince them to be saved.
It's not your job to exist for people. To give them your life, little by little, moment after moment, becuase you feel pity, or obligation, or becuase you feel guilty.
Reading into co-dependancy, and recognising alot of personal patterns within that type of behaviour. Let's just say thank you, this video is Gold.
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Needed this family even kids ignore me after they assaulted. Going on 2 1/2 years trying to get them to change not working on myself as much I’ve progressed a lot but that is the final destination to release them and people that do not appreciate me as a whole. I always tried to get me to change that’s why they beat me up because I was too much love for people that aren’t capable of loving fully.
A struggle that I face continually, since forever, is that I always try to be aware of how I affect people. People appreciate my energy, but I get rattled by others. It makes me wonder if it's me that needs to be tougher or them who needs to be softer. But tough isn't what I want to be, so I just keep to myself.
There is nothing you can do to change others. Others are fully capable of change, but rarely do they take that initiative. You can only change how you respond. One can be soft, but also strong. Soft enough to have compassion, but strong enough not to be so easily affected by others. Wishing you well, always and in all ways!
@@AwakenInsight thank you for the reminder 💛
there is a good chance you may bre under the influence of Neptune! look it up ,it may make sense..yah it will!
@@AwakenInsight Something I just read... An important component of equanimity is radiating warmth and openness as you encounter the stressors of life.. The Buddha characterized the person with equanimity as abundant, exalted, immeasurable, without hostility and without ill-will.
Higher Love, I resonate with your message. I’m the same. Most people are far too callous and careless for my soul. I don’t understand how they act.
It took me nearly 30 years of my life to realize this. I am 33 now. I have a very close family member who is a narcissist (truly) and damaged me severely. I was only able to heal once I stopped allowing myself to give my energy to this person. I will have to send this to someone I know that needs it now. Thank you ♥️
Absolutely. Experience teaches us more than anything. I'm a little wiser now at age 30 than when I was 20. I've spent many years living a life that I didn't want to live. I've been pushed to the side because I am different and not accepted for who I am. I've been in many situations where I would give from the heart with meaning and it would be unappreciated. I've learned from these bad experiences and know now to just move on and know what I value. When you get treated this way in life, don't waste anymore time on these people because no matter how much good you do, it will still be ignored. The best advice I know is to not waste time trying to talk to people who aren't really listening to what you say, because if you continue to do so, you are devaluing who you are by putting in some effort to open up to those who don't truly appreciate you.
I prayed to God for His love in my prayers tonight and then I landed on this video after a few minutes.
Now I'm in tears.
It doesn't matter who said. The universal Intelligence behind all thought is of my Father and he heard and answered my prayer.
Exactly what I needed to hear.
My tears won't stop. So grateful. 🙏
So happy to have heard this at my current age (21). While I am young, I've been a people pleaser my whole life. It wasn't until a few weeks ago that I realized how many of my actions were driven with the goal in mind to receive a positive reaction from others, at the expense of my own well-being and sanity. I've spent plenty of energy attached to the idea that I need to always be putting in so much effort into my relationships, attached to the idea that the other party can change in a way that would make our relationship harmonious. I didn't realize that this sort of behavior was part of the reason why I have struggled to love myself. I was trying to meet the expectations of others and falling out of alignment with who I am. This led to feelings of inauthenticity, and it wasn't until recently that I acknowledged my own behaviors and began to make change towards truly loving myself (some of my relationships started to flourish again once I began to make that commitment for myself, hooray!) Thank you for this message, I know its something that I can carry with me for life
It is so great that you came to such wisdom at a very early age. That insight will save you from so much heartache throughout your life. Happy journey 💜
I needed to hear exactly this tonight! Unfortunately the person I need to stop giving my attention to is my daughter. So heartbreaking to finally realize this, but she is abusive to me. 😢
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Wait how old is she?
Start speaking life into her, even if from a distance. You as a mother have a lot of power over her life and love.
I feel your pain of having an adult child that's abusive. If they've been indoctrinated by (ex's) former family members or are being bought literally with money there's little you can do but retain your own peace and tuck in the back of your mind that someday they'll have a revelation. Again we can't change others opinions of us-even if they're bases on lies and even if they're our own children. I feel for you. Good luck and stay positive with God.
My brother was abusive to me ans my mum and my other brother his whole life . He was even abusive on hi death bed as my mother sat at his side . He died in my arms and I think he finally found love after his death as his whole face changed to one of peace instead of anger . It’s so painful but if you can know in your heart that your daughter is clearly ill it’s easier to forgive her . Living with abusive people is very hard but I believe they are just not well in their mind but deep in those soul they are good . Jesus said ‘forgive them as they know not what they do ‘ . Only see her when you are feeling strong . Don’t let her behaviour get to you
That is exactly why l couldn’t stay any longer in a loveless marriage despite the attachment and the pain that it brought about to me and my family. It was choosing between withering away or saving myself to a better happy life.
I’m so thankful as I am recovering and doing the right thing for myself and setting an example to my beautiful children.
You are brave. I genuinely hope you find what was lacking from your past circumstances. I am afraid to walk through those doors myself. So, I sit in a comfortable enough cage. And each moment is like the one that came before it. It is mostly a silent agony. Disappointment and a lack of real connection in every room of my home. I've tried explaining my needs/desires to no effect. They simply are not shared. From the outside looking in, many would consider me fortunate. From the inside looking out, it is a lonely, cold and desperate place. I frequently question myself. Am I so difficult and demanding that I dare to be unfulfilled by what would bring completeness to others. Or is it right to want what authentically fills me with passion for life but is lacking in this place?
Blessings to you!
@Ronda Natan, I stand with you love as I walk out from a 12 year marriage/20 year relationship. We share three beautiful children and I'm walking not only for them, but for myself.
I deserve to live this life gifted to me in a way that brings my heart joy.
I had to recover from a childhood of trauma and abuse. Codependent behaviors, depression, anxiety, living with a narcissist...
I know my journey was long but here I stand and here I rise!
I deserve and accept the love I've always desired.
Wanting real connection and love does not make you "needy" or "emotional" it makes you human.
I too, am setting an example for myself so it can then be reflected through my children. As I grow, I see how everything affects them.
I will do right by them in this life! I will do right by myself.
I'm on my way!
Ryan?
Man I am so thankful that you spoke in these beautiful words I am going through the same and I appreciate these words
Thank you so so much!!! I used to be like that, and I have been deceived many times. Eventually I realized what you have just told us. I don't know for other people, for myself I was speaking for recognition, acceptance, love and friendship. But that never came. I'm 65 now and I learned to love myself since 3 years. This has altered my way of interacting with people like night and day. I used to put everyone else's needs and desires before mine. As a child, I grew up in a dysfunctional home between the age of 18 mo and 15...but had loving caring grandparents before that time. But there's too much to say. Your voice communicates so much calm and peace 😌 It feels like medicine for the soul. I am very happy to have came upon your video and your message is very precious and perfectly formulated. Namaste 🌷
I never knew a 5 minute video could alter the course of my life for the better.
You are speaking FACTS! I’m on this journey now in my life and I never been so happier. I been the black of the family that people only wanted to use and abuse. I find my self worth and started loving me and thing started to change for the better. I don’t have any friends and I lose a lot of so call family members and I’m okay with that. I now have self worth, peace, love, abundance and happiness. That’s all that matter to me🥰
Oh Brother of the Soul...
Some moments ago I was doing to do my exercise and meditation. Usually I dont start my computer before that.
Something was busing inside, telling me to check what was going on. I started the computer, refreshed the homepage of youtube and then this video appeared.
I know about synchronicity, a huge chunk of my life goes around that, for a long time now, decades, I do my best to align with it, but I`m currently in a very tough position, like Arjuna talking to Krishna in the middle of the battlefield, exactly like that, no exaggeration here.
This video was acupuntarally precise, I`m sure that for a lot of people it was too, but in the battle that I been having it was like seeing the cavalry coming when you only have one bullet left and about to be run over by the enemy.
I know this principle that you read about, but receiving it at this precise moment was a sure confirmation that things are align and moving in the right direction, no matter how painful or devastating they are at the moment.
My Love to you Brother, may you Always be Blessed, may you find always the way to go Deeper in the Existence, may you always Soar closer and closer to the Sacred Eternal Being... may you Always be Free...
Thank you from the deepest part of my Being...
My most profound Gratefulness, I shin den shin.
Gracias brother Nada... Gracias.
Smile.
I HAVE TEARS IN MY EYES....SO TRUE......DEAR....SO TRUE..
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@@ishratpopal9714 Smile with a Clint Eastwood type of grin, face the Huracan and Roar at it with all your might...!
Lord Krishna bless you..if u r like Arjuna then I am so sure
Krishna is so near you and will guide you through your battle... have faith and do Karma..u are where u r suppose to be and will be where u r meant to..
love
Smile back at you
@@eachoneteachone9447 ❤🌹
I am one of the many in this comment section. One who has learned this lesson, finally. I just turned 60. For 55 of those years I was the classic giver, people pleaser, with rarely a drop of appreciation in return. Learning this powerful lesson is life changing. I feel as though a giant weight of oppression has been lifted off my back. God bless everyone who find themselves resonating with this message. You are on a good path.
The last couple days I've been 'hearing' a quote by Buddha that says s'thing like 'once we are pushed away, don't go back that way' my children have pushed
also had my first experience of Self Love two days ago, at 65 years old. Not something I could create, only come to after much dissolution
Thank you for this synchronization of beautiful wisdom
yeah I been "hearing " Buddha too man ,he said dont get outa bed pack a cone instead and eat some pizza then buy a six pack of beer then pass out and start the day again ! I was sceptical but none the less I did it ! and now I feel great ! ...namaste my fellow hippies .....yah
@@braindeadvirus5173 Your first name suits you well my friend
@@maewest4098 yes it does ! why dont you come up and see me some time! ha ha!
God this made me a little teary in places......
Very true concise words which is a very real reality of a scary path to walk. Its a total leap of faith and walking into pain and the unknown is what many of us have to do on our journey, but its so true and agree.... letting go of these destructive attachments need to happen. Thankyou for such well constructed words......
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Thank you for this reminder. Really needed to hear these words today. We generate our own suffering by desiring that others like us 🙏
This message is timeless and I too have come to know these very same things. That no matter what, cherish your peace and your joy, allow it to flow over and through you like cleansing waters and know that everything is in order--you don't have to struggle. Thank you for sharing this much needed message with the collective.
I turn 44 next week: and this information took years to understand and accept- hopefully this video will save some viewers a lot of wasted years and understand this is truth-
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Be well !
I felt like I have been going through life blindly. These words resonates with me craving for acceptance and love. I too struggle with the notion that if I give all of my self I would make the people around me happy and ultimately I will be happy. But I am give to the wrong people who are not ready to receive my kindnesses. I feel like you have awaken my soul. I am so great ful. I can stop wasting precious time and energy and redirect it. I have been giving for the past 69 years.
@@rsing3325 I think with me, I should have learned from my childhood. I didn’t “feel” connected to any classmates , even at a young age. I spent more of my elementary years sitting alone under a massive tree outside the playground limits, but the teachers never seemed to bother with me. They knew I was just chilling under the tree, using sticks to dig the dirt from the surface roots, I wonder if that tree is still there, 🤔
This Made few tears fall as this is EXACTLY what the universe has been desperately trying to teach & lead me too this realisation after much childhood trauma and abuse- parents and ex husband Narcissist!!
After much self love, work and care.. I am proud to be so in love with myself today and giving up is now..Never An Option! Love this, needed to hear every word on my mommy free day 🌼. Thank you so much and keep sharing your insights and wisdom. We all need each others experiences to help us grow 🧡 From Lockdown England UK 🇬🇧
These words ring so true. Its never quantity but quality of the people we have around us. We are no better , or no worse than anyone else. We have to learn to find inner peace and contentment , else we become a slave to need , and lose our freedom of choice.
You are right..There are predators out there..Was very helpful..I was always drained by people.. Even Narc survivor also helped me a lot..
Precisely how I've been feeling for the last week. I really don't want certain people's energy in my life. Unfortunately, with some individuals, there's been too much take, take, take and nothing gained in return. My time and energy are too valuable to be careless with it.
Turn your life into a sanctuary.....beautiful!
I agree with that its hard to help people who don't even care about you , and some people are very mean spirited and even abusive , so why let them affect you as a person , your better off with people who you can help and they enjoy you being there .
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@@evanwolf6618 Corrected .
@@evanwolf6618 You have the lyrics wrong .
@@michaeldooley3642 corrected !
Thank You, for this very meaningful message. I love to be loved and love to love. I'm 61yrs old and many times I have found that trying to care and love genuinely doesn't seem to exist. I love to be hugged and love to be there for people in happy times and not so happy times. As a bereavement counselor I have found that people say they will be there for the people who are bereaved but most of time those words are just talk without the walk. Like you mentioned in your message you can't change someone but you can change and make your own choices. So, I will continue to be me and love those who are genuine and easy to love. I want people in my life that add to it not subtract from it! I love listening to you for you are peaceful and real. Thank You!!
We need to be deserning about who we let into our lives. We are all deserving of kindness and respect.
I heard that you will never be disappointed by people if you don't expect anything from them. This sounds harsh but if you detach and treat others without any kind of credit or compensation for your actions taken then you can be happy with what you do regardless of what is given in return.
Living in the constant intention of being loving and caring for others is the best choice for me. I just don't have any expectations of being treated in the same way that I treat others. Enjoy and share your love with others and don't give till it hurts.
you sound like a healer to me, have you ever been told this?
@@kellysmiles849 thank you for your observations on my possibility of being a healer.
I have had to be present in my life and been able to find the diagnosis of my situation and the treatments for my health. I have not been able to do the western medicine route for my practice in staying alive.
I am doing something right since I am seventy one years alive and joyously hanging in there.
I think that you are wise and very observant from just reading my random posts on utube.
Thanks for your reply and love you and I will look forward to seeing your thoughts on utube in the future. Kindness and support for each other are my wishes for unity and harmony in our world.
@@parry3231 I deeply resonate with your perspectives, thank you for sharing these as well :)
@@parry3231 i really admire your perspective on life, relationships and people but i wanna know how do we stop expecting, when we put in so much effort in something like a relationship for example, aren't we going to have basic expectations like loyalty and honesty . how do we completely detach ourselves from expectations , i would love to hear your take on this.
@@farihahkhalidshaikh1535 Hello,
In the relationships that I have ever had long term and have been a work in progress, as is my own life, trust and truthful communication is essential.
We have to be able to make sure that we listen and speak with the care of being understood . To be a true friend of someone you have to be honest ,generous and kind with respect for each other . If you celebrate the other's dreams and accomplishments in your heart and want the best for them in their lives and honor your time with them then it is so easy to be present and to be loving.
I have noticed that all religions have a thing that they share , the Golden Rule. I truly believe in "do unto others as you would have done to you" .
" the only way to make a man worthy of love is by loving him" Thomas Merton said.
Loving kindness and compassion for people is always the way. Listen to yourself as well as others. We live in a mystery that is constantly changing. There is going to be pain , mistakes and poor judgments in our lives as well as gladness, excitement, and learning. Feel ,touch, smell and see and taste it all to reach the true essence of being, because it is all about how we interact and interpret each moment, they are all essential for us to realize what we need and what they need in this energetic exchange. If you feel the love and grace of your involvement and you have honest feelings for the honor of each other, with love and respect through communication it works . It takes two! One person trying doesn't have much of a chance. People only change on their own time and if it is their own personal decision . Acceptance of being able to let go and bless the time for the lessons you have been given. We all have obstacles and differences and we need to be present in our lives and to be honest, kind ,loving and understanding of the truth of life.
I hope this helps you out and I am far from perfect and I am learning how to do the best I can in my life. I am a person who totally believes that love is the magic of life and how to be love in all situations and to have love as my guide and inspiration. Sometimes letting go with love and care for yourself or for others is a fact of life. Release and be sure to move on with gratitude for what was shared and the celebration of being present in your own dream and path. Enjoy and don't ever make concessions on your spirit and your integrity to be with someone else.
You just would not believe how perfect your timing is with this video. God bless you. I am one who wants to spread love and joy all over the place. It is met with hate and resistance on many cases. Please keep making your videos. You have truly blessed my soul. I needed this. I am a follower of Jesus Christ and I work at this because He says take up your cross and also says if you love me you will obey me. That means love your neighbor and love the Lord your God with all of your heart and with all of your soul and with all of your mind. I had a really awful week last week met with a hateful and humiliating spirit. I need a breath of fresh air. God bless you. ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
Thank you for sharing this Lovely video. I am grateful to love myself unconditionally. I have learned tremendous lessons from many mean people that truly made me understand myself even more. I am the resilient woman of God today because of all the many trials that I have endured. Praise God. Sometimes our meanest adversary's are our best teachers. Blessings to all ❤️🙏❤️
Yes so very true. We need to be valued as much as we value others 💛
I find that changing the story that I tell myself about an individual often influences their outlook. For example, if I tell myself that my friend seeks to be more aware, they tend to lean more into awareness. We can't override free will, but we can certainly make some decisions easier than others by simply changing our internal narrative about them.
Yes I have been experiencing this!
So true!
I spent 17 years as a mental health nurse. Much of that time was with patients who did not want to be in hospital but needed to be. No regrets.
Great information👍👍👍.. Protect your energy. We get 100 % each day and what we do with it is important. Thank you🤗🤗🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 be the love you never received ❤️
Because we all started out as dependent little creatures, our brains were taught that care, comfort and safety has to come from the outside. A baby can not take care of its own body. And since we mistake ourselves for our bodies, we keep repeating this broken record, believing we need the outside to feel good inside. And that is what we call love. Time for this world to learn what love really is. It is not something you get, it is what you ARE 💖🌹😇
Thats so true, i feel drained when i try help helpless people.
when the student is ready the teacher arrives..... thankyou. i can finally hear these words🙏🏻🙏🏻
In my opinion - no truer words have been spoken. You just guided me to the true meaning of life. What a rich offering. Thank you.
So powerful & true 🙏 Really thank you, you are a Big Light for Many.
The moment I cut with all of my past people ( they were not good for me) and I decided to leave my job. My Life started to transform at last for better. Because for the 1st. time, I started to take care of myself ✨ Thank you for your time, magic, videos & channel 🌞
Thank you......Let our bodies be in harmony with our minds, and our minds is harmony with our energies.
Great and also as he said " be the love you never recieved", wow that rang deep in my soul, that is what I work on. Never felt really loved or understood in this world, but the Kingdom is within as Jesus said. So a lot to do, love, integrate and harmonize 😊🙏♥️🌏🌻
Let us all be one.
Mir fließen die Tränen, eine Wunde in mir wurde berührt. Danke für Deine Worte, sie erinnern mich daran wie wichtig es ist, sich selbst zu lieben. So oft schon gehört, so oft schon probiert, immer wieder bis es wahrhaftig wird, erst dann bin ich frei. DANKE!
Everything stated in this video is 100% honestly factual and wisdom that last the test of time. I learned this the hard way and decided to change 4 years ago and now I live in a bubble in a bubble in a bubble of pure happiness, productivity and solid human beings who practice BEING HUMANE. On top of that my business is flourishing even during this time of uncertainty and less business activity, which I attribute to my way of life and conserving my energy and time for what matters to me. I am living proof of this message and the results one can gain from it.
Thanks for sharing your views. I feel I need to listen it every night before going to sleep to feed this into my subconscious mind. I have been a pleaser all my life and suffered because of this behaviour
This is beyond beautifully brilliant and moving. I'm so grateful for having found this. 💖
Thank you to my angels and ancestors for putting this in my feed today! Thank you Awaken Insight for making it. Blessed be everyone.
This made me put an end to two years of relationship.
You are healed by His stripes you HAVE been healed,
begin to speak the manifestation of all Jesus paid for on the cross
to enter your body now. Praise HIM for HIS excellent greatness
and Thank HIM for your complete healing! Matthew 18:19. Blessings!
That last part struck an emotional nerve. Man I needed to hear that
WOW! That's powerful and profound!
This is a simple message & yet so profound. For empathic people this so essential.
❤️☀️✨🌹🙏🏾
“That’s not love that’s attachment” Thank you so much for this message 🕊🕊
Thank you , very insightful. God bless you , your time & energy
I am the one I have been seeking....thank you for this message truely...I cried. It was so healing. And it was such valuable content. Changed my perception forever.
Thank you Nada, I needed to hear that. That discussion showed me the way to act with dignity and not as a doormat for others to wipe their feet on. You have been a real blessing to me.
I concur.....everything you percieve changes only.....and I mean only after you have changed first.
* tears * ... I believe my Angels led me to watch this today.... It just appeared , and I thank you , and thank you to my Angels and the Universe. 🙏🏻
maybe you should share your angels with children that are starving, dying from crippling diseases and very painfully abused sexually on a daily basis?
@@kirklee66 ...???? My personal Angels are who I am referring to...and I am sure that Angels are aware of of the things you speak of.
Thank you..from the bottom of my heart for ur words u shared here..I heard u😢Ur words felt as if u were talking to me n.. I heard u😢😭😭😭😭It was all attachments..no want, no love..no appreciation or respect.. I released my self from wasting my precious energy that’s not wanted n of those obligations..I was just a useful idiot😔
When I listen to you, I feel calmed, , safe and inspired
Thank you
Took me along time to learn this.....Decades......3 decades to be exact ~ I tried so hard and gave and gave until I was brave enough to let go of the very people who dimmed my light and love myself.......unconditionally.....whole and complete and it feels good 👍🏾 Thank you for posting ~ it was a great reminder to be careful who I give my energy to and being an empathetic person I pick up on authenticity right away ~ Peace and Blessings 🌻
This is the second time I'm coming across this quote in one day. Synchronicity? Confirmation bias? Who knows. Guess I needed to hear/see it twice.
Those are messages from the universe. Pay attention! 🙌🏼
Yes, I am experiencing something similar as well. Profound messages for further growth. ❤️
Powerful message!! 🙌 💛
It goes even deeper than that. I'm often the one standing in the doorway to a wondrous path. I hold the door open for others who choose to enter after I've interested them in/with some of the transportable content from inside. I can neither demand they enter - for they will surely go away - nor can I just let them pass by, ungreeted by me representing IT, knowing the great value of that which I am hawking. Sometimes, the one or other will come back curious and free of old constraints, perhaps never. But I am not hawking me, but what's inside, that's so wonderful. This is where I spend most energy, anyway and - not to forget - many have selflessly helped me to get here.
She didn't want it this time - no matter, but a little saddening because winter is coming. My efforts successfully blocked, this time, leave her in that vulnerable position, on the street. Yesterday she told me she'd love to have a gift-card so that she could pick out a book for herself. Encouraged by this I went to the book-store and purchased just that for her and also a small notice-book and pen, that she might write down her thoughts. But today her fears became stronger and she refused the gifts. I didn't take this personally. I don't know her monsters and sometimes can't even connect the dots in her story.
It costs no energy to follow the light; sharing this with others is more light. A smile, a good wish a tiny offering - nothing steals energy. And it's not my energy, anyway. The truck didn't hit me, today. Covid didn't kill me, today. I didn't win at Lotto, today (I think). But this happened to someone. It surely could have been me. Am I ready for this when it happens to me?
I started staying in my bedroom all the time cause my family are horrible people who just put me down and make fun of me for trying to work on myself. I’m planning on leaving idk where I’m going but anywhere but here.
Your so right I'm alone in my ex relationship, I'm the only one trying, I am using my energy on someone who only cares for himself.
I am in the same place right now. I hope you find your peace 😇
You are so right, It has been a repetition in my life, giving so much and receiving so little. To the point I'm exhausted now, after seeing that so much giving was for nothing. My life, my sanctuary, I will remember that. Thanks and Blessings🌟🌻💖
I truly feel like you made this video for me today. I am grateful to you Nada. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us. It is so appreciated. 🙏
me too
How beautiful ! We are all worthy of and deserve beautiful relationships. So many need to hear this right now. Thank you for sharing 🙏💗🙏💗🙏💗🙏💗