SELF-ACCEPTANCE & SOLITUDE
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- Опубліковано 8 сер 2018
- Our lack of self-acceptance is at the root of our false sense of self. We cannot be authentic, to know ourselves truly, until we've resolved this. And solitude offers us the space in which to cultivate self-acceptance and authenticity.
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i like to be alone. Its my experience to always be disappointed in a relationship. I prefer solitude, its peaceful, unlike the constant turmoil, or less than ideal judgement of disapproval. I don't need the approval or love from others, you never know the real reason they express it. I can trust my own love for myself. I can be happy the most alone, i can sing and laugh at myself - my dogs love it and isn't that the most real point?
Susan Shepard, RIGHT YOU ARE👍.
Yes! Thank you for saying this! I thought I was alone on that.
I’m with you in your solitude. As a creative musician I prefer the solitude of space to allow my creativity to be unaffected by the turbulence of other minds and emotions.
Very eloquently said Susan.
Interesting. Are you related to carley?
WOW!! THAT IS ME!! I’ve been changing the last 1-2 years and I think this is why! Retired and finding myself again after all the years of being gone…as a pilot…it’s learning who I am all over again. I never slowed down enough in my early life…family, career, chores,…doing it over and over. Once I retired, and the “board” smacked me in the back of the head, I have had a hard time with figuring out “who I am again!”
So grateful you "magically" appeared in my video line up today. The right things needed do appear at the right time in ones journey.
I learned this when I was young and my grandmother would talk to me about how her siblings would criticize her. My grandmother taught me to trust myself, not judge other people too harshly, to keep my dignity, self respect and compassion. My grandmother also taught me to be independent which has allowed me to live freely and enjoy my time alone. 👩🏻❣️❣️
I love being alone! Always have loved it since I was a child. I do a lot of meditating and spiritual work so being alone for me is the best.
After a breakup, I moved to the mountains for 2+ years and was in almost absolute solitude about 98% of the time. That was the highlight of my life and I would love to do that again.
Thats very impressive
That's pretty much what I am about to do. And I am encouraged by these posts. Thank you.
that sounds amazing
Your words really resonated with me. I needed to hear this wisdom, because I was unable to see it on my own. Thank you.
I glad this was helpful to you. Always be willing to look deeply into yourself.. to see for yourself. Don't stop discovering.
If I didn’t know better, I’d swear the universe directed this video directly towards me, as it was exactly what I needed to hear at this moment in time. Thank you Awaken Insight! 🙏
*"If you cannot be at peace with yourself, you cannot be at peace with anyone; if you cannot be happy alone, you will never be happy with anyone; if you cannot love yourself fully and unconditionally, you will never love anyone fully, nor will you ever feel fully loved"*
Beautiful. ✌🏽🙌🏽🙏
I have found that in the moments I have ever felt that desperation to find someone else, it was my desperation to find and be in complete touch with my self.
Thank you 🙏💗
Grateful 🙏
I love being alone. I enjoy my own company and I have my entire life. I think I was born a woman. I am an old soul who understands so many truths about this life. I am grateful to be self aware. I love myself unconditionally. I am sending divine love and light to all ❤️🙏❤️
This is so helpful. I have always been very introverted and had a strong need to alone. Yes also very people pleasing. I've started becoming more accepting of myself and am now again finding I need to step back from groups to stop the noise and find authenticity. It's so scary, I feel so scared and alone, but also deeply need to go on this path as I feel I can be strong at the end of it. I wasn't being myself so left most of my social groups and social media. I feel like I'm crazy half the time and don't exist because I hardly have anyone to text or share with online, it's like coming off drugs?. Maybe this is what they call a dark night. I do feel the panic and desperation to cling on to anyone I can find right now because I'm alone a lot. But I know it's good for me. You are wise. Thank you.
It's the greenery and the chirping birds for Me! 💃🏾 I accept My self!
Being alone is not necessarily being lonely. Freedom in life is touching the truth and knowing what you think, feel, believe and desire in our lives.
Time with yourself and your thoughts and activities are essential to find your truth and your personal path in living with confidence and the mystery of becoming more creative and relaxed with the powers of your self worth and your own particular vibrations and visions. Relax and enjoy the blessings of being you in your truth and your adventure with your heart's desire.
Wow! Amazing comment👍👍👍❤❤
Nobody is perfect. Thankyou , you are a wonderful teacher.I find you explain things very clearly and calmly. I could listen to your all day.😊❤🌹🍀🍁🌳🌲🌱🌰🌷🍂🍃🌼🌻🌾🌽🌿🌞☔⛄
This video came to me outta the blue. But as i was kicked to the curb 6 months ago and been livin alone in my car tryna figure out wtf, i find this message is for me personally. Thank you and Spirit. 🙏🏃👻
Thanks for making this video
I love being alone because of all the things you say.Its so peaceful.I love being with my 2 dogs and3 cats.They give unconditional exceptness.
... and all this starts in our childhood, during which our parents instinctively and inevitably mould us to be the persons they want us to be and planting the seed on guilt in our mind so that it can grow every time we don't meet their expectations...
Very few parents are wise and open minded and raise their children to become free thinking, responsible and self esteemed individuals.
There should be a school to teach and prepare people for parenthood.
99% of people don't even realize what they really doing when they procreate.
Traumas during infancy and childhood are the root of neurosis, if not psychic disorders or worse in adolescence and adulthood.
The first and most important lesson we should be taught is to learn how to love ourselves before others. We have the right to be respected and the duty to respect others; that is sufficient. Love can not be taken for granted. That is why we have to learn to love ourselves first.
Spot on ! Parenthood Education so much needed.
DANSHARI_well said. It has taken me years to overcome CPTSD installed from my childhood and upbringing.
It’s always there but not in control anymore.
@@Puuws Quite true. I agree. It's the law of kharma.
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you're talk had meaningful wisdom
Mere words cannot describe what your videos have meant to me. They have been the best thing ever.
Solitude has given me strength and perspective to life since small it where you get your healing it incredibly peaceful.🙏
The ambience of this is incredibly wonderful. Takes me home, deep down
What a spiritual bliss to hear a wise person speak the real truth, to say what I've realized some years ago.
"The best company is that of our own." [OSCAR WILDE]
I've had the great fortune to have always been the best friend of myself, since I was a child.
Namaste
First of all, one should fix their relationship with themselves. Until such a time, nothing will do any good. Thank you my good Sir. I really enjoy your videos and they are really instructive. Peace
True
These ideas resonate deeply. Look forward to cultivating this
Growing up I was constantly concerned with the approval of others and I had quite low self-esteem but a few years ago I came to a realization that what others thought of me didn't matter and that I needed to focus on my own happiness. I began to dress kinda wacky in public and I actually had people hollar at me in the street a few times but I realized that it didn't matter. What mattered was about going down a path of self-realization and discovery. I've been on my spiritual path for almost a year and I've never been happier. I've actually found that I enjoy life a lot more and the bonds I make with friends are much stronger!
This is what i change actually. I reject and said to myself this cant be me. It what i acquired from many incarnations, from i dont know how many person who they themself dont know who they are. We must have the courage. I said i will not react with the same old me. I have to discover who is the real me. It takes a lot of courage . when you change people dont like because you are not good for them anymore. When they get nothing from you , you become useless to them. But this is the beauty. You will be able to find that most of them all where not people who you think you konw and who love you. Only few remains. And i know they are the real one. I lost my sister, my husband .yes it hard because you have to face this reality. But then you find peace within and you know that it was the best approche. Your video is very helpful for me in this time of challenges in my life. I experience every thing that you say. As if i was looking at myself in a mirror. I take it like a confirmation and a guidance. And i really hope that those who are sincere will find there way. Thank you so much. 🙏🙌💙
The reason I like solitude! Most people are a pain in the arse.! So much truth here. Many people I have had to work with have been, control freaks always in search of greater authority and position and approval, I won't go any further with that. God loves us he knows our troubles, and it's OK to be ourselves. Most people beat themselves up because of what others think of them, don't make that mistake, it doesn't matter. Namaste.!
I found a treasure by being alone... Me! This day's it's hard to connect , but easy with animals, nature, children.Living in nature has meaning to me, I'am from Costa Rica move back after living in New York for many yrs, were I feel lost. Love your solf voice, totally grateful to come to listen to you 🙏🏼🇨🇷💚
As an only child I learned early that if I wanted to do anything not to rely on others, get on do things for yourself alone. Life became an adventure bringing me early in life to a part of the world I fell in love with. Friends have come and departed; relationships ended, loved family are a distance away (hrs). I survived, the adventure continues, happily at 75, so liked what you spoke about, thanks 🙂
you are really "awakend". You must feel so free. Thank you for all the valuable content you are creating
Wish whoever has mistreated u or rejected you must see this comment,
"You lost him, FOOLS"
But as he educated us, I have empathy for you for who you are.
He touched so many peoples lives. He transformed many. He's real cult.
Sincere gratitude.❤
Simple and profound. WOW. In gratitude. It's all we need in one video. I will listen and integrate this vital truth of true freedom. Self actualization. Ireland
I needed to hear this. Thanks.
Thank you so much for these talks. I find them really confirming and grounding. Bless you. 🙏🇨🇦
There is great freedom in being alone. Even without comforts.
Our spirit is deeply seen in this once we accept it. 💜
Be willing to die alone with full acceptance of who are , that's love.
I love to be alone.
Me too;)
Why?
@@ZachKopkaZakeMuch more quiet.
@@ip9117 quiet overrated
Acceptance of others noise
like it's quiet is key
Finding quiet in chaos
Thanks for sharing your wisdom, I'm 58 years of age and have felt like an outsider most of my adult life but havn,t necessarily felt comfortable about that and have always felt the need for approval and always feared being myself and have felt a deep sense of loneliness for many years now and have often wondered if there is any solution, and listened to you scares me because I feel that I have to explore loneliness completely in order to find myself, and I would give anything in order to feel grounded without feeling the need to be loved or without feeling lonely or in a loving relationship.
What you say makes so much sense and I appreciate it so much as it makes me feel like it's a win win situation, and that being alone has a lot going for it as it can bring you to knowing your authentic self which is truly a journey worth discovering..nameste
Díky!
You have the incredible ability to simplify the mind, spirit, and soul conundrum.
Thank you. I so appreciate your gentle wisdom. It settles so beautifully into the soul, and reminds me of everything that’s true.
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I've become more and more solitary. Relationships with people outside myself tend to be more disappointing. I find solitude more peaceful.
You are unlocking and opening doors in my self consistently. I agree so much with all the teachings I have heard and it is a true blessing as I am on this path of learning to love and accept myself and gaining the freedom to unconditionally love myself and others. Shalom!
Thank you so much. Lovely
I just found your channel and loved every one I watched so far. I feel as though you're reading what's inside of me. As I have gotten older, I'm 51, I enjoy my solitude even more and no longer feel i have to please people. I do live with semi- narcissistic family members though so I sometimes appease them and put on a mask so I can enjoy my solitude. I'm ok with that now because I know my heart and I love myself and have the self validation to not care what they think.
I have listened to it many times. You are so right. Thanks for sharing. You are the best.
Your message about the unavoidable loneliness of the traveler on the journey to self-discovery is remarkably accurate. Isolating oneself from the old and unfriendly world in which one forged their consciousness and tested his limits is absolutely necessary. But, in my opinion, the longer you endure it, the greater the reward will be. In a strange and inexplicable way we and our genetic line created this social world that we don't like anymore and we, after we put our thoughts in order in solitude, have to recreate it.
I not only feel the need to be loved, seen and understood by someone but I also wanna finally love someone and care about someone. I never truly felt love and I never really cared about someone. I feel the need to make one person happy that ends up being my partner. I feel the need to be loyal to someone.
At long last, I see a path out of fear, insecurity, the desire for validation. Thank you so much for sharing this insight with the world. I’m so glad I found your channel.
After separating from a narcissist and getting cheated on by a woman I really loved. This is the video that I needed. From now on I'm going on a date with me.
This is powerful! Thank you!
This video is life changing. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom
I really appreciate your content. Learning to Accept and love myself has taken nearly :3/4 s of my life. Thank you for your wisdom. :- )
Thank you and very much like your forest too!🌸
Thank you for these words of wisdom.
The best things are free.
Wow! Just the wisdom I need to put into my life right now, thank you so much Nada
I enjoy your videos so much. Thank you for sharing all your clear insights. I feel understood.
Well said my friend. completely true We must love ourselves.
Thanks a lot!! Your insights are of great help and value
You're welcome Banke. Glad I can be of service.
Your wisdom is so comforting. Thank you, my friend. 🫶🏽✌🏽🙏🌈
yes i've always wondered why i can't be myself, of course if i showed people what a bad mood i'm in i don't think they'd be impressed, you've got to act to a certain extent but i know what yu're saying!
Thanks so much for your valuable video series, I enjoy the message, also the nature setting is calming and provides a good container for the information.
Learn to be alone and like it is so liberating.
So resanates..I love my very private life,, I just want to explore nature more when I get money to travel more to do this ,,outdoor life now for me ,,sightsee and sports .. just outdoors,, nature is my church. ,,
WOW! What a video! 👍💜☺️ Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!
Thank you. This is exactly what I needed.
Exactly due to programming of our mind... Due to many factors society, childhood trauma, the place and environment we are living.. But after reaching a spiritual peak we come to know about our real (authentic)self.... And reprogram our mind to create a new reality..
Thank you for sharing. I love the cicada sounds on this video, also. It reminds me of where I grew up and now live.
Awesome videos thank you!!!!!!!!
When we were really small, assimilation to the ideas of those we depended upon may even have been a matter of survival.
This makes so much sense to me now. Im heading in the right direction. Thank you again 😊
Znalazłem pokój w byciu samemu w mojej wewnętrznej podróży. Trudno znaleźć kogoś kto nie skupia się tylko na powierzchownych sprawach. Jestem swoim najlepszym przyjacielem i dobrze mi z tym. Dziękuję. 😀
Adopt pets, not thoughts! :) Glad to find this channel!
Brilliant
Thank you for your teachings. I think my problems are how to be careful not to be too real of myself. I tend to say wrong things so which means it's better I be alone.
The spiritual journey is in essence from the alone to the Alone, from the self to the Self. At the same time, realizing we are all One with other souls, no matter what stations we are at.
Thank you. This is very helpful.
I become deadly bored alone lately. Literally don't know what to do with my free time. Also, I remember being concerned about the opinions of my companions in RPG. There was a time when I reloaded every time I thought I said something wrong. I used to like being alone some time ago but now I feel bad in solitude.
Well said love listening to these dharma talks
Hi! I just found your channel and your content is so helpful to me! I feel like you are a kindred spirit! Thanks so much for everything you do!!
Perfect 🙏
I guess we can all be afraid of the unknown so by being alone in the unknowing of ourselves we can be too fearful of finding and knowing who we really are. I wonder what it is that we are scared to find ?
Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you. Rumi
So TRUE ❣️🙏🏻
I think it’s also important to recognize that the social values of any given culture imposes it’s own standards of what is acceptable (in order to inhibit personal empowerment) by enforcing conformity. This way control is maintained on the individual, through the approval/disapproval of those who have conformed.
Just sayin’.
This is great... Thank you
Brilliant video. Thank you so much for these truths and your presentation is perfect......Sal : )
Thank you very much for sharing your wisdom and love with the world...it's much needed. God bless!🤗
This has helped so much I got off my spiritual path and I’ve been trying to steer back on track it reminded me that I need to stop trying to hold on to relationships that I don’t need by changing my outfits and stuff Ik that now and I thank u for this reminder
so true. I felt encourage, thank you Sir for the msg
Really such a positive healing and helpful video.
So much respect & appreciation for these videos. Thank you 🙏
I'd be interested in a video about the difference between people who attain high levels of enlightenment by the relinquishments of attachments through their own volition and those who have attained high levels of enlightenment by attachments being taken away through external influence.
Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with us❤️🙏🏻
You are extremely comforting. And you are showing up in my morning meditations in my inner Zen Garden. We are never alone when fully conscious. Who you need to learn from arrives in the shared collective conscious dimension. I am on that part of my journey when I feel not lonely but very irritated by everything that does not resonate at that awakened state. That is what you coach me about on the 5th dimension. I am working on it.
I like spending most of my life alone. I play saxophone so that makes it easy.
Such an amazing video. I really needed to hear this today. Thanks for sharing!