He really loves his son. It's the sweetest thing. It's sad his innocence was stolen from him, but at least he doesn't resent his son. He's a good person.
I swear some people literally believe the term “raped” is only for a man doing the action. THIS WAS RAPE NOT SEDUCTION, IT WAS FORCED NOT FOR HIS OWN PLEASURE
I wish more people knew or cared about this issue. Other guys have told me stories before about things that have happened to them, and I had to explain that they had, in fact, been raped. It doesn’t even cross their minds.
The fact that this child - yes he is still a child to me... Is able to face a camera and bravely talk about his abuse - shows his strength. I pray for him. May he find peace...
@@olegshtolc7245 hey no, not really. Men suffer just as equally as women... Anyone who is forced into sex - be it man or woman, is always devastated in the end....
@@KristysEdits You're right. But now that he has the choice , either to give his child away or not , he didn't do it.. So that's the reason I'm so proud of him.
Bruh his kid is the cutest thing I’ve seen omg. He walks in and says, “I love daddy” and dID YALL SEE THE LOVE IN HIS FATHER’S EYES? THE CHILD WAS CREATED FROM ABUSE BUT WAS NOT DENIED LOVE.
gypsy 1999 wow...how close minded of you. His kid will be known as his SON. When he’s old enough, then perhaps dad and grandma will explain the circumstances of his birth.
For the first three years the parents thought another man was the father. I don't blame him for not saying anything right away. He was probably terrified. Even at 14 that is still a lot to handle.
@@nprvictim2951 It's not missing the point, its making another one. Appreciating the love the son has for his father. We want that to be true. The alternative is more tragedy on yet another innocent child. Imagine this child's, and the father's, fate if it were otherwise.
As disturbing as this story was, I must say its definitely heart warming how much he cares for his kid despite the circumstances surrounding him. He's definitely a good father.
He probably doesn't have much responsibility for him, the parents do. That's usually what makes men run away from their kids. The craziest part of this story is how much time the woman got. Men don't even get that much time when they rape little girls. This should be the sentence for everyone.
@@anh7807 I bet your right actually. But only because his parents most likely treat the kid as another child of their own. They kinda have to as he was not old enough to get a job by law. I am kinda curious if they gave him any choice in the matter or let him make any decisions.
all unrighteousness is sin and all of us have sinned against the Holy God, and so we all deserve eternal damnation in hell. we could not get right with God by our act of "Good works," nothing by own our righteousness we could do to could save us. which is why there is the "Good news/ Gospel" The debt we couldn't pay, CHRIST payed for us on the cross. we broke the law/ GOD'S commandments, and CHRIST JESUS payed the fine. Only through CHRIST we can be saved, whosoever believes and is baptized with the Spirit shall be saved. and this good news is for everyone, no matter what religion, no matter what sin, Jesus came to save us from them so we could be brought back into relationship with God, and be saved..amen
Wtf. Not only did she steal this boy’s innocence and sexually battered, she also stole his childhood and made him responsible for a baby when he was/is just a baby himself. This is just so so awful. Now baby doesn’t have a mom and dad will never have those years back.
and this young man's poor mother helping raise,or mostly raising another baby she had no plans for. It's so scary what our world has become.If you can't trust those you leave to care for your precious beings,who can you trust?
He’s a great dad, but it disgust me how people treat male victims like this, my younger brother went through a similar experience except he never got the full justice
Yeah, as a mom I want to rip these pedo women limb from limb and the people who try to high five the male victims when it happens or give the female perpetrators light sentences. Thank God justice was served for once in this case with her getting 20 years. If only every pedo got that.
It may depend on how that state defines rape. Unfortunately many states still have it on their books that for "rape" to occur there has to be forced vaginal insertion, and if another orafice is violated, an object is used, or the violation was external, then it's called something other than "rape." The terminology hurts female and male victims both, because forced vaginal penetration is NOT the only traumatizing type of sexual activity. Not by a long shot.
You nailed it!! Amidst all the very justified anger about this situation, there is that silver lining. The young man seems mature for his age and to all intents looks to be a kind and loving father. His son clearly loves his Daddy with all his heart. In what is an otherwise grim picture there is this shining through. We only get a glimpse, but I only hope that it is a glimpse that shows us something better to strive for. That young man will never get his childhood and teen years back, but there will be the compensation of a little person who loves his daddy. That has to be worth something.
@@germsjb What's only natural? Attraction to different genders? Yes, that IS natural. Animals represent it too. And I will assume that is was a sexuality assumption. Because it was. Clearly. 💀✨
I hope she gets therapy or something so nothing like this will happen in the future and her son won’t grow up without a mother. She still has hope and I hope she can visit/ see her child in the future.
"seduced him" is a disgusting phrase to use in this situation. It's pedophilia. It's rape. If the roles were reversed and they used those terms there would be uproar. I feel so sorry for male victims who don't get taken seriously.
“Seduce?!?” Could you imagine the outrage if that term was used and the victim was female and the perp was male? I’m glad to see more and more people validating reality for male victims, but wish the media could keep up.
A 22 year old having sex with an 11 year old IS NOT NORMAL. Let me repeat, a 22 year old having sex with an 11 year old IS NOT NORMAL. You cannot justify it and IDGAF who tries to come at me for thinking this isn’t okay. I would be worried if you did think it was and defended the 22 year old because, WHAT???
There's no such thing as sex with a pre-puberty child. It's rape! Always, with no excuses! It doesn't matter who's the perpetrator if they're an adult.
yeah really sad but look on the bright side he is happy and most kids in that situation would probably mistreat their child because of well you know the way that they were concieved
He would be totally valid if he DIDN’T want to take care of and raise the son, but the fact that he did just shows how strong of a person he is. I wish him all the best 💕
I'm guessing it's because "rape" means forced sex without consent. Seduction probably refers to her manipulating him and taking advantage of him being too young to know what he was getting into. Which means it's doubtful that she simply forced herself onto him. The "abuse" was more psychological rather than physical
Uni101 Well yeah she manipulated him, but he was a minor and she was an adult. That makes it statutory rape, which is rape because he can’t legally consent.
This is really disturbing, that kid had a baby at such a young age, he didn't get to live his life! He seems like a great dad, don't get me wrong but it's heartbreaking that he had his childhood taken away from him by this monster.
it will not b the best thing 4 a young man 2 b responsible. Girls r more likely 2 have children very young and mature faster than boys naturally. This is not the best option 4 children but its not the worst either. He has parents.
@@lauriosaurusplayz6028That would be stupid. Do you think your child wants you in jail? If you really care about your children, you wouldn’t wanna be stuck in jail.
@@sroymoeun they would if it came down to it. they wouldnt abandon their child obviously, but they would throw away their life if that means their child can have a decent life
@@Ratsonfire He was a CHILD!!! A child! The woman groomed him + abused him. Sexual abuse is sexual abuse. It would take a very stupid, ignorant, uneducated, person to think otherwise.
Unfortunately he was having irresponsible selfish mother. That's whys whatever happened with his younger nanny, this one didn't deserved that longer penalty, because that hypocrite family's. That grandma and his idiot children doesn't deserve that baby.
@@peterjr6954 Not necessarily, personally I am a rape victim but I like to call myself a sexual assault survivor. Sexual assault is more of a blanket term that can refer to more then just rape.
@@JellyBabie1984 i feel like the word "rape" is a bit too blunt, especially when you've gone thru so much trauma. i can see how some assault victims dont say it and dont like to hear it.
I'm 19 with no kids and I'm mad He shouldn't be a father at that age that women out of be ashamed for keeping that child knowing how young the dad was she literally took away the dad childhood and forced him to be parent at a young age
@@shaylawatson1244 The kid and the grandmother had every right to give the child up for adoption if they wished because a baby would be a painful memory. It was their choice to love the baby regardless. My guess the grandmother grew attached to the baby before she found out her son was the father. Both paths take great strength and I hope them the best. If it was my son though that woman wouldn’t be breathing air in a cell.
Not only that.....just their very small age gap is going to make things incredibly uncomfortable for them both when the child gets old enough to comprehend. I grew up constantly being told that my parents were "so young", and they were nowhere as young as this.
@@Wot0-0 They all raised the baby, it seems as though she lived with them throughout this time period. And he was involved in the baby's life throughout its life. But I hope a message his son takes from this story is that even though he is the product of such heartbreak, his father loves him enough that even at such a young age he decided to raise him and keep him. And that's hiw beauty is born from tragedy! And though he was groomed and abused by someone who was supposed to protect him, he has nothing but love in his heart for his little boy. And that says so much about his character as a budding man. I have so much respect for anyone who has been victimized, and they don't perpetuate the cycle of abuse!
That's when the important lessons need to be taught - like not letting your past or where you came from define you. I hope the child will be encouraged to define himself and decide his own identity, regardless of what others think.
II hope they tell him so he doesn't hate them for not telling him. I also hope that POS or her family have nothing to do with that sweet little boy. He deserves to not have his mind messed with like they would trying to convince him his daddy put her in jail for no reason.
@@alexangell903 When you're 11 you think this person is your friend that "gives" you special things, possibly something your parents said no to and it becomes "your little secret." Unfortunately I've been someone's victim. They hold THAT innocently over your head in the subtlest of ways. Female AND male monsters exist....babysitters expose you to so much when you trust them and they're bad people.
@@alexangell903 THAT is another way. I have gone into therapy off and on because of it. Always growing in favor of loving myself more. Recognizing what has happened and choosing to be in charge of your overall health is the most important thing in survival. Blessings of healing light AND love being sent to you.
I agree but the difference is there's no physical pain involved when the victim is male and the rapist is a woman. A woman could be seriously injured but a male is still doing the penetrating not being penetrated so there's no physical pain in this situation but it's obviously still wrong.
@@mattj1611 ok but...the definition of rape is forced penetration. The pain does not matter at all. We know there might be a difference but it is still rape.
Same!!! They're so freaking small. I can't even imagine why someone would want to sexualize them in that way. Listen, I can maybe understand 16 + years old, but 11??? Wtf!!
@@loloppololp9304I know. It must be some sick, twisted control thing. It probably doesnt cause physical pain like for a girl, but it will mess him up psychologically bigtime.
@Boscos_box strongly disagree. It's the woman's choice whether to keep the baby or not. As its her body. It's different here as he's not the one who got pregnant. Still he's a good dad. Doesn't mean all victims of rape shouldn't get abortions of they wish for it
@@hajarmdn4883 how is it different besides biological role? He was raped and now has a child, if anything it should be the choice of the person raped not the one who made the decision to rape. Its not man or woman battle its a rape vs rapist battle, biological sex should have 0 to do with it.
Boscos_box yet young women could die for giving birth, and so could the child, 2 lives lost, other than a few clumps of cell with an early abortion, who knows, the child could have a mother who isn’t financially able to take care of her child, or maybe the child grows up with a disability that makes their life like hell, don’t judge, it’s their body, their choice.
@@BigBodyBiggolo Huh. Ya know, that is an extremely valid argument. The family of/ victim of the rape gets final say in the result... It's egalitarian, and still supports freedom of choice. Which that particular person, regardless of gender, gave up by choosing to rape an innocent person. I can dig it.
@@outerjadore3435 she did ruin a lot for this poor fella since he could've had so many different paths in his life. But guess what? He took it like a champ and made the situation to his own little blessing
Why is no one mentioning the fact that he still kept his child? no one does that these days. Such a loyal and respectful boy he is. Such a gentleman. Respect.
Terri Troutner Why would you put “dad.” He IS a dad. You have to understand WHY he couldn’t support this child because he was, I don’t know, ELEVEN???? Of course his family supported the baby! Now I’m sure he’s supporting him himself.
I would love to know her background and what it was that contributed to her actions, I think finding this out would be better than hate. Judging and hating doesn’t solve much and does worse for your own health in the end
He's a victim of rape as much as any other victim!! He's so strong to be able to talk to the camera and still be a father to a child. I'm hoping his relationship with his child will be comfort for the poor baby when he finds out the circumstances of his birth
The fact alone that he is taking care of his son is incredible. This wasn't seducing, this was rape, pure rape. I'm sickened by this so I get why the mom threw up.
@Tiffy Raya No one downplayed anything. But I wonder how that kid and other boys who had sex with much older women would compare to underage girls who were violated. What would they say about their experiences, speaking to a psychologist? Would the psychologist get the same feeling of depression and feelings of violation from the boys as they would from the girls? Use your critical thinking skills.
@@laurenchristianna2092 Use yours. Ask yourself why your language changes from 'a kid who had sex' to 'an underaged girl who was violated' . This woman groomed and sexually abused a child who was under her care. You imply that a boy would be less affected than a girl based on nothing more than your own bias.
I was 15 as I got my daughter. I wouldn’t change my life today. But as he was, I was a child having child. This is wonderful he act so mature! Wish him the best and the boy‘s comment how he love his daddy just melted my heart ❤️
I completely agree, When I was about 10 years old and my cousin was 11 he was also pretty mature looking for his age, (but definitely still 11!) and all my friends liked him. I just cant imagine a grown ass woman having a kid with my cousin at that age. Your practically still a baby. That's so predatory.
Well she said practically nd i think it's true, I'm 11, i dont have much experience( you can leave me in charge of a few things but dont expect me to have my own child😳) i want to play pubg. 5 years ago i was playing with blocks nd at least my brother is 22 and 5 years ago he would has been working 2 years It at least that's my opinion because he says things were different nd he he was 11 you were a child and you didn't have kids, boys nd girls on tik tok wearing inappropriate clothing, nd talking dancing inappropriately trying to act like their adults
That clip with the green hair, he wasnt 11. He was 11 when the rape started, and if my math is correct, 12 when bentley was born. I assume that video is after bentleys birth, but before he told his mother that bentley was his
So it's automatically rape if a man does it to a girl but, it's seducing if it's a woman doing it to a man. Make that make sense, they make it sound like he willingly fell for that and gave her consent. As a girl, I find this truly disgusting.
@We Love MAPS-We Я AAMS it wasn't consenual though. At 11 you're still a child. That woman was 22. She was an adult. She understood what she's doing. He didn't. Forgive me if i'm unfortunately wrong, but I don't think you know what sex actually is. Nor will I be the one to explain it to you. But please understand that what that woman did to him is unforgivable. I suspect that when you and your classmates said that they would've done it, i'm assuming the raising a child part was apart of it?
He was no man he was an 11 year old boy still a child probably just barely hit puberty and now a father Poor kid but I know he’ll do right by his son he’s got a good family to help him
I was thinking that too. There needs to be a more thorough investigation into her background and jobs she’s had previously or family she’s been around. It sounds like she’s an experienced abuser and manipulator who knows how to take advantage of children without the parents suspecting.
I wouldn't be surprised if the same game was played with her as a child. But instead of seeking help, she went on to victimize another innocent child. The cycle of child abuse is devastating and evil.
Exactly. He was groomed by a pedophile plain and simple. Scary thing is that that POS might prey on another kid when she’s out of jail- there’s no curing them
It’s so disgusting and as a woman it makes me more man that if the genders were switched that man would probably be there wayyy more longer than a lady that clearly knew what she was doing and it angers me cus she deserves more
them saying she “seduced” him is so weird. she didn’t seduce him, she manipulated and raped him. Poor kid :( seems like a great dad, all things considered
I think that the fact that they keep saying “seduced” and not “raped” or “abused” or assaulted” is really gross. It wasn’t “seduction”. It was horrible abuse.
Keep saying? It's said once and in the right context. 'She seduced him into a game' is correct. Saying she seduced him would be wrong because she committed sexual battery, but saying 'she seduced him with a game' is correct in this context, albeit a provocative play on words.
The wording isn’t used properly for an 11 year old. Possibly if he was 17 but yes totally agree. He can go along but she had no right looking at a little kid in that way. Sick. She played him brainwashed him and he was probably confused and felt trapped. I feel so bad for him but I’m glad the baby got a good life not foster care. But an 11 year old doesn’t deserve to have a baby pinned on him either ya know? It’s just really sick and really tragic. It’s rape period
Ditto over here as well when he said game over. Lol. He’s more mature and responsible at 17 than the pathetic nanny will ever be! And I give him even more credit for speaking up about it and speaking maturely about it, so hopefully more children will not be afraid to speak up and more parents will be watchful over their children’s nannies!
My heart is shattered for this young boy and his mother. As a former nanny I know how much parents go through to ensure the right person is with their kids. This woman is the definition of sick and evil, and now this boy will never know true childhood and adolescence. What a horrible thing to do to someone.
The look in his eye when he said game over was pure zen. This guy has a spine of steel. Receiving support from his family when things came out will help him to move forward in life without shame. Shame is the worst thing about sexual abuse. His mother is golden. He is a real sweetheart and has a beautiful son.
Yeah, as a csa survivor I laughed when he said it because it was a solid roast to that scumbag and you can see that he's doing well. He dismisses her delusion of 'dating' and gets on with his life.
i agree with you completely. it made me slightly happy in a sad case that his son is so wonderful loves him so much he looks just like him, he is a sweet little guy. than he said to that awful girl game over. i am glad he told his mom as well.
I'm still in shock that a 22yr old woman who actually looks much more like 42yr old hag would do this to an 11yr old child. You can't trust anyone these days. This child has to raise a child it's not fair. I give him credit though he could've given the baby up for adoption
@Rahul Shanbhogue true feminists advocate for rape victims no matter their gender. idk what breed of feminist you've met but that just isn't correct at all
Probably because they don't want the innocent child to feel as if he was a punishment to their family rath6tha. A blessing regardless of how vile the egg donor is. I think it's a father and grandmother just protecting their child and grandchild. Also she wasn't convicted of rape so they unfortunately could be sued for defamation for saying rape though we all know it was
Man sexually assaults somebody: A terrible rape Woman sexually assaults somebody: It was seduction! (which is just a fancy way to say it was the victim's fault)
dude, i get it you're upset that this is some kind of unfair double standard but literally no woman in the comment section agrees with the diction they used if you looked at the coment section everyone already agrees with you ??
@@qualityghost i literally don't see what's the point of your comment ; it is clear that no one blames the teenager and everyone agrees the nanny was insane. The description and the video even says "sexually assaulted" aka raped and that she was charged with "sexual battery" Also I'm not 'upset', just confused as to why why everyone's complaining about barely euphemistic semantics
The worst part is that HE'S left to take care of the child. It's not even his fault. Although, it's great that he's stepped up and taken care of the kid.
I know that my nanny raped my cousin, he has probably kept it to himself all these years...I dont know how to let him know that I saw this even though I was younger I understood sex and rape (like 9years old)
It’s disturbing that this 22-year-old woman manipulated this family and did this to an 11-year-old child, (who is now 22.) No one should have that responsibility at such a young age. I’m glad she’s in jail, it’s heartbreaking but he really loves that little boy, and I hope he doesn’t learn the truth about what happened. The boy is only five, and I feel so bad for him and his family. This never should have happened. I’m relieved she’s in jail and hope she has no contact with any of them, especially her son.
Ray Kehr thank you! Let’s not put this idea out there that’s he’s killing it by himself. Having a child that young must be hard. Thank goodness he has support.
But give credit where credit is due with him, you know? It looks like he has a really great relationship with his son, and that's something the parents can't provide.
@@theonlybingledingle he has a good relationship becuz they're both children...I have a fantastic relationship with my 2 year old sister (I'm 17) and yes, that relationship is not down to my parents, but it has nothing to do with me or my parents raising her either U can have a great relationship with a child and not have been the one to raise them is what I'm basically trying to say That kid was born when he was 11, obviously his parents have been raising him for at least 80% of the time...no 11 year old cud raise a child alone without help...they're giving credit where credit is due to the parents, everyone is saying he's done a great job raising the kid, but he's probably barely raised him himself...at least not until he was older
Well his mother had help from a nanny to raise him. So his mother didn’t do it alone either. Most people have help raising their kids. I guarantee you he will do everything in his power to protect him from child molesters.
I don’t like how they consider little boys lucky if a woman does it to them, but they feel bad for a girl if a man does it to her. Either way, that’s disgusting and evil.
That kid was 11? He looked 15 and it's surprising he could even father a child at 11. What an awful story, I hope Chris can recover from this terrible trauma. What a disgusting woman. I just never understand how an adult can see a child that way.
Im a nanny this is absolutely disgusting she should never be let out
Well u can be my nanny n we see what happens 😂😂😂
My mom is looking for a nanny. You can be my nanny
I’m a nanny too and this is terrifying. And repulsive. And disgusting. And just ew. This poor family.:(
I need a babysitter
I need a baby sitter
He really loves his son. It's the sweetest thing. It's sad his innocence was stolen from him, but at least he doesn't resent his son. He's a good person.
Right! 💞
Some men says they would of loved that done to them, wonder what was his true feeling as a male, then and now
Who cares if the child was born of rape or not he's a beautiful little boy and a blessing from god!!!!
He’s such a cutie😭💕
Imagine how "cute" he would be if it was the other way around,this is bad and unhealty smh
I swear some people literally believe the term “raped” is only for a man doing the action. THIS WAS RAPE NOT SEDUCTION, IT WAS FORCED NOT FOR HIS OWN PLEASURE
Facts, everyone can get raped.
900th like
If the genders were switched on this scenario, the babysitter would probably be sentenced to jail for life.
Even if he enjoyed it, it would still be considered rape.
I wish more people knew or cared about this issue. Other guys have told me stories before about things that have happened to them, and I had to explain that they had, in fact, been raped. It doesn’t even cross their minds.
The fact that this child - yes he is still a child to me... Is able to face a camera and bravely talk about his abuse - shows his strength. I pray for him. May he find peace...
@@olegshtolc7245 hey no, not really. Men suffer just as equally as women... Anyone who is forced into sex - be it man or woman, is always devastated in the end....
@@cinelife9901 How do you know?
@@olegshtolc7245 how do you know?
@@olegshtolc7245 It also has been 6 years from the incident so for sure even a girl would have recovered if she talked about it.
@@Abcity92 How do you know?
He’s still in high school and his son just started kindergarten WOW
Just wow. Hmmm alot of responsibilities on his hands so young.
Middle
Imagine having to get out of school on time to go wait for and pick up your kid in kindergarten 😳
Hes maybe a junior or senior
TrinTrin • i feel extremely bad for him. not for having a kid because i know he loves his son, but the fact that he was sexually abused.
His eyes scream my innocence was stolen and i'm traumatized, but my son is a blessing.
best way to put it
OMG! Look at the face of that nanny, you can't trust her at all.
Best comment so far I think.
His son is beautiful too😄
No. His son is a curse. He doesn't get to live out his childhood because he has to take care of a kid he didn't even ask for. He's too young.
He wasn't even a teen dad.. he was a child himself still..
Mr ice cream can’t control the human body ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Ok then
He a child dad
@Hunter Fowler nevermind that was before I watched the video Sorry for my stupid comment
@Hunter Fowler I agree with you sorry.
Props too this 17 year old kid. Being the best dad he can be given the situation
Like how old is he now in 2024?
@@AlwaysADekarangerprobably 19 or 20
@@monstrzs he is 21
@@aswantha3472
Imagine being 21 and having a 10yo son 😢
@@0minmini0 yeah sounds pretty sad
“Game over” AND he’s taking care of his baby that wasn’t even his fault? A king
A legend
Imagine being the kid and being called a fault.
That was what I was thinking and I thought if she goes to prison, then who takes care of the baby, him. But then again, she is a bad influence...
@@nabranestwistypuzzler7019 she obviously means the situation wasnt his fault.
He’s still a kid himself so I’m sure his mom is taking care of Bentley but he is indeed providing the best thing of all: love for his son.
The way the boy doesn’t reject his kid but loves him is just so wholesome. You can see the genuine smile when they put their heads together.
Comet Vaudin I almost cried it was so precious
i hope that kid will grow up a better man
Comet Vaudin ikr!! 😭💕
At the same time he shouldn't have that kind of responsibility at his age :(
Ikr he's not even 20 yet and he is acting better than some fathers
“The best daddy!” Throughout his troubles he’s a wonderful father.
Peggy😭 but you’re right
Bless him!
Literally made me cry when he said that 😭
Thats so cute bless them
and peggy💀
but ik that melted my heart
This is sickening. She literally raped a child. This is just...it's just so wrong on so many levels.
Pedophilia... it's scary FR 😢
@@wmmv2019It’s only not considered rape because it’s not reversed
Sickening
Yeah!! 😦@@wmmv2019
@@clursunnywho said that?
The fact that he's taking care of his son. I'm proud of him.
Of course he is taking care of him, he's his dad
Iolex128 I mean given the circumstances
Heyiam Nurul He wasn’t given a choice. He was only 11; he didn’t even know what was really going on.
@@KristysEdits You're right. But now that he has the choice , either to give his child away or not , he didn't do it.. So that's the reason I'm so proud of him.
Heyiam Nurul sounds weird coining from a random dude on the internet but ok
Bruh his kid is the cutest thing I’ve seen omg. He walks in and says, “I love daddy” and dID YALL SEE THE LOVE IN HIS FATHER’S EYES? THE CHILD WAS CREATED FROM ABUSE BUT WAS NOT DENIED LOVE.
Five Feet Under unlike many children
Yeah, but carrying and giving birth to a child from abuse is a whole different thing. Cant be compared.
gypsy 1999 wow...how close minded of you. His kid will be known as his SON. When he’s old enough, then perhaps dad and grandma will explain the circumstances of his birth.
The child looks EXACTLY like him!
n. p. Why do you have to compare it to a girl who’s been abused, that boy has suffered just as much, theres no need to do that
He stepped up and took care of his son at 11 years old. Man what a kid. I'm glad shes behind bars.
For the first three years the parents thought another man was the father. I don't blame him for not saying anything right away. He was probably terrified. Even at 14 that is still a lot to handle.
You mean "Kid what a man"
He's 17 and taking care of his kids better than most 30 year olds
@@josephromero8125 At 17 he will need help from his parents. Most 30 year olds don't.
via my calculations he was 12 when the baby was born
Seduced?! He's a child! This was rape. Get your reporting right.
Exactly!... I hate when people say they had sex. Children can't consent, that's rape, and the adults should go to prison forever.
@SashaDaNigga-uq6ukAge of consent in most states is 15. 11 years old is far too young not make sound decisions and understand what’s truly going on
@SashaDaNigga-uq6uk what’s the matter with you?
@SashaDaNigga-uq6uk WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU??
@SashaDaNigga-uq6uk ?????????? an 11 year old can't consent
“I love daddy” “the best daddy” that melted my heart.
Mine too so so cute
Same
And I oop- the way he looked at the kid was adorable.
Yeah you're missing the point
@@nprvictim2951 It's not missing the point, its making another one. Appreciating the love the son has for his father. We want that to be true. The alternative is more tragedy on yet another innocent child. Imagine this child's, and the father's, fate if it were otherwise.
That is sad. He has a 5 year old son and he’s not even old enough to vote.
mans was 11 years from the age of consent
Bats he’s 17 but his son might be 5 cause his birthday might not have passed yet
Bats ohhhh I get what you mean now
Bats but how could his son be 5 years old if he is 7 years from the age of consent?
Oh god..
I hate how when it's a male victim, they suddenly forget to use more accurate words like "pedophile" and "rape". Call it what it is.
Don't you mean when it's a female offender?
@@thewanderingmistnull2451 no male victim , I mean when males come out and say they were raped people will just mock them , sad but true ☹️😣😖
I know right, it's ridiculous.
@@thewanderingmistnull2451 Both, isn't it? Man on girl= rape, Man on boy=rape, Woman on girl=rape, Woman on boy=🤐
You're goddamn right
When he said "Game over" at the end I got chills. He deserves all the peace and love in this word! God bless him and his baby boy 🙏 💕
As disturbing as this story was, I must say its definitely heart warming how much he cares for his kid despite the circumstances surrounding him. He's definitely a good father.
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He probably doesn't have much responsibility for him, the parents do. That's usually what makes men run away from their kids. The craziest part of this story is how much time the woman got. Men don't even get that much time when they rape little girls. This should be the sentence for everyone.
I have a son who is almost the same age. I am sure they were more like brothers at first but now he looks old enough to manage being a father.
@@anh7807 I bet your right actually. But only because his parents most likely treat the kid as another child of their own. They kinda have to as he was not old enough to get a job by law. I am kinda curious if they gave him any choice in the matter or let him make any decisions.
all unrighteousness is sin and all of us have sinned against the Holy God, and so we all deserve eternal damnation in hell. we could not get right with God by our act of "Good works," nothing by own our righteousness we could do to could save us. which is why there is the "Good news/ Gospel" The debt we couldn't pay, CHRIST payed for us on the cross. we broke the law/ GOD'S commandments, and CHRIST JESUS payed the fine. Only through CHRIST we can be saved, whosoever believes and is baptized with the Spirit shall be saved. and this good news is for everyone, no matter what religion, no matter what sin, Jesus came to save us from them so we could be brought back into relationship with God, and be saved..amen
Wtf. Not only did she steal this boy’s innocence and sexually battered, she also stole his childhood and made him responsible for a baby when he was/is just a baby himself. This is just so so awful. Now baby doesn’t have a mom and dad will never have those years back.
Also, I can't imagine how the baby must feel when he grows up
I would hope his parents took all responsibility of the child
and this young man's poor mother helping raise,or mostly raising another baby she had no plans for. It's so scary what our world has become.If you can't trust those you leave to care for your precious beings,who can you trust?
@Zakk Davis So? his childhood was taken by the mother of that child. his life will never be full
Despite his tragedy he seems like a well put together human being. Thank God for that. I pray for him to keep his composure and be strong.
He’s a great dad, but it disgust me how people treat male victims like this, my younger brother went through a similar experience except he never got the full justice
Yeah, as a mom I want to rip these pedo women limb from limb and the people who try to high five the male victims when it happens or give the female perpetrators light sentences. Thank God justice was served for once in this case with her getting 20 years. If only every pedo got that.
@@mera8785 20 YEARS IS NOT ENOUGH! LIFE IN PRISON IS OR DEATH PENALTY!
@@mera8785 you need a psychiatrist.
@@chasingexcellence9336 why
Justice for men
The fact that he went through all of this trauma and is still a great dad….
That’s amazing
Why is the term “raped” not used here? Is it only for men? This should be a sarcastic question but now I’m starting to wonder if it’s a gendered term.
Just the world we live in these days🤦♀️ smh I don't know why there is still gender bias.
Diamond Earth welcome to Earth
Ryan Rodriguez females cant technically rape a male, it would be called sexual assault as rape is penetration in which females cant pentrate
It may depend on how that state defines rape. Unfortunately many states still have it on their books that for "rape" to occur there has to be forced vaginal insertion, and if another orafice is violated, an object is used, or the violation was external, then it's called something other than "rape." The terminology hurts female and male victims both, because forced vaginal penetration is NOT the only traumatizing type of sexual activity. Not by a long shot.
I know dude.
"I love Daddy so much!" He's so adorable. Hopefully when his dad gets older he can meet a nice girl and the little boy will get a new mommy.
You nailed it!! Amidst all the very justified anger about this situation, there is that silver lining. The young man seems mature for his age and to all intents looks to be a kind and loving father. His son clearly loves his Daddy with all his heart.
In what is an otherwise grim picture there is this shining through. We only get a glimpse, but I only hope that it is a glimpse that shows us something better to strive for.
That young man will never get his childhood and teen years back, but there will be the compensation of a little person who loves his daddy. That has to be worth something.
Right? The baby grew up to be so cute and full of life! Lucky Lil guy to have a great dad ❤️
Or a father. Assuming sexuality much? Lmfao. Hate when people use a female and male as the “default”.
@@sarahbeth4934 it's only natural. You don't gotta take it as sexuality assumption. 💀
@@germsjb What's only natural? Attraction to different genders? Yes, that IS natural. Animals represent it too. And I will assume that is was a sexuality assumption. Because it was. Clearly. 💀✨
She deserves life in prison. She also should not have access to her child.
Well, yeah, considering the potential harm she could pose with being attracted to a minor even if it involves her own son.
Agreed
The number of likes is 666 sorry, can't like that.
Sonya Berry please
I hope she gets therapy or something so nothing like this will happen in the future and her son won’t grow up without a mother. She still has hope and I hope she can visit/ see her child in the future.
This is why I continue to say you need to protect your sons just as much as your daughters.
Please don’t call it seduction. It is something beyond weird and creepy to call the molestation of a child seduction.
Exactly ^
@Raoul Akhatov I'm sorry what, 20 years, atleast give that damn woman 40 years.
You act like it’s so much ebtter
Anyone who does that to a child deserves a life sentence in my opinion.
@Raoul Akhatov truly not enough:/
it’s disgusting that they say “seduction” this is rape.
I agree
r*pe
facts
4 real
It sure is! Double standard! 20 years is not enough!
"seduced him" is a disgusting phrase to use in this situation. It's pedophilia. It's rape. If the roles were reversed and they used those terms there would be uproar.
I feel so sorry for male victims who don't get taken seriously.
I can't believe it either. He was raped and sexually assaulted, and only age 11! How horrible.
“Seduce?!?” Could you imagine the outrage if that term was used and the victim was female and the perp was male? I’m glad to see more and more people validating reality for male victims, but wish the media could keep up.
20 years in prison is serious, :>)
100% agree with you. The child was groomed! Absolutely heartbreaking
Exactly right.
A 22 year old having sex with an 11 year old IS NOT NORMAL. Let me repeat, a 22 year old having sex with an 11 year old IS NOT NORMAL. You cannot justify it and IDGAF who tries to come at me for thinking this isn’t okay. I would be worried if you did think it was and defended the 22 year old because, WHAT???
I totally agree. It is discusting!
some folks have no issues as to why did the mom employ a 22 yr old nanny full time, to look after a 11 yr old kid ...oh sorry 11 year old baby
There's no such thing as sex with a pre-puberty child. It's rape! Always, with no excuses! It doesn't matter who's the perpetrator if they're an adult.
Why would anyone say that’s normal? Ridiculous comment
Dude that's NOT SEX. That's RAPE.
He seems like such a great dad and his son is adorable. It's a shame how that little boy was conceived under such tragic circumstances.
yeah really sad but look on the bright side he is happy and most kids in that situation would probably mistreat their child because of well you know the way that they were concieved
@@honeybee1864 Mhm
Hes quite handsome though tbh;;P
@@qanituts2858 :D yeah he not cute...
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He went through horrible sexual abuse and STILL stepped up to be a father for his child. God bless his heart I wish him the absolute best.
It’s a LOT better than teen fathers I see today
His mom is doing the heavy lifting tho.
yet women cant even pay child support smh
@@kathrineplays6865 Teens shouldn't be fathers in the first place
@@easton5700 lol in ancient time it was not rare for teens to become Parents.
When he's 32 he's kid will be 20 , that's crazy.
And they'll fight over thesame woman they both met in theclub.
I am removing my comment so i stop getting spammed
@@braydenmittag925 that's pretty normal..
They can go clubbing together, picking up women in the same age range......
@@braydenmittag925 I'm 27 and my dad's 42
He would be totally valid if he DIDN’T want to take care of and raise the son, but the fact that he did just shows how strong of a person he is. I wish him all the best 💕
Stop acting as if women can’t and don’t rape. She sadly raped this poor boy who wasn’t old enough to consent.
And they say “had sons baby” instead of rape
@@kadopotato5771 Exactly!
It's disgusting as he was at risk of an STD(stds can kill) and he's gotten trauma from it
It's disgusting.
I'm guessing it's because "rape" means forced sex without consent. Seduction probably refers to her manipulating him and taking advantage of him being too young to know what he was getting into. Which means it's doubtful that she simply forced herself onto him. The "abuse" was more psychological rather than physical
Uni101 Well yeah she manipulated him, but he was a minor and she was an adult. That makes it statutory rape, which is rape because he can’t legally consent.
This is really disturbing, that kid had a baby at such a young age, he didn't get to live his life! He seems like a great dad, don't get me wrong but it's heartbreaking that he had his childhood taken away from him by this monster.
This! 💯💯💯
it will not b the best thing 4 a young man 2 b responsible. Girls r more likely 2 have children very young and mature faster than boys naturally. This is not the best option 4 children but its not the worst either. He has parents.
but he has a great heart for keeping the kid
This wonderful comment diserves many like
@@margaretortiz2473 it's a myth that girls mature faster. It varies depending on culture
his smile after Bently said "I love daddy so much" was so wholesome
I’ve watched this many times.
Is weird 11 year being dad but is cute family👍
yeah
Frank iero pfp🧍♂️
@@st3phdoesstuff Frank supremacy
My son is 11. If someone did that to my kid,they wouldnt make it to court. Promise you that😡
yea. no parent should have to experience that, and ESPECIALLY no child. an 11 year old kid doesn't realise what is happening exactly
Good luck in jail then
@@frankyleon trust me. parents would go to jail for their child.
@@lauriosaurusplayz6028That would be stupid. Do you think your child wants you in jail? If you really care about your children, you wouldn’t wanna be stuck in jail.
@@sroymoeun they would if it came down to it. they wouldnt abandon their child obviously, but they would throw away their life if that means their child can have a decent life
Props to the mom for actually understanding that the 11 year old boy was not at fault
@@aadilharoon1807 it happens all the time, it’s called victim blaming. Look it up.
@@Ratsonfire He was a CHILD!!! A child! The woman groomed him + abused him. Sexual abuse is sexual abuse. It would take a very stupid, ignorant, uneducated, person to think otherwise.
@@kayzeegirl972 the person i responded to deleted their comment
I think being a boy helped. If it was a girl,the victim blaming would have been more intense.
@@RonLarhz being a boy helped the rapist, nobody cares because the victim was a boy.
Most parents at that age would be a horrible parent. At least he's being a good father.
Unfortunately he was having irresponsible selfish mother. That's whys whatever happened with his younger nanny, this one didn't deserved that longer penalty, because that hypocrite family's. That grandma and his idiot children doesn't deserve that baby.
@@marasol7169 what a point of view ! based on what exactly ? and you, what do you deserve ?
@@marasol7169 whatttttt?!?!?!??!?!
@@marasol7169 Excuse me wtf? Were you drunk while writing this? Is this a joke? Please say yes.
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"she seduced him"
boy's 11 years old you dont seduce children, its called grooming and sexually assaulting
Ruyeka Hatori rape*
@@peterjr6954 and what do you think sexual assault means my guy ?
sky sexual assault kinda sugar coats it
@@peterjr6954 Not necessarily, personally I am a rape victim but I like to call myself a sexual assault survivor. Sexual assault is more of a blanket term that can refer to more then just rape.
@@JellyBabie1984 i feel like the word "rape" is a bit too blunt, especially when you've gone thru so much trauma. i can see how some assault victims dont say it and dont like to hear it.
As a mother of 2 boys this infuriated me
I'm 19 with no kids and I'm mad He shouldn't be a father at that age that women out of be ashamed for keeping that child knowing how young the dad was she literally took away the dad childhood and forced him to be parent at a young age
As a 22 year old with no kids, I’m also mad how this kid was sexually exploited
@@shaylawatson1244 The kid and the grandmother had every right to give the child up for adoption if they wished because a baby would be a painful memory.
It was their choice to love the baby regardless.
My guess the grandmother grew attached to the baby before she found out her son was the father.
Both paths take great strength and I hope them the best.
If it was my son though that woman wouldn’t be breathing air in a cell.
@@SuicidalKid69 your pfp 💀
the little boy is lowkey so cute but one day he's gonna get curious about who his mom is and thats the sad part of this entire story
Not only that.....just their very small age gap is going to make things incredibly uncomfortable for them both when the child gets old enough to comprehend.
I grew up constantly being told that my parents were "so young", and they were nowhere as young as this.
She raised him for 3 years so he probably knows.
@@Wot0-0 They all raised the baby, it seems as though she lived with them throughout this time period. And he was involved in the baby's life throughout its life.
But I hope a message his son takes from this story is that even though he is the product of such heartbreak, his father loves him enough that even at such a young age he decided to raise him and keep him. And that's hiw beauty is born from tragedy! And though he was groomed and abused by someone who was supposed to protect him, he has nothing but love in his heart for his little boy. And that says so much about his character as a budding man. I have so much respect for anyone who has been victimized, and they don't perpetuate the cycle of abuse!
That's when the important lessons need to be taught - like not letting your past or where you came from define you. I hope the child will be encouraged to define himself and decide his own identity, regardless of what others think.
II hope they tell him so he doesn't hate them for not telling him. I also hope that POS or her family have nothing to do with that sweet little boy. He deserves to not have his mind messed with like they would trying to convince him his daddy put her in jail for no reason.
She didn’t “seduce” him, she preyed on him. She’s a predator.
Imagine watching a news report on a male predator and they say he "seduced" an 11 year old girl.
How do you know if you’ve been preyed on?
@@alexangell903 When you're 11 you think this person is your friend that "gives" you special things, possibly something your parents said no to and it becomes "your little secret." Unfortunately I've been someone's victim. They hold THAT innocently over your head in the subtlest of ways. Female AND male monsters exist....babysitters expose you to so much when you trust them and they're bad people.
Mishele Clipper I was 17 and she just put herself in my life as a mother figure
@@alexangell903 THAT is another way. I have gone into therapy off and on because of it. Always growing in favor of loving myself more. Recognizing what has happened and choosing to be in charge of your overall health is the most important thing in survival. Blessings of healing light AND love being sent to you.
Why is it “seducing” when it’s a pedophilic woman? It was R A P E.
Super amazing of him to continue to love and support his son though.
^^^ this!!! It was rape of a child AND forced pregnancy!!!!!!
Agree 100% they should call it what it is!!
I agree but the difference is there's no physical pain involved when the victim is male and the rapist is a woman. A woman could be seriously injured but a male is still doing the penetrating not being penetrated so there's no physical pain in this situation but it's obviously still wrong.
@@mattj1611 ok but...the definition of rape is forced penetration. The pain does not matter at all. We know there might be a difference but it is still rape.
@@mattj1611 That argument makes no sense you could drug a woman so she wouldn't feel anything but the act is just as bad maybe even worse.
I’m thinking about the 11 year old boys in my family and what in the world did she get from this? This is sick!!!!!
Same!!! They're so freaking small. I can't even imagine why someone would want to sexualize them in that way. Listen, I can maybe understand 16 + years old, but 11??? Wtf!!
You can understand 16??? FBI, check this mans hard drive@@loloppololp9304
@loloppololp9304 sick people in this world. You always always have to be careful and be very observant of whose around your kids and family
@@loloppololp9304I know. It must be some sick, twisted control thing. It probably doesnt cause physical pain like for a girl, but it will mess him up psychologically bigtime.
@@loloppololp9304you disturbed me.
It’s not “seducing” it’s rape, grooming, pedophilia and disgusting.
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D Swag Jr Sigh, you just made everyone think your like 9.
yeees
exactly- just bc it’s a woman they won’t say rape.
Exactly
The fact he is raising the child shows his character.
Jay Cavinder it’s sweet yeah. I would have dumped it and I’m female.
@@AnimatedBlast oof
It shows he's a good guy
It really does I
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“I went and threw up” Exactly what I nearly did after hearing what that disgusting nanny did
Im sorry this is unrelated, what anime is your profile pic from? It's adorable!
@@PSL_Lover2024 I think it's the trap from Blend S
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Right? Ahh... the psychological effect of this to the viewers
Took the words straight out of my mouth
We need to differ penalties against people who commit crimes against children. This woman did not get enough time behind bars. Pretty disgusting.
She took away his child hood she is such a horrible person
And she took his virginity
Disgusting
BossMatu seems _fair_
Brent Wise doe doe doe doe doe okay doe
Yea she did but there's mama n daddy ND list goes on;-)🤗
He looks at his son so lovingly even though the circumstances of how he was conceived is disturbing. The child is innocent.
@Boscos_box strongly disagree. It's the woman's choice whether to keep the baby or not. As its her body. It's different here as he's not the one who got pregnant. Still he's a good dad. Doesn't mean all victims of rape shouldn't get abortions of they wish for it
@@hajarmdn4883 how is it different besides biological role?
He was raped and now has a child, if anything it should be the choice of the person raped not the one who made the decision to rape.
Its not man or woman battle its a rape vs rapist battle, biological sex should have 0 to do with it.
Boscos_box yet young women could die for giving birth, and so could the child, 2 lives lost, other than a few clumps of cell with an early abortion, who knows, the child could have a mother who isn’t financially able to take care of her child, or maybe the child grows up with a disability that makes their life like hell, don’t judge, it’s their body, their choice.
@@BigBodyBiggolo Huh. Ya know, that is an extremely valid argument. The family of/ victim of the rape gets final say in the result... It's egalitarian, and still supports freedom of choice. Which that particular person, regardless of gender, gave up by choosing to rape an innocent person. I can dig it.
Boscos_box giving birth is drastically different from not giving birth... a teenage boy isn’t suspect to PPD while a teenage girl is...
When Bentley said
“I love Daddy so much!”
Chris’s smile and how he put his forehead against Bentley’s was honestly so wholesome for me.
He is a good daddy. You can tell. Bentley will have a good life, but, when he learns about his mom... 😥
Same for me.
I'm glad he's taking this so well. A different person might've not even wanted him. Chris is a strong person and I'm sure he'll be a great father.
@@anishthefish2439 i hope chris is doing good rn, that must’ve been really traumatizing
That was so wholesome, and Chris seems like a great father.
Disgusting. She needs to stay in prison. His childhood is GONE
Sad that she ruined this kid's childhood, teenage life and everything.
@@outerjadore3435 she did ruin a lot for this poor fella since he could've had so many different paths in his life. But guess what? He took it like a champ and made the situation to his own little blessing
Jason Anime he had to take care of a child before he was even 18. He was forced to grow up because of her
Off topic but I love your profile photo
@@outerjadore3435 very true
@@alexnik9332 he can join the army, they will pat BAH for the kid and he will have his apartment to. Good deal.
That’s so disgusting! She took advantage of the family and the poor kid
@@PennyMsElite FBI open up!! LMAO I couldn't resist...
All Might who? Lol jk
@@PennyMsElite I'm shocked that you're shocked!
Unless he got a gift a child kinda of a gift the though
B Ch3mical what?
It’s just weird how his son looks more like his little brother
I THOUGHT IS WAS!!!
Well bruh it’s his dna
what a moronic comment....thats the point idiot...theyre 11 years apart!
Ur gurl Holly Ikr.
Well he’s 17 and he’s son is 6 it’s just mind blowing
20 years isn't enough...
Why is no one mentioning the fact that he still kept his child? no one does that these days. Such a loyal and respectful boy he is. Such a gentleman. Respect.
He and his family kept the baby. Im sure he didn't support him, himself at that age. Thank God for the parents of this "dad"
What else was he gonna do
Tea Snapped your profile picture, I'm on the ground 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Terri Troutner Why would you put “dad.” He IS a dad. You have to understand WHY he couldn’t support this child because he was, I don’t know, ELEVEN???? Of course his family supported the baby! Now I’m sure he’s supporting him himself.
FS Chris lmaooooo i lovee Jeffree
She is such a horrible disgusting human being and deserves everything that comes to her. Consequences, scrutiny, hostility, everything.
I would love to know her background and what it was that contributed to her actions, I think finding this out would be better than hate. Judging and hating doesn’t solve much and does worse for your own health in the end
XD
@@bubbabitty5438 ur opinions don't matter
Don’t call it “seduced”
Call it what it is: Rape
It can happen to both men and women
Tell that to the UK government... yeah.
@John T Actually it's not. Stupidly in law, rape is an offence that can specifically and only be committed by a male genitalia, like no joke.
Or grooming
Absolutely.
@Tarantula Lada Yeah... it is.
He's a victim of rape as much as any other victim!!
He's so strong to be able to talk to the camera and still be a father to a child.
I'm hoping his relationship with his child will be comfort for the poor baby when he finds out the circumstances of his birth
The fact alone that he is taking care of his son is incredible. This wasn't seducing, this was rape, pure rape. I'm sickened by this so I get why the mom threw up.
Erin Shrader Not rape , sexual Manipulation
@@nabirahcorville550 rape. Any form of enforced sexual activity with an underaged person is considered rape. And sexual assault.
@Tiffy Raya No one downplayed anything. But I wonder how that kid and other boys who had sex with much older women would compare to underage girls who were violated. What would they say about their experiences, speaking to a psychologist? Would the psychologist get the same feeling of depression and feelings of violation from the boys as they would from the girls? Use your critical thinking skills.
@@laurenchristianna2092 Use yours. Ask yourself why your language changes from 'a kid who had sex' to 'an underaged girl who was violated' . This woman groomed and sexually abused a child who was under her care. You imply that a boy would be less affected than a girl based on nothing more than your own bias.
Tiffy Raya you’re sensitive sweetie. Girl or boy, the definition of rape doesn’t correlate to this case. Manipulation however, does.
Him saying "game over" at the end was a total king move.
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It was cringe
Nice pfp
Gg
*enter jigsaw here*
"Game over" was the best last words for the Nanny.
Lol that sounded like a jigsaw line and It was so cool
i love him for saying that bless him!!
I know right!! I LOVED THAT!
That was spot on!! 🤣🤣 I love him!
Yep, the finisher sentence.
I was 15 as I got my daughter. I wouldn’t change my life today. But as he was, I was a child having child. This is wonderful he act so mature! Wish him the best and the boy‘s comment how he love his daddy just melted my heart ❤️
😯
To the people saying he didn't look like an 11 year old: that still doesn't make it legal
I completely agree,
When I was about 10 years old and my cousin was 11 he was also pretty mature looking for his age, (but definitely still 11!) and all my friends liked him. I just cant imagine a grown ass woman having a kid with my cousin at that age. Your practically still a baby. That's so predatory.
Don't see people saying that
Crystal Babcock A preteen isn’t near a baby.
Well she said practically
nd i think it's true, I'm 11, i dont have much experience( you can leave me in charge of a few things but dont expect me to have my own child😳) i want to play pubg. 5 years ago i was playing with blocks nd at least my brother is 22 and 5 years ago he would has been working 2 years
It at least that's my opinion because he says things were different nd he he was 11 you were a child and you didn't have kids, boys nd girls on tik tok wearing inappropriate clothing, nd talking dancing inappropriately trying to act like their adults
That clip with the green hair, he wasnt 11. He was 11 when the rape started, and if my math is correct, 12 when bentley was born. I assume that video is after bentleys birth, but before he told his mother that bentley was his
"I love daddy so much"
*1 seconds later*
"The best daddy"
Cuteness level exceeded
right 🥺
But the circumstances, how he was born is very sad 😭😭😭😭
700th like
Klara Seifert best revenge he raising the kid.
Such a tough situation because such a beautiful person came from this mess! I wish the son and dad a great life 🤗
The thought of a child impregnating an adult is beyond sickening and disturbing.
*you're right. that's why we call it **_"EVIL."_*
Disgusting. Hope she rots for this.
Well hey he is a good father
at least he took care of his kid instead of leaving him to get adopted.
Better then the other way around tho
Ok the "game over" line he said in the end was really dope lol. It's outrageous and disgusting what this woman did.
So it's automatically rape if a man does it to a girl but, it's seducing if it's a woman doing it to a man. Make that make sense, they make it sound like he willingly fell for that and gave her consent. As a girl, I find this truly disgusting.
@We Love MAPS-We Я AAMS it wasn't consenual though. At 11 you're still a child. That woman was 22. She was an adult. She understood what she's doing. He didn't. Forgive me if i'm unfortunately wrong, but I don't think you know what sex actually is. Nor will I be the one to explain it to you. But please understand that what that woman did to him is unforgivable. I suspect that when you and your classmates said that they would've done it, i'm assuming the raising a child part was apart of it?
He was no man he was an 11 year old boy still a child probably just barely hit puberty and now a father
Poor kid but I know he’ll do right by his son he’s got a good family to help him
The tone of this is way too casual. I’m glad the many is serving multiple decades tho
Oh quit with the fake outrage
@@stoneharper7038 how is this fake outrage lmao
The fact that hes actually raising his child at 17 shows hes a responsible adult
His kid turned him into adult
He's still a kid. 18+ or 21+ is an adult.
A kid having to take on the responsibilities as a parental adult BY DEFAULT.
Having a child usually makes someone mature.
Oswald Here that doesn’t matter. That’s the physical age not the mental
It's not "seducing"..it's a criminal offense spelled as
"R" "A" "P" "E" !!!!
I think it's the fact that UA-cam put out regulations out that UA-camrs can't say certain words otherwise their channel might get deleted.
PERIOD!
@@ajanay1200 that isnt true the word is used for the same circumstances regarding women
True
They said that because it was a male victim
I'll never understand why an adult would do this to a child
Because they’re pedifiles
That nervous game she played with him is so predatory and devious that I believe she was quite experienced at this and has more victims.
I'm sure it was her plan when she applied for the job
I was thinking that too. There needs to be a more thorough investigation into her background and jobs she’s had previously or family she’s been around. It sounds like she’s an experienced abuser and manipulator who knows how to take advantage of children without the parents suspecting.
I wouldn't be surprised if the same game was played with her as a child. But instead of seeking help, she went on to victimize another innocent child. The cycle of child abuse is devastating and evil.
Probably. That's a good point.
Or maybe done To her
It's not seduction it's called grooming, psychological manipulation and RAPE. This is absolutely DISGUSTING!!!!
Exactly. He was groomed by a pedophile plain and simple. Scary thing is that that POS might prey on another kid when she’s out of jail- there’s no curing them
It’s so disgusting and as a woman it makes me more man that if the genders were switched that man would probably be there wayyy more longer than a lady that clearly knew what she was doing and it angers me cus she deserves more
them saying she “seduced” him is so weird. she didn’t seduce him, she manipulated and raped him. Poor kid :( seems like a great dad, all things considered
Imagine watching a news report on a male predator and they say he "seduced" an 11 year old girl.
It’s the anti-male media bias.
Thank you.
E Me she is in prison. they said she was sentenced to 20 years
E Me She's in prison. Pay attention.
That’s disgusting. 11 years old is practically a baby still in my eyes.
I think that the fact that they keep saying “seduced” and not “raped” or “abused” or assaulted” is really gross. It wasn’t “seduction”. It was horrible abuse.
Keep saying? It's said once and in the right context. 'She seduced him into a game' is correct.
Saying she seduced him would be wrong because she committed sexual battery, but saying 'she seduced him with a game' is correct in this context, albeit a provocative play on words.
But he also was abused because of that game
It's still rape. A minor cannot give consent. Therefore it is rape
Because it's a woman, and women get preferential treatment, and often they get really light sentences compared to men.
The wording isn’t used properly for an 11 year old. Possibly if he was 17 but yes totally agree. He can go along but she had no right looking at a little kid in that way. Sick. She played him brainwashed him and he was probably confused and felt trapped. I feel so bad for him but I’m glad the baby got a good life not foster care. But an 11 year old doesn’t deserve to have a baby pinned on him either ya know? It’s just really sick and really tragic. It’s rape period
She is disgusting and should get more that 20 years in prison.
That nanny is a predator
Nicholas Miller Yes you’re right but at least she got 22 years most of them get away with now days or only a few years
syvonnie15 very true!
Nicholas Miller I’m still like wtf
HANG HER HANG HER HANG HER HANG HER HANG HER HANG HER HANG HER HANG HER
when he said “game over” i lost it was like...shook. like go him. being the responsible man and keeping his child. go you
Kylah Ruff tbh me too
Yess. I’m so proud of him for taking great care of his child and getting through the hardships I hope for the best for him ❤️❤️
Ditto over here as well when he said game over. Lol. He’s more mature and responsible at 17 than the pathetic nanny will ever be! And I give him even more credit for speaking up about it and speaking maturely about it, so hopefully more children will not be afraid to speak up and more parents will be watchful over their children’s nannies!
Responsible?? I thought everyone said he was a victim? How can he be responsible but also be a victim. Thats not possible. See the problem here?
@@22mrranger Responsible about his child, not about what she did to him.
My heart is shattered for this young boy and his mother. As a former nanny I know how much parents go through to ensure the right person is with their kids. This woman is the definition of sick and evil, and now this boy will never know true childhood and adolescence. What a horrible thing to do to someone.
The look in his eye when he said game over was pure zen. This guy has a spine of steel. Receiving support from his family when things came out will help him to move forward in life without shame. Shame is the worst thing about sexual abuse. His mother is golden. He is a real sweetheart and has a beautiful son.
Yeah, as a csa survivor I laughed when he said it because it was a solid roast to that scumbag and you can see that he's doing well. He dismisses her delusion of 'dating' and gets on with his life.
Yes, in spite of the circumstances, they'll be just fine!
💯🙌🏻
i agree with you completely. it made me slightly happy in a sad case that his son is so wonderful loves him so much he looks just like him, he is a sweet little guy. than he said to that awful girl game over. i am glad he told his mom as well.
I'm still in shock that a 22yr old woman who actually looks much more like 42yr old hag would do this to an 11yr old child. You can't trust anyone these days. This child has to raise a child it's not fair. I give him credit though he could've given the baby up for adoption
I would be ENRAGED as a MOTHER. Even years later I’d still be ENRAGED. The media completely downplayed this. Not once did they say RAPE.
It's so they don't get taken down
@Rahul Shanbhogue true feminists advocate for rape victims no matter their gender. idk what breed of feminist you've met but that just isn't correct at all
@Rehaan Aamir I guess I'll just consider that "gender equality" :)
@Rahul Shanbhogue cap
Probably because they don't want the innocent child to feel as if he was a punishment to their family rath6tha. A blessing regardless of how vile the egg donor is. I think it's a father and grandmother just protecting their child and grandchild. Also she wasn't convicted of rape so they unfortunately could be sued for defamation for saying rape though we all know it was
“Seduce” isn’t the correct word when you’re talking about an 11 year old fathering the child of a grown woman.
Totally!! you’d use “groom” then “rape.” Period. She’s a predator
Absolutely.
THANK YOU! YOU CANNOT SEDUCE A CHILD
Got you too 1k
Haley H The lady is going to hell but why didn’t they put him up for adoption.
At 11 years old! That is sick!
He may be 17 but he's such a responsible father. More than most adults
Ikr that’s one positive
That's so true.
Ikr, but it's so sad that he had part of his teenage years sacrificed to raise a child
Exactly, but he didn't deserve to undergo such kind of responsibility at such a young age
You got that right
Stop saying ‘seduced’
It’s rape.
I agree
Preach
@arturo smith
this is so beyond sick, pedophilia, grooming, rape
RUBICUNDUS ERATIUDAS what
@@l6x1s Who
Man sexually assaults somebody: A terrible rape
Woman sexually assaults somebody: It was seduction! (which is just a fancy way to say it was the victim's fault)
Jotaro Kujo Thanks, Jotaro.
dude, i get it you're upset that this is some kind of unfair double standard
but literally no woman in the comment section agrees with the diction they used
if you looked at the coment section everyone already agrees with you ??
@@lana-zk2eq I know, I'm a girl myself. I can read lmao. If anything, you're the one getting upset
@@qualityghost i literally don't see what's the point of your comment ; it is clear that no one blames the teenager and everyone agrees the nanny was insane. The description and the video even says "sexually assaulted" aka raped and that she was charged with "sexual battery"
Also I'm not 'upset', just confused as to why why everyone's complaining about barely euphemistic semantics
@@lana-zk2eq Seduction is basically a psuedo word for "the teen was into it"
The worst part is that HE'S left to take care of the child. It's not even his fault. Although, it's great that he's stepped up and taken care of the kid.
@Raven's Revenge ♣️🦂 This is youtube not twitter
@sillystriderrupsabatabyalf7112 That's what a disgusting pedophile would say.
She is beyond disgusting. You can't trust anyone around kids
I know that my nanny raped my cousin, he has probably kept it to himself all these years...I dont know how to let him know that I saw this even though I was younger I understood sex and rape (like 9years old)
@DrinkwithaMexican I think that's the dumbest and most arrogant comment I've read in my entire life.
Scheene Kendrick day that again sis!!!! 💯💯
Not true; you can trust me because I would never do anything sexual to a child.
Jacob Harvath 🤢
He's the youngest, most mature teen I've ever seen and his son is so cute.
Please don't molest him he's been through enough.
@@winning3329 she looks 11 herself so doubt.
Yeah. He's mature because he was forced to be a father at 11. You kinda have to grow up then.
@@winning3329 how is she gonna molest him they dont even know each other or live anywhere close to each other-
So you have never seen someone age 13-16?
If the tables/ genders were flipped we wouldn't be saying "seduced"...
Do you mean wouldn’t
Yes you do. Stop it.
@@christineperez7562 Let him cry.
Only if the male was attractive and rich like all the rich people that have been outed
I feel seduced is the wrong word. Preyed and then raped him would be the correct words.
It’s disturbing that this 22-year-old woman manipulated this family and did this to an 11-year-old child, (who is now 22.) No one should have that responsibility at such a young age. I’m glad she’s in jail, it’s heartbreaking but he really loves that little boy, and I hope he doesn’t learn the truth about what happened.
The boy is only five, and I feel so bad for him and his family. This never should have happened. I’m relieved she’s in jail and hope she has no contact with any of them, especially her son.
Everyone saying he’s raising that kid better than most adults. I guarantee you he’s not doing it alone. He has a loving mother and father.
Ray Kehr thank you! Let’s not put this idea out there that’s he’s killing it by himself. Having a child that young must be hard. Thank goodness he has support.
But give credit where credit is due with him, you know? It looks like he has a really great relationship with his son, and that's something the parents can't provide.
@@theonlybingledingle he has a good relationship becuz they're both children...I have a fantastic relationship with my 2 year old sister (I'm 17) and yes, that relationship is not down to my parents, but it has nothing to do with me or my parents raising her either
U can have a great relationship with a child and not have been the one to raise them is what I'm basically trying to say
That kid was born when he was 11, obviously his parents have been raising him for at least 80% of the time...no 11 year old cud raise a child alone without help...they're giving credit where credit is due to the parents, everyone is saying he's done a great job raising the kid, but he's probably barely raised him himself...at least not until he was older
Well his mother had help from a nanny to raise him. So his mother didn’t do it alone either. Most people have help raising their kids. I guarantee you he will do everything in his power to protect him from child molesters.
we only saw 20 secs of his life as a father
I don’t like how they consider little boys lucky if a woman does it to them, but they feel bad for a girl if a man does it to her. Either way, that’s disgusting and evil.
Yup smh
It's honestly so gross how they call male victims "lucky" if the rapist is female.
@@PissyLissy yup
Did they say in the video that he was lucky?
Predators is predators. They need help. Culture favoring the patriarchy don’t fix things.
And he still takes care of his kid, that’s great.
@Amber Isbell or he could pull a "my dad" and dissapear for 13 years
That's what a man does they look after ther kids
Yeah after he proved to his mother that the son was his when he was 14 they called the police and took custody of the child
Grandma does not him
That kid was 11? He looked 15 and it's surprising he could even father a child at 11. What an awful story, I hope Chris can recover from this terrible trauma. What a disgusting woman. I just never understand how an adult can see a child that way.