Dad Tumbles Into New Life After Losing 10-Year-Old Son

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  • @sonicinajarvauntedspeciali7245
    @sonicinajarvauntedspeciali7245 5 годин тому +588

    Ten years old.
    Ten. Years. Old.
    There's no way that school had no idea.
    That child didn't deserve ANY of that.
    Another child forgotten by the school system. Absolutely unbelievable.

    • @freeman8857
      @freeman8857 4 години тому +22

      I did nothing wrong, I'm not guilty! - said all guilty people and criminals

    • @GN2013-v5i
      @GN2013-v5i 4 години тому +8

      Home school is best

    • @Ivy_AndMore
      @Ivy_AndMore 3 години тому +2

      Exact

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 48 хвилин тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @jorgesotelosotelo3946
      @jorgesotelosotelo3946 47 хвилин тому

      This isn't ok I have a she's now 14 and a long time ago she was bullied and my parents went to the school and they did something they expelled him for good now my sister is happy that it was over and I thank Ms. Willis at East Fallowfield elementary School at coatesville

  • @jillpatterson3876
    @jillpatterson3876 4 години тому +260

    That school board who ignored his cry for help needs to be fired and the kids who bullied him along with the parents need to be dealt with 😠 totally unacceptable! So sorry for your loss.

    • @Zeroninja-j5c
      @Zeroninja-j5c 2 години тому +9

      They only cared about test scores so they can get more money for themselves they don’t care about the kids. So sad Sammy had to go through this and tragic what happened to him.

    • @da1stamericus
      @da1stamericus Годину тому +4

      I fought for a year with my daughter's then school. Once she got to a point that she was having nightmares, i filed a police report. They came got the neighborhood cop laison involved. The school wanted to say thay they were doing their "best". The cops and the neighborhood laison got cps involved. The parents of the abuser were upsét that i involved the cops. School didnt care. I contacted the director and said my daughter's switching schóols. Within five days she started at a new school. It was night and day. Therapy, and a school with wn actual no bullying policy saved my daughter's life. Cps is still involved in the lives of the other family six years later. Go figure if i was right. I'm so lucky our kid wàs saved in time.

  • @kristenstone8725
    @kristenstone8725 2 години тому +112

    I was severely bullied from 1st grade all the way through 12th. I almost didn't make it. People need to take bullying more seriously, especially the schools. I'm so grateful I did. Sending my love and prayers to that family ❤

    • @vellathewench
      @vellathewench Годину тому +5

      I was bullied from the time I was in school until I quit in the end of grade 10. I was suicidal because of the bullying. And the 2 years of high school it was also on the hour bus ride there and back which made it worse. I'm so sorry this poor boy didn't make it. My heart breaks for the family.

    • @bax2603
      @bax2603 Годину тому +3

      Same here except I dropped out at the 8th grade ,proud of you for staying all the way to 12 , that's awesome!

    • @bax2603
      @bax2603 Годину тому +2

      Same here except I dropped out at the 8th grade ,proud of you for staying all the way to 12 , that's awesome!

    • @williams.w7281
      @williams.w7281 Годину тому

      Why didn't the parents stand for their son? Why didn't they find the principle or transfer the son to another school?

    • @YourRoyalMajesty.
      @YourRoyalMajesty. Годину тому

      I hope you’re ok now. You didn’t deserve that. Love you.

  • @Sarah-ts1jh
    @Sarah-ts1jh 5 годин тому +230

    sorry for your loss 😢💔
    Those bullies should of been charged with assault. I wish the poor kid realized that bullying isn't the end of the world and it was possible to move on and heal

    • @CycloneProductions22
      @CycloneProductions22 5 годин тому +15

      Assault is an Under Case
      If the Bullies made someone kill themselves should be charged for Murder

    • @c.eb.1216
      @c.eb.1216 2 години тому +2

      Battery actually

  • @IFBBJacked
    @IFBBJacked 2 години тому +61

    This is what happens in a society where there is no consequence for bad behavior. When bullying is going on in school, parents should be teaming up against the bullies and even getting them expelled from school. There is no reason the child should be left bullied and no consequences to the bullies.

  • @victorfrankenstein4409
    @victorfrankenstein4409 5 годин тому +100

    For the bullying to get to the point that a ten year old would result to suicide is ridiculous, and yet there's no record of which at the school??

    • @lvanasse2
      @lvanasse2 Годину тому

      They interviewed the staff. C’mon, interview his group of school friends!!!

  • @Juls716
    @Juls716 5 годин тому +89

    To the dad: if you’re reading this, please know that I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. Wrapping a long distance warm hug around you, your wife and Sammy’s siblings. Extra comfort hugs for Xander who had to witness such a tragic event in his young life. I am so very sorry for all of you! Please accept my deepest condolences 💐

  • @SeyaDiakite7
    @SeyaDiakite7 5 годин тому +123

    Bullying is still a serious threat for our kids. Nobody deserves to suffer from this. Nor to lose your child because some parents can’t teach their kids how to be respectful to others.

  • @ljwalker5242
    @ljwalker5242 5 годин тому +86

    10.Years.Old !!!
    Just knocks the wind out of me.

  • @anitajoseph3618
    @anitajoseph3618 5 годин тому +69

    Poor dad. Bless him.❤

  • @CLF1_16
    @CLF1_16 5 годин тому +76

    Rest in paradise Sammy hope your doing well up there ❤

  • @jodiporter4622
    @jodiporter4622 2 години тому +35

    My mama heart breaks for them. I just list my son to suicide in September, he was 22. I don't think my mind has accepted the fact that he is gone. But to have a 10 year old child die from suicide, is beyond. I am so, so sorry. Something needs to be done with bullying.

    • @Ibochic1
      @Ibochic1 2 години тому +4

      I’m so sorry about your loss. ❤

    • @Mel.H_
      @Mel.H_ 2 хвилини тому

      When I was 23 my older brother, 27, took his life. It took years for my mind to accept it. Sending you massive hugs 🫂 🫂 🫂 ❤❤❤

  • @JustEmilyyy
    @JustEmilyyy 3 години тому +28

    this story has stuck with me. Sammy looked like such sweet boy, he didn’t deserve that 😢 Its so heartbreaking. Rest in peace Sammy.

  • @amitpatel6094
    @amitpatel6094 5 годин тому +45

    This is gut wrenching 😢. I’m sorry for the unimaginable loss. Unfortunately, this is not the first time I’m hearing this and the sad reality is that it is not the last time. Being a father of an 11 year old, I worry about bullying all the time. Schools have to get stricter removing bullies from the school system, ZERO tolerance. RIP Sammy 🙏

  • @rebecavasquez2695
    @rebecavasquez2695 3 години тому +35

    This man seems like the most down to earth, attentive, loving father. Omg I'm so sorry. This is the kind of grief that's SOUL BREAKING. I'm devastated FOR the family! 😢

  • @MinaAshidoLover2009
    @MinaAshidoLover2009 5 годин тому +47

    Rip, Sammy. Rest in peace 😢🙏

  • @AnnieScotland-q6e
    @AnnieScotland-q6e 5 годин тому +68

    Aww losing someone must be hard people don't deserve getting to be bullied 😢

  • @dawns.6620
    @dawns.6620 3 години тому +22

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  • @beatstarKidicarusfanlilac
    @beatstarKidicarusfanlilac 5 годин тому +33

    Aww poor him losing his son, stay safe ❤

  • @danteayala-vt5fz
    @danteayala-vt5fz 5 годин тому +26

    That's heartbreaking. Its even sadder that the other brother opened the door. He's going to be traumatized forever 😭😭

  • @catlover6750
    @catlover6750 5 годин тому +13

    He's such a sweet child😔

    • @DarnellJames083001
      @DarnellJames083001 2 години тому +1

      You know nothing about the kid lol. Stop acting like you knew him personally.

  • @NeilFisher49
    @NeilFisher49 3 години тому +10

    As a dad who lost his daughter. This video hit my heart strings

  • @jokodihaynes419
    @jokodihaynes419 5 годин тому +49

    "It's not the stab in the back that kills you it's the person who is holding the knife"-Harley Quinn

  • @cynthg9547
    @cynthg9547 5 годин тому +40

    These teachers and school district not doing a damn thing for our children .Rest In Heaven Sammy 😢

  • @nightslayer6951
    @nightslayer6951 5 годин тому +17

    I'm so sorry for your loss😢🙏

  • @LynnTritch
    @LynnTritch 3 години тому +12

    School staff act as if they didn't see anything, so nothing happened.
    I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢

  • @JimmyTheRevR.I.P
    @JimmyTheRevR.I.P 4 години тому +8

    I know what you went through lil bro. Life gets rough, but it was too much for you.
    R.I.P dude❤🕊

  • @MTA2012
    @MTA2012 4 години тому +11

    I lost a cousin from sucide and it really took a toll towards our family. Granted he was 21 where he lived a lot longer than his son it still hurts. I can’t imagine what losing a 10yr old son. That’s heartbreaking. ❤❤

  • @ramonalopez7516
    @ramonalopez7516 5 годин тому +13

    Hugs.💔

  • @juliebollman3944
    @juliebollman3944 4 години тому +6

    What a helpless feeling 😢 Poor baby, I'm sure he's rejoicing in heaven

  • @clementediaz3502
    @clementediaz3502 2 години тому +5

    Can’t imagine the pain of loosing your child like this

  • @myeongwol
    @myeongwol 4 години тому +17

    10 years old!
    Parents, always check with your kids, ask how's their days, how's the school, be friend with their friends and teachers 😢

  • @ClaudettePamela
    @ClaudettePamela 5 годин тому +20

    Oh my Goodness! God, please 🙏 touch this family in your name I ask, wrap your arms around them. Amen 🙏

  • @ClassroomGD
    @ClassroomGD 5 годин тому +22

    Dang. Rest in peace man.

  • @thundercrackerangrygriphar4553
    @thundercrackerangrygriphar4553 5 годин тому +11

    10 year olds shouldn't even be thinking of suicide, much less going through with it 😢😢

    • @Savagery21
      @Savagery21 3 години тому +3

      Exactly. What this child went through was unspeakable. May he rest in peace.

  • @Nik-bs6ji
    @Nik-bs6ji 2 години тому +3

    My goodness. Sending prayers to his parents and siblings

  • @Thatoneemorat
    @Thatoneemorat 5 годин тому +17

    The school is being so ignorant. He was a young boy who otherwise had no reason to end his life… The school should really pay more attention instead of dismissing it so quickly

    • @JimmyTheRevR.I.P
      @JimmyTheRevR.I.P 4 години тому +2

      Unfortunately that's what pretty much ALL schools do. Then they wonder why there's so many kids losing their lives now, to suicide or from school massacres. The shooter is usually a victim of bullying who got fed up with the school doing nothing to stop it. I've been there myself, thankfully I didn't.
      Srry for venting. Had to get that out

    • @c.eb.1216
      @c.eb.1216 2 години тому

      ​@@JimmyTheRevR.I.P Why can't CPS get involved and set up an alternative learning program for him at home or designated private tutors? Maybe a new branch needs to be created.

  • @ilovek174
    @ilovek174 3 години тому +2

    Such an unimaginable loss! I am so sorry! Rest in paradise, Sammy❤

  • @amyroche568
    @amyroche568 2 години тому +4

    The fact his poor brother foound him thats an image he will never forget 😭😭😭

  • @dominator1142
    @dominator1142 5 годин тому +12

    10 years old 😮?! That is so sad, that breaks my heart

  • @AnnetteAllen-m8w
    @AnnetteAllen-m8w 2 години тому +4

    Im sorry you have gone through that. My son tried suicide by cutting his wrists at 16. It's not just schools. And Sammy is right. The schools don't listen. My autistic daughter tells me that too. She's 19. Still in school programs. My heart goes out to you and your family. You have such a beautiful family. God bless. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @stepygaming9802
    @stepygaming9802 5 годин тому +19

    Something needs to be said about this

  • @arfriedman4577
    @arfriedman4577 2 години тому +5

    Im sorry he lost his son.
    I was bullied too from 1st grade to college. My parents told me to ignore these kids. The crazy thing is they were honor students like me.
    Only once in 7th grade a boy shorter than me punched me. My parents chose not to suspend boy. Years later, a former friend I lost touch with told me he became a firefighter, did weight lifting and some acting.
    In hs kids from 2 different trouble families threatened to beat me on the bus. The dean who dressed like a biker took care of these kids. I don't recall if they were suspended by the dean. My parents wouldnt have suspended them. Awhile back I was reading a newspaper article. One of the female bullies opened a hair salon.
    This was in NYC late 1980s.
    It seems that maybe from the 1990s the schools started doing nothing about bullying.

    • @jasondawdy5524
      @jasondawdy5524 Годину тому

      I'm sorry to hear that. I was also bullied in school. Rest assured, all bullies will have to answer to God. And He is a just Judge. God bless you!

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 58 хвилин тому

      @jasondawdy5524 thank you. Many blessings to you and your family.
      i always focused on teaching people the knowledge I learned. In school, I actually had to tutor some of the kids that bullied me.

  • @viviperez4971
    @viviperez4971 4 години тому +5

    They need to start holding kids accountable for their actions! No ten year old should be committing suicide. That’s just insane. R.I.P lil man.

  • @CindyHine-o2z
    @CindyHine-o2z Годину тому +1

    No one should bully anybody.God bless u and ur family

  • @11FRANZILLA11
    @11FRANZILLA11 2 години тому +4

    That school is responsible for his safety and well-being in school.

  • @mickeyrodriguez2084
    @mickeyrodriguez2084 4 години тому +4

    God bless 🙏 you & give you strength , RIP Sammy , your now with the other Angels 😇 up there.

  • @stezton
    @stezton 35 хвилин тому +1

    Oh man, i feel so badly for his brother that found him. 😢

  • @anonymousfan1008
    @anonymousfan1008 5 годин тому +8

    Bullies have nothing better to do with their lives than to put others down. And I bet that school district knows more than they’re letting on, they just don’t wanna punish the bullies because they’re afraid of what the parents will say. Or worse they think kindness is gonna fix them. Rest in peace to Sammy.

  • @earlmoore7003
    @earlmoore7003 14 хвилин тому +1

    R.I.P to this young boy, he had a lot to look forward to. 😢❤🙏

  • @RileyPlayzYTOfficial
    @RileyPlayzYTOfficial 5 годин тому +8

    This is absolutely devastating. If only his brother was there that day when Sammy died so that he wouldn’t have seen what happened to him later. RIP Sammy. You deserved better. Hope you’re looking down at your family.

    • @danteayala-vt5fz
      @danteayala-vt5fz 5 годин тому +3

      It's just sad seeing the brother open the door and see his brothers dead body 😭

    • @E621_Rule34
      @E621_Rule34 Годину тому

      His mom was there

  • @kaitlynleeanna425
    @kaitlynleeanna425 4 години тому +3

    Prayers to the family, please people please talk to your kids about bullying bc I’ll tell you right now I’d be at that school every damn day so I’m heard.

  • @saraloeb1299
    @saraloeb1299 4 години тому +3

    This is devastating my sincere condolences 🙏🙏

  • @servantJerubbaalgodSlayer
    @servantJerubbaalgodSlayer 3 години тому +1

    So sorry for the loss of this precious child. I hope he fights for his son and gets justice for him and his family. 😢

  • @nickywilks7928
    @nickywilks7928 4 години тому +7

    Just a baby...this is totally gut wrenxhing.

  • @Renee-vq7tn
    @Renee-vq7tn 3 години тому +2

    ABSOLUTELY horrible 😢.... I'm so sorry to the family

  • @loafhouse
    @loafhouse 5 годин тому +3

    I heard about this story months ago, as a kid who's been bullied before heavily, Sammy's passing should be a sign to make bullying in schools more intolerable

  • @user-kd3tb6wf9i
    @user-kd3tb6wf9i 2 години тому +1

    So so so so so so heartbreaking that this beautiful little boy thought this was the only way out. Bullies! You have a special place down south! Parents, teach your kids!

    • @jasondawdy5524
      @jasondawdy5524 Годину тому

      They sure do! Unless they repent and trust in Christ for salvation, but most don't.

  • @JuLayLeeBee
    @JuLayLeeBee 5 годин тому +7

    Poor baby 😢

  • @Wqghfxz
    @Wqghfxz 5 годин тому +4

    Why can't school staff prevent bullying?

  • @WinstonNewYork
    @WinstonNewYork 3 години тому +1

    Such a precious angel. God have mercy.

  • @nightcrawleroriginal
    @nightcrawleroriginal 5 годин тому +2

    Very sad to lose a loved one, my condolences.

  • @ianmasinda1996
    @ianmasinda1996 4 години тому +2

    Sorry to hear that!

  • @Beblessed762
    @Beblessed762 20 хвилин тому +1

    My condolences very sorry to hear that 😢

  • @suiybnfisyfe
    @suiybnfisyfe 2 години тому +1

    Such a beautiful child, with a beautiful smile, now he ain't nothing but another file.

  • @Marlysa-e1b
    @Marlysa-e1b 5 годин тому +10

    Suicide oh no that's terrible. I'm so sorry. 😞

  • @Maamashango
    @Maamashango 5 годин тому +3

    RIP SAMMY, MAY YOUR MEMORY BE A BLESSING FROM NIGERIA 🇳🇬

  • @jodijustice4140
    @jodijustice4140 3 години тому +2

    School has become more dangerous than any good that it can provide. Take your children, if u truly love them, take them Out of this system. No students, no financing.

  • @JC-sm4mp
    @JC-sm4mp 3 години тому +1

    One of my best friends is legacy now. Its both so beautiful and painful knowing you get to hold the best parts of someone for the rest of your life, but accepting thats all you get.. is so hard. Sammy is a beautiful kid. Youre a beautiful dad with a beautiful family

  • @anamethatlastsforeverinternet
    @anamethatlastsforeverinternet 5 годин тому +9

    the sadder facts is that nobody else care apart from these parents of this child, this is just another video in a library of millions

  • @nuradary-c8d
    @nuradary-c8d 3 години тому +2

    😢 the school should have helped this child and they should have removed those bullies out of that school and kick them out I think the parents should have just homeschooled their kids ..

  • @abbyhunker3956
    @abbyhunker3956 5 годин тому +3

    That’s so hard for his parents n my ❤ goes out to the boy’s family

  • @arrowverselover100
    @arrowverselover100 4 години тому +2

    Who wants to bet some of those kids who attended his funeral were the ones bullying him?

  • @lmcrofficial
    @lmcrofficial 5 годин тому +7

    damn. that's sad.
    r.i.p sammy teusch

  • @podpod6000
    @podpod6000 5 годин тому +3

    This is sad no parents should lose a kid to evil bastard bullies kids can be so cruel sorry for your loss 😢

  • @kang1599
    @kang1599 5 годин тому

    Thanks for speaking up, sorry for your loss

  • @J_PIK
    @J_PIK 3 години тому +2

    “We investigated ourselves and found no wrong doing.”

  • @VirginiaPendas
    @VirginiaPendas 4 години тому +1

    so sad:( prayers to the family

  • @mightyxavi
    @mightyxavi 4 години тому +3

    Sadly the school and teachers won’t say a thing to “protect” the culprits

  • @Drewthemagnificent
    @Drewthemagnificent 2 години тому +1

    The school system has never cared about the kids..never have and never will. Accountability is non existent with them.

  • @ms.krueger2660
    @ms.krueger2660 36 хвилин тому

    My son was bullied so I took him out after 6th grade.
    He was home schooled.
    My son is 24 now and told me that he thought about doing this.
    This could have been me going through this! 🙏Praying for this family and any other!! Praying for the kids too!!
    So sorry. 😢💙
    No one should have to go through this. This happened in my family (a cousin) many many years ago.
    Shame on the schools for not taking this seriously.😡

  • @InfoBinger
    @InfoBinger 4 години тому +2

    Bully never ends. Sammy must've known this. Once a target ALWAYS a target. Tough world we live in for sure. I've been bullied all my life and as an adult I still am. It's never ending even if it's reported. Might start suing to profit off of their ignorance .

  • @malika-y2q
    @malika-y2q 5 годин тому +12

    When parents lose their children it is harder than the other way around.

    • @thatrandomcockroachunderyo2167
      @thatrandomcockroachunderyo2167 5 годин тому +1

      It’s not harder than the other way around. One grievance isn’t harder than another. It’s how everyone takes on the newfound challenge

    • @malika-y2q
      @malika-y2q 5 годин тому

      @thatrandomcockroachunderyo2167 This is also true.

  • @vigilante-od9vc
    @vigilante-od9vc 3 години тому +2

    Teachers will often join in on the bullying I know from personal experience when my 2nd grade teacher made fun of my studdering problem I had n still have

  • @jacquelyncochran7966
    @jacquelyncochran7966 4 години тому +1

    So sad and heartbreaking 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 😢😢😢

  • @book_worm22
    @book_worm22 4 години тому +2

    If my kid is being bullied im homeschooling! I dont care what i have to do to make it happen but im learning from videos like this. Im not losing my child

    • @sandramontiel3021
      @sandramontiel3021 3 години тому +1

      I think that's the best decision any parent can make because between school shootings and bullying murder etc happening at school every year these schools don't care because they're not their kids smh it's sad how school has changed so much 😭

  • @onevanity4021
    @onevanity4021 4 години тому +2

    They should charge them as adults because if their parents had any sense they would ask them who told them it was okay and to bully someone…. The world is definitely not like it used to be to be . When I was coming up parents, school staff and the bus driver nipped it in the butt and that was it. These days some of them don’t even care and that’s sad. I’d hold the teachers, staff, bus driver and the parents responsible. I’d be their nightmare 😢

  • @Beachgirly626
    @Beachgirly626 5 годин тому +10

    Rip

  • @prabhuramk.r.6557
    @prabhuramk.r.6557 5 годин тому +2

    Sorry to hear this, may God be with you all. Prayers from india 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🙏🙏🙏

  • @lancesmithmusicman
    @lancesmithmusicman 5 годин тому +1

    That's sad of what that kid went through 😢

  • @OfficialPontiac
    @OfficialPontiac 5 годин тому +1

    Goes to show that schools don’t bat an eye when it comes to the well being of their students.

  • @AnimeKuroNeko
    @AnimeKuroNeko Годину тому

    It's extremely sad because he's right. Some staff at schools like his don't listen, and ones like mine blame the victims instead. It's sad nothing happened before this happened. Unfortunately, the school failed him. It's really messed up that the bullies tormenting him weren't put a stop to.

  • @jokodihaynes419
    @jokodihaynes419 5 годин тому +5

    "But the thing about betrayal is that it never comes from your enemies"-Lawkeeper Equity Mlp Ace Attorney EOJ

  • @disconnect5305
    @disconnect5305 5 годин тому +4

    10 year old and asphyxiation? Suicide? How did a 10 year old even able to pull that off? 😨😨😨

    • @Savagery21
      @Savagery21 3 години тому

      That school was hell.

    • @DarnellJames083001
      @DarnellJames083001 2 години тому

      How do you think he pulled it off? That's a stupid question to ask

    • @c.eb.1216
      @c.eb.1216 2 години тому

      Unlimited access to the internet and/or someone older gave him instructions. Sickening to think about.

  • @ktrevino63
    @ktrevino63 Годину тому

    The school system needs to figure out how to fix bullying! This should never happen.

  • @Ivy_AndMore
    @Ivy_AndMore 3 години тому +1

    That’s horrible…schools literally need to prevent bullying and expel anyone who’s bullying anyone. Or then su*c*de might happen

  • @TheAwkRobot1997
    @TheAwkRobot1997 3 години тому

    His poor brother, finding him like that. Rest in peace Sammy. And to Xander and the rest of the family, I send you love and healing. ❤

  • @littlelettuce1215
    @littlelettuce1215 45 хвилин тому

    It’s true-they don’t listen. I was bullied right in front of teachers, and they saw it happen. Yet, they never reported it. There need to be serious consequences for teachers who fail to report incidents they witness in their classrooms. It doesn’t matter who they favor, how close they feel to certain students, or whether they dismiss it as “kids just being kids” or “harmless teasing”-because often, it’s much more serious than that. Teachers have a responsibility to address bad behavior. No excuses, whether they sympathize with a student who might come from a difficult home or not. This behavior needs to be acknowledged, addressed, and stopped.

  • @love_evann
    @love_evann 2 години тому

    What a great father. So sad this happened.

  • @janel5323
    @janel5323 Годину тому

    10 year olds shouldn’t even know what suicide is. this world is so sad. that beautiful boy, i pray he’s resting peacefully and i pray the dad finds peace.