Supermodels and Celebrities lose their looks as they age. 'Time' renders everyone unattractive. So, when you perceive someone as beautiful, just remember that they won't always be that way. And since their 'looks' are a big part of their identity (most likely) then "aging" will be almost unbearable. Anyways, wouldn't you rather know that people like you for your personality and character rather than your looks?
God I want to throw up every time I look into the mirror and look at pictures of myself. I feel disgusting 24/7 and I can't go out in public very often because I can't stand myself.
It cracks me up when good looking people give this kind of advice to ugly people. That's like me going up to someone in a wheelchair and saying "eh, just because it's a debilitating condition that will shape every aspect of your life doesn't mean it should get you down". Lol, OK.
"I don't see that there isn't really such a thing as unattractive or ugly." Yes, actually there is. And when you're ugly, you figure this out the hard way.
I agree, I definitely think that he is very optimistic which is lovely, but for us ugly people, we know that this is untrue. We have learned this the hard way simply just by being ourselves.
Zippy i don't agree with you . i'm the most unattractive human in the world but that doesn't bother me at all becouse i don't care what people think and it's not my gult that they don't like me
+/*_*\ People can treat you different based on your looks whether you agree with me or not... If you're not bothered by this, then power to you. But there's gonna be at least one moment in your life where you don't get the reception you wanted because you don't have a Zac Efron face.
Being ugly isn't a thought.. it's a fact. It's very easy to know if you're ugly or unattractive. If you're ugly, then your life will undoubtedly be a lot harder to live. It'll be harder to socialise and people will always "prefer" you less in terms of making friends, finding a partner, etc. The whole "it's inside that matters the most" is utter bullshit. People don't see your personality first, they see your looks. If you're hideous, no one will give you a chance. You don't need to see a TV advert or a magazine to base your view that you're ugly off of, it's quite easy to see. If you look hideous, you know it and there's absolutely nothing that can be done. Ugly and pretty exist, and they're both a definite and inevitable reality. The most an ugly person can do is just deal with it, hope someone gives them a chance and live their lives to the best of their ability. There is nothing that can be done about it, and it's better to accept it and move on rather than live in a delusional state of mind where you constantly reject that fact and try to convince yourself that you're not.. only to find out the hard way. This is coming from an ugly person themselves. It's easier to say all these nice things when you look attractive, but "pretty" people will never know the pain of looking like an utter disgrace.
I agree. I can try and feel confident and "pretty" all I want. all I have to do is go around people. they'll let you know right away if you're ugly. people don't give a shit about your feelings.
Johnnie Shreve I mean no one has ever told me that I am ugly.. but they don't need to. A quick look in the mirror and it's easy to tell. And yeah you're right, people really don't care about your feelings. That's how the world exists, there are ugly people inside and out.
+ToxicBalloon360 no one has come out and said hey you're ugly as hell that's usually done behind my back but all I have to do is read body language ect. .. if people turn away and act like you're not there I think that's a pretty good indication
Johnnie Shreve That's actually very true. People talk behind people's backs and while you may not know about it, it's easy to tell how people feel about you through their body language.
+ToxicBalloon360 Thanks for speaking my mind. There are some requirements which need to be fulfilled to be pretty and you can tell from the reaction of society if you're ugly or not. I hate it when people make the world so "nice" and say things like "everyone is beautiful on their own way" no it's not just open your eyes
ryukdluffy I'm sorry you've been suffering. But, if you're open to it, then it is possible to discover that rejection doesn't create suffering.... thoughts do. Try my other videos to better understand that.
Beautiful people have looks and girls/boys but guess what less attractive people have...we are obviously stronger souled people and have a greater heart and we all are beautiful no matter what you think I used to think I was but as soon as I excepted myself for what I am and what I look like I felt more attractive and had greater confidence it’s not easy but just look in the mirror and say I’m beautiful amazing great smart fill your mind with positive thoughts and watch what comes out as your training your brain to believe you are
Me too. How I wish at least someone would make me feel comfortable with my body, my face. I wish I was desired and loved. I'd like to be told I look good, at least just one time in my life.
John Sanders I think his point is the guy can't share tips on a problem he never had to face. That's like a tall guy advising a short man on how to deal with heightism. What could he possibly know? His video holds no credibility, maybe other ones are good but not this one.
@@p.r.9982 So you're saying that f.e. only a guy that has ever been suicidal can talk someone out of feeling suicidal? I understand your point about attractive people not understanding what it must feel like to be ugly, but right now you are kind of judging him solely because of his looks. He could have been bullied for his looks at some point in his life, or felt like he wasn't good enough and wants to share some of his mindset.
LRFLekk He started the video off saying "there's no such thing as ugly or unattractive." He's clearly delusional and that statement alone ruined all his credibility.
Calling my self ugly actually makes me happy. when someone calls me handsome, i feel like its a lie. As well Its like a secret insult type deal. There is a clear definition of ugly and its what i look like. When You call yourself pretty or what ever you are lieing to ur self. Its better to be true.
I'm sorry Noah but a lot of people consider you attractive. Therefore you'll never really know how it feels for someone who isn't. In the 21st century we are now more preoccupied with looks more than ever before. Everybody judges a book by its cover. That's the way it is plain & simple.
Janik Bollh von horst But He’s really attractive now.. He could be a model if he wanted. He will never truly understand what it’s like to be and feel ugly
people always say "get over it".. "you have to go out and make friends" "be more confident about yourself" like it's not that easy for us who get rejected every second of the day and people make jokes about your face and everyone is laughing at... life is not fair u.u Ugly people, we all can be friends and maybe we all can be happy, and talking about myself maybe that's the only way i can be happy for once in my life.
Oh my gosh you made my day. I'm 12 and I feel so ugly inside and out and I legit am crying right now. I have tried soooo hard to fit in but everywhere I look are all these beautiful skinny girls. When people call me pretty I turn around thinking they are talking to someone behind me. The worse part about it is that I'm 12, and even my friends think I'm ugly. They call me average. I don't want to be average. I'm just an ugly girl. I'm rejected and always feel left out. No video will ever help me. Nothing can ever help me. I hate this feeling. It eats me inside. I don't know what to do. Sometime I feel like the best solution is ending it.
Eduardo Sanchez ugly people dont want to be friends with other ugly people for some reason like we're 30% of the planet and most of us have no friends we should start being friends with each other
Being young and unattractive is really hard to deal with. Nobody wants to be your friend and nobody cares about what you have to say. I just want to live a normal teenager life and have fun with my friends but I can't all because I'm ugly.
Noah, I'm sorry, but when you get bullied everyday by the popular kids just to make theirself look cool, or gain more popularity, bullied physically for the sake reason, made fun of by lots of attractive females every day, looked on as someone that isn't human, and rejected by females the second they look at you, then come back and make a video like this.
WinnerorNot8 well, they get to enjoy their youth, we get to enjoy our never socially. A women that is dating a man for his wealth will not give him the same romantic love she would give an attractive man. Even if an ugly person gets very rich, socially their lives just are never going to be the same.
Don’t listen to the bullies, I’m getting cyber bullied by people I don’t know in real life and yea, it hurts my feelings a lot. But, stay confident. Popular kids who bully will one day realise their mistakes and regret it all.
@@okok-uk1le your not even ugly tf💀, my Freind go to the gym and be confident, ur face in handsome and u hv beautiful features. U have a chance don’t let urself go
i hate being ugly.xD the amount of things i go thru everyday 1.looking in the mirror and noticing you look worse than you thought 2.never getting asked out 3.people tell you you're pretty 4.first thing ppl roast u about is ur face 5. getting shocked by your reflection 6.when somene on your fanpage ask what you look like xD
It's easy for a good looking person to tell the ugly that they're not ugly and that they should be happy....smh this scenario is also seen with wealth and health
@@8282-r8c I know same I don't want to be incredible beautiful I wanna have a normal body and face, imagine what it feels like can talk to people, and they will treat like human, can talk with a girl and at least have a shot
Im average and here in middle-east there is no concept of treating someone based on their looks upto a great extent I'm very surprised by reading the comments and the things you guys have to face.
Tbh appearance plays into nearly everything on this planet. You simply can't deny it because you'd be lying if you did. Us humans, we judge pretty much everything by its appearance at first sight. Even the world we live in. Is that flower nice? no...ill get that one. Is this dog cute? no this one's cuter. No one wants food that looks ugly at first, they go for the more attractive looking dish. Even if the less attractive one tastes better. Only the people who don't have a choice other than to eat the less attractive dish will get to know what that dish tastes like, all the more lucky people won't get to see that the ugly dish is ultimately better. I hope y'all are getting my point here. If a girl/guy is ugly, only the other ugly people who don't really have a choice other than to give them a chance because they're not getting anywhere being rejected by attractive people, will see that this ugly girl/guy is actually an amazing person. That's pretty much why you never see a goodlooking person with an ugly person. Unless therse two people have know each other forever but even in that case it's still rare af. I don't even know what to say about a an attractive person like you telling ugly people how to deal with being ugly. Have you had experience? because it doesn't look like it. Everyone feels insecure but there's a difference between waking up some days and feeling disgusting and waking up everyday and knowing you look disgusting to everyone Including yourself. Sorry for the rant you probably won't read this but I needed to vent.
i dont think you saw the video properly because as Noah potentially stated everyone has different tastes not everyone is gonna think you're good looking regardless anything obviosly everyone gets judged first sight but some people their opinion will be different towards you the others
Darkside Sider ur Right , even good looking people get rejected. The difference is most Times it’s based on the girls preference and not because he’s ugly. She may not like his hair, but she’ll still acknowledge he’s good looking just not her type. So he still retains confidence. Everytime I’ve been rejected, I asked the girl to be honest and she said I was ugly. Even more, the rejections happen at a much higher rate than a good looking guy. I’ve had 1 success with over 75 attempts throughout my life. Which may not seem a lot of attempts but you get burned out when you get rejected too much.
Rosa Jonezy7 I mean, he's not ugly but I don't see him as that attractive. And not just because I am male. I am bi but would not date this guy. Not my type. I disagree that all humans find the same things attractive.
ok but beautiful people will never be bullied because theyre ugly or have monster face, beautiful ppl have a lot of problems, is not like they are 100 always happy but What a ugly person have to stand on their lives will be always harder, more difficult, beauty standars will be ALWAYS there you "believe" in them or not, and the world is going to judge you by them even if theyre "real" or not. ugly people will always carry more pain that beautiful ones, no matter how much ppl want to deny it.
Guys come on, there are no such thing as being ugly and if it do exist please tell me what it looks like. Cause I really don't know, I haven't experienced it very much in my life just some few comments here and there but nothing serious. So tell me what is ugliness?
Moh Djedir ha ha he did not mean it. he meant that the feelings that you get when people isolate you are your feelings it is not the world's mistake if you internalize it. Sure if you let go and stop getting hurt it will never bother you trust me I recently gave up being bothered by streotypes and people who call me ugly or dark skinned or bald. What you need to focus on is your feelings and how to make it happy. don't internalize it moreover people who don't speak to you or who call you names don't deserve you. It might be thousands but yet you don't need them at all. All you need is one or two friends.
Honestly, I don't care what people think anymore. I'm not very attractive, but a lot of people aren't. Some people are born the way they are, if you got the short end of the stick, don't feel down on yourself. Just accept who you are and start realizing that your appearance isn't everything. I would rather have integrity, wisdom and a good heart instead of looks. Looks fade, but your character is forever.
Nah. Your character isn’t forever. So many people with great character are rotting in the ground and no one gives a shit. Only a small portion of the people with good character mlk, Buddha, etc are remembered
Cold truth shower. People are attracted to a face which has nice symmetries, not necessarily a perfect one but a face without features that stand out too much such a big, curvy nose or big pointy ears. It is true that self confidence, intelligence and other attributes can make you appear prettier in the eyes of the person you are trying to impress, but takes way more effort and it's the hardest thing to do if you are unattractive, since it's most likely accompanied with low self esteem. I strongly believe that if there is anything you can do to improve your looks (train at the gym, be mindful of your hygiene and fix your hair before you go out) you have to do it first and if you still don't get results you can complain. But in the end a pretty face gives you the power to choose from a plethora of dating partners without worrying you won't find another whilst being ugly ,it's a road with rejection written all over it. @Noah Elkrief
I agree. I honestly think having a high degree of asymmetry is the worst. My whole face is crooked, my nose, my cheeks, my eyebrows, it's truly a curse. the left side of my face looks drastically different from my right. It is what it is, people tell me I'm pretty but I'm sure they are just bluffing. I ignore it and accept the fact that I'm ugly.
Just because you can't touch it doesn't make it not real. Sorry Noah. I was hoping for some breakthrough but you can't deny everyone judges everyone on their appearance and it has a massive effect on your self image and confidence. Those who are beautiful have far less anxieties and get accepted by people a lot more. Its the sad truth, and if 999 people think you're ugly and 1 thinks you aren't, you're probably ugly. You will never have to deal with this as you weren't born into an ugly body but that's reality.
IHATEHIPSTERSS It seems that the message I was making in the video did come through for you. If everyone judges you to be ugly, they will treat you differently. If you believe that this means something about who you are, then it will emotionally impact you. If you don't believe it means something about who you are, then it won't emotionally impact you. It is not true at all that people who society believe are beautiful have less anxiety. At all. Do they get accepted by more people? Absolutely. But all of that is completely irrelevant. As long as you think you want to be beautiful, you will spend your life suffering. You need to discover that you want to be happy more than you want to change your appearance. Until that discovery happens, you are in a prison. Once you discover that, then you can ask the question "Does beauty create happiness?" Try watching the video again. Maybe, you will be able to see it differently.
Noah Elkrief I know that if I was beautiful I would be happy. I don't think I can be happy if I'm ugly and hate myself because of the way I look and people thinking I'm a weirdo. I don't see how to ignore all that and just be happy
IHATEHIPSTERSS If you want to be happy, then you need to discover that appearance can't make you happy. I have many videos that explain what happiness is and what can't get it for you. I suggest you watch those because right now you are not seeing things clearly. I am not saying to ignore anything, I am saying to look around and discover what's really true.
Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder at a certain point. Once you are above that baseline you are universally attractive, if you are below it you are universally unnattractive. Why do you think all male models have the same typical Facial features, strong jaws, good facial bone structure, hollow cheeks, masculine, pretty boy, or rugged looks. There are certain features that are just genetically attractive to human beings
Same man I went in thinking I was kind of hot and realized how ugly I am by the third quarter of my first year. I’m just holding on to see what my face looks like when I get braces off.
I just don't have it in me to cope with it. It doesn't make sense that one could be okay with it. I hate me. It's extremely insulting when stupid people post shit on the Internet about how ugly they are despite being average looking or above.
people look at themselves differently than others see them, whether it is conceit and thinking you are the most beautiful person, or thinking you are the ugliest, some people will find you attractive while others won't, that's life :) it's okay
***** Haha, your sister probably deserves more, and you shouldn't try to control her life and make her life miserable by setting her up with an ugly guy like me.
***** Oh, I went out to get pizza, and that's a very masculine name for a girl. Also, I would feel like you be doing this out of pity (though I am pretty desperate) haha.
Sure, you can distract yourself at times and forget how you look, but how do you expect those like myself who repulse people by the very sight of their face to not still feel lonely. Eventually they will realize that the way they look is the cause for their loneliness, and they will (rightfully) act to change it. There are people who are so ugly though that normal means cannot change it however. I am one of those unfortunate few, and cannot afford the tens of thousands of dollars to change it at least for several years. We're social creatures, and when your too ugly for socialize, there's not much hope for permanent happiness. Temporary distractions perhaps, but I know I'll still end up longing for the peace of death.
BLUEBEVERLY I'm sorry bluebeverly. But I would encourage you to look at whether your depressing feelings are created by being alone or by your thoughts about it. I am also spending christmas alone in a place where I don't know anyone. But I don't feel depressed because I don't have thoughts that say "It would be better if other people were here..."
I'm a guy who is not ashamed of being ugly. It's something that I have to live with for the rest of my life. People can make fun of how I look, but it just goes to show you how ignorant others are. I don't pay attention at all. I'm proud of myself for how I look.
Except if you are living with a brother that looks like Thor. You see him getting compliments all the time and you're sitting all the way right next to him and you people giving you shit :(
+Uso Indevido I just wanted to say to you that yes it sucks to live in a world where opinions on appearances are largely created by what culture and media and simultaneously overly emphasized in the grand scheme of things versus things that are far more important like who you are as a person. It sucks...BUT there's a positive side to this. One day you will meet someone who loves you for who you are and believe it or not finds you attractive no matter how "ugly" you think you are. Instead of meeting and partnering up with loads of ppl who chose you solely for your appearance matching society's standard for good looks, you have much higher likelihood of meeting perhaps less ppl, but higher quality ppl at the same time. Ppl who admire you genuinely for who you are as a whole. Isn't that better than having ppl choose you solely on your appearance? I would venture to guess that thinking this way would make you feel socially awkward and uncomfortable or to associate having less friends with appearance, but perhaps it is the preoccupation with appearance consuming you that makes it harder to make friends. I hope you can take away something from this video or what I've said. Being "good-looking" has its disadvantages too. He mentioned some: not knowing if you were chosen for your skill at work for promotion or simply for looks, not knowing if your partner is in it just to "get some" or if they like all of YOU to name a few. That can be wearing on a person as well, not knowing who you can trust or depend on, not being able to feel secure in your talents or achievements actually being behind any praise you receive... It all boils down to this: Where will you place emphasis? If you place emphasis on looks you will likely find like-minded individuals whereas if you focus on goals and talents like-minded ppl will be drawn to you. This is coming from someone who has been considered pretty, hot, whatever by others all the while feeling ugly to herself. Good luck. Sorry for writing a book.
Noah don't pay attention to the negative comments your videos have helped me tremendously... It has helped me become a more confident person and also helped me deal with my depression/anxiety in a better way. Merry Xmas man!
@@Siel-bm7gx His perspective is meaningless when he cannot relate to what he's even talking about at all. He's an attractive man telling ugly people how to get over being ugly. His advice means nothing!
I don't think I'd be considered beautiful by anyone's standards--I'm simply unattractive. I'll probably never be in a relationship but that doesn't even bother me. What really sucks is that I hate myself and I'm nowhere close to self-acceptance because of my looks, something I have no control over.
Lilian Wang you are not unattractive Lilian. You look like a normal girl to me, not a thing wrong with you. Negative self-talk is a killer. I know, I deal with my own negative self-talk every day.
same here....eventhough my bf loves me...but i observed one thing everytime that he really attracts to beautiful girl talk about their beauty it's bother me then i feel dat just bcoz i love him alot he is wid me.....instead of he is wid me bcoz he loves me.....so i finished our realtionship....why m not beautiful?
sometimes i feel like God is being partial cause some of my friends are beautiful, confident and rich but on the other hand i'm ugly, middle class and not so confident
@@ranger4758 There are 80 year old ladies that have been raped. Rape is done motivated by anger, not lust. That has been several studies done about this subject and this is the conclusion.
Lore Strahan Which is true! But that’s not always the motive some men are just creepy and have an attraction to someone. There’s weird ass men that rape kids not because they’re angry but because they’re sick and they find them sexy. It’s nasty as hell but it’s the truth.
I can't stand looking in the mirror. I love my personality but i can't learn to love my look. I gave to wake up to it and I hide my face away. I already plan about surgery's and procedures i want to be pretty. I absolutely hat my acne scars.. i wonder how people can even stand looking at me when i cant even stand to look at myself. I grew up so cute and ended up a mess and i hate that it genetics and hate that i put on this earth to look this way. I envy others and wish to change. I try to be optimistic but it always turns right around.
I relate a lot, I’ve been told my close friends and family I’m pretty and such but it’s only when I mention that I think I’m ugly. I’ll look in the mirror be in disgust of what I see, maybe I’ll take a pic and think it looks fine but then when I look at it again I think I look disgusting and extremely ugly. I also struggle with loving my personality but that’s because I’m so socially awkward because I think everyone is judging me because of my looks.
My jaw is very noticeably asymmetrical and my bottom teeth are crooked. I find it hard to look anyone in the eye because im afraid they might make a face of disgust. It's really depressing sometimes...
your purrfection and you could never be ugly !!! i know this Feeling, but believe me, i been looked in disguist at too, i been called ugly and disguisting so fuckin many times over years. but : People react to confidence and a charming smile. you can Train yourself in this, fake it until you make it. my boyfriend got what he calls extremley jacked fucked up teeth, and i do love them...it makes him look unique, which Matches his unique Beautiful character....and i bet your teeth make you look unique too. youll meet someone that loves this about you sometime, believe me.
At the end you mentioned that it's our thoughts that make us unhappy and not our appearance...but what if your appearance is what is impacting on your thoughts which then are making you feel unhappy? Therefore your appearance is the source of why your unhappy. Maybe it's not the only thing that's making you unhappy but it might be one of the main things. You also said to ask this important question "does beauty make me happy and will ugly make me unhappy" no beauty won't make you completely happy, because not one thing can make you happy, it's a variety of things in your life that add up to make you feel happy, but beauty will definitely add to your happiness. I know from myself that beauty would make me a lot happier. Maybe not 100%happy. But a lot happier.
After watching the video and reading some of the comments I wanted to express my thoughts. Feeling unattractive is hell. It negative affects every aspect of your life. It is hard for me to even looking in the mirror and I have even contemplated suicide around my look. It affect every aspect of my life. It is depressing, it is parlaying I don't want to meet people, go places, and assert myself. I don't want to exercise or buy nice clothes because I feel it just a waste.Sorta like planting flowers in a junk yard. It does really help.I know intellectually that beauty is subjective. but we live a world where looks is important. Yes I want someone to love me for me, but I can't even love me for me because I can't get pass feeling unattractive.
This is all very easy coming from a classically good looking man with thick hair and a symmetrical face! there are features that society deems bad, regardless of taste. Sunken eyes, caveman brow, asymmetrical chin etc (see picture to left lol)
You are listing only certain features that seem bad to you, but looking at your picture, i'd say you are better looking than the average male, i mean it.
Because it's an attractive guy doing this video, it's almost as if the video is intended to mock its viewers rather than give them sincere advice. Surprised it isn't disliked more, to be honest.
I just simply finally caved in and accepted that I'm ugly and will never find love. For the most part, I'm ok with. I'm an introvert anyways so I'm ok with solitude. The only times I get hurt about being ugly is when I'm out with friends and I get treated differently or when people makes rude comments about my appearance out of nowhere because it just reminds me how I'm not worth it compare to pretty or attractive people
I get the point being made, but if the larger percentage says something is "ugly", that tends to be enough to solidify that something is ugly. Basically a " general consensus."
I was in denial about being ugly for a long time, when I finally came to terms with the fact I’m just not a attractive person it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders, I was always trying to dress a certain way or do my hair to be good looking but it was just a waist of time I always ended up just still being ugly, just ugly in a nice shirt...but now that iv accepted it it’s nice to just be able to say whatever, plus when your ugly you get to see people true colors since nobody try’s to impress a ugly person, so In that sense it’s kind of a gift , the curse is when you meet a beautiful girl and just know that nothing will ever happen...just be happy with who you are
I think you need to see your own beauty and own it. People have told me that I was ugly. I like my looks. I don't think I'm Beautiful but, I find myself satisfactory.
Noah after watching your videos...i have pulled myself together after my divorce. i was unable to do anything without thinking of "him" and why, and how sad i was without him... i even cried when i did shopping alone .. but now... i enjoy my life ..because my happiness comes from within me...I make my own happiness... i just got through new years, happy and I enjoyed myself - alone, and went out to beaches and cafes. Because of your videos...and how you taught me to think now - i no longer think myself to misery (i still have to actually talk myself out of it sometimes)........ You are right...our thoughts create emotions = create our misery... Thank you may God bless you.
Basically if you are unattractive and you hate it dont have children you are just making them suffer to im not going to have any because i dont want them to suffer for no reason they dont deserve to be ugly they are forced to atleast im doing my part in society also if you need someone to blame its always your parents fault life is great i know
I was called ugly and when I told my friends they were like "don't worry he was only joking," But the sad thing was not one said "Don't worry your not," I wouldn't have cared even if they lied to me, just at least tell me it's not true. Anyone..
The problem is that there is such a thing as universal beauty where the majority of people of all cultures regard something as beautiful and ugly. Noah, you would be considered beautiful by the majority people all over, caucasians, asians, blacks, south asians, etc. I'm sure there are people who wouldn't, but they are the minority and perhaps a small percentage. We are not all that fortunate. My insecurity about my appearance contributes to my feelings of worthlessness, "not beautiful not valuable, not good enough." which is messed up I know, but rejection by people I am attracted to is part of this problem.
This whole comment section makes me feel kinda sad. I wish so many wouldn't beat themselves up so. Even the most attractive people can be the most ugliest creatures ever.
Real ugliness is the ability to not fit in and do things courageously and stand out when others choose to fit in and blend in and stay back silent for the wrong reasons. So yes I am determined to be different because I am cocky, conceited, weird, smart, confident. Taking selfies of myself because I love myself. I guess that is all going to appear ugly simply when others inflict their insecurities and selfishness jealously and needless drama on you to make you inferior. That why you must believe you are worthy and valuable. This video is very helpful
as an asian man living in Europe...i constantly feel I am repulsive, ugly, undesired and disgusting...people never treat me right and I got so much verbal abuse, and a lot of people ignores me. I hate the fact I am me....sometimes I pinch my skin so hard and wish i am not the way I am... I don't want to be limited to this body in this society...I wish I could be given another chance to be little bit more attractive..I hate myself so much but I am not brave enough to kill myself...I never felt true happiness in my life and I think I never will as long as I live in this world where no one cares about me and everyone treat me wrong just coz I am ugly.
I just want a guy that I find attractive to find me attractive back. haven't found that one yet. Its fine ill just be single forever because im shallow. I've tried being with a good guy I didn't find attractive. Didn't go well at all.
@@youtubeante7916 he's just saying, cause there are sometimes going to be idiots for sure starting to call him gay just because he called another guy attractive
I hate it when pretty girls say that their ugly just for attention.. I get how everyone has insecurities but it seems like they already know they're beautiful by how they're saying it
People who are pretty/attractive will never really know how it's like to be ugly/unattractive.
Supermodels and Celebrities lose their looks as they age. 'Time' renders everyone unattractive. So, when you perceive someone as beautiful, just remember that they won't always be that way. And since their 'looks' are a big part of their identity (most likely) then "aging" will be almost unbearable. Anyways, wouldn't you rather know that people like you for your personality and character rather than your looks?
i like being ugly...
Stefan G That doesn't have anything to do with this topic, eh.
I agree. They mostly say shit like "You are beautiful, You are not ugly :)" etc. They don't know how it feels to be ugly. I hate myself
I completely understand. It doesn't help, and it is just a lie.
I don't think I'm ugly, I KNOW I'm ugly. it's a fact.
+SKYDORMER i feel u
+CrAzYKiDoNLiNe i am more
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+Sofiane Gamez if your profile pic is you. You arent ugly.
+Sofiane Gamez youre just a piece of shit
Polad Hasanov ik :'(
why hurting feelings ?
God I want to throw up every time I look into the mirror and look at pictures of myself. I feel disgusting 24/7 and I can't go out in public very often because I can't stand myself.
Mmaaan it cant be that bad
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take five bro... or sis
I have the same problem.
Me as well.
Pretty people need to stop talking about being unattractive.
Too many pretty people in the comments, they can't really relate.
I genuinely hate my own face and wish I was dead. Even if I were "pretty" it doesn't mean I'm worth anything.
Sarafina Donald you are right the face matters
Well not entirely, but to a fairly significant extent it does in this sort of society @@NoName-mm6gh
Olivia exactly. Having a faulty is the face features' harmony even children notice it
It cracks me up when good looking people give this kind of advice to ugly people. That's like me going up to someone in a wheelchair and saying "eh, just because it's a debilitating condition that will shape every aspect of your life doesn't mean it should get you down". Lol, OK.
Yeah, nearly every time I see someone talk about being "ugly", it's the same as this.
Just walk it off 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol!
When you make being ugly equal to a disability.
@@silverknight1740 I mean it effectively is a disability depending on your point of view?
"I don't see that there isn't really such a thing as unattractive or ugly." Yes, actually there is. And when you're ugly, you figure this out the hard way.
I agree, I definitely think that he is very optimistic which is lovely, but for us ugly people, we know that this is untrue. We have learned this the hard way simply just by being ourselves.
I agree but beauty is subjective, so I believe that one person isn't ugly to everyone is a better way to put it.
Zippy i don't agree with you . i'm the most unattractive human in the world but that doesn't bother me at all becouse i don't care what people think and it's not my gult that they don't like me
+/*_*\ People can treat you different based on your looks whether you agree with me or not... If you're not bothered by this, then power to you. But there's gonna be at least one moment in your life where you don't get the reception you wanted because you don't have a Zac Efron face.
***** 😂😂
Being ugly isn't a thought.. it's a fact. It's very easy to know if you're ugly or unattractive. If you're ugly, then your life will undoubtedly be a lot harder to live. It'll be harder to socialise and people will always "prefer" you less in terms of making friends, finding a partner, etc.
The whole "it's inside that matters the most" is utter bullshit. People don't see your personality first, they see your looks. If you're hideous, no one will give you a chance. You don't need to see a TV advert or a magazine to base your view that you're ugly off of, it's quite easy to see. If you look hideous, you know it and there's absolutely nothing that can be done. Ugly and pretty exist, and they're both a definite and inevitable reality.
The most an ugly person can do is just deal with it, hope someone gives them a chance and live their lives to the best of their ability. There is nothing that can be done about it, and it's better to accept it and move on rather than live in a delusional state of mind where you constantly reject that fact and try to convince yourself that you're not.. only to find out the hard way.
This is coming from an ugly person themselves. It's easier to say all these nice things when you look attractive, but "pretty" people will never know the pain of looking like an utter disgrace.
I agree. I can try and feel confident and "pretty" all I want. all I have to do is go around people. they'll let you know right away if you're ugly. people don't give a shit about your feelings.
Johnnie Shreve I mean no one has ever told me that I am ugly.. but they don't need to. A quick look in the mirror and it's easy to tell. And yeah you're right, people really don't care about your feelings. That's how the world exists, there are ugly people inside and out.
+ToxicBalloon360 no one has come out and said hey you're ugly as hell that's usually done behind my back but all I have to do is read body language ect. .. if people turn away and act like you're not there I think that's a pretty good indication
Johnnie Shreve That's actually very true. People talk behind people's backs and while you may not know about it, it's easy to tell how people feel about you through their body language.
+ToxicBalloon360 Thanks for speaking my mind. There are some requirements which need to be fulfilled to be pretty and you can tell from the reaction of society if you're ugly or not. I hate it when people make the world so "nice" and say things like "everyone is beautiful on their own way" no it's not just open your eyes
Being ugly sucks. Been rejected every single time lol.
ryukdluffy I'm sorry you've been suffering. But, if you're open to it, then it is possible to discover that rejection doesn't create suffering.... thoughts do. Try my other videos to better understand that.
I know the feeling
Because at the end of the day everybody just cares about looks
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Welcome to the club of the physically unfortunate
+Shir Deb Me too.
The older I get, the uglier I get, and it's depressing me more and more.
Beautiful people have looks and girls/boys but guess what less attractive people have...we are obviously stronger souled people and have a greater heart and we all are beautiful no matter what you think I used to think I was but as soon as I excepted myself for what I am and what I look like I felt more attractive and had greater confidence it’s not easy but just look in the mirror and say I’m beautiful amazing great smart fill your mind with positive thoughts and watch what comes out as your training your brain to believe you are
Me too, i was cute as hell now i'm an ugly teenager
Same i was cute as a kid and now 😢😢😢😭
Naw they are people that are old and they still look attractive so you're wrong.....
Awww same 😭
I'm definitely ugly :/ depresses me every day and i compare myself to other people :(
I’m so sorry :( me too 💔
@Kay CH.
We human chasing our own happiness
And what if he want to be attractive making him happy
It is depressing
i dont want to deal with being ugly i want to be beautiful >.
Monkey d. Luffy tough shit
Let me know if you find a way!
Me too. How I wish at least someone would make me feel comfortable with my body, my face. I wish I was desired and loved. I'd like to be told I look good, at least just one time in my life.
Everyone wants that.. Its impossible to get it naturally...😩
Monkey d. Luffy me to
he's attractive he'll never know
Ken Bone r u dumb he's not talking about himself I'm sure he knows he's not ugly.
John Sanders I think his point is the guy can't share tips on a problem he never had to face. That's like a tall guy advising a short man on how to deal with heightism. What could he possibly know? His video holds no credibility, maybe other ones are good but not this one.
@@p.r.9982 So you're saying that f.e. only a guy that has ever been suicidal can talk someone out of feeling suicidal? I understand your point about attractive people not understanding what it must feel like to be ugly, but right now you are kind of judging him solely because of his looks. He could have been bullied for his looks at some point in his life, or felt like he wasn't good enough and wants to share some of his mindset.
LRFLekk He started the video off saying "there's no such thing as ugly or unattractive." He's clearly delusional and that statement alone ruined all his credibility.
Being taught how to cope with being ugly from an attractive guy. That's fair.. 😕
Thank you!😂
💯
Winning the lottery that is genetics is the best lottery you can win!
Isaiah Campbell Agreed, when you're born goodlooking the battle is basically already half won.
@Nothing N not in this day and age lmao someone else can do that id rather be good looking man :(
@@AdoptedPoo I agree
Agree Good looking>Genius in this day and age
no need for lottery... we need Jesus
Calling my self ugly actually makes me happy. when someone calls me handsome, i feel like its a lie. As well Its like a secret insult type deal. There is a clear definition of ugly and its what i look like. When You call yourself pretty or what ever you are lieing to ur self. Its better to be true.
a meme OMG same people who call me handsome lied straight up in my face
a meme haha ...Why do they not lie to me?
good shit lol
same i dont like when my freinds call me pretty then i call them pretty and say im ugly and they are all pretty im the ugliest in my class
oMG I SAY THAT ALL THE TIME THIS IS TOO RELATABLE
"I am ugly is not a fact" but "Most people think I am ugly" is a fact
JUAN SINAAAAAAAAAAA yep
same
JUAN SINAAAAAAAAAAA you mean the opposite
I'm sorry Noah but a lot of people consider you attractive. Therefore you'll never really know how it feels for someone who isn't. In the 21st century we are now more preoccupied with looks more than ever before. Everybody judges a book by its cover. That's the way it is plain & simple.
you are completely right, im ugly and i know it
Me to fuck me and feelings
Why is it that way why can't you look past a man's looks what are you so afraid of ?
+Mike Yen1971 Unfortunately most people don't think that way.
Everyone judges a book by its cover once in life.
I have done it to o_o
+Ethan Hughes Except everything I've argued here is pertinent to the subject matter....
Thank you beautiful man for telling me how to deal with my ugliness
"I like people for there personality" said every ugly person
@Kaito T.K.C lol😂😂
X’D
Ugly gang 2018 wya
It's a movement!
Ay
YungChip030 ayeee
Lol I’m here✌️😢
Here🐷
how would this guy know?
This guy is attractive. I live with being ugly everyday lol of course I know better
shank stalwart ive given up on that in 4th grade and now soon i will be in college like 1year now
Maybe he was called ugly before by haters
Janik Bollh von horst But He’s really attractive now.. He could be a model if he wanted. He will never truly understand what it’s like to be and feel ugly
Lol 💀
people always say "get over it".. "you have to go out and make friends" "be more confident about yourself"
like it's not that easy for us who get rejected every second of the day and people make jokes about your face and everyone is laughing at...
life is not fair u.u
Ugly people, we all can be friends and maybe we all can be happy, and talking about myself maybe that's the only way i can be happy for once in my life.
Oh my gosh you made my day. I'm 12 and I feel so ugly inside and out and I legit am crying right now. I have tried soooo hard to fit in but everywhere I look are all these beautiful skinny girls. When people call me pretty I turn around thinking they are talking to someone behind me. The worse part about it is that I'm 12, and even my friends think I'm ugly. They call me average. I don't want to be average. I'm just an ugly girl. I'm rejected and always feel left out. No video will ever help me. Nothing can ever help me. I hate this feeling. It eats me inside. I don't know what to do. Sometime I feel like the best solution is ending it.
Eduardo Sanchez Sooo true! 😭
diana moreira I feel the same
Lydia Owens being called ugly is better than average
Eduardo Sanchez ugly people dont want to be friends with other ugly people for some reason like we're 30% of the planet and most of us have no friends we should start being friends with each other
Wow just what I needed, hot guy teaching me how to deal with ugliness
#un relatable
MEN Kae am I the only one who does not find him attractive
MEN Kae true but i think this is honestly one of the best accurate "pick me up" appearance videos I've ever seen tho
MEN Kae yes it really opposites each other
MEN Kae really???
Laura Dolman I feel the same he's not my type at all tbh
you know its an how to deal with being ugly video when no one on the comment section have a real profile picture
bem bem LoL!
Being young and unattractive is really hard to deal with. Nobody wants to be your friend and nobody cares about what you have to say. I just want to live a normal teenager life and have fun with my friends but I can't all because I'm ugly.
Did things get better
Same
@@Los_HermanitosCruz LOL "I love being happy" ._.XD
Same
Same here. I can relate
Noah, I'm sorry, but when you get bullied everyday by the popular kids just to make theirself look cool, or gain more popularity, bullied physically for the sake reason, made fun of by lots of attractive females every day, looked on as someone that isn't human, and rejected by females the second they look at you, then come back and make a video like this.
WinnerorNot8 well, they get to enjoy their youth, we get to enjoy our never socially. A women that is dating a man for his wealth will not give him the same romantic love she would give an attractive man. Even if an ugly person gets very rich, socially their lives just are never going to be the same.
This is usually why kids end up shooting up schools TBH. It’s not just random.
Don’t listen to the bullies, I’m getting cyber bullied by people I don’t know in real life and yea, it hurts my feelings a lot. But, stay confident. Popular kids who bully will one day realise their mistakes and regret it all.
@@okok-uk1le your not even ugly tf💀, my Freind go to the gym and be confident, ur face in handsome and u hv beautiful features. U have a chance don’t let urself go
@@martinmiles6415 ty 😜
Its not a different taste thingy for me actually.
i am universally ugly *.*
Same
Me too bro.
No. The thing is we place standards on us that if we applied to someone else would be seen as ridiculous.
Meg K Or that we're just unattractive.
me too I'm cursed D;
i hate being ugly.xD the amount of things i go thru everyday
1.looking in the mirror and noticing you look worse than you thought
2.never getting asked out
3.people tell you you're pretty
4.first thing ppl roast u about is ur face
5. getting shocked by your reflection
6.when somene on your fanpage ask what you look like xD
Bata Scotch for real
Omfg ikr its depressing
😔😔😔
I'm so ugly and lonely
This is the most relatable comment on this video.
It's easy for a good looking person to tell the ugly that they're not ugly and that they should be happy....smh this scenario is also seen with wealth and health
E V absolutely agree
I wonder how it's to be pretty??..
Cool Unicorn
Im not a female, but I know that its a blessing and a curse.
God bless u
Cool Unicorn I want to be pretty for just a day. I’m not even asking for out of this world beauty, I just want to be average.
@@8282-r8c I know same I don't want to be incredible beautiful I wanna have a normal body and face, imagine what it feels like can talk to people, and they will treat like human, can talk with a girl and at least have a shot
Im average and here in middle-east there is no concept of treating someone based on their looks upto a great extent I'm very surprised by reading the comments and the things you guys have to face.
I don't understand why I have to look the way I do
Kaito T.K.C They say you should be grateful with what you have. I’m grateful for what god gave me but I just can’t accept this face.
bree sucks if thats your picture
Then what are talking about?
@@edwardwilson9555 ikr, what is she talking about? I look like a piece of shit compared to her
@징짱DJ - if that's your face you are far from ugly, come on.
Mouth breathing
Of course, looks do matter. After all, when was the last time you hear someone saying "Oh, boy, can't wait to marry an ugly person!!"
alisher1984 true that brother
alisher1984 personally I’ve seen couples where one of them is way more attractive than the other but yeah it’s pretty rare
Tbh appearance plays into nearly everything on this planet. You simply can't deny it because you'd be lying if you did. Us humans, we judge pretty much everything by its appearance at first sight. Even the world we live in. Is that flower nice? no...ill get that one. Is this dog cute? no this one's cuter.
No one wants food that looks ugly at first, they go for the more attractive looking dish. Even if the less attractive one tastes better. Only the people who don't have a choice other than to eat the less attractive dish will get to know what that dish tastes like, all the more lucky people won't get to see that the ugly dish is ultimately better. I hope y'all are getting my point here. If a girl/guy is ugly, only the other ugly people who don't really have a choice other than to give them a chance because they're not getting anywhere being rejected by attractive people, will see that this ugly girl/guy is actually an amazing person. That's pretty much why you never see a goodlooking person with an ugly person. Unless therse two people have know each other forever but even in that case it's still rare af. I don't even know what to say about a an attractive person like you telling ugly people how to deal with being ugly. Have you had experience? because it doesn't look like it. Everyone feels insecure but there's a difference between waking up some days and feeling disgusting and waking up everyday and knowing you look disgusting to everyone Including yourself. Sorry for the rant you probably won't read this but I needed to vent.
Arwa Righi .Well explained !!!
Agreed! Well said
i dont think you saw the video properly because as Noah potentially stated everyone has different tastes not everyone is gonna think you're good looking regardless anything obviosly everyone gets judged first sight but some people their opinion will be different towards you the others
Darkside Sider That “everyone has different tastes” line is bullshit
Darkside Sider ur Right , even good looking people get rejected. The difference is most Times it’s based on the girls preference and not because he’s ugly. She may not like his hair, but she’ll still acknowledge he’s good looking just not her type. So he still retains confidence. Everytime I’ve been rejected, I asked the girl to be honest and she said I was ugly. Even more, the rejections happen at a much higher rate than a good looking guy. I’ve had 1 success with over 75 attempts throughout my life. Which may not seem a lot of attempts but you get burned out when you get rejected too much.
"Im gonna make a video about being ugly when im not ugly at all"
Rosa Jonezy7 I mean, he's not ugly but I don't see him as that attractive. And not just because I am male. I am bi but would not date this guy. Not my type. I disagree that all humans find the same things attractive.
@@etinarcadiaego7424 I actually find him pretty hot hahaha
His ears are too small his face is too big he's like Butthead without the braces
Teddy Flowers I bet he’s way more attractive than you
@@part6jotaro302 in your dreams 🤭
it bothers me how people say “it’s what matters on the inside” but the entire world revolves around looks, whether you acknowledge it or not.
Yeah like some African dude said, men dont walk around with x Ray's looking for inner beauty
@@얼음띄운시원한음료수 we’re wired to dislike “unattractive” people?
ok but beautiful people will never be bullied because theyre ugly or have monster face, beautiful ppl have a lot of problems, is not like they are 100 always
happy but What a ugly person have to stand on their lives will be always harder, more difficult, beauty standars will be ALWAYS there you "believe" in them or not, and the world is going to judge you by them even if theyre "real" or not. ugly people will always carry more pain that beautiful ones, no matter how much ppl want to deny it.
is suicide the best answer if your ugly?
I'm Ria a basic camren shipper i feel just th same....n im crying now too....life is really harder being ugly
Is plastic surgery the answer?
IceyPlayz sorta tbh. especially down the road when it becomes more and more advanced and convinient. one day it could be the price of a haircut.
Guys come on, there are no such thing as being ugly and if it do exist please tell me what it looks like. Cause I really don't know, I haven't experienced it very much in my life just some few comments here and there but nothing serious. So tell me what is ugliness?
Ugly squad where ya at
🙌🙌🙌🙌
Right here
Mrs.chimi changa we can't relate to you. You pretty
Here sadly
girlie i’m right here
If you're ugly, you are ugly. Stop talking about the inner beauty because we don't walk around with X-Rays.
Very well said.
I'm not ugly, I don't know how I ended up watching this video. I'm depressed, miserable etc..But not ugly at all! or so I thought!
hell yeah!
Moh Djedir ha ha he did not mean it. he meant that the feelings that you get when people isolate you are your feelings it is not the world's mistake if you internalize it. Sure if you let go and stop getting hurt it will never bother you trust me I recently gave up being bothered by streotypes and people who call me ugly or dark skinned or bald.
What you need to focus on is your feelings and how to make it happy.
don't internalize it moreover people who don't speak to you or who call you names don't deserve you. It might be thousands but yet you don't need them at all. All you need is one or two friends.
Moh Djedir true
Honestly, I don't care what people think anymore. I'm not very attractive, but a lot of people aren't. Some people are born the way they are, if you got the short end of the stick, don't feel down on yourself. Just accept who you are and start realizing that your appearance isn't everything. I would rather have integrity, wisdom and a good heart instead of looks. Looks fade, but your character is forever.
zack jones you're comment is one of the few true comments, somewhere out there it's very hard finds you attractive
Nah. Your character isn’t forever. So many people with great character are rotting in the ground and no one gives a shit. Only a small portion of the people with good character mlk, Buddha, etc are remembered
Ugly is forever, thank God life isn’t.
zack jones says every guy
What can we uglies say really?
Pretty people will never understand
Your pretty though💖
Tru MarleyFan that's what she's saying, she's pretty so she'll never understand
No they won’t
Bitch u not ugly, I'd hit raw and bust in u on purpose gtfo
Eazy Mac you wild bro 😂
Cold truth shower. People are attracted to a face which has nice symmetries, not necessarily a perfect one but a face without features that stand out too much such a big, curvy nose or big pointy ears.
It is true that self confidence, intelligence and other attributes can make you appear prettier in the eyes of the person you are trying to impress, but takes way more effort and it's the hardest thing to do if you are unattractive, since it's most likely accompanied with low self esteem. I strongly believe that if there is anything you can do to improve your looks (train at the gym, be mindful of your hygiene and fix your hair before you go out) you have to do it first and if you still don't get results you can complain.
But in the end a pretty face gives you the power to choose from a plethora of dating partners without worrying you won't find another whilst being ugly ,it's a road with rejection written all over it. @Noah Elkrief
I agree. I honestly think having a high degree of asymmetry is the worst. My whole face is crooked, my nose, my cheeks, my eyebrows, it's truly a curse. the left side of my face looks drastically different from my right. It is what it is, people tell me I'm pretty but I'm sure they are just bluffing. I ignore it and accept the fact that I'm ugly.
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Just because you can't touch it doesn't make it not real. Sorry Noah. I was hoping for some breakthrough but you can't deny everyone judges everyone on their appearance and it has a massive effect on your self image and confidence. Those who are beautiful have far less anxieties and get accepted by people a lot more. Its the sad truth, and if 999 people think you're ugly and 1 thinks you aren't, you're probably ugly. You will never have to deal with this as you weren't born into an ugly body but that's reality.
IHATEHIPSTERSS It seems that the message I was making in the video did come through for you. If everyone judges you to be ugly, they will treat you differently. If you believe that this means something about who you are, then it will emotionally impact you. If you don't believe it means something about who you are, then it won't emotionally impact you. It is not true at all that people who society believe are beautiful have less anxiety. At all. Do they get accepted by more people? Absolutely. But all of that is completely irrelevant. As long as you think you want to be beautiful, you will spend your life suffering. You need to discover that you want to be happy more than you want to change your appearance. Until that discovery happens, you are in a prison. Once you discover that, then you can ask the question "Does beauty create happiness?" Try watching the video again. Maybe, you will be able to see it differently.
Noah Elkrief I know that if I was beautiful I would be happy. I don't think I can be happy if I'm ugly and hate myself because of the way I look and people thinking I'm a weirdo. I don't see how to ignore all that and just be happy
IHATEHIPSTERSS If you want to be happy, then you need to discover that appearance can't make you happy. I have many videos that explain what happiness is and what can't get it for you. I suggest you watch those because right now you are not seeing things clearly. I am not saying to ignore anything, I am saying to look around and discover what's really true.
Noah Elkrief ok I'll try thanks
IHATEHIPSTERSS You sound like me 7 months ago xD
I must be ugly if nobody shows intetest in me...
EXACTLY
Tillie Nagel.......You are not ugly ......
okay but it feels good that I can relate with everyone in these comments and see that I’m not the only one that feels exactly this way
You're not alone don't worry🙌😂😂
Beauty is not in the eye of the beholder at a certain point. Once you are above that baseline you are universally attractive, if you are below it you are universally unnattractive. Why do you think all male models have the same typical Facial features, strong jaws, good facial bone structure, hollow cheeks, masculine, pretty boy, or rugged looks. There are certain features that are just genetically attractive to human beings
I think the so called standard of beauty changes throughout history and cultures.
Going into high school hit me hard
my parents homeschooled me so i wouldnt get bullied so idk witch is worse the thought of that or actually getting builled
Same man I went in thinking I was kind of hot and realized how ugly I am by the third quarter of my first year. I’m just holding on to see what my face looks like when I get braces off.
Freshman year was the worst year of my life, I turned antisocial and introverted and now my life's a shithole
Jackal Ripper same for me....I really hate highschool.. Constantly stressed out...And i get allot of dirty looks
For reallll 🤧
I just don't have it in me to cope with it. It doesn't make sense that one could be okay with it. I hate me. It's extremely insulting when stupid people post shit on the Internet about how ugly they are despite being average looking or above.
but that's how they feel.some one could be thinking thesame way about you
people look at themselves differently than others see them, whether it is conceit and thinking you are the most beautiful person, or thinking you are the ugliest, some people will find you attractive while others won't, that's life :) it's okay
You just described my life
T.T, highschool sucks because there so many cute girls and I know I will never be close to them.
Fuck genetics.
***** Honestly, teasing me like that hurts ;p
***** Haha, your sister probably deserves more, and you shouldn't try to control her life and make her life miserable by setting her up with an ugly guy like me.
Jyu Viole Grace hello are you still there
***** Oh, I went out to get pizza, and that's a very masculine name for a girl.
Also, I would feel like you be doing this out of pity (though I am pretty desperate) haha.
Jyu Viole Grace let me see your picture
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Lol, should be top comment
Single moms are mostly whores by choice. Sorry. I don't have such low standards. Will pass on those bags of STDs
Wow ......... I guess being abandoned by their husbands makes them whores and bags of STDs. Never mind if they were rape victims. Okay then.
filmpractica CR love that comment
Sure, you can distract yourself at times and forget how you look, but how do you expect those like myself who repulse people by the very sight of their face to not still feel lonely. Eventually they will realize that the way they look is the cause for their loneliness, and they will (rightfully) act to change it.
There are people who are so ugly though that normal means cannot change it however. I am one of those unfortunate few, and cannot afford the tens of thousands of dollars to change it at least for several years. We're social creatures, and when your too ugly for socialize, there's not much hope for permanent happiness. Temporary distractions perhaps, but I know I'll still end up longing for the peace of death.
@@MH-ys2gd That's comedian Andy Kaufman in the profile pic.
@@mvj1153 4 yrs ago when i made the comment it wasnt xD
@@MH-ys2gd Oh ok. 👍
Reality or not, I think that I am ugly, therefore I still have to deal with feeling ugly
I am 16 and i am spending christmas alone and in bed . This is very depressing .
BLUEBEVERLY I'm sorry bluebeverly. But I would encourage you to look at whether your depressing feelings are created by being alone or by your thoughts about it. I am also spending christmas alone in a place where I don't know anyone. But I don't feel depressed because I don't have thoughts that say "It would be better if other people were here..."
Noah Elkrief So wait you don't have a girl? or any friends?
Dario S. He could have internet friends, that's why I was asking :p
Dario S. I agree :p
Be thankful to God you have a bed
Think about the homeless..
I'm a guy who is not ashamed of being ugly. It's something that I have to live with for the rest of my life. People can make fun of how I look, but it just goes to show you how ignorant others are. I don't pay attention at all. I'm proud of myself for how I look.
Jason Sprouse very well said, fuck them!
Except if you are living with a brother that looks like Thor.
You see him getting compliments all the time and you're sitting all the way right next to him and you people giving you shit :(
+Uso Indevido I just wanted to say to you that yes it sucks to live in a world where opinions on appearances are largely created by what culture and media and simultaneously overly emphasized in the grand scheme of things versus things that are far more important like who you are as a person. It sucks...BUT there's a positive side to this. One day you will meet someone who loves you for who you are and believe it or not finds you attractive no matter how "ugly" you think you are. Instead of meeting and partnering up with loads of ppl who chose you solely for your appearance matching society's standard for good looks, you have much higher likelihood of meeting perhaps less ppl, but higher quality ppl at the same time. Ppl who admire you genuinely for who you are as a whole. Isn't that better than having ppl choose you solely on your appearance? I would venture to guess that thinking this way would make you feel socially awkward and uncomfortable or to associate having less friends with appearance, but perhaps it is the preoccupation with appearance consuming you that makes it harder to make friends. I hope you can take away something from this video or what I've said. Being "good-looking" has its disadvantages too. He mentioned some: not knowing if you were chosen for your skill at work for promotion or simply for looks, not knowing if your partner is in it just to "get some" or if they like all of YOU to name a few. That can be wearing on a person as well, not knowing who you can trust or depend on, not being able to feel secure in your talents or achievements actually being behind any praise you receive... It all boils down to this: Where will you place emphasis? If you place emphasis on looks you will likely find like-minded individuals whereas if you focus on goals and talents like-minded ppl will be drawn to you. This is coming from someone who has been considered pretty, hot, whatever by others all the while feeling ugly to herself. Good luck. Sorry for writing a book.
+Uso Indevido life is sooo unfair
Damn... i wish i was like you but i'm not strong and confident enough
he fine as hell so ofcourse it easy for him
You're beautiful, must've been easy for you too
Xx Sniper I’m ugly asff but awww thank you
@@donavanholley51 I found you kinda sexy. I don't know how old are you but I know that there are many guys who would like to be your boyfriend
People can be so mean. I've been told quite a few times at my work by customers that I'm disgusting. Man it hurts. Thanks for this post
Noah don't pay attention to the negative comments your videos have helped me tremendously... It has helped me become a more confident person and also helped me deal with my depression/anxiety in a better way. Merry Xmas man!
TS13 Glad my videos have been helping you!
But you're attractive Noahh
He has a great perspective and message .
Ruhma Khan.....Girl you're attractive too.....
@@Siel-bm7gx His perspective is meaningless when he cannot relate to what he's even talking about at all. He's an attractive man telling ugly people how to get over being ugly. His advice means nothing!
I don't think I'd be considered beautiful by anyone's standards--I'm simply unattractive. I'll probably never be in a relationship but that doesn't even bother me. What really sucks is that I hate myself and I'm nowhere close to self-acceptance because of my looks, something I have no control over.
I told myself the same thing but, the reality is we are all beatiful aspects of ourselves. and people do find you attractive .
Lilian Wang you are not unattractive Lilian. You look like a normal girl to me, not a thing wrong with you. Negative self-talk is a killer. I know, I deal with my own negative self-talk every day.
If that pfp is of you then ur lying lol
same here....eventhough my bf loves me...but i observed one thing everytime that he really attracts to beautiful girl talk about their beauty it's bother me then i feel dat just bcoz i love him alot he is wid me.....instead of he is wid me bcoz he loves me.....so i finished our realtionship....why m not beautiful?
U r lying 😊😊
sometimes i feel like God is being partial cause some of my friends are beautiful, confident and rich but on the other hand i'm ugly, middle class and not so confident
@LoveOlderWomen how you doing??
There are so many advices on how to deal with being ugly but nobody really understand us dealing with it!
but u are attractive and handsome
At least I'm safe from any rapists or pedos :D
No, people who rape do it because they are angry, not attracted to their victims.
Starkia FACT! Lol
Lore Strahan That’s the case sometimes but there are rapists who rape someone because they find them attractive in some way, shape, or form.
@@ranger4758 There are 80 year old ladies that have been raped. Rape is done motivated by anger, not lust. That has been several studies done about this subject and this is the conclusion.
Lore Strahan Which is true! But that’s not always the motive some men are just creepy and have an attraction to someone. There’s weird ass men that rape kids not because they’re angry but because they’re sick and they find them sexy. It’s nasty as hell but it’s the truth.
I can't stand looking in the mirror. I love my personality but i can't learn to love my look. I gave to wake up to it and I hide my face away. I already plan about surgery's and procedures i want to be pretty. I absolutely hat my acne scars.. i wonder how people can even stand looking at me when i cant even stand to look at myself. I grew up so cute and ended up a mess and i hate that it genetics and hate that i put on this earth to look this way. I envy others and wish to change. I try to be optimistic but it always turns right around.
m nivedha lie
I relate a lot, I’ve been told my close friends and family I’m pretty and such but it’s only when I mention that I think I’m ugly. I’ll look in the mirror be in disgust of what I see, maybe I’ll take a pic and think it looks fine but then when I look at it again I think I look disgusting and extremely ugly. I also struggle with loving my personality but that’s because I’m so socially awkward because I think everyone is judging me because of my looks.
I’m skinny, ugly, and my voice is so cringy
My jaw is very noticeably asymmetrical and my bottom teeth are crooked. I find it hard to look anyone in the eye because im afraid they might make a face of disgust. It's really depressing sometimes...
your purrfection and you could never be ugly !!! i know this Feeling, but believe me, i been looked in disguist at too, i been called ugly and disguisting so fuckin many times over years. but : People react to confidence and a charming smile. you can Train yourself in this, fake it until you make it. my boyfriend got what he calls extremley jacked fucked up teeth, and i do love them...it makes him look unique, which Matches his unique Beautiful character....and i bet your teeth make you look unique too. youll meet someone that loves this about you sometime, believe me.
At the end you mentioned that it's our thoughts that make us unhappy and not our appearance...but what if your appearance is what is impacting on your thoughts which then are making you feel unhappy? Therefore your appearance is the source of why your unhappy. Maybe it's not the only thing that's making you unhappy but it might be one of the main things. You also said to ask this important question "does beauty make me happy and will ugly make me unhappy" no beauty won't make you completely happy, because not one thing can make you happy, it's a variety of things in your life that add up to make you feel happy, but beauty will definitely add to your happiness. I know from myself that beauty would make me a lot happier. Maybe not 100%happy. But a lot happier.
After watching the video and reading some of the comments I wanted to express my thoughts. Feeling unattractive is hell. It negative affects every aspect of your life. It is hard for me to even looking in the mirror and I have even contemplated suicide around my look. It affect every aspect of my life. It is depressing, it is parlaying I don't want to meet people, go places, and assert myself. I don't want to exercise or buy nice clothes because I feel it just a waste.Sorta like planting flowers in a junk yard. It does really help.I know intellectually that beauty is subjective. but we live a world where looks is important. Yes I want someone to love me for me, but I can't even love me for me because I can't get pass feeling unattractive.
Andrew Dinkins grow facial hair and work out. in a year you'll look good. thank me later.
Andrew Dinkins I feel you brother
Well...if that's your photo, then you're attractive af.
@@ozgurytasc8513 thanks
Andrew Dinkins you are attractive
This is all very easy coming from a classically good looking man with thick hair and a symmetrical face! there are features that society deems bad, regardless of taste. Sunken eyes, caveman brow, asymmetrical chin etc (see picture to left lol)
You are listing only certain features that seem bad to you, but looking at your picture, i'd say you are better looking than the average male, i mean it.
well said.
ummm...your cute, sooooo...
Seriously fuck you
Peter Nixon You are driving cute
Because it's an attractive guy doing this video, it's almost as if the video is intended to mock its viewers rather than give them sincere advice. Surprised it isn't disliked more, to be honest.
"money doesn't buy happiness."
- rich people
"the concept of attractiveness is not real."
- attractive people
I just simply finally caved in and accepted that I'm ugly and will never find love. For the most part, I'm ok with. I'm an introvert anyways so I'm ok with solitude. The only times I get hurt about being ugly is when I'm out with friends and I get treated differently or when people makes rude comments about my appearance out of nowhere because it just reminds me how I'm not worth it compare to pretty or attractive people
I get the point being made, but if the larger percentage says something is "ugly", that tends to be enough to solidify that something is ugly. Basically a " general consensus."
Sorry but a hot guy giving advice on being ugly should be illegal! Lol
How would this guy know, he's beautiful
Being born beautiful is like winning a lottery you’ve never even participated in
I was in denial about being ugly for a long time, when I finally came to terms with the fact I’m just not a attractive person it was like a weight lifted off my shoulders, I was always trying to dress a certain way or do my hair to be good looking but it was just a waist of time I always ended up just still being ugly, just ugly in a nice shirt...but now that iv accepted it it’s nice to just be able to say whatever, plus when your ugly you get to see people true colors since nobody try’s to impress a ugly person, so In that sense it’s kind of a gift , the curse is when you meet a beautiful girl and just know that nothing will ever happen...just be happy with who you are
I think you need to see your own beauty and own it. People have told me that I was ugly. I like my looks. I don't think I'm Beautiful but, I find myself satisfactory.
Noah after watching your videos...i have pulled myself together after my divorce. i was unable to do anything without thinking of "him" and why, and how sad i was without him... i even cried when i did shopping alone ..
but now...
i enjoy my life ..because my happiness comes from within me...I make my own happiness... i just got through new years, happy and I enjoyed myself - alone, and went out to beaches and cafes.
Because of your videos...and how you taught me to think now - i no longer think myself to misery (i still have to actually talk myself out of it sometimes)........
You are right...our thoughts create emotions = create our misery...
Thank you may God bless you.
Comments 1234 You're very welcome, thanks for sharing
being the one getting rejected, being laughed by the friends of a girl you are courting, being criticized is so damn! PAINFUL! T_T
I really don't mind being ugly... it means that nobody will ever like me enough to obsess over me, stalk me and/or kill me.
This dude is actually right he makes a really good point
Cody Sparks he doesn't tho
a no ugly person teaching me how to deal with uglyness... nice
Basically if you are unattractive and you hate it dont have children you are just making them suffer to im not going to have any because i dont want them to suffer for no reason they dont deserve to be ugly they are forced to atleast im doing my part in society also if you need someone to blame its always your parents fault life is great i know
I was called ugly and when I told my friends they were like "don't worry he was only joking,"
But the sad thing was not one said "Don't worry your not,"
I wouldn't have cared even if they lied to me, just at least tell me it's not true.
Anyone..
it's not true.
rosyishh x you know it
I’m so ugly it’s insane. I’ve never talked to a girl for more than five minutes without her trying to end the conversation and saying that I’m ugly
Lazy elepant1212 Lol how old are you ?
I never even talked to a girl more than 5 seconds, cos I never tried and will never try.
You’ll never know what being ugly feels like because ur not
The problem is that there is such a thing as universal beauty where the majority of people of all cultures regard something as beautiful and ugly. Noah, you would be considered beautiful by the majority people all over, caucasians, asians, blacks, south asians, etc. I'm sure there are people who wouldn't, but they are the minority and perhaps a small percentage. We are not all that fortunate. My insecurity about my appearance contributes to my feelings of worthlessness, "not beautiful not valuable, not good enough." which is messed up I know, but rejection by people I am attracted to is part of this problem.
I know how you feel brother. It's not our fault we were born how we look, it's just the way it is unfortunately ...
+UnidentifiedAsian -☆ CSGO & MORE☆
Yeah I know how that feels
Ass Ho tnh id dont care anymore the day will come when we all find someone just be positive and it will happen. :)
You know your life is fucked up when its 2 a.m at night and you are watching this in bed instead of sleeping
This whole comment section makes me feel kinda sad. I wish so many wouldn't beat themselves up so. Even the most attractive people can be the most ugliest creatures ever.
I like how everyone that makes videos about being ugly are not even close to being a monster like me
can a blind man tech another blind man to see?
Real ugliness is the ability to not fit in and do things courageously and stand out when others choose to fit in and blend in and stay back silent for the wrong reasons. So yes I am determined to be different because I am cocky, conceited, weird, smart, confident. Taking selfies of myself because I love myself. I guess that is all going to appear ugly simply when others inflict their insecurities and selfishness jealously and needless drama on you to make you inferior. That why you must believe you are worthy and valuable. This video is very helpful
as an asian man living in Europe...i constantly feel I am repulsive, ugly, undesired and disgusting...people never treat me right and I got so much verbal abuse, and a lot of people ignores me. I hate the fact I am me....sometimes I pinch my skin so hard and wish i am not the way I am... I don't want to be limited to this body in this society...I wish I could be given another chance to be little bit more attractive..I hate myself so much but I am not brave enough to kill myself...I never felt true happiness in my life and I think I never will as long as I live in this world where no one cares about me and everyone treat me wrong just coz I am ugly.
well this didn't help, I still hate myself :)
same
I can even tell my parents think I'm ugly they dont even want to look at me
@@NoelT04 😁😁😁
I just want a guy that I find attractive to find me attractive back. haven't found that one yet. Its fine ill just be single forever because im shallow. I've tried being with a good guy I didn't find attractive. Didn't go well at all.
From one person who thinks they’re ugly to everyone here, you’re beautiful on the inside. Besides, we can be ugly together :)
Im not gay in any way, but he is extremely attractive.
Calling someone attractive doesn't make you gay lol.
+Lipstick Phantom true
xArxtic meh, he does nothing for me personally. His voice annoys me and his eyebrows are far too thick. No one is universally attractive.
Nobody would know that you're a guy if you did not profess to the internet that you're "not gay in any way".
@@youtubeante7916 he's just saying, cause there are sometimes going to be idiots for sure starting to call him gay just because he called another guy attractive
This guy is handsome. He doesn't know what it's like to be ugly!
A hot Guy that has never experienced being judged or mocked telling me how to deal with being Ugly, great.
like this guy really knows ..he's hot
I hate it when pretty girls say that their ugly just for attention.. I get how everyone has insecurities but it seems like they already know they're beautiful by how they're saying it