Love watching your guys' videos and seeing some traditional Punjabi ideologies and perspectives come out from your guys. But tbh some of Dee's ideologies are outdated. Also, NO, most brown guys dont want to live with their parents so they can be taken care of. That's Dee's own view. I think most want to live with parents because they want to take care of them or because thats just the tradition that they want to follow. As a brown boy, I find the topic of "living with in-laws" difficult too. I think it depends on the family dynamic and how dependent the parents are on the son. If they are dependent, then the son should live with them. If this is the case, he should find a girl whose values align with those of his parents and his own. This makes it way easier for the girl to adjust into the family. If he is planning to live with his parents who are traditional (which is mostly the case) and he brings home a girl who wants to wear revealing clothes, eat out everyday, doesn't want to deal with the parents more than she has to then obviously there will be a problem. So he should find a girl who is more traditional and understanding. He can't change his parents or their values but he can decide which girl to bring home. If the values of in-laws and daughter in law don't align, then its hard to have a healthy environment at home. But in a case where a guy brings a modern girl into a traditional family, then he needs to have a very clear chat with his parents and his wife. Both sides will have to compromise. He will have to make it clear to each other which values the other side is not able to compromise. This way they know what to expect. In the beginning, both sides should compromise HARDER. So they can give a good first impression at least - this helps the transition of living with each other. If neither side wants to compromise, then he needs to move out. This may suck for the parents but I think it would otherwise suck more for the girl to live in a toxic environment. Every person has the right to live their life how they want. Parents don't have the right to control their son's life for lifetime. Accommodate as much as you can for them, but its unreasonable to sacrifice your and your wife's peace for it.
I’m 6 ft 2 he’s 5 ft 8 loool how tall are you guys if you don’t mind me asking? I like what u said if u guys are happy u shouldn’t care.. honestly if in law likes u great if not then that shouldn’t ruin the relationship.
Love Serena, carries herself so well. Wish DeeBee would stop dismissing and talking over Serena!!!
Love watching your guys' videos and seeing some traditional Punjabi ideologies and perspectives come out from your guys. But tbh some of Dee's ideologies are outdated. Also, NO, most brown guys dont want to live with their parents so they can be taken care of. That's Dee's own view. I think most want to live with parents because they want to take care of them or because thats just the tradition that they want to follow.
As a brown boy, I find the topic of "living with in-laws" difficult too. I think it depends on the family dynamic and how dependent the parents are on the son. If they are dependent, then the son should live with them. If this is the case, he should find a girl whose values align with those of his parents and his own. This makes it way easier for the girl to adjust into the family. If he is planning to live with his parents who are traditional (which is mostly the case) and he brings home a girl who wants to wear revealing clothes, eat out everyday, doesn't want to deal with the parents more than she has to then obviously there will be a problem. So he should find a girl who is more traditional and understanding. He can't change his parents or their values but he can decide which girl to bring home. If the values of in-laws and daughter in law don't align, then its hard to have a healthy environment at home.
But in a case where a guy brings a modern girl into a traditional family, then he needs to have a very clear chat with his parents and his wife. Both sides will have to compromise. He will have to make it clear to each other which values the other side is not able to compromise. This way they know what to expect. In the beginning, both sides should compromise HARDER. So they can give a good first impression at least - this helps the transition of living with each other.
If neither side wants to compromise, then he needs to move out. This may suck for the parents but I think it would otherwise suck more for the girl to live in a toxic environment. Every person has the right to live their life how they want. Parents don't have the right to control their son's life for lifetime. Accommodate as much as you can for them, but its unreasonable to sacrifice your and your wife's peace for it.
Haha I loved this!! It’s so fun hearing various perspectives!! Go you guys x x x
‘Not a long term ting’ Lmfao.
Some great home truths guys!! And great advice… and funny too!! is Dee getting rinsed yet 😂😂😂 #mandem 😂😂😂
Been looking forward too this💗
I’m 6 ft 2 he’s 5 ft 8 loool how tall are you guys if you don’t mind me asking? I like what u said if u guys are happy u shouldn’t care.. honestly if in law likes u great if not then that shouldn’t ruin the relationship.
Haha I love this!!!
Tuna sandwich 😂
This was great 👍🏼 good laugh