Don't look for perfect, just seek the best woman with the least drama, and who actually adds positivity and value in your life. Such a lady will get all the guy has to offer.
I did most things opposite of what you all discussed but got Lucky and it all worked out and I got the perfect spouse for me. I am still head over hills In love after 6 years.
I agree with Chrissy about sending money. There are certain circumstances where it makes sense. I sent my fiancee money for a couple of months before I was able to come visit in person. She was between jobs and was actually going to a Korean language school to be an OFW in Korea. I asked her to put that on hold (applying to go overseas) until we had met. So, it was only fair that I helped with support until I could make the trip. That was about a year ago...we are still together and I'll be making the permanent move in early September. Maybe in time to crash y'alls wedding. Lol.
I can see how you, Rob, can be great at helping an Expat get settled and in dealing with Expat business and personal issues. Whereas Chrissy will be great at offering Filipina advice for dating, finding and keeping your Filipina. But it will mean you must trust her enough to interface with her/your clients, Rob!
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I agree. No income is worth the risk of losing her. I'm glad to see that you both are a little insecure and jealous - very healthy for your relationship!
Chrissy has very good common sense. I’ve watched your videos for a while. You guys are living your best life. How great is that. I’m also living my best life. I also appreciate living in the Philippines it changed my life. I’ve lived here almost eighteen years and been with my wife for ten years married for one year. I thank god I found the Philippines.
Your advice is well founded. It gives one logical direction to make a wise choice at a critical time in our lives. Thank you for another half hour chat “on the porch”. As always, it was well worth it. -Bob
Great content as always guys. I've been in the Pines now for 2.5 months and sure made my share of mistakes with the first Pina I dated. I was blindsided by a scam after getting emotionally invested, but lesson learned. I've since found what I think is a truly beautiful woman in all ways, that helps me save money and navigate life here. I do however find communication is still a bit of a struggle as although most people can write great English they definitely do not speak as well. But I plan to stay here, so am learning Bisaya. I agree things would definitely be easier if you have a trusted friend or mentor in the country. I'm by nature a trusting person, but am finding that's a risky trait over here, so having someone to use as a soundboard is invaluable.
Hi Rob & Chrissy, Rob, I think you nailed it, when you suggested, that if a good, traditional, family oriented, Godly Filipina meets a great foreigner in the Philippines, she should “definitely” date him. Mr Right in his country, might not come to the Philippines for a year. Or worse, he might “never” pull the trigger. Please explain to our dear Chrissy, “A bird in the hand, is better than two in the bush.” Way to go Chrissy, you knocked another one, out of the park, and into the parking lot, ⚾️😎😉👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼!!! Love you guys, keepem’ coming, 👍🏼😎😉🙏🏼❤️❤️!!!
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Walang anuman, Kuya Rob. You and Chrissy are so incredibly poliished in your content, and deliveries. I hope you guys never get tired of my calling you, the ❤️Hari & Reyna❤️, of bloggers. You’re the Johnie Carson and Ed McMahon, of bloggers. I love watching your blogs, over & over, 😉😎🙏🏼❤️👍🏼.
If you're not financially prepared to fly to the Philippines within 3 months, you should not be on dating sites. You start sending money and your 6 months, or over a yr out from going to the Philippines. You are just uplifting her, and she will be noticed by guys who have boots on the ground.
I got lucky i met my girlfriend in the Philippines online and was able to meet her on the same day. Everything works out great she's everything I was looking for so i did not have to do all the verificatios i could see she really liked me so chrissy is right their actions really shows you lot and I really like how affectionate filipinas are that can be addicting though.
I like a lot of what you guys are saying. The only issue for me is that I find I start looking for problems when I hear all these things to look out for from content creators all the time. I feel it can create problems in the relationship when there isn’t any either. It’s a real fine balance with having the right one & supporting them vs a scammer who is after money. I do get concerned listening to this over & over creates a bit of paranoia in us guys though. Thanks for your content !
Maybe I'm old facsioned but it seems like a better approach is to first jump on an airplane and just visit the country for a vacation. You, or someone did a poll online and 60% were for online dating and 40% were for in person. . but the thing is, this was done online by people who were, by definition, already online. It sounds like if one were visint a few times and them tcome and hang out longer and make connections, things might sort themselves out with a lot less scam risk. Yu could meet in person, you could maybe get referrals from contacts. . .
In my opinion, the BIGGEST single problem with guys looking for the perfect Filipina is that they don't know what they want (Other than young and beautiful). Even guys who have been married and around a long time don't understand what they want... then they find that beautiful, young Filipina and break her heart... BECAUSE they didn't do their due diligence. Due diligence is not JUST checking out the Filipina, but checking yourself as well. What you want is going to affect any relationship you have. When you start chatting with a Filipina, know what you want and show who you are, so she also knows what she's really getting. On that note, this is why I always STRONGLY recommend being in the Philippines for an extended period of time (not a 2 week vacation). Spending time with a Filipina and really getting to know her and her family are critical for a long term relationship to be successful. Please remember this above all else... there's more to Filipinas than youth, a pretty smile, and a great body. Chrissy is a perfect example of this... you don't think these two are still together and engaged after over a year together because of her beauty or the sex, do you?
There really is only one factor in searching for a partner. How does this person make me feel about myself? Women understand this concept much more clearly than men. Which is why we look at a couple with a gorgeous woman and an "average" looking man and wonder...it's because that man makes that woman feel gorgeous, desirable, SPECIAL. I am attractive. But, only because one special lady makes me feel attractive.
I made the same mistake as you, Rob. A few years after my divorce, friends of mine set me up on date with a Filipina they knew very well. She asked me why I got divorced. Instead of just answering: "My wife cheated on me" I gave her a full report on how I found out, how I started investingating her, how I collected proof of her adultory, how my attorney crushed hers in court and blablabla. The feedback she gave to my friends was: "This guy spent more than an hour talking about his ex". She took that as a sign that I wasn't over her, while in fact all I wanted to do was to be honest with her and let her know from scratch that I wasn't going to keep any secrets about my past marriage. Her reaction was a wake up call and I'm determined that in the future I will tell my date just the bare necessities, reply to her questions, but not volunteer any information that she didn't ask for.
Some US states have requirements before marriage of counseling and later before you can get a divorce counseling again. I used to think this was a waist of time but have come to see its value. Of course Getting to know yourself first is one of the most important goals of life. My parents although well intended and did a good job raising my brother and me never got around to these questions remember "Cat's in the Cradle"
I am planning to meet my Filipina in person in late June. We have videochat numerous times in the past 2 months, almost every day. I get a good vibe. She dont ask for money. We plan to meet in Cebu Airport. Any advice?
Sounds great! I do private Consultation you can email me at fly me to the philippines@gmail.com. It’s US$50 for 90 minute phone call you might want to book an excursion to go swim with the whale sharks when you’re in Cebu
No lease contract fore the lott ? No contract that the house is his? In general watch out with bigg age difference, you can be lucky but you also can end up in shit, follow your brain not your dick
Money = Transactional any way you slice it. Meet the girl in person if you make a connection grow from there. This edate stuff is getting to off the deap end. I wish you both well❤
I think we should expand the age gap more! The average age a female gets married there is early 20s. So the odds of finding a single unmarried wife go way up when you dip into lower end.
Rule number one for western guys who are going through divorce. Go straight to meet a Philippina, from the provenances who is a practicing Catholic, from a good family. I guarantee you will not be disappointed when you meet the right girl. X 1000
I’ve been watching your videos as a subscriber for about 10 months, plus Pea’s videos and a couple other, and I’m one who is just watching, wanting to come check it out, I’m divorced, retired, I don’t have facebook, do I need to have it ? I’m not on any dating sites, I’m thinking of coming there in person beginning of September, 2024, to Cebu, and try cold approach face to face, as “ reeksy” says??? I find it expensive to make the initial trip !! And will probably stay 3 weeks, as money
David having a Facebook account allows you to investigate the Filipinos you meet I would consider it necessary. I offer private consultation. There’s a Lincoln in the description box. Feel free to let me know if I can help.
I have to say Chrissy is very intelligent. I might have to disagree on the money issue. I do understand her point about it showing his interest as sincerity but what I don’t think she understands how many scammers there are out there. I would not have a problem sending any money if I knew she was in it for the long term but us men have to stick the the rules and not send money at all. I could be wrong. It is just so unfortunate that they have all these scammers and it is all over the place everyone is trying to scam you. SAD. I know it is a difficult decision to make. Yes Chrissy is great with it and I love that about her. Unless you really get to know her you will always be sceptical when it comes to money and you heart. I do also believe that a third party is always good in helping you find the special person because the good guys always think with there heart and sometimes that can leave you very vulnerable to people with bad intentions. I will contact you on your email when I do start my search and begin my journey to happiness. Thank you for another great video.
I asked a lady at the mall where is Jolly Bees and she pulls out some jelly beans! I start laughing and walk away! Try try again. That SM mall is pretty big at Clark.
Dear Chrissy and Rob - these contact pages sound like something of an "eldorado". I've never been to one so it sounds like I've saved myself a lot. Best regards from Denmark 😂
just be yourself, do not inflate your profile and use common sense is what I gain from this video. Everyone has their own quagmire, maybe it is family or work that only allows limited vacation time, thus each situation needs to be evaluated for it's merits. If you can not get to meet here soon and it take a while, so be it. If she chooses someone else, that should be taken as a clue you were not the one.
Ya, to talk 'bout your ex, not always that great for future relationships. I usually start when they ask 'bout it, 'n some hours later, for some reason they have to leave. Now, I've had pros in the mix too, they're a bit smarter, so they "take revenge", by talkin' 'bout theirs. How in love they were when they were young girls, 'n then suddenly things deteriorated 'n they became freelancers. That's when you say, let's not talk so much 'bout what has been, let's focus on what'll be instead. Another mistake ☺
My case is very scary. I found my Filipina and I came to the Philippines, but I’m not in a position to retire yet so we chat every day now that I’m back in the USA but it’s difficult. It’s difficult not being with her. It’s difficult not being able to retire and spend my life there That I think she may find someone else before I get back, but I’ve also come to the conclusion that if this doesn’t work out, I see that there are many Filipina that I believe would be able to have a wonderful relationship with
Chrissy needs a more comfortable chair.. well u both do but esp her.. Her back hurts on the longer videos..I know.. Lets go out and buy padded, more comfortable chairs, guys..
Where is " How to attract a perfect expat" . A woman should appeal to what a man wants . We determine who we want to marry or just have fun with . It looks like PH has a lot of fun, but very little solid traditional relationships. Example single moms. 🤔
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines What could I offer a guy who has it all;). Excellent Channel! I admire and am inspired by your work ethic, energy and optimistic attitude!
Other people can absolutely see other people's relationship downfalls. You guys have 36 years age difference, did you discuss this in depth on first chatting & continually up to today. When Chrissy was there initially, did it not dawn on you to say 'Chrissy i'm too old for you, you're so beautiful you can have any guy out there' 'please go for that guy & a guy more your age' Chrissy, honestly, what are your reasons for dating/being with a guy 36 yrs older, who in real terms is in his golden years of life...yet you're in your young prime of life, with decades ahead of you. You guys are in your relatively early stages & have no idea were it's going to go or end up...we have to be real here. You match in many ways & yet don't in others. I wish you all the best, but that huge age difference is a moral deal breaker for many, including wrong in the minds of many older guys grown up kids. Talking about exes in that regards, especially in front of your current gf is a no no....even for such a video. Not all men do things wrong.
Thank you for wishing us your best, I just wish the word but…. Had not been written immediately after. When we don’t judge and label we able to practice mindfulness and most accepting of others.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I do absolutely wish you the best & I agree about judging others etc...Unfortunately we have to be real in life & do what's right for others, before ourselves. You said it yourself 'others' can see relationships for what they are (& you both agreed on this) & no relationship is excluded especially if putting themselves online for the world to see. With this in mind are you both absolutely sure you're doing what's best for the other person. Morally & respectfully? You'll know all about another expat youtuber who finally came out & said how wrong he got it being with his 35yrs junior GF, how regretful he was & how he's taken away her prime years. It takes a real man & guts to do what's right in such instances, beauty gets a hold...but that's usually for selfish reasons & not in the real interest of the Filipina. Ask yourself truthfully, how would you honestly feel if a 31 yr old beautiful daughter of yours started dating a 67yr old guy? I'm 100% sure you wouldn't be happy & that she chose someone of a similar age, who is bright, working, handsome & respectable. They're out their for all beautiful Filipinas. It's worth the thought, believe me. I would like to know your thoughts on my initial questions & Chrissy's also. Maybe you can enlighten me.
@@keepitreal1547What moral is broken due to a large age gap marriage? Are you aware of that guys (guilt feelings)wife's thoughts and feelings. It may not even be an issue to her. Regardless, is she stripped of responsibility for deciding to marry him? It's rather insulting to a grown woman.
Having a mentor in life and relationships/dating is very rare.
Thank you for keeping it real and giving solid information and encouragement.
Thanks DR for the positive feedback
Don't look for perfect, just seek the best woman with the least drama, and who actually adds positivity and value in your life. Such a lady will get all the guy has to offer.
Thanks Keith for adding that
I did most things opposite of what you all discussed but got Lucky and it all worked out and I got the perfect spouse for me. I am still head over hills
In love after 6 years.
Charmed Life Rex 👍
You guys are awesome! Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much 💖
Smart business plan
Thanks Frans
Great show you guys.😊
David Thanks so much
If we move from Australia to the Philippines, I want to live where you are.
The breeze looks fantastic.
David it really is
Thanks for all the good advice 😊
You are so welcome Kevin
I agree with Chrissy about sending money. There are certain circumstances where it makes sense. I sent my fiancee money for a couple of months before I was able to come visit in person. She was between jobs and was actually going to a Korean language school to be an OFW in Korea. I asked her to put that on hold (applying to go overseas) until we had met. So, it was only fair that I helped with support until I could make the trip.
That was about a year ago...we are still together and I'll be making the permanent move in early September. Maybe in time to crash y'alls wedding. Lol.
Thanks for sharing that Ray welcome will keep a light on
I can see how you, Rob, can be great at helping an Expat get settled and in dealing with Expat business and personal issues. Whereas Chrissy will be great at offering Filipina advice for dating, finding and keeping your Filipina. But it will mean you must trust her enough to interface with her/your clients, Rob!
Yes, that is an issue. We haven’t gotten past yet. I am not sure the income is worth it.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I agree. No income is worth the risk of losing her. I'm glad to see that you both are a little insecure and jealous - very healthy for your relationship!
Did I just watch an infomercial? lol Good info though. Thanks for the vid
Always enjoy watching.
Thanks for watching Dave
You two are such a fantastic couple
Thanks Dennis
Chrissy has very good common sense. I’ve watched your videos for a while. You guys are living your best life. How great is that. I’m also living my best life. I also appreciate living in the Philippines it changed my life. I’ve lived here almost eighteen years and been with my wife for ten years married for one year. I thank god I found the Philippines.
Billy I love your comment. Love it!!
Your advice is well founded.
It gives one logical direction to make a wise choice at a critical time in our lives.
Thank you for another half hour chat “on the porch”. As always, it was well worth it. -Bob
Bob You're very welcome. Thank you 🙏
Great content as always guys. I've been in the Pines now for 2.5 months and sure made my share of mistakes with the first Pina I dated. I was blindsided by a scam after getting emotionally invested, but lesson learned. I've since found what I think is a truly beautiful woman in all ways, that helps me save money and navigate life here. I do however find communication is still a bit of a struggle as although most people can write great English they definitely do not speak as well. But I plan to stay here, so am learning Bisaya. I agree things would definitely be easier if you have a trusted friend or mentor in the country. I'm by nature a trusting person, but am finding that's a risky trait over here, so having someone to use as a soundboard is invaluable.
Thanks for watching our videos Travis and thanks for sharing that it was interesting reading
Hi Rob & Chrissy,
Rob, I think you nailed it, when you suggested, that if a good, traditional, family oriented, Godly Filipina meets a great foreigner in the Philippines, she should “definitely” date him. Mr Right in his country, might not come to the Philippines for a year. Or worse, he might “never” pull the trigger.
Please explain to our dear Chrissy, “A bird in the hand, is better than two in the bush.” Way to go Chrissy, you knocked another one, out of the park, and into the parking lot, ⚾️😎😉👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼!!! Love you guys, keepem’ coming, 👍🏼😎😉🙏🏼❤️❤️!!!
Thanks, Pete. Another great comment. We always enjoy hearing from you.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Walang anuman, Kuya Rob. You and Chrissy are so incredibly poliished in your content, and deliveries. I hope you guys never get tired of my calling you, the ❤️Hari & Reyna❤️, of bloggers. You’re the Johnie Carson and Ed McMahon, of bloggers. I love watching your blogs, over & over, 😉😎🙏🏼❤️👍🏼.
@@petepinal8415 Regis and Cathy Lee?
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Yeah, there you go, lol, 👍🏼😎😉❤️!!!
Not sure what you both did before , but you guys were born to be in front of a camera.
❤️🙏👍
If you're not financially prepared to fly to the Philippines within 3 months, you should not be on dating sites. You start sending money and your 6 months, or over a yr out from going to the Philippines. You are just uplifting her, and she will be noticed by guys who have boots on the ground.
Joe. I agree
Great video as usual. How about a video which showcases all the wonderful, middle-aged babaroonis in CDO? I'm planning to live in the Bukidnon Prvc.
Sounds good! Whats a Barbaroonis
Chrissy's voice is so soothing, she should start, actually both of you should do a podcast ( unless you guys already have one)
Wow thanks for the suggestion and feedback
I got lucky i met my girlfriend in the Philippines online and was able to meet her on the same day. Everything works out great she's everything I was looking for so i did not have to do all the verificatios i could see she really liked me so chrissy is right their actions really shows you lot and I really like how affectionate filipinas are that can be addicting though.
❤️🙏👍 Great comment
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines no problem
I like a lot of what you guys are saying.
The only issue for me is that I find I start looking for problems when I hear all these things to look out for from content creators all the time. I feel it can create problems in the relationship when there isn’t any either. It’s a real fine balance with having the right one & supporting them vs a scammer who is after money. I do get concerned listening to this over & over creates a bit of paranoia in us guys though.
Thanks for your content !
I completely understand you can’t let paranoia push you away from a good Filipina on the other hand evidence suggest to proceed with caution
Maybe I'm old facsioned but it seems like a better approach is to first jump on an airplane and just visit the country for a vacation. You, or someone did a poll online and 60% were for online dating and 40% were for in person. . but the thing is, this was done online by people who were, by definition, already online. It sounds like if one were visint a few times and them tcome and hang out longer and make connections, things might sort themselves out with a lot less scam risk. Yu could meet in person, you could maybe get referrals from contacts. . .
Hi James, good to hear from you again there’s advantages to both methods whatever floats your boat is best I’d say
Do you have a video on open source background searches.
You can check this one out. 🇵🇭 How to Investigate #filipinas
ua-cam.com/video/6qHuaLTf2Os/v-deo.html
In my opinion, the BIGGEST single problem with guys looking for the perfect Filipina is that they don't know what they want (Other than young and beautiful). Even guys who have been married and around a long time don't understand what they want... then they find that beautiful, young Filipina and break her heart... BECAUSE they didn't do their due diligence. Due diligence is not JUST checking out the Filipina, but checking yourself as well. What you want is going to affect any relationship you have. When you start chatting with a Filipina, know what you want and show who you are, so she also knows what she's really getting.
On that note, this is why I always STRONGLY recommend being in the Philippines for an extended period of time (not a 2 week vacation). Spending time with a Filipina and really getting to know her and her family are critical for a long term relationship to be successful. Please remember this above all else... there's more to Filipinas than youth, a pretty smile, and a great body. Chrissy is a perfect example of this... you don't think these two are still together and engaged after over a year together because of her beauty or the sex, do you?
Thanks, Murph for adding to the conversation
There really is only one factor in searching for a partner.
How does this person make me feel about myself?
Women understand this concept much more clearly than men. Which is why we look at a couple with a gorgeous woman and an "average" looking man and wonder...it's because that man makes that woman feel gorgeous, desirable, SPECIAL.
I am attractive.
But, only because one special lady makes me feel attractive.
👍
I made the same mistake as you, Rob. A few years after my divorce, friends of mine set me up on date with a Filipina they knew very well. She asked me why I got divorced. Instead of just answering: "My wife cheated on me" I gave her a full report on how I found out, how I started investingating her, how I collected proof of her adultory, how my attorney crushed hers in court and blablabla. The feedback she gave to my friends was: "This guy spent more than an hour talking about his ex". She took that as a sign that I wasn't over her, while in fact all I wanted to do was to be honest with her and let her know from scratch that I wasn't going to keep any secrets about my past marriage. Her reaction was a wake up call and I'm determined that in the future I will tell my date just the bare necessities, reply to her questions, but not volunteer any information that she didn't ask for.
Belgium thank you for sharing your experience. 🙏
Some US states have requirements before marriage of counseling and later before you can get a divorce counseling again. I used to think this was a waist of time but have come to see its value. Of course Getting to know yourself first is one of the most important goals of life. My parents although well intended and did a good job raising my brother and me never got around to these questions remember "Cat's in the Cradle"
Kieth, good points
I have to say your absolutely beautiful and I say this with no disrespect and rob in a lucky man
🙏👍❤️
I am planning to meet my Filipina in person in late June. We have videochat numerous times in the past 2 months, almost every day. I get a good vibe. She dont ask for money. We plan to meet in Cebu Airport. Any advice?
Sounds great! I do private Consultation you can email me at fly me to the philippines@gmail.com. It’s US$50 for 90 minute phone call you might want to book an excursion to go swim with the whale sharks when you’re in Cebu
I rather have you and Chrissy help me find the right Filipina girl for me so I don’t make many mistakes and get scammed
We are here to help
I didn’t like online dating within 200 miles, fake photos and dishonesty galore, so I’m waiting until I’m there and start living on my own ❤
I understand it’s very frustrating however it’s helpful to have the tool available when you’re on the ground also
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I will have to reopen my old Facebook acct. also I see lots of rentals etc.
You found the ultimate needle in the hay stack in Chrissy and I’m happy for you
Thanks dawg
My brother was used as a atm until she told him to leave the house he bought 😢 28 age difference
Sorry to hear about that
No lease contract fore the lott ? No contract that the house is his? In general watch out with bigg age difference, you can be lucky but you also can end up in shit, follow your brain not your dick
Money = Transactional any way you slice it. Meet the girl in person if you make a connection grow from there. This edate stuff is getting to off the deap end. I wish you both well❤
Thanks for watching
I think we should expand the age gap more! The average age a female gets married there is early 20s. So the odds of finding a single unmarried wife go way up when you dip into lower end.
That is very true
Rule number one for western guys who are going through divorce.
Go straight to meet a Philippina, from the provenances who is a practicing Catholic, from a good family.
I guarantee you will not be disappointed when you meet the right girl.
X 1000
💯
I’ve been watching your videos as a subscriber for about 10 months, plus Pea’s videos and a couple other, and I’m one who is just watching, wanting to come check it out, I’m divorced, retired, I don’t have facebook, do I need to have it ? I’m not on any dating sites, I’m thinking of coming there in person beginning of September, 2024, to Cebu, and try cold approach face to face, as “ reeksy” says??? I find it expensive to make the initial trip !! And will probably stay 3 weeks, as money
David having a Facebook account allows you to investigate the Filipinos you meet I would consider it necessary. I offer private consultation. There’s a Lincoln in the description box. Feel free to let me know if I can help.
I have to say Chrissy is very intelligent. I might have to disagree on the money issue. I do understand her point about it showing his interest as sincerity but what I don’t think she understands how many scammers there are out there. I would not have a problem sending any money if I knew she was in it for the long term but us men have to stick the the rules and not send money at all. I could be wrong. It is just so unfortunate that they have all these scammers and it is all over the place everyone is trying to scam you. SAD. I know it is a difficult decision to make. Yes Chrissy is great with it and I love that about her. Unless you really get to know her you will always be sceptical when it comes to money and you heart. I do also believe that a third party is always good in helping you find the special person because the good guys always think with there heart and sometimes that can leave you very vulnerable to people with bad intentions. I will contact you on your email when I do start my search and begin my journey to happiness. Thank you for another great video.
Thanks Robert for sharing. Talk soon.
I would personally be more comfortable meeting face to face, not online.
Ray many agree
I asked a lady at the mall where is Jolly Bees and she pulls out some jelly beans! I start laughing and walk away! Try try again. That SM mall is pretty big at Clark.
😂😂😂
Dear Chrissy and Rob - these contact pages sound like something of an "eldorado". I've never been to one so it sounds like I've saved myself a lot. Best regards from Denmark 😂
Hi Bent 👋 Hope you’re nautical adventures are progressing.
You also can keep your intro short and invite the women to find out the rest, fore me it was a good filter
Thanks for the tip
just be yourself, do not inflate your profile and use common sense is what I gain from this video. Everyone has their own quagmire, maybe it is family or work that only allows limited vacation time, thus each situation needs to be evaluated for it's merits. If you can not get to meet here soon and it take a while, so be it. If she chooses someone else, that should be taken as a clue you were not the one.
👍
Ya, to talk 'bout your ex, not always that great for future relationships. I usually start when they ask 'bout it, 'n some hours later, for some reason they have to leave. Now, I've had pros in the mix too, they're a bit smarter, so they "take revenge", by talkin' 'bout theirs.
How in love they were when they were young girls, 'n then suddenly things deteriorated 'n they became freelancers. That's when you say, let's not talk so much 'bout what has been, let's focus on what'll be instead. Another mistake ☺
Thanks for sharing
My case is very scary. I found my Filipina and I came to the Philippines, but I’m not in a position to retire yet so we chat every day now that I’m back in the USA but it’s difficult. It’s difficult not being with her. It’s difficult not being able to retire and spend my life there That I think she may find someone else before I get back, but I’ve also come to the conclusion that if this doesn’t work out, I see that there are many Filipina that I believe would be able to have a wonderful relationship with
I hope you find a way forward. You seem very practical
Good information. Do not deviate from this advice 🎉. (How do you think I know this? :-)
Sometimes we all learn the hard way
I send money in the past but only fore internet and birthday presents , think thats oké
I agree that’s the best approach
Six fine meals with dessert and cocktails later..... he found himself in the friendzone. 😅😅
Yeah but I made a good friend
Never ever send money to a lady you never met in person. Only if you want send her money for load but that’s it period.
I totally agree
Chrissy needs a more comfortable chair.. well u both do but esp her.. Her back hurts on the longer videos..I know.. Lets go out and buy padded, more comfortable chairs, guys..
Thanks for the feedback Joel
Where is " How to attract a perfect expat" . A woman should appeal to what a man wants . We determine who we want to marry or just have fun with . It looks like PH has a lot of fun, but very little solid traditional relationships. Example single moms. 🤔
You raise some good points, Tom
can I inherit Chrissy from you?
she has a high EQ and is quite practical
What will I inherit from you ?
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines What could I offer a guy who has it all;). Excellent Channel! I admire and am inspired by your work ethic, energy and optimistic attitude!
@@DBeech-uj9ve thanks thanks for that positive positive feedback
I disagree, I believe it’s okay to list one of my Red Flags in my bio. But I won’t like them all.
Thanks for sharing Bob
Other people can absolutely see other people's relationship downfalls.
You guys have 36 years age difference, did you discuss this in depth on first chatting & continually up to today.
When Chrissy was there initially, did it not dawn on you to say 'Chrissy i'm too old for you, you're so beautiful you can have any guy out there' 'please go for that guy & a guy more your age'
Chrissy, honestly, what are your reasons for dating/being with a guy 36 yrs older, who in real terms is in his golden years of life...yet you're in your young prime of life, with decades ahead of you.
You guys are in your relatively early stages & have no idea were it's going to go or end up...we have to be real here.
You match in many ways & yet don't in others.
I wish you all the best, but that huge age difference is a moral deal breaker for many, including wrong in the minds of many older guys grown up kids.
Talking about exes in that regards, especially in front of your current gf is a no no....even for such a video.
Not all men do things wrong.
🤔
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines
It's all about morals
Thank you for wishing us your best, I just wish the word but…. Had not been written immediately after. When we don’t judge and label we able to practice mindfulness and most accepting of others.
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I do absolutely wish you the best & I agree about judging others etc...Unfortunately we have to be real in life & do what's right for others, before ourselves.
You said it yourself 'others' can see relationships for what they are (& you both agreed on this) & no relationship is excluded especially if putting themselves online for the world to see.
With this in mind are you both absolutely sure you're doing what's best for the other person. Morally & respectfully?
You'll know all about another expat youtuber who finally came out & said how wrong he got it being with his 35yrs junior GF, how regretful he was & how he's taken away her prime years.
It takes a real man & guts to do what's right in such instances, beauty gets a hold...but that's usually for selfish reasons & not in the real interest of the Filipina.
Ask yourself truthfully, how would you honestly feel if a 31 yr old beautiful daughter of yours started dating a 67yr old guy?
I'm 100% sure you wouldn't be happy & that she chose someone of a similar age, who is bright, working, handsome & respectable.
They're out their for all beautiful Filipinas.
It's worth the thought, believe me.
I would like to know your thoughts on my initial questions & Chrissy's also.
Maybe you can enlighten me.
@@keepitreal1547What moral is broken due to a large age gap marriage?
Are you aware of that guys (guilt feelings)wife's thoughts and feelings. It may not even be an issue to her. Regardless, is she stripped of responsibility for deciding to marry him? It's rather insulting to a grown woman.