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Charlotte Morabito
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Приєднався 4 лип 2011
You’re Not In Your 'Soft Girl Era’—You’re in a Content Trap
Trendy phrases like ‘feminine energy’ or ‘high-value partner’ are marketing tools designed to repackage basic ideas into clickable, shareable content. These frames shape how we think, discuss, and even live our lives-often without us realizing it. I'm not saying they're all **bad** but if you're not careful, you can get sucked into harmful framings of the world that will change how you approach your own life. In this video, I unpack what some of the messaging is behind these keyword phrases and how you can make sure you're one step ahead of the latest SEO tactics.
🔹 Chapters:
0:00 Introduction
1:08 Feminine and Masculine Energy
2:36 Soft Girl Era
3:09 High Value Woman/Man
3:59 Rebranding Yourself
9:38 That Girl Aesthetic
10:32 Romanticize Your Life
🔹About me
My name is Charlotte and I make personal development content about how you can take control of your mindset and achieve all of the goals you have in your heart. Your aspirations were implanted in you for a reason and I want to help you reach them.
It helps me out a lot if you could LIKE, COMMENT, and consider SUBSCRIBING for more self-development content! 🫶🏻 I appreciate you being here! Thank you soooo much for taking the time to watch my video and I hope they help you approach life a little differently
🔹 Follow me for more!
tiktok.com/@CharlotteMorabito
charlottemorabito
🔹 Keywords:
feminine energy, masculine energy, high value man, high value woman, rebranding yourself, soft girl era, gender roles, dating advice, self-care, emotional regulation, social image, main character energy, romanticizing life, self-improvement, media influence
🔹 Disclaimer:
I am not a therapist or mental health professional. My social media content is meant for education, information and entertainment purposes and should not be considered therapy or medical care. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking medical or therapeutic treatment because of something you have read about or accessed through my social media pages.
🔹 Chapters:
0:00 Introduction
1:08 Feminine and Masculine Energy
2:36 Soft Girl Era
3:09 High Value Woman/Man
3:59 Rebranding Yourself
9:38 That Girl Aesthetic
10:32 Romanticize Your Life
🔹About me
My name is Charlotte and I make personal development content about how you can take control of your mindset and achieve all of the goals you have in your heart. Your aspirations were implanted in you for a reason and I want to help you reach them.
It helps me out a lot if you could LIKE, COMMENT, and consider SUBSCRIBING for more self-development content! 🫶🏻 I appreciate you being here! Thank you soooo much for taking the time to watch my video and I hope they help you approach life a little differently
🔹 Follow me for more!
tiktok.com/@CharlotteMorabito
charlottemorabito
🔹 Keywords:
feminine energy, masculine energy, high value man, high value woman, rebranding yourself, soft girl era, gender roles, dating advice, self-care, emotional regulation, social image, main character energy, romanticizing life, self-improvement, media influence
🔹 Disclaimer:
I am not a therapist or mental health professional. My social media content is meant for education, information and entertainment purposes and should not be considered therapy or medical care. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking medical or therapeutic treatment because of something you have read about or accessed through my social media pages.
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some people have voices that are hard to listen to and idk if this is a weird comment but your voice is very easy to listen to.
I love Editing Charlotte. Get better soon, girl!
Damn you’re good
I love your energy and how real you are in all your videos! 🥰😍
Girl I express the universe for attracting your videos to me
love your content! ❤
Thank you 😊
i completely had this same thought about all of this. and for me, i’m focusing on myself and healing for myself and becoming my own personal muse because, i want to live the life that I desire, not the life that i want others to see and think ‘oh look at her’. It’s about personal growth, spiritual alchemy, transforming yourself to be who your soul has always been calling you to be.
I cannot imagine a guy watching this video or clicking on it. I feel like they have ZERO desire to be more mindful or emotionally intelligent. How it was always is comfortable, I am right, I am angry , you obey to me. You single because you are the problem with your new views.. that type of shit.. i legit feel like women at this age are sadly ahead and if we ruled society it would improve so much in things that do not benefit us personally.. i hope to live a day to see it..
I actually used to have a decent number of male followers on TikTok (accidentally attracted them bc I made non-gender war dating content) and I had to tell them to go away / unfollow because too many of them perceive any feedback or constructive criticism as an attack. As a result of that, they started to attack my looks and dogpile me in the comments even when I made content that indirectly defended them (like pointing out to women when they were misunderstanding about men). I love myself too much to subject myself to that. Men are not okay as a group and women cannot fix them. They have to save themselves
How does law of detachment work when it comes to manifesting good grades i mean you still want to study to get good grades? Can someone tell me how that works?
It’s about detaching your worth from the grade. You should still work hard and try to achieve the best grade you can bc you deserve all the good things that come from good grades (getting into a good college/grad school, getting a job in the field you want, having more opportunities available to you, learning new things) but your grades are not a reflection of your intelligence or your worth as a person. Your grades are simply how well you completed the work to your instructor’s standards. I hope this helped!
@charlottemorabito dear charlotte, thank you so much for reacting since last year. I felt down and insecure because I failed for my premaster, and this year I have the last chance to redo it. I have been watching so many manifesting videos, but nothing worked in my favor.
Finally! Someone's talking about it. THANK YOU ❤
I think young people think they are being judged because of a story they tell themselves
Please keep making more, what a breath of fresh air. You are what UA-cam needs. Articulate, researched, intelligent, real. Thank you.
I can assure you that I don't LET people do bad stuff to me, it is not a choice. I have PTSD and been in therapy for many years. I struggle everyday with what happened and how they all just moved on like nothing happened. Any tips on how to not get completely broken?
me watching this as a first video of yours and you have 31k. congrats.
Watch feminine energy from creators 30+ up. It’s just real life truths. LIFE HACK. Energy is real, it cannot be denied, but if it’s only promoting external validation instead of internal click away. We shouldn’t throw the whole topic in the trash. Divine feminine energy is our birthright.
I’m not completely opposed to some of the energetics teachings, I just worry that framing it in the feminine and masculine exposes us to falling into rigid gender roles that ultimately hurt us all
Romanticising your life is so effective as a positive mental health strategy and this video has inspired me to get back into doing that. I went through a period of doing it but then I got really bad fatigue and health stuff and kind of fell off. This makes me want to get back into it and has such a soft gentle vibe as a video. Thank you 💜
This is such a great video, thank you! I’ve been thinking about starting a UA-cam channel myself and this is giving me a lot to think about in terms of what’s actually a necessary part of making videos and what’s optional. I’m still dithering over how exactly I want to do things and what parts of my tentative plans are things I’m genuinely interested in and what parts are just so common that I’ve internalised them as part of the process, even though they’re not. I genuinely hate the whole masculine versus feminine energy thing and the high value woman/man thing creeps me out. I really like the section on rebranding yourself. It made me realise that I’ve been subconsciously filtering out the bits of those videos that are based on external appearances and just trying to focus on the internal stuff, which kind of makes me proud of myself in a way? I feel like that’s growth. I also really love the romanticising your life trend. I struggle really badly with seasonal affective disorder and one of the things I’m trying at the moment is romanticising the season to sort of… reframe it for myself? Take it from something to dread to something to, if not look forward to, at least be content with.
After i finished highschool (not knowing if u graduated yet) i found myself in a slum my attitude and emoyion was disgusting maybe bcs i start feeling anxious and victimising myself. Genuinely this channel has helped me thunj abt myself more
Hi 👋🏽 I just became a subscriber
I'm ashamed to say that yesterday I reacted very poorly to an unfortunate situation in which someone I love(d) hurt me quite badly. In no way am I excusing their behavior, *BUT* I know that I shouldn't have reacted the way I did. I regret doing so, and I wish I had seen this video sooner. It gave me new perspective and offered a lot of helpful advice I'll use in the future. Thank you! ❤
This video was so helpful and awesome, i think about detachment A LOT and ive been working on being more detached and sure of myself and boundaries for years. Thank you for this!
Well, this is my sign to get back into therapy, considering I started having a panic attack in leas than 10 seconds at the mere thought... 🫤
New Years Resolution challenge accepted!!!
That is the shame leaving your body. ❤️
Damn was this an eye opener, thank you girly 😧👍
Dang. 3 Mos I didn't see this. And now I know I was ready for it today.
I have nothing nice to say about myself though….
my understanding of 'high value' is that when it's a man, he is confident, attractive, wealthy, and masculine. when it's a woman, she's confident, attractive, sought-after, and feminine. Maybe they mention inner work sometimes but tbh it's only on the women's side of things. the most important thing for the men is that they are wealthy. To me, this value is solely determined by conservative gender roles and the 'hypergamy' ideal, which is another content trap that's closely linked to these terms. All of it repackaged in a mystical self-help lens. that's really it.
I just had this conversation with my therapist. I feel like my algorithm is feeling me this gender war. Everything is divided between masculine/ feminine, high value/ low value men and women, traditional men/women, etc etc etc. It seems like no one wants to find common ground and connect through a common interest. My therapist reminded me that algorithms reward engagement. So of course controversial or divisive topics will "win" the algorithm. I have to remember the algorithm is not reality. These topics are not the common opinion, just the most reactive.
Love love LOVE this video! ❤ 😊 So many amazing gems on how someone can really do the self-work to be the best version of yourself!
I have been manifesting my SP for about two years and I have moments where I wonder if I should give up because it’s taken this long but your point about trusting the divine timing is really important. Gotta remember that. ❤
This got a follow out of me. These are the things more people, especially women, need to practice and internalize. We live in a world that teaches us to deprecate and loathe ourselves for the sin of existing.
This happened on Christmas Day! My whole day off was messed up and went downhill. I’m mad I let it get there. Triggered and snapped.
You made me cry
Hi im new here and honestly the way u explain things is just AMAZING!! Girll wow keep going
Important to note sometimes you can have extreme feelings, that may mean nothing so you do not have to attach thoughts to them - I can often wake up quite anxious or have a huge mood shift - therapist taught me it's not always cos something upsets me, but maybe hormones or what I have eaten or I'm having a hard day sensory wise etc. - I do not have to spiral or assign thoughts to feelings 👍❤
I detached myself from my feelings back in middle and high school when I was bullied… now I don’t feel my emotions anymore unless my body reacts. So, be careful, guys
Thank you❤️
Spending too much time on Social Media is like living in a Bubble. It is an Alternative Reality.
Its why i uninstalled twitter on my phone lol. That whole place is a playground and it just really infuriated me the things people would say about others or things etc. I felt better when i got off it
I was just thinking about this this week! I noticed I’ve been more slow and passive in my life and prioritizing “the moment” but literally I’m getting nothing done towards my goals. I stopped my soft girl era last week bc girl we are not going into 2025 suppar
Oh my god I’ve been working on my dream life schedule for a whole year and tweaking it. I love that you’re talking about this! It truly works. I’m going to dig deeper into my techniques again today and include your advice! I swear every time I removed a patient from my list they dropped off automatically. All I had to do was put my desires out there. Sometimes I had to say I wanted to switch to someone others it just happened. (I’m a home care nurse so I build my own schedule) please guys do this and think realistically about how much time it takes you to do xyz without rushing! It takes the pressure off and gives you a little leeway. The magic is in you. Activate it!
Thank you for the wisdom
I’ve fallen for many of those videos. Many of them are full of fresh faced 20 somethings trying to tell me how I can be “that girl in 2025”. And I get hyped up, for a few days. But I’m in my mid 30s now, and have always felt a little off consuming media as such. It wasn’t bad, it was just…off. This is the real stuff, Charlotte. Your content is leveling. Thank you. Keep it coming.
Honestly, I was researching the content I was talking about for this video and I wanted to click on many of them bc they looked so appealing 😅 the marketing works! We have to be critical of it
wow i love these videos cause i feel less crazy lol. in my life, most of the people i know, they move through life so careless and sometimes selfishly… while i'm always connected with everything, reading the breeze and the water if it's necessary. trying to listen to myself through my body at a deeper level. just taking care of me i guess♡:) feels great to watch other people having similar processes!!
Hi new friend 🧡
i exist 🩵
A very good advice! ❤ Affirmations are so powerful, even if they may feel awkward when you first start. Some of the affirmations that have helped me the most with my self-assurance and self-confidence is "I'm worthy of receiving the same love I put out into the world.", "I can do so much more than I may let myself believe.", "Even if my body doesn't look the way I'd prefer, I'm grateful to have it because it means I am alive."... There's so many more, but it's too much to write them all here. The main thing is that you should treat yourself with the same amount of love you'd give to the other people you love the most in this world. You are the most important person in your life and you deserve your own love. ❤
Spot on about rebranding! It mainly is about others perception of you for a lot of people that I know who are personally going through a “rebrand”