I think you talking about yourself on here every once in a while is really grounding in a way. So personally, I like this video a lot. It’s very down to earth and makes you realize self sabotage can happen to ANYONE.
That's good to hear. thank you! I don't expect this video to break 10k views because it's so me focused and that doesn't usually work unless you're a big name. But hopefully I can find a balance.
Engaging sharing! Self-sabotage is insidious, especially in Asian culture, where obedience and humility are valued over confidence and optimism. Thank u for bringing this topic to a depth it needs. It helps that u shared from your personal experience.
I agree with the rest of the comments, you’re really leading by doing. I’ve been stuck for a while and your videos are really authentic and motivating. Very relatable. I’m really grateful that you’re putting your time into this it’s having more of an impact than you know. Thank you x
GOOSHHHHHHHHHHH you are literly god sent. I really needed to watch your videos.. ofcourse it isn't a magic wand that will fix my life and my horrible chronic procrastination habits. Although it still does the job to fill my mind with fresh ideas or revive my hybernating thoughts. I needed to watch this video because of my generally awful procrastination.. with sleep..eating on time... doing actual healthy activities away from devices... going out.. and most importantly my art block. i literly lost drive to draw everytime and when I actually draw I get this horrible doom feeling of fear of failure.. like My idea wont reach out to my audience or I will self sabotage my skills and abilities. I am still struggling but I am working on it... thank you for this lovely video again Charlotte!
I appreciate this so much...I want to create an ASMR channel. I bought a mic and everything....and it's just sitting on my desk lol - fear is the ultimate enemy to doing what we want to do!
I feel like I could listen to you talk for hours!!!! Your content has been so refreshing and I’m already learning so much! You’re definitely on the journey to being the absolute best version of yourself! I see it!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I really appreciate this! I relate so much 😂 You just got to push through, even if it's not great, and you might not feel 100% happy with it, just take the steps, and learn
Thank you for this video. It came at such a crucial point today. Starting this month I decided to take more chances and not give in to my belief that I am not good enough. I was so tired of thinking that way. but within a week of working against my negative thoughts and I spiraled back into that rabbithole. Just when my youtube notified me of this video of yours. Thank you and you're doing a great job❤
Okay you being a news producer is crazy cause I love these videos on UA-cam and I was following some stuff you covered at your job during the election without putting it together lol
Thank you so much for always sharing your insights with us! Your content helps me learn and understand so much about myself and the world. It's kind of a coincidence that this video is about self sabotage, because I was going to ask if you could make a video about laziness vs listening to your body, and this is a very closely related topic. I'm so glad you're doing well despite having such a challenging time. I'm already subscribed but I gotta hit that bell as well. 🔔
Thank you for the support! I'm glad you're here. ♥️ a quick tip for "laziness" is replace the word "lazy" with "unmotivated." Laziness is frequently thought of as a character trait (immutable, a flaw) while motivation is seen as more of a transitory quality. So when I'm not getting up and moving, instead of saying "i'm so lazy what's wrong with me" I'll say "I'm feeling unmotivated right now. How can I motivate myself?"
Can the nexxt video be about procrastination? I know this video has an inclination of procrastination but I would like to see some actual methods that can help..
I am conflicted about making procrastination content because I worry like people (ME! Sometimes! Maybe!) watch it as a way to “productively” procrastinate 🫣 I do not want to become part of the problem 😭
Maybe it would have been self sabotage if you didn’t allow yourself to scroll and rest. Grief takes time. I know scrolling isn’t the healthiest but it is easy. Sounds like you are doing good to me.
omg i wish had the words to express how deeply i appreciate your videos ❤🥹... genuinely thank you Charlotte. if possible, can you please dive deeper into "self-concept"
I think you talking about yourself on here every once in a while is really grounding in a way. So personally, I like this video a lot. It’s very down to earth and makes you realize self sabotage can happen to ANYONE.
That's good to hear. thank you! I don't expect this video to break 10k views because it's so me focused and that doesn't usually work unless you're a big name. But hopefully I can find a balance.
Engaging sharing!
Self-sabotage is insidious, especially in Asian culture, where obedience and humility are valued over confidence and optimism.
Thank u for bringing this topic to a depth it needs. It helps that u shared from your personal experience.
I agree with the rest of the comments, you’re really leading by doing. I’ve been stuck for a while and your videos are really authentic and motivating. Very relatable. I’m really grateful that you’re putting your time into this it’s having more of an impact than you know. Thank you x
Girl I’ve been so excited for your videos to drop! I really appreciate your advice!! Please keep making videos!!!
tysm for your support! i appreciate you 🫶🏻
GOOSHHHHHHHHHHH you are literly god sent. I really needed to watch your videos.. ofcourse it isn't a magic wand that will fix my life and my horrible chronic procrastination habits. Although it still does the job to fill my mind with fresh ideas or revive my hybernating thoughts. I needed to watch this video because of my generally awful procrastination.. with sleep..eating on time... doing actual healthy activities away from devices... going out.. and most importantly my art block. i literly lost drive to draw everytime and when I actually draw I get this horrible doom feeling of fear of failure.. like My idea wont reach out to my audience or I will self sabotage my skills and abilities. I am still struggling but I am working on it... thank you for this lovely video again Charlotte!
I looove this channel. You are super inspiring in such a real way🫶 thanku
I can't stop watching your videos! I think you're incredibly talented speaker/writer and must be amazing at your journalism job :)
I appreciate this so much...I want to create an ASMR channel. I bought a mic and everything....and it's just sitting on my desk lol - fear is the ultimate enemy to doing what we want to do!
I feel like I'm listening to a good friend give me dope advice. I love your channel.
That’s the vibe I’m going for! 😉 thank you for being here and commenting!
so glad you’re back! spitting bars per usual 🗣️🖤
I missed your videos. This one came at just the right time. You are so eloquent yet consise in the way you speak. Thank you for your content. 🙏
omg i'm sobbing 😭 tysm that's so sweet
I feel like I could listen to you talk for hours!!!! Your content has been so refreshing and I’m already learning so much! You’re definitely on the journey to being the absolute best version of yourself! I see it!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I'm a journalist in Zambia 🇿🇲 New Subscriber.
omg hi! tysm!
We missed you, Charlotte 🎉
Thank you for being so candid on this topic, self sabotage. I found it so relatable, am sure others did too. Much love 🫶
omg! im an enfp, when you mentioned you were an infj, i understood why i resonated with your videos lol
This makes sense!!! I attract soooo many enfp’s haha even my mom is one and she’s my bestie!
Amazing. You’re so helpful, funny, smart, I love you! Lol
I really appreciate this! I relate so much 😂 You just got to push through, even if it's not great, and you might not feel 100% happy with it, just take the steps, and learn
Just wanted to say that I'm so glad to have found your channel! Ok, back to bingeing your videos lol
Thank you for this video. It came at such a crucial point today. Starting this month I decided to take more chances and not give in to my belief that I am not good enough. I was so tired of thinking that way. but within a week of working against my negative thoughts and I spiraled back into that rabbithole. Just when my youtube notified me of this video of yours. Thank you and you're doing a great job❤
When you are older, you will be thankful to yourself for hoping on that plane.
Please continue posting. Love hearing your take on life
Okay you being a news producer is crazy cause I love these videos on UA-cam and I was following some stuff you covered at your job during the election without putting it together lol
i love your content, keep doing what you are doing
You are amazing .much love .sweetie❤❤❤
WE'RE BOTH INFJs, makes sense why you seem to be speaking directly from my own head, about the same problems, too lol
This video is so perfectly timed. Thank you for sharing your challenges and advice for how to overcome them ❤️
2:34 haven’t heard about it. Who won?
I am sorry for your loss❤ also you are a savage, thank you for the content 🧡
i would love a video of how you stay organized :D
Thank you so much for always sharing your insights with us! Your content helps me learn and understand so much about myself and the world. It's kind of a coincidence that this video is about self sabotage, because I was going to ask if you could make a video about laziness vs listening to your body, and this is a very closely related topic. I'm so glad you're doing well despite having such a challenging time. I'm already subscribed but I gotta hit that bell as well. 🔔
Thank you for the support! I'm glad you're here. ♥️ a quick tip for "laziness" is replace the word "lazy" with "unmotivated." Laziness is frequently thought of as a character trait (immutable, a flaw) while motivation is seen as more of a transitory quality. So when I'm not getting up and moving, instead of saying "i'm so lazy what's wrong with me" I'll say "I'm feeling unmotivated right now. How can I motivate myself?"
“Messy” work of art ***
Hey Charlotte, can i ask what what camera you used? The quality is amazing ❤
Osmo Pocket 3. it's a powerhouse!
Can the nexxt video be about procrastination? I know this video has an inclination of procrastination but I would like to see some actual methods that can help..
I am conflicted about making procrastination content because I worry like people (ME! Sometimes! Maybe!) watch it as a way to “productively” procrastinate 🫣 I do not want to become part of the problem 😭
Maybe it would have been self sabotage if you didn’t allow yourself to scroll and rest. Grief takes time. I know scrolling isn’t the healthiest but it is easy. Sounds like you are doing good to me.
omg i wish had the words to express how deeply i appreciate your videos ❤🥹... genuinely thank you Charlotte.
if possible, can you please dive deeper into "self-concept"
Messy is okay because life is messy! 🫶🏼
Triangularwesome! 👍 📐