This is such an important message. I didn't understand this when I was younger and I was such a victim and I had such a negative mindset and self talk. I think I even drove some friends away, but when I changed my mindset and matured, boyyyyy my perspective changed so much. My life isn't perfect now but yet I have so much to be thankful for even despite my many challenges and I have seen how I am blessed everyday since I became a positive person. Now I try to stay away from very negative people and just hope that they change for their own sake one day.
Shootout to you for being self aware enough to recognize that victim mindset and negative was ruining your life. And yes perspective if EVERYTHING, they say when you change your perspective that's when miracles happen. Even in therapy we learn how to "reframe" the past and what happened to us... And yes saying away from negative people is key! They have a problem for every solution. Side note : missed you, hope you are well and greatful for you engaging 💓💖💕
@@nouchkam1939 Yeah honestly and I realized because I had that mentality, I was putting it on others in the sense that I would think something was impossible for someone just because that was how I felt about myself. Now I am so grateful to have a fridge full of food cause there have been times when ordering groceries has been hard. Just the simplest things make me happy. "They have a problem for every solution" OMG that is such a profound statement. I noticed when I talk to negative people about my dreams these days, they always have a reason for why it won't work even when it is something very achievable. I have had to distance myself from a close family member for this reason. I've missed you too! I have been keeping well. I hope you are doing ok as well and having a good start to the month? Haven't seen all your recent videos as I have been all over the place so I am just playing catchup! Absolutely love your content. Keep sharing your knowledge with us 💞❤
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Hope a lot of people see this video and change the negativitie👍👍
Aww thank you. Hope many people see it too 👍🏿
Realism is basically stigmatized. Thank you ❤
Omg, i know that's right ✅️ i use to get so much hate simply for keeping real, logical and speaking the truth pfff. Keep doing you boo ❣️
This is such an important message.
I didn't understand this when I was younger and I was such a victim and I had such a negative mindset and self talk.
I think I even drove some friends away, but when I changed my mindset and matured, boyyyyy my perspective changed so much.
My life isn't perfect now but yet I have so much to be thankful for even despite my many challenges and I have seen how I am blessed everyday since I became a positive person.
Now I try to stay away from very negative people and just hope that they change for their own sake one day.
Shootout to you for being self aware enough to recognize that victim mindset and negative was ruining your life.
And yes perspective if EVERYTHING, they say when you change your perspective that's when miracles happen.
Even in therapy we learn how to "reframe" the past and what happened to us...
And yes saying away from negative people is key! They have a problem for every solution.
Side note : missed you, hope you are well and greatful for you engaging 💓💖💕
@@nouchkam1939 Yeah honestly and I realized because I had that mentality, I was putting it on others in the sense that I would think something was impossible for someone just because that was how I felt about myself.
Now I am so grateful to have a fridge full of food cause there have been times when ordering groceries has been hard. Just the simplest things make me happy.
"They have a problem for every solution" OMG that is such a profound statement. I noticed when I talk to negative people about my dreams these days, they always have a reason for why it won't work even when it is something very achievable. I have had to distance myself from a close family member for this reason.
I've missed you too! I have been keeping well. I hope you are doing ok as well and having a good start to the month? Haven't seen all your recent videos as I have been all over the place so I am just playing catchup! Absolutely love your content. Keep sharing your knowledge with us
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