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Wives Vs World
Denmark
Приєднався 14 лип 2020
Danish queer couple out to educate and spread love! One is trans, one is cis (kinda), but we're both ready to entertain and have a good time with you guys! : )
Trans AND Lesbian? What's that like?
Wouldn't you like to know, huh? Well, luckily we're here to tell you - or at least tell you how we feel it has impacted our lives. Making the decision to live your authentic life can be freeing but at the same time cause a lot of worrying about your relationships, your sexuality and your sense of self.
Here's an idea: Instead of worrying, share your story and perspective in the comments! And if that's not enough for you, join us across this world wide internet of ours:
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Instagram:
Anya: bit.ly/3FjcXjy
Jackie: bit.ly/3Qo2HJP
Jackie's tattoos: tinyurl.com/ykhvhsh5
Blusky:
Anya: bsky.app/profile/anyawildt.bsky.social
Jackie: bsky.app/profile/jikisnaki.bsky.social
TikTok: bit.ly/3C06j03
Ko-fi: ko-fi.com/wivesvsworld
Anya's Author Website: bit.ly/3w4Eikh
Art by the talented Lukaël at lukael
Music credits:
"Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical" by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 licence. creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303
Artist: incompetech.com/
Hank Green: "Human Sexuality is Complicated..." (ua-cam.com/video/xXAoG8vAyzI/v-deo.htmlsi=4OfHy9J1Yct1JDpI)
Comic recommendation: "Us" by Sara Soler (ISBN 978-1-50673-418-7)
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We've been getting a lot of silly comments on this video about "autogynophilia", which is debunked fringe theory from the 80s that has gained some traction. We refer to this video by Natalie Wynn: ua-cam.com/video/6czRFLs5JQo/v-deo.htmlsi=MsB_fq2ndyp5OGHq
Here's an idea: Instead of worrying, share your story and perspective in the comments! And if that's not enough for you, join us across this world wide internet of ours:
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Instagram:
Anya: bit.ly/3FjcXjy
Jackie: bit.ly/3Qo2HJP
Jackie's tattoos: tinyurl.com/ykhvhsh5
Blusky:
Anya: bsky.app/profile/anyawildt.bsky.social
Jackie: bsky.app/profile/jikisnaki.bsky.social
TikTok: bit.ly/3C06j03
Ko-fi: ko-fi.com/wivesvsworld
Anya's Author Website: bit.ly/3w4Eikh
Art by the talented Lukaël at lukael
Music credits:
"Brandenburg Concerto No4-1 BWV1049 - Classical Whimsical" by Kevin MacLeod is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 licence. creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/
Source: incompetech.com/music/royalty-free/index.html?isrc=USUAN1100303
Artist: incompetech.com/
Hank Green: "Human Sexuality is Complicated..." (ua-cam.com/video/xXAoG8vAyzI/v-deo.htmlsi=4OfHy9J1Yct1JDpI)
Comic recommendation: "Us" by Sara Soler (ISBN 978-1-50673-418-7)
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We've been getting a lot of silly comments on this video about "autogynophilia", which is debunked fringe theory from the 80s that has gained some traction. We refer to this video by Natalie Wynn: ua-cam.com/video/6czRFLs5JQo/v-deo.htmlsi=MsB_fq2ndyp5OGHq
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How did we do it? It wasn't all that difficult, to be honest, despite what many may think! It's about mutual respect, communication (!!!) and appreciation - spoiler alert! Wouldn't you know it, you can actually try all of the above out on us! Just follow the links: Instagram: Wives vs World: bit.ly/3phFSeM Anya: bit.ly/3FjcXjy Jackie: bit.ly/3Qo2HJP Jackie's tattoos: tinyurl.com/ykhvhsh5 TikTok...
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PART 2 OF 2! Phew, I think we've answered as many questions as we can! Kudos to us, well done! But alas, there is no time to rest! We are off to make even more videos for all of you guys! If we didn't say it enough, here goes one more time: Thank you for all the likes, comments and subscriptions! You are truly the wind beneath our wings! Speaking of things we may or may not have said a couple o...
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As a renowned trans/cis lesbian couple, we often find ourselves pondering the question: how would things have been different had we both been trans? We are far from an authority on T4T relationships (see Twitter for a massive pool of samples if interested), but we do have thoughts! Would it have been easier or more difficult had we both been trans? Would we have been able to vibe more? And woul...
Transgender Couple Answers Most Asked Questions
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From hard hitting questions like "How did you know?" to absolute stupid garbage like "Do you hate men?", we are here to answer the questions we just seem to get over and over and over! For real, some of these questions will deserve a proper answer and some won't - but it's a grey area, and it's just not possible to outright say that certain questions will never be answered. It's hard y'all! Spe...
I Love My Partner Because...
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It's so important to let our loved ones know how we feel from time to time, especially when the world is crazy and we all feel like life's too hectic ❤️ Thanks to everyone for all the love you showed our last video! We are going to record a bunch of new ones for you during the coming weeks, and then our uploads will hopefully pick up again on a twice a month basis or something like that! Anyway...
The Trans Button Test and Gendered Experience
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This 'test' may not give a perfect answer, but it does give some sort of indication! We can't wait to hear what you guys think - if you're not out, would you press the button? And even if you are, what would you do? While you're at it, there are SO many other buttons you can click - like, post, subscribe... Oh gosh, the possibilities are endless! Why not just click them all, then you won't have...
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Original title: Haters Gonna Hate People online say the darndest things sometimes, so why not turn that into a funny video and make something beautiful from all that nonsense? We have gotten so many positive and lovely comments through the years, but for every 99 wonderful messages we read, 1 will be absolutely ridiculous! Something else that is absolutely ridiculous? Well, our other online thi...
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But besides flipping our lives upside down, nothing much happened! Having been in 2024 for a while, what’s your take on 2023? They say hindsight is 20/20, so now’s as good a time as any :b Speaking of hindsight, you really should have popped by some of our other socials to say hi ; ) - if you haven’t, here are some helpful links: Instagram: Wives vs World: bit.ly/3phFSeM Anya: bit.ly/3FjcXjy Ja...
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What We Learned After 3 Years of Marriage
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In this video we talk about some of the things we've learned since we got married three years ago! Even after 3 years of marriage (and even longer together), you still learn so much and change fundamentally ❤️ Looking for something else that will change you fundamentally? I mean, our other SoMe accounts are right here, so... 👉👈👀 Instagram: Wives vs World: bit.ly/3phFSeM Anya: bit.ly/3FjcXjy Jac...
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What's With These Danish Traditions?
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What's the story Behind Our Tattoos?!
Our First Impression of Each Other?!
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Our First Impression of Each Other?!
Both looks here in this video are absolutely stunning
Thank you so much! 🥰
I'm so glad that you found a way to unlock confident, joyous Jackie! What a waste for the world that so many sad (potential) trans people don't have that yet...
as a trans lesbian that just started HRT a bit more than a month ago, I'd say T4T is my only option. I have had experiences with cis sapphics that weren't super wholesome, sometimes it was just me being a complete mess but I sensed there was performative allyship going around and I don't really wanna expose myself to that until I'm truly confident about myself.
love you two so romantic and warm youve had a lovely a lovely history together well done xx
I just need I could find someone as beautiful and cool. The world just feels like a sacary place where I am just unffitable. its pure paranoia since I figured ot out, because I always been a lonely person with social anxiety. Im really struggling trying to not hate myself more than I did before I understood what it was. seeing your relationship gives it a little hope.
Why would I transition to be with a man?😭
loverly colour coordination ladies puts me to shame.
I am trans and proud of who I am 🎉
As it should be! 🥰❤️
I'm very glad you are both happy! And crazily cute! Mostly very happy for you! That is awesome
I love watching your videos because you are both so cute together. But I also don't like watching them, because I get serious envy of your looks. It's a difficult dichotomy. I hope I can look even half as good in a couple years time! Thank you for posting.
How interesting. In my personal experience, I've never ever met someone who is a transgender woman that is NOT attracted to women and only men. I never imagined that this case is seen as surprising and rare. How very interesting! Anyway, so glad you guys found each other ❤ you're a gorgeous couple. Beautiful chemistry ~
The blonde one looks just like the Harley Quinn
My wife really appreciated hearing Anya's perspective, as we're in a similar situtation right now. It's validating. Thanks
So happy to hear that! ❤️✨️ much love to you both!
The difficult thing for me is when I get into my own head. I find someone that I want to connect with but then I convince myself that she'll never see me as dating material due to what's between my legs, or that my voice isn't soft enough. I've been my biggest obstacle. Fear & panic have stopped me & been a true catalyst for many tears. I gave up trying for a few years. Fortunately I have made some good progress so things are looking up & heading in a positive direction.
The only way the surgery question is relevant to me, is in the sense of "are you going to be going through a huge process to get surgery, and then the horrendous recovery after? And what is my part to play in that for you?"
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How about being trans & asexual?
I have had multiple stays in hospital due to pancreatitus and the doctors and nurses were so confused that my next of kin is my cis-gender WIFE. I just say, " I'm a baroness ( true ) so I love whomever I like. " They rush off to check my dossier and get a lot more respectful afterwards. Even the porters come to visit the resident nobility. It's hilarious. But yeah people can be stupid.
That is WILD tbh 😂
@@WivesVsWorld ... Yes, the Trans-lesbian concept is beyond most people. I hope they lose sleep over it.
Game over trumps in town 😮
We aren't American, so his executive orders and domestic policies won't directly impact us, but even if we were, we would continue to be true to ourselves and our love ❤️ It's scary times indeed, but we have to hold on to what matters, our loved ones, and our communities ❤️
What a beautiful couple 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
😂😂😂 that song is so hilarious and offensive at the same time🎉 so appropriate for this!
I'm a trans woman who was kinda fores by my parents to marry my then gf now wife Now me and my wife opened to a polyamorous relationship 4 years now and still sharing the same bed
Thanks for talking about this! I had this experience when getting a wig. My hairdresser immediately jumped into the whole, “So we’re gonna get you something super glam so those men are gonna be really checking you out”. She was incredibly disappointed when I told her I wanted short hair cause I’m a lesbian lol. The disappointed she showed was so palatable haha. I’m now in a beautiful relationship with a cis woman. 🥰🖤
So nice. I just noticed how femme Anya looks in the adorable cartoon of you two, and Jackie's there in denim dungarees! I feel like we might need an updated version of this some time, if there isn't one already? 🙂
This is adorable. I'm not a lesbian (I like men too) but I'm cheering for you both!! 🥰 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
You, sir, on the left: what makes a transwoman not a man, but a woman? Wha tis it? 🤔
Oh my god, the helluva boss reference. 🤣
My boyfriend is a trans man (he came out when we were just friends) and he's mostly attracted to men but he also started to be really attracted to me (a woman, at least I think so for now) specifically
I'm a late bloomer but I knew as early (or late) as 16 years old that I am a feminine soul that loves women, so in my mind that was the reason to latch on to my birth gender for as long as I could convince myself until I gave up and started hormones at 25 years old lol. The hormones made me realise then that I like men, and the idea of being with one felt very gender affirming. Fast forward I'm now in my late 30-ies and I am happily together with my bisexual boyfriend for a few years. I thought I was mostly straight but lately I've felt my attraction for women nagging at my core and after talking with my bf about it a lot I've finally accepted that I am at the very least bi. I probably won't be with another girl in this lifetime because I love and want to stay with my bf, but the thought of what my own body needs to be in an intimate situation has finally brought me certainty into moving forward with getting an SRS in the future. I've been non-op for the longest time because I was afraid to regret it and perhaps the idea of being with a girl would make that thing handy to have around, but now I realise I'd regret it even more if I couldn't experience my own body as I wished it could have been born as. I don't need that thing if I'd ever be with a girl lol, let alone with my bf 😂 Thank you for sharing your stories, you two are a lovely couple and very inspiring! 🥰
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Trans girlie here! I remember always wishing I could wake up as a girl or imagining what it would be like to live as one. Back then, I thought, “Everyone has these kinds of daydreams, right?” It took me years to actually figure out what was behind those feelings. A friend of mine took me to one of the most popular Pride parades in our country, and that’s when I first saw a trans girlie. At that point, I was already heavily questioning my sexuality, but I didn’t even know being trans was a possibility-I just didn’t know trans people existed. The realization hit me like a wall of bricks: What if that’s what I’ve been missing all this time? What if that’s the missing piece to why I’ve never been truly happy, even when I felt like I should be? I started wandering around the internet and found Reddit communities like r/egg_irl and r/trans. I wanted to see if I had something in common with the people there. To my surprise (or not), I saw myself in nearly every post and meme. That only left me more confused. What does this mean? Am I trans? How do I figure that out on my own? I decided to look for a therapist who could help me out. After months of searching without any luck, I finally found one and started therapy with her. That’s where my journey began. Fast forward to now: I’ve been in therapy for three years, on hormones for two, and just had my consultation for bottom surgery! Through this journey, I found my wonderful (cis) girlfriend, and we’ve been inseparable ever since. Living as a transbian is HARD. It feels like you’re breaking not one but two societal norms, and people either don’t understand or struggle to empathize. But honestly? That doesn’t matter. I’ve never felt so good about myself. I’ve never felt more right or complete, and I wouldn’t change who I am for anything or anyone. <3
I’m a trans girl in a relationship with another trans girl, the connection we share and the depth of our love is something I feel would rival some of the greatest love stories ever told. I was always attracted to women and my partner is the same. We’ve had similar and very confused reactions but when they find out just how pure and beautiful our love for each other is, then it makes sense to most. Loved the video 🩷✌️
I kept asking myself, what if I regret transitioning but then someone asked me if I might regret not transitioning and I realize I already do
I didn't feel like I was allowed to be trans so I thought often "oh, no worries it's too hard to transition anyway" and I feel like I've lost a lot of time because of it, but I've started my transition, I really wanted to take t-blocker and E because I wanted to be able to show and feel my sadness (I could never get to that point of being sad without bottling up a lot). I kinda want a couple surgeries but I doubt I'll do it, though if I get to a good point in life I'll do it
I guess this would be me, when out with my cis Mrs and all the guys stare at her and not me - bonus!! :)
Hmmm hejjo bejo 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😍😍😍😍😍☺️ Im a Trans intersex (bisex women)
I’m a lesbian inside too, but she identifies as a straight guy.
Seems like a lot of the commenters were straight men in relationships or marriages with women, and their relationship continued after he transitioned to female. That made their pre-existing straight relationship a lesbian relationship. Very interesting to think how about a relationship of that type differs from that of a post-transition female (MTF) who meets a cis-lesbian and they have a relationship.
Hi! I'm transfem, and so is my girlfriend. I've had a crush on her since shortly after we met in ~2018. She and I were both cis then and neither of us were able to transition at that time due to pressure from now cut off family and school on both of our ends of things. Around 2020 she started transitioning, and in 2022 I began doing the same. She was the first person I talked to about me being trans, because I knew that I could trust her and that she'd have something to say to help me. We've both been growing since then, and although neither of us are anywhere close to being done with our transitions, we're content with where we're at for the time being. Around November last year I asked her out, and ever since then it's just been magical. I love her so much, and she loves me. Neither one of us judge the other for their past or how their transition is going, and we support eachother in every way possible. She has done more good for me than anyone else ever has, and I genuinely believe that one day, when things have calmed down, I'm going to ask her to marry me. It's a long road to get there, as she is stuck in the US and I'm in Canada, but it's a road that I want to walk down. For the first time in my life, I dont see myself dead by 10 years time, and thats all because of her. I actually look forward to the future, and I want to keep going, to keep fighting, to keep existing just so that I can be with her. I dont care how hard the road that's coming may be, I will do anything for her. She is the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I'm so happy because of her. Julie, if you somehow find this, I love you so much, and I will never stop fighting for a future with you in it.
I'm gonna cry :') wish you two all the best!!
As a recently hatched (last year) trans lesbian my main issue/fear is finding a partner - I don't look feminine by any means, having only recently started my transition, so I feel super unattractive to potential Cis lesbian partners. And even dating a bi person doesn't guarantee them not losing interest in the "new me" further down the line. Realising that my potential dating pool has vanished to nothing is a bit sad, but... it's still worth it, no longer having to lie to myself and being who I truly am, after 35 years.
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if i get more motivation (hopefully soon) and i make fan-art of you guys how should i send it to you? i also might forget but hopefully ill remember
I am a transwoman attracted to women but so many women are not able to see me as a person. There is still that stigma that they will be labelled Gay. It puts me in the position of not knowing where I fit in as I am not attracted to men in anyway shape or form.
What a wonderful video. This came on my feed. Be what you want to be and live your own life. More people should watch this video and listen and care what others feel and want to be. Anya and Jackie , very well done.
So I started HRT three and a half months ago and after hearing from quite a few people who's attraction changed on estrogen one of my biggest fears was actually that I could start to find men attractive. Turns out it just widened the spectrum of women I find attractive. 😅
Such a sweet video! I'm excited to have found your channel. I'm pretty much in the same situation with my girlfriend and it's kinda funny to see the confusion on people's face when they see two transfemmes together.