My spouse and I have been married almost 15 years and we're both figuring ourselves out later in life. He's non-binary and he/him now, and I'm trans and she/her now. I've only started transitioning this year and it's complicated but we're in couples counseling and it's good. The funny thing is how little our children care. Still Mom and Dad to them. Thanks for putting yourselves out there as a great trans couple. Love you two!
I dont know what I love the idea of more. I know Im late to the game here and right at the start of the video so it may be made clear. However, which is cuter, the idea that those are the actual dresses that they got married in and we get to share in the pretty, or they bought those dresses PURELY for this video. I love both ideas.
Once upon a time, and after observations, the second part of the happiest couple's life began... So peaceful and necessary these days. Maybe life isn't like we want every day, but with such a relationship it's easier ! Sincerely, wish you the best.♥
Omg you two are so cute together. I haven't been following you that long, but you've helped me so much with my own relationship, especially because I'm still quite young and inexperienced when it comes to dating. I love you guys (you're so cool) and stay happy. ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
A relationship is a rollercoaster....it demands a lot for each side to keep the bonds together...it's not a fair (50-50) relation.....sometimes someone has to "give up"...
I love you as couple!! I've been missing your videos! I love the way you (two) have grown up...and how you're becoming a really stronger couple...both of you look amazing in your wedding dresses
Oh, I absolutely relate to Anya. I've needed my space and breathing room ever since I was a newborn. I'm in a yucky apartment complex right now and I HATE it. But in just about a week I'll be moving to a nice little spot in the country on 2.5 acres where I can actually breathe and even feed raccoon families by hand haha. Anya, I bought a shirt on Amazon that says "Hell Is Other People" (the Sartre quote) and it has birdies and flowers on it in contrast lol. You might want to buy one too.
I would love a video if possible on Jackie’s hair care routine. I’m a 31 year old trans woman and going to dermatologist because I am concerned of hair loss. And looking to see what others are doing to prevent hair loss
I was also reading that because I’m on estradiol and spironolactone that it is possible that overtime I could get really gross of hair that I may have lost during male pattern baldness I don’t know how true this is but definitely thinking about the finasteride as well because that sounds like somethings that would be worthwhile
Also, if worse comes to worse, I am thinking about getting hair transplant. Where they take pieces of your hair and regrow them into your head until I can have the perfect head of hair that I want because I know what style I want my hair to be as I live full-time as a woman but I don’t believe I would be able to achieve that with the way my hair is right now wish I had transitioned when I was a little child then I would have not been introduced to testosterone, and this could be achieved I believe.
This is interesting, i would absolutely be ope to a relationship if it was with the right person. Personaly i am more like Anja here, i hired a flat for a few years but i could not stand living in a crowded are for that long, neither being suronded by people who where completely incapale of thinking out actualy working solutions. ha ha one thing i would not compromize about would be if someone alwys wanted to stop things i wanted to do only because they where not actualy interested, probably because i hawe to much really bad experience from that in my past life from my relatives, one can change one self but one can not forecfully change other people into something of one selfs own desire, regardless of it being with good intentions or not. Your dreams are yours, not something that can be applied to other people and expecting the person living Your own dream and being happy, i where not. Probably that's why i am still single... ha ha
Hey girls, do you have an open relationship? I mean... you interact sexually with others? I (cis girl) and my girlfriend (trans girl) are trying to stay together. She wants to stay with other people, but I don't want that. I'm demissexual and want a monogamic relationship and she looks like she wants more, I'm not enough. Do you girls know a sollution? Have you ever been through this? Sorry to ask, by the way...
Oh damn, that's a really tough question 🤔 We are kinda non-monogamous, but we probably wouldn't be if one of us had a problem with it. If both partners are ok with it then it's fine, even if just one of you want to explore it, but if you can't see yourself in a relationship where a partner wants other partners, I feel like you need to have a frank talk. You can't set boundaries for her, but you can set them for yourself, you know what I mean? I obviously don't know the specifics, but you guys need to be open about what bothers you about it and why she wants to explore it, and maybe you can work through it ❤️
Yeah, actually, we are talking about it. I'm insecure, so this is kinda hard to talk about. I'm in therapy, so I might get more confident with myself so that doesn't affect my relationship with people (not only my gf). I would love to know how does that dinamic works in your relationship if it is possible and not expose yourselves too much... Thank you for answering me, you guys are awesome and very inspiring.
Totally understandable - as your confidence grows, it may change how you perceive the situation, who knows? Likewise your insecurity and feelings of self-worth (guessing here, might be a reach) may very well impact your experience of your partner's curiosity. For us the dynamic has always been about acknowledging crushes and desires openly, and by doing that we've gotten really used to discussing it as part of our relationship - be that if we saw someone attractive on the train or had a dream about someone we know, it just feels quite natural to talk about it and explore the feelings together, even if one of us are acting less on it than the other ^^
My spouse and I have been married almost 15 years and we're both figuring ourselves out later in life. He's non-binary and he/him now, and I'm trans and she/her now. I've only started transitioning this year and it's complicated but we're in couples counseling and it's good. The funny thing is how little our children care. Still Mom and Dad to them. Thanks for putting yourselves out there as a great trans couple. Love you two!
I dont know what I love the idea of more. I know Im late to the game here and right at the start of the video so it may be made clear.
However, which is cuter, the idea that those are the actual dresses that they got married in and we get to share in the pretty, or they bought those dresses PURELY for this video. I love both ideas.
Hahaha well I assume you got your answer - that those are indeed the dresses we got married in :')
Once upon a time, and after observations, the second part of the happiest couple's life began... So peaceful and necessary these days. Maybe life isn't like we want every day, but with such a relationship it's easier ! Sincerely, wish you the best.♥
Omg you two are so cute together. I haven't been following you that long, but you've helped me so much with my own relationship, especially because I'm still quite young and inexperienced when it comes to dating. I love you guys (you're so cool) and stay happy. ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
Love the lessons and I’d love to see a continuation ❤
A relationship is a rollercoaster....it demands a lot for each side to keep the bonds together...it's not a fair (50-50) relation.....sometimes someone has to "give up"...
I love you as couple!! I've been missing your videos! I love the way you (two) have grown up...and how you're becoming a really stronger couple...both of you look amazing in your wedding dresses
I love how I see myself in both of you and the lessons you've learned are some super solid ones that I'm sure many couples could learn from ❤
BTW, your dresses still fit you!! and congrats for 3 years and for next ones to come!!! we have to celebrate!!!
Im so happy for you guys ! Love wins !
Oh, I absolutely relate to Anya. I've needed my space and breathing room ever since I was a newborn. I'm in a yucky apartment complex right now and I HATE it. But in just about a week I'll be moving to a nice little spot in the country on 2.5 acres where I can actually breathe and even feed raccoon families by hand haha. Anya, I bought a shirt on Amazon that says "Hell Is Other People" (the Sartre quote) and it has birdies and flowers on it in contrast lol. You might want to buy one too.
I would love a video if possible on Jackie’s hair care routine. I’m a 31 year old trans woman and going to dermatologist because I am concerned of hair loss. And looking to see what others are doing to prevent hair loss
If you are taking t-blockers you could consider adding finasteride. Some of the testosterone converts to DHT and that can lead to hair loss.
@@laurasnow7822 thank you can you find it over the counter
@@laurasnow7822 yes I’m on spironolactone
I was also reading that because I’m on estradiol and spironolactone that it is possible that overtime I could get really gross of hair that I may have lost during male pattern baldness I don’t know how true this is but definitely thinking about the finasteride as well because that sounds like somethings that would be worthwhile
Also, if worse comes to worse, I am thinking about getting hair transplant. Where they take pieces of your hair and regrow them into your head until I can have the perfect head of hair that I want because I know what style I want my hair to be as I live full-time as a woman but I don’t believe I would be able to achieve that with the way my hair is right now wish I had transitioned when I was a little child then I would have not been introduced to testosterone, and this could be achieved I believe.
Love this vid!! I’m a totally city girl and my gf is a country girl too lol 💖🥰
This is interesting, i would absolutely be ope to a relationship if it was with the right person.
Personaly i am more like Anja here, i hired a flat for a few years but i could not stand living in a crowded are for that long, neither being suronded by people who where completely incapale of thinking out actualy working solutions. ha ha one thing i would not compromize about would be if someone alwys wanted to stop things i wanted to do only because they where not actualy interested, probably because i hawe to much really bad experience from that in my past life from my relatives, one can change one self but one can not forecfully change other people into something of one selfs own desire, regardless of it being with good intentions or not. Your dreams are yours, not something that can be applied to other people and expecting the person living Your own dream and being happy, i where not. Probably that's why i am still single... ha ha
Hey girls, do you have an open relationship? I mean... you interact sexually with others?
I (cis girl) and my girlfriend (trans girl) are trying to stay together. She wants to stay with other people, but I don't want that. I'm demissexual and want a monogamic relationship and she looks like she wants more, I'm not enough.
Do you girls know a sollution? Have you ever been through this?
Sorry to ask, by the way...
Oh damn, that's a really tough question 🤔
We are kinda non-monogamous, but we probably wouldn't be if one of us had a problem with it. If both partners are ok with it then it's fine, even if just one of you want to explore it, but if you can't see yourself in a relationship where a partner wants other partners, I feel like you need to have a frank talk. You can't set boundaries for her, but you can set them for yourself, you know what I mean?
I obviously don't know the specifics, but you guys need to be open about what bothers you about it and why she wants to explore it, and maybe you can work through it ❤️
Yeah, actually, we are talking about it. I'm insecure, so this is kinda hard to talk about. I'm in therapy, so I might get more confident with myself so that doesn't affect my relationship with people (not only my gf).
I would love to know how does that dinamic works in your relationship if it is possible and not expose yourselves too much...
Thank you for answering me, you guys are awesome and very inspiring.
Totally understandable - as your confidence grows, it may change how you perceive the situation, who knows? Likewise your insecurity and feelings of self-worth (guessing here, might be a reach) may very well impact your experience of your partner's curiosity.
For us the dynamic has always been about acknowledging crushes and desires openly, and by doing that we've gotten really used to discussing it as part of our relationship - be that if we saw someone attractive on the train or had a dream about someone we know, it just feels quite natural to talk about it and explore the feelings together, even if one of us are acting less on it than the other ^^
You were straight couple , ?! And become Gay couple ?! 😅
I mean, kinda? 😅
@@WivesVsWorld happy for you .