How This Trans/Cis Lesbian Couple Stayed Together
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- How did we do it? It wasn't all that difficult, to be honest, despite what many may think!
It's about mutual respect, communication (!!!) and appreciation - spoiler alert!
Wouldn't you know it, you can actually try all of the above out on us! Just follow the links:
Instagram:
Wives vs World: bit.ly/3phFSeM
Anya: bit.ly/3FjcXjy
Jackie: bit.ly/3Qo2HJP
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Anya's Author Website: bit.ly/3w4Eikh
Art by the talented Lukaël at / lukael
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As a saphic trans girl whose dream is to marry one day, your channel gives me a lot of hope that one day I will find my soulmate.
That is so beautiful 🥺 they're right around the corner! We'll help you manifest it ❤️✨️
@@WivesVsWorldyou did the same for me but why is it taking so long! 😠
You can't rush these things 😜
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Y'all make me feel so hopeful about romance. Positive stuff online is such a blessing. 🥰
It's what we're here for ❤️❤️❤️
I think the English equivalent is "touch starved" where you specifically don't get enough physical contact to the point where you crave it.
yeah that sounds right :3
True, that is a very good equivalent! 🥰
I love you guys. You're just amazing! I'm 76 and married 42 years, and I'm learning all kinds of stuff from you about relationships.
Oh that is such a wonderful compliment!! Thank you so much for saying that ❤️ sending you much love!
Anya and Jackie: My relationship with my wife began 51 years ago in high school as best friends and fellow outcasts at school and home. The unspoken thing in your video that resonated with me was how much you value each other as friends and how that manifests in the lasting and abiding love you have again, with each other. It’s palpable in everything you two share in your videos about your lives, but I think friendship begets loyalty and love. At least, that’s how I see it…
I stumbled onto your YT channel a couple of days ago with a three-year-old you video two did. It felt so genuine, kind and self-deprecatingly fun to watch, I had to hit the sub button.
Apart from that friendship thing, your video touched so many sweet spots that people in relationship - regardless of sexual preference - need to hear. You two are teachers and role models that people, young and not so young, need to hear more from.
Thanks so much for sending positive vibes from Denmark to Central Texas and please keep talking to us and each other. The world needs thought leaders like you. ❤️❤️❤️
Wayne
PS Anya: Replace skin hunger for affection. It works for me!
This message was so beautiful it brought tears to our eyes :') thank you so much for all the kindness ❤️ we're so happy you're enjoying the videos and that the lessons transcend sexulalities ✨️ I think you're so very right - being friends with your partner is an important thing for growing truly close ❤️✨️
How to stay together, step 1: be a little silly
Isn't that just the truth 🙌
A Smile. A true Genuine Simple Smile. That Shows how You are contented in their presence.
Oh yes, there's nothing better than seeing your partner smile ❤️
Y'all are just too cute. 💗
As a trans femme in a married relationship of 20 years (we started dating at age 17), I fully endorse all of your recommendations and deeply relate to all of your habits. Communication and low-key intimacy is 100% the whole thing.
Sending you both big hugs. 💜
Aw that's amazing!! So happy to hear you agree ❤️
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️ much love to you both!
A lot of married couples could learn so much from this lovely couple. Being open & willing to listen & affirm each other is so important. These ladies have put a lot of work & effort in to creating this lovely relationship. Keep these messages coming ladies. Your honesty & openness in sharing your journey is much appreciated. Inspired & envious. B.❤❤
Aww thank you so much for all your kind words :')) you're the sweetest ❤️
Number 1 rule: Never intentionally say anything hurtful to each other, if you accidently do, APOLOGIZE IMMEDIATELY. Why could anyone hurt someone they really love?
I always had difficulties finding a romantic partner as i was younger since i am an intersex man who is stuck in a female appearing Body. I was always putting distance to a partner since i always thought they can't be that interested in me physically. What i did not knew was that it was just me not accepting myself. So as i overcame that hurdle stuff becane so much easier. I also noticed that open and honest communicaion is extremly important but of course honest but not brutal. There is always a way to bring your point across without hurting your loved one.
I'm a trans woman. I very much understand and have had similar difficulties. Accepting yourself and communication are so key. You're absolutely right.
So happy you've overcome that and have experienced that being true to yourself is the best way to connect with others ❤️
Thank you the dysphoria sometimes can be a bit much and still is.But as i accepted myself i gained confidence wich seems to be be the Most important when looking for a partner and in General also.
i am 52 and have married to my wife for over 30 years and we have raised 4 kids... the longer it goes.. the more i realize.... i have no idea... and can only say she is amazing... end of story... do not know how she has put up with me.... I can say for me.. i NEVER SPEAK ILL OF HER! Not at work.. not in social environments... not to our kids... ALWAYS Positive
Great advice. Honest communication is definitely key. I love what you said about when you have an issue, finding a solution together rather than one vs the other.
I noticed in the videos straight away how much you praise each other and tell each other the things that you love all of the time. That is lovely and I think that it makes a big difference in a relationship.
It's always important to be a safe place where your partner can be vulnerable without fear of ridicule. You should be able to come to each other with anything and feel supported.
Thank you for the video. I loved it, as always ❤.
Thank you so much for all the kind words, you are just the sweetest! Thank you for putting a smile on our faces with every comment ❤️ much love from the both of us!
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watching this has been lovely, and not just because you two are soooo cute together 🥺
You've helped me think about how i can communicate to my girlfriend that there are things she does that bother me, but it doesnt make me think any less of her. I've also realized that I can ask for appreciation while not necessarily implying that I don't enjoy taking care of her, just that I want to be recognized for it a little more! Thank you so much for making this video, I dream of being in a relationship like yours someday
This is such a wonderful comment! So happy it could provide some perspective 🥰 I hope it goes well and your relationship will become even stronger ❤️ much love!
Those are AMAZING tips, im saving this video just so I could rewatch it and practice with my girlfriend ❤
As for my tip to stay in a good relationship would be to get to know their friends and family (if they have a family and if they love their family, because not everyone has that). And not only get to know them but befriend them too, and be part of their partner's life and relationship circles.
So happy to hear that, thank you so much!!
Oh that sure is a great tip too! ✨️
You guys make me feel very hopeful about life. I end up watching your old content most days because I just need a pick-me-up knwoing that at least some people out there are happy. I'm 26, I've been out for almost 4 years, and I'm still no closer to any medical care (hooray for hte NHS), while I'll never transition as flawlessly as Jackie you guys remind me there's light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for doing what you do.
Also Jackie's eyes in this light are astonishingly green, like an emerald would sell it's soul to be that green. I'm jealous.
Aw this is so sweet ;A; thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
Sorry to hear the system sucks so much 🥺 you deserve better. And there is absolutely so much light and so much love in your future!!
Right, aren't they amazing? ;A; no wonder that's what made me fall for her:')
@@WivesVsWorld I needed this today, had awful dysphoria all day. It's still there but a nice comment like yours makes me smile a little. I hope you guys have a great day.
You are so very strong, so much stronger than you think and stronger than the dysphoria ❤️ you can do this and we have your back ❤️
@@WivesVsWorld I'm just curled up in bed watching your videos and some chess so I guess in that sense you do haha. I tried dressing more femme to combat the feeling but alas it backfired.
That's so valid, that happens! Dysphoria is a hell of a beast. If you need a pick me up later though, send me a pic on Instagram and let me tell you how cute you are ❤️
You two are adorable, and as a fellow trans lesbian your relationship is goals!
Awww that's so wonderful to hear :') thank you so much!! ❤️
This is such a beautiful video.
Ahhhh you two give me such happy feels.
So happy you enjoyed it!
Thank you so much, that's such a kind thing to say :') ❤️
@@WivesVsWorld It's good to see the kind of relationship that I have with my nesting partner reflected elsewhere. :) It's pretty rare for that kind of experience to be talked about, and I think it does a lot of good for people to see it.
Thank you for being so open about your experiences!!
All I can say is thank you for the fantastic tips but more so that I hope they become relevant to me as well before too long 😅
Also by the gods the outfits are always so good!!
Edit: And gods the outro outcuts were so damn wholesome, perfect for seeing on a rainy day in the fjord 💙
They'll probably become relevant before you know it!! ✨️❤️
And thank you so much, that's so kind of you!
Hahaha so happy you like the outro clips ❤️
YOU OBVIOUSLY LOVE EACH OTHER, TRUE LOVE WILL TRANSCEND ALL BOUNDIERS & WALLS...
It's true ❤️✨️
I really liked the way you talked about the changes you had to make in your own personality flaws. Maybe it could be something to talk about in the next video, how do we reflect on ourselves in a relationship?
I'm thankful to have an amazing partner, however, she's only recently understood that she's trans. Do you have any tips on how I can boost her confidence in terms of helping to find friends and go back to society as this true person? Do you think it's her own path or should we try to find trans friends together? I'm afraid to overstep my boundaries but also, we've never had common friends together and it's one of my secret wishes!
Thank you for your amazing videos, you always bring positivity 🧡
I'm so happy to see a new video from you two, and to see so much of what my wife and I do on your list! My wife and I have both been married before and I hope that we can keep the magic alive as long as you two have and longer.
Thank you so much ❤️ I'm sure you can! You've had experience with what works and what doesn’t and know how to prioritise ✨️ much love to you both!
In Korean culture, they have a term called "skinship" (a portmanteau of "skin" and "kinship") similar to what you described as "skin hungry".
Interesting! So cool how different cultures come up with the same ideas!
Greta video, but i got distracted by LEGO D&D set 😋 I collect LEGO sets, mainly Star Wars ships 😁
Hahha yesss a fellow lego nerd! ❤️
Amazing advice!! Your so right about asking how each others day was, it sounds simple at first but it can turn into a really great talk about each others daily experiences and feelings
also I always feel sooo comfy watching your videos, they brighten my day💜
It's honestly feels like a little cheat code, hahaha 🥰❤️
Thank you for watching our stuff ❤️❤️
I love you two ❤😊. Such a beautiful relationship !
Thank you so much, you're the sweetest ❤️
Hoi Jacky and Anya that was a funny video i loved thank you greetings from the netherlands❤✌👍
So happy you enjoyed it! Thank you so much! 🥰❤️
@@WivesVsWorld Thank you too✌👍❤
You two are such a cute inspiration. ❤
NUMBER 1 RULE: NEVER, NEVER SAY ANYTHING RUDE OR HURTFUL TO SOMEONE YOU LOVE, BITE YOUR TONGUE IF YOU HAVE TO, JUST DON'T HURT THEIR FEELINGS...
And maybe if something is bothering you, find a constructive way to bring it up ❤️
Endnu en skøn video
Tusind tak, hvor er du bare sød ❤️
Sweet but also deep. ✨️
Happy you liked it, darling ❤️
You two are very cute! ☺️
Thank you so much! 🥰
Jackie love your clothes❤
it amazes me every video just how much they both slay
Aaahhh you're both too kind, thank you so much!! ❤️
@@WivesVsWorld a compliment earned, it's very late though, do sleep well (I am a hypocrite)
I love your videos so much
That is so kind of you to say, thank you so much!! 🥺❤️
How many times have i made that mistake 0:00 xD
Hahaaaa glad it's not just me 🥲
You're both very sweet 🥺 my girlfriend and I are very similar, so that's a great sign for our future
Aw that's so wonderful to hear! Thank you ❤️
Banana bread of love
Hell yeah
What is banana bread if not full of love? 🤷♀️
@@WivesVsWorld so true!
"banana bread at work" is a great meme also
OK I don't comment on youtube at all, but I need to know where that plaid white shirt is from 😭 I've been trying to find a simple one like that for ages
I bought it at a thriftstore years ago ^^; but the label says H&M
@@WivesVsWorld AH ok that is great! I'll try and search for it on Vinted
@@WivesVsWorld Actually found it right now on vinted! Im copying your outfit, respectfully 😆
@@MoonPinetree hahaha please do! ❤️✨️ Happy you found it 🥰
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Do you live separately?
No, not really 🥰
Since we both have a part time job and a business, we have a lot of flexibility. So while Anya can pretty comfortably stay in the countryside, I have to be in the city at least three days a week to be able to tattoo 😅
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