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Peaked Lesbian: When men call themselves butch lesbians
In this chat Kim and I cover a lot of ground, from women with facial hair to coming to terms with being a lesbian. But if you want to cut right to Kim's ultimate peak moment: 59:53
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The Husband Who Wanted to Be Queen: Interview with Trans Widow Ute Heggen Part 2
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Ute's husband told her he was a transsexual in the 80's after the birth of their second child. Her story is a must-hear. Her insights into the men who want to be women is very useful In the conversation around trans ideology and its place in society. This is part 2 of our interview. Ute"s channel: www.youtube.com/@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals uteheggengrasswidow.wordpress.com
The Advocate Rant: Hating Lesbians is So In
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My response to The Advocate's lesbian hating article "Reclaiming lesbian: Why the label ISN'T problematic & the TERFs can't have it". Written by a perv straight man and a bi woman. www.advocate.com/voices/proud-to-be-lesbian
Progressive Patriarchy: Housing Men in Woman’s Spaces
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I attended the @WomensLiberationFront press conference in Madera California. A man who identifies as trans is standing trial for raping two women while he was being housed in a women's prison. Woman II Woman was also there. x.com/womaniiwomaninc?s=21
The Husband Who Wanted to Be Queen: Interview with Trans Widow Ute Heggen Part 1
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Ute's husband told her he was a transsexual in the 80's after the birth of their second child. Her story is a must-hear. Her insights into the men who want to be women is very useful In the conversation around trans ideology and its place in society. This is a 2 part interview. Ute"s channel: www.youtube.com/@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
What Detransition Means to Me
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What Detransition Means to Me
The Peaked Lesbian: Elizabeth says no
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More and more lesbians are speaking out against trans ideology. This is Elizabeth's experience.
The Peaked Lesbian: Arianne's story
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The universe was out to make sure Arianne knew the truth. Arianne is from the Bay Area, the epicenter of trans ideology and queer theory. Great interview with a ton of very insightful observation, including some discussion on the Buddhist position on trans identity. LGBA US, Rivers Coverage: ua-cam.com/play/PLSo_d4oVDJG6KODfFO19eep-WqmS3S7k4.html&si=vimBf0ynPEnrRTUU Arianne's Twitter/X : @AirDhatu
Interview with Maia: Representing the young lesbians story
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In this interview, I sit down with Maia, a 24 year old butch lesbian who desisted from trans identification one year ago. During her later years of trans identification she lived in the Middle East passing as male. Her story is a must-hear. Her interview with Julie Bindel: juliebindel.substack.com/p/maia-a-desister-and-sister Maia's twitter with her speech: x.com/thepeacepoet99/status/177936611...
Lesbian Visibility and Checking In
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Lesbian Visibility and Checking In
A Conversation with Ritchie and Michelle
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A Conversation with Ritchie and Michelle
Interview with Michelle: Discussing her essay "Do as I say, Not as I do"
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Interview with Michelle: Discussing her essay "Do as I say, Not as I do"
The Peaked Lesbian: Interview With Jos
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The Peaked Lesbian: Interview With Jos
Everything is Valid: The crazy things I saw in the trans community
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Everything is Valid: The crazy things I saw in the trans community
The hidden nullification page
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The hidden nullification page
Interview with Beth Bourne
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Interview with Beth Bourne
Critiquing "butch as a gender identity"
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Critiquing "butch as a gender identity"
Let's chat about dogs and stuff: A conversation with Tori
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Let's chat about dogs and stuff: A conversation with Tori
The time I went for a sex change consultation with ​Mang Chen, M.D.
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The time I went for a sex change consultation with ​Mang Chen, M.D.
Discussing an essay about lesbian culture and spaces.
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Discussing an essay about lesbian culture and spaces.
Back into the light: Jessi's story
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Back into the light: Jessi's story
Alternative perspective for butch lesbians approaching transition
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Alternative perspective for butch lesbians approaching transition
Finding love and acceptance
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Finding love and acceptance
Discussing @tullipr substack essay: “Where is the line?”
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Discussing @tullipr substack essay: “Where is the line?”
The pressure on lesbians to date men: An interview with Zinetta
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The pressure on lesbians to date men: An interview with Zinetta
California ballot initiative news 
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California ballot initiative news 
I don’t like Stone Butch Blues
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I don’t like Stone Butch Blues
Transition is nothing new for lesbians
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Transition is nothing new for lesbians
Clothes make the man
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Clothes make the man
Quick hot take! Don’t look to therapist to help
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Quick hot take! Don’t look to therapist to help

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  • @ibeamy
    @ibeamy 3 години тому

    This is all so much more complicated than reality.

  • @heathc148
    @heathc148 6 годин тому

    God loves you! I’m sure Mary is praying for you as well! You can always talk to a friendly Catholic priest :)

  • @cmdr.o7
    @cmdr.o7 17 годин тому

    what I don't get about the trans movement, is the fixation on changing themselves physically into stereotypical ideals of gender roles why is it so important, why dislike the body, just be whatever organism you are, no need to cut yourself to pieces to fit into others ideals, biology is way more complex it's like the trendy thing is to be anti-nature, anti-what-you-are, why the desire to overrule your physical biology and how your organism was created, you will never improve it with drugs, doctors, only make it worse in nearly every case, less attractive, deformities, diseases, regret so on it's nasty human exploitation, someone else (surgeons, pharma) making money off your misery and destruction you are already free to act any way you want to, why the body dysphoria, that is the damaging part that is forever irreversible the gender obsession is mental and nihilistic cultism, it's just next level piercing/tattoo fad, group induced stupidity any naturally functional organ is better and attractive than a unusable crater that turns into disability over time be weird and crazy whatever but don't destroy your functioning organism

  • @thecognitivedissonant3606
    @thecognitivedissonant3606 18 годин тому

    PCOS is polycystic ovarian syndrome

  • @lovelover4408
    @lovelover4408 День тому

    HUNDREDS? hundreds. In California alone, there are hundreds of men in women’s prison. This is repugnant

  • @MostlyCloudy
    @MostlyCloudy День тому

    "When men call themselves butch lesbians" - L M F A O

  • @user-cc9jy1dg7h
    @user-cc9jy1dg7h День тому

    Mad TV Lesbian coffee shop: ua-cam.com/video/heJ-tha4_Mo/v-deo.html

  • @JackieDaytonaBar
    @JackieDaytonaBar День тому

    why does the woman on the right have facial hair? PCOS?

    • @lindyfenwick6052
      @lindyfenwick6052 День тому

      Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS). Symptoms include, increased facial & body hair ( hirsutism), irregular,& often painful, periods, weight gain, often cysts on ovaries. Can often be familial ( other women in family may have it). Hope that helps 🙂

    • @WHU-lz7gq
      @WHU-lz7gq 20 годин тому

      Yes

    • @JackieDaytonaBar
      @JackieDaytonaBar 30 хвилин тому

      @@lindyfenwick6052 i know of it, and i know women taking T just get the same as PCOS which is why they have facial hair patterns not of men, but of women with PCOS.

  • @rettahbful
    @rettahbful День тому

    I’m totally with you both. 👍🏼

  • @rettahbful
    @rettahbful День тому

    Excellent discussion. The more I listen to these experiences the braver I get. I really need to come out as a TERF.

  • @carolsolomon8834
    @carolsolomon8834 День тому

    ua-cam.com/video/hSD4ry1wtOE/v-deo.htmlsi=zrcGA-MG8MXTGC40 This video changed my life. Tabitha Benjamin explains brilliantly how ‘masculinity’, and ‘femininity’ have been put on a spectrum that flows into the other sex…and shouldn’t. Listen, and get your mind blown.

    • @carolsolomon8834
      @carolsolomon8834 День тому

      Video length is 2:23. You have the time.

    • @SourPatches2077
      @SourPatches2077 День тому

      @@carolsolomon8834 I’ve seen it. It’s a great vid.

    • @carolsolomon8834
      @carolsolomon8834 День тому

      @@SourPatches2077 figured you had. Was hoping other women might take the couple of minutes to watch. It’s not everyday you see a paradigm blown up in so few words!

  • @myplaylist7007
    @myplaylist7007 День тому

    Sorry gay people but i have to say it. Videos i saw on youtube about pride events are basicly " If thats what you want to do then that's okay with us, we still love you reguardless ! ". That's not love that's just agreeing with anyone wants to do and not question it if its bad or not. Like if a person wants there leg cut off these pride goers would most likely be okay with that because its harmful to question what a person wants to do with there body :/

    • @SourPatches2077
      @SourPatches2077 День тому

      Yes, there is a big problem with not saying no to bad things. But I wouldn’t be so quick to lay the blame at gay people’s feet here. We are a very small minority, with out the majority approval and the enormous amounts of money put behind these formally gay orgs we wouldn’t be here. The bulk of the money has come from heterosexual men with a fetish . Follow the money.

    • @myplaylist7007
      @myplaylist7007 19 годин тому

      @@SourPatches2077 Yeah i know what you mean. Its not the gay people fault but people who are part of that group that make the gay people look bad, i realize that now.

  • @QHarbin
    @QHarbin День тому

    Time to develop a grassroots movement for lesbian- only spaces. Since the public domain is not safe, perhaps we need to go back to the early model of secretive member only "salons". My partner and I are in our late 50s and we got to enjoy some of the heyday of lesbian only bars, groups, activism, lesbian culture- before this gender bullshit hit and rendered us homeless, divided, and invisible. But women like you two speaking up make us hopeful that maybe, just maybe, the tide can turn. Operation Lesbian Avenger ReActivate. Let's do it again.

  • @mikeymullins5305
    @mikeymullins5305 День тому

    When people clearly didnt get the point of stone butch blues.... Whatever happened to solidarity

  • @Shinitkun
    @Shinitkun День тому

    ❤❤ thank you for making this video. also yall are so beautiful!

  • @standTallLez00
    @standTallLez00 День тому

    Keep fighting this it's beyond shocking. A Predator should not come before any Victim. The thought this is even happening is Sick how can anyone nevermind a Women think this is suitable. I know a few Women who once backed this no longer do because of this also the Exposure of one's meat/veg in the ladies toilets is not being trans it's agp perverse is the only word for it. Ashame as i know good trans men/women even they say the same about all this. Imagine being attacked by a geeza then the Courts Tell you to call him her Sorry that's a New attack that's a Man end of how dare the system allow any of this Keep the Fight up many support your cause 👏

  • @user-wm9bz5vp4c
    @user-wm9bz5vp4c День тому

    The people who make Palestinian lives 'living hell' are the IDF and the Israeli government. Biggest and most vicious terrorists on the planet!

  • @DT-xz7hb
    @DT-xz7hb 2 дні тому

    For someone so smart and educated, it was really sad hear she has a blind spot when it comes to Israel. Calling the original people of the land ”Arab Israelis” instead Palestinians is a level of delusion higher than any trans delusion

    • @MaiaPoet
      @MaiaPoet 2 дні тому

      I use the term “Arab Israelis” to describe the Arab citizens of Israel who especially since October 7- no longer identify themselves as Palestinians

    • @DT-xz7hb
      @DT-xz7hb День тому

      @@MaiaPoet Thank you for the reply. In that case there would be four groups, rather than the three you described.

  • @ashleykaskeski8045
    @ashleykaskeski8045 2 дні тому

    Great video needs to be discussed I'm a straight woman but when I was younger very much a Tom boy as I got older I started to like the feminine side of me I still got my Tom boy side but love being me I feel like I'm not the only one who went through this stage in there life but I feel Tom boys need to be talked about more.

  • @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh
    @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh 2 дні тому

    I'm a bisexual woman but I don't think bisexuals should go into lesbian only spaces. It's a respect thing and now after everything L's have been through I think L only spaces are important more than ever.

    • @Sarah-lv6ms
      @Sarah-lv6ms 2 дні тому

      I think spaces that center around female same sex attraction should exist and shouldn't have to use terms like "sapphic" or "queer." And that spaces for exclusively homosexual women that have never been attracted to a man should exist. The problem is there's a lot of confusion around which is which. And the second type of space always devolves into goldstar discourse and pushing out the women who might be marginally bisexual...

    • @SourPatches2077
      @SourPatches2077 2 дні тому

      Did we say they should? I don’t recall that. Personally I’m on with bi women in lesbian spaces as long as they keep the man talk away. The issue I get is having to hear them talk about men.

    • @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh
      @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh 2 дні тому

      @@SourPatches2077 No you didn't say they should. You said they can if they are with a lesbian and I agree with that. I think the lateral violence from the trans community towards lesbians has been predatory. I think you need your own spaces to heal. Plus its ok to exclude. Its ok to exclude males identifying as trans and its ok to exclude bisexual women.

    • @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh
      @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh 2 дні тому

      @@Sarah-lv6ms I really like this idea and I agree. I have mostly lesbian friends and I've been observing what they have been going through for years and its heartbreaking. Spaces for women who are same SEX attracted are great but I think lesbians should be aloud to say we want lesbian only spaces to. I've been hanging out with Radical Feminists (because I kept on getting called one). So maybe my perspective is being infludenced by that.

  • @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh
    @PoppyLongbottom-dy9eh 2 дні тому

    I love Butch Lesbians! Sadly they have all become trans men in Australia. Bring them back!!

  • @howardjonesjr7388
    @howardjonesjr7388 2 дні тому

    The therapists are in on it too

  • @AngryLotus2000
    @AngryLotus2000 2 дні тому

    When y’all were talking about women who get off on having sex with men but only on a superficial level, and only like women when it comes to genuine relationships beyond just sex, I audibly said “Oh” out loud. That explains me and I don’t think I’ve heard about other women like that before. I’m sexually attracted to men but only in a superficial way. When it comes to a genuine romantic relationship, I can only imagine myself with another woman.

    • @SourPatches2077
      @SourPatches2077 2 дні тому

      I don’t know if that is quite it. In my wife’s case she was still trying to be straight/bi and the way she managed that was to just use the men. She says she’s never been attracted to men. I would say I’m the same. I actually didn’t like sex with guys at all but forced myself to do it. Not sure how Kim exactly feels on this subject. I will say this, it is sometimes complicated. I think there is some truth to the sliding scale of sexuality, for some people.

    • @AngryLotus2000
      @AngryLotus2000 2 дні тому

      @@SourPatches2077I guess for me personally, I’d say that I’m physically attracted to some men, but not interested in a real relationship with them. A real relationship just seems unappealing. I’m also on the younger side and haven’t really had enough experience to have a fully fleshed out perspective on this.

    • @Sarah-lv6ms
      @Sarah-lv6ms 2 дні тому

      I relate a lot to you. Kind of. I am actually repulsed by the idea of sex with a man. I'm on the younger side too and I've struggled to find the line between "febfem" and lesbian esp non-goldstar lesbians. Because sometimes an older woman that calls herself a lesbian will say something about past relationships/sex with men and hinting at some level of attraction there and I'm like... am I more of a lesbian than you? Because what even counts as real attraction if the idea of sex with a man repulses me? I wouldn't count a straight woman as bisexual if the idea of having sex with a woman disgusted her. So why am I applying a double standard to myself? And then the idea that I should self-exclude from all lesbian spaces depending on what conclusion I draw? Idk it just gets frustrating and I wish there wasn't so much discourse around labels. We're all same sex attracted females, why does our feelings about men have to matter so damn much?

    • @Sarah-lv6ms
      @Sarah-lv6ms 2 дні тому

      febfem = female exclusive bisexual female if you aren't familiar

    • @AngryLotus2000
      @AngryLotus2000 2 дні тому

      @@Sarah-lv6ms I first heard the term febfem from Brittany/ASlightlytwistedfemale. If I have to put a label on myself then that seems like the most fitting one. A little off topic: I’m also pretty butch/masc in my interests and presentation, but those are usually used in the context of lesbians. I usually stick to using the term “gender non conforming”.

  • @vidikat
    @vidikat 2 дні тому

    Carol, thank you for sharing your story. I can see the pain on your face when you relive all of this stuff. But your voice is very important and we need it. Thank you. 🙏

  • @idloveronk
    @idloveronk 2 дні тому

    Ok part one to part two got it.

  • @idloveronk
    @idloveronk 2 дні тому

    What episode of stone butch disco podcast are you on. I find your perspective fascinating and you have a very relaxing voice but at the same time can feel your fierce strength.

  • @sophie20015
    @sophie20015 2 дні тому

    I have that bee in my bonnet, too.

  • @andreacoles5947
    @andreacoles5947 2 дні тому

    Carol you are fabulous and I so appreciate the content you make. As a lesbian in my 50s it's been very difficult in recent years to find lesbian content that reflects my beliefs. Keep up the great work that you do on behalf of our lesbian community ❤

  • @lilacbutch
    @lilacbutch 2 дні тому

    I had such a great time chatting with you Carol, I really appreciate being a part of the conversation you put out here! It was therapeutic in a lot of ways to talk about my frustrations and my perspective with another lesbian who gets it without having to explain so much, because I'm truly no debater and can't neatly tie up every issue. I'm just happy to have found some community in the audience you've grown. And thank you for the supporting screenshots 🤭

    • @ifeoma8112
      @ifeoma8112 2 дні тому

      Thank you for sharing yourself with us. You were a pleasure to listen to. I'm very much like you, except older and sans gf/fiancee. I am also quite disillusioned by lesbian erasure and balk at the idea of dating apps due to censorship if I hint at "terfness." I applaud your honesty and good luck on your upcoming nuptials. Cheers!

  • @dt951
    @dt951 2 дні тому

    I’ve always been a masculine female and much like transitioning, detransitioning to look “feminine” or “pass” as a woman seems just as performative as trying to be a “man”. But I agree with you, I never passed as a woman to begin with but I did miss being recognized as a woman, navigating the world

  • @infinitejack2115
    @infinitejack2115 2 дні тому

    deal with the way you were born ... simple

  • @Spinner773
    @Spinner773 2 дні тому

    This annoys me so much... recently i found this subreddit about butches who lift weights and flex. And like usual when i find a group for the extremely small minority subset i am a part of, its taken over by other people. Biological men flexxing their muscles in that group. You have GOT to be kidding me.

    • @Twinklestar132
      @Twinklestar132 2 дні тому

      I used to be in the ButchLesbians Reddit. I left because so many ppl were trying to redefine what “Butch” meant and of course, the men on there looking for affirmation

    • @Spinner773
      @Spinner773 2 дні тому

      @@Twinklestar132 not surprised. Idk why I keep redownloading reddit it just annoys me. Let me tell you one of the craziest examples, I'm a lesbian who came out late, that's a very small percent of a already small minority so you could understand why an online community is important. I was invited to the discord and when I said there's a bunch of non lesbians in here was told look at the title. Oh my bad, I didn't click on and zoom into the name to see there's actually a plus sign after late bloomer lesbians, so it's for everyone now. Like come on, how do you people understand coming out late as a gay person, why can't we have a space without a bunch of other people speaking for us damn

    • @ifeoma8112
      @ifeoma8112 2 дні тому

      ​@@Spinner773 This is why I often bow out of joining any reddit groups, as much as I would love to. So many "kind, tolerant, bs*ers" that won't take a real stand. Still, isolation sucks. Ugh!

    • @lw9515
      @lw9515 День тому

      ​@@Spinner773 This. Reddit is a joke tbh. Any criticism of them doing stuff like that quickly gets you shut down by their mods.

  • @machine_maggot
    @machine_maggot 2 дні тому

    this is kinda where i’m at. it hurts me because my two older siblings are trans. (ftm AND mtf. adult transitioners.) watching them mutilate their bodies and not be allowed to say anything about it because otherwise i’m a “terf” (the mtf actually did end up calling me one) was the hardest thing anyone i have ever loved has asked me to do. the hormones completely changed them as people. and im told its ok. it’s ok that they are still lost and confused and getting fed lies because supposedly adults can’t be vulnerable. there’s a sick pit in the middle of my stomach that someday they’ll wake up and realize that their “dream” is a nightmare and always was. that the things that were broken before are still broken. only now its not just on the inside, its on the outside too. some things are black and white. i have no hate in my heart for anyone still lost. i just hurt for them

  • @barryledgister4496
    @barryledgister4496 2 дні тому

    The guest is butch, and so visually wants to take on physical aspects that are seen as traditionally masculine, like a beard. So a man wants to take on aspects that are seen as traditionally female (e.g. breasts) then what`s the difference? Increasingly men who opt for SRS but have no hrt or make no attempts to `pass` as women, can call themselves `butch lesbians` if they remain attracted to the opposite sex. If people want to blur the gender lines and get rid of the labels, it has to be for everybody.

    • @scarybabyspice
      @scarybabyspice 2 дні тому

      The major difference is that her body naturally grows facial hair; it's not something she puts on, merely a choice to accept her body as it is. A man deciding to physically or chemically alter his body is the complete opposite. Also, let's not pretend male and female sexuality is equivalent -- men who "want to take on" female secondary sex characteristics likely have a sexual fetish, which reduces women's bodies to parts to be acquired and degrades our female experience. Kim choosing to accept her natural facial hair does not do the same. Your comparison reveals your ignorance.

  • @Cabsnkings
    @Cabsnkings 2 дні тому

    Please point to some of these comediennes

    • @scarybabyspice
      @scarybabyspice 2 дні тому

      Robby Hoffman and Tig Notaro are my favorite lesbian comics!!

    • @lilacbutch
      @lilacbutch 2 дні тому

      ^ We looove Robby and Tig. Also Sam Jay and Gina Yashere. Lots more funny women on IG/Tiktok that don't necessarily have Netflix specials too.

  • @tablescissors67
    @tablescissors67 3 дні тому

    I would just introduce myself as a “Bearded woman” because I think there’s a fascinating history and mystique with that descriptor (which, once again, trans is usurping).

  • @afriend9079
    @afriend9079 3 дні тому

    The "cancer patient" comment about women with shaved heads makes me so mad 😮‍💨

    • @tablescissors67
      @tablescissors67 3 дні тому

      But she made it so funny with the sun lotion rant 😂

  • @edge4265
    @edge4265 3 дні тому

    I appreciate the conversation about convincing yourself you “could” be attracted to a man. How many of us do that to ourselves when there is no point in analyzing it so much? If I was the last woman on the planet, would I sleep with a man to save humanity from extinction? Hahaha, who cares?

  • @AxiomMusic
    @AxiomMusic 3 дні тому

    What would you say to someone who might say : “You are a woman. Women are born to have children and support men in marriage. This is what evolutionary truth says, and this is what God says. You claim to be lesbian, but the reality is that the category makes no biological sense. Entertaining the notion by accepting it and having relationships with women may help, but it’s not going to heal you from it. Sure it can be hard to find the right man, and being a straight woman can be really hard for some people. If we stop putting Lesbian in a special category, then maybe people can really recover their true purpose as straight women.” ? Just to clarify, I don’t believe this, but I’m not sure there’s a reason why this argument can’t be used to oppress you via the same logic you are using now in the future. It should concern you, and you should think about it.

  • @orsino88
    @orsino88 3 дні тому

    Dear Carol, I just wanted to express my profound support, as a gay man, for my lesbian sisters-you and Kim and all the rest. I will not accept gay erasure. I will not accept lesbian erasure.

    • @jenniferplatts174
      @jenniferplatts174 8 годин тому

      And i will not tolerate women erasure either. The idea that men are appropriating all accepts of femaleness including our lesbian sisters.....geez...this is misogny at a scale that we havent seen EVER. And the silencing tactic that go with it is pure aggression, abuse and dismissive. Will this ever go away?.

  • @sameash3153
    @sameash3153 3 дні тому

    Why are you gay?

    • @tablescissors67
      @tablescissors67 3 дні тому

      Because she is sexually attracted to the same sex.

  • @jwonz2054
    @jwonz2054 3 дні тому

    15:55 - Because modern therapists only affirm, they do not challenge wrong thoughts. Objective truth was thrown away long ago in the pursuit of empathy and short-term happiness.

  • @HoldGiaCarangiCloseToOurHearts

    Wonderful topic 🎀 Thank you. Appearance Sex Gender Sexual orientation Fluidity Non gender X gender Intersex Top Bottom Switch Femme Butch FTM Two Spirit Māhū (modern context) Are just labels. Everyone is slightly different. When I date and fall in love with someone, i am very much demisexual and sapiosexual. I'm not in love with your organs or size of the body parts. So long as my love is healthy, fit, joyful, kind to herself/himself/themselves, has a plan, working on emotional intelligence, self compassion, and a relatively healthy relationships with others and realities. I can fall in love with all kinds of combo and package. I prefer partners that want children and willing to spend immense time with grandmas, children and grandchildren to pass on heritage as an indigenous. Raise children the Swedish style. They must have solid practice of sustainable living and ecosystem conservation. Perhaps more nurturing, gentle, living extremely organic, nonviolent, gifted parenting skilled, demisexual, sapiosexual, and polygamous. Intimacy - I'd say 50% of my experience regardless of what labels they had were potentially spledid. 50% were horrendous regardless how much we practiced. Some people are not just talented in understanding another body. If I must communicate, I have to confirm if they are switch. Labels don't matter to me. If we love each other like crazy, that's what counts for romance. I insist in calling Two Spirit as Two Spirit and Māhū as Māhū if that is what they identify as. It is a high social status title that's been here for a long time and it is inappropriate to disrespect them to call on any other labels.

    • @SourPatches2077
      @SourPatches2077 3 дні тому

      I could never fall in love with anyone unless they are female.

    • @barryledgister4496
      @barryledgister4496 2 дні тому

      Well if you `...prefer partners that want children and willing to spend immense time with grandmas, children and grandchildren to pass on heritage as an indigenous. Raise children the Swedish style...` then you`re straight and you want a straight partner.

  • @OchoMangos
    @OchoMangos 3 дні тому

    "No man does a lesbian make" belongs on a shirt (^_^) !

  • @lizicadumitru9683
    @lizicadumitru9683 3 дні тому

    30 minutes into this interview and it's already awesome! Also, Kim is so darn cute! ❤

  • @TheBiancap
    @TheBiancap 3 дні тому

    Getting hot in here ! 🥵 😂

  • @jordan3636
    @jordan3636 3 дні тому

    calling people out or accidentally saying sir, when you're the one who took hormones.

    • @SourPatches2077
      @SourPatches2077 3 дні тому

      Yeah, I don’t generally do that. But to be fair, me and her were getting “sired” even before hormones. It has more to do with the fact we aren’t in dresses and makeup than anything else.

  • @Marlena499
    @Marlena499 3 дні тому

    I honestly don't think a majority of trans people truly believe in the "gender=/=sex" thing. I think its just mainly used as an argument for why you shouldn't misgender them. "Gender nonconforming trans" is a contradiction to the "gender=/=sex" argument. If you are biologically female and your style/expression/personality is "feminine" then in what way is your gender male? They just established its not the hormones, surgery, etc that makes them male, its the way they express themselves. You get to the point where "male is anybody who says theyre male" and vise versa while at the end of the day from the average outsider perspective all they notice is men dressing as stereotypes of women and women dressing as stereotypes of men for the most part. Transitioning used to be referred to as getting a "sex change" and back when I was trans my motivation for transitioning wasn't because my "gender identity" was male its because I wanted to be biologically male. After detransitioning Im a tomboy, I still wear "men's" clothing and cut my hair short but I dont consider that making me a man

    • @Marlena499
      @Marlena499 3 дні тому

      Not to mention the crazy amount of circular arguments, contradictions, and hypocrisy.For example a ftm person is considered a man no matter what steps they have or have not taken in their transition or how suddenly they've adopted this identity. But activists will post memes of passing trans people saying how hilarious it is that Buck Angel is considered a woman by conservatives "how can you look at him and call him a woman?" Well shit I thought that appearances and biological sex had literally nothing to do with gender?

  • @scottbridge9391
    @scottbridge9391 3 дні тому

    YT's algorithm led me here. I can't imagine how tough, how utterly frustrating it must be to be a lesbian woman today. This is all part of and a continuation of men's 1000s year long war against women. This is a men's problem. Men are the reason why nearly all TIFs exist today. Men are the reason why so many TIM men exist today. TIM men and non-TIM men are simply variants of each other. They protect each other, enable each other, cover each other's asses. Both keep the Male Misogynist Matrix humming along. And men are the reason why the multi-billion dollar gender industry exists. Men are also the reason why the entire multi-trillion dollar porn industry keeps thriving and also why the whole human sex trafficking industry has been alive and well. There would be NO luring of women and children into human trafficking if men didn't keep creating the market.