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I took a break from going to family gatherings and stuff for about 3 years. I used to feel obligated to go and like you said it felt like I was betraying myself but now I’m starting to go again and it’s not out of the need to please everyone but because I want to start embracing uncertainty, start connecting with as many people as possible, as well as just being there for the people who love me. Crazy how it’s the same scenario but with a completely different mindset. I’ve learned that being selfless is a good thing if it’s genuine while people pleasing is only trying to please others to make yourself feel safe and validated. I’ve done enough self isolating and being selfish and it was a pretty miserable life so now I’m entering the world again with an open heart and whoever likes me or dislikes me is just how it’s meant to be and there’s nothing I can do to change that besides changing myself but that’s not worth it.

Wow what a Awesome video you made, I love it so much, please continue to make new video like that @CookingwithMoms ❤🎉

Love this analogy, gonna try it I like scary movies 😆

i'm such a big people pleaser, this video has changed my perspective a bit.

0:22 I love that reaction of yours 😂😂

Thank you so much 🙏

Imagine gett8ng scammed by these guys ? Especially the bald Ginger

Mystery Method originated in 2002, RSD first began out of Mystery Method but they changed directions. Read The Game by Neil Strauss

I love how you broke down everything but the background music added anxiety

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I love this mindset ❤

Thank you so much! This is really helpful!! 😊

wow!! this really helped me thank you so much.. I just came back from work and I was invited to this event that I really didn't want to go.. and I refused it but I was feeling guilty and felt like I was missing a huge opportunity .. when it was only a normal event that I know deep down I didn't want to attend ... seeing your video cleared things in my mind.. thank u so much... ☺

Just saw this because I wanted to check the newest stuff. Hope you're doing alright there. Thanks for the videos :)

This is helpful. I find myself trying to reach out to "friends" who obviously don't care or are too busy to even short reply to me. This frustrates me a lot and I don't want to appear relying on them but then I should also not let it hurt me so bad. Might take a while to get the different mindset for me though. But thank you, it'll be a great help. 😊

i learned to not care on what other people think of me the important is im enjoying my life and thats it no drama

How can I get their approval to How can this person get my approval? Will this person fit in my life? Will this person fit on my standards? You are the star of your own movie

Thanks ❤

Amazing

Thanks dude this is fr what I wanted.

God bless you 🙏😇 Thank you from Iraq 🇮🇶

I started the audio book and it was putting me to sleep lol so just went to grab the hardcopy at Barnes and noble this morning

My personal tip is to just make a mindset that "if they are my friends they should give me a advantage" i mean like a good way not a manipulation type of stuff make sure that the friend comforts u in your bad times helps you out and is a true friend .

Thanks bro

im becoming the mc with this one

You just made my day. Thanks.

Good for you!

Totally relate. I have issues when people have an opinion of me. And it doesnt fit me. But they make it truth to them I know i should not care. But it bothers me! 😊 Ive been working on this and even watch aaron doughty. He is great. But i have some family members that i for some reason cant get it to go away. I have to be around them once in awhile and when i am they are so negative towards me. And make me feel they dont believe me. Which i dont lie! I cant seem to get past it. I giess looking at it as its their movie. Not mine. Is what i have to try. What they think of me is none of my business 😊

Facts man, I always reminded myself that it's not worth it to get approved by other people no matter how hard you try to be cool with them.

this is an awesome lifehack! thank you for the video!

Seeking validation from others makes me feel ugly and insecure I just want to be worthy the way I am and the way I lead life

Great video this advice definitely helped me out

Find a new breed

Great advice. Except for what if with the mindset, I never interact with any person from here on out more than 1 time?

Matrix forced them to delete their content

Paul walker?

Thank You 🙏🏼🙏🏼

I've been listening to Eckhart's VDOs for a while and I dont really understand how to go to my deeper self. Your vdo really helps. Thanks a lot.

Some people are naturally empathetic and others don’t deserve such energies sometimes . The energy of the earth on all continents has been inverted . What people need is to first raise there own unique energies and on top of that stop letting others auras over power your own . You are not just a spec of dust or a monkeys descendent or . Grandson of a slave owner or a slave. You are not your past mistakes . What you are is flesh and blood with impulses and the gift of discernment use your gifts wisely .ase

Good video. Thanks. Yeah i agree somewhat, but i don't understand it how it works fully... but then again. What do i know? Nothing, kinda.

"It's Better To Have GOD Approve,Than The World Applaud...."

Dog. U da man

So, basically lie to your brain dead audience.

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Great summary and presentation. I am presently reading this book but had to stop several times due to “life situations”. This summary kept me connected to the learning throughout. Thanks for sharing it, it certainly helped me keep a clear head right when I needed it most. 👍

The best video I have listened to so far!

Convenience kills

Make some sense ! (:

Well earned like, thanks mate