Hey There Adulting Podcast
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Hey There Back To School
You’re lying if you say you don’t get a little happy dropping your kids off when the first day of school comes around! With back to school season being in full swing, Jeena and Drue share their experiences with homeschooling, the challenges and joys of school, and share some stories that will make you think twice about the school you send your kids to. 📚✏️ #BackToSchool #Homeschool #Education #firstdayofschool
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"Hey There Adulting" is a podcast where hosts Jeena Wilder, Drue Wilder, and Courtney Lindner delve into the triumphs and challenges of adulting. Jeena, a Black mother of five multicultural kids and a full-time content creator, shares her journey of continuous growth and learning in motherhood. She particularly enjoys spending time doing her children's diverse hair textures. Courtney, a University Professor, and licensed Social Worker, brings her extensive experience working with children, alongside her commitment to making children feel acknowledged and cherished, to the show. Together, they created this podcast where people who can't adult find a diverse inclusive community to figure life out with, regardless of background, race, gender, or sexual identity/orientation. Join them in expanding this community to figure life out.
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Hey There Career
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Is your job causing you to have poor mental health? Are you wondering if it’s worth it to stay for the experience on your resume? If you don’t have any interests, how should you find what career field is best for you? Jeena and Drue answer these questions and MORE in today’s new episode by sharing their experiences and the insights they’ve gained through their career journey. #Careers #Jobs #Em...
Hey There Black Wife Effect
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Hey There Almost Indian Wife
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Hey There Finance
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Hey There Outnumbered Parents
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Hey There Baby Names
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Hey There Dating
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Navigating Disagreements as A Couple
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Our Family, Our Way
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Understanding Relationships With Attachment Styles
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Is It Cheating?
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Multicultural Families
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Navigating In-Law Relationships
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Adoptees As Adults
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Society's Effect on Child Development
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Society's Effect on Child Development
Engaging With Your Child
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The Many Ways To Build A Family
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Trying For Another Baby
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Interracial Marriage
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The Impact Attachment Styles Have On Relationships
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Open Adoption and Co Parenting
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Navigating Burnout and Self Care
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Black Mothers and The Medical Field
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КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @tsukicandy
    @tsukicandy 11 годин тому

    jeena was fast w that one🤣

  • @ericadixon1471
    @ericadixon1471 15 годин тому

    i love the comfort pillows

  • @marshabotha5453
    @marshabotha5453 23 години тому

    In South Africa we call it a stationary list and we get that in December when school closes ,it's hectic

  • @heatherschye2469
    @heatherschye2469 День тому

    I was in junior high in the early 90’s and where I grew up, if you lived within 3 miles there was no bus. My mother forgot to pick me up completely. No one noticed until they finally answered the house phone and I informed them.

  • @abeamzn1898
    @abeamzn1898 День тому

    If working on a pension it is not always so easy to job hop. So people stay in jobs that make them miserable. Unions help to provide workers with job security. Very hard to get rid of a bad employee.

  • @gummigar4733
    @gummigar4733 День тому

    there's a difference between a traumatic experience, and a shitty experience.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 21 годину тому

      Both can definitely be traumatic! Some people have said that was the start of their anxiety, or that this has affected them into their adulthood.

  • @abeamzn1898
    @abeamzn1898 День тому

    Loved this. Do informative. Jeena, what was your profession/job before having the kiddos. Were you an educator? I know you home school the kiddos.

  • @RebeccaJohnson855
    @RebeccaJohnson855 День тому

    Hey Jenna and Drue! I would love to work with you on my career and resume if this is something you are interested in doing. I will pay fo the resume service. I have been with my company for four years and I feel like I am stuck.

  • @Findpepperbridge
    @Findpepperbridge 2 дні тому

    Going 45 min early is nuts 😊

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast День тому

      Sometimes it’s necessary depending on the families schedule, any activities the kids might have after school, and how long the carline takes 😊

  • @domarigavjusmom
    @domarigavjusmom 2 дні тому

    We don't get their supply lists until after they start school. My kids started today and I still have no idea what they need

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast День тому

      So they just went with an empty backpack? 😳 I wonder why schools would do this!

    • @domarigavjusmom
      @domarigavjusmom День тому

      @@HeyThereAdultingPodcast Well I bought them some pencils and markers, but other then that, I still have no idea what they need. I thought they would come home yesterday with some kind of supply list (they are in 2nd and 7th grade), but nope!

  • @abeamzn1898
    @abeamzn1898 2 дні тому

    So many people I know borrowed against their pensions and got stuck working longer than they would have if they didn't have to borrow.

  • @abeamzn1898
    @abeamzn1898 2 дні тому

    Been awhile since pensions pay you your full salary. You probably get 30% and tou also contributed to it. Also. Matching 401k money doesn't always happen.

  • @humptydumptied
    @humptydumptied 2 дні тому

    Used to be you needed a #2 pencil and a folder and notebook for each class. Boom you were done with school shopping.

  • @camillemaltais7804
    @camillemaltais7804 2 дні тому

    Chilis is the one w the 10$ meal deal. Applebees is $$$$

  • @KylieDeGo
    @KylieDeGo 4 дні тому

    Love your podcast, great episode. Would love to hear more on Jeena’s experiences as a housewife/mom and transition into entrepreneurship.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 4 дні тому

      Thank you for watching❤ That’s a great idea! We’d love for you to add any ideas or suggestions on our feedback form at the link in this videos description.

  • @jaeshahendrix2607
    @jaeshahendrix2607 4 дні тому

    My mom did the same also it was because we lived in a poor area so not all the kids in my school could afford everything on the lists. And birthdays my mom would show up with cake and cooked food during lunch hour for everyone to eat and paid for it all. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Sun_flow_
    @Sun_flow_ 4 дні тому

    Great episode, guys ❤

  • @Bryer106
    @Bryer106 4 дні тому

    Traffic traffic looking for my chapstick

  • @jackyordinary
    @jackyordinary 4 дні тому

    I would never ever pay that. I liked to park a block down the road and walk to their school. Then my kids would tell me their whole day while we walk and hold hands back to the car. This is a win-win, and it was free.

  • @_vincentvangrowing_5469
    @_vincentvangrowing_5469 5 днів тому

    I'll never understand why people shame parents for not homeschooling. It's not the 'right way.' Most parents have not undergone the proper training and education required to effectively teach their children! In addition to children having little to no intellectual challenge, homeschooling deprives them of everyday opportunities to socialize with kids their own age of different backgrounds.

    • @melissacoviello2886
      @melissacoviello2886 4 дні тому

      While I’m not a teacher, I am a special education assistant and guess what, my kids hate learning from me. During the pandemic was absolutely miserable when it came to school work. They were miserable.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 4 дні тому

      Jeena and Drue’s kids participate in a co op, that way they get to socialize with kids their age and participate in school activities 3 days out of the week!

    • @ashleyhamilton4849
      @ashleyhamilton4849 3 дні тому

      Literally none of that is true about homeschooling. If you don't want to homeschool, that's fine. But trust me, that is absolutely not true.

  • @ResilientJenkins
    @ResilientJenkins 5 днів тому

    Two of my favorite families!!

  • @STING-AH
    @STING-AH 6 днів тому

    You dont have a right to a culture.

  • @STING-AH
    @STING-AH 6 днів тому

    Black is a skin color, not a life style.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 6 днів тому

      Oh, I guess Black history, art, and music are just side effects of melanin? Fascinating take 👍🙄

    • @jukelohnson5095
      @jukelohnson5095 4 дні тому

      @@HeyThereAdultingPodcastI think you misinterpreted what they said.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 4 дні тому

      @@jukelohnson5095this commenter also said jeena doesn’t have a right to a culture.. so I don’t think I did

    • @jukelohnson5095
      @jukelohnson5095 4 дні тому

      @@HeyThereAdultingPodcast you can adopt whatever culture you like.

    • @Ms_BunnyBunny
      @Ms_BunnyBunny 3 дні тому

      What is your opinion on albino people?

  • @NannyDiaries23
    @NannyDiaries23 7 днів тому

    Not the hunger games reference

  • @user-oj1pq2lt5y
    @user-oj1pq2lt5y 8 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @squizzyicetea
    @squizzyicetea 9 днів тому

    To be fair, a LOT of people go into healthcare to help people, and find out its just a money hungry machine. Its heartbreaking 😅

  • @RJ-kb3qf
    @RJ-kb3qf 9 днів тому

    I see nothing wrong with this ?😭

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 6 днів тому

      Do you think it looks better to have more experiences or does job hopping impact your resume?

    • @RJ-kb3qf
      @RJ-kb3qf 6 днів тому

      @@HeyThereAdultingPodcast I think it’s better to have more experience. He sounds like he didn’t know what he wants to do in life, so getting out there and just doing things is super good for him because it will lead him to figuring it out. I also think it is good for your résumé since a lot of employers WANT people with tons of experience from different things. I don’t think we should limit ourselves with our capabilities either just because we want a certain job.

    • @RJ-kb3qf
      @RJ-kb3qf 6 днів тому

      @@HeyThereAdultingPodcast I understand that it may cause some stress on the family, but if he’s able to get jobs so easily, makes connections very easily as well (since he has been through many work environments), then it would actually make ME, personally, feel more at ease.

  • @Chroxme123
    @Chroxme123 9 днів тому

    It seems like he doesnt want to stay with the whole 9-5 thing, i personally agree with that. Average is overrated.

  • @ithinkimarealboy2402
    @ithinkimarealboy2402 9 днів тому

    She is being incredibly condescending and even racist.

  • @QueenVictoria88
    @QueenVictoria88 9 днів тому

    She should be happy. I job hop a lot myself. Not my fault, too many local companies don’t have good culture and you won’t see that element until you start working around them.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 6 днів тому

      She's not unhappy, it's just something that caused some stress within their relationship because of changing jobs so often can affect your whole family. But Jeena is proud of Drue and supports him fully!

  • @gladysmiller6934
    @gladysmiller6934 9 днів тому

    Love this! 1:20

  • @orangejmoothies
    @orangejmoothies 10 днів тому

    dude...being an RN already shows that he has the smarts, endurance and ambition to do well whatever he does. he'll be fine!! let him be!

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 6 днів тому

      She knows that! But it doesn't discount the fact that it has put some stress on their family.

  • @glowinthedarkent
    @glowinthedarkent 10 днів тому

    Sucks to be racist

  • @samanthaf.3270
    @samanthaf.3270 10 днів тому

    I mean it sounds like he’s willing to do whatever it takes to provide for his family while still trying to find his niche. I don’t see anything wrong with that

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 6 днів тому

      Which is why Jeena supports him fully and though it may cause some stress for their family, she's proud of Drue😊

  • @LynetteMBradshaw
    @LynetteMBradshaw 10 днів тому

    Good for you

  • @brittanymcguff
    @brittanymcguff 10 днів тому

    My husband is the same way. I honestly think it’s the secret to getting a good job. Anyone can do it but certain personalities don’t need to think about it.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 9 днів тому

      Some people are really just built different, but you’re right anyone can have that mindset!

  • @lovelylife56
    @lovelylife56 10 днів тому

    No...😮 highly appropriate.

  • @lovelylife56
    @lovelylife56 10 днів тому

    You need to listen to your wife for the glow up to happen.

  • @told1158
    @told1158 10 днів тому

    Understandable

  • @AaronEvans-xm2wb
    @AaronEvans-xm2wb 11 днів тому

    Drew needs to realize his value and gtfo from the dreamkiller victim

  • @hishandmaiden718
    @hishandmaiden718 11 днів тому

    Throwing scalpels?!? Witnesses + police report + lawsuit = private island... 😉

  • @mr.mikemach1183
    @mr.mikemach1183 11 днів тому

    I literally worked for a company that required you to hire over 50% minorities and people who graduated from HBCU’s went to the top of the hiring pile. Please shut up.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 10 днів тому

      That's one experience you had from one company... there's millions of companies in the U.S. Please do your research.

  • @Sun_flow_
    @Sun_flow_ 11 днів тому

    Hey, Jenna and Drue. I truly enjoyed this episode. Very informative. Drue, you can totally be a consultant in that area. Jenna, you look so beautiful ❤

  • @mollyeg5443
    @mollyeg5443 11 днів тому

    My daughter’s fiancé has changed careers probably 25 times in the last 2 years. She doesn’t know if she’s ready to marry him because she doesn’t have the security of him working. She bought her first house last year with her brother. So she doesn’t want anyone bringing her back. My ex is always changing careers as well. He never stayed with one career. Sometimes you have to change careers to find the right fit. Or start your own business.

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 10 днів тому

      Sometimes changing careers is necessary to find what you're interested in, but it's still important to communicate with your partners/family because they end up being involved too.

  • @s.a.m4482
    @s.a.m4482 12 днів тому

    My husband changing jobs so often would make me as a wife feel unsafe because I grew with food insecurity & lack of many other basic needs. Jeena is a trooper & an amazing woman for standing by her husband side and supporting his journey!

    • @HeyThereAdultingPodcast
      @HeyThereAdultingPodcast 10 днів тому

      The uncertainty is always hard, but it's important to communicate with your partner and validate their concerns when you want to change careers. That kind of decision impacts them, too.

    • @squizzyicetea
      @squizzyicetea 9 днів тому

      Not everyone woke up knowing "I'm going to be a vet" and that's what they did. Most people don't know what they're going to do in 5 years

  • @theblackdahlia3680
    @theblackdahlia3680 12 днів тому

    What is she even talking about bro?😂

  • @aa-kn2du
    @aa-kn2du 13 днів тому

    Yass! I've had 3 children, 3 cesareans. I was pregnant at 40. I see you! It takes so much out of you. Sending love ❤.

  • @merikhoury
    @merikhoury 13 днів тому

    😄

  • @aaravkheur9945
    @aaravkheur9945 13 днів тому

    ???🤔🤔😐

  • @yamarisB23
    @yamarisB23 13 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤