Jef Quin
Jef Quin
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I failed.
A little over a month ago, I started posting on UA-cam (more seriously). I decided to try a challenge - to post 100 days straight.
I failed.
I was feeling guilty about failing as a creator or if anyone in my audience was confused and felt cheated. So I'm here to remind myself and anyone out there that failing is okay and a normal part of growth.
I failed this quasi-challenge, but I'm not stopping UA-cam. My purpose was to improve my camera speaking confidence and get more clarity about what this channel is even about. I did that.
The challenge was not fun and was leading to some burnout and overwhelm and poor quality ideas. So I'm stopping the challenge and continuing the YT journey.
Long story short, it's okay to fail. You will fail, unless you're not trying anything at all. Failure is a stepping stone. Embrace and love, it's the journey. And there are no destinations.
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#motivation #creatortips
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Відео

How I stay calm, creative and stoked
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I have this mindset...a framework I like to see everything around me through. It's simple. Potentially trite. It's this: Everything, from this point moving forward, is just a bonus. It's all extra. I have everything I need. It's all enough. I'm stoked on everything I've done and all I'm doing. All future stuff are just bonuses...extra...additions I don't need. This motivates me, keeps me calm a...
The power of discomfort
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This is a framework that motivates me to push through uncomfortable, difficult things. It's the yin and yang of everything. In my creative work, I struggle with motivation and inspiration. Inaction can snowball into no progress and no results. This creates more stress and more inaction. Obviously, the solution is to take more action. But a mindset shift is needed. So I use this as a reminder to...
What is success? (this)
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What is success? (this)
Care less, do better (et cetera et cetera)
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Care less, do better (et cetera et cetera)
Why everyone should be a content creator...
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Why everyone should be a content creator...
Chasing your dreams is stressful (but the alternative is worse)
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Chasing your dreams is stressful (but the alternative is worse)
If you’re an artist, it’s okay to take a break (it's a recovery period)
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If you’re an artist, it’s okay to take a break (it's a recovery period)
I lost my singing voice (so here are 2 ways I practice creative patience)
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I lost my singing voice (so here are 2 ways I practice creative patience)
How I'm reaching big creative goals
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How I'm reaching big creative goals
This Tokyo construction is a creative metaphor (it's just what I needed)
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This Tokyo construction is a creative metaphor (it's just what I needed)
My productivity hack for better creative work (do nothing)
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My productivity hack for better creative work (do nothing)
Authenticity hack: fail your way to new and original ideas
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Authenticity hack: fail your way to new and original ideas
Remember your 100 subscribers celebration (because that's amazing)
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Am I a creator? (the truth about becoming a content creator)
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For when you feel like nothing is working out
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For when you feel like nothing is working out
Do a 100-day challenge (here's why + 6 tips to do it right)
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Create your dream life avatar
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4 steps to creative success
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4 steps to creative success
How to stress less and become totally chill in life (12 moves)
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I was too embarrassed to manifest...
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Don't set creative goals (do this instead)
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25 powerful quotes that sparked paradigm shifts in my life
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25 powerful quotes that sparked paradigm shifts in my life
How to be more creative (8 things that always work for me)
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Manifestation is just a simple math equation
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Manifestation is just a simple math equation
The secret that changed my life and motivation
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The secret that changed my life and motivation
What would happen if you uploaded a video everyday for 100 days?
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What would happen if you uploaded a video everyday for 100 days?
The truth about starting a new life (a short iPhone film)
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The truth about starting a new life (a short iPhone film)
Driving in the rain (a short film for a rainy day mood) #filmmaking
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Driving in the rain (a short film for a rainy day mood) #filmmaking

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  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube 2 дні тому

    I agree 100% with everything you said

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 2 дні тому

      @@paeluyoutube !If you know you know! Hah thanks man :)

  • @tomalleeson4573
    @tomalleeson4573 3 дні тому

    Hello, I was searching around for someone like you, or the advise you give. Just checked out your post about too many hobbies, or let's call it passions. I really liked the way you presented it and the whole attitude about it. Talk about failing. I could write a book about it. I'm still here. 76 years old and still doing a bunch of stuff that people sometimes comment ...why are you doing that. Because I want to I say. Thanks for your content. Now, time to, get it.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 2 дні тому

      @@tomalleeson4573 I love this! I’m stoked to hear Tom and really appreciate it It’s inspiring to hear you’re still crushing it, even if other people don’t understand or are too nervous to do it themselves, love it Life is a game, have fun and stumble with a smile is my motto haha Cheers to you!

    • @tomalleeson4573
      @tomalleeson4573 2 дні тому

      @@jefquin Cheers!

  • @marilouburnel
    @marilouburnel 4 дні тому

    Honnestly I like most of your songs ideas they're really great.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 3 дні тому

      @@marilouburnel ah Marilou! Thank you so much! that really means a lot :)

  • @cowcraft8355
    @cowcraft8355 7 днів тому

    MATE no worries. Don’t hamper your creativity for the sake of quantity. Hell yeah on the stepping stone idea, you’ll get to where you want to go. Failing is learning and if that was just learning what you want to prioritize as you keep creating here then it’s absolutely a win. Stay strong my friend

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 7 днів тому

      !! you know it! yea man, it's so true -- it's all about enjoying the ride and staying patient for me thanks for the love -- cheers!

  • @marilouburnel
    @marilouburnel 8 днів тому

    Good song :)

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 7 днів тому

      ah thanks Marilou! :)

  • @siggejunell
    @siggejunell 12 днів тому

    I really resonate with your vibe! Love the video!! And the way you film yourself, it feels like a conversation with a friend. Keep it up!

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 11 днів тому

      ah man thanks! That's totally my goal too for most of these talking head vids -- minimal, conversational -- like a public journal hah so I'm stoked to hear! cheers man and thanks again :)

  • @eleg2020
    @eleg2020 17 днів тому

    Jesus LOVES you! Please give your life to Him today! :) Please DON'T TAKE THE COVID "V" injection! I had a dream that God showed me that whoever takes the "V" will not go to Heaven!! Also please DON'T take any other vaccines because the same thing that is in the COVID "V" injection is in all other vaccines! Please don't tattoo the numbers ''666'' anywhere on your body as I think that is another form of the Mark of the Beast spoken of in the Bible. Lastly, please DON'T put any kind of microchip inside your body. You don't know what is in there. Jesus LOVES you! Please don't be scared, and come to him ASAP, before it's too late! :)

  • @marilouburnel
    @marilouburnel 18 днів тому

    Nice :)

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 18 днів тому

      thank you! :)

  • @jamesh4299
    @jamesh4299 28 днів тому

    This channel has been such an amazing corner of the internet to stumble onto. Thank you so much for doing this, these videos, these ponderings. I find it so inspirational in its rawness. Seriously, you are helping me out of my creative inaction and re-inspiring my love for introspection.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 28 днів тому

      James, man thank you so much! This is really awesome to hear - I’m hoping my thoughts and whatnot are hitting somewhere, so this is all I needed to keep going. Cheers to you! The world is waiting on your epic stuff man

  • @Rg-kp4nw
    @Rg-kp4nw 29 днів тому

    Sir this is a Wendy’s

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 28 днів тому

      hahah! so true, love it

    • @Rg-kp4nw
      @Rg-kp4nw 27 днів тому

      @@jefquinyeah bro I was just playing, good advice tho keep going

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 27 днів тому

      @@Rg-kp4nw ah for sure, I’m with you haha

  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube Місяць тому

    Omg I've been doing this a lot this week. Just eating with no distractions. Slows me down so much

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Oh nice! That’s awesome man, yea I forget to do it sometimes, but whenever I do, I chill way down - plus the food tastes better haha

  • @jefquin
    @jefquin Місяць тому

    Music in background -> @AmbientWithFlute

  • @FitnessbyJenaye
    @FitnessbyJenaye Місяць тому

    🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !! 🙏 :)

  • @GiaNicci100
    @GiaNicci100 Місяць тому

    And the Japanese have the most interesting structures. Check the Foundation's Corners and see if they have Giant Springs under them? Very Cool... I had a Japanese building book; most all in Wood. Their Joints are the most Awesome Puzzle Pieces you'll ever find in wood buildings. Happy Trails Jef Take some classes while you're there / you won't regret it, you'll fall in Love with Japanese..

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Thank you! Yea totally agree - especially older buildings. They’re so architecturally inspiring. I love the snapshot of history and mixed with design and art, so cool! I’ll keep learning while I’m here! Always ha!

  • @GiaNicci100
    @GiaNicci100 Місяць тому

    When I hear people talk about other's lives and gossip about their superiority; That's exactly what I ask about their own development; "What have you built? ". or what are you building?" I get it.. This is the Golden Era and I think many of us are Reaching for Building the New Everything and Getting Rid of the Otherthings... Godspeed dude.. One step at a time / listen to your heart and your minds eye..

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !! Yea for sure - it’s important to step back and chill too. I don’t need a skyscraper haha But I hear you!

  • @ursinegrubby916
    @ursinegrubby916 Місяць тому

    Yes, you keep chipping away, you think you are building something then the citizen tax bill turns up in your mailbox and you realise with a start that the sand foundation supporting your dreams has been taken away....

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !! Oof, love the metaphors -- and yea it's vivid, I can relate haha But here we are, realizing sand and pouring a better foundation! :)

  • @lottiegilbert4681
    @lottiegilbert4681 Місяць тому

    Why do so many people copy fashion trends. For men right now its beanies. No matter weather. WHY. Be original do not even try to copy dress to impress. Not impressive

  • @gavinmckee9211
    @gavinmckee9211 Місяць тому

    and, life is with people. thank you

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !! Unavoidable haha -- but metaphors abound! haha Thanks for watching!

  • @FitnessbyJenaye
    @FitnessbyJenaye Місяць тому

    🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !! Thank you thank you :)

  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube Місяць тому

    that was so peaceful :)

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Ah thanks! It was a vibe for sure haha

  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube Місяць тому

    Love your channel. Like a daily reminder/ motivator and perspective change.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      ah hell yea man! Stoked to hear this! Of course, super thanks for watching :)

  • @RyanBeTheName
    @RyanBeTheName Місяць тому

    Being able to witness something being built can also show what people are capable of when they have a common goal amongst each other and work together. Both are easy to forget, considering we usually only see what was accomplished and rarely see the effort behind it.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      ahh dude, for sure! that's a solid point, I totally missed it -- but yea, especially for collaboration or just the power of people working together towards some common goal. This metaphor is so convenient! lol Thanks for the add, good stuff :)

  • @marilouburnel
    @marilouburnel Місяць тому

    Exactly!! :)

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      You know it!!

  • @JacksonMack3742
    @JacksonMack3742 Місяць тому

    I dont usually listen to music in the same genre as yours, though I don't think you can limit your music to 1 genre anyways. Despite this, I subscribed because you're really good. And songs like this make it worth it. Maybe I cant hear the subtle beauty of your other work, but this has that simple universal appeal that makes you wanna bob your head. I know its on guitar but I'll put it up there with some of the better ukulele songs. Alright, I'll leave you alone for another year or two haha I feel criticism or praise is below you, as in other's validation isnt what you want to focus on. In part to be free from those influences. I shouldnt even leave this comment. But oh well. Were just so different and worlds away but I see a lot of potential and also maybe you actually got your head on straight with this persistence. Keep on breathing, if ya want, ✌🏼

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Ah man, this means a lot actually - that someone is out there, listening, noticing a bit haha - even just casually I try to stay pretty chill about my music - it’s a passion, but I try not to crave likes and all that…even though it’s always tight if someone digs it :] I genre jump for sure - it’s all mood based for me haha Now if I could only finish more projects for release haha…and maybe think about a content strategy…as mine is just terrible…awful haha But I don’t care too much about that - not trying for fame or anything, just sharing things that make me stoked Thanks for hanging out!

  • @bethallgood4008
    @bethallgood4008 Місяць тому

    Love this. Thank you. I’ve curated my feed to include you.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Amazing! Thanks so much and super stoked to hear that haha :]

  • @middlekingdomproductions
    @middlekingdomproductions Місяць тому

    I like this metaphor, thanks Jef 👍😀

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      ah nice! stoked to hear and happy to help hah! :]

  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube Місяць тому

    I get the same feeling from the birds outside in the morning. I get so happy when i hear them :)

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Ah nice! Haha that’s way more peaceful sounding too - but solid perspective

  • @marilouburnel
    @marilouburnel Місяць тому

    Yeah. It's like with sports, rest is part of the process :)

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !! exactly, right? I forget this still tho lol But oof, sports is probably the best analogy, should've used it in my video haha

  • @maiamaych
    @maiamaych Місяць тому

    Thank you for these videos ☺️ I just discovered your channel yesterday and I love it❣️ Simple, inspiring and just what I need at this time of my Life 🙏🏻 keep up the good work 😉 greetings from Slovenia ☺️

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !thank you! And hello from Tokyo! I'm super stoked you're into them, they're definitely simple haha, but I'm having fun over here lol Thanks for watching and supporting!! :)

  • @FitnessbyJenaye
    @FitnessbyJenaye Місяць тому

    🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube Місяць тому

    :) love the description

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      ah nice! haha, wasn't sure anyone would read down there -- ty!

  • @julesm9081
    @julesm9081 Місяць тому

    Omg finally someone who understands how much the news really worries and affects me. Thank you for this video 🙏🏻 I know the big stuff will make its way to me anyway like you said and I can always fact check if need be but some ppl don’t understand why I don’t like to listen to it anymore and it is because it makes me feel so incredibly sad and worried sick most of the time.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      I get you!! haha I'm happy you enjoyed it and yes, I understand, some people will be confused -- like "What do you mean you don't stay informed??" Step away, and suddenly you're happier -- crazy strategy lol cheers to you and this move! :)

    • @julesm9081
      @julesm9081 Місяць тому

      @@jefquin it got too much for me when covid began and ever since. I still know about the big stuff but I don’t spend hours each day listening to or watching it. When I have previously, I end up in tears and feeling more worried than before Thank you for understanding me. I’ve. Been told “ you can’t avoid it” er well yes I can actually as much as possible. And it isn’t that I “ Don’t care” like some Think - rather that I care so much. That’s why it affects me.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      @@julesm9081 absolutely! I'm with you -- there's no need to fill up space with things that make you feel worse, especially when you feel like you can't do anything about it. Letting go and noticing the stuff that makes me stoked on life and just happier is a simpler, more obvious equation -- so we got this! Especially since you feel things so deeply, that's a superpower, but I imagine it's difficult to manage when you're constantly surrounded by warning lights going off

    • @julesm9081
      @julesm9081 Місяць тому

      @@jefquin exactly a million % agree with this. Thank you for understanding. Exactly 😔

    • @julesm9081
      @julesm9081 Місяць тому

      @@jefquin and thank you for saying that about it being a super power that’s such a kind thing for you to say

  • @marilouburnel
    @marilouburnel Місяць тому

    Absolutely. It's 2024 🤷‍♀ you can be anything you want and take it in any direction you want. To me artists and content creators share the same core: they gather people around a persona, whether it be an act or who they actually are. Good video edits, billboards, radio ads... none of that matters if you don't build (or value) the relationship with your audience. That's my 2 cents :)

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      valuable 2 cents! Love your view and agree 100. It's liberating to know that good edits or technical checklists don't make or break your ability to create and show up. They're nice, if you enjoy them, but you, the artist, comes first. Thanks for add, love it :)

  • @krs-ash-art
    @krs-ash-art Місяць тому

    your second step evokes epic levels of stress that Im not sure if you're aware of. getting after or going after/pursuing a dream of some kind, is something I feel I've been doing for like, half of my life. there is nothing I want more, than to be s successful artist. I've poured my heart and soul into my art. have I achieved my dream? not even close lol I'll never stop creating art. but this whole...pursue your dreams, Im sorry, but that doesn't work for all. I have more dreams than just art. I'd love to get into acting. music. writing. dance. but all of that, provides me with tremendous stress. because I feel behind from where I should be, in order to see those dreams to fruition. if you mean just do something to distract yourself, start a hobby; that is different. I have many of those. but this...go after your dreams...it does nothing in order to help me de stress. if anything, it makes me feel time and life accelerating to top speed.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Ah thank you for sharing! I hear you, and you are correct. This is a solid point. Going after something you want is stressful. And I think it’s amazing you’ve committed that long I don’t know if this helps, but I like to shift focus away from the dream and the desire for it…to let go of how I think things should unfold…and instead I focus on the lifestyle and emotion the dream gets me - it’s easier to pursue and realize that. It’s the thing I actually want. When I embody those things, I feel like the dream part happens easier and more naturally as a result But going after a dream has created a lot of stress for me too And the act of pursuing them is giving them life So keep on, these dream things, they were never meant to be easy or quick But of course, I don’t want to cheapen or reduce your experience to some generic advice in a YT comment…or compare your experience to mine But I guess, the stress of not going after the dream is far greater than the pains I experience while chasing them Much love ✌️

  • @Catinator3
    @Catinator3 Місяць тому

    I saw the thumbnail and was convinced you were Elle Cordova with a fake beard for a second lol

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      lol really?? well she's super cool so I'll take it haha

  • @marilouburnel
    @marilouburnel Місяць тому

    Awesome video :) Truth is some things take time. But I found that realising that time will pass anyway helped me. Your mind becomes clearer when you don't clutter it with potential problems and expectations. Stay cool Jef

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Thank you! And absolutely -- love that perspective too. Time's going to pass anyways and a lot of that clutter noise is all in our heads. Nice add -- thanks for stopping by! :)

  • @minacamoglu1419
    @minacamoglu1419 Місяць тому

    Mercii

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Ça me fait plaisir!

  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube Місяць тому

    Been watching your videos (trying to catch up). I absolutely love this. I do something similiar with categories. I do physical, personal, social, educational and financial goals/ directions. I might try using these categories soon though

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Haha thanks for catching up! I’m on a marathon run currently lol Yea yea! Categories help so much right?? Dig your approach :)

  • @ItsHER-sk3eb
    @ItsHER-sk3eb Місяць тому

    When I found this video, it had 444 views! I knew righy away, your video must have something special for me!

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Ahh epic! I hope i delivered! Haha Thanks so much :)

  • @biancalund-hopkins7075
    @biancalund-hopkins7075 Місяць тому

    3 hit me a lil hard oh shit

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Right?? Same first time I heard it hah

  • @paeluyoutube
    @paeluyoutube Місяць тому

    I really like the last step of baby steps. Great video!

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      !Stoked to hear! - yea I love that one too, a little at a time always helps me simplify things :) Cheers and thanks!

  • @DoubleBob
    @DoubleBob Місяць тому

    Your thumbnail looks like some confused, high hobo in a drab hospital room. Change that, then throw 100 bucks to advertise your next good video and you'll probably make it. You seem to have the insights and aura to help many people out there.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      lol thank you

    • @geri2793
      @geri2793 Місяць тому

      Thumbnail was the reason i clicked

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      @@geri2793 ah ha! thanks :) I like my cardboard box background lol

    • @julesm9081
      @julesm9081 Місяць тому

      Nothing wrong with the thumbnail ! In my opinion

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      @@julesm9081 ah ha!! thank you!! haha

  • @yessicabhutani2750
    @yessicabhutani2750 Місяць тому

    Damn you post almost daily... I saw another of your video and then saw you channel hope you become big :] Randomly the color of your eyes match the color of your wall background Quite beautiful.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      a ha! I've actually planned it all, so my colors would all match haha but thank you tho! haha And yea, I'm doing a little challenge of posting everyday for like, idk, 100 days -- want to get some clarity and connect with some cool people :) !

  • @yessicabhutani2750
    @yessicabhutani2750 Місяць тому

    Something so beautiful about your aura. I can't Pin Point it. But something beautiful about this video, it feel like this video continues into your life and i hope it does into mine too :]] Hope you have a great day I had a bass guitar in my hand that i played to the video felt good fr :3

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Ahhh wow, this is so nice! I'm super stoked on this, and hoping I can pass on some of these vibes to you for sure haha Cheers to you!

  • @MokeTheoryy
    @MokeTheoryy Місяць тому

    I thought I made a mistake once. Turns out I was mistaken.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin Місяць тому

      Nice! That’s a solid one - and so true No mistakes, then no growth 👏👏

  • @MokeTheoryy
    @MokeTheoryy 2 місяці тому

    Manifestation only seems silly when you're not conscious of the fact that you're always choosing what to think and therefore feel, and that that is the determining factor of what you experience in life. As soon as you become conscious this, it suddenly becomes the most important and sensical thing there is. Great vid and very much relatable thank you.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 2 місяці тому

      This! We all manifest, we’re just usually unaware of it - spot on man Nice add

  • @MokeTheoryy
    @MokeTheoryy 2 місяці тому

    Okay, I will

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 2 місяці тому

      Yea yea, ya Gotta do it! Hah always worth it! Stoked to see it :)

  • @MokeTheoryy
    @MokeTheoryy 2 місяці тому

    Yea it makes perfect sense. We're conditioned to seek outside validation to confirm who we are which creates anxiety and confusion because everyone will tell us something different. When you decide you're the person you desire to be, mentally and emotionally, that becomes who you are. The moment that happens is the moment the circumstances of you life begin to reflect that because they must. That's how reality works. Great vid brother.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 2 місяці тому

      Love it! So true -- I used to get hung up on that outside validation thing so much, especially with art and creative stuff. But like you said, the moment you decide you are who you aim to be, everything changes. Thanks for the love and cheers man!

  • @serena_grace
    @serena_grace 2 місяці тому

    woah. i didn’t realize how much resistance is often associated with the word “goals” until now. this really clicked, thank you.

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 2 місяці тому

      !! I’m stoked to hear :) And yea, it helps me reframe the resistance for sure

  • @serena_grace
    @serena_grace 2 місяці тому

    love this 💗

    • @jefquin
      @jefquin 2 місяці тому

      aye! thank you! carefreeness, always the answer lol :)