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Problem with social 2 So 2-7 So 2-6 So 2-1 So 2-9 So 2-8 So 2-5 fixes will look very differently. Like i would always think i am sp and grounded, i like healthy people as well, but deep hidden im intellectual, readed, physical, i like power, i hate too independent people over me, i need respect and i love hugs Lovely is a word being used by 2s and 9s too in data

My family convinced me that I was a difficult child who grew into a difficult adult. I was actually a slightly autistic firstborn with some health problems and clueless parents who grew up in a chaotic environment and I was accused of being difficult any time I didn't immediately cave to what the adults (of which I had at least 5 around trying to control me at any given time, not counting teachers). Because of this, I had to learn how to be water. You go with the flow, but you carve your own course through the landscape by sheer stubborn determination. And while I love the description of a type 9 having a volcanic temper, I usually liken an outburst to a tsunami... it builds up after the triggering event, smashes into anything that gets in the way, and is slow to dissipate and almost impossible to prevent once triggered.

20:52 NO PHA KEENG *WAY!* Called it! Ohkay. I'm def. a 9 🤣🤣🤣😭

When Healthy, 09:31, is me, my whole life. Both sides, are Right. They call that: "Sitting on the fence." I like to call it: "Perspective." Not sure if that's a 9 thing, or, another type (at their best) 🤔

What episode of Seinfeld is that first clip?

As a 9 and a writer, I agree with everyone here except Chidi. Saying Chidi is a 9 is baffling to me. Yes, 9s can be indecisive, but it's because they don't care about the outcome (or rather, they convince themselves they don't). It's the "I'm good with whatever" mentality. They can get anxious when you pressure them to make a choice, but it's because you're introducing unwanted conflict. They're trying to avoid unrest by being easy going, so when you insist there is still a problem, they freak out. But, importantly, they're not actually freaking out over the decision itself because they still don't care about the outcome. Chidi cares very much about the outcome. He is indecisive because he believes there is an objectively right choice. And if there's a right choice, but he picks the wrong one, who knows what terrible things might happen? That fear drives Chidi through the majority of the series which makes me believe he's a head type. Specifically, I think he's a 5. He certainly fits the stereotype of the well-learned scholar who struggles to express deeper emotions, but more importantly, he operates on a theory of everything. They dive into this in the season 4 episode "The Answer." The conclusion of that episode--the conclusion of his whole character arc--is him telling himself "there is no 'answer,' but Elanor is the answer." That is a pure-blooded, quintessential type 5 moral: accept that you know nothing and embrace the people you love. If Chidi is a gut type, I'm willing to hear the argument that he's a 1 (given his drive to do what's right), but he is certainly not a 9

The way this video exposed my whole life.

Oof, I feel triggered by some of these. I think that when it comes to type 9s, 'sloth' does not necessarily relate to laziness (or at least not exclusively). We can effectively 'fall asleep' to our own wants and desires; to our own needs, because it is our natural inclination to put the needs of others before our own. That can be noble, right? Yea, but it can come at a cost. Being asked: "what do you want?" - blinks, considers... what do I want? I mean, really...? 🤔 Express yourself! For me, this depends on who I'm with. There are different versions of me: when I'm at work, when I'm with family or friends, when I'm alone. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to be fully, authentically myself regardless. How cathartic would that be? But also, how oddly terrifying! I've often related to Frodo in that moment where everyone is arguing, to be like: oh ffs, I'll do it! I love how Walter Mitty develops as a character through this movie. He is in such a healthier place by the end of it.

So Quint destroyed the boat's radio that burnt-out the boat Martin Brody's anger is not funny it is actually disrespectful Martin Brody was screamingly in Rage Martin Brody was making a phone call with Amity Island light house this is the Orca calling but he was too focused on hating Quint

Captain Marvel is an awful type 8 story: she goes from being inhuman and barely feeling to... asserting even more power and control for herself, despite the fact the real lesson is to learn vulnerability and joining a greater cause (aka not being too much of a lone wolf). Her tragic arc is presented as heroic because the writers had no idea what they were doing.

Had someone tell me I couldn't be a 9 because 9s go along with what others want. And I was like, sure, until you disturb theirs peace.

This social 5 example is more INTJ than social 5 alone And "hated it"..is it from the actor or not 4 or 8w9? Because i say ot often

Its hard to potencially see sx 6 in tritype, but as woman in germany. Not in jail, not male, not black, not seeking fight with officers. At first i thought no, later...mh..i surprisingly cant also see any social 6 in me from this video standpoint. There i go with all stacks of 7 more. Maybe its the social 6 in many peoples trifixes in school or teachers, i dont get

Thanks i thought of sx 1 as jeaulousy, expressed rage and tango passion..but this sexual representation feels like meeting a murder letting pay people pay for a cause but not connected to it like murder strangers for a higher goal and reformation I also would like to see a series with trifixes. A sp 1 with sp 6 looks different to sp 7 fix. And so 1 with so 3 different from so 7. I feel here more sp and so, but in 7 video sx..and in trifix types only one instinctual stack is possible everywhere

I was looking for the video about 8 subtypes and I only found this one😔😔

Do you think I am more sx 9 or so 9? I can't really tell. SX 9 - Union, Fusion: sense of being comes from merging with significant others; can have difficulty individuating and standing on their own without reference to other; tendency to lose sight of own needs and desires in favor of other. For Nines, union is the desire to completely merge oneself with a mate. The preoccupation can also extend to an absorbing wish to unite with the divine. Focused on an ideal of romantic union. Get lost in one relationship or in the yearning to have one. Can also deny their partner’s flaws and idealize them to stay in union. SO 9 - Participation (counter-type): participates in order to feel a part of the group; prioritizes group needs above their own and works hard toward those needs; fun-loving, sociable, congenial, doesn’t weigh others down with own woes. Participation in Social Groups: Nines are either totally aversive to joining groups, or they like to hang out with social groups, such as special activity clubs, and with friends I am currently single, have been for a very long time, but I do remember idealizing romance and love. I had this perfect image in my head of what my love interest would be like, only to be disappointed with reality. I always seem to be drawn to more aggressive or strong women for some reason. In terms of groups, I never really felt like I fit in with any groups, but I always wanted to belong or fit in without losing my individuality in the process. I find belonging in my church I'd say or when I am invited to parties. I can be quite bubbly, friendly, cheerful and a party animal even, though I am generally more introverted in my daily life. I will say though I can be like this I do get tired and need a day off the next day to recharge my batteries haha.

They were not all sixes! Some were 3 some 4 some 7 and C3P0 is a 5!!

I'm still oretty unsure about Will from Good Will Hunting being a 6. He seems to have the 5 tendancy to hold hinself back and postpone taking action like the 5.

if we love so much, then who could love us back?

The funny thing for me being a 9 is that my fashion style is so different from everybody in the city I live in that I naturally stand out. 😂😂😂 I have lured how to speak up about my opinions better so I come off a bit bolder sometimes. But the shy INFP 9w1 is still my nature. ❤

This is too relatable it hurts

do u think there is possibility to a Sx6 be confused with a Sp7?

Hey you! I'm 4w5.. I never felt so understood in one full video! I'm so grateful i found your video... Thank you so much for work tirelessly on making this.... can't believe a single video could be sympathetic than the folks i've known.. very well made!

I think we 4s need to accept and go through our feelings but not wallow in them. It's too addictive to stay in our sadness. We have to redirect all that understanding about ourselves and about humanity into action, into endeavours outside that can make the world a better place.

Incredible collection.

My skin is crawling. This is so gay. I don’t like when these stupid things are accurate. It’s so gay.

"I thought you were a better man" -ned stark, turning away from a tyrant.

Do you think Wanda would be a 5?

these are great but so glaringly white I actually can't. two bipoc characters?

Omg the Broadway actressssss is so me jahahahahaha

You having a baby is exactly like falling in love with John Coltrane all over again ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

L from deathnote is super SP5

I'm 7sx/so I'm 2 sp/sx I'm messy this hurt but I need to understand who am I and what do I need to gooooo

I find that the Five is one of the most idealized and romanticized types in entertainment, which makes it one of the most popular and ironically under-represented and misunderstood. The arrogant, masculine genius is the predominant portrayal of Fives, when technically, the Five type has room for much more diversity in personality and even competence. Fixations on specific branches of knowledge can range from mathematics to more inconsequential niches like being a very zealous fan of Avatar The Last Airbender. Fives are Fear types. That means that their strategy is built around a response to fear. While other Head Types (like Sixes) want to control the uncontrollables, Fives want to eliminate the uncontrollables or at least, keep them at arm's length so they don't get hurt and aren't inconvenienced. Fear as an emotion is fixated on the anticipation of pain, and Fives are more sensitive to pain than most other types. They are highly sensitive individuals, so they compensate by protecting people's access to them. Emotionlessness (and general asshole-ery) is a misrepresentation of Fives. A better characterization of them would be to portray them as "cautious." They are rigorous thinkers because that is how they "control" their environment, by thoroughly understanding it first in order to avoid conflicts, inconveniences and psychic/emotional pain. They are hyper-aware of the world and other people's needs, wants, and desires, which is why they can also be intensely empathetic and understanding. They learned early on that being open is dangerous or just impossible to accomplish without being utterly depleted to the point of stagnation or mental breakdown, since very few people grasp how sensitive they are to negative stimulation and often downplay or make fun of that sensitivity. Yet Fives thrive when they grasp that people can also be a source of positive stimulation, which could also be a source of energy increase. As a (rare) Extroverted Five, I find that this sensitivity works both ways. I experience both intense sensitivity to positive and negative stimulation. It is far from impossible to be an Extroverted Five because Extroversion (like in the Big Five model) is also about sensitivity to positive emotions like excitement, joy and pleasure. I experience a hyper-sensitivity to both negative and positive stimulation (someone being intellectually or morally careless which usually coincide, or someone being inspiring and expanding my perspective on the world). People can upset or offend me easily due to their lack of thoroughness when it comes to cultivating their character, worldview or awareness of the world, which depletes me, and people can also be insightful, charming, and vulnerable without demanding any validation from me, which energizes me. Because of those intense experiences I have with people due to my hyper-awareness, I often withdraw as a way to survive potential overwhelm. The impressions people make on me also last longer and I feel the need to "escape" my body by diving into a world strictly made up of concepts, my mind palace where I can experiment and break things without it having any material consequence. This mental exploration can be both an outlet and a coping mechanism. When I'm healthy, it's usually the former. A place to contextualize my very strong feelings and vivid experiences. I have found that I am becoming more assertive in building the resilience necessary to reap the advantages of social connection. Not only do I find myself constantly inspired and energized to pursue solutions to my own explorations in my fields of interest due to the positive input of other people, but I find myself fulfilled and don't find it so necessary to rely on withdrawal as a coping mechanism. I expand my comfort zone, because the isolation of Fives ironically encourages mental and emotional fragility (Note: I do not force myself to be in company I do not want to be in, I simply practice contextualizing emotions and conflicts instead of catastrophizing them, because oftentimes Fives exhaustion can come from a misplaced sense of obligation, one that not everyone is going to demand of us). I find that taking an objective approach to my own (and even other's) emotions instead of moralizing or catastrophizing them (as Head Types can be prone to do) is necessary to building the internal resilience necessary to create more energy resources as opposed to merely mapping out where the black holes (be it people or situations) in my environment are so I can avoid them. This is why the Eight (a Body Type) Path for growth is part of Five's journey to stability, identifying strength, energy and safety as things that we can find outside of our intellectualization of everything. By seeing the abundance of energy, strength, help and freedom outside of our own minds, we discover that we are capable of incredible endurance and don't have to live like Dracula, locked up in our mind palaces. We can use our connections with others and to the physical world to expand our minds, and use our minds to expand the physical world. Because framing the world and the people in it as energy-vampires that will take more than they give is not only a catastrophizing of what is only an occasional rather than constant problem, but it makes our worlds smaller and our resources scarcer. Rather, we can identify also with our bodies and other capacities outside of our areas of theoretical expertise, thus defeating the typical self-fulfilling prophecy of scarcity (either of energy in the world or strength within ourselves) that plagues Fives.

This was an awesome video! Thank you.

No Tommy Pickles?

These videos are superb. Really explains the enneagram well.

I don't agree that 4s deliberately try to craft a persona that's different from everyone else's. I believe that we end up being perceived as weirdos just because we're so committed to being authentic. We pursue everything that feels real and meaningful to us, even when that leads us down a path that no one else is on.

Type 8 is not about fights. Its about bringing balance. Fighting is a desperate way to show it. Its a double multiple of 4, which by the way is also a representation of stability. Which is a derivitive of 2 which represents connection. So it goes like connection, stability and balance. Thats what you are looking for here. 8 in the eight trigram represents balance, from where the ying and yang symbol comes from. So you should have represented the number 8 in form of balance. Instead of conflict. Bad representation i would say.

I’m crying thank you

As an INTP 5w4 Sp/So. You really captured both sides of me really well.

Never stop uploading!! These are helping me so much

Thanks a million for the information.I have a question.I believe i am compassionate and emphatic.But,i very dislike(i used "Dislike"because i dont exactly know how it feels) intimate relationships with people.In addition while with some of my friends i feel like an outsider.So,are these a 5 thing?

Ted Lasso is a Social 2, not a 7!

DAMN this video is scrumptious.

Então o Coringa é tipo 4? KKKKKKKKKKKK sempre soube

I'd love to see a video on 5w4s as nearly all seemed to be 5w6s in the video

I hate being a four.

that's hilarious there's the dude form mr hollands opus and I'm a piano teacher...and I saw that movie the other day.

Good video. From this I mainly related to Judy and Nic Cage types...so and sp