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Want to share your story? Email Me at Baldcafe (at) outlook (dot) com Welcome to this episode of the BaldCafe Podcast.
In this Episode we welcome Gaurav.
In this incredible story we hear how Gaurav showed had his balding first pointed out to him as young as 14. At the age of 16 the balding got worse and the comments increased. After trying medication and deciding that it wasn't the best option for him long term he took the next option of trying the shaved head. It was after this step that everything changed.
I hope you enjoy his inspiring story and Gaurav we are so thankful for you sharing your experience with Male Pattern Baldness brother. Thank You 🤝
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Intro
00:13 More People Noticed My Balding
00:54 When Things Got Really Bad
01:18 This Confirmed My Balding
01:40 How It Runs In The Family
02:00 School Life When Balding
03:14 I thought It Was All Over
03:40 Mirror Routines
04:01 How It Impacted Other Areas Of Life
04:13 Father Took Me To The Doctor
04:40 Trying Treatments for Hair Loss
05:18 After Stopping Medication
05:36 Back To The Internet For Help
05:48 First Thoughts Of Shaving Head
06:19 Indian Culture & Head Shaving Dilemma
06:40 My Decision Was Made
06:58 Day Of Head Shave
07:26 First Thoughts After Head Shave
07:37 Balding In College
08:04 WHY Do I Feel So Confident Now
08:49 WHAT Makes Me Happy Now I'm Bald
09:23 Balding Hindsight
10:13 HAT GAME Experience
10:40 Reaction From Family
11:32 You Aren't Alone
12:01 Outro
Thanks For Watching
#Baldcafe #Balding #headshave
That's my buddy
We study in the same college, same class.
We really support him.
U guys made fun of him, now he's ur buddy?
im ur buddy too
@@Dividerinchief Do you realise that a college is not just one person?
@@Dividerinchief naw he's talking about his other friends.
We r 3 friends who don't make fun of each other on serious issues.
@@devanshraghav7337 u r in section B?
Losing hair at 14 is absolutely CRAZY! I started at 16 but 14 is just insane…
Yes
Normal 30
My guy. 16 is still too fucking early and it’s something terrible.
@@Tanzu15 it’s actually common
@@emilylee5620 it’s not very common bro. That shit just ain’t.
The universe blessed this guy with 10/10 facial genetics so you got nothing to worry about brother.
this guy has a beautiful face. amazing
And his head is a good shape as well. Suits the bald head look
wtf 14 old bald how fucked up society its going down because we live unnatural if he was eating raw meat organs and blood he will never become bald plus radiation does effect
YES I agree,he is a good looking guy,and has a good shape of head.
True
I'm glad he found the strenght to fight all that, no fear, no procastination, a true king 🙌🏻
I started going bald at 16 and shaves it off at 18 , I know how it feels .. it wasn’t easy at all been the only bald guy in my collage my age you feel uncomfortable and constant anxiety.. you just have to learn to embrace it and not care what others thinking
I was the same, I noticed I was starting to go bald around 16, it was really hard because of how young I was.
ive been going bald since 14 im 18 right now and its getting bad im gonna have to shave i feel sick to my stomach but i knew this day was coming
Bro appko kabse hair fall ho rha hai please bro batana jarur jisse aapki tension aur thodi Kam hogi
@@googleexplorer6782 Bro, these boys should at least get out of highschool before needing to go bald. So cruel. Edit: 23 I always had thin hair, still haven’t shaved it yet.
So glad this guy did the shave! Losing hair at those aged is awful. He ended up looking stylish and great with the shave!
I started balding at 13 I'm 15 now n I'm probably just going to shave it clean in a couple days or kms idk
@@CLYDEELA dont think about second option bud I tried it . Failed but I keep on improving and trying to do something about it dont loose hope ! Sending love
@@CLYDEELA Have you seen a dermatologist to confirm whether you are suffering from male pattern baldness? I'm not a doctor, but from what I know, MPB at 13 is basically impossible. Hair loss can be caused by many things and at your age it's more likely a vitamin deficiency or stress.
@@byronius7012yup stress and iron deficiency both
@@CLYDEELA It's not genetic, then. Your hair will grow back if you improve your diet and stress management.
Gaurav, I am proud of you. I appreciate the way you handled your balding psychologically and by medication. You are inspiration for other people suffering same problem and emotional setbacks.
Wish you a bright career and lots of happiness.
He has a good face structure for a shaved head
Brother that is terrible being bullied over hair loss. I've a speech impediment so I know how cruel this world can bem
Have you done or considered doing speech therapy ? I've heard that its completely treatable
Much respect to this gentleman.
That’s rough at 14, respect for embracing it!
why this is happening at teenage it's very difficult for a teenager to get out of it
Very inspirational story, love the way he described everything that he went through. It's so amazing to see people's transformations, especially the transformation of their mentality!
Very positive and comfortable young man. With this attitude he will get very far.
This guy is great for creating this forum to help people come to terms with balding. I really could have done with something like this when I was balding. I would have done it sooner.
Really nice interview, one of the bests. Thanks for sharing man.
Very good podcast, he presented his story really well. I can relate to nearly all of it.
It started for me at 14/15. Honestly, school was horrible, teens are cruel af. On the bright side, this young man has been blessed with very a good head shape and facial structure. By 22/23 most people won't care any more.
the cope is good when it benefits you, a cope that is fake will make you seem more insecure.
Great man Gaurav. You are an inspiration for all the people in the world who are bald or going to I mean hats off to you so much confidence even at the early age.
Amazing experience sharing with you mate and for everyone out there who still think its over just remember that you gotta fight through the bad days to earn the best days of your life. Cheers.
👑 The pleasure is all mine brother 🤝 Very well said
Sir mine also same problem as yours, my friend always mocked with me, for this😭
#Rishavdas no need this type of friend
@@forrestgump5735 thank you for motivate me☺️ but i can't leave them😔
He has the perfect head shape
I have extremely crooked teeth, didn't think about it until I was 16. I could completely empathize with everything he said, I have never heard someone describe his issues and them being so close to what I had experienced.
Get veneers. Life changer for those in your situation
@@derrick2251 I can't, my teeth are too crooked. But they have a nice shape, at least that's what my dentist told me.
my friend has crooked teeth too but we vibe with it, we don't bully no one in my class, i am grateful of it
Me too I wish I could afford braces
Dude has a great head shape and the hair just was holding his head back 😛 I wish we could all be so lucky!
i’ll never forget a couple months back some kid who was much younger then me making a joke about my hair..that was one of the shittyiest feelings I had he was only like 12 and i’m 18.But that shit hurt not fair at these ages to go through your hair thinning like this
Shave asap man! Embrace it! Start with shave and then get to the gym. Build whatever muscle you can slowly put surely. Screw that dipshit 12 year old.
Brush it off, never take insults to your head mate (pun intended)
@@SurfyStories I did but I felt horrible in the moment.
@@VinnyGuardino ya man same happened to me, it feels bad at that moment but later 'fuck them'.
I love your page man, I gain so much confidence with every vid I watch thank you
This is such an interesting topic. I'm not a bald or balding man but I love the love and support you guys give each other, it's so refreshing, it's like a positive chain reaction with you all building each other up. I know someone who lost his hair when he was young I think around 15 and now at the age of mid 40's still won't do anything or let anyone see him without a hat. It seems restricting. I think he said he wishes he went hatless and rocked a bald head when he was young as he feels too self-conscious, shy and set in his ways now, which I think is kind of upsetting but each to their own. He may decide to ditch the hats one day🤞. Guys shave their heads to feel free and powerful whereas girls buy it to feel the same even though they already have hair! And then feel less without it 😂🤦🏾♀️
Go bald, be free and enjoy life!💚
losing hair in your teenage years is just so devastating
It's really scary to see yourself going bald and you have to go with mental stress and it's really hard to accept it but you are really brave to take this decision and you got a beautiful and perfect face cut.
So proud of this man
So proud of you Gaurav ❤️
I noticed I was starting to lose hair around the age of 16 and it was such a struggle being so young and having to go through that.
And then at 22, I was like enough is enough and shaved my head bald with a razer. Never regretted it and would recommend to just go for it for any guy in a similar situation.
I am also going to shave my hair now Currently i am of age 20 and i have been losing hair from age 19 at a rapid pace and now i an sucked up of this day to day looking at the mirror
Really good souled lad, wish him all the best
Wish this existed when I was balding at eighteen. I started shaving my head completely at 21. I changed my mind for a short period and tried to fight that back but then I accepted the fact shaving my head was the best option. It was hard but now I'm proud of myself.
really happy I found this channel
Man you are doing god's work.
I am not balding but one point of time my hair also started falling may be due to stress but at that time I feel so insecure I can't express.
Inshort hats off to people out there who challenge this situation and came out of it 👌
@@glazefrect1337 JUST shave my head and take care of hair with routine oil massaging. Repeat shaving during lockdown and in period of time hairfall stops and now my hair looks good. Try it 👍
By shaving no tension no overthinking hence no stress
@@dj58 that's true but right now there's no lockdown 🗿
@@glazefrect1337 I understand 😅 but beleive me you feel relieved once done.
@@dj58 okay i will try bro. Thanks!
I'm 19 brother.I'm balding as well.Now there's not enough hair to cover my bald positions.I'm going to racer my hair like you.I have a advice for you brother.don't care about your hair.you have a whole life to think brother
Bro you're an inspiration..rocking the bald look!
My dad always said “grass doesn’t grow on a good roof.”
I started going bald at about 14. At 18 years old my hair was so thin it was like looking through a window screen. I made the decision, cut everything off, and have never looked back. Nearly seven years later, I’m married to a GORGEOUS BEAUTIFUL woman, have a family, and I can’t imagine myself with hair.
@@Jinxser lol same my facial structure is not good
Then you're lucky. Some of us look like subhumans even with hair, losing it would be the final nail in the coffin
@@phatlewt2932 A subhuman is always going to be a subhuman, just know that it’s not your fault.
Man, u have the most perfect head shape. Your Baldness it's just an embellishment at that point (despite all the suffering, I know ).
I am going bald I am unable to face it ....I started smoking..alcohol and all stuff and getting down and down in the society...
2nd! About to go bald soon trying to find the confidence to do it. Crown hair almost gone tired of using fibers. We are in this together!
Watch the “not alone” tab right at the end brother 👌 very true words.
I started balding at 27 and it was hard for me, since my dad is not bald so I didn’t understand but it turned out my grandfather from my mother side (which i never met) was bald…I have been shaving my head for a year now and I couldn’t been more happy, cheers dude you are truly an inspiration.
baldness messes you up a little but once you accept the shave you stop giving a shit really..takes time tho still going through this.
@@MuzoEph I know, for me it was also hard since most of my life I had long hair and I don’t have a single friend that is bald (I’am the bald guy within my friends) I wish I had found this channel years ago, just remember my friend your hair doesn’t defines who you are, keep it up
@@danteluna8322 My stroy is bit like yours "had an hairline for 27 yrs then lost it in less than 6months" 🤣🤣But going bald did up my beard game for some reason 🤣
@@MuzoEph LOL, I feel the same about my chest hair, it looks like my chest has all the hair my head is missing
@@danteluna8322 let men play with my man's head hair "said no women ever" but chest and beard 👉🏽There's hope we're on the right path brother.
He is awesome. That courage never come from a common man.
Hey man you look really good bald! Keep up the confidence and I the incoming beard is killer too!
24 years old with a shaved head. I absolutely love it. I encourage every man to embrace it with extreme confidence
Not every balding man wants to be bald.
@@8ONJO55 yes i know but it takes courage and patience
I can grow hair but i still prefer short zero buzzed hair
I'm also 24 and losing hair rapidly. Soon I'll do it
@@HowTo_studio 😻
I’m grateful for my hair bruh ong. youre not alone stay strong my brotha 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
I legit feel bad for men who dealt with this in their teens. I didn't shave until my 30s and by then it wasn't weird to be bald at this age
Yeah and the peer pressure from other teens at that age is criminal
Heavily relatable brother,I started making up diseases to cover up my balding .I never had good hair per say but the thinning can really kill your self confidence.The only thing that was going for me was that I was funny as shit so I made jokes about my balding hair and as a result I wasn't bullied so much
I remember in high school there was a guy in my class who was balding. He looked twice his age, it really sucks balding that young. I didn't even think anything of it at the time because it never crossed my mind you could bald that young, but when I got older I connected the dots.
The cultural reason is so true! I can empathize with him so much!
I am 24 year old and I noticed loosing my hair in my 20 .so much stress ,anger , loneliness because everyone poke me for hair even my gf leave me because everyone also laughing at her because of me ,now i take alot of medication but nothing helping me …your videos now help me tob be confident now i am also thinking to going bald …
Thanks for helping me and other mentally by making Vedios 🙏about baldness
keep rocking king you really did made an impact
Dude look even better in bald
Very articulate, very handsome young man.... respect. 🇬🇧👍
I think it's time for me as well, had a hard time accepting it the past few months as I started balding with 22 even though I got great hair (I'm 24 now) but when I watch these videos and my fellow bros it gives me confidence and the extra boost to pull through it.
though my biggest insecurity is that I have a weird head shape, my head is like a peanut on top if that makes sense haha.
@@jiojet2633 wish you well. I was balding in my early twenties. I'm now in my 50s and have a had a shaved head for long time. It's hard initially but you will get there in you're own time and you're not alone. Good luck.
@@daveyboy6934 Thank you sir, this means a lot to me!
why you not eating natural its your fault eat raweat
meat
I would like to see myself bald as handsome as him. Amazing bald style
He looks so much better now
Relatable I'm having the same issues but i'm 20 . Insecure Af . The reason I don't like to meet people is this. I only go with friends who are really close to me and never mocked me.
I am thanking God again for finding this channel!!
Please to have you here brother. Thanks for being a part of it all
I feel you bro, I feel like you are saying my story.
Bro looking handsome and tough with the bald look
No one should have to go through that at such an early age. The good thing is that this guy has a nicely shaped head and looks good bald.
Yes, its really bad if one has a broad forehead.
You look so awesome!
Kya baat hai bhai. Bahoot badiya
As much as I want to, I really can't get around to accepting it. I just feel like it does not go well with my self image or the way I look at myself. It's an internal conflict that makes me confused
Love this 💎💙
Now you look, great man.
Harry looks great with his remaining hair growing and so much confidence. Thanks
I was thinking that too. I hope he keeps growing it out
No. It looks stupid
@@derekporter66 No he look good.
@@matthieudelarte3914 right.
I am 22 with depression and i have premature grey hair and now i noticed losing 200-300 hair while combing now i am depressed as hell.. Neither i am good looking
His story same like my story
But this man just rock it 🔥
I like baldcafe's new haircut with thr longer hair. Looks good
such a nice talk! I wasnt balding, I have low hair density like all in my family and I decided to buzz it off. Never felt so great before.
I'm 23 and getting bald i have typical male baldness pattern widow's peak it's really very embarrassing i wear hat most of the time I've stopped posting my photos, i wish i can go bald but the problem is my head is small also my facial hairs are not grown that much except for my mustache which i think will make me look ugly if i go bald. I literally don't know what to do
About a year ago, I was sometimes thinking like "is my hair getting thinner?", but I didn't really think about it. I'm 19 currently, soon 20 and a week ago I fully realized there were signs of hairloss. Actually my crown has a centimeter wide bald batch. My father and his brothers have it and my brother has thinner hair already too. Thinking back and forth about treatments, today I decided: "f*ck it, it's coming off".
Through your videos, I'm more confident than ever to do this step :))))
I wish you the best of luck. You may be surprised how relieved you feel cutting it off
Same bro i am 20 and now i am also loosing hairs since 19 and feeling to shave it off completely
I’m 23, I only started to pay attention to my thin hair after 21. It just came soon for us bros.
Well done my boy 👍
Bullying someone for hair loss that they can’t control is fucked up
I am starting to slowly bald at 26. My hair was always my identity, it was so full and thick, now it's thinning and it's so easy to see the scalp through it! Wasn't possible a few months ago. I am so extremely self conscious about it. I am literally afraid to look in the mirror because of it, I get panic attacks. I don't think I'll ever be able to embrace that. I am so scared man:(
You gotta clip it off bro. Happened to me at 23. Its chillax, just rock a buzzcut
No. You don't HAVE TO clip it off. Look into finasteride.
Well I know several Indians with full hair who arent even close to be as handsome as this guy. He looks like Nacho Varga from Better Call Saul.
started 12 year old
now I am 17 almost loss all hope
Just turned 17 and thinning/ losing in the crown slowly which started at 14-15, feels terrible. At least I’m pretty good looking but damn it feels like shit to lose my hair this early. Minoxidil and Finasteride going to have to come in clutch for my 20’s lmao.
I would say stick to finasteride only if ur hair loss isn’t too aggressive, finasteride is something u can quit without immediate loss of gains. however, minoxidil is great as a growth stimulant but as soon as u stop, within weeks you’ll start losing everything, it’s better to slow down the hair loss and maintain with fin and then use natural remedies for growth stimulants
@@bilalamir5598 don't bother with meds. Stick to this
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I'm going through the same thing right now with telogen effluvium at 15
When you have hair, you don't think about it at all.
You go to the barber and get a fresh cut etc.
But when you start balding, that really hits your confidence and you then realize how hard it is.
All your youth gets taken away, you look 20yrs older just from that alone and you look at your old pictures when you still had full hair.
I FEEL U MANN
Praise God. I can see the relief in his face.
Be strong i am facing hair loss and my hair line reside too much age 21 . But I trying to be strong without hair.
Use Neo Hair Lotion it works I'm using it and I can see the difference.
Hey with that Skin and the Shape of his head... He Literally has nothing to worry about. The girls LOVE skin-heads... Especially when young. And the struggle makes you better than everyone who hasn't struggled. Because GOD Rewards the Overcomers!
He looks very good with shaved head look
Bro I don't understand why people make fun of someone whose going through hardest time of his life
Bro ur a king 🔥🔥🔥👑;;;
I started losing my hair at 15. It was pure he'll. I ended up wearing a hair piece at 20.
I feel you your worries, brother. 15 is totally unfair.. Everyone around you is happy and has a girlfriend while you just struggle to maintain your youth. Even at 25 it's still rough. How do you feel about it today?
@@Jioti_Parcharides I came to terms years later. I suffered through name calling such as curly and hairless wonder,. I could not get a date no matter what by the time I graduated from High School I was almost bald.
@@qbnguy153 I am sorry you went through such a bad period of time. Nobody deserves this and it leaves scars for a lifetime. And still, hairloss is a big issue for the two of us. Otherwise we wouldn't meet here in this channel. Take care and best of luck to you.
Did you shave off your hair?
@@Jioti_Parcharides thank you my friend for being so supportive
Well im 20 and I'm noticing signs of hairloss... As i was young and growing up i never thought I'd be balding... When i looked at those bald guys... I wouldn't imagine my future being like that... But this shizz is stressful man
When you shave your head , it just open up another level of confidence.
I got that but in my family we got like nw 2 just receding hairline other hair still thick untill 80 .Thats the different i liked my hairline like in my 18s and receding got bit worst untill 34 but i would do transplant when i''m 40 and it will be fine but if i would go down like he does i would shave my head bald like i did many times before.,
I can relate you bro mine started at 17
Hair just went byebye these past years, mines not like the receding kind but is like the ones shown in the vid where my entire head is thinned out, though definitely seeing it recede slightly. Besides dealing with baldness, my facial hair game is garbage, can't grow a beard and I'm also very short, 5'3. I have tried shaving my head but then I started developing a lot of acne on my forehead. I've come to terms to live with the dices I've been given, though it would have been nice to be able to grow a thick beard or a rock cool haircut.
time will come for me too that im gonna shave my hair so right now i will enjoy my hair while its still there, i notice that my hair is thinning in front but the hairline is still ok its just thinning maybe bacause of stress and anxiety/panic attack and overthink for the past months so i shed and i have a poor diet and lack of sleep i started to smoke again too because of my stress financially and school maybe thats the reason why i started to loose a lot of hair but its really hard for me to focus right now because i used to get paranoid on my health specially in my hair but im going to change all the things now to see the difference if its actually the cause of stress or if im really balding
Suits you Sir👍
He looks amazing with shaved head. I started balding when i was 27ish and now im 32. Every day im using some kind of product to hide the baldspots uptop and in front to keep my "relatively" good hairstyle, at the same time i just cant wait to shave my head and just get on with it. I really feel the struggle, especially during summertimes, cant dip my head, if it rains it will smud out, if i sweat during workout etc.
Get SMP done.
@@johnthree1611 what is SMP?
@@Rallew123 , Scalpicropigmentation. I recently had mine done. It's a temporary tattoo that makes your bald spots appear to have stubble. If you are bald like me, then they do the top of your head, and you've just gotta buzz your hair, and it looks like you have a buzzcut. Some people who just have thinning hair, get it, and it covers up thinning.
I highly recommend it, but also recommend finding the best SMP artist in your area to do it. It's important to look at their pictures after it heals. I'll send you a youtubers name, you can check out what he's done.
Check out scalp micros youtube page to see what a good artist does.
The difference between SMP, and a tattoo, when they do SMP they do small dots to make them look like hair follicles, they don't put the needle/ink in as deeply as a regular tattoo, and it should take at least three sessions to finish.
Every two months a shaved my head somtimes i just let it but someday i will shave it clean evry time it will grow and grow a beautiful beard and take good care of my skin my healt my body .