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  • Опубліковано 29 тра 2021
  • This week on Better Together, Laurie Crouch, Heather Lindsey, Bianca Olthoff, Dianna Nepstad, and Nicole C. Mullen discuss how to navigate trust issues in relationships.
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  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 3 роки тому +71

    I absolutely LOVED this episode! As a single woman who desires marriage one day, I do feel like it’s hard to know who is the right person to be vulnerable to or share our hearts with, but I’ve gleaned so much wisdom from this episode. Guard your hearts and the Lord will point out the man He has for you. You will recognize him first by his unmistakable love for God and second, by his care and concern for you. And in that order!

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому +2

      You are so right it is hard to know who to be vulnerable with. I think you'll enjoy my channel it's all about marriage prep, check it out!

  • @desilife6435
    @desilife6435 3 роки тому +165

    I just want to say thank you for having a diverse panel of women. I often here about God from people who don’t look like me or don’t come from a similar background as me. It is so helpful to know that God can bless anyone from any background. Thank you ladies!

  • @thandiwells4905
    @thandiwells4905 Рік тому +15

    I am a licensed therapist and I am very happy to hear therapy added to this conversation. I am also a Christian. But I am also trained. That is the key combination. We need spiritual healing and natural healing. But there are some that only Holy Spirit can heal. Really enjoyed this episode ladies.

    • @katlegosebolao9945
      @katlegosebolao9945 9 місяців тому

      Oh my word . Are you South African?

    • @kissofarose100
      @kissofarose100 3 місяці тому

      I have a curiosity as you do work in this field maybe you can help me , the world in present is obsessed with going to therapists to fix you but we as Christian doesn't that mean you put more trust in people to heal you then Lord Jesus? Sorry for my bad english, the language is not my maternal one

  • @suzieque7691
    @suzieque7691 3 роки тому +106

    I’ve been hurting for almost a year. My kids’ father and I broke up last year and it’s been so hard for me to let go. He has moved on already and it hurts but I’m tired of letting this make me a prisoner. I’m afraid that I wouldn’t find a husband but I believe that God will meet me where I am. Please Pray for my heart❤️🙏🏾

    • @makebacunningham6795
      @makebacunningham6795 3 роки тому +11

      This too shall pass. I too am going through this too and dear let me tell you it was very hard and devastating however make a daily routine of activities that will fill up your time. You begin to feel weary put on some praise and worship music or a sermon etc write in a journal. These things help me. Praying for you my sister

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 роки тому +3

      @@makebacunningham6795 thanks a lot. I know it will get better by the grace of God.

    • @hissheep9539
      @hissheep9539 3 роки тому +7

      You’re gonna make it to the other side, it isn’t much longer from now and you will praise God for it in the land of the living. All of Heaven is cheering for you sister. The Lord is close to the broken hearted. Rely on God.

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 роки тому +1

      @@hissheep9539 thanks you so much!! I really appreciate it.

    • @candacecherrel
      @candacecherrel 3 роки тому +3

      Same here! Praying ❤

  • @nicoleday2305
    @nicoleday2305 2 роки тому +4

    Marriage isn't to make you Happy, it's to make you Holy!

  • @lesedigololo7485
    @lesedigololo7485 3 роки тому +7

    'Guard your heart' yep I should have done that with my best guy friend cause now I regret it. So guys please guard your hearts

  • @cristalroberts9962
    @cristalroberts9962 3 роки тому +71

    Needed to hear this as a new believer am so glad to know that god can heal all my pass hurt😭😭🙏🙏

    • @adeyhenrietta343
      @adeyhenrietta343 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah he can do more than you could ever ask or think, just in hang in his word all the time and he will work miracles for you. Welcome to the family.

    • @jojocluddy2534
      @jojocluddy2534 3 роки тому +1

      Welcome to the family, yes God will do wondrous things in your life if only you allow Him to, if you surrender and trust in Him. God bless you 🙏🏾

    • @NicoleAllwood
      @NicoleAllwood 3 роки тому +1

      Yes girl! His provisions (resources,ways and blessings) are truly UNLIMITED far beyond our understanding! He forgives and heals, so continue to trust in Him. Soak in His word and get to know Him intimately. He loves you girl and He’s happy that you want a relationship with Him. God bless you sis!

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому +2

      Oh Yes! God is the ultimate healer! 🤗

  • @just_bee9482
    @just_bee9482 3 роки тому +24

    she is lucky to have met a mature and whole man. had he's been broken as she was, her mistrust would have send him straight into the hands of another women. That's why the vicious circle of unfaithfulness is never ending when two broken souls meet.

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 3 роки тому +20

    Lord, help me to trust in your spirit to reveal to me which people to allow in my life and inner circle and which one to keep out. In accordance with isaiah 2:22 and this whole message I pray for safe and saved people with whom I can share my life and share memories and experiences. Lord, heal any unhealthy trust issue in my life. In the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  • @briannahuser8315
    @briannahuser8315 3 роки тому +37

    Loved this, I feel like a small piece of my heart healed just from hearing other women talk openly about the same things I’ve struggled with..

    • @shoot4themoon406
      @shoot4themoon406 2 роки тому

      We [all] overcome by the word of [our testimonies].

  • @palesamasifhi5108
    @palesamasifhi5108 3 роки тому +21

    The timing of this video in my life is insanely appropriate 😭❤️ This feels like a direct response from God to what he knows has been in my heart

  • @princesswarrior2601
    @princesswarrior2601 3 роки тому +21

    It is only when we can open up feeling safe and talk about our vulnerabilities , fears , insecurities that we can be set free. It’s like finally exposing the attacks / lies of the enemy and finding the truth in Gods word to set you free.

  • @cookingwithchefgilliang5405
    @cookingwithchefgilliang5405 3 роки тому +14

    This is soooo good.. I’m 53 & have been Single for almost 7 yrs.. healing.. therapy.. growth.. to my Purposemate finding me whole & complete in God..🙏🏾👏🏾🙋🏾‍♀️🙌🏾💚

  • @propellingonpurpose5104
    @propellingonpurpose5104 3 роки тому +45

    If he doesn’t love Jesus, he’ll never love you the way you need to be loved! Wow!!!

  • @wendycassanova
    @wendycassanova 3 роки тому +27

    I needed to hear this. I surrender all my relationships to you father and ask that the Holy Spirt will help me to trust others.

  • @lauraclark9140
    @lauraclark9140 3 роки тому +3

    The men need a show like this.

  • @mendi5
    @mendi5 3 роки тому +17

    When one of you cry I also cry... Love you ladies🌼💖♥️. Sending love from South Africa 🇿🇦

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому +1

      God bless...South Africa has been huge a supporter of my channel, feel free to check it out for marriage prep! Enjoy!

  • @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257
    @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257 3 роки тому +6

    This is why I'm waiting on God because He knows exactly what we need and the right one for us who can handle our brokenness. But at the sametime I agree with nicole use the singleness to let God help you work on you and when God says the time is right He will bring the one He has for us into our life

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому +1

      This is so true you must work on yourself before getting married and I just posted a video today on my channel to explain just one of the many ways women can do that practically. Check it out for more!

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 роки тому

      Yesssss 🙌

  • @joyh.729
    @joyh.729 2 роки тому +13

    Thank you to all you ladies for being so transparent! The body of Christ is hungry for conversation like this. Great point about forgiveness being the 1st step in healing.🌟🌟🌟

  • @LovableMe137
    @LovableMe137 7 днів тому

    Omg 3 years later this video is so good. Thank You Jesus for leading me here❤

  • @user-zs1sh5xy3l
    @user-zs1sh5xy3l 3 роки тому +9

    This was so good. I went through a breakup this week that centered around trust issues. Ironically, I ran across this video right after praying. God knew exactly what he was doing. Thanks for tackling this and for the prayer at the end.

  • @believe8754
    @believe8754 3 роки тому +29

    Gosh these women 🥺God bless them🙏🏽. Thank you for impacting our lives

  • @ursulagunter4318
    @ursulagunter4318 3 роки тому +66

    Nugget ~ marriage isn't to make us happy but to make us holy...hmmm, eye opener👍

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic 3 роки тому +7

    I love all these women of God. They are so beautiful and wonderful because of how graceful they speak. They are filled with wisdom. I am still young and learning a lot from them before I get married and even just living life itself. I'm grateful for these positive side of UA-cam, talking about REAL and wholesome things.

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому +2

      Amen! You'll love the advice on my channel if you enjoyed this video it's all marriage prep!

    • @racheloshaksmusic
      @racheloshaksmusic 2 роки тому

      @@BecomingIrresistible just checked out some of your recent videos on your channel! Sounds very good. Your point about looking good for men is true but there are so many Christian women who feel otherwise and who find a man that loves them the way they are. So it’s very interesting how this all works.

  • @MiilyGarcia0119
    @MiilyGarcia0119 3 роки тому +4

    I needed this- I’m good for talking and thinking negatively about husband, but this has just conveyed me and re-enforced for me that I need to see my man how God sees Him.

  • @prycerobertson4695
    @prycerobertson4695 3 роки тому +9

    Love your show! It's about time a faith-based show with beautiful women was made. Come to think of it, it's been two years now since your show hit the airwaves. Keep up the good and blessed work!

  • @mandisagumbi3985
    @mandisagumbi3985 3 роки тому +6

    "It's the hard stuff that makes the marriage" love this!

  • @NicolaVimbaiTsaha-mh3zr
    @NicolaVimbaiTsaha-mh3zr 10 місяців тому

    I have been hurt by almost everyone in my family but by listening to your community shows am at a great place now... thank you guys you are God sent

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 Рік тому +1

    This very good topic for singles because this definitely certain things need seek God for healing before get married because we can ruined a perfect realationship need be healthy heal and whole and then that's when we are ready for marriage Thank all woman's on this panel speaking about their own personal testimony it's encouraging to others.GOD blessed each one of you.

  • @unique_monique
    @unique_monique 3 роки тому +18

    I know it takes a lot of work to bring you all together and makes these, THANK YOU!! It’s so encouraging and I feel like I’m sitting in the room with you

  • @tequaldunning
    @tequaldunning 3 роки тому +7

    I LOVE THIS!! 😭 .. I was just talking to God about me getting married in December & this video hit so many points 🥺

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому +1

      Congratulations to you! My channel will give you some great advice before your nuptials, enjoy! 😊

  • @adayinthelight7575
    @adayinthelight7575 3 роки тому +30

    Can you pray for me and my marriage? Need help with intimacy. Also, I’m just not confident right now. How do I learn to love myself again?

    • @mildredchelangat2367
      @mildredchelangat2367 3 роки тому +3

      All will be well in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    • @godlygirl
      @godlygirl 3 роки тому +5

      Hello sister, prayers sent up for you and your marriage!! One way you can learn to love yourself is to meditate on what God says about you!! Pray and ask God to help you see yourself the way God sees you!

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 3 роки тому +1

      JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU SO MUCH!!! 🤗🌹🙏🙌🏽🕊😇 YAH IS ON THE MOVE!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 ALLELUIA!!! 🕊🕊🕊

    • @demetricole1687
      @demetricole1687 3 роки тому +2

      This is so honest and pure ❤️I’m learning too

  • @misskat7437
    @misskat7437 3 роки тому +8

    So good. Needed to hear all of this. This carries over to so many types of relationships- work, friends, in laws, children, etc. It is a works based type of thinking that many of us fall into when we do "everything right" but the issue is, we all THINK we're right when only God is. As a woman who is prepping for marriage, I really appreciate the transparency of this message, thank you Jesus.

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому

      So true! You'll love my channel it's all about marriage prep for single Christian women, check it out and enjoy! God bless!

  • @sheisstrongpodcast
    @sheisstrongpodcast Рік тому

    i cried when she cried.. praying for us all,

  • @palesamasifhi5108
    @palesamasifhi5108 3 роки тому +6

    I needed to hear this to acknowledge the hell I’ve created in my own head. Thank you so much for sharing the experiences in your own lives and how you dealt with them and apply the word to your own lives. We feel heard and understood. Your discussions are so relatable and I’m extremely grateful to learn so much from you ladies ❤️

  • @dexpression4423
    @dexpression4423 3 роки тому +10

    Great praise discussion God's word spoke by women who are sharing their hurt and sharing that there is healing because God is with you
    I needed to hear this message. God bless you in Jesus name
    Amen

  • @momeetamee007
    @momeetamee007 3 роки тому +3

    Sweet. May Heather and her husband treat the folks at pinky promise better as that is also holy ☺️

  • @aliceriley1173
    @aliceriley1173 3 роки тому +5

    I really love listening to you women of God, sharing your hearts so openly. My heart is truly blessed and inspired. Love y'all❤💕💞🇹🇹

  • @jmelindap8195
    @jmelindap8195 3 роки тому +9

    thank you for these honest, intimate conversations which will help put other ladies on the path to healing

  • @user-jo9rv7my8e
    @user-jo9rv7my8e 3 роки тому +3

    Thankful for the vulnerability of all of you ladies

  • @chisomo3957
    @chisomo3957 3 роки тому +7

    This was very helpful thank you. I was almost throwing in the towel

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem 2 роки тому +1

    CALLED ME OUT! "What ammunition do you have to fight back with? It can't be UA-cam! You got to fight back with the Word" I laughed!! So hard!! Then did one of these 😬
    Love y'all ladies! Blessings in the new year 2022 💖🔥🌹

  • @tittervisionxoxoxo4340
    @tittervisionxoxoxo4340 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks i really needed this.

  • @lolabolaji_
    @lolabolaji_ 3 роки тому +1

    I just love this channel! The best!

  • @karynjones4110
    @karynjones4110 3 роки тому +2

    loved this! thanks for the advice and for sharing

  • @cathyimani5932
    @cathyimani5932 3 роки тому

    Amen! Thank you ladies. Healing it is.

  • @fiveyearstoforty313
    @fiveyearstoforty313 3 роки тому +3

    Such a wonderful conversation 💕💕💕

  • @myradeunique7635
    @myradeunique7635 3 роки тому +1

    This is soooo good! It is a conversation that need to be had. I have some of the same issues mentioned.TRUST! Thank you for this segment!!!

  • @jemmy924
    @jemmy924 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! This was amazing😄 Thanks for uploading the whole episode. Received so much from this discussion

  • @marciaphillip3555
    @marciaphillip3555 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for these words of healing.

  • @Zoeys_treasures
    @Zoeys_treasures 3 роки тому +4

    This blessed me. Thank you!!!

  • @cynthia2378
    @cynthia2378 3 роки тому +2

    This is a beautiful talk.

  • @angiemaiapu763
    @angiemaiapu763 3 роки тому +2

    This is the most powerful conversation I’ve ever heard. Ladies, you don’t know how much your words are helping me. Thank you so much

  • @kenyaoneal9098
    @kenyaoneal9098 3 роки тому +8

    This was Sooo Good!!! Thank You Soo Much Better Together!!!💜

  • @VenetiaRenata
    @VenetiaRenata 2 роки тому +1

    So resonate and so inspired Heather 🤍👣✨

  • @ayeeda7891
    @ayeeda7891 3 роки тому +1

    They all look soooo stunning ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kenyaoneal9098
    @kenyaoneal9098 3 роки тому +3

    Out of Love...I Say Yes!!!!...Love this!!!!❤

  • @tintswalomashinini
    @tintswalomashinini 2 роки тому +1

    I love this episode. It just dealt with my perspective when it comes to marriage.

  • @sylviahorne5525
    @sylviahorne5525 Рік тому

    Thank you Queens 🙏🏼❤🙌🏼👑😘 I appreciate this video ❤ Happy New Year 👑 ❤ 🙌🏼

  • @chichis7768
    @chichis7768 3 роки тому +3

    Awesome advice, I love it thank you beautiful ladies..😊💕💕💕😘👏

  • @shaniekmontieth2402
    @shaniekmontieth2402 3 роки тому +2

    Love this message

  • @babiryewinnifred2079
    @babiryewinnifred2079 2 роки тому +1

    This is an important conversation. Praying 🙏

  • @jacquelinewelch3021
    @jacquelinewelch3021 3 роки тому

    Needed that especially that prayer at the end. God Bless my Sistas! God Strength ✝️🙏🏾. Our Hearts ♥️ are Truly Safe with Him 🙌🏾✝️🙏🏾

  • @OwnYourHealthiestLife
    @OwnYourHealthiestLife 2 роки тому

    Yessss! Forgiveness is so critically important.

  • @ntebogengmabilo9036
    @ntebogengmabilo9036 3 роки тому +1

    I LOVE ALL OF THIS😭🙌🏾❤️

  • @Gomlie1970
    @Gomlie1970 3 роки тому +3

    God meets us exactly at our need. Trust and intimacy

  • @simply_nikisha
    @simply_nikisha Рік тому

    Thank you for helping get me together! Better Together

  • @BrightElisha
    @BrightElisha Рік тому

    This episode was very powerful..it really hit me what Laurie said about the mind. It truly is a battlefield and can contribute much difficulty to a marriage if gone unchecked.

  • @lawrencebhatti2280
    @lawrencebhatti2280 Рік тому

    Billions of God bless you all.

  • @brucetenhave6952
    @brucetenhave6952 3 роки тому

    Thankyou for your prayer at the end 💗

  • @calvincovington3109
    @calvincovington3109 3 роки тому +2

    Wow that was good God be the Glory

  • @kelalife
    @kelalife 3 роки тому

    love this conversation ladys God is able to do anything when we let him in and let God take control .🙏🏽🙌 💕

  • @NinjaLeeful
    @NinjaLeeful 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for the best sisterly relationship advise ive ever received ❤

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 2 роки тому +1

      Praise God, there's more advice on my channel, check it out!

  • @sharonthomas9851
    @sharonthomas9851 3 роки тому +6

    Thank You ladies for being real.

  • @go2yourself
    @go2yourself 11 місяців тому

    Great conversation 😊

  • @livelife2507
    @livelife2507 2 роки тому +1

    Heather Lindsey! Your on fire girl! 🔥

  • @sheillaatukunda3366
    @sheillaatukunda3366 2 роки тому

    Thank you VERY MUCH Beautiful Moms. Women of God. God bless you and your families!

  • @annatevesbanzon1359
    @annatevesbanzon1359 2 роки тому

    Great topic ladies!

  • @angelrobinson5257
    @angelrobinson5257 3 роки тому

    I appreciate this!

  • @glendamorrison5159
    @glendamorrison5159 2 роки тому

    Praise God 😍 bonding with men. I'm single and feeling alone. This was and is me.thank you

  • @estherh.o-yeboah4437
    @estherh.o-yeboah4437 2 роки тому

    How I love this channel🥺😍😍😍🙏🏾

  • @machellesparks4575
    @machellesparks4575 2 роки тому

    I like the sidebar conversation away from the group, feel like you're talking to me in depth personally, great job!

  • @chantellrenee
    @chantellrenee 2 роки тому

    WOW! This was good!

  • @GrowithChelsey
    @GrowithChelsey 3 роки тому

    This is so good

  • @tracylee383
    @tracylee383 3 роки тому +3

    I still discerned the spirit of HURT. It may not be the baggage from the past but church hurt which is called: "MISUNDERSTANDING HURT" #Assumptions ❤🙇🏾‍♀️

    • @yeyamusic
      @yeyamusic 3 роки тому

      Some of that healing just takes time and is more gradual

  • @dianewashington505
    @dianewashington505 Рік тому

    Excellent

  • @ishakeister2810
    @ishakeister2810 3 роки тому

    Love you ladies God bless

  • @melanisewilliams7588
    @melanisewilliams7588 3 роки тому +1

    Amen this is needed, God has power beyond our craziness their is a real attacks against relationship because their is so much strength in unity and where there is two or three agreeing on anything in the name of Jesus their God will be in the midst

  • @Rosheazmusic
    @Rosheazmusic 3 роки тому +1

    my fears explained ❤️

  • @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257
    @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257 3 роки тому +1

    Man Nicloe was speaking it💯

  • @debraalexander2466
    @debraalexander2466 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you and need to hear it a blessed from God

  • @racquelrobinson3030
    @racquelrobinson3030 Рік тому

    Godly women coming together to talk about this is something that God delivered to me and I needed

  • @gloryjames4855
    @gloryjames4855 3 роки тому

    Just in time 🙏

  • @AS3132
    @AS3132 2 роки тому

    "He may be hot but so is hell."🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that was so funny but true. Good point. Love the whole conversation me.Awesome Jesus.
    Oh by the way I love how you all can laugh meins. That s beautiful to watch

  • @tammyculp7274
    @tammyculp7274 2 роки тому

    So good

  • @evertars
    @evertars 3 роки тому

    Excellent video,

  • @vijayjacob227
    @vijayjacob227 3 роки тому +2

    Praise the lord sister's.god bless you sister's. please prayers for me sister's. Please.vijaykumar South India

  • @diannabrwn2520
    @diannabrwn2520 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video I love you all my dream is to come on your show and talk about this

  • @SewingFaith
    @SewingFaith 2 роки тому

    Amazing

  • @4ll4nb31l
    @4ll4nb31l 3 роки тому +2

    would love to hear the holy spirit tell me i love you so much. great to hear that some people are loved with special care.