Mental Illness, Left and Right with Prof. Ed Dutton, Jolly Heretic

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  • Victimhood movements on both the left and the right show signs of mental illness. With Ed Dutton (edwarddutton.com/)
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  • @amirsoltany9561
    @amirsoltany9561 23 дні тому +37

    Is it just me or is this the greatest Duo 😂❤

  • @user-ku1ly9ux1q
    @user-ku1ly9ux1q 22 дні тому +8

    Watched his interview a second time. And I must say. It's an awesome meeting of the minds. Vaknin and Dutton are a good combo.

  • @evaw3421
    @evaw3421 24 дні тому +37

    "How is it like to be a narcissist?" lol this episode is likely the funniest ever. Thank you.

  • @LizWeaverNZ
    @LizWeaverNZ День тому

    How I love a great combo podcast from 2 people I've listened to loads and love from their different corners of the interwebs, thank you both!!

  • @cecillekinnear4585
    @cecillekinnear4585 23 дні тому +8

    I'm a writer and I absolutely agree that human beings are indeed in Flux. I've noticed how much difficulty rigid personalities have in their interactions with society. Also I live in South Africa where people with characteristics that in the past would have been sanctioned and even stigmatized have either sunk to their lowest point barely existing in poverty while others are extremely successful.

  • @robertjames7859
    @robertjames7859 24 дні тому +20

    All the time to learn in the world lucky me!

  • @adamroth719
    @adamroth719 24 дні тому +30

    Ever since I was in a relationship with who I suspected as a covert malignant narcissist, I keep seeing amplified narcissistic traits in other people. I always try to see the good in people but this is becoming a problem for me as I find it hard to trust people.
    How can I find fix this?

    • @chralexNET
      @chralexNET 24 дні тому +12

      I think what Vaknin would tell you is that you have to give people a chance, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't do so judiciously. That is what I remember from watching Vaknin. Anyway, I hope things get better for you.

    • @markcostley9612
      @markcostley9612 23 дні тому +3

      Stop needing to be validated by anyone

    • @JulieEdward-th7hg
      @JulieEdward-th7hg 21 день тому +1

      Does it need fixing? I'm serious

  • @TA_Tactics
    @TA_Tactics 24 дні тому +12

    1:04:30 He took that diagnosis of "maxillary hypoplasia" on the chin.

  • @Loveofmissing
    @Loveofmissing 23 дні тому +7

    Thabk you Dutton! Never heard of you before but very glsd to have your questions. New to sams content as well but having someone else prompt his mind has been revealing.
    Think i have cptsd and narcacistic and phyotic traits. Im still figuring out what is subclinical and what is from trauma.
    I really related to the joke of psychopathy and narcacism, having both being the best of both worlds 😅
    If we make fun of the guests in the comments i can't imagine Prof Sam will get many more.

  • @RandomProblemGenerator
    @RandomProblemGenerator 24 дні тому +11

    Not finished watching but I think the something that attracts some of the worst kinds of people is collectivism. It makes sense to favor group identity if you want people to conform to expectations so that they are easier to control. Trying to control each individual person, with their own mind and preferences, is far less efficient. People will naturally herd themselves into groups for protection and status if there is no counterbalance of critical thought.

  • @party8053
    @party8053 23 дні тому +3

    Please record another video on what happens when you discard the narcissist first, in more detail and ideally 3 hours long!!! I broke up with him in a conference, we’re both popular in our discipline. And it was the first time I had more admirers than him. One evening he started acting funny, avoiding me etc. and before I let him devalue me I broke up with him the same night, after months of giving chances. Next day I told all our colleagues in the conference that I broke up with him and he didn’t want that. Since he’s tried to communicate with some stories on instagram etc but no “hoovering” happened a year now. We met recently in another conference and he was all over me. I tried to avoid him again. He started sending me reels etc but I’ve not continued. I was the only woman to break up with him and among the few ex es not keeping in touch or entertaining him. But I do miss him sometimes. I’ve done great steps with your videos. Why is he still in my mind despite I broke up?

    • @Jen-mf9rm
      @Jen-mf9rm 22 дні тому

      You may need to look at "no contact" and what that actually means in practice.

    • @JulieEdward-th7hg
      @JulieEdward-th7hg 21 день тому +2

      You broke up with him in a way that makes your false self look good. If you do not have narcissistic disorder, now take the step of breaking up in a way that is good (truly of benefit) to your real self.
      They (NPD'd people) bring out the false self, but those of us who do not have the fullblown disorder, can get back to the real self, and administer true moved on, peace.

    • @party8053
      @party8053 21 день тому

      @@JulieEdward-th7hg good point

  • @cecillekinnear4585
    @cecillekinnear4585 22 дні тому +3

    That's why helicopter parenting is so cruel to the development of children. Equally leaving babies in certain creche facilities denies children time to bond with their parents and is very unstimulating for children. I worked in such a place and I saw how this practice seemed to cause ADHD or withdrawal in children who might have developede normally if the environment early in life had been better for them.

  • @strangelittlegirl5186
    @strangelittlegirl5186 23 дні тому +8

    This guy has auctioneer energy- not heretic lol

    • @chralexNET
      @chralexNET 23 дні тому +1

      In a lot of his videos he does a little acting with a costume and voice and such based on the topic of the video. I love it. But yeah, I can definitely see what you mean with his attire here, I dig it though.

  • @jaroslavasteinova7657
    @jaroslavasteinova7657 23 дні тому +4

    Prof. Vaknin, an expert on narcissism and also a narcissist himself...an expert of himself, so to say.

  • @strangelittlegirl5186
    @strangelittlegirl5186 23 дні тому +2

    28:00 what a weird segue into attempting to psycho analyze the guest… bizarre. So many weirdly aggressive moments but this especially.

    • @amirsoltany9561
      @amirsoltany9561 23 дні тому +11

      I think the interviewer just has a very honest style. Vaknin doesn't seem to be offended by it.

    • @jennyarnold6698
      @jennyarnold6698 23 дні тому +1

      @@amirsoltany9561 Vaknin is a narcissist, he doesn't care, why would he be offended? His false self is perfect and brilliant. Jolly heretic is just a useful mirror for him.