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  • @kristinschiller1763
    @kristinschiller1763 3 роки тому +20

    I knew my now-husband was the one after a few months of dating when, after a toxic ex had tried to contact me, my now-husband had called him at my request. Instead of doing the macho “leave my girlfriend alone or else” routine, he said, “I understand why you like her. I understand why you want to contact her. She is such a great person . . . but she doesn’t want to continue with your relationship and you need to respect her wishes.” It was then that I knew he was the one for me. His respect for me as a woman and as an individual made me fall in love with him. This podcast reminds me of that moment.

  • @jenniferstlwgn
    @jenniferstlwgn 4 роки тому +34

    I would love to hear a podcast of the list of things you think couples should talk about before marriage: kids, religion, chores, etc.

  • @mae1285
    @mae1285 4 роки тому +6

    I ended a year long relationship on Monday- and I really needed this podcast. Everyone around me kept saying there were red flags that I missed- but no one except my mom wanted to talk about the things I learned from this relationship and how I’ve grown to know what’s important to me In relationships now. To hear you two discuss growing from your relationships was so helpful in reminding myself that my love and this relationship wasn’t a waste- I’ve learned and grown, and can put these life lessons into play for finding the right one when I’m ready to start dating again. Thanks for an amazing podcast! It’s so refreshing to see a married couple talk about uncomfortable topics and how open you two are!

  • @MsGlamourgirlxo
    @MsGlamourgirlxo 4 роки тому +25

    when Shawn goes "I married you" while whispering is the best thing ever- EXACTLY the same thing I would do haha! you two are the cutest and have a great relationship!

  • @sandramccully9136
    @sandramccully9136 4 роки тому +11

    This was SO SPOT ON! I have been divorced 3 times and have 3 kids from 2 different Dads. I now have 6 grandchildren and my kids are awesome! Looking back, much of my problems were that I was trying to meld myself into what I thought they wanted me to be, thus never happy or secure in who I was. So glad my kids learned from my mistakes. I hope this Podcast goes out to every young couple! Love ya.

  • @scrumps101
    @scrumps101 4 роки тому +13

    The dynamic between you two feels so incredibly healthy. I love that you have created such a comfortable space for each other to speak freely and openly without either of you having that slight hesitation in speaking that comes up with couples who judge each other. The respect you both show up with when talking together is such a great and refreshing model of what healthy is in a relationship. You guys are killing it!!

  • @bethannboldt281
    @bethannboldt281 4 роки тому +6

    Andrew and Shawn, you are so sweet. I love how you switch from lovingly picking on each other to begin so supportive in a serious way. Andrew's voice is very soothing.

  • @lizjustme3553
    @lizjustme3553 4 роки тому +3

    Ok, I just got to 25:15 and had to stop to comment...something I HAVE NEVER done...Shawn has hit in a topic very important to me: eating disorders. I have dealt with this disorder most of my life and feel passionate about the lack of attention given. I pray that more people with strong platforms of communication will create a way for this disorder to receive more attention, funding for research and support. I can tell you that of all disorders, mental disorder is the quietest and least discussed because of the ‘taboo’ associated with it. Thank you for speaking freely about your experience! God Bless

  • @kerridrury4240
    @kerridrury4240 4 роки тому +10

    Wow Shawn Andrew is a keeper! He had me at "philosophical discussion" and "I like to read" lol. I think what you guys are doing is actually important -I enjoy the honesty it's refreshing!! Honesty is so RARE and yet it is in the foundation of any good relationship- 2 whole people growing and providing support for each other not "needing" the other to be "ok." Keep keepin' it real and thank you!!

  • @ktsls82
    @ktsls82 4 роки тому +30

    Please please show both faces. Sometimes when Andrew was speaking I SO wished I could see Shawn's expression and vice versa.

  • @keishawalter237
    @keishawalter237 4 роки тому +38

    17:25
    When she called him out for him being concerned about her height, I expected him to be like “ya know what you’re right I’m sorry” but the face that all he said was ”but you are *reallyyyyyy* short” was hysterical! 😂😂😂
    Love you guys!!

  • @Stacy10985
    @Stacy10985 4 роки тому +18

    I love Nash coming in. You can tell he loves his people.

  • @rubysandhu897
    @rubysandhu897 Рік тому

    I really love the way you two communicate and how open and honest you are with each other

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 4 роки тому +26

    Exes, never had an issue, even though we both had exes who wanted us back throughout our 23 yrs of marriage. No jealousy because we knew we were solid. Now, one reason I don't think I'll ever be with anyone again, is widowed is different. I'll always want him back, will keep his memory alive in our home and in our family (we have 5 kids). He's not an ex, but my husband who died and will always be part of me, our family and my life. Always honored and loved. I don't think many would get (or want) that.

    • @joeyjaquez82
      @joeyjaquez82 4 роки тому

      Betsy/BA BF I think when you find the right man, he will love you for all that you are and ever will be... there someone out there with a big heart to be able to love unconditionally and able to love all that you are... don’t ever allow anyone not to know how important he is to you, but, also make that person know your future is an open invitation to someone who is able or man enough to understand the meaningful relationship you had with your children’s father before he was taken to soon... god bless

    • @molly863
      @molly863 3 роки тому

      I don’t have personal experience with this, but when I have thought about this situation or heard people talk about it, I always envision new person will be someone with a really open heart who can understand and accept that you will always be loving two people at the same time. I would imagine it takes a special person to love someone who lost a love to death, however when you find a person capable of that you will be lucky to have someone with a heart big enough to love you and your former love as well.

  • @m.j.golden4522
    @m.j.golden4522 4 роки тому +5

    As an English/French teacher, I will make use of these new Andrew East vocabulary "dramaful, & a combo of "tragedy and travesty" aweinfiring. You are both adorablele.

  • @ktmarieoc
    @ktmarieoc 4 роки тому

    I totally agree about exes shaping us and not erasing those memories. They were part of our lives and there is no sense in pretending like they weren't.

  • @veevee306
    @veevee306 4 роки тому +5

    I have had toxic relationships. I always figure the best way to find out if you're in a toxic relationship is to set your reasonable boundaries and see how they react. If they become offended, argue, or put you down for asking things like, "Hey, can you not rub this in my face please? That hurts" then that is not cool at all. I learned the difference because my best friend of 6 years (who is a guy) never does this. We may have a few ups and downs, and even a few big fights and disagreements over the years. But he never puts me down when I speak up, and he actually likes it.

  • @caro5620
    @caro5620 4 роки тому +1

    this is a super good topic. i was just thinking about this last night, if it’s not meant to be and you know it when you’re in the relationship, once it ends and you heal and forgive etc. you always have what that relationship gave you, you can revisit the feeling of that love and the general vibe of the time you spent w that person. going off of what Shawn said at the beginning, it’s never gonna be like it didn’t happen, it was a gift for what it was. you can take it and learn.

  • @scrumps101
    @scrumps101 4 роки тому +8

    As much as I absolutely love Andrew and agree with a lot of what he says I just adore the hell out of Shawns spunk. I love that she’s not afraid to say what’s on her mind or worried about Andrews reaction. What a great representation of our gender. Love her!

    • @roxiehart1
      @roxiehart1 4 роки тому +3

      I agree with most of what you say but she does put him down a lot, too.
      Not a good representation from that perspective.

  • @suephillips5046
    @suephillips5046 4 роки тому +18

    I just wish that Shawn would let Andrew speak and not interrupt him as he is trying. This is a hard podcast which I admire you both doing.🤗🤗 to you both.

  • @mollyclum2302
    @mollyclum2302 4 роки тому +1

    100% agree on the texting back and forth all day. Makes me crazy and I feel like that’s what 12 year olds do, not adults. Thanks for sharing. Love your podcasts.

  • @kimspeak9107
    @kimspeak9107 4 роки тому +3

    I Love couple things you guys are awesome! I’ve been married to my hubby for 33 years. You need to at some point have a couple on that’s been together “like” forever and mb reflect on your parents relationships or possibly have your parents on.
    Keep up the good work you have a great thing here!

  • @hngoad
    @hngoad 4 роки тому +6

    I think the texting one is for sure a relationship specific one. As someone in a long distance relationship for over two years, texting is how we communicate because we don't get to see each other everyday and sometimes talking on the phone isn't an option. Neither of us expect a response immediately and of course we have our own lives but texting is important for us to remain connected as two people who live farther away from each other.

    • @jillcollinsbrown7857
      @jillcollinsbrown7857 4 роки тому +3

      Hannah Goad My husband and I text all day while at work. It’s not deep conversations but it’s just keeping each other informed on little details,questions, or funny gifs. I actually look forward to when he says Good Morning Boo Boo (nickname) 🥰 IMO it’s is marriage/relationship specific. I think do what works for you and your SO 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @TheShortiexoxo
      @TheShortiexoxo 4 роки тому +1

      Hannah Goad This!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @mdbtptblw
    @mdbtptblw 4 роки тому +1

    Yes, yes, yes to the Live Taping Podcast Tour!
    I really enjoyed this episode. I agree with Shawn about not erasing your "ex" from your past. They were a part of what made you who you are today, for good, bad, ugly, whatever and you should acknowledge that part of yourself. ❤ you guys!

  • @stevischaapveld8016
    @stevischaapveld8016 4 роки тому

    I live how you guys communicate with each other and the back and forth teasing. My husband and I are like this!we have been together for 18 years this year and married for 13 years. Love watching you guys

  • @AlishaC18
    @AlishaC18 4 роки тому +5

    Yes to Andrew - alone time is important! I would not be a good girlfriend/wife if I did not have my alone time! I need space to love that person more and have quality time becaus quality > quantity

  • @ktsls82
    @ktsls82 4 роки тому +2

    I find Andrew's hang up with texting so funny. Definitely agree with Shawn that it is different for everyone. My husband and I love touching base throughout the day through messages. It makes us feel connected throughout the day.

  • @suecrespy
    @suecrespy 4 роки тому +5

    Great episode and great advice! Topic suggestion for another: Top 5 (or whatever) things you love about being married.

  • @dianet8647
    @dianet8647 4 роки тому

    Thank you for speaking about your eating disorder, my daughter had an eating disorder. It’s a horrible illness, my daughter survived and has recovered. There is so much stigma around eating disorders, I think the more it’s talked about the less scary it becomes. February is Eating Disorder awareness month, thanks again.

  • @donna3256
    @donna3256 4 роки тому

    You both are so sweet, excellent conversationalists but so pure and truthful, so many people can learn from you both. Love all your pod casts

  • @ktsls82
    @ktsls82 4 роки тому

    Shawn I was just reading about your breastfeeding struggles and wanted to say YOU ARE A ROCK STAR!! You have done ZERO harm to your sweet girl!! You are doing AMAZING!! I have nursed 7 children but had struggles with my first. I was working nights as a Nurses Aide and pumping was really hard on that crazy schedule. I was nursing her one morning after work and actually fell asleep. Even though she was 3 months she someone rolled off the edge of the bed. I literally woke and caught her mid air. I decided at that point to wean her. My little girl is 14 now and she is thriving. She is taller then me, creative and kind. God bless,

  • @caro5620
    @caro5620 4 роки тому +4

    i changed myself so much in my first relationship, kudos to you guys for being strong enough to end things that might have been perfect on paper. it’s the hardest thing, a leap of faith. ok i’m done commenting now

  • @LindsaySatmary
    @LindsaySatmary 4 роки тому +6

    I've never had a "good" breakup before but time eventually heals and I find it's better to forgive and move forward.

    • @TheShortiexoxo
      @TheShortiexoxo 4 роки тому

      Lindsay Satmary meee

    • @gilashroot8697
      @gilashroot8697 4 роки тому

      Hope you find your true love and have an amazingly, fulfilling marriage.

  • @laurenchisholm4054
    @laurenchisholm4054 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for considering my topic! Loved the episode!! P.S. you guys put this episode together super fast!!

  • @kemdreaemmanuel8584
    @kemdreaemmanuel8584 4 роки тому +7

    I’d love to see an episode of y’all talking about the one!!

  • @ZahraFajr
    @ZahraFajr 4 роки тому

    That morphing is so real. I definitely was too young when I got with my husband. I completely lost myself in our relationship and he, being 8 years older, didn't. I am not realizing how unhealthy that was/is and I am working on fixing it and bringing myself back.

  • @AlishaC18
    @AlishaC18 4 роки тому +5

    & yes to Shawn - you don’t have to marry the first person you love... preach!

  • @allisondittman2121
    @allisondittman2121 4 роки тому +1

    This is a great topic Shawn and Andrew. I like how you explained how every relationship shapes who you are. 😊

  • @Brombit
    @Brombit 4 роки тому +6

    Sex is also something that is better be discussed when you start a relationship. (How much? Do you want to do it with other people too? Do you have insecurities around it? etc...)
    Things that asexual people know ;)

  • @danielleblank3946
    @danielleblank3946 4 роки тому +4

    Hi Shawn and Andrew! I admire your honesty on your podcast - it is scary enough to be vulnerable with each other let alone with thousands of strangers as well! I know you get TONs of suggestions, but I'd like to offer one as well! I'm wondering what your take is on being transparent with one another: are there things you shouldn't tell your spouse? Is it possible to be too transparent? I know lying is never a good idea, so I'm not exactly wondering about honesty, but more about transparency. Like, sometimes it's not super fun to be honest because it could turn into a difficult discussion (aka a fight), but you know it is for the best. But on the other hand, what about the infamous "how do I look?" question? What if I don't look particularly good that day? Should my husband still tell me I do? Is total transparency always better? This is not a great example, but maybe you know what I mean. I hope this makes sense!

  • @ocgal80
    @ocgal80 4 роки тому +9

    Yes!! Gender Roles podcast please.. I couldn't agree more with Shawn when she says that there might be different feelings or thoughts about the SO once you become married or parents..

  • @sabrinacopas1636
    @sabrinacopas1636 4 роки тому

    The moral obligation point is absolutely accurate in my opinion. You guys always make me smile.

  • @ktmarieoc
    @ktmarieoc 4 роки тому +1

    When quarantine is over and if it is safe to go on the road with the show, I would def love to attend a live taping in Boston!

  • @mindyourbsandqs2447
    @mindyourbsandqs2447 4 роки тому

    I agree with Andrew when he said when you are younger you tend to morph yourself into the other persons dreams and idea.

  • @elisec1792
    @elisec1792 4 роки тому +17

    Would be interesting to hear what things “hit them like a freight train” after having Drew... Don’t really understand what they mean and it would be interesting for them to expand on that.

  • @samanthaa238
    @samanthaa238 4 роки тому +3

    Yes please I want a podcast about “the one”!!

  • @luanneedwards8846
    @luanneedwards8846 4 роки тому

    Love u 2..I am 65 yrs old and my husband and I have been together almost 30 yrs...keep on don't let haters get to u..they r not happy so they pick on u where they can...love u guys ...Lake City Florida

  • @elizabethclark7319
    @elizabethclark7319 4 роки тому

    I see your point on deleting your ex off of your social media/etc.. BUT I did this and I don’t regret it, even a sliver, because it was a long term relationship and I was cheated on with THREE different people. It was the biggest betrayal of my life. So I don’t want to see this person in my life in any form from this point forward. I have a husband now, he knows about EVERYTHING, which is so cathartic and wonderful, and I don’t regret my choices for a second.

  • @Launa98
    @Launa98 4 роки тому

    Thank you for starting to include background details about your podcast guests. Ultimately, though, I like the podcasts that are just you two best. 😍

  • @ashcash7510
    @ashcash7510 4 роки тому +1

    I definitely love when it’s just you two doing the podcast!!! Haven’t watched the others yet because I only really care to hear your opinions on the issues you talk about lol

  • @DeadNetCord
    @DeadNetCord 3 роки тому

    Thanks for being so candid, appreciate it.
    Greetings from Poland

  • @kareng6998
    @kareng6998 4 роки тому +1

    For many reasons, I really enjoyed this episode.

  • @violetdavis4170
    @violetdavis4170 4 роки тому

    Please do a podcast on gender roles/ your experience with premarital counseling👍🏼 y’all are awesome thank you for opening up

  • @dasuniudugama9175
    @dasuniudugama9175 4 роки тому +3

    I’ve been looking forward to this episode ever since y’all started this channel!!!🙃💚

    • @shawnandandrewpods
      @shawnandandrewpods  4 роки тому +2

      let us know what you think :)

    • @dasuniudugama9175
      @dasuniudugama9175 4 роки тому +2

      The East Fam Talks Hold up, the person who introduced us?! Are you talking about Guy?👀 Shawn’s last ex? 🤔

  • @ajvideography7898
    @ajvideography7898 4 роки тому +1

    Love this podcast!!! So many truths packed in it!!

  • @joeyjaquez82
    @joeyjaquez82 4 роки тому

    I was in long relationship before marrying my ex... I have to say this helped me to keep positive and literally helped keep my sanity... I took the good and bad in my marriage and it helped me to be the person I am today... I met my wife and I feel she had been hidden from me to find my drive and reason to believe in love again. She is our rock and the strength we draw from... god has his path and our goal is to live life in faith and to believe in him. He will lead us to the people that will help us be the better person we are today... God Bless

  • @trisha301
    @trisha301 4 роки тому +1

    I think you two a wonderful couple. It makes me luagh when people nitpick your podcast, because they just want to argue or don't get the content. You two are very well spoken and thanks for sharing your opinions on what works for your relationship. I understand that you respect other relationships and how they are different from your own. I would love it if you had a live podcast tour. Please come to Seattle. God bless you and your family.
    -Trisha

  • @heatherkoenig2172
    @heatherkoenig2172 4 роки тому +1

    Yes please tour and I’m in Conroe Tx but HOUSTON isn’t to far!!!! I love y’all! ❤️❤️

  • @310angelface
    @310angelface 4 роки тому

    Yes! Take the podcast on a tour and stop in Chicago! Love you guys & the content! ❤️

  • @hannahsimmons4696
    @hannahsimmons4696 4 роки тому +4

    I’m on the treadmill at the gym laughing so hard at trajesty 😂😂😂

  • @mariepeduto1728
    @mariepeduto1728 4 роки тому

    Thanks for the words of wisdom! Please come to Boston and squeeze in a quick victory lap around the marathon route before the live show!

  • @FA-jh3dw
    @FA-jh3dw 4 роки тому

    I believe that my social media is a reflection of my present life and things that I enjoy currently so when a relationship ends, I’d like to remove that from my social media as it is no longer a significant part of my life. I’m not erasing/deleting those memories but rather removing them for the social media world to see. But that is just me!

  • @jennaboilesen9769
    @jennaboilesen9769 4 роки тому +1

    This one is so good!! Just love you guys! PLEASE do a live tour!! And come to Chicago!

  • @jasminebeard6421
    @jasminebeard6421 4 роки тому +2

    I prefer when it’s just y’all!

  • @roxiehart1
    @roxiehart1 4 роки тому +1

    For what it's worth, I also prefer when it's just Shawn and Andrew doing the podcast. Maybe do half-and-half...for every podcast with another couple, do one without guests. Or, do half the interview with just Andrew & Shawn and then bring in the couple to continue the conversation. That way, we learn more about Andrew & Shawn (which usually gets drowned out by learning about the other couple) and still have another couple's perspective.

  • @angiebluvspink
    @angiebluvspink 4 роки тому

    Yes, yes,yes!! But only if you come to Indy!! Come on Andrew, bring to the home town!! Love you guys and all of your content!

  • @ashleightiedeman9058
    @ashleightiedeman9058 4 роки тому +1

    Yes! Denver, Colorado!

  • @vickieworrell2820
    @vickieworrell2820 3 роки тому

    Andrew, you are right on!

  • @dackelprincess1
    @dackelprincess1 2 роки тому

    My former husband and I have remained friends. Why? We have a beautiful daughter and 2 grandchildren. We spend holidays together, and birthdays, and we do it for our family. Luckily, my husband and I get along well with my former husband and his wife. Our grandchildren think this is normal. And I love it!

  • @nikkihaulbrooks4002
    @nikkihaulbrooks4002 4 роки тому

    This was a very interesting and somewhat refreshing podcast. My husband and I have been together for 8 years(married almost 7). We both(i hate to say this) have some "bitterness" I guess you could say, towards one in particular ex(of each others). He doesn't like one of mine and I don't care for one of his. Over the years the bitterness has started to subside. I think a lot of out issues were with the fact that we knew how much the exs hurt us. Personally I cant stand the fact of knowing that someone could hurt such a selfless, loving man or treat his family the way she did. I agree for sure that our exs help "shape us" into the people we become especially relationship wise. I dont REGRET any relationship but wish things wouldnt have always ended so badly(every single one of them did). I agree with Shawn 100% on not having to marry the first person you fall in love with. If I had, I honestly have no idea where I'd be right now, but I know I wouldnt be TRULY happy. GOD IS GOOD! And Shawn, Dont worry about Andrew questioning your height...I'm 4'11" and my husband is almost 6 foot so I completely understand the struggle! Sorry this is so long winded....I just LOVE YOU GUYS!! Please keep up with the podcasts and visit somewhere near CHARLESTON, SC!!

  • @lisab7922
    @lisab7922 4 роки тому +16

    I love the back and forth. Andrew is like, “I’m in trouble.” Makes me laugh. Also reminds me of my husband and I.
    We have been together since we were 16. We are working on 16 years together and we still do this 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @ZahraFajr
    @ZahraFajr 4 роки тому

    You guys literally have no idea how lucky you are to have each other. I manage apartments and out of 10 resident couples, I know for sure that 7 are toxic. Out of 8 single women, all of them are single because of toxic/abusive relationships in their past. This is 15 out of 25 apartments that deal with toxic/abusive relationships (and the other 5 apts are empty right now).

  • @danielleemma317
    @danielleemma317 4 роки тому

    This podcast was truly helpful! Please come to NYC!

  • @bethanydroske1710
    @bethanydroske1710 4 роки тому +1

    Love you guys! Your awesome people and parents! Love how open and honest you both are! Drew is a lucky girl! Drew and I share the same birthday, it’s the best day to be born! I feel like I know you guys! Keep it up!

  • @taiadopson4636
    @taiadopson4636 4 роки тому

    Yes, Vancouver!!!! It would be amazing to go to a show where everyone from the crowd can ask questions and get raw real opinions and advice back from you guys! Even if you don't come to Vancouver, I hope the tour gets recorded :)

  • @higlite36
    @higlite36 4 роки тому

    Andrew tried so hard..... it was funny but I know that it all comes from talking about such a serious issue. Its interesting that you brought up the concept of "The List." Here is a topic for future Couple Things: All relationships require compromise but what is/are the thing(s) that you would not compromise on? Did you learn through experience? For myself, the one thing that I no longer compromise on is personal spiritual faith. If we do not worship the same God, it is too difficult for our relationship to work. Many can do it but I can not.
    Thank you, East Fam, for really sharing this with us.

  • @ashleyryan2
    @ashleyryan2 4 роки тому

    I think you should go to a lot of teen conferences because teens really need to hear this and see what a good strong married relationship is and you two are the right couple and perfect couple to do that. I would go see it with my little sis because we are both teens and it would be so good.

  • @glioblastomamultiforme5599
    @glioblastomamultiforme5599 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing episode !! Lots of love from Austria😍

  • @timothydalton6623
    @timothydalton6623 4 роки тому +16

    Should we start a drinking game to take shots when Andrew mispronounced a word lol

    • @shawnandandrewpods
      @shawnandandrewpods  4 роки тому +11

      im in

    • @roxiehart1
      @roxiehart1 4 роки тому +3

      Dramatize is a word, however. Maybe drink whenever Shawn interrupts to "correct" him!

  • @beverlylehman6242
    @beverlylehman6242 4 роки тому +1

    Wow! I love watching Andrew & Shawn ' s love & marriage evolve! The two of you are blessed to have found each other! I've been praying for the Lord to guide my adult christian children to the people He wants them with.

  • @tminus21
    @tminus21 3 роки тому

    okay but i love the fact that andrew introduced shawn to thirdlove
    thats cute

  • @jillcollinsbrown7857
    @jillcollinsbrown7857 4 роки тому +3

    When he said trajesty I DIED 👀💀

    • @gilashroot8697
      @gilashroot8697 4 роки тому +1

      Glad to see you are resurrected! The podcasts make me laugh hysterically sometimes!!! But not to death thank goodness ;-).

  • @caseykibler238
    @caseykibler238 4 роки тому

    I am a big fan of the podcast and would totally see a live recording of the show! You guys should do a tour stop in Ohio!

  • @tabathabrown6508
    @tabathabrown6508 4 роки тому +5

    My husband is 5”3!!!!!! Lol!!!!!!! But I’m also Sawns height!!
    🤦🏽‍♀️ our children will be sooo small... probably.... i feel like it’s really shallow to go off of “TALL DARK HANDSOME”

  • @itsgonnabeokk1813
    @itsgonnabeokk1813 4 роки тому

    I would say a lot well-adjusted people need some alone time. At the beginning of our relationship, I had a hard time understanding that it wasn’t because he didn’t want to be with me, it was for his own growth and to be able to be alone with some of his own thoughts. It is really important to communicate when you need alone time. For the other person, it’s important to communicate is you are someone who needs some reassurance when alone time is needed.

  • @marywiesing4676
    @marywiesing4676 4 роки тому +1

    Shawn, my husband says I speak in circles, but his ears can’t follow! Lol, so I find myself interrupting him before I lose my train of thought (I am much older than you are), but I think it tends to be a female thing because we naturally talk a lot more than most men. But I realize that I really need to be careful and break that habit. Be gentle with Andrew as he is a man, and aren’t you glad! 😉❤️🙏❤️

    • @chelseadodson4257
      @chelseadodson4257 4 роки тому

      There is no science behind "women talk more than men", in fact studies that have worked on it have shown equal or men speak more. Don't perpetuate harmful stereotypes, all genders can be respectful of others speaking.

  • @swimstud27
    @swimstud27 4 роки тому +3

    I’m 5’2 and my boyfriend is 6’7 and I was so concerned he wouldn’t want me because I’m short... it ended up not being an issue 😂

  • @beckyh6926
    @beckyh6926 4 роки тому

    I love both of you and I love your guests as well 👍🏼

  • @gilashroot8697
    @gilashroot8697 4 роки тому

    I love your podcasts, they make me laugh because they challenge my thinking as do your dynamics! I disagree with telling about exes who you could have had a relationship with still (in theory) because those relationships are best left in the past, but I agree that if the relationship shaped you, then you should share that part. If you do not feel the relationship could have gone further, then I do not see harm in sharing exes. However each couple needs to do what works for them. Your views were really interesting and it was great seeing something I don't completely agree with work for someone else. "Dramatized" is pronounced dra-ma-tized, but is a real word ;-). I think the more sensitive of the partners are more susceptible to feelings of jealousy as Mrs. East demonstrated ;-). It is a sensitive issue and can bring insecurities into relationships that could have been avoided by not talking about exes. "Making sacrifices" is not the way I look at it. I think what Mrs. East is talking about is making adjustments in order to support the other person's vision as Mrs. East pointed out in a previous podcast. Thank you for the pod cast.

  • @Launa98
    @Launa98 4 роки тому

    Yes! Live podcast tour would be awesome! Please come to Texas...Houston, Dallas, Fort Worth, San Antonio, or Austin. 😃
    Shawn, no shame in being a fan of country music - especially in Nasville!

  • @aPACHLlips
    @aPACHLlips 4 роки тому

    Omg I would love to see you guys live! Come to Portland OR!!

  • @jessicaerwin169
    @jessicaerwin169 4 роки тому

    yes please tour in Chicago! I would love if you took this podcast on tour!

  • @loriv841
    @loriv841 4 роки тому +1

    Loved this episode! & yes, would love a live show! Stop by Austin Texas if you can 😊

  • @ajg286
    @ajg286 4 роки тому +2

    Come to Atlanta! Drew would love the Georgia Aquarium ❤️

  • @juliacacciotti6869
    @juliacacciotti6869 4 роки тому

    You guys are so awesome! Loved this episode!! Definitely do a live tour and come to Pittsburgh😆

  • @kristynadkins2682
    @kristynadkins2682 4 роки тому +12

    This was great! Can you please do a podcast with Eric and Jessie Decker? That would be AMAZING!!

    • @givipixie
      @givipixie 4 роки тому

      Omg I suggested that on their instagram too! What could their topic of conversation be?

  • @toshadavis4766
    @toshadavis4766 4 роки тому

    I love you all so much!!!! I would be so excited to see you both live!!!!! Please come to OKC!

  • @julietavicente3739
    @julietavicente3739 4 роки тому

    You guys are my most favorite couple Shawn and Andrew; let me also say hi to baby Drew and Nash. I would love if you guys did a podcast in Gresham, Oregon or any neighboring city so I may have the honor of attending!

  • @andreacanchela9099
    @andreacanchela9099 4 роки тому +1

    Live podcast tour would be great! Come to Austin

  • @yerrrrg
    @yerrrrg 4 роки тому +1

    Come to Kansas City! I’m sorry it didn’t work out with the Chiefs, but we’d still love to have you and would welcome both of you with open arms (and BBQ)!