Stop Overexerting Yourself Trying To Change Grown People: Let Jesus Save Them & Live Your Life

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  • @CassandraMack
    @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +1

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  • @smack7110
    @smack7110 7 місяців тому +18

    My ex boyfriend would describe other women’s bodies in a sexual manner, frequently mention his past sexual experiences, and frequently bring up his ex in random conversations. Even though I repeatedly asked him to stop all these bad behaviors, he didn’t. Sooo… I walked away. ✌🏾

  • @kaybelletv3659
    @kaybelletv3659 7 місяців тому +34

    Letting folk be who they are= game changer. 🙌🏾 I once went out with a guy who did the same. It was our first & last date. I think some guys do that as a way to test you/knock you down a peg & see how much disrespect you will tolerate. On this date, I guess I blew his mind because I ate, laughed, enjoyed myself & even agreed with him “Oooh yes she is veryyy beautiful”. 😅 But in my mind I was saying yeah… you will never see me again bruthaaa. 🤣 💪🏽

    • @EmptyNestieBestie
      @EmptyNestieBestie 7 місяців тому +8

      Yep I enjoy that little Keekee because I know while they think they’re getting over, I’m already moving on. Laughs for everyone, but the joke is on them 😆

    • @kaybelletv3659
      @kaybelletv3659 7 місяців тому +3

      Yess😂😂 Love it!

  • @GiGiChosen
    @GiGiChosen 7 місяців тому +28

    Confirmation! Thank you 🙏🏾 Minister Mack for the timely and confirming word. I've had to leave several family members in 2023 and I have not looked back. They are blocked. I will not engage and they can continue in their dysfunction and bad decisions. I can't and WON'T want better for grown people who don't want the same for themselves.

  • @maggiesalle2256
    @maggiesalle2256 7 місяців тому +19

    I met a Christian lady at work, and we met for coffee outside of working hours. She generally dominated the conversation and tried to control everything. The day after a conversation in which I could not get a word in edgewise, I called her per Matthew 18. She rudely indicated that she did not agree without saying why and that she did not want to talk anymore. Some people demand the upper hand. It hurt initially to lose the relationship, but so does antiseptic on a wound. The wound heals in the end. The trash took itself out as they say.

  • @c.l.9344
    @c.l.9344 7 місяців тому +21

    God is greater than haters.

  • @dennisrobinson8008
    @dennisrobinson8008 7 місяців тому +6

    its a waste of time and energy that can be used elsewhere. Others will try to manipulate our behaviors and adjust our "knobs" for us.

  • @bravesoul7777
    @bravesoul7777 7 місяців тому +2

    If he treats me like he is not afraid to lose me and as a consequence, he loses me, thats on him.

  • @GiGiChosen
    @GiGiChosen 7 місяців тому +13

    "Get out the way" - Cassandra Mack

  • @AlteredEgo-tq1sd
    @AlteredEgo-tq1sd 7 місяців тому +10

    Thank you Cassandra. You're a terrific lady who's been nailing all the problems in my life. I just wish I could be more supportive to you because you deserve so much MORE because you give a whole lot.
    My finances are not where they should be. But when I get the opportunity, you will be one of the 1st persons whom I will definitely support.
    Because of very little support, I feel very guilty because the majority of your videos are talking directly to ME. When I see your video titles, I can't help but stop & listen. You help me much more than you'll ever know. For now, I just want to say: THANK YOU!🙂

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +5

      May God give you increase in your finances and supply your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. In Jesus name we pray, Amen

  • @KinuGoddess777
    @KinuGoddess777 7 місяців тому +4

    I have no problem with letting grown-ups be who they are. Life is about freedom of choices, and I usually choose to limit contact with unhinged, rude, immoral or negative people. These same people who usually have profound personal issues will react loud, aggressive and cause a scene with my choice to distance from them. Boundaries infuriate them because they don't get to have access to me the way they want (i.e., using bullying tactics, trying to control, put down language, and creating arguments). I notice this primarily happens at the workplace with those who extremely needy and require constant validation. @Cassandra Mack would love a vid from you on how to deal with hostile and loud people at work due to boundaries.💐💝

  • @wfrench2863
    @wfrench2863 7 місяців тому +8

    TYCMM! Your Soulfast has helped me dig deeper into my life, especially with my humongous dysfunctional family and members....it's been 5 years or so since I've detached with love and cut them off for my well being, not easy when I grew up my entire life with it. One of your scriptures in th,e soulf fast I think II Corinthians 6:7, come out from among them, be ye separate, do not touch the unclean thing, and I will recieve you carries a message directly to my life right now.❤
    Keep me in your prayers from strength, courage, peace, and continued enlightment.

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for sharing how our resources have been a blessing to you. God bless

  • @Rollacoastertycoon
    @Rollacoastertycoon 7 місяців тому +7

    I love the intro song . So soothing

  • @GIWM-b58
    @GIWM-b58 7 місяців тому +4

    Wow....i am glad i'm listening to this. I have been struggling in this area. People tend to use me in ways because i have been weak in those areas. Wow...this is POWERFUL!!!!! I do not have to be used and abused. If i have to kiss their bottom to gain their love....FORGET ABOUT IT!!! I deserve so much more. Glory be unto God!!!

  • @loveyb9090
    @loveyb9090 7 місяців тому +1

    Whew this is a gem. Been there in my early mid twenties. If a man looks at women in front of you..run! And to the women who get non saved men and driving themselves to get him saved is another one. Only God will do it. A woman who does that is something.

  • @GIWM-b58
    @GIWM-b58 7 місяців тому +3

    I agree..Amen. They need to tend their own lives. God,Jesus and Holy Spirit are MORE than able to lead my life. Stop your controlling !!! I will NOT stand for it...nor...will I bow to any man trying to force me to do things their way. Amen. Thank you Lord!!!!

  • @curtistinemiller4646
    @curtistinemiller4646 7 місяців тому +4

    I truly enjoyed this Video..RISE ABOVE YOUR HATERS..🙏❤️

  • @bridgettetraveler658
    @bridgettetraveler658 7 місяців тому +3

    This is a beautiful message! I don't want anybody in my space who doesn't like but pretend to like me because they want something. I hate smiling faces. I have no pics in my home of ppl I know are smiling faces. I don't want to see them!!

  • @rhondagreene1792
    @rhondagreene1792 7 місяців тому +5

    Awesome message! Thanks for sharing your remarkable gifts. 🙏🏼🙏🏼💫💫

  • @ChevellePierce
    @ChevellePierce 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks!

    • @CassandraMack
      @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you very much for the donation. I truly appreciate your kindness. Your donation helps the ministry greatly

  • @williamrobinson4513
    @williamrobinson4513 7 місяців тому +2

    If anything, I am my own EFFICIENCY EXPERT, when it comes to MY JOURNEY for my life (with THE LORD'S guidance). Setting BOUNDARIES and making the BEST/RIGHT choices for MY LIFE is the best course of ACTION FOR ME.

  • @ednaloftin4749
    @ednaloftin4749 7 місяців тому +5

    Sister you hit the nail on the head from Denver, Colorado at 6:46 AM thank you. I needed this. I had a feeling this was going on but thank you. God bless you.

  • @vittoriacolona
    @vittoriacolona 7 місяців тому +1

    I think this falls in line with 'loving your neighbor as yourself'. In that you accept them as they are. And go about your life.

  • @lingling7366
    @lingling7366 7 місяців тому +3

    I am responding to the title and I agree. Thanks for fixing my crown, 🤝🏾

  • @wfrench2863
    @wfrench2863 7 місяців тому +3

    Speaking of boundaries,I wasn't taught/set such a thing quite the opposite which was to please everyone, people pleasing, parents were and I couldn't understand ad a young boy why I would get upset with their behavior, I just didn't like it but couldn't understand it , people pleading was harmful then and it is today.

  • @andreamorrow77
    @andreamorrow77 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this message. This really spoke to my heart being that I am a people pleaser by nature❤

  • @EmptyNestieBestie
    @EmptyNestieBestie 7 місяців тому +2

    I am grateful for the wisdom and teachings you share with us so openly. I was raised by the type of people your videos teach us to watch out for. It took me until my early 40s to realize why I kept having the same issues with most people in my life.
    This is the most essential lesson of them all for me. I learned it hard last summer with a friend of nearly 20 years. She did not want to be accountable so I left the “friendship”. She was upset and demanding that I owe her an explanation after so many years of friendship. Was I not owed the courtesy and decency to not be lied to, cheated out of money, and bullied for the same 20 years of friendship? I told her she made her choices and I made mine. Well then she wished death on me.
    It’s amazing to me how they expect so much for themselves when they initially are eager and giddy to do so much wrong by you.

  • @tonihinson1853
    @tonihinson1853 7 місяців тому +3

    Thanks again Cassandra...This was a hard one...yelp...the lost when TRUTH Is the Ultimate ANSWER ❤

  • @parler8698
    @parler8698 7 місяців тому

    Amen. You cannot change them. They have to want to change.

  • @ChevellePierce
    @ChevellePierce 7 місяців тому

    Amen 🙏

  • @Bre1002.
    @Bre1002. 7 місяців тому +3

    This is EXACTLY what o needed to hear! Thank you!

  • @bernetajohnson3296
    @bernetajohnson3296 7 місяців тому +3

    Great video. So true!

  • @JaLaCaSaFouR-ey5bu
    @JaLaCaSaFouR-ey5bu 7 місяців тому +4

    Hello!! ❤

  • @blissedout5859
    @blissedout5859 7 місяців тому +3

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️On point and on time!

  • @harrietjulien454
    @harrietjulien454 7 місяців тому +2

    I needed to hear this today!!!

  • @c.l.9344
    @c.l.9344 7 місяців тому +4

    Amen. 🙏🏽

  • @DescendantsofAbraham2659
    @DescendantsofAbraham2659 7 місяців тому

    Isaiah 43: 11🙏🏾

  • @EmpressEmpress-53
    @EmpressEmpress-53 7 місяців тому +3

    💯

  • @steveytheswitwarrior3362
    @steveytheswitwarrior3362 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, Ms. Mack!!❤

  • @ElleSeven-l3q
    @ElleSeven-l3q 7 місяців тому +2

    On-TIME Word!❤

  • @janetthomas7492
    @janetthomas7492 7 місяців тому +2

    Excellent teaching!

  • @queenadventures4258
    @queenadventures4258 7 місяців тому +2

    Amen

  • @bar8419
    @bar8419 7 місяців тому

    ..so good.

  • @tiaversatilityblake4605
    @tiaversatilityblake4605 7 місяців тому

    Yout books helped me

  • @calico-kat-mom6204
    @calico-kat-mom6204 7 місяців тому +2

    Another amazing video, I'll make this as short as possible , I'll take a bold guess at Jane and guess that she may be young.Maybe in her 20s or 30s.I've made mistakes not quite like that.But i've made my mistakes in my young years of putting up with BULLtwinkie, With that sayed she is blessed to have you to steer her in the right direction. No matter what age she is, there's no replacement for the joy that I am experiencing. I feel like I'm just going to take off and fly some days. When I walk outside the joy that God has given me it's unimaginable. And my husband divorced me after 4 years and 5 months of being married and I was 60 when I got married.
    I've learned some lessons. I've gained self-respect and have become much more self-aware. So that whatever happens, I can take that kind of responsibility for how I'm treated. Now i'm closer to knowing a little bit more of what I'm worth I want to be a wife and Jesus said whatever you desire when you pray.
    Not just to be married but to be a wife, which is a big job. Nevertheless, I always say please listen to Cassandra Mack.She has wisdom beyond her years And I don't know how old she is but I can say this, I wish I had had her with the wisdom. She has now when I was in my 20s and 30s and 40 and in my Late 50s. I met women marry women that help me grow. God is able my sisters and brothers.Because to experience the joy that I have now is unmatched to anything I've ever known.
    He is truly making my latter years better than the former. I can say my growth really excelled when I started listening to Cassandra Mack I had just gotten married , And I never say what she's speaking of I don't need to hear. I need to hear it all , Ill need the information.
    To help me with past situations where I may have thought I was wrong.Future and of course present. Have an awesome day .

  • @judykessinger3552
    @judykessinger3552 7 місяців тому +1

    Such a great topic. It takes so much out of a person to do this.

  • @Sweetdreamz313
    @Sweetdreamz313 7 місяців тому +3

    True

  • @onetiacutts
    @onetiacutts 7 місяців тому

    Another awesome video Minister Mack, Thank you!

  • @CassandraMack
    @CassandraMack  7 місяців тому +3

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  • @leahr9038
    @leahr9038 3 місяці тому

    How does this translate into the workplace?

  • @phoenixrising_1973
    @phoenixrising_1973 7 місяців тому +4

    But how can a WHOLE WORD be in the title before even listening yet🤷🏾‍♀

  • @CAM-wk3dj
    @CAM-wk3dj 6 місяців тому

    I know, I know, Lord JESUS help me……I’m trying….I Really Am..
    It’s like a switch I CAN’T TURN OFF😭😭😭

  • @officialJoJo23
    @officialJoJo23 7 місяців тому +1

    Whatever

  • @antmarzo9392
    @antmarzo9392 7 місяців тому

    This hit at the right time. 🥲