Salam all! I hope you enjoy the video! So as to be islamically responsible, please note the video is not intended to be a slight on the person whose comment I discuss. Thus, no backbiting or gossiping will be tolerated. I don’t want my platform to be a place for haram. It’s intended to expose an overlooked detriment to our community using a very clear example that I found helpful.
Mashallah you have natural beauty. I can never message rude or evil comment to anyone. As Muslims we need to really know the consequences of saying whatever we say.
very useful. You’re doing the not-so-pretty work that people need but don’t even know it. Would love to learn more about dealing with female narcissists in our lives, especially if they’re in your family (and as such don’t really listen to reason)
Assalamualaikum WRWB sister Hana! Fellow PA Binta here. SubhanaAllah sister I truly believe as ugly as this attack is, it happened to you for good reason. You are the best person to handle such cruel but false attack. Most importantly I don’t think anyone could have handled it more gracefully! You took the opportunity to use it to educate, to remind and even treat this woman with the kindness and courtesy she really doesn’t deserve. This woman really needs help. May Allah help her and anyone suffering from this illness. Sadly there are too many such people all around us. I used to think Muslims would be immune to this but unfortunately no. I pray Allah Tallah continues to bless you and use you for good Ameen. The small time I spent with you in couching I saw nothing but beauty inside and OUT and unmatched grace in how you carry yourself and how you treat others. You’re a gift to not only the Muslim community but to the 🌎! I hope to be like you someday💕❤💕
@@bintatambedou8772 wa alaikum asalam Binta!!! Ahh! So excited to see your comment and happy to hear from you. May Allah bless you and your children, I hope you’re doing well. By the way please reach out to me as I was going to reach out anyways to invite you to the group coaching isA ❤️
Hana, the first video I watched of you was that video on stealing your man's heart, thank you, it was very beneficial for me and my relationship with my husband :) when I watched that video, I thought MashAllah such a beautiful sister :) this video is also very useful, thank you❤
I really loved how you point out how everything we do online still gets recorded and seen by Allah swt, and I'm not going to lie, everytime i have a similar issue or encounter, somehow you post a video about it discussing the exact issue i had.
@@soundbolts that is so interesting. Sometimes I find when I make duaa about something, I come across content that clarifies it. Does that also happen with you?
@@alasryh Yes in way, but whenever i watch your videos, you literally say the thing I need to hear, like while I'm listening to your videos and hear something that fits my problem to 100% and I'm like cheering yes!!!!!!!
My dear sister Hana, I am so sorry that someone could be so mean to u, when in fact, u have da most beautiful smile and heart. Dont let these negative people get to u, u keep doing da good work that u do, i know how manipulative these narcissist people can be, becoz i am dealing with some very close people in my family who r narcissists, plz do remember me in ur duas, love from india
don't reply to immature, nasty comments, let ppl see who they really are. It's very lame to attack someone's face. We have no say in the face we're given, as you say it, you're right.
was the origin of wearing scarves from cold countries where elderly women wore them to keep their heads warm from the cold elements outside. They didn't wear woolen hats back then, scarves is all they had for warm head gear in the winter.
Salam my sister. I really appreciate your approach to educating. This is such a great topic to cover and show that we must continue to focus on what Allah expects of us and how to treat others. May Allah continue to bless and protect you.
Your Beautiful Sister ❤I wonder if that was a real muslim woman or someone pretending to be a Muslim woman 🤔 sitting at the computer/phone hate their life so bad that they try to make people feel the way they do.. Hurt people hurt people
salam hana :), its cool that you mentioned these narcissitic traits can stem from diseases of the heart, such as jealousy, and so tazkiyah is so important. would that mean that these traits should be erased from a person as they engage in purifying the heart of diseases AND also can appear in a person if the heart becomes diseased? jazakAllah khayr for your videos :) & as someone else mentioned- you are beautiful both inside and out, Allahumma barik
@@nadhaaw4748 wa alaikum asalam, yes and yes to both questions. Narcissism as it exists is seated upon a tremendous amount of arrogance and a deficit of mercy for others. These are diseases of the heart. I have watched in front of my eyes people lose their narcissistic tendencies as they got closer to Allah. We treat it like an immutable disease but really it’s a manifestation of our own refusal to take account of ourselves.
@@alasryh wow subhanAllah, thats quite reassuring to hear, knowing of these traits then makes it clearer to identify if we have any level of narcissistic traits or diseases of the heart in ourselves. jazakAllah khayr :)
As-salaamu alaykum. Can you outline this term in writing please (8:24)? I couldn’t pick up on it because of the American accent😅. Would like to do more research on it. Jazakillahu khayran.
@@vanessashapon5944 I agree!!! Female narcs tend to use more socially acceptable means of emotional and psychological abuse, hence are harder to clock!
May Allah bless you for the work you're doing. However, just as a pointer i guess, maybe she meant to say that even if u consider niqab is not fard, showing ur face online wouldn't be lawful too because it's out there for people to see as they like. May Allah aid us all
@@amiramz7869 Ameen ya rab. Thanks sis ❤️She wasn’t referencing niqab. And a woman’s face is not sinful. Hijab is what we’re asked to wear when we are seen whether frequently or infrequently by large or small numbers of people, in person or online. Women’s presence on social media is not sinful unless accompanied by sinful action, just like it would be off the internet. There is a lot of salafi rhetoric resurfacing that is distorting the conclusions fuqaaha have come to many years ago when social media was just a thing. I (obviously 😂) do not believe it is haram, or I wouldn’t be doing. But there are many women who do it in a way that would be considered haram. And for that, may Allah guide and protect us.
Funny how you never find these idiots in the muslim red pilled spaces clocking out the idiotic men in the comment section lol, she sounded like a mammy,you are beautiiful sis!
What is the difference between the female and male narcissist traits? Because the gender “conditioning” based on ethnicity/culture also influences these sort of comments (internalized misogyny/patriarchy etc 🤯). It’s so sad that you’re trying to spread info about an important issue within Muslim communities and they say THE most irrelevant thing.
@@Kiwikookie123 salam! the differences are the same differences we see between male vs female abusers and also gender differences in bullying as young as 5 years old. There’s a really interesting amount of psychosocial research on this which also correlates to certain ahadith where the prophet SAW specifies which sinful deeds we as women are most likely to fall towards. Usually, women use more social means of harm where as men use more physical. This is pretty consistent across cultures.
Salam all!
I hope you enjoy the video! So as to be islamically responsible, please note the video is not intended to be a slight on the person whose comment I discuss.
Thus, no backbiting or gossiping will be tolerated. I don’t want my platform to be a place for haram. It’s intended to expose an overlooked detriment to our community using a very clear example that I found helpful.
Mashallah you have natural beauty. I can never message rude or evil comment to anyone. As Muslims we need to really know the consequences of saying whatever we say.
Girl u r gorgeous, but beauty is in the eye's of the beholder after all.
very useful. You’re doing the not-so-pretty work that people need but don’t even know it.
Would love to learn more about dealing with female narcissists in our lives, especially if they’re in your family (and as such don’t really listen to reason)
Thank you. I will put in more effort on this topic in sha Allah
Assalamualaikum WRWB sister Hana! Fellow PA Binta here. SubhanaAllah sister I truly believe as ugly as this attack is, it happened to you for good reason. You are the best person to handle such cruel but false attack. Most importantly I don’t think anyone could have handled it more gracefully! You took the opportunity to use it to educate, to remind and even treat this woman with the kindness and courtesy she really doesn’t deserve. This woman really needs help. May Allah help her and anyone suffering from this illness. Sadly there are too many such people all around us. I used to think Muslims would be immune to this but unfortunately no. I pray Allah Tallah continues to bless you and use you for good Ameen. The small time I spent with you in couching I saw nothing but beauty inside and OUT and unmatched grace in how you carry yourself and how you treat others. You’re a gift to not only the Muslim community but to the 🌎! I hope to be like you someday💕❤💕
@@bintatambedou8772 wa alaikum asalam Binta!!! Ahh! So excited to see your comment and happy to hear from you. May Allah bless you and your children, I hope you’re doing well. By the way please reach out to me as I was going to reach out anyways to invite you to the group coaching isA ❤️
Hana, the first video I watched of you was that video on stealing your man's heart, thank you, it was very beneficial for me and my relationship with my husband :) when I watched that video, I thought MashAllah such a beautiful sister :) this video is also very useful, thank you❤
@@Emiliya3 thank you sis!
I really loved how you point out how everything we do online still gets recorded and seen by Allah swt, and I'm not going to lie, everytime i have a similar issue or encounter, somehow you post a video about it discussing the exact issue i had.
@@soundbolts that is so interesting. Sometimes I find when I make duaa about something, I come across content that clarifies it. Does that also happen with you?
@@alasryh Yes in way, but whenever i watch your videos, you literally say the thing I need to hear, like while I'm listening to your videos and hear something that fits my problem to 100% and I'm like cheering yes!!!!!!!
@@soundbolts haha, then alhamdulillah
@soundbolts I'm sorry this is out of topic, but I love that your pfp is TFP's Soundwave. He's such a cool chara
My dear sister Hana, I am so sorry that someone could be so mean to u, when in fact, u have da most beautiful smile and heart. Dont let these negative people get to u, u keep doing da good work that u do, i know how manipulative these narcissist people can be, becoz i am dealing with some very close people in my family who r narcissists, plz do remember me in ur duas, love from india
Bless you sis.
You’re a gift from Allah and absolutely gorgeous allahuma barikkk. May Allah protect you from all the evil running around 🫂❤️
@@AA-xh8pk Ameen ya rabbbb 🫂
don't reply to immature, nasty comments, let ppl see who they really are. It's very lame to attack someone's face. We have no say in the face we're given, as you say it, you're right.
Thank you I was in a relationship with one of these people. Changed my life
Please give us more stuff on female narcissism
I like the hijab print😍mashaAllah it suits youuu❤
@@atraveleronapath thanks!
was the origin of wearing scarves from cold countries where elderly women wore them to keep their heads warm from the cold elements outside. They didn't wear woolen hats back then, scarves is all they had for warm head gear in the winter.
Thanks for this video. Btw you are gorgeous mashalla. ❤
nice analysis sis. Mashaa Allah.
Salam my sister. I really appreciate your approach to educating. This is such a great topic to cover and show that we must continue to focus on what Allah expects of us and how to treat others. May Allah continue to bless and protect you.
Your Beautiful Sister ❤I wonder if that was a real muslim woman or someone pretending to be a Muslim woman 🤔 sitting at the computer/phone hate their life so bad that they try to make people feel the way they do.. Hurt people hurt people
You’re doing great Hana. May Allah bless your work.
@@centeredmuslim3436 Ameen!
Jazak allah khair sis
❤for sharing useful content
@@nidazahed wa iyaki !
Very informative video!
salam hana :), its cool that you mentioned these narcissitic traits can stem from diseases of the heart, such as jealousy, and so tazkiyah is so important. would that mean that these traits should be erased from a person as they engage in purifying the heart of diseases AND also can appear in a person if the heart becomes diseased? jazakAllah khayr for your videos :) & as someone else mentioned- you are beautiful both inside and out, Allahumma barik
@@nadhaaw4748 wa alaikum asalam, yes and yes to both questions. Narcissism as it exists is seated upon a tremendous amount of arrogance and a deficit of mercy for others. These are diseases of the heart. I have watched in front of my eyes people lose their narcissistic tendencies as they got closer to Allah. We treat it like an immutable disease but really it’s a manifestation of our own refusal to take account of ourselves.
@@alasryh wow subhanAllah, thats quite reassuring to hear, knowing of these traits then makes it clearer to identify if we have any level of narcissistic traits or diseases of the heart in ourselves. jazakAllah khayr :)
As-salaamu alaykum. Can you outline this term in writing please (8:24)? I couldn’t pick up on it because of the American accent😅. Would like to do more research on it. Jazakillahu khayran.
Haha, sure! “Cognitive rigidity“
Hana what is your etnicity i really wonder. Love your videos ❤
@@asma2709 take some guesses and I’ll share 😁
Yemenia
@@alasryhMoroccan, Algerian, Libyan?
@@alasryhsister you are Algerian or Tunisian 🎉🎉
@@m4ry4m_c never got that before. I’m yemeni ✨
I have experienced some very nasty females, narc traits, and I'd say it's harder to lable than a man.
@@vanessashapon5944 I agree!!! Female narcs tend to use more socially acceptable means of emotional and psychological abuse, hence are harder to clock!
May Allah bless you for the work you're doing.
However, just as a pointer i guess, maybe she meant to say that even if u consider niqab is not fard, showing ur face online wouldn't be lawful too because it's out there for people to see as they like.
May Allah aid us all
@@amiramz7869 Ameen ya rab. Thanks sis ❤️She wasn’t referencing niqab. And a woman’s face is not sinful. Hijab is what we’re asked to wear when we are seen whether frequently or infrequently by large or small numbers of people, in person or online. Women’s presence on social media is not sinful unless accompanied by sinful action, just like it would be off the internet.
There is a lot of salafi rhetoric resurfacing that is distorting the conclusions fuqaaha have come to many years ago when social media was just a thing. I (obviously 😂) do not believe it is haram, or I wouldn’t be doing. But there are many women who do it in a way that would be considered haram. And for that, may Allah guide and protect us.
Yeah maybe im jealous maybe your really wow.
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@@zahramunawar6415 ❤️
Funny how you never find these idiots in the muslim red pilled spaces clocking out the idiotic men in the comment section lol, she sounded like a mammy,you are beautiiful sis!
What is the difference between the female and male narcissist traits? Because the gender “conditioning” based on ethnicity/culture also influences these sort of comments (internalized misogyny/patriarchy etc 🤯). It’s so sad that you’re trying to spread info about an important issue within Muslim communities and they say THE most irrelevant thing.
@@Kiwikookie123 salam! the differences are the same differences we see between male vs female abusers and also gender differences in bullying as young as 5 years old. There’s a really interesting amount of psychosocial research on this which also correlates to certain ahadith where the prophet SAW specifies which sinful deeds we as women are most likely to fall towards. Usually, women use more social means of harm where as men use more physical. This is pretty consistent across cultures.