Why Narcissists are Good Listeners
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- Опубліковано 31 жов 2017
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Welcome to the Truly Free Me channel. Where we try our best to help people with their lives and to expose and deal with Narcissists.
If you are wondering why it is a robot lady speaking... Narcissists hate me doing these videos so that is for my own protection.
They create uncomfortable conversation gaps in hopes that you spill your guts . Kick them out.
wow I thot that was just MY narc ha!
my covert narcissus friend has now deliberately done everything you have said,he's now gathered his people with a family I have nothing to do with because I had a life time of abuse due to being the blacksheep of the family.I now live in fear of all the threats he's made against me over the period of one year now he's destroying my life and reputation and now my naibour has turned against me telling me I should jump off a cliff. I'm totally alone and in despaire.How long I can put up with all of this evil I don't know.Good luck to all those other victims and hope they can lead a normal life after there despaire.
We must understand our enemy and his/her tactics if we are to defeat him/her.
The narcissist's mission on earth, from the time of Adam to the present day, is to wage war against us.
Stay encouraged, walk away, stay away and never go back....
Yvette Salami Indeed! We must find an out, plan it, and take it. Never ever ever look back... for if you do, the claws of the demon will snatch you back in to narc-hell.
Yvette Salami agreed
Some Buddy agreed
Truly Free Me, You have to be in, or have been in a Narc. stronghold to so well understand them. This cannot be learned from psychology courses, and cannot be truly understood by those who have not. Thank you!
wow. my narc, she definitely listened , and it made me feel good. luckily for me I listened intently to her too, so it made me quickly realize when she told her lies and constantly changed her stories. that being said, I still got sucked in over and over. Next week will be one year since No contact
when i first took up with the narcissist that i knew we had several long phone conversations. i sensed something was off because i somehow "felt" him listening; paying closer attention to what i was saying as if he was making mental notes of every detail. that was my gut reacting. it turns out that careful listening is his tactic for tallying my comments so that he could throw it back up to me when the time was right. thankfully, it ended before it could begin. his modus operandi was the same as every other narcissist i ever heard about.
sophie morrison same thing happened to me.
my story concerns a narc i knew personally.
My....goodness this is so on point 😭😭😭! !!!
This is so true! Thank you so much!
Glad to hear from U!
My ex mistook me recovering from cptsd from my father as my weakness. I was wreck AFTER id got away from my dad. What my ex didn't realise, is that whilst with an abuser, there is the fight flight or freeze. I'm a fight person. But not necessarily with my fists. So my ex listened to my cptsd recovery problems etc. But failed to learn about other inticracies of it. Like survival mode etc. So that when he started his narc "games" after 6months of being the best bloke in the universe, and I wasn't sure he was being narc with me for 1 and 1/2 years, I think it was a shock for him to learn that I was a pro at playing the narc game because my dad had taught me well wtf the narc games are, and wtf a narc is, just by my dad being his natural narc self as I grew up.
please keep these videos coming
Calling all Narcissists..You better REPENT AND TURN FROM YOUR SINNING ACCEPT JESUS AS LORD AND SAVIOR BELIEVE GOD RAISED HIM FROM THE DEAD AND THAT HE LIVES ON THE RIGHT SIDE OF THE FATHER IN HEAVEN..JESUS IS COMING SOON..HELL IS A REAL PLACE..YOU WILL END UP THERE LEAST YOU REPENT..GIVE YOUR LIFE TO HIM TODAY
Id like to point out, id been beaten, kicked in the stomach, punched in the nose, had a pottery mug thrown at my face which then scarred my arm when I defended myself, a dent in my thigh which was muscle damage, broken ribs from him stomping me awake in the mornings, aswell as the emotional and physical and sexual bullying abuse. That is why I turned the tables and spun it round. My ex swayed between covert and overt. So I just focused on the covert mind way. And played him at his own game after six years of doing all the things to me and trying to break my will. I'm too strong for that. So because I couldn't escape him, that is why I started mimicing him. And he couldnt stand it. If id mimicked his violence and his rages and calling him a useless c**t etc like he did me, then I don't know wtf he would have been like or done.
Digger in the blackcold heart share
I always told my ex my deepest thoughts and emotions about them for 4 years even during this 6 times I was discarded and yes I know I was foolish enough to take them back all those times. This subject is on point though in that she took all of the things that she knew meant the most to me and used them as a weapon to hurt me repeatedly. The last and final discard was September 1st and I allowed her to string me along until two weekends ago when she let me spend the night with her and then I became nothing to her. I have to go get the rest of my things from her house tomorrow and I am dreading it so badly especially now that she just recently told me she's already talking to someone else. I feel like the broken shards of my heart are trying to force their way through my chest and sometimes I find it difficult to even go on. I've never experienced any pain even remotely close to this and all my life and all I did was gave 110% of my heart soul time and money and it meant nothing to her and meant everything to me. Please tell me that someday this feeling in my chest will go away because i don't know how i can survive it. Everything in my life is suffering from my other relationships to my job even and all that rings out in my mind the Third reason for this final discard in that I took her for granted and I didn't get her kitchen projects done in time. I feel so insufficient and inadequate
Chad Kent, yes, it gets much better after no contact with the narcissist. Soul-ties are formed in many different ways, so it's very important to stop all intimacy and discard any jewellery, photos and love letters given by the narcissist.
Stay encouraged and do positive things. For me, daily prayers and music was important during the fight to save myself from the 100/0 relationship that I was in with that narcissist.
Yvette Salami totally agree
@Truly Free Me can u please please make a video or something on how to safely runaway
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truly free me ill pay u right now if u can give me advice on something
my covert narcissus friend has now deliberately done everything you have said,he's now gathered his people with a family I have nothing to do with because I had a life time of abuse due to being the blacksheep of the family.I now live in fear of all the threats he's made against me over the period of one year now he's destroying my life and reputation and now my naibour has turned against me telling me I should jump off a cliff. I'm totally alone and in despaire.How long I can put up with all of this evil I don't know.Good luck to all those other victims and hope they can lead a normal life after there despaire.
stay strong ur not alone x