i had no idea your iconic hair started as a goal for physical theropy. im so glad you found such a great way to motivate your self and regain your confidence
One of the biggest problems with physical therapy is consistently doing it. The exercises are boring and hard and after a while it's easy to loose motivation. It is so wonderful that you found something you were consistently motivated to do, and as a bonus you got a fabulous new skill out of it!
Well i agree to an extent. My body lets me know when ive STOPPED doing my PT exercises. It is just a learned prescription for assistance when you need it. PT lets you heal yourself anytime you're not well.
@@TypeOnegideally it should be a combination- I’m an occupational therapist and using functional tasks like this is our primary mode of providing intervention!
This is what i was trying to do with my ankle. My left ankle can get stiff and hurt a lot if I've walked for a while or being prone when im driving. I figure my right foot never hurts because i use it on the gas/break pedal. Im trying to learn how to ride a bike so i can do it to stretch my ankles. Im still bad at balancing though because it always tips when i try to pedal. I feel like i need to use a tricycle.
It’s so important to find something to be able to do on your own again. It was a long road - and in some ways still is - for me after I woke up paralyzed from the navel down after an emergency surgery. When you loose so many abilities - it’s the world to gain a new one!
I had a blood infection which caused two abscesses on my spinal cord paralysing me from the chest down and my right hand. The doctors didn't know if it was permanent or not, only time would tell. It surprised me how I handled it, immediately I was fine with whatever the outcome was. After two surgeries I slowly regained most of my feeling, I'm able to walk and run slowly now, my hand has almost all of its feeling back. It took a year, going three times a week, of physical therapy. My feet bother me the most, if I don't pay attention to my walking and placement or when I tired, I do trip a lot. Physical therapy, no matter what it is, is the most important thing one can do. One physical therapist told me it takes 3 days of pt for every 1 day spent lying in the bed.
I think my Mom had this same relationship, but with her nails. My Mom had MS and she went through many ups and downs with what her body was able to do. But she always had perfectly shaped and polished nails. She would take such meticulous care of them. I can still hear her voice in my head, “Only file in one direction to get the smoothest edge. Three passes of the nail polish brush to keep the top smooth, the middle, then each side. Always use a top coat so it won’t chip.” She must have had 100 bottles of nail polish, all of them a different shade of red! She had files, buffers, nail polish, nail polish remover and cotton balls strategically placed throughout the house so she had easy access to them. She was always so pleased when she received compliments on them. 💅
I love this so much. My grandmother used to find great joy in getting her nails done, it was her one luxury that she took up in her older age, as her arthritis took away her ability to knit and crochet, or do her nails herself. It was one of the things she said still made her feel pretty - she loved having one glitsy ring finger, she would always show it off to me when she got a new set done. So proud of letting the nail tech try something "out there" and sparkley on that one statement nail. Thank you for sharing your story so that I was reminded of my grandmother and her nails.
I aspire to be like her ❤ I don't have a physical disability, but i'm autistic with a very low social battery.. I need many hours each day to just.. be by myself. and one of my favourite hobbies is nail care.. I used to chew my nails badly, but it was one compliment about my nails (which were short and something I was ashamed of) from a girl I had just met that lit the spark in me to start to stop.. now, I get so many compliments and it brings me so much pride.. but then they ask me to do theirs 💀 lol, I'm worse on others 💀
I have narcolepsy, cataplexy, PNES, and chronic pain. It is so SO important for us less able bodied people to find something that motivates us, even if it's unconventional in most eyes. I'm so glad you found your motivation!
the origin story of your always iconic hair is so sweet and realistic; learning to do what you can, whatever that may be that day, and making it both productive and fun!
For me it’s music. I have a lot of condition and stress is trigger and some of the cause elevated stress hormones. Singing helps lower cortisol. Now I’m using instruments to get into better shape. Good posture and slight movement help with pain. Endorphins you get from it as well don’t hurt.
Styling my own hair involves a level of muscle movements and dexterity that works muscles that I took for granted that typical calisthenics or weight lifting don't. While learning to cook as a child with my mother, I never realized how much stirring batter works your forearms. That's wonderful that you were able to focus your physical therapy to not just improve your mobility but learn such a useful and empowering skill. Styling your hair is part of your brand and self efficiency. You are elegant! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and grace with us
Reminds me of my partner. It wasn't for a physical disability but for trauma. Amazing what small things like having your hair the way you want it can do. I'm glad it's brought you happiness.
It’s amazing how not you your old photos look. Your vintage curls look so quintessentially part of who you are. I’m so glad you found something that suits your soul and helped you recover.
That’s so cool that you used vintage hair skills as therapy! My grandmother’s hand was badly injured in a car wreck (I think the doctor used the word “shattered.”) She had always been an avid artist, seamstress, and crocheter before, and decided she’d continue to crochet as part of her therapy. It really helped with her strength and range of motion. Her hand was never the same as it was before the wreck, but as you know, when you’re doing something you enjoy, and you’re determined, the result can be pretty great.
crochet is how my sweet Bigmama kept her hands flexible with severe arthritis. And she loved doing it. I have an intricate, Beautiful, beige Queen size bed spread she made me. QUEEN sized ! 💞
That's awesome. I have peripheral neopathy and even though it's not as debilitating as what you have, I'm always numb, in pain and my entire body systems are affected sometimes. There are days where I feel if I stand up for too long, my legs will break in half. And the numbness can get so bad I feel like hot needles are being driven into my skin. I haven't been dealing with this for long either. This developed within the last five years of my life and I'm still navigating my symptoms and my days where I literally am apart of that couch. You're such an inspiration to me in a way that shows me even though I feel like an alien in my own body, that I can do something about it. Thank you for your channel, your spirit and your fashion.
Thank you for sharing your experience of finding a way to get control of something in your life when everything seemed to be working against you. I fight with that every day too. I'm slowly getting a little hold on something that gives me that bit of control and happiness ❤❤❤
The photo of you in the pale turquoise dress is stunning 👌 I've been disabled since 2009 and the original problem has caused many other health issues over the years. Most days I can't be bothered to even brush my hair (it is painful for my arms)....but watching your video today has made me think that I SHOULD be pushing myself to make that effort; so thank you for sharing so much of your journey ❤
That is such a great idea! Using something else as motivation to do something that needs to be done both gets the project done and gives you what motivated you!
I really love your story of how you overcame something so horrible that so many would have just given up. You truly are a strong woman and this story is so inspirational. PS your hair is fabulous darlin'
Thank you for sharing your journey. As new chronic illness girlie, I have struggled with the loss of function and not being able to strive for new goals. Love that you used hair styling as your physical therapy goal!
Jessica, I am cRYING. I had NO idea about this part of your story, that your vintage hair styling was a direct result of that initial paralyzation! That feels that much more integral to the person you are today.
OMG, thank you so much for sharing this. I don't know why I felt your style had a deeper back story,but this just about teared me up. I love this so much.
You are an amazing and beautiful human. I don’t believe I’ll ever find that thing to motivate me. I don’t want to sound ungrateful for my life. I just need help finding my thing that could also be therapeutic. This is so inspiring. your attitude, your demeanor, your drive, your passion and enthusiasm. Your family is lucky to have such a beautiful soul like you.
you're such a light in this world💗 i have severe endometriosis as well as some other undiagnosed illnesses that come with all those feelings of helplessness and frustration that my body just doesn't seem to even wanna be alive. seeing you share all these beautiful things you do reminds me that i CAN still have a fulfilling and contented life. Thank you💕
What a lovely story of how you handled your disability and found something you love through it, living with one sucks and you’re such an inspiration. But also, did you/do you live in Massachusetts?? bc that Newburyport t-shirt had me do a double take bc that’s literally the town I live in!
You're an inspiration to me. Even with all the inconvenient traits you have (not saying they're bad but just looked down upon in society) I must say you are a strong and lovely person. I wish to someday be as strong as you. Love lots.
You should have all the confidence in the world! Because you are absolutely gorgeous! And the vintage style suite you like a glove! And on top you are a very interesting person! I really enjoy your content!❤
Oh Jessica I have been watching you for so many years. I run The Spoonie Sisterhood, now The Brave Babes Movement, and have had rheumatoid arthritis for over 22 years. Now apparently I have osteoarthritis in my shoulder as well. I've been dealing with a lot of issues, a lot of physical setback, a lot of trying to see what I can regain. Well last night I cut over a foot off of my hair. I believe it is your length now. I have also been hoping that by simplifying what I am dealing with when it comes to my hair, I can start using it as physical therapy again as well. This makes me so happy to see this video! I feel so understood, and I have so much hope that I can also get to a place of doing my hair amazingly and vintage as well but also that it will help with my mobility on top of it! You are just the most stunning and I'm thankful you exist. XO
Thank you so much for sharing. I have MS and I feel like so much of my day is governed by what I used to be able to do but can't anymore. Combine that with also being ADHD and constantly trying to find new, stimulating hobbies, it's been rough. You are an inspiration and people who share their experiences like this give me hope.
Amazing and it suits you so well. When you spend a lot of time in the hospital you do have to get crafty with whatever is available to you. I think many people don't understand how major it is to go through a life altering health change and how much you have to challenge yourself to keep going 🌻
I’m an artist and I’ve been writing a character with a similar disability. I’m glad there are creators like you on the platform that can share first hand experiences and make information like this more open and accessible. I’m learning a lot.
I don’t want to be cheesy, but I just want to say that you are truly such an inspiration to me every single day. I aspire to have just half the strength and wisdom that you possess.
Jessica is a wonder ! Her love of vintage hair, clothes and history is remarkable. You'll enjoy looking at her videos, her channel. She is so accomplished and walks many new paths ! Her inspirational life and new family is just so admirable and interesting, too ! Love you Jessica, Claudia and their boy. Isn't her smile Devine !! 🤗💞
I love that your hair became part of your physical therapy! People really underestimate how regular activities are good for more than just the obvious task. Physical therapy doesn't have to be just a chore, it can be many things, apparently doing hair as well and I adore that connection you made!
Smart and resourceful! You found somethign nice to help healing. People really need to learn how to stop being victims. You are the only other person I ever heard of to therapize herself and not just be a victim. I used gaming against loneliness, depression and low self esteem.
Thank you for sharing such vulnerable parts of yoursrlf. I resonate with your attitude and spirit. I have EDS, undiagnosed until I was 15. Fashion has always been a comfort to me. Coming up with beautiful color combbinations or monochromatic looks gave me a sense of confidence. ❤
So you're telling me your kickass hair has an even more kickass origin story!? Ugh, you just keep getting cooler and cooler every video of yours that I watch! ;3;)/
Your hare has always been the part I've seen as your most identifiable feature. It's BEAUTIFUL. The hair styles of the 40's and 50's were lost for most but you carrying it on and having this story to go along with it is awesome
Ahh I love learning people's stories! They have so much to tell, your hair is wonderful and I've always loved it! Congrats on finding things that work best for you and getting to where you are now
Hair is honestly more powerful than people give credit for. As a trans girl, most of my transition has revolved around my hair. Being a huge fan of Alt stuff like Metal and punk I thought my hair needed to look a certain way. Until I started experimenting and embracing my natural curls. I went from a fried, straightened daily emo side part to luscious vintage style locks of curly hair, while still looking more hardcore than ever.
Thank you for sharing your story. You inspired me to change my focus and find ways to modify how I go through life to suit my body needs while enriching my style and appearance unapologetically ❤.
You're an inspiration for everyone. I'm personally not that interested in hair and vintage style but I can try to apply your attitude to life in anything I do. Thank you for the videos.
My husband has a form of muscular dystrophy that absorbs potassium into his muscles causing periodic paralysis like this in whichever muscle happens to absorb the potassium. Usually comes on as he's sleeping. Thankfully it's gotten much better with age. Your experience reminded me of his a great deal.. & your hair really does look fabulous. Best wishes xoxo
as a disabled person starting occupational therapy school this month this makes me so happy. treatment should always keep what brings the patient joy in mind so they can collaborate with the therapist for the best outcome :)
As someone else who's hair has been the most important part of their body, this was so relatable. My hair really helped me boost my confidence and accept myself.
You are by far the most elegant person on youtube! And whenever you appear, I know you'll say something worth my while... which is even more important.
So gorgeous!!! Your hair was the reason I subscribed several years ago and I was really shocked that you have some physical conditions. So appreciate that you share your joy and elegance with us. ❤❤❤
You are AMAZING and so BEAUTIFUL - I love your videos and now they mean so much more to me!!! Now they're not only beautiful, but so inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story - I wish you nothing but goodness, joy and love!!!
I never knew this about your hair! I too have hEDS and I've been having a very hard time physically recently. This reminds me that little by little is enough! Just keep trying. Thank you for this video!
i had no idea your iconic hair started as a goal for physical theropy. im so glad you found such a great way to motivate your self and regain your confidence
I had no idea, either! This creator has come up on ,y feed time to time over the years, and I would’ve had no idea!
Jessica is an inspiration to ALL of us!❤
You mean occupational therapy.
yeah thats insane! and it really is a good thing for her hands it’s perfect
I'm gonna admit, I thought she was trans and it was part of the "ignore everyone else, present how I want" decision.
One of the biggest problems with physical therapy is consistently doing it. The exercises are boring and hard and after a while it's easy to loose motivation. It is so wonderful that you found something you were consistently motivated to do, and as a bonus you got a fabulous new skill out of it!
Thats why occupational therapy exists.
Well i agree to an extent. My body lets me know when ive STOPPED doing my PT exercises. It is just a learned prescription for assistance when you need it. PT lets you heal yourself anytime you're not well.
@@mariasoto1837thank you!
@@TypeOnegideally it should be a combination- I’m an occupational therapist and using functional tasks like this is our primary mode of providing intervention!
This is what i was trying to do with my ankle. My left ankle can get stiff and hurt a lot if I've walked for a while or being prone when im driving. I figure my right foot never hurts because i use it on the gas/break pedal. Im trying to learn how to ride a bike so i can do it to stretch my ankles. Im still bad at balancing though because it always tips when i try to pedal. I feel like i need to use a tricycle.
It’s so important to find something to be able to do on your own again. It was a long road - and in some ways still is - for me after I woke up paralyzed from the navel down after an emergency surgery. When you loose so many abilities - it’s the world to gain a new one!
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I had a blood infection which caused two abscesses on my spinal cord paralysing me from the chest down and my right hand. The doctors didn't know if it was permanent or not, only time would tell. It surprised me how I handled it, immediately I was fine with whatever the outcome was. After two surgeries I slowly regained most of my feeling, I'm able to walk and run slowly now, my hand has almost all of its feeling back. It took a year, going three times a week, of physical therapy. My feet bother me the most, if I don't pay attention to my walking and placement or when I tired, I do trip a lot.
Physical therapy, no matter what it is, is the most important thing one can do. One physical therapist told me it takes 3 days of pt for every 1 day spent lying in the bed.
I think my Mom had this same relationship, but with her nails. My Mom had MS and she went through many ups and downs with what her body was able to do. But she always had perfectly shaped and polished nails. She would take such meticulous care of them. I can still hear her voice in my head, “Only file in one direction to get the smoothest edge. Three passes of the nail polish brush to keep the top smooth, the middle, then each side. Always use a top coat so it won’t chip.” She must have had 100 bottles of nail polish, all of them a different shade of red! She had files, buffers, nail polish, nail polish remover and cotton balls strategically placed throughout the house so she had easy access to them. She was always so pleased when she received compliments on them. 💅
I love this so much. My grandmother used to find great joy in getting her nails done, it was her one luxury that she took up in her older age, as her arthritis took away her ability to knit and crochet, or do her nails herself. It was one of the things she said still made her feel pretty - she loved having one glitsy ring finger, she would always show it off to me when she got a new set done. So proud of letting the nail tech try something "out there" and sparkley on that one statement nail. Thank you for sharing your story so that I was reminded of my grandmother and her nails.
@@harequail523 ❤️
OT to the rescue.
i know how it feels with a parant with ms my mom is the same and she used tenis balls
I aspire to be like her ❤
I don't have a physical disability, but i'm autistic with a very low social battery.. I need many hours each day to just.. be by myself. and one of my favourite hobbies is nail care..
I used to chew my nails badly, but it was one compliment about my nails (which were short and something I was ashamed of) from a girl I had just met that lit the spark in me to start to stop..
now, I get so many compliments and it brings me so much pride..
but then they ask me to do theirs 💀 lol, I'm worse on others 💀
I have narcolepsy, cataplexy, PNES, and chronic pain. It is so SO important for us less able bodied people to find something that motivates us, even if it's unconventional in most eyes. I'm so glad you found your motivation!
the origin story of your always iconic hair is so sweet and realistic; learning to do what you can, whatever that may be that day, and making it both productive and fun!
I needed to hear this today, I’m going through chronic fatigue and this was really inspiring
same!! Its hard to remember when the crashes are bad, but we can v gradually find ways to get things done
"Using whatever I could find at hand"
probably a far more authentic approach than a lot of purpose-built devices haha
For me it’s music. I have a lot of condition and stress is trigger and some of the cause elevated stress hormones. Singing helps lower cortisol. Now I’m using instruments to get into better shape. Good posture and slight movement help with pain. Endorphins you get from it as well don’t hurt.
Styling my own hair involves a level of muscle movements and dexterity that works muscles that I took for granted that typical calisthenics or weight lifting don't. While learning to cook as a child with my mother, I never realized how much stirring batter works your forearms. That's wonderful that you were able to focus your physical therapy to not just improve your mobility but learn such a useful and empowering skill. Styling your hair is part of your brand and self efficiency. You are elegant! Thank you for sharing your knowledge and grace with us
Reminds me of my partner. It wasn't for a physical disability but for trauma. Amazing what small things like having your hair the way you want it can do. I'm glad it's brought you happiness.
It’s amazing how not you your old photos look. Your vintage curls look so quintessentially part of who you are. I’m so glad you found something that suits your soul and helped you recover.
What a beautiful story of finding yourself and fighting for yourself ❤
That’s so cool that you used vintage hair skills as therapy! My grandmother’s hand was badly injured in a car wreck (I think the doctor used the word “shattered.”) She had always been an avid artist, seamstress, and crocheter before, and decided she’d continue to crochet as part of her therapy. It really helped with her strength and range of motion. Her hand was never the same as it was before the wreck, but as you know, when you’re doing something you enjoy, and you’re determined, the result can be pretty great.
crochet is how my sweet Bigmama kept her hands flexible with severe arthritis. And she loved doing it. I have an intricate, Beautiful, beige Queen size bed spread she made me. QUEEN sized ! 💞
That's awesome. I have peripheral neopathy and even though it's not as debilitating as what you have, I'm always numb, in pain and my entire body systems are affected sometimes. There are days where I feel if I stand up for too long, my legs will break in half. And the numbness can get so bad I feel like hot needles are being driven into my skin. I haven't been dealing with this for long either. This developed within the last five years of my life and I'm still navigating my symptoms and my days where I literally am apart of that couch. You're such an inspiration to me in a way that shows me even though I feel like an alien in my own body, that I can do something about it. Thank you for your channel, your spirit and your fashion.
You have the prettiest smile!
Thank you for sharing your experience of finding a way to get control of something in your life when everything seemed to be working against you. I fight with that every day too. I'm slowly getting a little hold on something that gives me that bit of control and happiness ❤❤❤
i've seen a number of your shorts and you are a beautiful woman. seeing what you had to go thru to get there is so encouraging!
ive always loved your hair in your videos, your story makes it even more meaningful and unique! 💖
Well, you do have great hair.
And it's gorgeous!
I love how you found something that made you inspired and happy.
The photo of you in the pale turquoise dress is stunning 👌 I've been disabled since 2009 and the original problem has caused many other health issues over the years. Most days I can't be bothered to even brush my hair (it is painful for my arms)....but watching your video today has made me think that I SHOULD be pushing myself to make that effort; so thank you for sharing so much of your journey ❤
That is such a great idea!
Using something else as motivation to do something that needs to be done both gets the project done and gives you what motivated you!
this made me cry. You're a wonderful person.
I really love your story of how you overcame something so horrible that so many would have just given up. You truly are a strong woman and this story is so inspirational. PS your hair is fabulous darlin'
It's nice when we can take our worst experiences and transform them into something beautiful.
Thank you for sharing your journey. As new chronic illness girlie, I have struggled with the loss of function and not being able to strive for new goals. Love that you used hair styling as your physical therapy goal!
I love this ❤Congratulations! My goodness, what a wonderful story of triumph that came out as beauty in motion!
I do love your vintage look! 😍
Jessica, I am cRYING. I had NO idea about this part of your story, that your vintage hair styling was a direct result of that initial paralyzation! That feels that much more integral to the person you are today.
Explains so much. So happy your doing better. Praying against relapses, and strength and growth of there ever are any.
OMG, thank you so much for sharing this. I don't know why I felt your style had a deeper back story,but this just about teared me up. I love this so much.
I can see the joy in your eyes when you sport your classic hair, it truly suits you
The work clearly paid off! Drop dead gorgeous:)
You are an amazing and beautiful human. I don’t believe I’ll ever find that thing to motivate me. I don’t want to sound ungrateful for my life. I just need help finding my thing that could also be therapeutic. This is so inspiring. your attitude, your demeanor, your drive, your passion and enthusiasm. Your family is lucky to have such a beautiful soul like you.
you're such a light in this world💗 i have severe endometriosis as well as some other undiagnosed illnesses that come with all those feelings of helplessness and frustration that my body just doesn't seem to even wanna be alive. seeing you share all these beautiful things you do reminds me that i CAN still have a fulfilling and contented life. Thank you💕
Plan YOUR path cause you deserve it. Jessica is good to follow, too.
@@KindCountsDeb3773 💖
What a lovely story of how you handled your disability and found something you love through it, living with one sucks and you’re such an inspiration. But also, did you/do you live in Massachusetts?? bc that Newburyport t-shirt had me do a double take bc that’s literally the town I live in!
You're an inspiration to me. Even with all the inconvenient traits you have (not saying they're bad but just looked down upon in society) I must say you are a strong and lovely person. I wish to someday be as strong as you.
Love lots.
You should have all the confidence in the world! Because you are absolutely gorgeous! And the vintage style suite you like a glove! And on top you are a very interesting person! I really enjoy your content!❤
Oh Jessica I have been watching you for so many years. I run The Spoonie Sisterhood, now The Brave Babes Movement, and have had rheumatoid arthritis for over 22 years. Now apparently I have osteoarthritis in my shoulder as well. I've been dealing with a lot of issues, a lot of physical setback, a lot of trying to see what I can regain. Well last night I cut over a foot off of my hair. I believe it is your length now. I have also been hoping that by simplifying what I am dealing with when it comes to my hair, I can start using it as physical therapy again as well. This makes me so happy to see this video! I feel so understood, and I have so much hope that I can also get to a place of doing my hair amazingly and vintage as well but also that it will help with my mobility on top of it! You are just the most stunning and I'm thankful you exist. XO
Thank you so much for sharing. I have MS and I feel like so much of my day is governed by what I used to be able to do but can't anymore. Combine that with also being ADHD and constantly trying to find new, stimulating hobbies, it's been rough.
You are an inspiration and people who share their experiences like this give me hope.
That is such good news ! Hope you continue to progres, YOU are worth it !!
Amazing and it suits you so well. When you spend a lot of time in the hospital you do have to get crafty with whatever is available to you. I think many people don't understand how major it is to go through a life altering health change and how much you have to challenge yourself to keep going 🌻
I’m an artist and I’ve been writing a character with a similar disability. I’m glad there are creators like you on the platform that can share first hand experiences and make information like this more open and accessible. I’m learning a lot.
I love that you combined your passion project with physical therapy. so inspiring.
I don’t want to be cheesy, but I just want to say that you are truly such an inspiration to me every single day. I aspire to have just half the strength and wisdom that you possess.
bet you CAn do it, too ! Choose your path !!
What a lovely story of finding positivity in negativity. Well done you! 👍
Jessica is a wonder ! Her love of vintage hair, clothes and history is remarkable. You'll enjoy looking at her videos, her channel. She is so accomplished and walks many new paths ! Her inspirational life and new family is just so admirable and interesting, too ! Love you Jessica, Claudia and their boy. Isn't her smile Devine !! 🤗💞
the vintage hair look fits you so well, thats crazy how that’s what formed your look
I love that your hair became part of your physical therapy!
People really underestimate how regular activities are good for more than just the obvious task.
Physical therapy doesn't have to be just a chore, it can be many things, apparently doing hair as well and I adore that connection you made!
An outstanding story of strength - your hair is your crown 🥰
What a beautiful story!! It’s always amazing to hear about stories of empowerment in the face of great challenges!
That explains why your hair always looks amazing
You showed real courage and you look beautiful. I can't imagine what sort of person would insult a teen working towards recovery.
You are a queen, you're ageless, you're priceless. You're a goddess. Bless you! You are an inspiration.
Smart and resourceful! You found somethign nice to help healing. People really need to learn how to stop being victims. You are the only other person I ever heard of to therapize herself and not just be a victim. I used gaming against loneliness, depression and low self esteem.
Your hair looks great. You are truly inspiring!!!
Thank you for sharing such vulnerable parts of yoursrlf. I resonate with your attitude and spirit. I have EDS, undiagnosed until I was 15. Fashion has always been a comfort to me. Coming up with beautiful color combbinations or monochromatic looks gave me a sense of confidence. ❤
As a fellow spoonie, I aspire to live my best life with this level of confidence and spite towards the odds. Your hair is amazing and fabulous ❤
So you're telling me your kickass hair has an even more kickass origin story!?
Ugh, you just keep getting cooler and cooler every video of yours that I watch!
;3;)/
This technique that YOU invented to help yourself could be taught to others helping millions, you’re amazing!!
That is truly amazing! You're an incredible person in so many ways and the longer I watch your channel the more astounded I am :)
What an amazing but also touching story. You’re awesome Jessica.
Your hair inspires and brings me joy.❤
Your hare has always been the part I've seen as your most identifiable feature. It's BEAUTIFUL. The hair styles of the 40's and 50's were lost for most but you carrying it on and having this story to go along with it is awesome
I love your hair. It seems so complicated to do vintage hair to me. The most complicated style I have done is Princess Leia hairstyle for 4th May.
And your hair is always so fabulous! 😍
Every time I feel overwhelmed or like I can't do something, I hear your voice, your pretty accent, saying "no matter!" It helps!!
Ahh I love learning people's stories! They have so much to tell, your hair is wonderful and I've always loved it! Congrats on finding things that work best for you and getting to where you are now
That's absolutely heroic. Bless you and all you do, J.
Hair is honestly more powerful than people give credit for. As a trans girl, most of my transition has revolved around my hair. Being a huge fan of Alt stuff like Metal and punk I thought my hair needed to look a certain way.
Until I started experimenting and embracing my natural curls. I went from a fried, straightened daily emo side part to luscious vintage style locks of curly hair, while still looking more hardcore than ever.
I love your hair & your style! I can’t imagine any other style! Perfection!
Your tenacity, positivity and grit are very inspiring! ❤
Your hair is stunning
I loved this so much. This is so empowering ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. You inspired me to change my focus and find ways to modify how I go through life to suit my body needs while enriching my style and appearance unapologetically ❤.
You're an inspiration for everyone. I'm personally not that interested in hair and vintage style but I can try to apply your attitude to life in anything I do. Thank you for the videos.
That’s such a bomb backstory dude
As I’ve been watching your videos I’ve always loved your hair. I’m so glad you found your route to happiness and recovery
I had no ideia of this! And I watched a lot of your videos. Please make more shorts like this, I would love to know more about your story ❤
She's ALWAYS been beautiful!!
My husband has a form of muscular dystrophy that absorbs potassium into his muscles causing periodic paralysis like this in whichever muscle happens to absorb the potassium. Usually comes on as he's sleeping. Thankfully it's gotten much better with age. Your experience reminded me of his a great deal.. & your hair really does look fabulous. Best wishes xoxo
You're absolutely stunning. I'm so glad this gave you happiness.
as a disabled person starting occupational therapy school this month this makes me so happy. treatment should always keep what brings the patient joy in mind so they can collaborate with the therapist for the best outcome :)
As someone else who's hair has been the most important part of their body, this was so relatable. My hair really helped me boost my confidence and accept myself.
You are by far the most elegant person on youtube! And whenever you appear, I know you'll say something worth my while... which is even more important.
So gorgeous!!! Your hair was the reason I subscribed several years ago and I was really shocked that you have some physical conditions. So appreciate that you share your joy and elegance with us. ❤❤❤
You look so beautiful, keep that confidence going!
thank you💖 i have (symptomatic) hypermobility & it affects many areas of my life, i'll definitely think about my own goals to help myself
You are AMAZING and so BEAUTIFUL - I love your videos and now they mean so much more to me!!! Now they're not only beautiful, but so inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story - I wish you nothing but goodness, joy and love!!!
Congratulations on finding happiness and confidence!
Jess, you are a very beautiful and inspirational person. Heart ♥ for you.
and your hair always looks phenomenal!!
That’s truly amazing, Jessica!
I never knew this about your hair! I too have hEDS and I've been having a very hard time physically recently. This reminds me that little by little is enough! Just keep trying. Thank you for this video!
I absolutely LOVE vintage hairstyles and you look amazing in them I cannot believe you did that yourself these are amazing
Your hair is STUNNING!
This is an incredible story. Thank you.
No wonder your hair is that pretty!❤
You are amazing!
wow, ive never seen those younger photos of you! still carrying that same grace and class ❤
What a lovely story about overcoming. I know some days are harder than others but your hairs always looks great. (In the videos I see.)