IMO female cheater = male abuser. And just like abuse there are levels to how bad cheating can be. Cheating with paternity fraud is one of the worst cases.
@jalcobo you're sadly right and I'm not sexist but we've got a better chance of discovering warp speed space travel and discovering life outside earth than getting humans females to actually reconcile with their behavior and choices
@@PreeSpunky In the state I live in(California), adultery is perfectly legal and is encouraged by the court systems here because they reward women so handsomely for doing so. Men are typically kicked out of their own homes and forced to pay alimony and child support "if there is children" for the rest of their lives. There was a recent case here where a husband came home from work early only to find his wife engaged in a gangbang with 5 different men. The husband was furious when his wife refused to stop and told him to just leave until she was finished. Outraged the husband called the police and demanded that they come and remove the strange men from his home. When they arrived the furious husband was informed that the 5 men were allowed to stay and continue having sex with his wife because, A In this state adultery is not illegal, and B His wife invited them into the house, mind you the whole time this conversation was taking place she continued to have sex with the 5 men. When the husband began to loudly argue with the police they handcuffed him and arrested him for causing a domestic disturbance. The police maintained that due to the laws in this state hubby was supposed to just do what his wife told him to do and leave until she was finished, then he was free to file whatever papers he wanted to end their marriage. Men DO NOT get married in this state.
These type of stories make me mad. So men can get arrested for unwanted sexual advances. But a woman does paternity fraud which destroys families and they get off scott-free??? Such bullshit. I'm so so glad he divorced her
Men can also get jammed up with just an accusation! And....when the accusation is PROVEN false there are zero ramifications to the false accuser, but the falsely accused get his life destroyed with no recourse or compensation.
I laughed so hard. She says the affair started when she asked her neighbor to fix a leaky faucet, then their son grows up to be a plumber! ... LoL... I was tickled pink!
Guaranteed she's cheated throughout the marriage. Bill knew her history before they married and learnt the harsh lesson that you can't turn a 304 into a housewife.
Yep, there are two kinds of women, one type is good wife material and the other is good 304 material. You can turn a good wife into a 304 but you can't turn a 304 into a good wife.
indeed once a good girls gone bad she’s gone to the streets FOREVER! So don’t save her.. An I bet it was just twice neither she is downplaying it like we honestly believe that nonsense 😂 it was far more.. I wouldn’t be surprised if they were a few times where he finish in her an she didn’t care at the time fr.. Passionate encounters like that tend to have a way of robbing ppl of what intelligence they have.
I see this a lot people don’t seem to get the more a man loves you, the faster that love can be twisted to hate after a betrayal of that man’s trust. 2nd thing I’ve noticed is women don’t understand that men want to pass their genes on to the next generation. The fact this woman kept this a secret for 25 years and prevented him from having any bio children of his own would scar him all the more.
@@mirrorvape6152True. The difference between love and hate is paper thin... As harlots find out when they commit the ultimate act of betrayal. There are few things you can do to a man that are worse.
What’s really remarkable is that she considers the fact that he has no biological children to her but has been stringing him along as so for nearly 30 years to be a non issue and is only focusing on the physical act of cheating when she’s saying she doesn’t understand how a ‘small’ thing could ruin their relationship. There’s having a bad upbringing and then there’s delusional narcissism..
Yes it is her fault. However, knowing her upbringing, Bill was taking something of a risk becoming involved with her in the first place. What then happened wasn't necessarily a given. But as the saying goes, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree." Plus he was too young to get married and she was WAY TOO YOUNG AND IMMATURE!
If he put a bullet in her head, I wouldn't feel bad. Not condoning or wishing violence, but you don't play with a man's money, time, emotion and life's direction like that 💯
I think their is different ways a person can turn off their emotions and mostly it’s heinous. I have extremely bad ADHD and have like no emotions , can straight up have no emotions for anything at all and turn them on kind of but they go off in the blink of an eye if something is bothering me . Was cheated on once years ago , thought I was loving this girl , but realized I was forcing myself to replicate any love style emotions towards her , found out and in seconds it’s like my mind hard reset and I felt nothing , no emotions what so ever , no hate , no love no anything . Found the guy , he was scared , told him he’s fine and I don’t even care but come over, he did , and told them both good luck , left I did have some inside laughs along my way. Emotions shutting off otherwise could be from the sick disgusting things someone is knowing they are doing , they keep doing it and they become so disgusted with themselves they feel nothing anymore . It’s also could be constant bottling up of emotions and never letting them out, or talking about them, or even just feeling the emotions you have , will make them bottle away until their emotionless on the outside at least. But for the third reason I know of is for me is ADHD , which makes emotions hard to either understand , control , deal with , or have .
Translation, I had intercourse with the neighbor for a long time up, until he had to move. And my husband has never been able to catch me in my multiple Affairs since then, because I'm sterile now.
I was cracking up when she said she wished them nothing but the best, we all know that's a lie. She'll spend her remaining days in envy, and I predict a meltdown when the ex has a baby with his new wife.
Hoping Bill & his new wife have a couple of kids, Bill Jr & Stevie would be great older brothers imo. Hoping for update. Vindictive part of me hopes Stevie find out the real reason he was adopted, the good part of me hopes he NEVER connects the dots
She knew exactly what she was doing when she invited that man into her house to fix “the shower leak”. I promise she is still leaving parts of the story out of it. This wasn’t her only affair. She was too comfortable with everything to even allow her AP to enter her without protection. She probably wasn’t even the one to stop the affair it was more than likely the AP and that’s really the reason him and his wife up and left with no goodbyes.
"She probably wasn’t even the one to stop the affair..." Remember a few days after she allegedly ended it, AP and family moved away in the dead of the night because their home was foreclosed on? Yeah...
This lady has absolutely no idea how much Bill really did for her. He got her out of a immensely terrible psychologically dysfunctional environment and she pays him back in the most horrible way. Just pure selfishness, she was going to end up just like everyone around her life if it wasn’t for Bill.
True. Just like my ex girlfriend years ago. You take them from it and treat them well. Better than they have ever been treated or deserve. Next thing you know they’re eventually spitting in your face, deflecting, moving the goal posts and gaslighting. Leave trash at the dump. You may feel bad but you didn’t create it. If they don’t know anything different and strive to be better then what’s the point?
The person who I feel the saddest for in this story is Stevie to know who was just adopted to be a fix a flat for a dying relationship is just heart breaking
She says she doesn't see how someone can just turn off their emotions and love can completely be gone just like that. Well that's because women can never know the utter pain of finding out your child isn't actually yours, but a result of an affair. AND to keep it a secret from him is a double betrayal. You will always be the biological mother, no one can ever take that away from you. But imagine what it feels like when being a biological father is taken away by just a few words.
Not just that, even though it was 25 years ago, to HIM, it might as well have been yesterday. The betrayal and knowing are as fresh as if it had just happened. Furthermore, women just don't understand that she will forever be tainted damaged goods, defiled by another man after she promised herself to him for life in front of friends, family and God.
Most women don't understand why men can turn off their emotions. This is true masculinity, emotional response could lead to a physical encounter. This is the strength of masculinity. Some women enjoy inflicting pain on others and Revell in the emotional toil. If he breaks down and cries she has power over him, if he is physical, she is the victim and has him arrested and ostracized. They do this to other women all the time too, the only time it doesn't work is when the victimized woman becomes physical and takes.out the trash.
Gentlemen, they CAN do a prenatal Paternity test after 7-8 weeks or so of pregnancy via a simple arm blood draw on Mom, a simple cheek swab on the guy. AS SOON as she says I'm pregnant..GO GET A PATERNITY TEST
The fact that she knowingly denied her husband any decisions regarding biological children after realizing the truth about Bill Jr. is the one thing I just cannot forgive.
Don't know if this story is REAL or if FYA is real person or artificial voice. FYA is a Witch Burner; you are way way way Beyond Hateful and Evil and Judgmental. This young woman had an Abortion as a Teen and her childhood was an Absolute Nightmare. She still Managed A-B Grades. She broke the Chain of Despair that was a Nightmare Childhood. She never abused Drugs or Cigarettes, She was Absolutely Faithful and a Great Wife and Friend for 25 Years. FYA wants to Burn her at the Stake. If FYA was a Real Person and I knew who he was, I am a former Marine Corps officer. I would beat his stupid, VILE, EVILcHATEFUL Ass to within an Inch of his Life. He'd eat Hospital food for a long long LONG Time-a real piece of Human Fences!!!!!
The neighbor left because he knew she was pregnant with his child. She was hoping it was her husband's but knew the whole time. Bill wasn't "generous" in the divorce, she raked him over the coals for not staying. Bill dating the younger woman was fair play, and probably the reason she was so hurt when he moved on.
Facts! Womon like her are masters at lying to themselves about themselves. So she there is no doubt in my mind she will have little difficulty and even smaller remorse lying and minimizing to us..or anyone else for that matter!
The best part of all this is that OP is now too old to trade up and marry when she wants. It’s over for her love life so now loneliness will be her husband from now on until she dies of old age.
There is a video called “why women don’t apologize”. It breaks down how men and women literally have different concepts of wrongdoing. For women it’s not their behavior that is the problem but negative reactions to their behavior. So generally the tendency is not to acknowledge behavior as cause.
We need a national paternity fraud law enforcement. That would state that if you commit paternity fraud you have to pay every penny the other person had paid with interest the same as child support and you only have a few years to pay or go to prison and still have to pay it.
@@kennethboyer2338 In this case, I disagree. To ensure that those guilty of paternity fraud are properly punished, enforcement would HAVE to be Federal, as would the law. Otherwise, the fraudulent could simply skip out to a state that DOESN'T have such a law (or doesn't enforce it if it does).
There are plenty of countries in the world where the penalty for cheating is death. I don't think we should go there, but damn, if you were in a situation like Bill was, you'd sure be thinking along that line.
This was hard to listen to, I yelled a few times while listening. Her behavior and rationalization of said behavior was absolutely grotesque. I feel so bad for Bill and Bill Jr., but glad they saw her for who she was and stuck together. What a vile person.
Let's not forget young Stevie. It turns out he was just an innocent pawn in her treacherous plan to help keep the marriage together if Bill ever found out.
It's odd how she kept on thinking that adopting kids is the same as having one of your own. If I was Steve I'd be mad as well because he would realize that the only reason she wanted to adopt him was because of guilt over not giving Bill a real kid of his own. Really she was a monster and never really thought that what she did was all that bad. She was sorry she got caught not really sorry she did what she did.
Exactly! Stevie was just a useful tool to help keep her marriage in tact. An innocent pawn. Pathetic. Then she says that in one of her many begging sessions before divorce she suggested they could adopt another child, or multiple children, but Bill quickly shot that idea down. Newsflash lady: It wasn't the idea of more children he was shooting down. It was adopting children with YOU!
My mother always told me that as a man you need find a woman has great morals a woman with great principles a woman with great integrity a woman with great respect but damn this woman has nothing 🙏🏽💯
She better hope Stevie doesn't find her post or any videos talking about it. To find out he was only adopted to help her cover up an affair would probably cause him to cut her off too.
Naming the kid Jr is just a incredible punch in the face smfh As someone who grew up with a crackhead, in and out of my life father who as a kid I told myself I'd never go anywhere near that drug and I'd totally be a different and better man than my father I don't understand people who have bad family and turn out the same way. Also yuppie neighborhoods is where everything is overpriced lol
The nail was already getting pounded in all those years ago when the fraternity took turns doing the pounding those stories *always* come to the surface sooner or later, and it was never going to work with her and maddox before they even met.
She wants to act like this was a horrible mistake. But she named the kid "Bill Jr" knowing FULLY WELL it was not Bill's kid. She thought it was hilarious. She was mocking her husband with that name.
Wow, she claims she's a child of God yet cheats on him, and not only hides that from him but also the fact that his oldest son isn't his FOR 25 DAMN YEARS?! Yeah, that's such Christian-like behavior. A real child of God right there.
Most "Christians" concentrate on grace these days, and not virtue. Not surprising why. The modern church is completely controlled by women and their feminist interests.
Yup "good Christian" people are the shadiest, they judge everyone harshly cuz they're judging them by their own standards, they think everyone is as vile & corrupt as they are. Why I can't stand organized religion the worst atrocities have been committed by good pious people.
"Cristian-like", Pfft, Oh please. Its ANYONE who deems themself as having elevated levels of compassion and mortality are the worst offenders of exactly the opposite.
I actually have been through this situation. After 30 years of marriage one night out of anger she told me that I was not the father of our kids. It took a second for this to sink in. And then pressured her to tell me who she cheated with. And it was with my Dad. Which died a couple years ago. She made all kind of B.S. excuses to try to justify her actions. I had no clue she was cheating at all. I trusted her with my soul and she knew it. Now I don't trust nobody. Heck i thought I had kids and even raised 2 of there grandkids. But now realize i have no kids or grandkids at all. She robbed me of 30 years of my life. And robbed me of thinking I had kids and the grandkids. This tore my heart and soul out. I can't look at them now with the same love as i once had for them. Now my eyesight has gone and my mind is has bad thoughts going on and the voices saying things for me to do is really hard to emotionalally deal with.
Robert, Thank you for sharing your story. Stay strong and stay positive my friend. Remember, you are a valuable person and have a lot of good living ahead of you. Don't let the actions of a couple toxic people, impact how you live the rest of your life. Whenever you feel yourself feeling down, do something positive for yourself like exercising, taking a walk, meditating, turning to your faith or having a talk with a trusted friend or family member. Speaking with a professional therapist may also be beneficial in helping you get any negative thoughts out of your mind. You'll find, that you are not alone, as many men have gone through situations like yours and have come through successfully. Finally, if you raised your children and have positive relationships with them, you are not only their legal father, you are their father. Studies have shown that biology is not all that important to kids, it's the love and relationship with their parents that matter most. I can speak from experience on that one, as I am adopted. Be well, FYA.
This is the kind of story that I think of when I hear about the bad old days of how men used to beat or kill their wives or get to wondering why so many religions consider stoning women to death for infidelity to be just. How can you get justice from a woman who not only wasted your life, but stole your legacy on Earth? I'm not a big advocate for violence, but I can accept that executing murderers and rapists is just, so what non-violent punishment can truly be justice in these situation? If you can't think of a non-violent sentence that would bring peace to the victims, maybe we should consider the state justified in bringing violent ones. Good behavior is often just as much a case of avoiding punishment as embracing virtue, so what punishments will dissuade paternity fraud? I think castration would be a good starting point, that would be castration of both the man and the woman involved in the crime. Since the state has already weaponized both family court and motherhood itself against fathers, it seems only fair that women who weaponized their ability to bear children be castrated to avoid a recurrence of that crime. We don't let felons own guns after all. I suspect few women and even fewer men would risk extra-marital relations if they knew it could/would result in castration.
@@StrangeUncle01Sorry this is late, but I AGREE whole sale, just saying you will get your just desserts or God will punish you, isn't enough, we NEED to go all medieval on those guilty.
Cheating women ask why is it so easy for men to switch from love to indifference and coldness, they don't realise that when they cheat on their husbands, they are the ones who switch men off. They think it's OK for them to switch from faithful housewife to neighbourhood 304s.
What should I do next? Find a time machine to go back and tell yourself not to break your marriage vows. The same thing happened to a workmate of mine. He found out after 32 years that his daughter is not his. He divorced his wife, she got nothing because of a prenup. And the daughter who he still considers to be his daughter, wants nothing to do with her mother.
How the heck did Bill Jr.’s biological brother know that Bill Jr. was his brother? Unless Bill Jr. did one of those ancestry tests and didn’t tell anybody. 🤷🏽♀️
While the premise of this story has probably happened tens of thousands of times, I believe this story was fake. It just seems to have too much of a "setup" feel to it. Everything is stacked against the OP but yet, she still seems to be gaslighting herself and us to the point she sounds ridiculous. There is no way that info for the Ancestry test can be found against any other form of DNA testing including other Ancestry companies. In order for your DNA info to be included you need to do the testing with each company. Realistically, very few people actually have done the Ancestry testing despite the companies claiming otherwise. To date, only 15 million people worldwide have done Ancestry testing. The chances of actually finding a family match are slim. Given that, the OP would have said if Bill Jr. had done the test but yet, she never mentions it.
I'm not my father's bio son, but I'm his oldes. He married my mom for me. So I've always chosen my dad over my mom. He gave me so much, and I couldn't have asked for a better father.
Bill is the MVP in this story!! GOOD for him I hope he has an awesome life with his future wife CHEATING IS A CHOICE!! And you cheated shame shame shame on you!! Thanks for sharing ❤️ ❤️
This disgusting woman ruined this mans life and she thinks she's doing him a favor by "making it easy on him" and she cant understand why he would actually want his own fresh n blood children? This woman is deluded.
The husband is a guy who needs to reproduce for the good of mankind: handsome, tall, athletic, smart, a high earner, an excellent father. I’m very happy he has moved on with a younger woman who can still give him biological children, hopefully she can pop out a few. I’m wondering how “Bill Jr” was in that ancestry database, as his half-siblings tracked him down, and his DNA would have to be submitted to it for them to see he existed. Perhaps Bill “Sr” had ordered a paternity test and never said a word.
What value of a wife if she cannot be faithful to her husband? The worst thing, the very worst thing you can do is lay with another man and have a baby with him, truly evil and veil thing to do to your own very husband...
She robbed him of his opportunity to make an informed decision about his life and future. At age 20, he believed that he had a biological son. If he had known that this child was not his offspring, what do you suppose are the chances that he would have chosen to remain with his unfaithful and now barren wife?
EXACTLY. She only cared about herself and her needs. She needed a father and she didn't care what she had to do to secure that. AND she knew there would be no consequences and he would have no recourse if she was discovered later. He was helpless.
They never understand how come it affect so much people for something that happened 25 years ago. What they have to understand is that for the betrayed partner, it is something that just happened now. Even if the act itself was done 25 years ago, feeling betrayed, hurt happened in the present.
This woman can try to say that she made mistakes in her marriage but she didn't make mistakes. She made choices and because of those choices she is suffering and she deserves it
Remember fellow responsible men, if she doesn't respect herself enough to only let quality men be intimate with her then she WILL NOT respect you enough to ever be faithful or honest with you about your child's paternity. If you have a doubt go get the testing done.
I'm sorry but Paternity Fraud is NOT forgivable. I had 3 children that I found out later that was Not mine. When the children found out, they hated her up to her death. But they have always loved me. There was no DNA testing in the 70s
I want to ask!! Please does this girl know what she has done -? I mean she just went with it “ she says he was not handsome not built ! Just okay so does she understand the whole concept of her marriage to her man?? This really bothers me as Her man married her knowing her crappy past so to me He is Ases up one fine guy living and kind and forgave all that she did before that tells me she really lucked out marrying this man and then on a whim throws it all away -pardon me but this I just can’t get why she did that I mean The AP wast Rich! Or Handsome ! Really he’s a looser but she still does that well I’ll stop as she’s a lost cause!!😭😭😭😭😭👀
Bill needs to have at least several kids as he deserves it. Bill don't look back and look forward and have several kids to your name and make sure you get them DNA tested at birth.
She was a 304 before and always was. It was the new and naughty thing that kept her habits going. I don't sure didn't go magically loyal after that mistake. She's likely been getting a steady stream of D the entire marriage.
It sounds like Bill was a Chad. Tall, athletic, and smart. Even high value men get cheated on. Doesn't leave much hope for normal guys. Even less so for subnormal guys.
Bill Jr. would not have been listed as a half-brother prior to taking the ancestrydna test. How was he tracked down by his half-siblings prior to being listed on the ancestrydna website?
A good marriage is based on a solid foundation. Bill shouldn’t have built a marriage on a damaged girl. Kudos to her for not continuing having trash lifestyles of affairs, but with a constant reminder made of flesh in Bill Jr maybe the real reason. Personally, I think divorce was the only way forward for Bill because the person who the thought she was didn’t exist.
I don't understand how Bill Jr's half siblings were able to tracked him down. This would only be possible if Bill Jr had also had his DNA tested at the same time or earlier. If earlier, he should have already figured out his paternity and confronted his mother (or told his dad) long before being contacted by his half siblings.
Actually I felt more compassion for the response from the gentleman who suffered the sort of same situation but to be totally ignored by his so called father once the info was confirmed he was not a biological son. They stayed married and he was rejected? It’s hard to fathom but heaps of caring and sharing for what he endured. It’s as if his parents were gutless wonders and never deserved him. May his precious life be celebrated and elevated to a Demi-God!!
"Cant take the dirt out of the woman eh"? Reminds me of a Cave Man proverb from 100,000bc that goes: "Once you've clubbed youreself a good woman, drag her home by the hair. If you drag her by the feet, you'll fill her with mud."
At the beginning of this narrative, she's putting out a lot of excuses for her behavior, but no reasons for her infidelity. There is no excuse for a betrayal of your husband, if nothing else she should have been loyal to him for his taking her out of her previous environment. He should have been regarded as her hero for his actions toward her. But she didn't even have a Clue #1 as to what he meant to and for her. The hubby took her off the streets and gave her a sanctuary in which to live. In return she betrayed him. Life's a bitch and then you marry one. Regarding her final update (35:00) she doesn't see how the ex could have turned his emotions around by 180-degrees instantaneously. Its easy. You changed the rules and he just reacted to the new rules. It can be done, but sometimes with difficulty. Now you just need to adopt a couple of cats, pick out a box wine in your price range, and live out your life by quarantining yourself in a little one-room apartment.
In this wolrd of empowered women and the social media encouragint the woman to have a sexual free life, also protected and favored by the law, the men need to do what they can, prenupcial, paternity tests, vigilance cameras at their home and even access to cellphone and social media, what is the problem with the woman now, husbands are not parents to tell them no to go out to drink and party, but we all know how is going to end.
Cheating does mater, she cheated by going out to eat with AP, even without sex. Your wedding vows mentioned forsake all others? Well twice in three days 25years ago. Why ... They make battery operated boyfriends just for these lonely occasions. I bet you had Condems somewhere in the house. It's your fault
Wait. How can that test have showed him as their half brother BEFORE junior took his own test? The narration says he took it only after they contacted him.
So absurd, I find this to be probably the worst thing that could happen to a man and his children. Sometimes it's challenging to understand what goes on inside the mind of certain kinds of people. I'm no fool and tend to see a woman like this as deceitful and "trash". But hearing this story and the way she wrote it, it seems to me she is actually being honest and saying what's on her mind. So this person grew up so dysfunctional that she actually don't understand how bad the thing she did is for her husband and son. This is why you gotta be very judgmental and take into account everything about someone's past, including their childhood, and go deep into the person's present mind to see what they're really like, if they processed any traumas they may have had and so on. Make no commitments and God forbid have any kids before all this is figured out first.
What to talk about you cheated you had someone else’s son you pass that son off as your husband for 24 years you lived a complete lie about everything that you were already knows the truth. There’s nothing to talk about other than getting out as fast as possible.
Considering the amount of money it takes to raise a child, paternity fraud should be considered a felony.
I think it’s also a basic human right. To know who your parents are so I wonder if Bill Jr can prosecute for human rights violations
IMO female cheater = male abuser. And just like abuse there are levels to how bad cheating can be. Cheating with paternity fraud is one of the worst cases.
Shoutout to Tennessee, which did precisely that, along with mandatory paternity tests. There is hope
@jalcobo you're sadly right and I'm not sexist but we've got a better chance of discovering warp speed space travel and discovering life outside earth than getting humans females to actually reconcile with their behavior and choices
@@PreeSpunky In the state I live in(California), adultery is perfectly legal and is encouraged by the court systems here because they reward women so handsomely for doing so. Men are typically kicked out of their own homes and forced to pay alimony and child support "if there is children" for the rest of their lives. There was a recent case here where a husband came home from work early only to find his wife engaged in a gangbang with 5 different men. The husband was furious when his wife refused to stop and told him to just leave until she was finished. Outraged the husband called the police and demanded that they come and remove the strange men from his home. When they arrived the furious husband was informed that the 5 men were allowed to stay and continue having sex with his wife because, A In this state adultery is not illegal, and B His wife invited them into the house, mind you the whole time this conversation was taking place she continued to have sex with the 5 men. When the husband began to loudly argue with the police they handcuffed him and arrested him for causing a domestic disturbance. The police maintained that due to the laws in this state hubby was supposed to just do what his wife told him to do and leave until she was finished, then he was free to file whatever papers he wanted to end their marriage. Men DO NOT get married in this state.
These type of stories make me mad. So men can get arrested for unwanted sexual advances. But a woman does paternity fraud which destroys families and they get off scott-free??? Such bullshit. I'm so so glad he divorced her
Men can also get jammed up with just an accusation! And....when the accusation is PROVEN false there are zero ramifications to the false accuser, but the falsely accused get his life destroyed with no recourse or compensation.
I laughed so hard. She says the affair started when she asked her neighbor to fix a leaky faucet, then their son grows up to be a plumber! ... LoL... I was tickled pink!
Wasn't the only pink tickling
I saw that as a little ironic myself
Guaranteed she's cheated throughout the marriage. Bill knew her history before they married and learnt the harsh lesson that you can't turn a 304 into a housewife.
His parents were right!
Yep, there are two kinds of women, one type is good wife material and the other is good 304 material. You can turn a good wife into a 304 but you can't turn a 304 into a good wife.
indeed once a good girls gone bad she’s gone to the streets FOREVER! So don’t save her..
An I bet it was just twice neither she is downplaying it like we honestly believe that nonsense 😂 it was far more.. I wouldn’t be surprised if they were a few times where he finish in her an she didn’t care at the time fr.. Passionate encounters like that tend to have a way of robbing ppl of what intelligence they have.
I see this a lot people don’t seem to get the more a man loves you, the faster that love can be twisted to hate after a betrayal of that man’s trust. 2nd thing I’ve noticed is women don’t understand that men want to pass their genes on to the next generation. The fact this woman kept this a secret for 25 years and prevented him from having any bio children of his own would scar him all the more.
@@mirrorvape6152True. The difference between love and hate is paper thin... As harlots find out when they commit the ultimate act of betrayal. There are few things you can do to a man that are worse.
What’s really remarkable is that she considers the fact that he has no biological children to her but has been stringing him along as so for nearly 30 years to be a non issue and is only focusing on the physical act of cheating when she’s saying she doesn’t understand how a ‘small’ thing could ruin their relationship. There’s having a bad upbringing and then there’s delusional narcissism..
Bad up bringing is no excuse...many people have had bad upbringing.
You need to except divorce and go rot your dirt.
"It's not my fault, I was raised by feral animals." Nah, you are responsible for yourself. No, you are throwing the pity card.
Yes it is her fault. However, knowing her upbringing, Bill was taking something of a risk becoming involved with her in the first place. What then happened wasn't necessarily a given. But as the saying goes, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree." Plus he was too young to get married and she was WAY TOO YOUNG AND IMMATURE!
If he put a bullet in her head, I wouldn't feel bad. Not condoning or wishing violence, but you don't play with a man's money, time, emotion and life's direction like that 💯
Yeah but it's her fault that she became a feral animal herself
How can someone turn off their emotions..the same way she did when she cheated twice on her husband with a 40yr old men.
People are QUITE capable of turning off their emotions, if the hurt is severe enough.
I think their is different ways a person can turn off their emotions and mostly it’s heinous. I have extremely bad ADHD and have like no emotions , can straight up have no emotions for anything at all and turn them on kind of but they go off in the blink of an eye if something is bothering me . Was cheated on once years ago , thought I was loving this girl , but realized I was forcing myself to replicate any love style emotions towards her , found out and in seconds it’s like my mind hard reset and I felt nothing , no emotions what so ever , no hate , no love no anything . Found the guy , he was scared , told him he’s fine and I don’t even care but come over, he did , and told them both good luck , left I did have some inside laughs along my way. Emotions shutting off otherwise could be from the sick disgusting things someone is knowing they are doing , they keep doing it and they become so disgusted with themselves they feel nothing anymore .
It’s also could be constant bottling up of emotions and never letting them out, or talking about them, or even just feeling the emotions you have , will make them bottle away until their emotionless on the outside at least.
But for the third reason I know of is for me is ADHD , which makes emotions hard to either understand , control , deal with , or have .
Translation, I had intercourse with the neighbor for a long time up, until he had to move. And my husband has never been able to catch me in my multiple Affairs since then, because I'm sterile now.
I was cracking up when she said she wished them nothing but the best, we all know that's a lie. She'll spend her remaining days in envy, and I predict a meltdown when the ex has a baby with his new wife.
I would love to hear an update on this happening.
@@tonya8984 My hateful, petty, vindictive side wants to see such an update, too.
She will spend her remaining in envy, comforting herself with 27 cats. 🐈
Hoping Bill & his new wife have a couple of kids, Bill Jr & Stevie would be great older brothers imo.
Hoping for update.
Vindictive part of me hopes Stevie find out the real reason he was adopted, the good part of me hopes he NEVER connects the dots
She knew exactly what she was doing when she invited that man into her house to fix “the shower leak”. I promise she is still leaving parts of the story out of it. This wasn’t her only affair. She was too comfortable with everything to even allow her AP to enter her without protection. She probably wasn’t even the one to stop the affair it was more than likely the AP and that’s really the reason him and his wife up and left with no goodbyes.
"She probably wasn’t even the one to stop the affair..."
Remember a few days after she allegedly ended it, AP and family moved away in the dead of the night because their home was foreclosed on? Yeah...
@@TechnoMageB5 exactly lol she lying about it only being two times
Definitely not a “one little mistake” woman, there were definitely more skeletons in the closet
@@famine500 I predict a jungle of bones is in her closet lol
Absolutely spot on the money. She needed constant Attention and Validation..
This lady has absolutely no idea how much Bill really did for her. He got her out of a immensely terrible psychologically dysfunctional environment and she pays him back in the most horrible way. Just pure selfishness, she was going to end up just like everyone around her life if it wasn’t for Bill.
True. Just like my ex girlfriend years ago. You take them from it and treat them well. Better than they have ever been treated or deserve. Next thing you know they’re eventually spitting in your face, deflecting, moving the goal posts and gaslighting. Leave trash at the dump. You may feel bad but you didn’t create it. If they don’t know anything different and strive to be better then what’s the point?
This wife is genuinely evil and stupid on top of that!
The person who I feel the saddest for in this story is Stevie to know who was just adopted to be a fix a flat for a dying relationship is just heart breaking
My thoughts exactly
She says she doesn't see how someone can just turn off their emotions and love can completely be gone just like that. Well that's because women can never know the utter pain of finding out your child isn't actually yours, but a result of an affair. AND to keep it a secret from him is a double betrayal. You will always be the biological mother, no one can ever take that away from you. But imagine what it feels like when being a biological father is taken away by just a few words.
Not just that, even though it was 25 years ago, to HIM, it might as well have been yesterday. The betrayal and knowing are as fresh as if it had just happened. Furthermore, women just don't understand that she will forever be tainted damaged goods, defiled by another man after she promised herself to him for life in front of friends, family and God.
@@Syrin23 Also she claimed to love her husband but she turned her emotions of easy enough to hook up with some dude old enough to be her father.
It’s easy to understand. The opposite of love is indifference. He instantly stopped caring about her and the love was gone.
@@summergolden Most people assume it’s hate. But, you may want to do some research on that.
Google is your friend.
Most women don't understand why men can turn off their emotions. This is true masculinity, emotional response could lead to a physical encounter. This is the strength of masculinity. Some women enjoy inflicting pain on others and Revell in the emotional toil. If he breaks down and cries she has power over him, if he is physical, she is the victim and has him arrested and ostracized. They do this to other women all the time too, the only time it doesn't work is when the victimized woman becomes physical and takes.out the trash.
Gentlemen, they CAN do a prenatal Paternity test after 7-8 weeks or so of pregnancy via a simple arm blood draw on Mom, a simple cheek swab on the guy. AS SOON as she says I'm pregnant..GO GET A PATERNITY TEST
The fact that she knowingly denied her husband any decisions regarding biological children after realizing the truth about Bill Jr. is the one thing I just cannot forgive.
Right, she had a thousand opportunities to come clean over the years Bill Jr. was growing up.
Don't know if this story is REAL or if FYA is real person or artificial voice. FYA is a Witch Burner; you are way way way Beyond Hateful and Evil and Judgmental. This young woman had an Abortion as a Teen and her childhood was an Absolute Nightmare. She still Managed A-B Grades. She broke the Chain of Despair that was a Nightmare Childhood. She never abused Drugs or Cigarettes, She was Absolutely Faithful and a Great Wife and Friend for 25 Years. FYA wants to Burn her at the Stake. If FYA was a Real Person and I knew who he was, I am a former Marine Corps officer. I would beat his stupid, VILE, EVILcHATEFUL Ass to within an Inch of his Life. He'd eat Hospital food for a long long LONG Time-a real piece of Human Fences!!!!!
The neighbor left because he knew she was pregnant with his child.
She was hoping it was her husband's but knew the whole time.
Bill wasn't "generous" in the divorce, she raked him over the coals for not staying.
Bill dating the younger woman was fair play, and probably the reason she was so hurt when he moved on.
Facts!
Womon like her are masters at lying to themselves about themselves.
So she there is no doubt in my mind she will have little difficulty and even smaller remorse lying and minimizing to us..or anyone else for that matter!
Wouldn't surprise me if that was one of the reasons for running in the night.
Bill deserves a chance for his own biological children. I hope he gets many!
She skipped out so many details with that jump from "we were just talking" -> "we ended up having s.."
Yea this evil b.... is an unreliable narrator.
The best part of all this is that OP is now too old to trade up and marry when she wants. It’s over for her love life so now loneliness will be her husband from now on until she dies of old age.
She could find a lonely 70 year old.
There is a video called “why women don’t apologize”. It breaks down how men and women literally have different concepts of wrongdoing. For women it’s not their behavior that is the problem but negative reactions to their behavior. So generally the tendency is not to acknowledge behavior as cause.
You have described my ex to a T
Yeah it’s all social shaming and how they look to others except the person they wronged. Their whole MO is how they are perceived by others.
We need a national paternity fraud law enforcement. That would state that if you commit paternity fraud you have to pay every penny the other person had paid with interest the same as child support and you only have a few years to pay or go to prison and still have to pay it.
Women would never allow it
Keep it at the state level, the federal government has too much power as it is.
@@kennethboyer2338 In this case, I disagree. To ensure that those guilty of paternity fraud are properly punished, enforcement would HAVE to be Federal, as would the law. Otherwise, the fraudulent could simply skip out to a state that DOESN'T have such a law (or doesn't enforce it if it does).
Excellent idea.
There are plenty of countries in the world where the penalty for cheating is death. I don't think we should go there, but damn, if you were in a situation like Bill was, you'd sure be thinking along that line.
This was hard to listen to, I yelled a few times while listening. Her behavior and rationalization of said behavior was absolutely grotesque. I feel so bad for Bill and Bill Jr., but glad they saw her for who she was and stuck together. What a vile person.
Let's not forget young Stevie. It turns out he was just an innocent pawn in her treacherous plan to help keep the marriage together if Bill ever found out.
It's odd how she kept on thinking that adopting kids is the same as having one of your own. If I was Steve I'd be mad as well because he would realize that the only reason she wanted to adopt him was because of guilt over not giving Bill a real kid of his own. Really she was a monster and never really thought that what she did was all that bad. She was sorry she got caught not really sorry she did what she did.
She had absolutely no morals!
Exactly! Stevie was just a useful tool to help keep her marriage in tact. An innocent pawn. Pathetic.
Then she says that in one of her many begging sessions before divorce she suggested they could adopt another child, or multiple children, but Bill quickly shot that idea down. Newsflash lady: It wasn't the idea of more children he was shooting down. It was adopting children with YOU!
So.... she feels she should get credit for keeping it a secret for 25 years.
304’s need to be whipped into shape by public shaming.
My mother always told me that as a man you need find a woman has great morals a woman with great principles a woman with great integrity a woman with great respect but damn this woman has nothing 🙏🏽💯
She better hope Stevie doesn't find her post or any videos talking about it. To find out he was only adopted to help her cover up an affair would probably cause him to cut her off too.
She'll lie and say it was to make up for not being able to carry Bill's kid.
Naming the kid Jr is just a incredible punch in the face smfh
As someone who grew up with a crackhead, in and out of my life father who as a kid I told myself I'd never go anywhere near that drug and I'd totally be a different and better man than my father I don't understand people who have bad family and turn out the same way. Also yuppie neighborhoods is where everything is overpriced lol
The nail was already getting pounded in all those years ago when the fraternity took turns doing the pounding
those stories *always* come to the surface sooner or later, and it was never going to work with her and maddox before they even met.
Nothing says LOVE like cheating on your husband.
except for asking him to raise another man's child, and lying to him 24/7/365 for 25 years.
always test for paternity, no need to tell the mother, never trust someone without evidence
Trust but verify!
The testing wasn’t as good 25 years ago.
"She was worried because she didn't want to lose her family"
Translation: I didn't want to lose my meal ticket.
When a real man shuts the door, that door STAYS SHUT!
As usual everyone and everything it's at fault and she has no accountability for her choices. And she is surprised he kicked her to the curb?
@@robertnoble7554 They achieve their maximum maturity much earlier. Men however keep growing.
She wants to act like this was a horrible mistake. But she named the kid "Bill Jr" knowing FULLY WELL it was not Bill's kid. She thought it was hilarious. She was mocking her husband with that name.
She said it was 25 years ago, for him it happened "yesterday".
Wow, she claims she's a child of God yet cheats on him, and not only hides that from him but also the fact that his oldest son isn't his FOR 25 DAMN YEARS?!
Yeah, that's such Christian-like behavior. A real child of God right there.
Most "Christians" concentrate on grace these days, and not virtue. Not surprising why. The modern church is completely controlled by women and their feminist interests.
King David?
@@timmckown209 David was truly repentant, and was forgiven, but still suffered the consequences of his actions.
Yup "good Christian" people are the shadiest, they judge everyone harshly cuz they're judging them by their own standards, they think everyone is as vile & corrupt as they are. Why I can't stand organized religion the worst atrocities have been committed by good pious people.
"Cristian-like", Pfft, Oh please. Its ANYONE who deems themself as having elevated levels of compassion and mortality are the worst offenders of exactly the opposite.
The proverb “Lay down with dogs wake-up with fleas” comes to mind.
I love how she said she didnt want to make excuses yet blamed her parents and upbringing before saying how she was at fault for anything.
Didn't show emotions actually means that she burnt his emotions to the point that he has none to show.
Fried synapses no longer fire.
"I am a child of god" that was the best
If Bill Junior hadn't already been DNA tested he couldn't have been matched. This makes no sense.
I actually have been through this situation. After 30 years of marriage one night out of anger she told me that I was not the father of our kids. It took a second for this to sink in. And then pressured her to tell me who she cheated with. And it was with my Dad. Which died a couple years ago. She made all kind of B.S. excuses to try to justify her actions. I had no clue she was cheating at all. I trusted her with my soul and she knew it. Now I don't trust nobody. Heck i thought I had kids and even raised 2 of there grandkids. But now realize i have no kids or grandkids at all. She robbed me of 30 years of my life. And robbed me of thinking I had kids and the grandkids. This tore my heart and soul out. I can't look at them now with the same love as i once had for them. Now my eyesight has gone and my mind is has bad thoughts going on and the voices saying things for me to do is really hard to emotionalally deal with.
Robert, Thank you for sharing your story. Stay strong and stay positive my friend. Remember, you are a valuable person and have a lot of good living ahead of you. Don't let the actions of a couple toxic people, impact how you live the rest of your life. Whenever you feel yourself feeling down, do something positive for yourself like exercising, taking a walk, meditating, turning to your faith or having a talk with a trusted friend or family member. Speaking with a professional therapist may also be beneficial in helping you get any negative thoughts out of your mind. You'll find, that you are not alone, as many men have gone through situations like yours and have come through successfully. Finally, if you raised your children and have positive relationships with them, you are not only their legal father, you are their father. Studies have shown that biology is not all that important to kids, it's the love and relationship with their parents that matter most. I can speak from experience on that one, as I am adopted.
Be well, FYA.
This is the kind of story that I think of when I hear about the bad old days of how men used to beat or kill their wives or get to wondering why so many religions consider stoning women to death for infidelity to be just. How can you get justice from a woman who not only wasted your life, but stole your legacy on Earth? I'm not a big advocate for violence, but I can accept that executing murderers and rapists is just, so what non-violent punishment can truly be justice in these situation? If you can't think of a non-violent sentence that would bring peace to the victims, maybe we should consider the state justified in bringing violent ones. Good behavior is often just as much a case of avoiding punishment as embracing virtue, so what punishments will dissuade paternity fraud? I think castration would be a good starting point, that would be castration of both the man and the woman involved in the crime. Since the state has already weaponized both family court and motherhood itself against fathers, it seems only fair that women who weaponized their ability to bear children be castrated to avoid a recurrence of that crime. We don't let felons own guns after all. I suspect few women and even fewer men would risk extra-marital relations if they knew it could/would result in castration.
@@StrangeUncle01Sorry this is late, but I AGREE whole sale, just saying you will get your just desserts or God will punish you, isn't enough, we NEED to go all medieval on those guilty.
Same, Find out first born daughter; not yours 35 years later.... sux, go to the light like a moth, brother..
i can almost guarantee you are black.
Cheating women ask why is it so easy for men to switch from love to indifference and coldness, they don't realise that when they cheat on their husbands, they are the ones who switch men off. They think it's OK for them to switch from faithful housewife to neighbourhood 304s.
What should I do next? Find a time machine to go back and tell yourself not to break your marriage vows. The same thing happened to a workmate of mine. He found out after 32 years that his daughter is not his. He divorced his wife, she got nothing because of a prenup. And the daughter who he still considers to be his daughter, wants nothing to do with her mother.
We have got to start talking more about how prenups work when done properly
It absolutely blows my mind how women who get caught cheating immediately turn themselves into the victim because of how they are being treated.
The ex-wife was and is a 304 and she belongs to the streets!
How the heck did Bill Jr.’s biological brother know that Bill Jr. was his brother? Unless Bill Jr. did one of those ancestry tests and didn’t tell anybody. 🤷🏽♀️
Yeah story seems fake
That's probably what happened. Bill Jr was already in the database.
While the premise of this story has probably happened tens of thousands of times, I believe this story was fake. It just seems to have too much of a "setup" feel to it. Everything is stacked against the OP but yet, she still seems to be gaslighting herself and us to the point she sounds ridiculous.
There is no way that info for the Ancestry test can be found against any other form of DNA testing including other Ancestry companies. In order for your DNA info to be included you need to do the testing with each company. Realistically, very few people actually have done the Ancestry testing despite the companies claiming otherwise. To date, only 15 million people worldwide have done Ancestry testing. The chances of actually finding a family match are slim. Given that, the OP would have said if Bill Jr. had done the test but yet, she never mentions it.
@@rosihantu1loll you really think it’s fake , this story sounds like a normal day in america 😅😅😅😅😅
This story of paternity fraud is actual grounds for an annulment.
It's a pitiful situation, paternity fraud. The dude handled it well and came out a winner.
There are no winners here.
“ he took up plumbing” 😂
He handled it PERFECTLY!!!!
I'm not my father's bio son, but I'm his oldes. He married my mom for me. So I've always chosen my dad over my mom. He gave me so much, and I couldn't have asked for a better father.
Bill is the MVP in this story!! GOOD for him I hope he has an awesome life with his future wife CHEATING IS A CHOICE!! And you cheated shame shame shame on you!! Thanks for sharing ❤️ ❤️
Having kids with someone that's not good enough to marry is always a bad idea, and disrespectful to the kids.
His parents were right about her.
Hope bill had kids with his new wife
Paternity Fraud should be a criminal offense.
Even though he isn’t the son, Jr still got a ton of respect for his “father”.
This is all pretty standard for women.
"A child of god?!". What "god"?! Aphrodite?!
This disgusting woman ruined this mans life and she thinks she's doing him a favor by "making it easy on him" and she cant understand why he would actually want his own fresh n blood children? This woman is deluded.
It’s astounding the amount of people who wants him to forgive her.
I'm a child of God...from the mouth a chick who let the neighbor raw dog her. Seems about right 🙄
The husband is a guy who needs to reproduce for the good of mankind: handsome, tall, athletic, smart, a high earner, an excellent father. I’m very happy he has moved on with a younger woman who can still give him biological children, hopefully she can pop out a few.
I’m wondering how “Bill Jr” was in that ancestry database, as his half-siblings tracked him down, and his DNA would have to be submitted to it for them to see he existed. Perhaps Bill “Sr” had ordered a paternity test and never said a word.
I was going to ask the same question. How would they find out about a 1/2 brother. Some how Bill Jr's DNA was exposed.
Just watched the video for the first time and that's the question I asked. Makes the story suspect, not that it couldn't happen.
And here, we once again see the consequences of single mother households
The damage cheaters cause, often destroying their own lives too
What value of a wife if she cannot be faithful to her husband? The worst thing, the very worst thing you can do is lay with another man and have a baby with him, truly evil and veil thing to do to your own very husband...
She robbed him of his opportunity to make an informed decision about his life and future. At age 20, he believed that he had a biological son. If he had known that this child was not his offspring, what do you suppose are the chances that he would have chosen to remain with his unfaithful and now barren wife?
EXACTLY. She only cared about herself and her needs. She needed a father and she didn't care what she had to do to secure that. AND she knew there would be no consequences and he would have no recourse if she was discovered later. He was helpless.
This guy wasted his life on a girl who was complete trash. Her family situation was a huge red flag
They never understand how come it affect so much people for something that happened 25 years ago. What they have to understand is that for the betrayed partner, it is something that just happened now. Even if the act itself was done 25 years ago, feeling betrayed, hurt happened in the present.
This woman can try to say that she made mistakes in her marriage but she didn't make mistakes. She made choices and because of those choices she is suffering and she deserves it
Captain save a 304 got burnt again. Don't be a Captain save 304. You can't save or fix her.
Remember fellow responsible men, if she doesn't respect herself enough to only let quality men be intimate with her then she WILL NOT respect you enough to ever be faithful or honest with you about your child's paternity. If you have a doubt go get the testing done.
I'm sorry but Paternity Fraud is NOT forgivable. I had 3 children that I found out later that was Not mine. When the children found out, they hated her up to her death. But they have always loved me. There was no DNA testing in the 70s
I want to ask!! Please does this girl know what she has done -? I mean she just went with it “ she says he was not handsome not built ! Just okay so does she understand the whole concept of her marriage to her man?? This really bothers me as Her man married her knowing her crappy past so to me He is Ases up one fine guy living and kind and forgave all that she did before that tells me she really lucked out marrying this man and then on a whim throws it all away -pardon me but this I just can’t get why she did that I mean The AP wast Rich! Or Handsome ! Really he’s a looser but she still does that well I’ll stop as she’s a lost cause!!😭😭😭😭😭👀
She was definitely neglected when she was a child, even though she tries to deny it
Bill needs to have at least several kids as he deserves it. Bill don't look back and look forward and have several kids to your name and make sure you get them DNA tested at birth.
12 minutes in and she FINALLY gets to the point!
I have nothing but respect for Bill, Stevie, and Bill Jr. No simping for them lol.
she cheated with an old man? while his wife is in the hospital? she risked her future life for that old man? wow...
She was a 304 before and always was. It was the new and naughty thing that kept her habits going. I don't sure didn't go magically loyal after that mistake. She's likely been getting a steady stream of D the entire marriage.
Unless it’s in the database, how the heck did they ‘find him’ doing an ancestry test? There would be no record? Big hole in the story.
It sounds like Bill was a Chad. Tall, athletic, and smart. Even high value men get cheated on. Doesn't leave much hope for normal guys. Even less so for subnormal guys.
Here's another example of women believing that there is a statute of limitations when it comes to cheating.
Shea using the fact that bill was working a lot. But why was he working so much? This doesn't make you look better. In my opinion this is much worse
once again the cheater is unhappy that they lost everything because of their choices. karma is a bitch.
You named that poor kid named B.J....poor soul.
I'm from Brazil, your channel is the best, I watch all your videos, it's very good. congratulations indeed.
Bill Jr. would not have been listed as a half-brother prior to taking the ancestrydna test. How was he tracked down by his half-siblings prior to being listed on the ancestrydna website?
A good marriage is based on a solid foundation. Bill shouldn’t have built a marriage on a damaged girl. Kudos to her for not continuing having trash lifestyles of affairs, but with a constant reminder made of flesh in Bill Jr maybe the real reason.
Personally, I think divorce was the only way forward for Bill because the person who the thought she was didn’t exist.
I don't understand how Bill Jr's half siblings were able to tracked him down. This would only be possible if Bill Jr had also had his DNA tested at the same time or earlier. If earlier, he should have already figured out his paternity and confronted his mother (or told his dad) long before being contacted by his half siblings.
Actually I felt more compassion for the response from the gentleman who suffered the sort of same situation but to be totally ignored by his so called father once the info was confirmed he was not a biological son. They stayed married and he was rejected? It’s hard to fathom but heaps of caring and sharing for what he endured. It’s as if his parents were gutless wonders and never deserved him. May his precious life be celebrated and elevated to a Demi-God!!
"Cant take the dirt out of the woman eh"?
Reminds me of a Cave Man proverb from 100,000bc that goes:
"Once you've clubbed youreself a good woman, drag her home by the hair.
If you drag her by the feet, you'll fill her with mud."
I don't know.... I think for paternity fraud, a person should have to pay damages for psychological abuse and, or, maybe some jail time.
Bull!!! I lived in section 8 , divorced parents and such, but I’m not here destroying my home 🏡. The unwise woman destroys her house
At the beginning of this narrative, she's putting out a lot of excuses for her behavior, but no reasons for her infidelity. There is no excuse for a betrayal of your husband, if nothing else she should have been loyal to him for his taking her out of her previous environment. He should have been regarded as her hero for his actions toward her. But she didn't even have a Clue #1 as to what he meant to and for her. The hubby took her off the streets and gave her a sanctuary in which to live. In return she betrayed him. Life's a bitch and then you marry one. Regarding her final update (35:00) she doesn't see how the ex could have turned his emotions around by 180-degrees instantaneously. Its easy. You changed the rules and he just reacted to the new rules. It can be done, but sometimes with difficulty. Now you just need to adopt a couple of cats, pick out a box wine in your price range, and live out your life by quarantining yourself in a little one-room apartment.
In this wolrd of empowered women and the social media encouragint the woman to have a sexual free life, also protected and favored by the law, the men need to do what they can, prenupcial, paternity tests, vigilance cameras at their home and even access to cellphone and social media, what is the problem with the woman now, husbands are not parents to tell them no to go out to drink and party, but we all know how is going to end.
Cheating does mater, she cheated by going out to eat with AP, even without sex. Your wedding vows mentioned forsake all others? Well twice in three days 25years ago. Why ... They make battery operated boyfriends just for these lonely occasions. I bet you had Condems somewhere in the house. It's your fault
Wait. How can that test have showed him as their half brother BEFORE junior took his own test? The narration says he took it only after they contacted him.
she ended bill's bloodline. absolutely fucking evil
He's marrying a younger woman, who will get knocked up by him. So he'll be fine.
Me, I, My, my feelings, I wanted, I can't believe.
Notice the pattern?
So absurd, I find this to be probably the worst thing that could happen to a man and his children. Sometimes it's challenging to understand what goes on inside the mind of certain kinds of people. I'm no fool and tend to see a woman like this as deceitful and "trash". But hearing this story and the way she wrote it, it seems to me she is actually being honest and saying what's on her mind. So this person grew up so dysfunctional that she actually don't understand how bad the thing she did is for her husband and son.
This is why you gotta be very judgmental and take into account everything about someone's past, including their childhood, and go deep into the person's present mind to see what they're really like, if they processed any traumas they may have had and so on. Make no commitments and God forbid have any kids before all this is figured out first.
What to talk about you cheated you had someone else’s son you pass that son off as your husband for 24 years you lived a complete lie about everything that you were already knows the truth. There’s nothing to talk about other than getting out as fast as possible.