Hidden Narcissists Among Us: Celebrities, Influencers, and Beyond
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- Are covert narcissists masquerading in plain sight in the world of entertainment and social media? Dive into this explosive expose as we unravel the hidden narcissism in the TV, music, and social media industries. Discover the subtle signs and why so many fail to see them!
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I went from decades of living with total blindness to having X-ray vision, almost overnight. These people glow in the dark to me, now. I realized that I possessed an unsolicited expertise in a something that I was born in to, yet I didn’t even know existed, previously.
I knew of narcissism and still fell prey to finding more narcissists in my relationships with everyone.
What I can't stand is that they are so entitled and have the superiority complex.
Horrible horrible people
After living with one, I have wide open eyes.
My covert narcissist mother hid it perfectly from outside the home.
Every one thought she was a very innocent lovely woman. They never saw the true her.the reality of how horrible and cruel and neglectful of her children. Her intense violence to her children and hateful. Sicko.
Sly sneaky devious and vindictive.
Her golden children still can't see it because they are so invested in needing her attention
I know how this feels because it's the same thing with my mom and the rest of the world including my family. It's a lot to comprehend especially when you are the only one who is willing to see the truth. Hang in there please. The world needs you because you can help others who went through to feel like their not alone.
Same. My mother tries to appear very level headed and professional to the world, at home she is a raging alcoholic narcissist screaming at the top of her lungs when she doesn’t get her way.
Thoughts are with you Mary. ☘️
Relatable
When one grew up in a toxic home, one seems to not be able to see it.
actually i have thought the reverse. when you know these people well, it is easier to see it in others. although your point is interesting. maybe that is happening with me and i'm not aware of it.
I did grow up in a very toxic home and I can spot a narcissist miles away. Having grown up surrounded by such people made me very aware of what was going on over the years.
….until they do, then they see it everywhere.
@@Aliaselias727same here, now i can spot them right away. they feel overly competitive , obsessed with their image, distant and cold. i see red flags and I'm like nice too meet you good bye 👋 😅😂
When you don’t know, it feels normal. It’s the regular way your house functions. Until you learn what narcissism is; then you realize that you see it everywhere because you attract them.
I do relate to this so clearly. Narcissistic parents, boyfriends and then a husband. I had to see clearly in order to get out of it! Thank you.
Me too
@@delphinem4c sending healing and love💜
I grew up with it, married into it, worked with it until finally opening my eyes, (thank you therapy & psychology gurus such as Sir R. Grannon), and began to understand the narc behaviors profile.
I'm still a grasshopper, but I can now recognize narc & other kinds of character disordered behaviors pretty quickly in others.
I'm not at a place where I feel 100% about detection, but enough to swerve when I sense somebody is displaying that level of arrogance & aggression.
I can now identify them very easily thanks to all the knowledge offered here on UA-cam, especially the work of Mr Grannon and Doc Ramani. I find it a bit more difficult when it’s covert narc. but so far I finally avoid them like plague
Check out a guy named Adam Magaña. He’s posing as a pastor at a place he founded called Active Church SLO in San Luis Obispo, California. His narcissism is absolutely unrelenting and uncontrollable. He’s a professional conman and psychopath. Lied and manipulation and scammed his way to millions of dollars.
Ramani has her dangerous side, too.
My gut told me years ago to avoid her. So I do.
@@luv2dancesalsa465 I was sent one of her vids by a friend and could not complete it to the end.
@@luv2dancesalsa465basically you know, no need to analyse everybody, analyse the information they give, test it, and if it gives you better results then use it to protect you and others around you
Unfortunately,many people work a lot,& basic survival needs,demands,etc. CONSUMES their time,leaving no time to watch all the videos,THAT they Really NEED to see. This works in favor of Narcissist Epidemic. I was fortunate enough to be available, due to a medical injury,which allowed me to see many videos.People NEED to figure out a way to learn this. Then they will see what we see.
Ironically,some narc can see that we KNOW that they are narcissist& they then try to get away from me. Weird.
As with any advice, especially in a professional capacity, it rarely reaches the people who need to heed it most 😔
Ex covert fiancé is very generous with everyone and soft spoken.
I didn’t even try to mention his covert narcissism to anyone.
They're everywhere!
Even m'y therapist said that...
People recognize “it” but most folks are only now coming to understand narcissism as we have so many in the public eye who are narcissists. We are learning the terms. We are learning the clusters of behaviors. Also, in graduate school, reading about narcissists was dry and clinical. Now that we have so many public and heinous examples, we can apply the knowledge better. No need to rage.
I can see em nowadays and thoughts that go through my mind is it’s hunting time. They can’t hook in anymore, they just go through
I can relate with you when it comes to seeing thru people who are trying to cover up their narcissism. It's both a blessing and a curse to be able to read people without having to try because like you said, usually nobody else sees what we see so it can be frustrating and also kinda isolating. For me it can be anyway because I sometimes would rather be by myself than with people who have no idea who their spending their time with.
When you talk in absolutes like "I can see these people very very clearly when others cant". This means your right and they are stupidly wrong.
No doubt about it your right & that is narcissistic behavior in itself!
Something I've noticed that no one mentions is that the narc has absolutely no patience for anything that involves a learning curve because of their need to appear perfectly capable, and all-knowing. They can't tolerate being seen as a beginner where they're not good at whatever the task is and are incapable of saying "I haven't yet mastered this".
100%. the best part , when I abruptly stop mid-rant and ask myself, "whay are you doing...... ". I roll my eyes and shake my head- ueah, you're shouting at a screen. I laugh at myself, rational thought returns and all is well again.
I do believe that a little bit of crazy is a good thing, it's a cheat code to my sanity
I'm so grateful of all the awareness not only for myself and my character but to see who I may be dealing with. Much gratitude for you guys. Thank you. Blessings!
Me Tooo...! I get So Frustrated....I Say can't You see It...........I Feel So Helpless When I Can see Narcsictic See Clearly......
I always felt like my ex was playing a game with me, but I couldn’t pin point it, then was told by a therapist what it was. She gave me bad advice, and told me to stay with him, so I did, until he broke it off after cheating on me. When they broke up, I was at his beckoning all over again. I found a different therapist who then introduced me to the lingo trauma bonded, and codependency. It’s not like a light switch you can turn off, and on easily. It’s been a roller coaster from hell. I know he’s not healthy to be around, but also feel like I can’t do anything without him, even make simple choices.
My first close encounter with a covert narcissist and I’m reeling 😢 I hope they become as clear as you guys see them ! X
I 'OUT' Rob Lowe who I was obsessed with as a younger woman. His shine has dulled for me.
Yes people are in denial, my mother says her husband exaggerates. What he actually does is lie. An exaggeration is claiming they caught a 4lb fish when it actually weighed 2lb. The blatant lies the coverts come out with are unforgivable and destroy lives
Narcissism has become the buzzword in the last two years or so, anyone with an ounce of self confidence or self respect is being labelled as a narcissistic person, in reality most folks don’t fully understand what it means or what it looks like
yeah. i find that it's hard to tell sometimes, though, unless you get to know someone better, like it can take years. some people can come off as narcs but then you find that they do have genuine empathy and you can think someone is nice but when the chips are down they aren't there. but yeah, sometimes it is really obvious. narcs are usually very guarded and defensive people. get into a conflict with them and that can make it easy to tell. they can't handle conflict. triggers them every time.
Richard Grannon is the best ‼️
We couldn't see it at first either ! We had to experience it first but ya I hear you ! I feel this way now too!
so so so true, crazy but so glad not one, what’s so sad is a narc mostly inability to never see it, how do you fix something you can’t identify
Can’t unsee what we see
I agree - how could they don't SEE ??? 😮😢 But I know nowadays = it's very hard to believe WHAT You see. I know that cause I was manipulated by a covert narcissist for 10 years in a toxic relationship and it took me many years "to see it"! When I understand and was avalible too see it and got knowledge of NPD ... I left him. That was for 9 years ago. Got NC to be aware from him and his hoovering. It was always a big job to avoid him and his flying monkeys 😒😖 Then ... he died in last February this year. Only 55 years old, alone in his flat of massive and multiple diagnosis of illness. Caused of his alcoholism.
Now ... I' m free from his abused. At last and for ever. It's only a few of flying monkeys and crying women (who all of them: still belive on his lies and also think They where his Only truth Love- pathetic!) - sad for them, but I don't care.
Cause I am FREE 💥👊👍🥰
It's a lonely furrow we plough guys 😢
I'm surrounded by them...my boss, my landlord, co-workers...😔
@@aubreygomez89 Wow, you couldn't be more wrong, Einstein. Smh...
@@aubreygomez89, it's the covert narcs who are always going on about covert narcs aka projection
They say Narcissists are 5% of population. I'd say 20%. the scourge of the human race
Trust me they don’t see it. What they see is the entitelment, grandiosity, at times the lies. But they don’t see the whole picture. The cheating, sadism, abuse, the desperat need for supply, the delusion part of the grandiosity ( most people think the grandiosity is a joke, they don’t know that it is real). Narcissism is so illogical, insane but at the same time hyper manipulativ that it goes under the radar
Thank you Mr Grannon
Exactly, it makes me angry too that others don't see 🤣😁😁
Now, I’m aware of the behaviors of a covert narcissistic person.
I was waiting on some names.
@tammyhollis1519 Have you heard of the self-confessed narcissistic psychopath, HG Tudor?
I'm asking because he has hundreds, if not thousands by now, of videos with many names, along with episodes on how he arrives at his conclusions.
He has been doing a lot on Meghan Markle and Harry for a while and I haven't watched many of those. I'm interested in others though, especially his extremely helpful videos in regard to his kind and relationships.
Of course, some people don't want to believe him about certain beloved celebrities, or others, including politicians, which is understandable. 😊
@@cyndigooch1162 I'll have to check it out. Thank you. Merry Christmas!
I understand completely,there's a grandiose person I know the bragging and self centered makes me cringe, everyone else love's it
Right???? Meanwhile, the blind give or make excuses for them too!!!.... that's where I walk away 🏃🏻♂️
Love this discussion.. I have to listen to you every day. My kids, girl, and boy are learning about it. ❤
I love how you say ‘wound up ‘.. better than sayin ..Gaslit or angered….
SOOO SMART!
I relate❤
I wonder if there are narcissists who don’t consciously “cover up” their narcissism, they are just like that?
Can someone name a bunch of public figures for those of us that DON’T see it?
I can as well… growing up with one I know they stick out like a sore thinb
the narcissists on tv, in music, and on social media are not covert at all
"There are actually very few narcissists. But there are many many co-dependents on social media"- Richard Grannon
"there are covert narcissists e everywhere all over the media! Why aren't other people seeing this? It's so clear!" - also Richard Grannon🤪
So relatable - same case here haha.
My last relationship woke me up...after decades
The thing with a covert narcissist is if you speak up at all, they covertly attack your character and define for you (possibly) why you are saying what you're saying. Usually it's a claim that you're after control or you have rage issues or you something is wrong with you for speaking up, even and especially when you're correct about their character.
Yep. I can see them too.🚩🚩
Decernment from the Holy Spirit. That's how we see these inauthentic individuals
Is being a narcissistic always a bad thing? Is there a healthy way to live life being a narcissist ?
That's why love is blind.
I feel the same.Hmm
Exactly 😂
Growing up I never got along with any of the girls in my class at all,they all were the have to wear makeup,pretty dresses,shopoholic popular type who liked to play with dolls and dress up…and it was all the way in elementary school,middle,highschool and some college it was the same over and over to where I internally judge every girl because of the way they dress and how they have their makeup. I will be nice and keep it to myself but I see almost every girl (mainly the pretty,social media,party girls,the ones always in heavy looking makeup) as stuck up,act nice but really passive aggressive,judgy B’s. I tried to be friends with one and it was all fine but then she got more perfectionist(like over worked in school to be in the top classes and best grades…and I didn’t even think finished her college degree…? Would always say she’s so busy with school work but would “brag” about how they would sit and be on a computer during the week for 6-7 hours. over work,thought she was more mature,never sided with me when it came to a big drama thing(I was the one in the write and even pulled the whole,type something and if you didn’t type a certain code word she wouldn’t even read my response or acknowledge it). I would constantly be told hey give me two week notice,I would and it would be like over but then cancel last min or day of and I would find out that they would go do something else with another friend then hang with me. Also if someone planned the same thing same day she would go to it but if I tried to plan it she would cancel last min(happened multiple times).
I hate it but it’s also been helpful finding friends who are girls that won’t be like that.
For those in comments:
The computer thing,im like yeah it’s fine it’s a break but don’t constantly say you’re overworked with school work that you can’t do anything but school work but then talk about an online campaign that you say in front of the computer for 6-8hours a week.
And yes I knew of the classes she took,she talked about them and I knew of the work amount…
Tell me how to spot them, Richard 😂
simple trick, try to criticize them, if you feel like you are walking on eggshells.. well run !
If someone does something out of character, like being unnecessarily bitchy. keep an eye on them, their mask will prob slip again at some point
You won’t see it at first because they hide it so well. If someone seems too good to be true, likes everything about you, has the same goals, morals and convictions, understands you & treats you better than anyone ever has
this is when you should be extremely cautious. They make you feel good so you will open up to them. Don’t do it!!! They will use it to draw you in then use it against you later. Say as little as you can and keep your eyes open to their behavior.
I foolishly thought he was going to give an example or something I could understand.
True?
💯
Cptsd has ruined my intuition.
I transvestigate RG once a month 🤣
❤❤❤
None so blind !!
I was only trying to help you....i dont need your help😊
Emmm. Heeeem.
It's true. Takes one to know one.
Sometimes it's the opposite...we can see clearly because it's so crazy, and not acceptable behavior...to me, it's almost like watching a villain on TV. It's so obvious, and outside acceptable behavior, once you know what to look for. So it's not always...like attracts like (or knows like)...sometimes is opposites attract(or the opposite can tell the difference)
Definitely doesn’t apply here @dreamscape405 is right about this
Donald Trump--Master Malignant Narc.
He might be the biggest mal narc on the planet.
yes. @@absolutelypositively
He saved AMERICA FROM THE TPP and our CHILDREN UNDERGROUND WORLDWIDE. TURN OFF YOUR LIAR TV
❤❤❤❤🥰🙂😉🔥🙌☝️🌞🤗
I still say Republicans and what do you call your tories
So Richard, care to comment on Trump?
So, no need to refer to a qualified psychologist who's going to refer to the diagnostic manual?
Of course not, It is fundamental to reach for a qualified professional. But is also very important to learn and identify the trait of a narcisist, these people are dangerous and abusive. I'm recovering from one.