Chad expresses his thoughts so accurately and clearly on these topics and you can tell he’s active on being a good human. Wow. Thank you for being a good example. 👏💓
Carissa, Ditto! Carissa, you’ve inspired me in such a way that I that I want to add that~ we are all so, so blessed in that both Chad & Tori express & articulate in a way that is pure gift to those of us blessed to hear them! Gratitude’s ripple effect is a powerful one! Thank you, Carissa! Thank you, Chad & Tori! Thank you, God! ❤️
My amazing husband & I have been blessed with joyful marriage (through unexpected twists & turns including physical trials) for 38 years; each of which we consider to be gift! “That intimacy outside of physical… “ …. We have found this to be true! ❤️🙏🏼🎁🙏🏼❤️
@@ToriAndChad I’m SO excited for intimacy and I realize I’ve been looking at counterfeits but I always know what I really want is that safe intimacy in marriage. I think it’s scary though because so many people are very doomsday about “well that’ll only last for a bit” or “they’ll just cheat on you.” I want to trust God fully with it but the waiting is hard!
@@kaylinworthington Honestly I don't think someone who is truly a follower of God and approved by God that you marry would cheat. The problem is in the Christian community most of the people believe in Jesus but don't truly know him so they're not even saved.
So good! I love your wisdom. And Chad needs to teach lots of things because he has THE BEST analogies! He's really good at setting up a mental picture to drive the truth home!
Chad and Tori, you guys are such a blessing! I continually recommend you guys to all my friends and one day, if I'm looking to get into an intentional relationship with someone, you guys are what I want my relationship to look like. So Jesus centred, encouraging, continually improving and growing. I'd like to imitate you guys as you imitate Christ!
On the assumption of “fights”, my fiancé and I have not had a “fight” I like to call them “heated discussions” haha! And it’s only recently happened with wedding planning. Just two people who want things a certain way not realizing the other person may view it differently. Thankfully we have compromised really well.
I understand the one about not venting. My boyfriend broke my heart on accident a few years ago when we weren't together, and my mom and younger sister still haven't forgiven him for making me cry 😂🙄
Just read the description and it hit hard. I like things to go my own way and I don't like taking criticism. It can get me very frustrated at times. It was encouraging to be reminded that I'm not a finished work of art, the master is still working on me. And I need to be more gracious when others try and come along to help. Especially when it's my family, boyfriend, or close friends.
I really like the one about bank account. My dad worked 3 jobs & my mom took care of the 8 of us. My dad always said 1st it's God's money. Then my mom & dad would put the money on the table, back then there wasn't auto deposit, & put the money by each bill. My dad never said it was his money & I'm glad I had that as an example.
Loved this video! Appreciate you sharing your experiences and wisdom with us! You’re both amazing role models of what a healthy, Christ centred marriage is and I love seeing that so much! Also felt convicted by the encouragement in the description! Such a good reminder! Hope you have an amazing rest of the week! Love and praying for you three!
Greg, 💯Ditto! And… when you concluded with “… Love & praying for you three!” it touched to my core! My prayers for Chad & Tori, & their son, are on flowing!
My ritual for watching yalls videos are to go on my hour lunch break….. drive to KFC….. and park somewhere with shade and eat and watch. Lol I thought you should know.
On the topic of venting to family, in our marriage counseling our pastor said something that I LOVED, he said "Create a healthy relationship with your in-laws (which is a good idea anyway) and when there is a misunderstanding or issue, you can talk it out with your spouses parents because they will always love their child, and it is their goal to see them succeed and they will be able to help you understand them better and give you someone to talk to that can help resolve the issue without tainting the view of the spouse"
Thank you for being so open! It is really helpful to put things in perspective. Due to my upbringing unfortunately I had quite a few mindsets about marriage that haven’t been the most positive. Your videos help me to think and to look at those mindsets - and to open up about other ways/possibility. And you both have such a refreshing way about how you answer the questions. So it’s with more „lightness“ and still serious.
I have a slightly different opinion when it comes to venting. It can be super lonely to not be able to talk about what is going on in your life, and counselors aren’t in the role of a friend. I think if you can find ppl who are as forgiving and graceful and mature as they are wise then that can be good as long as it is honoring of your spouse and not instead of talking with your spouse first 🙃🌺❤️
Totally see your point! I think it comes down to the definition of "vent". Because if it is an expression of our spouse in anger or rage, then that isn't a good look. I mean I would be so hurt to hear if Tori were talking badly about me behind my back instead of communicating with me to resolve. But if she was working through an issue with friends in a healthy way then I love that! If you simply are going to talk to friends about stuff to get advice, prayer and support then there is nothing wrong with that and we love that! I go to my guy friends all the time for advice on how to handle things. I guess venting and going to friends/family for support are two different things. From our POV when you vent you are angrily expressing frustration about someone that can lead to gossip and that is what we are trying to avoid here. But like we said in the video, if you can do it in a way that is honoring to your marriage, your spouse and to God then that is an amazing thing to do! Hope that helps clear up what we were trying to say!
@@ToriAndChad absolutely! I guess I didn’t think of the word vent as a negative thing, maybe my English isn’t the best haha 😆 but yes I agree. I love all your videos, you guys are great!
No no, you did so amazing! Your english is great! thank you for being willing to read our response! Also we loved looking at your channel! Great content!!!
@@ToriAndChad aww thanks. God told me to open it a in October a year ago and it was confirmed because of a video of yours talking about planing a UA-cam channel 😄 you get a credit percentage
You two are such a light and encouragement in the online space! Love watching your videos and getting to know your opinions about these deep topics! 🤍 Thank you for all you are doing for this online community! 🤗
I found your channel on my research a few days ago and I am so thankful for that! You two are so cute and you are a perfect couple! Have a nice day. Love from Italy
Aaahw thanks guys, it so helped me! 😊 I’m going to get married at the end of August and it’s so good to have examples like you from who I can learn a lot!
So helpful! I think the biggest assumption for me is the independence one and the finances. I've been single all my life and like being single most days lol. But sometimes the thought of marriage has me thinking that I'll lose the freedom I have now. So how you handled that assumption was helpful to hear. On the finances piece (a.k.a sharing a bank account) I always think about the worst. Like what if he got abusive or something and now I can't access money to escape or whatever? Lol I know that's crazy but sometimes I think that and it's scary.
Q. In your engagement season, do you think it was difficult because spiritual warfare ? Can y’all do a video on seasons in your life where spiritual warfare has been a real thing- and maybe you didn’t recognize it until after the season.
‘Thank you God, for designing & making Chad & Tori (& their son), exactly as you did! (Thank you Chad & Tori, for being exactly who God made you to be!) Thank you God, for sharing Chad & Tori with us… exactly as you do! Thank you that the extraordinarily powerful, transformational & irreplaceable collaboration the 3 of you share with us… exactly as you do, is changing the world forever… for the better! Amen, Amen!’
Thanks for sharing this video, this will help my daughter when entering in her marriage. We are drinking the Kool-aid 😂. The conferences have help our marriage so much. We don’t have many healthy marriages around us so XO is helping so much 🙏🏼. Thank the Lord for the message they are bringing to us. God is good all the time. All time God is good. 😇
Could you guys talk about internet safety? I noticed you talked about a internet stalker - and that’s one of my biggest fears of putting myself out there on the internet, but I don’t want that to stop me. Tips would be helpful!
I really like your response to the venting to family. I like to say if it leaks out it doesn't get to the problem or the solution. Our side family/friends are not in the intimacy of a marriage. Imagine if we vented all the time to friends/family about God not doing something for us or we had disappointment w/ God. How would God feel? He wants a relationship w/ just us not our family/friends at the same time.
I’ve realized as a young married woman that sex is really not talked about within Christianity. I do understand why not, but it feels like it promotes shame even within a marriage because especially when you’re young people make honeymoon jokes and it can just make it feel icky
Like what if one of the partners is really good at making money and the other partner is not so gifted at naturally making money? What if the monetarily "well off" partner sees money as independent from partnership and sees the partner who is not so gifted at making money as lazy or using them for money? How can a "poor" person find love? Or how do see that kind of situation?
Jenna, just thought I’d say something even though I’m not tori or chad 😆…. That’s not a healthy partner to be with I think. Because why would you be with someone who clearly makes you feel “less than” because they make more money? We can’t all make the same amount because different circumstances and capabilities. A “poor” person can indeed find love, there are plenty of people out there who have a healthy mindset financially and are looking for someone for not only how much money they make.
@Chad.. You say you gain so much more than just loosing independence.. But what so you gain then? Cuz everyone seems to talk about its worth it but not a lot of ppl talk about why its worth it or what you gain..
I think fighting and arguments is so normalised in relationships that it's "weird" or "off" or even that something is "wrong" if you don't fight. There can be healthy relationships where you communicate, talk to each other about how you feel and your perspective about something than "fighting". Learning how to regulate your emotions, taking care of yourself and how to express your needs and expectations is something both parties have to learn individually before and as a couple. I think acknowledging/talking about your flaws openly and exploring each others love languages and insecurities helps a lot to understand someone's triggers and to limit/avoid big blow outs. P.S love all these videos that share insight into taboo/not talked about topics! We need to hear more of it so more of us don't get awkward/avoid these very important and needed conversations!
You'll are such good human beings! Am just going to pray today specifically appreciating just how rare this goodness is met with genuine realness and still manage to look this good.. 😎 Some assumptions just cracked me up.. thank you you two for just about everything! You'll are the best 👏 Love you threeeeeeee ❤
Completely agree about not venting about each other to friends & family, even before marriage. My bf and I struggled to to understand one another at the start of our relationship. I vented to my sister about some things and it really tainted her impression of him for a while. Same with one of my friends, although she was able to move past it sooner. Now my bf and I have been dating over 2 years with plans to get married and have established that we don’t bring each other’s garbage out for others to see. We talk through it ourselves and/or I work through it with my counselor.
Venting to friends and family and them not forgiving as easily makes so much sense, wow never thought of it like that! Thanks, learned something new today!
yeah! We are big believers in going to community, family, friends etc for advice, counsel, support, etc but if you are just going to them to vent frustration to to put your spouse down to them that isn't good haha
You guys are right on! We've never fought. Hurt each other and cried, yes, raised our voices a couple times, yes. But heated arguments, no. We're able to talk it through and dig up the deeper issue.
10 pts for me! And I really like how you guys said to not be afraid of akward moments in marriage, I’ve never heard that before and it helps. And you guys always say that sex is not a performance it’s a gift. Love you guys!
Awwwww..... you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!! How am i not subscribed to this channel?????? You guys pop up in my head from time to time and i am like "i hope their prayer for a baby has been answered". I was so hopeful but i didn't remember yall's name on UA-cam so i couldn't search. I wanted to listen to something on dating today so i opened my dating playlist and found one of your videos i saved and i rushed to the channel hoping that the prayer for a baby had been answered and when i saw it oh guys my joy was so full. Guys your relationship is so beautiful. You are one of the few couples that have encouraged me on trusting God where marriage and meeting my godly partner is concerned. I am so so so so so so happy for your guys wow! God bless you richly and keep being ambassadors of Christ. I AM SUPER EXCITED AND OF COURSE I HAVE SUBSCRIBED. NEVER MISSING ANYTHING EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sweet tori && chad , thank you for this beautiful God oriented video ! thank you for ALWAYS leaning into His calling for your lives && just sharing this beautiful assumptions video . i hope you both have a beautiful day && can lean even more into Him today ! ✞ ッ ♡
Follow up on the question about venting to family: What is the difference between venting and seeking counsel/explaining a hard situation in your marriage to someone? These talks are so helpful! Love you guys!
the daily encouragement like always was ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 ! so beautiful written && thank you for sharing so i can be encouraged in my walk with God ! ♡ ✞ ッ
Hey Chad, this question is for you: Did you had mentors in the beginning of your relationship that spoke gossip about your now wife? And intended to pop your bubble and ruin your honey moon stage with your newly girlfriend?
Married people: what caught you off guard after getting married? I bet marriage really is as great as it seems but what did you wish you knew before getting married so you weren't surprised?
What assumptions do you have about marriage?! also 10pts if you like this video!
It’s probably easier and harder than I think.
you're definitely right about that!
It was such a special ceremony 💕
Sex ain’t happening as often as hoped for lol
that may be wrong!
Chad expresses his thoughts so accurately and clearly on these topics and you can tell he’s active on being a good human. Wow. Thank you for being a good example. 👏💓
You are very kind! Thanks for encouraging me like that... means a lot!
Carissa,
Ditto!
Carissa, you’ve inspired me in such a way that I that I want to add that~
we are all so, so blessed in that both Chad & Tori express & articulate in a way that is pure gift to those of us blessed to hear them!
Gratitude’s ripple effect is a powerful one! Thank you, Carissa!
Thank you, Chad & Tori!
Thank you, God! ❤️
Oops!
My apology for my, “… that I that I want to add…”
Meant to read, “… that I want to add…”
“You cannot expect what you do not express!”…
Thank you for this treasure amongst ALL of the others (every word) throughout this video!
Amazing!
I think it’s important we as the church should speak about real world topics. Thank you for doing what a lot of Christians are too scared to do.
aww thank you for believing in us and encouraging us!
That intimacy outside of physical stuff is just exactly what my assumption is
it's the best
My amazing husband & I have been blessed with joyful marriage (through unexpected twists & turns including physical trials) for 38 years; each of which we consider to be gift! “That intimacy outside of physical… “ …. We have found this to be true! ❤️🙏🏼🎁🙏🏼❤️
@@nancydroge7682 awww so good to hear bless you and your husband!
@@ToriAndChad I’m SO excited for intimacy and I realize I’ve been looking at counterfeits but I always know what I really want is that safe intimacy in marriage. I think it’s scary though because so many people are very doomsday about “well that’ll only last for a bit” or “they’ll just cheat on you.” I want to trust God fully with it but the waiting is hard!
@@kaylinworthington Honestly I don't think someone who is truly a follower of God and approved by God that you marry would cheat. The problem is in the Christian community most of the people believe in Jesus but don't truly know him so they're not even saved.
So good! I love your wisdom. And Chad needs to teach lots of things because he has THE BEST analogies! He's really good at setting up a mental picture to drive the truth home!
aww you are so kind! That really boosted my spirits today!
yep the 'under the rug' one was so amazing
Honestly
“Always look to honor and edify our spouse”
Chad and Tori, you guys are such a blessing! I continually recommend you guys to all my friends and one day, if I'm looking to get into an intentional relationship with someone, you guys are what I want my relationship to look like. So Jesus centred, encouraging, continually improving and growing. I'd like to imitate you guys as you imitate Christ!
On the assumption of “fights”, my fiancé and I have not had a “fight” I like to call them “heated discussions” haha! And it’s only recently happened with wedding planning. Just two people who want things a certain way not realizing the other person may view it differently. Thankfully we have compromised really well.
“Expectations kill experiences”
they do!
I understand the one about not venting. My boyfriend broke my heart on accident a few years ago when we weren't together, and my mom and younger sister still haven't forgiven him for making me cry 😂🙄
Just read the description and it hit hard. I like things to go my own way and I don't like taking criticism. It can get me very frustrated at times. It was encouraging to be reminded that I'm not a finished work of art, the master is still working on me. And I need to be more gracious when others try and come along to help. Especially when it's my family, boyfriend, or close friends.
No one told me that I’d be sooo tired and stressed after our wedding. But the morning after was so fun !!
I really like the one about bank account. My dad worked 3 jobs & my mom took care of the 8 of us. My dad always said 1st it's God's money. Then my mom & dad would put the money on the table, back then there wasn't auto deposit, & put the money by each bill. My dad never said it was his money & I'm glad I had that as an example.
Loved this video! Appreciate you sharing your experiences and wisdom with us! You’re both amazing role models of what a healthy, Christ centred marriage is and I love seeing that so much! Also felt convicted by the encouragement in the description! Such a good reminder! Hope you have an amazing rest of the week! Love and praying for you three!
Thanks a ton my man.. means a lot! We love you dude! And thank you for taking the time to read the description!
Greg,
💯Ditto!
And… when you concluded with “… Love & praying for you three!” it touched to my core!
My prayers for Chad & Tori, & their son, are on flowing!
My ritual for watching yalls videos are to go on my hour lunch break….. drive to KFC….. and park somewhere with shade and eat and watch. Lol I thought you should know.
hahaha we love this
On the topic of venting to family, in our marriage counseling our pastor said something that I LOVED, he said "Create a healthy relationship with your in-laws (which is a good idea anyway) and when there is a misunderstanding or issue, you can talk it out with your spouses parents because they will always love their child, and it is their goal to see them succeed and they will be able to help you understand them better and give you someone to talk to that can help resolve the issue without tainting the view of the spouse"
I love your answer on the shared bank account !! Totally agree.
Ps. I look up to you both in my marriage ❤️
God is so good.
thanks so much for the love, Anna! We are lifting up your powerhouse marriage!
Thank you for being so open! It is really helpful to put things in perspective. Due to my upbringing unfortunately I had quite a few mindsets about marriage that haven’t been the most positive. Your videos help me to think and to look at those mindsets - and to open up about other ways/possibility. And you both have such a refreshing way about how you answer the questions. So it’s with more „lightness“ and still serious.
I have a slightly different opinion when it comes to venting. It can be super lonely to not be able to talk about what is going on in your life, and counselors aren’t in the role of a friend. I think if you can find ppl who are as forgiving and graceful and mature as they are wise then that can be good as long as it is honoring of your spouse and not instead of talking with your spouse first 🙃🌺❤️
Totally see your point! I think it comes down to the definition of "vent". Because if it is an expression of our spouse in anger or rage, then that isn't a good look. I mean I would be so hurt to hear if Tori were talking badly about me behind my back instead of communicating with me to resolve. But if she was working through an issue with friends in a healthy way then I love that! If you simply are going to talk to friends about stuff to get advice, prayer and support then there is nothing wrong with that and we love that! I go to my guy friends all the time for advice on how to handle things. I guess venting and going to friends/family for support are two different things. From our POV when you vent you are angrily expressing frustration about someone that can lead to gossip and that is what we are trying to avoid here. But like we said in the video, if you can do it in a way that is honoring to your marriage, your spouse and to God then that is an amazing thing to do! Hope that helps clear up what we were trying to say!
@@ToriAndChad absolutely! I guess I didn’t think of the word vent as a negative thing, maybe my English isn’t the best haha 😆 but yes I agree. I love all your videos, you guys are great!
No no, you did so amazing! Your english is great! thank you for being willing to read our response! Also we loved looking at your channel! Great content!!!
@@ToriAndChad aww thanks. God told me to open it a in October a year ago and it was confirmed because of a video of yours talking about planing a UA-cam channel 😄 you get a credit percentage
@@orielinIsrael Wow you're from Israel and a Christian?
You two are such a light and encouragement in the online space! Love watching your videos and getting to know your opinions about these deep topics! 🤍 Thank you for all you are doing for this online community! 🤗
Thank you for taking the time to do life with us sweet, Lulia! We love you!
You guys had ne laughing surprisingly often. Engagement season was quite the experience for us as well.
I am not less than for being single is something I needed to hear from someone especially a married couple. thanks chad!
Thank you for being a huge inspiration to me 💕
thank you for being a huge encouragement to us!
I found your channel on my research a few days ago and I am so thankful for that! You two are so cute and you are a perfect couple! Have a nice day. Love from Italy
Loved this video!!! ❤️💯💯 You guys are right on! These are the things that I feel like helped my husband and I start our marriage off more easily.
Aaahw thanks guys, it so helped me! 😊 I’m going to get married at the end of August and it’s so good to have examples like you from who I can learn a lot!
Please do talk about the issue of marriage and lust!
Love these type of videos - it's so fun to watch ;)
aww that means a lot!!!
So helpful! I think the biggest assumption for me is the independence one and the finances. I've been single all my life and like being single most days lol. But sometimes the thought of marriage has me thinking that I'll lose the freedom I have now. So how you handled that assumption was helpful to hear.
On the finances piece (a.k.a sharing a bank account) I always think about the worst. Like what if he got abusive or something and now I can't access money to escape or whatever? Lol I know that's crazy but sometimes I think that and it's scary.
How do you know if your boyfriend (or girlfriend) has a problem with lust?
Q. In your engagement season, do you think it was difficult because spiritual warfare ?
Can y’all do a video on seasons in your life where spiritual warfare has been a real thing- and maybe you didn’t recognize it until after the season.
Congratulations 🍾🎊🎉🎈 on 125k subscribers.
almost at 127 I think!
Love how u answered the lust question
‘Thank you God, for designing & making Chad & Tori (& their son), exactly as you did! (Thank you Chad & Tori, for being exactly who God made you to be!) Thank you God, for sharing Chad & Tori with us… exactly as you do! Thank you that the extraordinarily powerful, transformational & irreplaceable collaboration the 3 of you share with us… exactly as you do, is changing the world forever… for the better!
Amen, Amen!’
Such a beautiful and helpful video. Thank you so much❤
Thanks for sharing this video, this will help my daughter when entering in her marriage. We are drinking the Kool-aid 😂. The conferences have help our marriage so much. We don’t have many healthy marriages around us so XO is helping so much 🙏🏼. Thank the Lord for the message they are bringing to us. God is good all the time. All time God is good. 😇
sometimes we think that life changes a lot after getting married, but does it really change? Anyway you guys are awesome
I think you as a person change..Just my opinion what happened to me😉But change for the better
I look up to you guys!
Can’t wait to apply your advice in our marriage🤍
Our engagement season needed this video🤗
haha I wish we had this before engagement!
Thank you 🙏🏻🤗
Loved this video so much! So helpful!
aww thank you for letting us know!
Thank you for this 🤍
Thank you for taking the time to watch it!!!
Could you guys talk about internet safety? I noticed you talked about a internet stalker - and that’s one of my biggest fears of putting myself out there on the internet, but I don’t want that to stop me. Tips would be helpful!
thank you for this! Not married but I am saving this for when I do find the guy for me ;)
Thanks for sharing !! this is really a big reminder for me and my husband as a newlywed❤
I really like your response to the venting to family. I like to say if it leaks out it doesn't get to the problem or the solution. Our side family/friends are not in the intimacy of a marriage. Imagine if we vented all the time to friends/family about God not doing something for us or we had disappointment w/ God. How would God feel? He wants a relationship w/ just us not our family/friends at the same time.
This video was so funny and honestly so wholesome👍
I’m a new subscriber and I just wanna say I love your channel so much!!! I love the cute intro and awesome videos I enjoy watching
Lol not Chad touching Tori on 12:27 😂😂😂😂😂♥️
hahah she definitely felt that
tori… girl… what is the skincare routine (apart from the pregnancy glow✨)??
Make the wedding night easier, wait till the next day and get some good sleep that night. 😅
All of your answers = 🔥. So so good!
Love this! Also loving Chads hat, where did you guys get it from?
I’ve realized as a young married woman that sex is really not talked about within Christianity. I do understand why not, but it feels like it promotes shame even within a marriage because especially when you’re young people make honeymoon jokes and it can just make it feel icky
can you guys recommend some devotionals for christian dating couples to do together?
Chad, where’s the hoodie from?? Looks super comfy!
Like what if one of the partners is really good at making money and the other partner is not so gifted at naturally making money? What if the monetarily "well off" partner sees money as independent from partnership and sees the partner who is not so gifted at making money as lazy or using them for money? How can a "poor" person find love? Or how do see that kind of situation?
Jenna, just thought I’d say something even though I’m not tori or chad 😆…. That’s not a healthy partner to be with I think. Because why would you be with someone who clearly makes you feel “less than” because they make more money? We can’t all make the same amount because different circumstances and capabilities. A “poor” person can indeed find love, there are plenty of people out there who have a healthy mindset financially and are looking for someone for not only how much money they make.
Loved this!
I adore you guys 💛
@Chad.. You say you gain so much more than just loosing independence.. But what so you gain then? Cuz everyone seems to talk about its worth it but not a lot of ppl talk about why its worth it or what you gain..
Get the algorithm going!
I wish...hahah
Yesss
Putting this to watch later....I have an important exam on Sunday...please pray for me
praying! Take care and do your best!
Currently studying too, I know its hard! Will definitely be praying for you 💞
Aadya & Aisha,
Praying God’s blessings on you & your studies!
A wise friend once said to me, “Remember, your best is good enough!”
❤️🙏🏼
Meant… Aaisha
Hoping exams went well!
❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
Communication is just as important in the bedroom as it is outside the bedroom. That's just the truth.
HAHAH i can't with the finger on your shoulder
I am literally like that whenever someone says they're physical touch I touch them and am like 👀👀👀
My girlfriends are like are you for real right now 😂
hahaha
hahahah
12:20 🤣
Helloooo Chad and Tori and Baby Masters
Hi there!!!
@@ToriAndChad How's it going today?
going well! How are you!?
@@ToriAndChad Doing well doing a workout right now. Btw I sent y'all an email the other day because your last video touched me so much.
we read it... it was so sweet!
The beginning 😂 👀... 👀..
lol sweet Ang!
@@ToriAndChad love this little corner y'all filmed in
aww really? We tried to change things up a bit!
@@ToriAndChad yeah it looks great!! I feel like y'all have many good places as background, like the table corner with the painting too 🤌
yeah we will try some new stuff! So that every thumbnail doesn't look the same haha
Honestly, I freaked out a little when I saw my assumption in the video🤍😂
HAHAHAH
How old are you?
WHOOOo
HEYOOOO!!!
Hoooo
Oh we early early
haha super early!!!
can you do carpool karaoke
Yall do not want to hear us sing lol
Olaaa
Holllaaa!
Would you ever wax Chad's chest hair for a video? That would be hilarious.
Expectations kill experiences🔥🔥. That is so true for every type of relationship whether friendships or marriages.
I think fighting and arguments is so normalised in relationships that it's "weird" or "off" or even that something is "wrong" if you don't fight. There can be healthy relationships where you communicate, talk to each other about how you feel and your perspective about something than "fighting". Learning how to regulate your emotions, taking care of yourself and how to express your needs and expectations is something both parties have to learn individually before and as a couple. I think acknowledging/talking about your flaws openly and exploring each others love languages and insecurities helps a lot to understand someone's triggers and to limit/avoid big blow outs. P.S love all these videos that share insight into taboo/not talked about topics! We need to hear more of it so more of us don't get awkward/avoid these very important and needed conversations!
You'll are such good human beings! Am just going to pray today specifically appreciating just how rare this goodness is met with genuine realness and still manage to look this good.. 😎
Some assumptions just cracked me up.. thank you you two for just about everything! You'll are the best 👏
Love you threeeeeeee ❤
we love you, Shweta!
Completely agree about not venting about each other to friends & family, even before marriage.
My bf and I struggled to to understand one another at the start of our relationship. I vented to my sister about some things and it really tainted her impression of him for a while. Same with one of my friends, although she was able to move past it sooner. Now my bf and I have been dating over 2 years with plans to get married and have established that we don’t bring each other’s garbage out for others to see. We talk through it ourselves and/or I work through it with my counselor.
I love these types of videos!! Very helpful and informative. ❤️
you are so sweet to encourage us like this!
Venting to friends and family and them not forgiving as easily makes so much sense, wow never thought of it like that! Thanks, learned something new today!
yeah! We are big believers in going to community, family, friends etc for advice, counsel, support, etc but if you are just going to them to vent frustration to to put your spouse down to them that isn't good haha
So many good points, thank you for this encouragement 🥲
You guys are right on! We've never fought. Hurt each other and cried, yes, raised our voices a couple times, yes. But heated arguments, no. We're able to talk it through and dig up the deeper issue.
Y’all are so cute in case you weren’t aware
haha we receive this! I'm getting grey hair so I'll take my compliments where I can!
10 pts for me! And I really like how you guys said to not be afraid of akward moments in marriage, I’ve never heard that before and it helps. And you guys always say that sex is not a performance it’s a gift. Love you guys!
Awwwww..... you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!! How am i not subscribed to this channel??????
You guys pop up in my head from time to time and i am like "i hope their prayer for a baby has been answered". I was so hopeful but i didn't remember yall's name on UA-cam so i couldn't search. I wanted to listen to something on dating today so i opened my dating playlist and found one of your videos i saved and i rushed to the channel hoping that the prayer for a baby had been answered and when i saw it oh guys my joy was so full. Guys your relationship is so beautiful. You are one of the few couples that have encouraged me on trusting God where marriage and meeting my godly partner is concerned. I am so so so so so so happy for your guys wow! God bless you richly and keep being ambassadors of Christ.
I AM SUPER EXCITED AND OF COURSE I HAVE SUBSCRIBED. NEVER MISSING ANYTHING EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Beautiful sharing from a Biblical, Christian perspective. You guys are my fave UA-cam couple. Thank you for the inspirational encouragement.
I like how you look at him with love when he speaks ❤️😇
So much wisdom & so well spoken. Great vid!
What does "neked" mean chad?
Love you Masters fam
we love you!!
sweet tori && chad , thank you for this beautiful God oriented video ! thank you for ALWAYS leaning into His calling for your lives && just sharing this beautiful assumptions video . i hope you both have a beautiful day && can lean even more into Him today ! ✞ ッ ♡
Follow up on the question about venting to family: What is the difference between venting and seeking counsel/explaining a hard situation in your marriage to someone? These talks are so helpful! Love you guys!
the daily encouragement like always was ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 ! so beautiful written && thank you for sharing so i can be encouraged in my walk with God ! ♡ ✞ ッ
This is the perfect video for y'all tho lol
it's real lol we love this stuff!
Hey Chad, this question is for you:
Did you had mentors in the beginning of your relationship that spoke gossip about your now wife? And intended to pop your bubble and ruin your honey moon stage with your newly girlfriend?
Would y’all be able to timestamp the questions for us? Thanks!
Love your videos! Chad, do you mind if I ask where you got your hoodie from?
Married people: what caught you off guard after getting married? I bet marriage really is as great as it seems but what did you wish you knew before getting married so you weren't surprised?
Life's been really hard lately but the thrive Bible is getting me through it. THANK YOU CHAD AND TORI ❤️
Great insight really helpful and encouraging. Thank you guys for this!
Open communication yes. It should be 2 way on everything.