Thank you both. I’m 37 and came out of a relationship with a man Satan planted in my life because I didn’t wait on God. Your relationship helps me to know I must keep the faith God has His best for me. Thank you. 💙❤️
It's nice to see you so calm about it at 37. I'm 23 and never been in a relationship I was too busy chasing different idols and stuck up "no girl was worthy of me" but since I've been saved I really want a relationship but it's easy to be impatient so it's nice to see you so calm about being older and still waiting with patience.
@@vivaeuropa Remember, its God's time, not our time. I always say this to my elders when they pressure me to find a girlfriend With that said, I'm still open with knowing more people and giving a chance to girl I come across as suitable partner. I try my best to avoid places sluts "roam" especially tinder, church is a great place to get to know new people and find your future partner
Don’t be afraid to have high standards and wait for God’s best 🙌🙌🙌 That was so refreshing to hear! Usually we’re encouraged to lower our expectations and standards but then are blamed for getting into relationships that go wrong. So thank you for sharing and encouraging us to trust that God has the best for us
"I am not gonna bring you someone to destroy him". That really resonated with me. I've been dealing with self stem issues as long as I can remember, but I just realized how much I hurt an ex because of my insecurities... Gotta work on that. We have to lift up others ( partners, family, friends...) Not tear them down.
This opened my eyes tremendously as to why God hasn’t allowed me to meet my husband yet. He has what’s best in store for me Jeremiah 29:11. Thank you both for your Godly wisdom!
Wow your husband Adam had said some things that really hit my spirit! So grateful for this interview! It has been difficult reconciling God in the old testament. Focusing on how God was with Adam and Eve before sin blew my mind. Very helpful! And the seagull vs. eagle reference was great as well! Thanks to the both of you! 💗
Girl the way your husband look at you makes me smile 😭🫶🏼 I love how he responds to you when you want to add something! So cute. And so needed. I want to take a course now!
@@NowBloom absolutely!!! These are things i can relate to from the past and some presently… Years ago i destroyed soul ties but i remember vividly how living with them could really reek havoc. Also I’m in a season of healing and being restored after being completely destroyed beyond comprehension as you mentioned. Please keep me in your prayers ❤️ I look forward to marrying the man God hand pick specifically for me. I know it won’t be perfect like you said. But i know he will have my back like i have his and will be my bestfriend who will love me and protect my heart❤️ I pray who ever he is that he is brave strong faith filled and spirit led… and covered in humility and honesty. I tried to hold on to a dream But realized … it might have been … only that. A huge coincidence. A painful one at that. But God has someone for me…. I just know it. 🌻🦋 until that day comes that i kno who he is and get to meet him im going to just enjoy being single.
i genuinely feel that this message has been very important, especially for those of us that do have very high standards because at some point you start believing it will not come even though you have an idea of the man you would hope for! so I appreciate this message!, especially for those of us that have definitely had heartbreaks and the entire transition of single life and the life of the Lord.
Sarah, you use this beautiful phrase: "Cultivating intimacy with The Lord" to describe your single season. Would this be a subject for a future video? I would love to hear more about it. Enjoying a nice cup of tea and your channel this morning. :)
Thank you both so much for this video! It has spoken to me and has made me view being the best version of me for God and not for my potential spouse and the desire to want to become better for God and be close to Him is attractive and that it’s not necessary to wear certain clothes to seek attractive but that it’s the heart that attracts the godly partner!
Thank you so much, Therese! I really appreciate your message! The Lord has confirmed many times about what you said to me through people but the enemy has been attacking me in this area of my calling. Please keep me in your prayers that I get to live out this calling and glorify Him with it! God bless you! 🤗✝️
Thank you for this video, Adam & Sarah I also want to encourage single people by reminding them that we live in a fallen world, and that we just might not get married. It's not necessarily because we aren't holy enough, we didn't prepare enough, we are not pretty enough etc. It is not by our own works that prayers are answered in the way that we want. Christians do not generally speak to people waiting on healing in this way "stop wanting to be healed and you will" "you haven't prepared enough for your healing" "God has you in this season of waiting to be healed from your terminal illness" It will be easier for some to find a spouse over others for various reasons that aren't always acknowledged by the church, but stay encouraged that you are not loved by Him any less than those that are married and that Heaven is your home x x
Your union is extremely Christ centered. But in all this, in all the wait, standing and upholding of your ministries you will find rest with each other. God will honour your wait. It is well for a long time to come.
Sometimes I wonder if Godly men want women who are perfect no blemishes no past. That’s why I wonder that even though I’m a Godly woman, a Godly man might still be hesitant or make assumptions
Lots of people say they’re a Christian, but they practice sex outside of marriage , they use profanity, they don’t care at all to read the word and I don’t see any fruits. In general , a Christian truly follows Jesus and obeys him. 💙 And absolutely legalism is not Godly. Women have to be careful that a man isn’t reading the Bible just to impress her until he gets her. It has to be a genuine act, something he does willingly and not to impress a woman .
I loved so much what you mentioned about being pure, the wrong people can make us feel guilty because we walk in righteousness and in light! The darkness cannot stand the light and it rejects it
I think the Lord is getting me ready for marriage because he keeps introducing me to creators like you so I can learn more about AGAPE Love and how to Glorify Him in marriage. Thank you for your transparency. Practical examples are still important. 💛
Thank you Adam, that really helped me when you shared your age at finding Sarah. I am 40 and divorced for 5 years and my friends and coworkers think I am crazy for not using social media and turning down men that are not sent from God. It can be discouraging mentally but I know God hasnt forgotten me and he is telling me to be still and wait, I will know.
Hey, just to encourage you a little. Delay is not denial and if God kept you in a place he sure knows and will answer you in due time, try to use this period to serve him and develop yourself
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I m glad you found each other. I m waiting for my kingdome husband. I live in Greece and even when I say I m a believer people make fun of me. Since I m in my 35s and my image or body image does not resonate with what I believe or I have to be more earthly. Sometimes I pretend I dont expect for what I look for. Noone gets me. I feel like losing hope. I feel in a lot o pain for a lot of emotional hardships and the fact I grow older and all I meet is disbelievers. I pray and I pray 😞😔
I absolutely loved this. Preparing yourself to be the bride of Christ is definitely something that I will be praying about and striving towards. Thank you for your wise words. Praise the Lord!!!
I agree, I’d love to hear Sarah’s story about how she got to this stage. Especially after watching a video on the enemy whispering insecurities to her at a young age. How did you overcome all of this ?
Adam point of view is so profound. Your content is so wholesome and I’m truly blessed by it. Thank you once again for the reminder that in our waiting,living for God should always be our number one priority ❤️
It was nice to have Adam’s point of view about modesty. I used to dress very modestes but when i found myself at almost 30 not married i stopped and started to dress with shorter and tighter clothes as a way to attract my husband. It definitely enabled me to get a lot of attention from men but still no marriage, so now I’m back to being modest but it is challenging. thanks for this video 💝
@@TP-hu2yg As a Godly man personally it's the first thing I look for in a women is if she honors God with how she dresses. It's a very important first impression and dressing revealing is enough to completely write her off just to be safe because if she dresses to create lust in men then she probably is dealing with other problems like self worth, pornography addiction, still promiscuous etc.
Hi. I hope you already got married in these 2 years, but if not, the problem is not in modest clothes. And anyway, a more "attractive" style of clothing does not mean short and fitted clothes, but I think you already know that. I am in the same situation, we really live in a world that has lost its values, with the distance from God we become nothing more than rational animals, because we already subject our soul to superficiality. For a long time I thought that the reasons why I didn't get married were either physical, or that the world has degraded in many ways and it's hard to find a truly Christian man. But... actually I had many unresolved traumas from my childhood that programmed me to attract toxic people and full of emotional wounds, because I myself was full of wounds. I'm not saying it's your case, because I don't know you. But I leave this comment in case it will ever be useful to someone, we always attract what we are and often we block our own paths because we have an emotional baggage behind us that needs to be thrown away. We have to imagine what we want in a partner and first, be ourselves in this way. Otherwise, we will attract all kinds of people who either do not respect us, or cannot love, or are manipulative or simply inappropriate. When we accept and love ourselves, asking God to be able to accept us, as He accepts us, we hope that we will also meet that right partner. Moreover, if we tend to idolize people, we should know that God will never send us a man whom we will turn into an idol, into our god. That was my problem, the trauma programmed me to idolize people, and the "prize" was ... exactly, a narcissist. Good luck, all the best.
I like the way Adam marketed your coaching business. It's not bad to put your business out there once in a while. It is the talent God had blessed you with to generate income sometimes while enriching lives. I love you guys. God bless and protect you both. Amen.
Wow this was so good! As a single Christian woman, I feel so encouraged to continue my walk in purity with the Lord and to wait patiently for Him to send me my husband. Thank you for this 😭🙏🏻❤️ God bless you both.
It's very important to find a godly man. I have seen many Christians no longer going to church after marrying a non-Christian. Remember, its God's time, not our time. I have been single for all my life, my focus has been on self improvement and building my faith. Because while waiting for the right person to come, you have to be at your best to welcome that person. And just recently there is a new girl just started joining our church and the cell group I'm overseeing, even tho I'm not particularly attracted to her, we still chat and hangout some times. I certain can see a lot of positive responses from her in our interaction, tho she kinda hinted that she isn't attracted to me as well but we know if the only measurement is attraction, once that is gone, the relationship will fall apart. So we instead focus on something more fundamentals like our principles, values, chemistry, teamwork, faith...
I was emotional at one point of this video, I had been dealing with a battle recently with modesty, like not just with what I wear but my motivations. And while watching your video I felt myself remember when I used to feel beautiful, and when I knew my value doesn’t come from anyone else’s approval. I finally felt that part of me come out again. Thank you. God bless you both!
Wow I love hearing the wisdom that the Lord has given you two. Sometimes God also just wants us to learn to wait on Him. It's like He is saying, If you never receive this relationship that you are praying for am I still enough for you? And Adam's comment about learning to wrestle with God is so true! When a relationship has depth there are real emotions involved and God wants us to take those to Him.
So so good. I have been single for many many years. As a couple, you are inspiring me. For some reason I do not see available men around me. I love jesus and growing in my relationship..He made me strong and healthy and still pretty at 62.
So happy to have found you both. I am healing after another failed relationship. Your experience and teachings of god has touched the core of my soul. It’s taken me to the age of 42 to finally realise even as a woman of faith why I kept going through failing and short term relationships. You have taught me the way to meet my godly husband and this time round I won’t settle for less. Sarah I thank you and your husband for the revelation. 💕💕🇬🇧🇦🇴
I have to say, Sarah, I love how gracious you are. You both have such a pure dynamic, and the way, Sarah, you listen to your husband and let him speak (and even at the end you asked, "Actually, can I add something to that?" without interrupting), is SO beautiful. Christ is truly in you, and it is so evident, and I aspire to be like this to be a perfectly compatible mate for my spouse soon
Thank you so much for doing this video,i'm so blessed.I'm 40 and single,here in Asia the pressure is real to get married at this age. I learn so much from your video. God bless both of you!
I think that modesty is very important whether your married or not. As a Christian I do believe that my body is mine but also the Lord's. I also know that there are men out there that are struggling with lust/porn/etc. and I personally don't want to be the reason why they are struggling or a trigger. "How can I prepare myself to be the bride for Christ" was so good! Be your best self for God, for yourself, and your future spouse.
Wow. Just wanted to let you guys know that this video really touched my heart. The part when Adam talked about his experience waiting for a godly woman is pretty much the process that I am going through. Thanks for giving me hope guys! God bless! Also, modesty is truely beautiful.
Really thanks for your sharing, this video really touched my heart. I'm 38 years not marriged, I'm in China, it's very difficult for me with sigle life here, the others think I'm not normal or with very high standard with man, everyone here get marry in early age. I'm still waiting and keep good relationship with God, this video encorage me a lot, thank you for your word, and Adam said keep high standard, we deserve better from God, I'll keep this word in heart.❤
@@tvhead7074 Thanks for your caring. We can worship Jesus in China, so many church build up in China and so many christian these years. The public church is totally open, but the family church was controlled in China, the family church worship secretly. During the pandemic time, the public church was forbidden to open, but the family church still keep worship every sunday, and not let government knows, we have many ways to worship God even sometimes in the rough situation.Pls don't worry. 😄
@@tvhead7074 It's complicated, there're so many heresy in the name of Jesus here misleading people, our government try to make all people safe, maybe others feel bad for us, but sometimes God use this way to protest us the real christian and the people. It's really hard to explain, but I think our government also try their best to get the balance.
Thank you so much brother and sister. I loved everything that was said, but the one that stuck with me is when you mentioned that in your waiting and single stages, when people told you to date someone you say to them "No my wife's coming". Don't settle for less, wait for GOD's best. Thank you for this video and the prayer guys. May GOD Bless you more
Wow! I always feel so at ease when watching your videos. 💖 I always feel the Holy Spirit move and speaking to me through you guys. You’re a beautiful couple and you help give me a peace about many things I worry about as I am new in pursuing my relationship with Christ and desire to be a wife someday. Thank you for your wise words both you and Adam are great examples of Christians who bearing good fruit.
That’s so encouraging to hear thank you for sharing! Really encourages us to keep making content, that’s amazing that you’re pursuing a relationship with Christ and I know He has someone amazing for you! 🙏💕
Yeah this a wonderful message, Catherine!! God definitely has a Godly husband for you, just keep doing what you are doing, stay close to the Lord and wait on Him!! ✝️🤗
I would listen to these a lot less and pray more - we can fall in the danger of obsessing with relationships and looking for the one rather then God - the purpose of your marriage is also bigger then you! It’s about each of our own salvation and gods work and also how the marriage fulfills gods work. NOT our fantasies and bullshit obsessions - sorry I say that with love don’t be blind! I pray the rosary i understand these are different sect of Christian’s still beautiful, the Catholic Church has given me clear light and life. I’ll be ok without a man. I been married had a kid been there done that. It really ain’t all that fulfilling guys - when you can’t share the fullness of god with a partner it’s basically a flatmate that gets on your nerves over time!
I just listened to the Mia Fieldes podcast that you spoke of and I'm so encouraged. I especially liked when she said to look for the evidence of what God said. Thanks to you and Adam for sharing. God bless you.
Thank you for this video!❤😊 it was funny, I just wanted to type here my question "How old were you when you got married?" ad he just right away answered on the video...35yo😄 What has touched me: "Go and wrestle with the Lord!"....I tought I can't do this😂
You are so beautiful Sarah! And Adam seem to have a very calm spirit! IT IS TRUE that at the early point we should spot the redflags, it is really much easier to say NO early on. Thank you for uploading this video:)
The prayer at the end broke me down to tears. Thank you for this video. Thank you for that prayer. Thank you for your honesty and your humbleness. Thank you for your caring hearts.
I started praying for my future husband intentionally and asked God to guide me and I randomly stumbled upon your page, what a blessing these videos have been. God bless you both greatly!
Currently waiting..its getting hard and i feel like im going mad. Will be 35 this year and women... yall already know 😮💨🙃. So hard for me to not get discouraged. I petition your prayers on my behalf please. Thank you for this video 👋🏾
I'm glad Adam mentioned the bible highlighting part. My car got broken into and they stole my purse. The only thing that was in my purse was my Bible. It was very old and all highlighted, I knew where every verse was. I got a new Bible and I won't be highlighting it. At the end of the day what matters is that I have the scripture in mind and heart
Such a great video ! I went through a tough time recently, i had to let go of a relationship that wasn't Godly at all and was making me depressed, anxious and made me cry and doubt everyday... I am so glad to have ended it even though it was difficult. But I am making the promise to myself that i am going to wait on the Lord, and i have faith that one day i will find a godly husband ! Until then I will better myself in every area, and grow spiritually! Thank you for this awesome video, may God bless you both abundantly !! And also all the people in the comment section
I thought I heard it all on being single and living in the season of singleness, but I learned a lot from this and the Holy Spirit was teaching and convicting me through it. Thank you and God bless!
Tied into number one, I think it's important to ask, does she FEAR the Lord. I woman who fears the Lord (as well as loves) will act as though she does.
Godly men are just men. Don't put them on a pedestal as if they are "different" from other men. They want the same things as any man. The only other requirement is that the women to have the same faith as him.
Thank you both. I’m 37 and came out of a relationship with a man Satan planted in my life because I didn’t wait on God. Your relationship helps me to know I must keep the faith God has His best for me. Thank you. 💙❤️
It's nice to see you so calm about it at 37. I'm 23 and never been in a relationship I was too busy chasing different idols and stuck up "no girl was worthy of me" but since I've been saved I really want a relationship but it's easy to be impatient so it's nice to see you so calm about being older and still waiting with patience.
@@vivaeuropa Remember, its God's time, not our time. I always say this to my elders when they pressure me to find a girlfriend
With that said, I'm still open with knowing more people and giving a chance to girl I come across as suitable partner. I try my best to avoid places sluts "roam" especially tinder, church is a great place to get to know new people and find your future partner
Don’t be afraid to have high standards and wait for God’s best 🙌🙌🙌 That was so refreshing to hear! Usually we’re encouraged to lower our expectations and standards but then are blamed for getting into relationships that go wrong. So thank you for sharing and encouraging us to trust that God has the best for us
Your husband's point on high standards is so important..this was golden.
Thank you! 🙏🙏
✝️🤗
@@NowBloom how old are you if I may ask
"I am not gonna bring you someone to destroy him". That really resonated with me. I've been dealing with self stem issues as long as I can remember, but I just realized how much I hurt an ex because of my insecurities... Gotta work on that. We have to lift up others ( partners, family, friends...) Not tear them down.
Good point
Why and how exactly did you tear him down if I can ask. I don't correlate how low self esteem = tearing down someone else in the mindset.
@@user-tk4qd8dj1p Because we project our insecurities on others. In my case, I brought the prejudices of my family into my relationship.
It’s awesome to do life and build the kingdom with you! ✝️💜🤗
Love you honey 🍯💕🙏
Cute 🥰
I love you, too, Adam. 😘
@@aramisy.cajigas744 😂
@@NowBloom You kinda look like Dua Lipa the first time I saw you and the second too
This opened my eyes tremendously as to why God hasn’t allowed me to meet my husband yet. He has what’s best in store for me Jeremiah 29:11. Thank you both for your Godly wisdom!
Wow your husband Adam had said some things that really hit my spirit! So grateful for this interview! It has been difficult reconciling God in the old testament. Focusing on how God was with Adam and Eve before sin blew my mind. Very helpful! And the seagull vs. eagle reference was great as well! Thanks to the both of you! 💗
Mia fields is awesome. An aussie triplet. She has a new beautiful song comfort. Shes such a bold woman of God. Love all her testimonies.
I love that.... he will rise to your expectations.
Dont be afraid to have high standards.
Thats precious. Thank you bro!!
Y’all are too cute I can’t 😭 I really love this video! Thankyou ❤️
I agree!
Girl the way your husband look at you makes me smile 😭🫶🏼 I love how he responds to you when you want to add something! So cute. And so needed. I want to take a course now!
You deserve God's best for you❤️
Love you guys,❤ God brings so much light to me through you and so much encouragement. God bless you!😊
This was fantastic!
Thank you for sharing! So refreshing to hear this! you guys are so good together; so precious!
Thanks guys for your Godly example. This is so necessary and important.
Amazing content …. So much validity and truth to the perspectives and points brought up! Delivered gently ! ❤️
Thanks so much for watching 😍
@@NowBloom absolutely!!! These are things i can relate to from the past and some presently…
Years ago i destroyed soul ties but i remember vividly how living with them could really reek havoc.
Also I’m in a season of healing and being restored after being completely destroyed beyond comprehension as you mentioned. Please keep me in your prayers ❤️
I look forward to marrying the man God hand pick specifically for me. I know it won’t be perfect like you said. But i know he will have my back like i have his and will be my bestfriend who will love me and protect my heart❤️ I pray who ever he is that he is brave strong faith filled and spirit led… and covered in humility and honesty.
I tried to hold on to a dream But realized … it might have been … only that. A huge coincidence. A painful one at that. But God has someone for me…. I just know it. 🌻🦋 until that day comes that i kno who he is and get to meet him im going to just enjoy being single.
Thank you both for being an inspiration! May God bless your union.
i genuinely feel that this message has been very important, especially for those of us that do have very high standards because at some point you start believing it will not come even though you have an idea of the man you would hope for! so I appreciate this message!, especially for those of us that have definitely had heartbreaks and the entire transition of single life and the life of the Lord.
Sarah, you use this beautiful phrase: "Cultivating intimacy with The Lord" to describe your single season. Would this be a subject for a future video? I would love to hear more about it. Enjoying a nice cup of tea and your channel this morning. :)
Thank you for Mia Fields' beautiful story.
Awesome yes such a good story!
This were powerful GODLYNESS be blessed!!!
Oooh just the way he looks at her😍😍😍😍😍😍
It's such a blessing message from both of you to me today. It's exactly what I wanted to hear, blessings
Thank you both so much for this video! It has spoken to me and has made me view being the best version of me for God and not for my potential spouse and the desire to want to become better for God and be close to Him is attractive and that it’s not necessary to wear certain clothes to seek attractive but that it’s the heart that attracts the godly partner!
Thank you for this video, very needed! ❤
Thank you for watching!🙏💕
Adam I feel such a Pastoral call on your life
Thank you so much, Therese! I really appreciate your message! The Lord has confirmed many times about what you said to me through people but the enemy has been attacking me in this area of my calling. Please keep me in your prayers that I get to live out this calling and glorify Him with it!
God bless you! 🤗✝️
Thank you for sharing this video 🙏🏼
Really good advice thanks 😊 🙏
Thank you for this video, Adam & Sarah
I also want to encourage single people by reminding them that we live in a fallen world, and that we just might not get married. It's not necessarily because we aren't holy enough, we didn't prepare enough, we are not pretty enough etc. It is not by our own works that prayers are answered in the way that we want. Christians do not generally speak to people waiting on healing in this way "stop wanting to be healed and you will" "you haven't prepared enough for your healing" "God has you in this season of waiting to be healed from your terminal illness"
It will be easier for some to find a spouse over others for various reasons that aren't always acknowledged by the church, but stay encouraged that you are not loved by Him any less than those that are married and that Heaven is your home x x
Thank you🙏🏾 this blessed me
So true Adam, Jesus sat with sinners but he did not leave them as he found them.
Amen Sarah @15:00
Agree so much what you are saying about red flags
Love from cyprus
I know! Her plant is beautiful
Your union is extremely Christ centered. But in all this, in all the wait, standing and upholding of your ministries you will find rest with each other. God will honour your wait. It is well for a long time to come.
Thanks
Amén!!!
I like what she say about not being so strict and being spirit led I think you can hang out with unbelievers and not be preachy preachy like dat
I receive it in Jesus mighty name 🙏
Sometimes I wonder if Godly men want women who are perfect no blemishes no past. That’s why I wonder that even though I’m a Godly woman, a Godly man might still be hesitant or make assumptions
Lots of people say they’re a Christian, but they practice sex outside of marriage , they use profanity, they don’t care at all to read the word and I don’t see any fruits. In general , a Christian truly follows Jesus and obeys him. 💙 And absolutely legalism is not Godly. Women have to be careful that a man isn’t reading the Bible just to impress her until he gets her. It has to be a genuine act, something he does willingly and not to impress a woman .
"Prepare to be a bride for Christ!" I love that so much! Thank you for this word!
New subscriber btw! 😁
New gf btw!
The love of a good man can be very healing and redemptive.
Beautifully put💛
I loved so much what you mentioned about being pure, the wrong people can make us feel guilty because we walk in righteousness and in light! The darkness cannot stand the light and it rejects it
I think the Lord is getting me ready for marriage because he keeps introducing me to creators like you so I can learn more about AGAPE Love and how to Glorify Him in marriage. Thank you for your transparency. Practical examples are still important. 💛
Thank you Adam, that really helped me when you shared your age at finding Sarah. I am 40 and divorced for 5 years and my friends and coworkers think I am crazy for not using social media and turning down men that are not sent from God. It can be discouraging mentally but I know God hasnt forgotten me and he is telling me to be still and wait, I will know.
Hey, just to encourage you a little. Delay is not denial and if God kept you in a place he sure knows and will answer you in due time, try to use this period to serve him and develop yourself
Good for you! God is the way!
Where you look is very important! Church, ministries, missions, weekend church camps, and Christian apps are the best spots imo
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I m glad you found each other. I m waiting for my kingdome husband. I live in Greece and even when I say I m a believer people make fun of me. Since I m in my 35s and my image or body image does not resonate with what I believe or I have to be more earthly. Sometimes I pretend I dont expect for what I look for. Noone gets me. I feel like losing hope. I feel in a lot o pain for a lot of emotional hardships and the fact I grow older and all I meet is disbelievers. I pray and I pray 😞😔
I absolutely loved this. Preparing yourself to be the bride of Christ is definitely something that I will be praying about and striving towards. Thank you for your wise words. Praise the Lord!!!
I love you guys...you exude so much peace and Godliness..God bless your marriage
Aw thank you so much 😍🙏
Such a wonderful comment, thank you!!
I agree, I’d love to hear Sarah’s story about how she got to this stage. Especially after watching a video on the enemy whispering insecurities to her at a young age. How did you overcome all of this ?
Adam point of view is so profound. Your content is so wholesome and I’m truly blessed by it. Thank you once again for the reminder that in our waiting,living for God should always be our number one priority ❤️
Our pleasure, Veronica! We appreciate your kind words! Yes, keep waiting on Him, He's got you now until forever! God bless you!
It was nice to have Adam’s point of view about modesty. I used to dress very modestes but when i found myself at almost 30 not married i stopped and started to dress with shorter and tighter clothes as a way to attract my husband. It definitely enabled me to get a lot of attention from men but still no marriage, so now I’m back to being modest but it is challenging. thanks for this video 💝
Yes this is so relatable! It would be lovely to have a video all about modesty and being firm and getting our self esteem from God and not other men.
I’m going to watch the modesty video!
@@TP-hu2yg As a Godly man personally it's the first thing I look for in a women is if she honors God with how she dresses. It's a very important first impression and dressing revealing is enough to completely write her off just to be safe because if she dresses to create lust in men then she probably is dealing with other problems like self worth, pornography addiction, still promiscuous etc.
@@vivaeuropa wow thank you for your response!
Hi.
I hope you already got married in these 2 years, but if not, the problem is not in modest clothes. And anyway, a more "attractive" style of clothing does not mean short and fitted clothes, but I think you already know that. I am in the same situation, we really live in a world that has lost its values, with the distance from God we become nothing more than rational animals, because we already subject our soul to superficiality. For a long time I thought that the reasons why I didn't get married were either physical, or that the world has degraded in many ways and it's hard to find a truly Christian man. But... actually I had many unresolved traumas from my childhood that programmed me to attract toxic people and full of emotional wounds, because I myself was full of wounds. I'm not saying it's your case, because I don't know you.
But I leave this comment in case it will ever be useful to someone, we always attract what we are and often we block our own paths because we have an emotional baggage behind us that needs to be thrown away. We have to imagine what we want in a partner and first, be ourselves in this way. Otherwise, we will attract all kinds of people who either do not respect us, or cannot love, or are manipulative or simply inappropriate.
When we accept and love ourselves, asking God to be able to accept us, as He accepts us, we hope that we will also meet that right partner.
Moreover, if we tend to idolize people, we should know that God will never send us a man whom we will turn into an idol, into our god. That was my problem, the trauma programmed me to idolize people, and the "prize" was ... exactly, a narcissist.
Good luck, all the best.
After having led homosexual lifestyle. God healed me I really pray daily that God will give me a wife who we will be able to help me grow in the Lord.
I like the way Adam marketed your coaching business. It's not bad to put your business out there once in a while. It is the talent God had blessed you with to generate income sometimes while enriching lives. I love you guys. God bless and protect you both. Amen.
Wow this was so good! As a single Christian woman, I feel so encouraged to continue my walk in purity with the Lord and to wait patiently for Him to send me my husband. Thank you for this 😭🙏🏻❤️ God bless you both.
It's very important to find a godly man. I have seen many Christians no longer going to church after marrying a non-Christian. Remember, its God's time, not our time.
I have been single for all my life, my focus has been on self improvement and building my faith. Because while waiting for the right person to come, you have to be at your best to welcome that person.
And just recently there is a new girl just started joining our church and the cell group I'm overseeing, even tho I'm not particularly attracted to her, we still chat and hangout some times. I certain can see a lot of positive responses from her in our interaction, tho she kinda hinted that she isn't attracted to me as well but we know if the only measurement is attraction, once that is gone, the relationship will fall apart. So we instead focus on something more fundamentals like our principles, values, chemistry, teamwork, faith...
I am godly man..where are you from..
Their is NOTHING and I mean NOTHING more attractive then a woman who has a strong relationship with Christ.
I really liked this. A lot resonated with me. I liked Sarah's transparency as well, it felt like the advice I needed.
Before a man looks for a " Godly woman" he should be a fine example of a Godly man.
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I was emotional at one point of this video, I had been dealing with a battle recently with modesty, like not just with what I wear but my motivations. And while watching your video I felt myself remember when I used to feel beautiful, and when I knew my value doesn’t come from anyone else’s approval. I finally felt that part of me come out again. Thank you. God bless you both!
Am 20, not thinking about marriage but God and my passion. However thank you guys for these advice when choosing the right person.🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️
Wow I love hearing the wisdom that the Lord has given you two. Sometimes God also just wants us to learn to wait on Him. It's like He is saying, If you never receive this relationship that you are praying for am I still enough for you? And Adam's comment about learning to wrestle with God is so true! When a relationship has depth there are real emotions involved and God wants us to take those to Him.
They’re beautiful
So so good. I have been single for many many years. As a couple, you are inspiring me. For some reason I do not see available men around me. I love jesus and growing in my relationship..He made me strong and healthy and still pretty at 62.
I trust in God's plan for my life and my future husband's.💗🙏🏼
So happy to have found you both. I am healing after another failed relationship. Your experience and teachings of god has touched the core of my soul. It’s taken me to the age of 42 to finally realise even as a woman of faith why I kept going through failing and short term relationships. You have taught me the way to meet my godly husband and this time round I won’t settle for less. Sarah I thank you and your husband for the revelation. 💕💕🇬🇧🇦🇴
I have to say, Sarah, I love how gracious you are. You both have such a pure dynamic, and the way, Sarah, you listen to your husband and let him speak (and even at the end you asked, "Actually, can I add something to that?" without interrupting), is SO beautiful. Christ is truly in you, and it is so evident, and I aspire to be like this to be a perfectly compatible mate for my spouse soon
“Wait for GOD’S best.” That’s deep. Cuz god is the creator of all so GOD’s best is probably DAMN good. Great message.
Thank you so much for doing this video,i'm so blessed.I'm 40 and single,here in Asia the pressure is real to get married at this age. I learn so much from your video. God bless both of you!
I think that modesty is very important whether your married or not. As a Christian I do believe that my body is mine but also the Lord's. I also know that there are men out there that are struggling with lust/porn/etc. and I personally don't want to be the reason why they are struggling or a trigger. "How can I prepare myself to be the bride for Christ" was so good! Be your best self for God, for yourself, and your future spouse.
This is so good! "The bride of Christ"🙌♥️🔥
Wow. Just wanted to let you guys know that this video really touched my heart. The part when Adam talked about his experience waiting for a godly woman is pretty much the process that I am going through. Thanks for giving me hope guys! God bless! Also, modesty is truely beautiful.
Truly enjoyed this video! This truly spoke to me.. may God bless you both abundantly! 💕
We are so glad it helped you, thanks for letting us know! May God bless you too!!
Early 50's, single, no kids, highly educated (geeky) but never dated, had close calls but never worked out...now what?
Fast and pray.
Really thanks for your sharing, this video really touched my heart. I'm 38 years not marriged, I'm in China, it's very difficult for me with sigle life here, the others think I'm not normal or with very high standard with man, everyone here get marry in early age. I'm still waiting and keep good relationship with God, this video encorage me a lot, thank you for your word, and Adam said keep high standard, we deserve better from God, I'll keep this word in heart.❤
I thought they didn’t let you guys worship Jesus over there?
@@tvhead7074 Thanks for your caring. We can worship Jesus in China, so many church build up in China and so many christian these years. The public church is totally open, but the family church was controlled in China, the family church worship secretly. During the pandemic time, the public church was forbidden to open, but the family church still keep worship every sunday, and not let government knows, we have many ways to worship God even sometimes in the rough situation.Pls don't worry. 😄
@@margaretjon3066 you’re welcome. I feel bad for you guys. Your population deserves a better government.
@@tvhead7074 It's complicated, there're so many heresy in the name of Jesus here misleading people, our government try to make all people safe, maybe others feel bad for us, but sometimes God use this way to protest us the real christian and the people. It's really hard to explain, but I think our government also try their best to get the balance.
@@margaretjon3066 I understand, you have to say what you have to say in order to be kept safe from CCP
23:50 I think that's an Andy Stanley reference. Great series if you've seen it!
Sarah is an amazing woman of God 🔥🔥🔥 Wait on God’s best yes Adam so good🔥
You’re so sweet we love you ☺️💕🙏
@@NowBloom Love You Too💕
Thank you, Sister!! We love you!! ✝️🤗
Thank you so much brother and sister. I loved everything that was said, but the one that stuck with me is when you mentioned that in your waiting and single stages, when people told you to date someone you say to them "No my wife's coming". Don't settle for less, wait for GOD's best. Thank you for this video and the prayer guys. May GOD Bless you more
Wow! I always feel so at ease when watching your videos. 💖 I always feel the Holy Spirit move and speaking to me through you guys. You’re a beautiful couple and you help give me a peace about many things I worry about as I am new in pursuing my relationship with Christ and desire to be a wife someday. Thank you for your wise words both you and Adam are great examples of Christians who bearing good fruit.
That’s so encouraging to hear thank you for sharing! Really encourages us to keep making content, that’s amazing that you’re pursuing a relationship with Christ and I know He has someone amazing for you! 🙏💕
Yeah this a wonderful message, Catherine!! God definitely has a Godly husband for you, just keep doing what you are doing, stay close to the Lord and wait on Him!! ✝️🤗
Great talk thanks guys.
Our pleasure!
I would listen to these a lot less and pray more - we can fall in the danger of obsessing with relationships and looking for the one rather then God - the purpose of your marriage is also bigger then you! It’s about each of our own salvation and gods work and also how the marriage fulfills gods work. NOT our fantasies and bullshit obsessions - sorry I say that with love don’t be blind! I pray the rosary i understand these are different sect of Christian’s still beautiful, the Catholic Church has given me clear light and life. I’ll be ok without a man. I been married had a kid been there done that. It really ain’t all that fulfilling guys - when you can’t share the fullness of god with a partner it’s basically a flatmate that gets on your nerves over time!
I just listened to the Mia Fieldes podcast that you spoke of and I'm so encouraged. I especially liked when she said to look for the evidence of what God said. Thanks to you and Adam for sharing. God bless you.
this is great interview, thank you
Thank you for this video!❤😊 it was funny, I just wanted to type here my question "How old were you when you got married?" ad he just right away answered on the video...35yo😄 What has touched me: "Go and wrestle with the Lord!"....I tought I can't do this😂
You are so beautiful Sarah! And Adam seem to have a very calm spirit! IT IS TRUE that at the early point we should spot the redflags, it is really much easier to say NO early on. Thank you for uploading this video:)
You are a nice couple, making good spiritual and good common sense. Good video!
The prayer at the end broke me down to tears. Thank you for this video. Thank you for that prayer. Thank you for your honesty and your humbleness. Thank you for your caring hearts.
I started praying for my future husband intentionally and asked God to guide me and I randomly stumbled upon your page, what a blessing these videos have been. God bless you both greatly!
same heree!! :))
I think you both suit very well!! I love your look especially in this video, Sarah! ☺
Currently waiting..its getting hard and i feel like im going mad. Will be 35 this year and women... yall already know 😮💨🙃. So hard for me to not get discouraged. I petition your prayers on my behalf please. Thank you for this video 👋🏾
I love it when Adam prays for us! You guys are made for each other!
You guys are so beautiful inside and out. You can see the presence of the Holy Spirit with you both
I'm glad Adam mentioned the bible highlighting part. My car got broken into and they stole my purse. The only thing that was in my purse was my Bible. It was very old and all highlighted, I knew where every verse was. I got a new Bible and I won't be highlighting it. At the end of the day what matters is that I have the scripture in mind and heart
The eagle and the seagull! Amazing! Beautiful video.
Sarah i just found your channel!!! I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR CONTENT!!!! New subbie
Such a great video ! I went through a tough time recently, i had to let go of a relationship that wasn't Godly at all and was making me depressed, anxious and made me cry and doubt everyday... I am so glad to have ended it even though it was difficult. But I am making the promise to myself that i am going to wait on the Lord, and i have faith that one day i will find a godly husband ! Until then I will better myself in every area, and grow spiritually! Thank you for this awesome video, may God bless you both abundantly !! And also all the people in the comment section
I thought I heard it all on being single and living in the season of singleness, but I learned a lot from this and the Holy Spirit was teaching and convicting me through it. Thank you and God bless!
Tied into number one, I think it's important to ask, does she FEAR the Lord. I woman who fears the Lord (as well as loves) will act as though she does.
Godly men are just men. Don't put them on a pedestal as if they are "different" from other men.
They want the same things as any man. The only other requirement is that the women to have the same faith as him.
Wow God, on time much? 😅 Richly blessed and encouraged through this video 🙌🏼 thank you both for this!
Why you cut Adam off at the end !! “That was sho” SHO WHAT !!!! hehe love u guys
LOL I turned the camera off 😂 it was his idea to keep the end he luved it. I’m glad u liked it 🤣💕
Hey, Kendra!! We miss you!!
Haha, she cut me off!!
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