When these conversations aren’t talked about by Christians, it leaves room for culture to fill in the gaps. My girlfriend and I look up to you guys a lot. Thanks for your videos!
As christians, we should see having sex as a normal routine within a marriage. It’s God’s greatest gift for us. Because there’s so much sexual immorality, God commanded us to get married so that we can have that one partner to enjoy sex with. Sex is never dirty and shameful because it’s created by God for us to enjoy, and our parents had sex in order for us to be in this world today. The obvious reason for sex is to procreate, where a man and a woman join their sexual organs together and subsequently the joining of their sex cells to produce a baby. But God also wants us to enjoy the physical and emotional bonding that comes with sex.
@@ToriAndChad I didn’t even know sex was meant to be the way you explained until seeing this video, and I was raised in a Christian family, it’s sad. What you explained, that’s what I want, not what culture shoves down my throat. I wish I would have known, otherwise I wouldn’t have made certain decisions in the past and struggled with lust and addiction to pornography. But that’s in the past, and I am infinitely forgiven. Thank you for posting this.
@@ToriAndChad I am a Christian woman who married my husband on Feb 21, 2016, divorced him on Dec 13, 2019, and reconciled (not legally) on Dec 24, 2019, and, although I haven’t felt the urge from God to get legally remarried, we realized that we still love each other and want to be together. So, we do have sex, and I want to say that, unlike my past sexual relationships outside of marriage, I don’t feel the guilt or shame. I will say that I’m a bit of a perfectionist when it comes to my faith (praying, reading my bible etc.), but, in my particular situation, I’m not sure how to fully perceive it because I know that on one hand sex outside of marriage is a sin, but on the other hand God wants us to reconcile if possible, and I’ve read through my bible once, and I’m on my second time from beginning to end and, unless I missed something, I didn’t see where it said we had to reconcile on paper to be considered husband and wife again🤷🏻♀️ Anyways, I just thought that I’d share my story and get some opinions outside of my own on this particular subject. 💗Jen from AK
I appreciate this video so so much. The church doesn’t openly talk about it. We only got “sex advice” right before we got married. I’m so glad we waited till marriage. Thanks for being real and emotional Tori! 💙💙
Anyone else wish they could send these to a girl they’re talking to? I’m with someone who’s still working on herself and she says she has baggage and doesn’t want to burden anyone. Now I believe what you guys are saying about how we enter each others houses with baggage and we are willing to do that for each other.
i love the way y’all approached this. purity culture creates such a toxic mindset of fear in girls & i hope that the church begins to lean into girls and show them into deep love for God rather than shame/fear of sex before marriage. when we are so in love with God we WANT to honor Him because of how much our hearts and minds are aligned with his. also i just got married and can see how much the Lord blesses those who keep His commandments and seek His heart in dating relationships🤍
There is a difference between just simply saying avoid sex because it is dirty and shameful and saying that sex is a beautiful gift from God to be shared with your spouse in a marriage.
"Purity culture is toxic" oh yeah? Are Jesus and Saint Paul also toxic? They said that those who sin will burn in hell (except those who believe in the name of Christ and repent) They said that if you engage in these types of sin (sexual immorality) you would be barred from entering the kingdom of God. Purity culture echoes what the Bible says word for word, i dont see the problem.
What a great topic! My husband and I were really struggling to resist because we started dating in high school where we heard every day what everyone else was doing and it was hard to not push the limits. We ended up breaking up after two years because we had crossed set boundaries too many times and our relationship was not centered around God anymore, but around each other and our desires for each other. We still loved each other like crazy and we wrote letters until we got back to our hometown at the start of COVID. My man immediately asked to see me again and asked if he could date me again. However, this time we decided to not even kiss to eliminate any opportunity for crossing boundaries. A couple months later he proposed to me and asked me to marry him by the end of the summer. We were engaged for only 6 weeks and it made it sooooooo much easier to not feel crazy temptation knowing I was with my future husband. We are so grateful that we waited and it has helped us to start our relationship centered AROUND GOD and not on each other. If anyone reading this is experiencing this struggle, you can ALWAYS start over! We found that it helped to take a break from each other and start with a clean slate. It was also most helpful to not even kiss since we weren't good at setting situational boundaries. It is so worth the wait and it makes it so much more special to wait.
Wow, this is exactly what happened between I and my boyfriend , we came back together this month of October after a 1 year break-up due to the guilt we had knowing that we weren't doing the right thing. Now it feels so brand new and peaceful
Can u please talk about resisting lustful thoughts as a single? I feel like the focus is often on like how to avoid going to far with your bf/gf but not your thoughts when you are single or even in a relationship as well
When you started crying Tori I felt that. As a single mother who was never married, I still feel shame for having a kid out of wedlock when most of my friends are married with a few kids. I would say "I did this out of order so now ill never get a Godly relationship because of this baggage." However, I now know that this is a lie. I love my daughter more than anything and I have quite the testimony to share.
i have always thought the exact same way. i always tell myself that no christian man actually following God will want me because i already have a kid, but i have faith if marriage is His will for my life, it will happen 💙 so i just keep praying for my future husband
@@harleighstringer that's the point: A man following God. If a man follows God, and God leads him to you, he will accept and love you even with a child. Nothing can oppose God's will.
@@isabelmarguerite5560 Out of all the comments posted about this video, yours spoke to me the most and your love and wisdom really shine through........like God is working through you. When/if like me, your heart has so much to give and offer to a life long spouse with a kind heart and you pray for this..........but then for decades it just doesn't happen, your faith is truly tested. Some of my life experiences and not relationship ones, make me feel like God has forsaken me. Mucb more than anything I have missed out on, this makes me feel really sad inside. God bless you for your love and light.
Wow! thanks for saying that! it is so encouraging to hear that someone from a different belief appreciates what we have to share! It means a lot, Jasmine. Thank you very much!
@@romanamalik9857 for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven❤❤🌈🌈
Oh man, it's barely started, and I am already loving this. (I am just typing this as I watch): -We push many rules and boundaries, but we do not focus on HEART TRANSFORMATION; we focus on the lines & the do's and don't's. -We focus on how close we can get to the line without crossing it. *Why are you running to the line instead of running from it?* -Oh, another one! It doesn't matter if you are in love with the person, whether it is having sex in love or not. Scripture has outlined that sex is for the married. I have LOVED this! I pray that you follow where you feel God leading you for part 2 and maybe more segments after! I am looking forward to the next video!!
Aww that is so nice! Love that you shared things that spoke to you! it helps us know what people enjoy in our videos so thanks for sharing that! Can't wait to share video two!
I am Catholic and married, and you guys are knocking this out of the park!! I like your quote that "The enemy will do everything to get you in bed before you're married, and everything he can to get you out of bed afterward." This is so profound and excellent, and I never thought of this. Thank you.
Brooooo the part about being naked in front of someone and still feeling loved and whole and unashamed made me CRY likeeeee I never realised until I heard it said
Wow literally so thankful. One of the first relatable and honest Christian couples I have seen on UA-cam. I feel like I watch videos about boundaries or whatever and come away feeling deflated and more guilty. Thank you for being real! I am so grateful for how God is using you two to further his kingdom together.
Well it may help to know that we made so so so many mistakes hahaha but thanks for saying that... we want to be relatable and we want to share God's truth! But in a way that people feel empowered and not ashamed. !Thanks for the love!
I love how honest you both are here - especially about covering our eyes, hearts, and ears from the disgusting things the world tries to show us today. THANK YOU BOTH. 💙
i have a 2.5 year old son with my ex boyfriend. we were only together for a year and we've been broken up for 3 years... it STILL has a hold of me to this day. but i have decided to FULLY give my life to Christ, and im praying for the soul tie to be broken and for God to truly heal me
I would love if you did a video about forgiving yourself from your past actions and go deep into how God forgives us. Because I've been struggling with that. I feel like it's becoming between me and God almost.
What you both said about lies being fed in your mind, it's so apt! I'm 20 and in college and yes im waiting for the right person but in college, I have always been laughed at for the same. It's hard to keep your mind on track when everyone around you says you are wrong or dumb to think like that but I'm doing my best. Waiting for the right person may not seem right to some people now, but it will seem right later and it will be too late by then. The culture everywhere in the world is now to just treat humans as objects and it blows my mind. And about the songs, it's so true. It's really upsetting to see women to encourage all this. And it's not in the States. It's everywhere unfortunately. This was so insightful ❤️ love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I literally cried when Tori started to cry❤️it’s so sad how girls are being lied to and led into sexual sin. I’m going to help a lot of people one day with the help of The Holy Spirit✝️you guys are so blessed. Thanks so much. I love uuuuu. I’m soooooo gonna wait it out😊🤟🏾virginity rocks❤️
For a 21-year-old single girl, this really helped change my perspective on marriage and sex that its not necessarily all glamorized but should be handled with caution and grace because its powerful. Thanks so much! p.s. Pastor Mikael Todd has a relationship goals series and that really helped me too on youtube, it was awesome!!
Agree. It takes time to adjust from always covering up to suddenly being naked in front of someone and from abstaining from sex to enjoying sex. Just go at your own comfortable pace but remember to communicate with your spouse about your fears and insecurities.
Tori, just coming across this video today (and I’ve been binging your guy’s videos for the past few weeks)....you have NO IDEA how badly I needed to hear what you said. Shame has been a constant companion and just thank you for being the light of Christ to me today. I really have needed you both and your advice and witness during this season.
“In to me you see” that is SO profound!!! 🤯 This video was so so so great. I kept finding myself saying “yep. yep. That’s so true. Yep.” Lol because of everything I’ve gone through pre salvation and even post salvation. Many of us have or had such an unhealthy view of sex because of how we were raised, the examples in our lives, culture shoving it in our faces constantly- and you guys totally hit each nail on the head. I can’t wait for part II or a series because everyone needs to learn and understand this the way God meant for it. It’s all for our good! Love you Team Masters!! 🙌
Aww thanks so much Emily! So sweet of you to be a part of the team and support us and use so many kind words to lift us up! We are so thankful for you!
I’m not a Christian, but I have always had very similar views on this. I’ve always seen it as something special to be shared with your spouse. I never understood why anyone would risk creating life with someone they had not committed to spending the rest of their life with. I hate how society paints people with our views as unhealthy or ‘suppressed’ when we’re actually the ones who have a healthy view of sex.
thank you guys. I was in a trap of pornography that really led me astray. Now listening to you, I understand it more, and it changed the way I think. Thank you. God bless you both!
So True, before marriage Satan will use sex to drive couples to bed but after marriage he will use this gift of sex to drive couples out of bed and out of marriage...Thank You for Sharing...You Both are Beautiful...God is Glorified in Both of Your Lives. I'm Sala from the Fiji Islands.
I just wanna say I’ve always appreciated you guys so much. I’m 17 and have really been committed in my walk for a few years now...I view yall as mentors in my walk and genuinely appreciate yall bringing up the hard topics to talk about.
Thank you guys so much for making this video. I recently came across your channel and I truly believe God uses both of you to speak very clearly, it is very connecting and empowering. Funny that I skimmed through your videos earlier this week, hoping I could find this topic being openly and honestly discussed bc I have been struggling with this for years and it has affected the relationship I have with myself, others, and God in so many levels. I was about to take a nap rn before my mind raced with negative thoughts and what is honestly trauma from my past and from my broken relationship with my ex. I open UA-cam to clear my head with a funny video but yet this is the first one that pops up on my feed. I wasn’t expecting such powerful message but God wanted to speak. I’m tearing up from watching this video I just had to pause and take a moment for myself but also thank you both along the way.
This video really helped me! My boyfriend and I recently recommitted our lives to Christ and we both made the decision to wait until marriage even though our relationship has crossed that boundary! It makes me feel like I can relate to you tori!
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I ended a relationship 3 months ago because I found God and my heart shifted away from sexual sin and towards purity. What Chad was saying is so true. Sex outside of marriage isn’t real love. You love what the other person can do for you. You use them for your own physical pleasure. It’s selfish - the opposite of what love is (love is not self seeking). Seeing you two talk about this makes my heart so full of joy for when I find my future wife who also shares these values. Can’t wait to watch part 2 and part 3!
I really wish, that someday, soon, you’ll do a video about how you can get over your past and how to let God heal you from your past. Lots of love for both of you😍
I love how passionate you get, Tori. I agree, the music and media is so perverted and gross. Also, I wish the church was more involved in talking about these topics.
I agree that God wants to protect us, but it’s more than just heartbreak. He doesn’t want us to SIN against him by having sex outside of marriage, and his boundaries of marriage for sexual relations are to keep us from sinning against him. Sex within marriage glorifies Him, sex outside marriage does not.
I found y’alls channel today and I’m so glad I watched the whole video. I’ve been struggling explaining to my boyfriend why I want to wait and all the reasons behind it but I just couldn’t find myself saying anything and this video helped a lot. Thanks for being open and honest, God bless you guys.💛
Idk if it’s just me or if this is normal but just the thought of sex scares me. This is actual a constant worry of mine. I can’t even imagine being naked in front of someone and not wanting to run away and hide in a closet.
I don’t think you should be afraid. As christians, we should embrace having sex as a good gift from God for our enjoyment with our spouse. God has intended for us to have sex so that we can procreate. At the same tine, we enjoy the physical and emotional bond that comes with it. It’s just so wonderful to be so close to your spouse while receiving pleasure. And we should not feel ashamed to be naked with our spouse. Marriage is about the complete surrender of our body to the other person because we love them. So it’s the right thing to do in marriage to enjoy the naked body of our spouse and have sex.
Perfect timing, just perfect. I just broke up with my fiance, he lied to me and revelead he was a muslim, we allready talked about marriage but then he said he dont wanna marry me. Together we decided to go different ways, hurts because i wasnt true to myself, not anymore virgin and i feel so ashamed. I believe Jesus saved me as a little girl, allthough i backslided i have repented it and The Holy Spirit has gave me comfort in this situation. And i still believe there is someone who truly is for me and God wants only the best for his children. Be blessed ❤🕊
Very good topic and glad you are sharing it :) My husband and I were in intimate relationships before as well but once we became christians and got together we waited until we were married. And our marriage is truly blessed and happy.
About the vertical acceptance not being found in horizontal offerings, this is probably the same but deeper, whenever God’s will (vertical acceptance) CROSSES ours(horizontal offerings), someone has to die. It is either God or you. Think about it.
Honestly really needed to hear this. I don’t want to go into a lot of detail because this is public 😂 But I’ve definitely struggled with this and just have been fed lies from the enemy honestly throughout my whole life. God really is working with me on redefining how I see sex in how he intended it to be and not how this world conformed it in my head. Thank you both so much for everything that you do and covering the hard subjects! Praying many blessings ❤️
"You can't find vertical acceptance through horizontal offerings." "Why are you running to the line instead of away from the line?" Damn you guys, it hit the right chords even though my thoughts are aligned to each and everything you guys said. A really amazing way to put it forward, loved every bit of it. Thank you! It seems like I have a few more answers for the ever questioning world. A big thank you. XOXO
I highly recommend the podcast "Java with Juli" it's a branch of the ministry Authentic Intimacy a ministry dedicated to proclaiming God's design for sexuality. They have explored all avenues of sexuality (being widowed, to sexual assault to sexual expressions, or addiction to pornography and much more) and brought it back to the gospel.
phew this was so incredible! thank you for your honesty and love in this video. the enemy really tries to feed us lies and make us feel that our past is our present and there are sooo many people (including me lol) that need to know that those lies are not true. love you guys sooo much
You guys this was GOLD. Thank you so much for your hearts!!! I pray for so many people stuck in this sin will watch this ❤️❤️❤️ It needs to be seem. Also another book I highly highly recommend is “Sex and the conversations the church forgot” by Mo Isom, she’s also done a study guide and a course on the topic and it’s amazing!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 My husband and I were miraculously virgins when we married *but* definitely both had our sexual struggles both before each other and then with each other and regret it all. Like you said, it brings struggles. However, I have also been joyously amazed at the beautiful thing God has created, sex inside of marriage!!! And have become even more vocal about how good Gods plan is now that I’m married and I’m seeing the beauty of “the marriage bed is undefined” and “they were naked and unashamed” and all the the Bible has to say about sex within marriage. Thanks for speaking up and out! Like you said, our culture is FULL of sex, we need to start putting more truth about sex Gods way out there for this next generation! ❤️ Because sex is GOOD!!!! 👏🏻❤️
Oh sweetheart! Your reaction is so cute when talking about sex. I almost can’t even say the word because I react the exact same way 😂. Totally understand why you feel so uncomfortable talking about it. As well as it’s an important topic ❤️. Love this video. *like, subscribe*
I have healthy sex conversations with friends in the church all the time (as a single!) I share wholeheartedly all y’all said. this has probably been one of the besssst videos I’ve seen other believers do. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! For putting this content out here and for portraying the heart and character of God so clearly and for being so concise and clear with scripture and for being bold brave and vulnerable.
Did you experience a feeling of being manipulated or feeling of being utilized physically by someone with who you were sincere, if yes then how did you get out of that traumatic experience.
Love this video! My fiancé and I just graduated undergrad and grad school and are finally getting married in October! But going through college (even a Christian college) as Christians, it’s been really tough to stay pure of heart, especially when fewer and fewer friends are holding us accountable out of not wanting to “judge” us and other couples. But we both kind of wish that we had friends who were couples that held us accountable while still being honest about the common struggles. Watching your video kinda made me feel like we had that couple friends to keep us accountable and speak truth. The waiting until marriage when your almost married has been really tough and even tougher as we’ve had to push back plans due to the pandemic. Thank you guys for sharing honest struggles but still speaking truth and life! ❤️
Don't feel bad. There is nothing wrong with making love to someone you are in love with and deeply committed to. Expressing your feelings for your beloved is a healthy and normal thing to do. There are much better things to do in life than obsess about 'staying pure'. If you have the urge, and feel you are in a place in your relationship where you are ready, do it. It is much better than repressing your feelings.
Thank you for approaching this so tastefully. I knew when I heard “when lines are crossed and then there’s a breakup, it feels like death” I knew I was meant to watch this. Many blessings ❤
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 KJV, Jesus Christ is the only way........
I think it’s the other way around. What God meant for good the enemy turned to evil. But yes God can turn what Satan made evil into something good. God is all powerful and all knowing. He planned everything first. Satan only thought it was his idea but really it was God’s idea. So what I mean is God meant for sex between a married man and woman to be good. God created man and woman to have sexual relationships within the bonds of marriage.
Not all churches are keeping quiet about sex. My church preaches on the lies of the sexual culture and how Satan gets a hold on you through the lust of the flesh in deceiving ways promising fulfillment. But it does need to be talked more about especially to young teenagers. This is a great Video. Thank you!
Mind-blowing! I love this, thank you for your honesty. I relate to all of this and what I've learned is don't compromise the blessings the Lord has for you because of the "what if" or "did He really say that?"
Love these thoughts, Olivia! You are hitting the nail on the head! We will totally do a video on that... Also we posted part two today! Hope you like it!
Omg am Muslim and guess what all you saying we do no sex before marriage alx I never did before marriage covering the eyes and no music because today’s music is disgusting agree with u hundred percent
My husband and I have a great relationship with each other and love Jesus but don’t know how to overcome my sexual performance anxiety. He is not judgemental and is sensitive to my needs and gentle with me. I have a hard time allowing myself to enjoy it and feel like I’m a spectator and critical of how it’s going like it’s not “just right”. Then I feel anxious and push him away. I want to be a good wife and don’t know how to do this like God wants.
This was super helpful. I appreciate these talks, I struggled with finding love in others, and God saved me in 2017- now I’m walking my path of purity and waiting on God promise of a marriage he has in store for me. Hallelujah!!
@@ToriAndChad Tori, I was wondering if you and chad could do a talk about shame and about having a sexual past and how you overcame your shame. These are themes that I’ve been going through in life and I think it’d be so helpful. Tysm and ily ❤️
When these conversations aren’t talked about by Christians, it leaves room for culture to fill in the gaps. My girlfriend and I look up to you guys a lot. Thanks for your videos!
agreeeeeeeedddddd
As christians, we should see having sex as a normal routine within a marriage. It’s God’s greatest gift for us. Because there’s so much sexual immorality, God commanded us to get married so that we can have that one partner to enjoy sex with. Sex is never dirty and shameful because it’s created by God for us to enjoy, and our parents had sex in order for us to be in this world today. The obvious reason for sex is to procreate, where a man and a woman join their sexual organs together and subsequently the joining of their sex cells to produce a baby. But God also wants us to enjoy the physical and emotional bonding that comes with sex.
@@kennethfok 👏🏼
@@ToriAndChad I didn’t even know sex was meant to be the way you explained until seeing this video, and I was raised in a Christian family, it’s sad. What you explained, that’s what I want, not what culture shoves down my throat. I wish I would have known, otherwise I wouldn’t have made certain decisions in the past and struggled with lust and addiction to pornography. But that’s in the past, and I am infinitely forgiven. Thank you for posting this.
@@kennethfok beautifully explained!!
“God’s character doesn’t change if something deeply affects you or not. Gods character stays the same” wow.
Dang! i forgot I said that hahah We posted part two today!
@@ToriAndChad you guys are a blessing in my life and roll models. Im glad for the opportunity to connect!
@@ToriAndChad I am a Christian woman who married my husband on Feb 21, 2016, divorced him on Dec 13, 2019, and reconciled (not legally) on Dec 24, 2019, and, although I haven’t felt the urge from God to get legally remarried, we realized that we still love each other and want to be together. So, we do have sex, and I want to say that, unlike my past sexual relationships outside of marriage, I don’t feel the guilt or shame. I will say that I’m a bit of a perfectionist when it comes to my faith (praying, reading my bible etc.), but, in my particular situation, I’m not sure how to fully perceive it because I know that on one hand sex outside of marriage is a sin, but on the other hand God wants us to reconcile if possible, and I’ve read through my bible once, and I’m on my second time from beginning to end and, unless I missed something, I didn’t see where it said we had to reconcile on paper to be considered husband and wife again🤷🏻♀️ Anyways, I just thought that I’d share my story and get some opinions outside of my own on this particular subject. 💗Jen from AK
Thanks for this video!!
In INDIA it is mandatory both person to be Virgin before marriage!!! Here the culture is totally different!!
I appreciate this video so so much. The church doesn’t openly talk about it. We only got “sex advice” right before we got married. I’m so glad we waited till marriage. Thanks for being real and emotional Tori! 💙💙
Thanks for the love!!! And you're so right!!!
Anyone else wish they could send these to a girl they’re talking to? I’m with someone who’s still working on herself and she says she has baggage and doesn’t want to burden anyone. Now I believe what you guys are saying about how we enter each others houses with baggage and we are willing to do that for each other.
Y’all are incredible and your rawness to be honest with your viewers is so humbling, thank you for being an open book!
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! It's been a rough few weeks and I have been needing to be reassured about a lot of things.
Praying is just talking to yourself, that's why you pray for the same things every day.
So God just shoved this in my recommendations when I'm single? 😂😂😂
hahahha well not gonna lie, I wish I knew some of the things I know now, when I was single... but you're hilarious lol
Same as me
Girl, I hear you, It's like: DON'T KICK ME WHEN i'M DOWN
I like how Tori explains the enemy's intent with sex, to drive you into bed when unmarried and out of bed when married 💣
i love the way y’all approached this. purity culture creates such a toxic mindset of fear in girls & i hope that the church begins to lean into girls and show them into deep love for God rather than shame/fear of sex before marriage. when we are so in love with God we WANT to honor Him because of how much our hearts and minds are aligned with his. also i just got married and can see how much the Lord blesses those who keep His commandments and seek His heart in dating relationships🤍
YES AND AMEN!
AWWWWHHHH THAT'S AWESOME... BIG CONGRATULATIONS YOU TWO....... MAY GOD BLESSED YOUR UNION ABUNDANTLY...
There is a difference between just simply saying avoid sex because it is dirty and shameful and saying that sex is a beautiful gift from God to be shared with your spouse in a marriage.
"Purity culture is toxic" oh yeah? Are Jesus and Saint Paul also toxic? They said that those who sin will burn in hell (except those who believe in the name of Christ and repent) They said that if you engage in these types of sin (sexual immorality) you would be barred from entering the kingdom of God. Purity culture echoes what the Bible says word for word, i dont see the problem.
@@apracity7672 if that’s the case, the only one in heaven is Jesus. what is the point of the cross?
“You can’t find vertical acceptance through horizontal offerings.”
Chad Masters 2020
What a quote my guy!!
hahah well thanks, Cade!
“Intimacy = into me you see” wow that was profound.
"Sex is a wonderful servant and a terrible master"..
Dang that is deep!
@@ToriAndChad that's not mine... it is zac poonen's quote..
Lmao you basically switched that from money
What a great topic! My husband and I were really struggling to resist because we started dating in high school where we heard every day what everyone else was doing and it was hard to not push the limits. We ended up breaking up after two years because we had crossed set boundaries too many times and our relationship was not centered around God anymore, but around each other and our desires for each other. We still loved each other like crazy and we wrote letters until we got back to our hometown at the start of COVID. My man immediately asked to see me again and asked if he could date me again. However, this time we decided to not even kiss to eliminate any opportunity for crossing boundaries. A couple months later he proposed to me and asked me to marry him by the end of the summer. We were engaged for only 6 weeks and it made it sooooooo much easier to not feel crazy temptation knowing I was with my future husband. We are so grateful that we waited and it has helped us to start our relationship centered AROUND GOD and not on each other. If anyone reading this is experiencing this struggle, you can ALWAYS start over! We found that it helped to take a break from each other and start with a clean slate. It was also most helpful to not even kiss since we weren't good at setting situational boundaries. It is so worth the wait and it makes it so much more special to wait.
Wow! Our story has a lot of similarities! Love the idea of the clean slate! Thanks for taking the time to write all that out!
This is beautiful and I think I had to read this.
Wow, this is exactly what happened between I and my boyfriend , we came back together this month of October after a 1 year break-up due to the guilt we had knowing that we weren't doing the right thing. Now it feels so brand new and peaceful
Thanks for sharing such a great testimony!
Can u please talk about resisting lustful thoughts as a single? I feel like the focus is often on like how to avoid going to far with your bf/gf but not your thoughts when you are single or even in a relationship as well
yes that is so important and we are working on that type of video!!!
When you started crying Tori I felt that. As a single mother who was never married, I still feel shame for having a kid out of wedlock when most of my friends are married with a few kids. I would say "I did this out of order so now ill never get a Godly relationship because of this baggage." However, I now know that this is a lie. I love my daughter more than anything and I have quite the testimony to share.
awwww You're so strong!!!!! We posted part two today!
i have always thought the exact same way. i always tell myself that no christian man actually following God will want me because i already have a kid, but i have faith if marriage is His will for my life, it will happen 💙 so i just keep praying for my future husband
@@harleighstringer that's the point: A man following God. If a man follows God, and God leads him to you, he will accept and love you even with a child. Nothing can oppose God's will.
@@isabelmarguerite5560 Out of all the comments posted about this video, yours spoke to me the most and your love and wisdom really shine through........like God is working through you.
When/if like me, your heart has so much to give and offer to a life long spouse with a kind heart and you pray for this..........but then for decades it just doesn't happen, your faith is truly tested. Some of my life experiences and not relationship ones, make me feel like God has forsaken me.
Mucb more than anything I have missed out on, this makes me feel really sad inside.
God bless you for your love and light.
Not Christian.. a muslim but lots of love and really enjoyed your honest insight. God bless ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow! thanks for saying that! it is so encouraging to hear that someone from a different belief appreciates what we have to share! It means a lot, Jasmine. Thank you very much!
Same here 💗
Same here. Im muslim, but alot of things you say and believe are what we muslims also believe, and thats why your videos are so relatable
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@@romanamalik9857 for GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten SON that whoever believeth in HIM should not perish but have eternal life"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 3:16."But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:"-the Gospel of JESUS written by john 1:12. hi! JESUS loves you and died for you if you accept HIM! HE rose from the dead to show us that death cant hold HIM! repent and start living your life for HIM and when the time is right HE will get you to Heaven❤❤🌈🌈
Yes, please do a video about getting past your past!
We need to do thatttt!!!
Hi ❤❤😍😍😍
Oh man, it's barely started, and I am already loving this. (I am just typing this as I watch):
-We push many rules and boundaries, but we do not focus on HEART TRANSFORMATION; we focus on the lines & the do's and don't's.
-We focus on how close we can get to the line without crossing it. *Why are you running to the line instead of running from it?*
-Oh, another one! It doesn't matter if you are in love with the person, whether it is having sex in love or not. Scripture has outlined that sex is for the married.
I have LOVED this! I pray that you follow where you feel God leading you for part 2 and maybe more segments after! I am looking forward to the next video!!
Aww that is so nice! Love that you shared things that spoke to you! it helps us know what people enjoy in our videos so thanks for sharing that! Can't wait to share video two!
I am Catholic and married, and you guys are knocking this out of the park!! I like your quote that "The enemy will do everything to get you in bed before you're married, and everything he can to get you out of bed afterward." This is so profound and excellent, and I never thought of this. Thank you.
UA-cam dave hunt. A woman rides the beast
Brooooo the part about being naked in front of someone and still feeling loved and whole and unashamed made me CRY likeeeee I never realised until I heard it said
Aww that's so sweet! Make sure to watch the video we posted today on Part 2!
@@ToriAndChad just saw it there SO EXCITED
Honestly same, that hit so hard 🙈
I love u
I like u
Am alone 😍😍❤❤💑💑🌷🌷
Wow literally so thankful. One of the first relatable and honest Christian couples I have seen on UA-cam. I feel like I watch videos about boundaries or whatever and come away feeling deflated and more guilty. Thank you for being real! I am so grateful for how God is using you two to further his kingdom together.
Well it may help to know that we made so so so many mistakes hahaha but thanks for saying that... we want to be relatable and we want to share God's truth! But in a way that people feel empowered and not ashamed. !Thanks for the love!
I love how honest you both are here - especially about covering our eyes, hearts, and ears from the disgusting things the world tries to show us today. THANK YOU BOTH. 💙
Thank you, Sam!
i have a 2.5 year old son with my ex boyfriend. we were only together for a year and we've been broken up for 3 years... it STILL has a hold of me to this day. but i have decided to FULLY give my life to Christ, and im praying for the soul tie to be broken and for God to truly heal me
I know I am late seeing this, but I am praying for you!
I’m only a few minutes in and started crying when tori did😭🤍
awww so sweet!
“Why are you running to the line & not away from the line” wow! 🤯
I would love if you did a video about forgiving yourself from your past actions and go deep into how God forgives us. Because I've been struggling with that. I feel like it's becoming between me and God almost.
Yes we are working on that!!!
What you both said about lies being fed in your mind, it's so apt! I'm 20 and in college and yes im waiting for the right person but in college, I have always been laughed at for the same. It's hard to keep your mind on track when everyone around you says you are wrong or dumb to think like that but I'm doing my best. Waiting for the right person may not seem right to some people now, but it will seem right later and it will be too late by then. The culture everywhere in the world is now to just treat humans as objects and it blows my mind. And about the songs, it's so true. It's really upsetting to see women to encourage all this. And it's not in the States. It's everywhere unfortunately.
This was so insightful ❤️ love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️
What a video!! Every young person should watch this and receive some perspective 💕.
Bless you Chad and Tori 🎉
Thanks for the love Whitney!!!
I literally cried when Tori started to cry❤️it’s so sad how girls are being lied to and led into sexual sin. I’m going to help a lot of people one day with the help of The Holy Spirit✝️you guys are so blessed. Thanks so much. I love uuuuu. I’m soooooo gonna wait it out😊🤟🏾virginity rocks❤️
For a 21-year-old single girl, this really helped change my perspective on marriage and sex that its not necessarily all glamorized but should be handled with caution and grace because its powerful. Thanks so much! p.s. Pastor Mikael Todd has a relationship goals series and that really helped me too on youtube, it was awesome!!
Aww thanks for telling us that, Megan! That means so much!
I feel even after marriage there should be a transition period. To go from boundaries to no boundaries in 24 hours would be a big shocker for me.
Agree. It takes time to adjust from always covering up to suddenly being naked in front of someone and from abstaining from sex to enjoying sex. Just go at your own comfortable pace but remember to communicate with your spouse about your fears and insecurities.
Same I was thinking I'd want to sleep in the bed with clothes on and slowly get comfortable being close to each other.
Tori, just coming across this video today (and I’ve been binging your guy’s videos for the past few weeks)....you have NO IDEA how badly I needed to hear what you said. Shame has been a constant companion and just thank you for being the light of Christ to me today. I really have needed you both and your advice and witness during this season.
we need a podcast.. i need a podcast. I loved this, thank you.
“In to me you see” that is SO profound!!! 🤯
This video was so so so great. I kept finding myself saying “yep. yep. That’s so true. Yep.” Lol because of everything I’ve gone through pre salvation and even post salvation. Many of us have or had such an unhealthy view of sex because of how we were raised, the examples in our lives, culture shoving it in our faces constantly- and you guys totally hit each nail on the head. I can’t wait for part II or a series because everyone needs to learn and understand this the way God meant for it. It’s all for our good! Love you Team Masters!! 🙌
Aww thanks so much Emily! So sweet of you to be a part of the team and support us and use so many kind words to lift us up! We are so thankful for you!
I’m not a Christian, but I have always had very similar views on this. I’ve always seen it as something special to be shared with your spouse. I never understood why anyone would risk creating life with someone they had not committed to spending the rest of their life with. I hate how society paints people with our views as unhealthy or ‘suppressed’ when we’re actually the ones who have a healthy view of sex.
Just thank you for your brave to talk about so serious topic!
Thanks for saying that... It's not easy to talk about these topics, but it is worth it for everyones sake...
Hope you'll do a q&a on this topic!
We totally should!
Can't wait for part 2!
thank you guys. I was in a trap of pornography that really led me astray. Now listening to you, I understand it more, and it changed the way I think. Thank you. God bless you both!
So True, before marriage Satan will use sex to drive couples to bed but after marriage he will use this gift of sex to drive couples out of bed and out of marriage...Thank You for Sharing...You Both are Beautiful...God is Glorified in Both of Your Lives. I'm Sala from the Fiji Islands.
I just wanna say I’ve always appreciated you guys so much. I’m 17 and have really been committed in my walk for a few years now...I view yall as mentors in my walk and genuinely appreciate yall bringing up the hard topics to talk about.
aww thanks for saying that!
Thank you guys so much for making this video. I recently came across your channel and I truly believe God uses both of you to speak very clearly, it is very connecting and empowering. Funny that I skimmed through your videos earlier this week, hoping I could find this topic being openly and honestly discussed bc I have been struggling with this for years and it has affected the relationship I have with myself, others, and God in so many levels.
I was about to take a nap rn before my mind raced with negative thoughts and what is honestly trauma from my past and from my broken relationship with my ex. I open UA-cam to clear my head with a funny video but yet this is the first one that pops up on my feed. I wasn’t expecting such powerful message but God wanted to speak.
I’m tearing up from watching this video I just had to pause and take a moment for myself but also thank you both along the way.
Awww wow! That means so much!!! You're so special to us!
This video really helped me! My boyfriend and I recently recommitted our lives to Christ and we both made the decision to wait until marriage even though our relationship has crossed that boundary! It makes me feel like I can relate to you tori!
I have the utmost respect for Tori. You're a blessed man, Chad.
Amen!
I know, you two will probably never see this.. and thats ok,,, what God is doing with you two is a blessing.... wanted to write amazing,,, but a blessing is more fitting...missionary parents,, just for a background,,, what u say is so true,,, THANKYOU!!!!! who knows how many you have blessed by being so open,,,, vulnerable,,, true.....i know, so many suggest. so much..... my church in vegas... 2 in mexico, 2 in florida, 1 in arizona,, 1 in australia,, 3 campuses in vegas.... centralonline.tv if u two r ever in vegas,,,,,,,,so funny,, want to offer my place but of course u would have hotels,,,, but would pick u dup for service if you wanted to join me,,, were the 2nd largest food plantry in nevada.... now,, largest.. working with 3 square... 800,000 lbs of food in 2019... 10 million lbs of food last year.... Natalie Grant and Danny Gocky here in concert......God bless u two... and may God continue to use u.....
and yes. was not a virgin too....God bless...
I ended a relationship 3 months ago because I found God and my heart shifted away from sexual sin and towards purity. What Chad was saying is so true. Sex outside of marriage isn’t real love. You love what the other person can do for you. You use them for your own physical pleasure. It’s selfish - the opposite of what love is (love is not self seeking). Seeing you two talk about this makes my heart so full of joy for when I find my future wife who also shares these values. Can’t wait to watch part 2 and part 3!
if you do not feel loved ( a friends DR. Recommended this) adopt a cat or dog. you will receive unconditional love from them.
amen! hahah
They (pups) adopted me, what a blessing. I have no friends & our church is closed. Im alone not lonely. I am celibate & studying the word of God
I really wish, that someday, soon, you’ll do a video about how you can get over your past and how to let God heal you from your past. Lots of love for both of you😍
We are working on that!!! Also We posted part two today!
FINALLYYYY a popular christian couple i love on youtube dares to mention abortion! praise God
I love how passionate you get, Tori. I agree, the music and media is so perverted and gross. Also, I wish the church was more involved in talking about these topics.
I agree that God wants to protect us, but it’s more than just heartbreak. He doesn’t want us to SIN against him by having sex outside of marriage, and his boundaries of marriage for sexual relations are to keep us from sinning against him. Sex within marriage glorifies Him, sex outside marriage does not.
I am Muslim and our religion says the same abt it and I totally agree god just be trying to protect us
Amen!
I love this couple, so Godlike in character, impactful... I subscribe
I found y’alls channel today and I’m so glad I watched the whole video. I’ve been struggling explaining to my boyfriend why I want to wait and all the reasons behind it but I just couldn’t find myself saying anything and this video helped a lot. Thanks for being open and honest, God bless you guys.💛
If he doesn't understand why you want to wait then is he even a true follower of Christ?
Idk if it’s just me or if this is normal but just the thought of sex scares me. This is actual a constant worry of mine. I can’t even imagine being naked in front of someone and not wanting to run away and hide in a closet.
We posted part two today! Hope it helps with that worry a little bit
I don’t think you should be afraid. As christians, we should embrace having sex as a good gift from God for our enjoyment with our spouse. God has intended for us to have sex so that we can procreate. At the same tine, we enjoy the physical and emotional bond that comes with it. It’s just so wonderful to be so close to your spouse while receiving pleasure. And we should not feel ashamed to be naked with our spouse. Marriage is about the complete surrender of our body to the other person because we love them. So it’s the right thing to do in marriage to enjoy the naked body of our spouse and have sex.
Perfect timing, just perfect. I just broke up with my fiance, he lied to me and revelead he was a muslim, we allready talked about marriage but then he said he dont wanna marry me. Together we decided to go different ways, hurts because i wasnt true to myself, not anymore virgin and i feel so ashamed. I believe Jesus saved me as a little girl, allthough i backslided i have repented it and The Holy Spirit has gave me comfort in this situation. And i still believe there is someone who truly is for me and God wants only the best for his children. Be blessed ❤🕊
dang that is wild... thank you for sharing that... Part two got posted today!!!
Very good topic and glad you are sharing it :) My husband and I were in intimate relationships before as well but once we became christians and got together we waited until we were married. And our marriage is truly blessed and happy.
About the vertical acceptance not being found in horizontal offerings, this is probably the same but deeper, whenever God’s will (vertical acceptance) CROSSES ours(horizontal offerings), someone has to die. It is either God or you. Think about it.
I love that! That's so good!
Honestly really needed to hear this. I don’t want to go into a lot of detail because this is public 😂 But I’ve definitely struggled with this and just have been fed lies from the enemy honestly throughout my whole life. God really is working with me on redefining how I see sex in how he intended it to be and not how this world conformed it in my head. Thank you both so much for everything that you do and covering the hard subjects! Praying many blessings ❤️
So happy it spoke to you, Melissa!
The intro, epic .🔥
I scroll down expecting to see 100k+ subs, shock on me
Content, amazing.
My sub, you earned it. 💯
this is good!! chad should talk more about walking out of porn addiction and fighting temptation. you guys are SO great🤍
will definitely do that in the future!
"You can't find vertical acceptance through horizontal offerings." "Why are you running to the line instead of away from the line?" Damn you guys, it hit the right chords even though my thoughts are aligned to each and everything you guys said. A really amazing way to put it forward, loved every bit of it. Thank you! It seems like I have a few more answers for the ever questioning world. A big thank you. XOXO
I highly recommend the podcast "Java with Juli" it's a branch of the ministry Authentic Intimacy a ministry dedicated to proclaiming God's design for sexuality. They have explored all avenues of sexuality (being widowed, to sexual assault to sexual expressions, or addiction to pornography and much more) and brought it back to the gospel.
Love that!!! thanks for the recommendation!
phew this was so incredible! thank you for your honesty and love in this video. the enemy really tries to feed us lies and make us feel that our past is our present and there are sooo many people (including me lol) that need to know that those lies are not true. love you guys sooo much
Yes He does, and we are trying to do the one thing that he doesn't want us to do.. We love you trin!
You guys this was GOLD. Thank you so much for your hearts!!! I pray for so many people stuck in this sin will watch this ❤️❤️❤️ It needs to be seem. Also another book I highly highly recommend is “Sex and the conversations the church forgot” by Mo Isom, she’s also done a study guide and a course on the topic and it’s amazing!
dang we will need to look that up!!
I'm Done with slavery! I Only Want God's will!
YESS AND AMEN!
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My husband and I were miraculously virgins when we married *but* definitely both had our sexual struggles both before each other and then with each other and regret it all. Like you said, it brings struggles. However, I have also been joyously amazed at the beautiful thing God has created, sex inside of marriage!!! And have become even more vocal about how good Gods plan is now that I’m married and I’m seeing the beauty of “the marriage bed is undefined” and “they were naked and unashamed” and all the the Bible has to say about sex within marriage. Thanks for speaking up and out! Like you said, our culture is FULL of sex, we need to start putting more truth about sex Gods way out there for this next generation! ❤️ Because sex is GOOD!!!! 👏🏻❤️
Part two got posted today!!!
A video series on boundaries with friends and possible boy/girl friends sounds amazing!
yes we are working on it!!!
Oh sweetheart! Your reaction is so cute when talking about sex. I almost can’t even say the word because I react the exact same way 😂. Totally understand why you feel so uncomfortable talking about it. As well as it’s an important topic ❤️. Love this video. *like, subscribe*
hahah it is so uncomfortable but thankful for people like you who support us!
Recommend :
Sacred Marriage: What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy? by Gary Thomas
YES LOVE THAT!
This is amazing! Totally love you guys.
And Tori yes yes yes!!please do the video on getting past your past.
Yes we need to do that video!
Absolutely loved this. Would LOVE a video on forgiving yourself, your own past as well as your spouse!
We posted a video on shame and guilty last week! Hope you had a chance to see it!
I have healthy sex conversations with friends in the church all the time (as a single!) I share wholeheartedly all y’all said. this has probably been one of the besssst videos I’ve seen other believers do. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! For putting this content out here and for portraying the heart and character of God so clearly and for being so concise and clear with scripture and for being bold brave and vulnerable.
Aww thank you for encouraging us and thank you for being so strong and open about sharing with people! It is cool to see!
Run away from close as possible to sin and to living for the glory of God !!
thanks for a fantastic and honest video xx
Thanks for the love, Hope!!!
Would love a video on "getting past your past"😊🤗
Yes we need to do that!!
Did you experience a feeling of being manipulated or feeling of being utilized physically by someone with who you were sincere, if yes then how did you get out of that traumatic experience.
Love this video! My fiancé and I just graduated undergrad and grad school and are finally getting married in October! But going through college (even a Christian college) as Christians, it’s been really tough to stay pure of heart, especially when fewer and fewer friends are holding us accountable out of not wanting to “judge” us and other couples. But we both kind of wish that we had friends who were couples that held us accountable while still being honest about the common struggles. Watching your video kinda made me feel like we had that couple friends to keep us accountable and speak truth. The waiting until marriage when your almost married has been really tough and even tougher as we’ve had to push back plans due to the pandemic. Thank you guys for sharing honest struggles but still speaking truth and life! ❤️
Don't feel bad. There is nothing wrong with making love to someone you are in love with and deeply committed to. Expressing your feelings for your beloved is a healthy and normal thing to do. There are much better things to do in life than obsess about 'staying pure'. If you have the urge, and feel you are in a place in your relationship where you are ready, do it. It is much better than repressing your feelings.
LOVE how bold you are in sharing the TRUTH of God and his heart 🥺❤️
Thanks so much Sharon!!!
I DEFINITELY want the video you mentioned about forgiving yourself and the whole situation when you've had sex before marriage. PLEASE make it : )))
The forgiveness one needs to happen!
Yes! please do a video on moving forward from your past + healing from sexual shame. Thank-you for being so honest you guys are the best! 🤍
We finna have some healing in this channel!!!
Thank you for approaching this so tastefully. I knew when I heard “when lines are crossed and then there’s a breakup, it feels like death” I knew I was meant to watch this. Many blessings ❤
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 KJV, Jesus Christ is the only way........
Whatever the enemy meant for evil, our God always turns for good
Amen!
I think it’s the other way around. What God meant for good the enemy turned to evil. But yes God can turn what Satan made evil into something good. God is all powerful and all knowing. He planned everything first. Satan only thought it was his idea but really it was God’s idea.
So what I mean is God meant for sex between a married man and woman to be good. God created man and woman to have sexual relationships within the bonds of marriage.
Not all churches are keeping quiet about sex. My church preaches on the lies of the sexual culture and how Satan gets a hold on you through the lust of the flesh in deceiving ways promising fulfillment. But it does need to be talked more about especially to young teenagers. This is a great Video. Thank you!
Chad, have you shared your testimony on this channel before? If so, what video? If not, would you be willing? I would love to hear your story.
Totally willing to! Just need to write it all out and sit down to write it!
@@ToriAndChad can't wait!! It would be great to see more testimonies from men on the internet. I feel like I see so many from only women!
I need to do it!
waiting for part 2❤️❤️ SO AMAZING!!
hahah we may need to film and get that out ASAP!
Tori and Chad Masters 😂❤️
This was absolutely profound and really challenged me! Thank you so much for making and sharing this. So very well said! God will use this!
Aww thank you for saying that! We posted part two today!
Hey guys this is my first time watching you guys,you guys look cute and blessed...
oh wow! We are happy you found us!
This is so good. Thank you. Thank you both for your honesty and advice! I'm so glad I watched this. I will definitely be sharing with my friends ❤️
Thank you for taking the time to watch this!
i love listening to yall while getting ready in the morning
Mind-blowing! I love this, thank you for your honesty. I relate to all of this and what I've learned is don't compromise the blessings the Lord has for you because of the "what if" or "did He really say that?"
Part two got posted today!!!
Premarital sex damages both emotionally and spiritually .
This was so good and inspiring for myself! Excited for part 2!
We can't wait to make it!
Loved this so so much, such a healthy perspective and 100% glorifying God!
Love these thoughts, Olivia! You are hitting the nail on the head! We will totally do a video on that... Also we posted part two today! Hope you like it!
These kinds of conversations are so powerful at helping others feel less alone. Thank you Tori and Chad.
Omg am Muslim and guess what all you saying we do no sex before marriage alx I never did before marriage covering the eyes and no music because today’s music is disgusting agree with u hundred percent
would love a series about boundaries, especially in friendships and at work
Yesss! That is in the works! We posted part two today!
My husband and I have a great relationship with each other and love Jesus but don’t know how to overcome my sexual performance anxiety. He is not judgemental and is sensitive to my needs and gentle with me. I have a hard time allowing myself to enjoy it and feel like I’m a spectator and critical of how it’s going like it’s not “just right”. Then I feel anxious and push him away. I want to be a good wife and don’t know how to do this like God wants.
WOW. so so good. I would love to just sit and talk with both of you haha!
We feel the same!
This was super helpful. I appreciate these talks, I struggled with finding love in others, and God saved me in 2017- now I’m walking my path of purity and waiting on God promise of a marriage he has in store for me. Hallelujah!!
awww so happy it helped!
@@ToriAndChad Tori, I was wondering if you and chad could do a talk about shame and about having a sexual past and how you overcame your shame. These are themes that I’ve been going through in life and I think it’d be so helpful. Tysm and ily ❤️