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"MY GF IS JOINING THE ARMY, WUT DO?" | If they going to basic, they're basically single.
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Also been in the military, and I can PROMISE you, your chick will get dug out by another dude. It's inevitable. I was medical. There are more females in the medical careerfield than anywhere else in the military. Some with kids, husbands, bfs or whatever. It does not matter. Idk what it is about the culture, but cheating and sleeping around is synonymous with the military. And when deployed a lot of the girls turn into escorts. Yep, you think theyre over there on the front lines? Not at all, they on post charging the males over there 500 dollars a pop. Listen to the comments in this section. EVERY GUY HERE who was in the military is telling you the same thing. The girls in the military are literally for every body. EVERYBODY!!
And its not just the women .the men 2. They are ALLLLL doing it. There just happens to be waayyyyy more dudes and they cant all get some.
Everybody getting a turn. It's like riding a carousel at the county fair
Wow, I had no idea it's that bad
the streets, ring ring
Pin of truth
She's no longer your girl, she's the army's girl now.
She belongs to the TROOPS!!!
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@@obsidian00 SHE BELONG TO THE STATE!
@@anantprakashsingh8777 to the world
She belong to the government!🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s funny how when you’re young and naive about women your brain sees no red flags in his story lol but when you’re aged and been through the ringer a few times you see more red flags than a Mexican Bull 😂😂
Once you know you know and stay away
That's right sir
More red flags than a Chinese parade 🇨🇳
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I'll never watch those "military surprising their spouses" videos the same way again.
Where were you all this time? You can't watch that surprise video on YT, You gotta look elsewhere to get better understanding of what actually happened
just remember, for the most part it's not the guys playing while they're out, there are at least 10 males to every female so the females 100% have their choice of playmates. The spouses at home are generally not faithful either, I know SOOOO many guys that came home to evidence of their wife messing around. It's a lifestyle that's not conducive (imo) to any relationship beyond casual hookups, and those casual hookups in the military do not frequently come in a guys direction.
It's terrible for all involved, it's a bad scene. Join the service to get your life started, date once you're out. Get your life together and live better later.
Not all of them cheat. Yes of course it is bad in the military, but still not every single person.
Seriously lmao
@@TheTerryscotttaylor meanwhile it’s a fat pay bump and better housing for military guys when they get married. I know at least 8 boys that got married within 6mths of meeting a girl and them immediately left for training or deployment. The army as an organization is causing these problems by making it so incentivized to get married
Female vet here, this is facts. I was SHOCKED how many people got caught doin the dirty during training. Like, no inhibitions. Had one couple get caught banging in the field even after days of no showers. I learned real quick a lot of people in the military had zero standards. And sooooo many cheat. I dated 2 men and married 1 my entire time in. All 3 cheated on me. I tell anyone who will listen, this is a different life and stear clear of relationships. You will get hurt.
You were doing dirt as well you goof
@@anonymousbo0318 you sound bitter. I couldn't have been a more loyal wife. Do better
@@anonymousbo0318weird response to her comment..she didn’t say she did or didn’t just her experience lol why did this hurt you so 😂
Thank you I appreciate that since I’m trying to join the military I’m trying to get some advice
Im honestly glad there werent any females when i was in bootcamp (USMC). It wouldve been a detriment to our training if we had the distraction of females being amongst us. We were there to learn to kill, not become social butterflies and build romantic relationships
“If she goes to basic training, she’s basically single” savage 😂
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@@AxxLAfriku are you ok?
Truth though
When I was getting married to me ex wife my Senior Chief told me, "The secret to a happy relationship is not asking what happened while you or her were away."
Now I'm divorced. Thanks, Senior.
rest up king
Lmao
So I am guessing... you asked? @Gains Gaming Ginger
😂 balllllls deeeeep action
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Long story short, I'm an army vet that served ten years, married for six. I decided to finish my last contract and get out. When I transitioned out, my wife decided to join. I was her biggest supporter during basic and AIT. As soon as she got orders for her first duty station, I gave my job three weeks' notice and started getting the crib ready for transportation to come to pick everything up. Once situated, I hit the road and drove from Washington state down to Georgia, where she was stationed. Driving by myself, I made it there in just three days, and the very next day after my arrival, she blindsided me with a divorce, saying that she was no longer in love with me.
Shitttt. I'm sorry you experienced that. Can I ask what she said her reasoning was?
@@ridhwanali4429 The only thing she gave me as a reason was "I love you, but I'm no longer in love with you" and "We're just toxic for one another".
@@JrocTheApostle she was projecting her own insecurities onto you bro. Not your fault whatsoever. She saw her actions behind closed doors as toxic and the guilt made her call it quits after she realised how much fun she had having hooking up with other men. She defooo didn't love you otherwise she'd be with you even through the hardships. It's best to come to terms with it and realise that bitch didn't make you any less of a geeeeeee my bro
Consider it a blessing that she broke it off instead of playing you along. Based on the effort you said you put in to your relationship... you'll get a woman that's way above the league of your ex wife. Life goes on. Just gonna have to take the L
Stay blessed my bruddahhh
@@ridhwanali4429 I really appreciate that. I by no means feel like I was perfect and probably could have handled certain things during our marriage differently, but regardless of whatever her reasoning was, she didn't have to end things the way she did. I have never been in the business of keeping a woman that doesn't want to be kept, so if she wanted to go, that's fine, but to blindside me the way that she did really fucked my life up. I've had to endure many hardships because of her choice to be malicious, and no matter how she felt about me in the end, I never did anything to her to deserve that. But hey, it is what it is, but I know I will eventually find a woman that truly appreciates ya boy.
@@JrocTheApostle I'm so sorry you had to endure this and went through such a painful divorce. One day this event will be a blessing in disguise and a positive catalyst for your future life when you look back!
Well, this was eye-opening. I never would've guessed the military was like this....then again, I never would've guessed college was the way it was, either.
Life’s an illusion …
Never saw American Pie?
@Travis-February My military friends confirm this. Mostly all married people in the military are cheating.
When I was deployed, Saudi, Afghanistan, East Africa, wherever, I didn't know ANY faithful women in the military! None! I promise!
College in movies:🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽🕺🏽
College in real life: 😐
These folks are trained to kill...each other's relationships👀
AHHHH 😁🙊
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The fact that this has 187 likes makes this comment absolute gold 👌🏼
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U.S. Air Force here... And yes. You guys are 💯 percent right. Period. 👍🏼
Come on man...
Just drop us a summary of one thing *you* saw. It doesn't have to be detailed...
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@@jeremysears4263 Ok... She was a spouse. I had no clue, whatsoever, until about 6 months in when she openly and casually ADMITTED it. He was on deployment, and I was, unwittingly, in this dude's spot on the regular. 😐
New sage! What is you doing here 😃
Chair Force in the house!!!
@@Goffe909 chair force all day 😂😂😂
I just spent over an hour reading through the comments. All I can say is wow!
Right ? Shit’s crazy
Me too. Why does this happen? I'm genuinely confused.... I'm the most loyal woman out there, don't sleep around and been single for two years since my last relationship no dates. It's genuinely confusing to think if it is just a stereotype as I can't image every woman doing this... So confusing..
There's a female UA-camr I watch who was in the Army and from time to time she recounts her days in the military. She just started dating a guy who was "single" and she was smitten with him. One of his friends who took pity on her told her to show up to the front gate at a certain time on a certain day. She did and found out he was married with 5 whole kids. Don't do it and that goes for both male and female. Guys who are married are cheating, guys with girlfriends are cheating. Girls with husbands are cheating and girls with boyfriends are cheating. You're feelings will be hurt if you do.
I think US military is one of top 3 most likely professions held by unfaithful spouses
Maybe couples in the same part of the military together can make it tho
We got the whole US military in the comments confirming Aba's advice lmao
Frrrr 🤣🤣
I bet even the soldiers with ED are getting some action.
17yrs active duty and I concur
It gets worse than that, I seen dudes use their rank to destroy soldiers who had hot GF's
@@Peakfreud Been in since 06 combat arms army infantry... And I can also confirm, especially when you go to a Navy medical facility 😂
Here's some advice for females who are joining the military or new to it:
Don't date/hookup with someone in your chain of command/unit/squadron/whatever, especially in your first couple years. They *will* tell all of their buddies and make you out like some crazy porn star.
Avoid acting like "I'm not like other girls" because guys will assume that means you're totally ok with being used, tossed, and acting like nothing happened at work. You may think you don't care now, but when it affects your workplace reputation, you'll start caring.
I'd personally recommend dating civilian or someone in a completely different branch. Being respected at work for your actual ability to do the job well is a better feeling than whatever 30 second action you get from someone who could give two shits about your career.
Source: AD female for the past 9 years
I was trying to find a female persepective from one of the girls who slept around(No disrespect intended). Interesting though! Sounds like you have alot of regrets from the short term fun!?!?
@@klaiken989 It sounds like common sense actually. You dont need experience when you hear that shit ALL THE TIME. It's so easy to stand out in the army as a female because 70% of your co workers are male and its worse if you stand out negatively. You do not wanna be the female they run trains on. You're a joke
Found the underrated comment.
Sage advice but I imagine at that age and maturity level might fall on deaf ears
This can honestly apply to anything. It's why you date outside of the circle if possible. Since if you're looking inside those within are gonna retreat you BAD and or they gonna know whom you been with.
When they teach you discipline in the army, but you don't have discipline for your relationship.
Do they teach discipline or obedience?
@@Nostradevus1 Obedience, you can tell by how half the vets end up like after being discharged.
@@Nostradevus1 I'd say you learned both, perhaps first it's obedience but it results later on in discipline.
They don't teach discipline that way, as far as they know, if you are too horndog to function, they will tell you to "secure" it safely! So don't be criticizing out here like that, they make it as a personal issue, until it is not personal issue anymore!
SHIT!!!!! before i went in to military I thought they were all disciplined like ninjas BULLSHIT, they work hard and play hard, they get to drinking then all the pent up sexual energy, somebody getting fuck even if it's another guy. I alot of sexual assault went down on both Male and female in Navy.
I remember my Navy recruiter grilling me about integrity. Saying girls go and get ran through. I was turned off. I bailed out before basic.
You had sense
Not going to lie most girls don't have any business in the military. You are confined in a deployed space and even if the attention your getting is extremely passive it goes to their heads and they start picking one out of the pack and that is how the story starts. Guys make passes(Not Me) but a lot of the girls knowing that they are in a target rich environment just basically go after what they want. Regardless of their relational commitments. Imagine working 10 to 12 hours a day with the same people and never getting a day off for 12 months while deployed. Your in a stressful environment, potentially getting shot at, mortars hitting, some people on base don't come back etc. It could happen. You get a lot of stress and you get really close to people. Your locked in on a schedule and you generally see the same people everyday. Normally it would be with your guy friends but now there are women in these environments soaking up that attention like a bounty paper towel. If you want specifics I can enumerate on certain stories but suffice to say scandalous is the starting line in the race to see who can open their legs the widest. I know some men too, but mostly because of the ratio and the connections made women went down hard, sent home, pregnant the works. Out of the women who were deployed only two I know of made it home clean. One had sex repeatedly while deployed but her and her boyfriend were together on that deployment.
I knew one guy who was married during our job training. I noticed He and some girl started to become close to each other. Mind you, this girl had a boyfriend back home. Couple weeks in, they started to hook up lol. There was one time the girl's boyfriend came to visit one weekend right after she got plowed by the married guy. The guy's wife came to visit too and he posted on IG about how much he loved her and missed her. Like dam these people are cold as ice lmfao.
Happened all the time man I was in fort Campbell that shit was off the chain
29 Palms on the daily. Base housing for E1-E5 is a red light district.
This seems like legit sociopath behavior.
@@dieseldawg7132 This was in Ft Gordon during AIT, where restrictions were tight. Now imagine a place where military personnel are free to roam, RIP
@@trevorking2820 been there, done that lol 😂
Man the things I’ve seen in the military after 9 years of service and counting...she’s about to go nuts
She gonna get ran through
Her insides gonna get WREKT
Same bro! I am out of the military now but whew, I did see some shit. Geezus. 5s were 10s during basic and AIT training.
She for the Barracks
She's gunna get run through like the Subway Metro
I was in the military and i honestly don't know how anyone got their freak on in basic training. We were never alone except Sunday and the rest of the week we were tired, smelly, and the LAST thing on my mind was a guy.
You’d be surprised. I’m not in the military, but in high school I would do weightlifting in the morning and PT after school, and still be horny af when I got home. I imagine being this way when I do join.
Exactly! I never thought of soldiers as sluts or man whores addicted to sex perverts before I saw this video!
she lyin dont believe her.
@@ytb8361 have you ever seen a million dollars? just because you havent seen that, doesn mean its not there/ doesnt exist. arrogant little female.
@@openingshift7070 lol thats different. You get to socialize with friends. You are owned by the military here
Lmao, this takes me back when I wanted to join the army. My brother had served in the military before me. The minute I told him he lost his shit. When the recruiter called my brother went off… “ Do not call the MF house” 😂😂😂 I appreciate my brother looking out for his sister.
Bruh when I deployed in 2017 too many people were cheating. When word got around that i wasnt cheating men and women were asking me wtf was wrong with me. Working 12 hr shifts and working out at the gym before and after work and video chatting my wife every night until i went to sleep kept me on the straight and narrow but i was coming back to my room hearing married women getting clapped in the next room over. I remember it was a chick on my deployment that tried to get me in her room so bad. So much so she heard i played games and had her husband send her a ps3 and invited me to her room at 2am to play black ops 2. Come on dawg we know what it is lol. No
I'm clappin my hands for you brotha, a real man with integrity.
respect bro not a everybody got this kind of self control. the few comments like this give me hope
Respect earned 👍
You’re a real one
she had her HUSBAND send her a ps3 specifically so she could cheat on him? 😭😭😭😭 nuh uh
I was a military kid, my father was in the service for 20+yrs. This brings back memories when i was elementary school. i remember my parents fighting all the time in one instance my mom yelling at him "who tf is Rebecca?" My dad replied "shes new the nurse..." Never quite put two and two together till now. I don't how i feel about this. Apparently i also have an older half brother that i never met. My dad knocked up some chick just before getting married with my mom. I wish i didn't know this shit. I love him, he was a great father in regards to me and my siblings.
AY MAN... Folks are out here having existential crisis in the comment section.
@@AbaNPreach 😂😂😂
The social collapse is real, Kali Yuga is hitting hard.
Don't bother king, focus on yourself and try to do the right thing, in will be better to your peace of mind.
Which sibling?
Hahahah he's human. He's mistakes aren't yours to judge. All that should matter to you is if he was a good father to you.
Just had a friend finish her stint in the Army. She promised me that married or no, girls and guys were going at it like rabbits.
I am not going at it like rabbit since the very first time I joined! At least not in my chain of command anyway! That is asking for trouble and I don't want none of it
I've been through basic and AIT as a female, 19 at the time and I never thought about cheating on my boyfriend at the time through army. Alot of girls around me told me they did stuff and idek how they even did it because you're always being watched.
I know some people who were cheated on while they were away and it's terrible no one deserves to go through that pain. It's easy not to cheat just don't be a scumbag. I'm traditional and staying a virgin until marriage, currently I'm 21 :).
I was in the Air Force for 12 years and for the most part I stayed on the strait and narrow. Beside going to regular clubs I managed to stick to my beliefs. I have seen a LOT of girls cheat though. Congrats on keeping yourself together I am a like minded person when it comes to committed relationships and marriage. All the best.
You’re what we in the military call a rare unicorn props to you 👍🏼
Sex is not that deep to be cheating so much I don’t get it
@@CeCe-os3ul me either like if you can’t keep it solid with one person just stay single but nooo everyone in the military just wants BAH.
@@spqrapollo sounds like maybe some narcissist. People who can cheat like that and come back to their partners like nothing happened tend to be narcissist but I don’t want to throw that word around.
Bro this really puts a new perspective on those military coming home early/surprising significant other videos. Fuck this comment section gave me a real reality cheque
Have I been using reality CHECK wrong all this time?
@@MelonWaterMelon777 nah I think check is right, cheque is the money thing
@@MelonWaterMelon777 oops autocorrect got me there lol
@@MelonWaterMelon777 LMAO "...and your reality cheque was in FRENCH, too! Better pay heed."
😂🤣😂 same same
My ex girlfriend went to the military and before she got on that bus I broke up with her. She asked me to wait for her. I told her i’m not Forrest Gump waiting for Jenny to get passed around. She said she wasn’t like that. (I still broke up with her) a 2 years later I seen her and we had lunch together & we talked about her days in the military she said she slept with about 18 people and broke up three marriages and got in major trouble for the 2nd one. Then asked if I wasted to give us another shot? I said no thanks let’s just keep this how it is now.
18 people? Wow. And no cheating before she went there?
b-b-b-b-b-b-b-b--b-b-b-b-b-b-b-b-but you broke up with her, I mean still a skank but you can not really be mad at her.
@@lukewood2662 You all need to understand that women get wet as fuck around all those fit aggressive men running around. All that male musk in the air gets them very horny.
@@markeddeath6089 But did he say he was mad at her? And I think you can be upset at (or at least disappointed in) someone you've been involved with romantically and who is asking to be in a relationship again if they knowingly take part in breaking up 3 marriages.
@@titusorelius9458 Private give me 20 lap dances
I was the rare exception, met my wife after training. She is religious so that held her through, met in 08 married in 09 and we are still together. It takes a lot to stay together and not fall apart.
Christ will lead you through!😌
I wanna be in the military at some point as a woman. I mean I might change my mind, but at this point it is still on my list. I wanna be in Coast Guard and work with the canines or maybe air force. As long as I have Christ I can do anything not to mention He will keep me accountable. I will not let that immorality get to me☺
Oh something or someone certainly held her through...
I held her for you 🙏
Yeah, religious people never lie or cheat 😂😂😂
She was a born again virgin right after her service
Everything Aba said was facts, funny thing is I was in the army for 14 years & this is the norm but what's amusing is that I'm a Nigerian & the experiences of military personnel concerning this "ho" life is the exact same thing thousands of miles away in other continents. Had major deja vu watching. Big ups, Aba & Preach!
Loooll yeah
Thank you for your service Benson 🇳🇬
Very very true.....
She's on the battle field with the platoon going full metal jacket on her cheeks! Meanwhile he's being faithful. Silly fool.
From the streets did she emerge, to the streets she will return. And I say unto you 'She is for the streets. So be not weary, when she must return from whence she came
Future 1:1-3
@@roboturtle1429 Amen.
Log off bro
It’s Crazy that Military People have Crazy sex than Regular Citizens. Like BRUHHH
@@roboturtle1429 I thought that quote was from George Washington
"My gf is joining the army"
yeaaa she ain't ya girl no more my boy
She belong to the Barracks
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Mr. Steal yo Girl got them connections tho
Nah, the army is joining your girl.
@@TheDevilK lmaooo
Bro I was in the marines and let me tell you what man, everything you said is actually frighteningly accurate. This actually makes me want to make a podcast and solely talk bout this 😂
Do ut
I’m in the military and was stationed somewhere temporarily for like 5-6 months and had started digging out this one female. Told her from jump this ain’t gonna be nothing serious but when it was time for us to go our separate ways she starts asking “what are we”. I continued to tell her we ain’t shit, then she got to her new place and admitted all she really wanted was for me care. Funny thing is in a matter of a month while still talking to me saying she loved me or whatever she gets a new dude all while trying to still talk to me on the side. I told her to stop talking to me outta respect for her “relationship” but she kept trying to talk to me. Now she’s married to oh dude and he has no clue she’s a 304.
youre a good man
She’s government issued now homie. She belongs to the public. 🥶🥶
She belongs to the man
She belongs to the streets
Ew..
She gets extra pay being married 🤡
She belong to the galaxy
Being prior military myself, I was so glad that I was single when I went in. I seen a lot of what is in these comments. It is a harsh reality and a lot of people lack self-control. There is a small micro-percentage of people who stay loyal and faithful in the military and that is just facts. If you aren’t stable in your mental, you will be susceptible to every perversion known to human life.
@@griselgriselda2901 you’re crushing on this man 😂😂 just go for it lady
The first thing my recruiter told me was don't get married and if you have a girlfriend, break up with her. I did that. It was one of the best decisions I ever made. You don't need to be worrying about that shit while you are off in bum fuck nowhere and can't do anything about shit. I've seen too many dudes get that letter and fall apart, it isn't worth it, just stay fucking single till you get out.
@@TheBootyWrangler 😂😂😂😂😂😭 this man s wrote a simple paragraph
FACTS!!! Most people lack self-control especially when it comes to infidelity. Perversion is just desire run-rampant. If any of you fellows want to be a real MAN, learn to control what's between your legs rather than letting it control you.
Females have no self-control when it comes to the D so that's why I'm only speaking to the fellas, you're better than her bro!
@@griselgriselda2901 you are not wrong at all !
When I was stationed in Germany, the amount of wives that visited the single soldier's barracks was shocking. It got to the point where a CQ was posted on each floor of every building onpost and you had to sign in every visitor. Of course, it didn't stop them from room hopping.
I'm an old Boomer and spent 22 years in the Artillery. The military was and probably still is a giant wife/ husband swapping club. If his GF is joining the Army he should get married to her and get in on the action! I can't imagine being a young dude on the post when everyone deploys to wherever. It would be like a kid in a candy store.
Unless you're like that one guy who got caught in one of the other videos. But he looked like military and not a civvie
I see why my recruiter said, “Just remain single until you ship out, it will save you a heartache”
Yep because you were free to get them guts busted OUT! Saved you the drama of having to cheat. You do you boo. Ive been with a few ex military broads. Just the shit theyll admit to could curdle milk.
@@projectblack2462 lmaooo I'm ded
@@tf-mr-blue748 Me too! LMAO
@@Ferocioussquirrel My boy Just had to let eet KNOWN her Guts Got rearranged 😂😂😂
@@projectblack2462 Yooo!!... I’m done.. my man said curdle milk.. 😂😂😂
And people wonder why I'm pessimistic towards relationships and marriages in general. Hard to build, but so damn easy to demolish.
All it takes is one bad decision or bad day or something for them to ruin it
This world gone dead in general. Not only with relationships, everything is spiraling down to destruction, decay and death.
Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
@@Scrubermensch it was always like this, but then we had military conflicts to release the pressure. We are no better than animals, our primal needs always goes first.
yeah my gf left me cuase she said i was cheating on her a week after I flirted with a girl my ex found out and said see it hurt me cause we been together for a long time
Served 6 years active USAF. I witnessed it all as well. I wasn't one that got around because my focus was on furthering my education and paying off student loans. My ex was also active in the USAF and enlisted before I did. We had a long distance relationship. He cheated throughout the entire relationship (looking back, I should have known better because it started when I left for basic) and he even cheated after he proposed to me. I finally broke up with him and from that point on I said I'd never date a man in the military. Served the remainder of my enlistment single because I refused to go through that again. Not saying there aren't any faithful people in the military but the odds of there being a stable healthy relationship amongst military folk are slim. Best of luck to the rest of y'all out there though.
As a non American , I'm shook I always had respect for people.who.served in the military especially from those " soldiers coming home" vids ....the reality is something else 💀
In high school, I dated a girl that was 2 grades ahead of me, we were saving ourselves for each other and were on and off. She graduated and joined the army, after basic training and stuff when she came back home. We talked and I could tell something was up, long story short. She wasn’t a virgin anymore and she told me a bogus disgusting story about how she lost it to some guy but it “doesn’t matter” and “she only had feelings for me” because we weren’t together. So I stopped talking to her completely.
My man...
You took too long to snuck in to her so some other dude did. 😜
Fellow Red Pill Brethren welcome.
@@bullseye6969 you're disgusting
i'm sorry for you man
Dude really dodged a bullet really got saved from heartache
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Facts, he needed to know that she belonged to the bikini bottoms
They go to the military to get BBC/BWC/Booty and then a nice GI bill. Sometimes all 4
The things that go in while they're deployed smh especially if it's a base in Qatar or the UAE where they can drink and go off base smh seen so much
Formererly Army for 7 years. I'll just tell you my experience simply:
I was 19. I went in with a girlfriend back home of a few years. We were honest with each other, there was no cheating but we ended things due to the space and being that young. Got another long term girlfriend shortly after. I tried to break things off before my first deployment for her sake. She literally did everything she could to stay together. That was fine, because I didn't want to mess around with Army women overseas. We had a 5+ year relationship through two deployments, no cheating on my side (99% sure no cheating from hers). Good relationships can happen, but they're difficult.
I would NEVER try to mess around with a woman in the military, though. Everything Aba is saying tracks. Theres guys trying to break this women down for sex 24/7.
Another point: you remember the girl in gaming video? The military guys around the military women are that cringe in a different flavor. It's not fun to be around.
Lol yea alright she was gettin those cheeks clapped while you were away, it's why she had such a strong psychological drive to keep you because she knew she had already put in the work to lose you. Sorry bro.
When I was 20 I dated a girl that went to basics. I would hang out with her best friend all the time because I was tryna stay faithful. Her friend would make little advances, but I ignored them cause I thought they were trying to test me. One day I'm talking to my girl on the phone and she's like she might get sent back home because some girls in her platoon got caught messing around with the boys. I played dumb and let it slide. "Like you must think I'm stupid stupid. Why would you get in trouble for other girls getting ran through?" That night I went over to her friend's, and let's just say I put on my own boot camp drill. She came back for the holidays and on New Years I drilled both of them. "That's a story for itself." The next morning I told her I couldn't this anymore. "The reaction is a story for itself 😂" two months later she was married to another dude. Two months after that she was pregnant. When the baby came out it was not the color of the dude she was married to. Fortunate I dodged that bullet.😉
Geeezzzz
This story made my day. I could write an allegory style comic bock from this comment section!
My nigga 😂
@@Grandmaster_Vic I know right, this fakin' guy 🤣
Write more I wanna hear lol...man I got nothing better to do hahahaha
My own sister joined the air force with a fiance and 3 kids, and got discharged for having a relationship with the drill instructor.
Damnn!!
@@shideyafudo Right 😑
Tf happened to the drill instructor😂
@@nightfighter7452 as far as I know nothing happened to him. Probably got a warning or write up.
Wow. What happened to the marriage after that all got exposed?
Ex-US Navy, this is correct. In the military, we have a joke about Jody at home sleeping with your girl. Nah, all the guys in the military are Jody. To the guys whose girlfriends are joining the military, break up with her.
Afterprisonshow uses that term a lot I wonder if you’ve watched him on UA-cam or not
First day in deck division I walked in on my BM1 and BM2 running a train on a BM3 female. THAT WAS ON MY FRST DAY lol.
23 years here...you speak facts. You lose full circle, leaving 'her' behind or sending 'her' away. There is always at least 1 man that can get to her. I deployed with one on a mild assignment, admittedly, she was solid for months, told everyone no. There was this one gent who came to our location on a 4-day R&R...she was seen around the R&R barrack and him several times...less than 2 months later, she was headed back to the US with a seed planted in her.
Facts
Yeah me and my girlfriend broke up before she went to the Navy, my uncles and aunts who are ex-military told me all about it! I'm glad we did we're much happier now that she's not being held back by me!
Even plain-looking females in the military suddenly become like the prom queen, head cheerleader, and runway model all rolled into one. All the male attention and validation she might have been lacking from her civilian life is about to be blasted from a firehose at her. Every 4 is a 9 in Basic and AIT. If you wanna get an idea of what the experience of being an attractive female in the Army is, then imagine the 'opportunities' of a college quarterback projected to be a first round pick. She'll have her choice of any one of dozens of eager D.
My ass was single and ugly as fuck in basic training and tech school. All I walked away with was tattoos and an alcohol problem 💁🏽♀️💁🏽♀️
I remember my Ex girl told me, “If I join the military, will you wait for me,” I replied, “Hell no.” I told her, “if you join, this relationship is over, that simple.”
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
King shit tbh
🐐 shit
I salute you Sir👌👌👌👌👍
Goated 🐐
You're speaking the truth lmao, you're not wrong. Man the amount of divorce in the military is ridiculous as well. The infamous Jody. Jody's got your girl and gone.
Oh boi!! This shit brings back some memories!
I don't get that reference, can you explain 😁
JODY GOT YOUR GIRL PRIVATE
Jody got fucking parade march cadences and shit
@@LordBandit200 Basically a male (some times its a friend or acquaintance) that hangs out with your girlfriend after you go active duty or on a deployment, and that former friend hooks up with your gf because he's there and you're not. Urban dictionary also defines it as:
a "Jody" is a generalized term meaning: any man who stays home while everyone else goes to war. He gets to enjoy all the things the Marines are missing, more specifically the Marine's girlfriend back at home while the Marine is away on active duty. The reason that they're called Jody specifically dates back to soldiers in WWII. They took a character from old blues songs named Joe the Grinder (or Joe D. Grinder) who would steal the ladies of inmates and soldiers, and clipped his name to Jody.
Male Jody or female Jodie (maybe even Jolene some say, but it all varies).
Worked at an apartment pool as a teen over a few summers... lots of military folks, as I lived in an area with two large bases (Navy, Air Force). There was one lady, the day after her man deployed she was down at the pool with her side-dude... like clockwork, every time. Shit just made me feel horrible. I don't know how people do that to each other...
I joined the Army after HS to pay for college (good call, that decision has paid dividends all throughout my life). I told my then girlfriend that we should break up as I was basically going to be gone for over a year. She said she wanted to stay together, so I figured what the hell, lets give it a shot. She cheated on me while I was at AIT. I wish I could say the stories should not be believed...
Listen to military veterans when we tell ya'll... "Military and Dating/Relationships just don't mix." It's literally illegal for us to cheat on our spouses (UCMJ Article.134 ;with consequences) and it still happens alot.
All I'm gonna say is, there's a reason the divorce rate is so high in the military. Some people cheat. Some people are always gone, which leads to them or their SO cheating. Some people just get out of their hometown for the first time and realize how much is out there. I'm not saying the marriage is guaranteed to fail, but there are some added difficulties to be aware of.
This is probably the most measured comment I’ve seen... all of the other ones just saying lady got her back blown out by half the platoon with the confidence of actually being there😂😂😂
Most educated response on this entire comment section.
This comment is seriously underappreciated. Of course that there will be difficulties with work like that, but it doesn't mean she will automatically cheat. Same applies to guys as well...
@@s1b3r11 I know I hated the stigma perpetuated by this video. It depends on the person and their own relationship goal. It's not related to the militery
well hello Sunshine 👍
My homeboy was in the navy and married. While he was on deployment his X wife who was a civilian on base let 7 different guys hit. Smh.
Basically a train ran on her ?
Sheeeeiiit
I guess. According to the story it was different times.
To come in where they lived you have to be signed in. That's how he found out.
I know a military wife with her dudes name tattooed on her that ended up with another dudes baby in her
In San Diego, you know when the Marines and Sailors are deployed by how full the clubs are. And when its close to the time for spouses to return home, the club scene gets a lot quieter. And thats when you hear about a husband killing their wife after deployment.
Ohhh my lord, ohhhhhh my godddddd this shit is 300% too real. Prior AF, had a good friend from high school that I didn’t stay in touch with reunite at the latest base I got moved to. Nothing blew my mind more then finding out all of my co-workers knew her. No no no fam, let me repeat, All. My coworkers. Knew her_
😳 ALL OF THEM???? DAMN.
Biblically knew her lmao
When I went to basic and AIT I was in a relationship. ALL of my friends were cheating on their others. My roommate did the dirty literally behind a dumpster. In the end, my battles congratulated me on staying faithful to my boyfriend only to come home to find out he had been cheating on me. If I could do it again I would go away single.
Finally, been searching for something like this. It's not exactly like the civilians handle it that much better. People just aren't meant to be apart. If you're gonna be apart, don't be a couple.
With all the respect, you didn't lose anything, a woman with a high body count belongs to the streets. You maintained your value and by not falling on promiscuity, you have more chances of being happy and satisfied with your future husband.
Woman really think that promiscuity is freedom when actually is slavery and brings loneliness...
@@suryamaghasimha6912 a womans value isnt defined by her bodycount please.
@@tanyag2487 Keep telling this to yourself in the mirror, maybe it'll help to cope with the reality.
You clearly don't know how Sexual Market Value works. No man want to marry a h03 (at the least not the high value ones) just like no woman want to marry a broke dude.
By your statement, I think I'll see you on Kevin Samuel's show later on.
@@suryamaghasimha6912 Based on what you said, my “value” is intact. I actually believe freedom is being able to do your own shit, whether you wanna have intercourse or not, without being put in a category and judged by the same men, that be doing the same thing left and right.
Also, If I love the man, I will marry him, even if he’s broke. Money is not a criteria for me and many other women. But continue with these false assumptions.
That's why you get in good with the medics. That way they can point out the ones to stay away from
they throw their job away that easily?
Why the medics, exactly? I sorta have an idea as to why, but I’m not sure.
@@mad4song01 maybe because any people contracting sexual diseases will go to them. Just a guess though might not be true.
@@mad4song01 they treat the pregnancies and STD's
@@user-tz7ft3up8y @Mike Scott I figured as much.
I was in the army for 7 years, I have watched so many girls know that they have a boyfriend and or a husband at home still give up the pum pum. Even worse I've seen it more when the husband's in the military and the wife is a civilian, because the moment he deploys she is getting ran through
Absolutely on point.
Married women with kids go full wild on deployments like crazy. Desert Queens.
My brother's girlfriend went to the military.... he went to propose to her after basic training... She was like "I want to explore my options..." 🗿now we know why.
rip to your brother 😔✊
@@guhd4378 Why? It would be much worse if she said yes, married him, and kept right on cheating.
@@Slayer8957 agreed at least she said something and was honest.
Sounds like she already did explore her options. HAHA!
"I want to explore my options..."=I want to see if I could do better.
I'm sorry but at that point look somewhere else and if she fails don't let her back into you life.
FACTS!!!!! As a single dude in the Army, I saw shit that made me not EVER want to get married. I actually said to myself, “If this is what marriage is, FUCK THAT!!!” 😂
Same here. Its disgusting at how beyond animality human behaviour can go...
People in general disappoint you so yeah coming from a married woman....stay single😒
@@oddgoddess5576 wow damn, you regret getting married?
@@swinfeflue I guess you can say that. it’s more so about the person who I’m married to but marriage in general is full of ups and downs😐 sometimes it’s great sometimes it’s pure shit but when there’s more pure shit moments than great moments....thats when hell breaks loose(this is excluding cheating) Cheating is not always the worst part of relationships and marriages honestly. it’s so many other things that can make you turned off from a person
@@swinfeflue
Most women do, especially after 10 years. This also applies to some men but a lot of men don't care either and are fine with it and don't mind staying in the marriage anyway, but that could be biased due to how the laws are in most countries.
At least in the past it was shamed on both parties to get a divorce but nope not anymore so no consequences for that now.
A lot of ppl in the Army (I an only speak for army because that’s the branch I served in) don’t honor marriage because they don’t get married for love, it’s usually for the benefits (housing, extra pay based on deployment or duty station, benefits for the civilian woman’s kids), then some are in a contract marriage they develop toxic feelings, and get other ppl involved by pursuing them, instead of tending to their baggage. And I see comments saying it’s women serving, when there are plenty of stories of high ranking men losing their rank or forced to retire because they cheated on their wives with a lower ranking member. Men lie and tell their wives they are in the field, when they really with their side piece. It’s trifling ppl serving regardless of gender lol.
That’s exactly what happened with my good friend he married this girl he was with for years.. then she went off to the Military.. then she met another man who is also in the Military... so basically came back divorced my friend and then ‘married the new guy!
She about to get it from any dude she wants in the military. Soldiers ain’t picky 😂
Fax
It it walks, they about to destroy it with the power of the Us Military's full might.
*men ain’t picky lol
Yea they’re also rapists
@@HiddenOcelot The nukes got nothing on em
I’m a army vet did 5 years and boot camp and AIT after is like a college campus it’s people from all over the world and country meeting and seeing new people shit be happening. I was able to refrain myself especially being away from my pregnant girlfriend and now wife of 9 years. I remember being in boot camp and girls would constantly flirt with me 🤦🏽♂️ I remember my drill Sgt saying “ you smashing these woman” Me: naw I got a pregnant girlfriend drill Sgt: we all got girlfriends. It made so much more sense to me once I got further into my military career the Shit you see 👀. The military has one of the highest divorce rate of any jobs in the states at least. I’m glad I’m not part of that statistic because i got blessed with my wife.
Respect 👍
Nice one light skin Jesus
Good job for staying faithful. These people make me sick
@@colindavis2113 you guys are delusional if you think women don't cheat. being proud of being faithful is like being proud that you've never taken your dog collar off.
It's so much easier for women to get laid than you guys are willing to accept. I hope you guys see the light soon. or it will be you getting redpilled someday.
@C R I believe it that’s why I said “one” of the highest jobs like those keep you away a lot so I believe it. It’s sad really
I work in medical accounting for the VA and Tricare, the amount of pregnancy test that don’t involve the husband is astonishing 😂😂😂. Don’t let me get started on the positive STD test.
i dont mind so much that people sleepin around in the military a LOT, its crazy stressful and just the training can get one worked up.... but all the cheating im hearing about is where this kinda thing really hits me wrong ::/
Currently going through a divorce as a result
of my husband being unfaithful while overseas in Germany. He met some chick that he supposedly “can’t let go of.” Sad part is - I had just had our son when he first left and I was fending for myself and our son while he was staying out late until 6/7 in the morning. He’s a Raven in the AF which had him traveling a lot and I didn’t mind it because it was only supposed to be for 2 years. Well, 2 years turned into 5 and I have stayed faithful throughout because I love him and I don’t take marriage lightly. The girl he’s fucking is probably with mad other dudes as she’s in the military too.. also a Raven. Can’t even believe the gumption of the both of them. No morals at all.
So sorry. :/ Screw him!
@@enaibee1661 trying my best to move past it but we have a son so moving on is making it hard to truly heal because he keeps using our son as an excuse to stay in contact with me... but he could easily reach out to my parents. Such an idiot.
Damn 😪. Sorry about that. I hope you and your child are OK
@@lemiphil2388 we’re doing good.. just trying to navigate this bs. I lowkey hope he knocks her up so him and his family will leave us alone. Imo no dad is better than an inconsistent one.
@@kiarajofficial 😪 This is really sad man.
I’m a black woman in the army , while cheating is ridiculous in here, a lot of ppl in the army also get married for the wrong reasons, most of the time it’s for money so no surprise it ends up in a mess 🤷🏽♀️
Knowing good people with morales like you exist, it just gives hope
Needed to hear this
I'm im the army too! Got married wayyyy to young only to end it. Why do us active duty folk get married so young? I guess barracks life is that bad!
@@sidniesantos8485
Something to do + fear?
Hope all is well now.
@@DC... i am good so far! Thank you for asking. Just did some therapy and self work! It has been effective and I acknowledge i am not ready for a relationship but my own personal journey. Truly a gift. Bless you!:)
I visited a military mess in africa. Had a female military nurse aii over me. I distanced myself from her when all the soldiers in the mess gave me a "special kind of respect". I senced there had to be something wrong with her.
I just re enlisted and listen... its a nasty world out here. Just got back from a 9 month deployment to Jordan and it was like whack a mole hearing stories of the homies’s wives doing A B and C while we were gone.Thank god im single
But aba she’s celibate right? 😖😖😖😖
UA-cam what it doooooo!!! It’s ya boy Steph on Aba and Preach’s comment section
Stephhhh
DIG STROKE ! DIG STROKE !
ayo simpiscold do you stay in your masculine seductive frame when your gf getting a train ran on her?
She gettin' dug out til she B...BUUUUUH ! 😂
First thing I thought of was that gif of a pile of hot dogs hitting that girl in the face 😂
100% b
Lindsey Ellis I think. Did that and a gRape song joke before going radical feminist. The more you know.
Ahh shit
Here Here woof woof
😂😂😂
You two go so well together! *Perfection* Thank you for your amazing, humble, Entertaining 🙌🙌🙌
Well this was a reality check. I've always enjoyed watching military surprising s/o homecomings
Well their are mostly legit
Family day is one of the craziest things.. You witness a bunch of significant others unknowingly mingling with the very person that’s f*cking their man/woman.
that's so fucked.
@@auggie1.0 yeah these people are degenerates i’m sorry but literally wtf.
@@spacebars9677
Think about it. The job offer is something like this....
1. Surrounded by people in (or soon to be) peak physical condition
2. Getting trained to do crazy and/or fun stuff
3. All your needs provided for
4. Guaranteed paycheck
This is basically a degenerate's wish list. It shouldn't surprise anyone that they'd be there.
Welp.... 🤷🏾 the family can say smthn if they want but then they risk physically fit ppl beating the shit outta them en masse! 🙄 dont share your chick and get that ass whooped at their graduation too!! 😂😂😂😂
Bro that’s fucking nuts
My dad was a military kid and served in the military. When my mom was engaged to my dad, she told me that it was exhausting constantly having to wait for his return to the states from deployment. This kind of long distance relationship is not for everyone. Only the strongest of wills can achieve this. They'll be happily married for 30 years this Fall
If it's exhausting for anyone to not be with their romantic partner, I'm not saying they're not in love, but THAT'S not love. That's dependence.
@@nelcorazs could you even call it loyalty as well? I mean my mom could've not put her self through that, but she did because she wanted to be with my dad before they got married. That's how relationships are supposed to work. The ones that we wall strive to have and all want to be. The problem is nowadays people aren't committed enough to themselves and the other partner
@@nelcorazs that’s because she probably misses him it’s not dependance if you really love someone and you don’t get to see them for months or weeks you’re gonna be feeling bad because you haven’t seen or heard from them in a long time
Your dad's and mom's situation was entirely different.
Well I am glad your parents had a don't ask don't tell policy because from what it looks like he probably got him some while he was away!! 🤣
I feel like it goes both ways whether she's going to the military or you going to the military.
I’m currently active army rn and I’m on rotation rn and it’s literally just been about 4 months and shit is already going down. We’re in bays so there’s no walls, just one big hallway with bunks on both sides and people getting nasty w it. My unit decided to switch bays and personnel so as soon as I walked into the new bay it SMELLED like fucking pussy. Just do what aba said, and save yourself sometime
When I lived in japan, i started baby sitting this womans kids at the age of 15 up until about 18. Let's just say, while her man was on a mission or deployed....different men would drive me home.....she beat one of her 5 year olds for questioning her about these different men. It was a sad day when the little girl woke me up and said "those aren't my daddy's shoe" 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Did the husband ever find out?
Please finish this fucking story
@@thisistotallylegal-yepdefi15 😂😂😂
@@thisistotallylegal-yepdefi15 @Avocado, a troll of a different kind.
i used to live there too!
Good luck soldier, she is about to get ran through. My condolences, thank you Alba & preach you just saved this mans life.
I have been active duty military member over 10 years now and my lord what the 2 of you are saying is 1000% right, it is the unfortunate truth but it is the truth, granted those are the few who are able to work it out and a big salute to them because it is not easy.
yeah bro she belongs to the battalion now. Son, from basic training, to AIT, to my actual unit married/girls in a "relationship" were always the ones getting passed around. That's just the way it is man
I’ve seen single, taken, engaged, and married men and women doing all kinds of stuff in training, in garrison and on deployment. It’s a sad, but very real thing that happens. That being said, there are a couple faithful ones.
Thank you for acknowledging that some women aren’t trash in uniform. I’m a service woman and I’m flabbergasted by this comments section. Married ten years, deployments have eaten up half of that time. I’ve never been unfaithful or even this side of inappropriate. I’m a coworker and a sister in arms, not a ride.
Shout out to the people who actually stayed faithful, not sure how hard or easy that is but yeah
The real ugly ones no one wants.
@@theirmanager5204 I have so much respect for you. You will be rewarded. Mark my words the universe will reward you. I hope and pray that you will the biggest lottery ever!
@@theirmanager5204 the mentality in the chat, is the exact reason there are so many SARC incidents. It’s the reason so many rapes and sexual harassment incidents happen. Some people join the military to get their civilian lives in order monetarily. Though they arrive with morals, ethics, and their ideology in tact. There’s more than just a couple faithful. There’s plenty, though people don’t see that because as married people we don’t mingle. Normally I stay away from the crazy young men and women. Let them be kids, let them live young and wild. Though I got a family to get back home to. That’s always the mentality and the same for my wife when she’s deployed.
I went to basic with a couple of girls who were die hard faithful. They’re out there, but if you’re questioning it, she’s probably get her cheeks clapped by the platoon
Thank god for this comment. I’m faithful and reading/watching the comments/video, kinda suck ass.
@@gabssey2769 like damn, people really suck.
Though I can understand this being a thing with a bunch of recent high school grads who suddenly have money, independence, and a cool job where they cam travel all over the world
or your just incure a bit more then others. or you dont know her and only gotten with her for her body
Its kind of similar to professional sportsman or even film-stars. I always think that they shouldn't bother settling down in their early prime year. When people are travelling or isolated with options, male or female, its such a strain on their ability to stay monogamous. And any exceptions, are just there to prove the rule.
The "clean my rifle line" hit hard. they spitting game
I met this chick in the Army who was drop dead gor-just ... just gorgeous; fine for no damn reason .... we were in training together and afterwords I got stationed in California and she went to Korea ... but we decided to get married after she came back .... my best friend went on a TDY trip to Korea and found out that she was dating her 1st Sergeant ... she asked him not to tell me ... and this chick actually said to him "what I don't know won't hurt me" ... the two classes of women that are notorious for having a high body count or soldiers and cops .. don't take them home to mom
Why cops?
@@marlom7882 just like badge bunnies like to do male cops ... there are a lot of guys who have a fantasy about doing a female cop ... and because the female cop is doing a man's job, and works hard to be seen as one of the boys ... they do what the boys do ... just like the men go around screwing Lottie, Dottie, and everybody ... the women will screw every Harry, Jerry and Larry that they want to ...
Not every woman or man in the military is like this. It is sad to say most are, but I am happy to say I know people in service who are not like that at all😁
@@animalkingdom2871 Unless they share with you their most intimate sexual adventures.....let's just agree you can't say you REALLY know....ijs.
@@thelionprince4530 You don't know this person's friends or family. So I wouldn't say much. Also just cause this country has such immoral people doesn't mean there isn't great people with high morals. I personally have been thinking about going into the military. It sounds like to me this is just issues the women have with self control. I would never let myself stoop so low as to bang with some random men. Disgusting. Waiting till marriage thank you very much. You can call me a prude, but at least I have self rexpect and demand respect.
I'm in the army and I can say it definitely happens regularly, not all females are like this but from my experience at least 80-85% of women in the army are like this
Actually it's probably 80% of women in general not talking shit it's just biological. But any women in a situation where she is around allot of fit guys and well one thing is guaranteed to happen. Same goes for men.
@@troygarza5720 Only thing is that its 20x easier for the woman to get laid.
@@threeequalsd4865 Yea because military is mostly men, if you are in military squad where 90% of them consists of female, your chances to bang is increases exponentially
probably they weren't liked outside the military and all of sudden they are getting attention
@@threeequalsd4865 try 100x easier
I was in Army basic in July 2019 there was this girl who had a boyfriend and he would barely write her letters. I got to know her cause I told her, her friend was cute. Fast forward some and she broke up with him in basic and started following me everywhere and always tried to get the chance to talk to me. She married some Army dude soon after and still talks to me and sends snaps to me every now and then but I don’t entertain it tho. There was also this other girl who was married and tried to get with me and when I showed her no interest she moved on to my buddy. her and my buddy were sending each other love letters and shit and flirting all the time. Moral of the story don’t do it lol
I think the funniest part in this is that all the military guys in the comments are claiming to be faithful but also claim that all guys do it.
You'd be a fool to not ask about what she did. Yes, she'll lie. But if you think about getting back with her, ask her and see how bad the lie is.
That goes with any chick. Military or not. Feel like she's not being honest or you don't like the answer, drop her.
@9BeastKing And I'd say "Baby, it _became_ my business the moment we hooked up"
Or just don't xd
@@dustinmaxwell259 it genuinely doesn’t. if someone is uncomfortable telling you a number, you can just move on instead of pressuring them. the number of people you’ve slept with is a much harder hit for women because our value is often based upon how puritanical we’re perceived to be. as long as she’s clean, you really don’t need to know. it’s not a rite of fucking passage when you fuck someone that you suddenly get some freaky little claim on them and are entitled to personal details like that 💀
@@summers9052 Idk, if she's doing gangbangs and shit regularly for several years - then ties herself to a single dude who ain't always gonna be available and may not have experimented much, that step down in the excitement department could cause some serious stress on the relationship once it goes past a few months of her not getting what she's used to, in which case it's totally unfair for the partner to have to deal with the consequences of actions they were neither involved in or knew about. Whereas if the dude knows that her body count is in the hundreds at least he can prepare himself for that and make an informed decision whether he's still game or not (after all, some guys get off on that idea or like having a skilled partner, so it's not always a negative), otherwise he's trapped in Schrodinger's box and tying his life to the cat. Then there's also the matter of, if you're gonna tie your life to someone else, them refusing to be open to you isn't a healthy start.
After all, a relationship ain't about finding someone, it's about finding the RIGHT someone for you, and if it's ain't gonna work then it's probably better to end it sooner and mutually move on rather than later when they're heavily invested emotionally and ending it might well mentally scar both parties for years to come.
I grew up a "military brat" in Canada. My dad was an officer. We moved a lot and it is absolutely a different lifestyle than the average non-military family. Most people I knew (if I was in a military town) had divorced parents or parents that I heard divorced later (my parents included). There were some exceptions, but it wasn't the majority.
I actually wanted to join the military later in life and my dad seemed to always sort of talk me out of it. Maybe he knew what was up and didn't want me to be a part of it lol
My dad is an officer also (in the States). I really liked the “military life” and still do to this day. My parents were married but their relationship was so toxic and abusive. My dad could not separate work and home life. He also cheated on my mom with one of his soldier’s wives. I remember all my friends used to tell me I was so lucky my parents were still married. 😂
Your dad really loves you. He doesn't want his little girl to get.... never mind
@@felix4321ful 😏
I thought about joining and I’m pretty sure now that this is the main reason people talk girls out of joining. There’s not really much of a risk of dying on the frontlines as a woman.
@@janedoll3237 the Canadian military allows women in combat positions. Dunno if the American army still doesn't allow that but yes (not sure where you're from, of course), they still have a risk of dying on the front lines.
I was in the military and I can say that a lot of women cheated on their husband or boyfriend and had not a care in the world either, it was pretty bad. Especially those who had a child due to that mess. There were a few like that, pretty stupid honestly. If your with someone why go for another when it's hard as hell to find a good person as it is? I mean unless the person is just flat out cheating on you while being away... then do whatever, I guess.
I remember there was a dude that was super excited to see his wife on family day at the end of ait...all the dudes that ran trains on her multiple times made sure to shake his hand or atleast introduce them selves.
Why? This is truly disgusting villain like behavior.
You know, maybe I _should_ hate the military.
This is truly disgusting and disturbing
Damn bro, you should of atleast told him what was goin on.
You guys did that mf dirty, if he came back on some columbine shit. Don’t be surprised, he shouldn’t simp out and do some lame shit like that but you never know how a very hurt person could react
I was a therapist civilian to military. Yes they had battle PTSD but each young soldier was on his 3rd or 4th wife and/or baby momma and that was where most of the stress came from....the complex family life and trying to support every kid wherever they were.
Title pretty much says it all for the most part. As a female Army vet I have seen so much in a short time. She either gonna come out sane, traumatized, or a barracks bunny. Only a small portion remain together after basic or during their contracts. I still wish them the best of luck.
What’s a barracks bunny ?
@@coolman000099 hunchin all the male soldiers
Barracks bunny... damn that's an interesting term. Gotta cheer up the troops I guess...
@@coolman000099 I mean... You can probably figure it out with the context... Do you know the expression "fucking like rabbits"?
How did you come out?
I went to Fort Sill and only 1 married woman was actually faithful 😭😭😭 1 out of 7
I wish I could remember the name of one nightspot in Lawton where *all* the women were either Korean or German, had married GIs for the green card, then got stateside and rolled out. All I remember is, the place was near a hotel near a highway. I only went there once. Once was enough...