@@jalesbarjo4740he never said that. If you knew anything about vapes you wouldn’t say that. They are about 95% safer than cigarettes. Containing vegetable glycerin (VG) , propylene glycol (PG), flavoring and nicotine derived from some type of vegetable(usually potatoes or tomatoes). Now of course putting anything in your body besides food is risky but it certainly helps people get off cigarettes.
Living with a chronic terminal illness could basically die at any time but I'm not suffering I'm more alive than ever. Every day is so precious. Time wasted is definitely my #1 regret
This is so true. I would silence myself a lot to stay in friendships and relationships. Then at the age of 26 I was diagnosed with brain tumors followed by three brain surgeries. A month before my first surgery I went to my last concert. Live music with one of my favorite things to enjoy before I got sick. In the past I was a lot more shy but I literally danced like that could have been my last time. It started a fire in me... 5 years later still dealing with chronic pain from the failed surgeries. But sitting with myself, seeing and understanding the uncomfortable parts has led to so much healing. Dr Gabor Mate was someone that really got me shift thinking. That there can be positive come out of the destruction of my health. Do what you can, while you can❤
I appreciate you sharing this! Puts things into perspective and makes me reflect as well as I’m someone currently trying to undo all the people pleasing in past friendships. thank you and God bless ❤️
My grandfather just passed from lung failure, basically suffocated to death after being taken off life support. He was a mean man and had no relationship with any of his grandchildren. He would visit my mother once a year and complain the whole time until he left- usually earlier than intended because something minor offended him and he would cut off communication to my mother until he got over his pity party. He would always say he had a shitty life. Parents were poor- dad was a drunk- got married 3 times…..whatever. His life wasn’t at all as bad as a lot of people. He dwelled on the negative. I’m telling you a mean mean man. When I told my kids that their Grammies dad passed they said “the mean man?”. I’ll always remember him as the mean man. Don’t be the mean man! ❤
This is wonderful advice, it has taken me many many years to realize I should not care what other people think, and that I am good enough just as I am.
Same, I feel ya! It's been a 25 year battle for me, and the primary problem is that I have many chronic conditions that are only helped by controlled substances. I'll die if I fully quit benzos or pain meds, and I'm useless wo adhd meds. I don't want to be on these things at all, but I can't escape them either. I choose dysfunction over adhd meds right now, and don't take pain meds until I'm crying, can't move and considering ending it all, but I cannot get away from benzos and I hate being dependent on anything or treated like an addict when there's nothing I'd love more than the freedom to just exist wo these chains💔 I have the most severe case of CPTSD that my therapist has ever witnessed, I don't sleep, I have 0 criminal record, I'm a homeschooling mom, have never taken more than prescribed or been asked to quit, etc., and it's maddening to both be dependent on the system AND be treated like an addict just bc I'd like to be able to parent wo seizures, panic attacks, tachycardia, vomitting, anaphylaxis, etc.🫠
@@AlexKell885 I agree the human species can get addicted to literally ANYTHING OR ANYONE. It’s not about being an addicted it’s about having a mental disorder. The tricky thing about mental disorders is millions of people live with them and don’t even know it.
Nope. But finding the authentic Self is a necessary step, however, if one is to ever transcend that Self, thus achieving enlightenment. While not necessary, the "Spiritual Bypass" is often the result of such thought- so a denial of the self is temporarily and awkwardly employed. Inauthentic Self>Authentic self by subtracting identification with false self>No-self includes subtraction of identification also with Authentic Self. The Secular-Psychologization of these terms/phenomena is highly problematic for "seekers" and guides/gurus/therapists alike. No lighthouses/Too many lighthouses.
We live in a very cruel and unforgiving society.....it makes sense that we shelter ourselves I believe we all just want to be loved, accepted and happy.
You are good enough. You are worthy of love. We are not the things we accomplish or own. Enjoy this spectacular, but short,experience it is to be alive.
@@Jonathanroumie14 You’ve got it man. The people whom reject you immediately/instinctively are probably not ready for you but I recommend that you don’t allow deterrance. Somebody needs ya, now
Start Slowly if you are nervous because I finally got fed up with always being so SUPER SWEET....AND JUST WANTED TO BE QUIET/ RESERVED..Well,,lost a bunch of people who thought I became snooty and I was like: Too bad too sad you only liked me for my CHATTY/ BLABBY / BUBBLY..BUT IM MORE COMFORTABLE BEING QUIET❤❤❤❤❤
This is so incredibly important for me to hear because I've always been unapologetically myself, not realizing how much everyone hates it. I was always so afraid of losing that while trying to become someone that could fit in more. And only into my late 30s am I learning how to love myself for being myself and I've truly never been more at peace. Don't be afraid of you who are. Unless who you are is really terrible. Then don't be that.
It’s a concept not easy to understand when we are not aware of Self (capital S) because of layers and layers of conditioning that we think are what makes us who we are. Authenticity is up there in emotional intelligence and it’s right next to LOVE. Less judgement, more love for self and others - what a concept. Keep speaking authenticity and it will keep the light shining ❤ I am on my next journey as a death doula and I want to bring comfort to everyone who might feel they weren’t enough in this lifetime. They were authentic in it all with the tools they had
It’s used as a greeting not because people give a shit about you. Unless it’s used genuinely to someone you care about, take it as a greeting like saying Hi or Hello. It’s not that deep.
I know what shakes. Generic greetings demean & deplete the value of real communication. Planned obsolescence has sneakily crept its way into common speech via abbreviation. School your young self before me
True my mum was this. And now I am. The amount of absolute crap that life has thrown at us without knowing the truth of all is what it is. I follow selfless not selfish. Christ I follow for this very simple phrase
Just ordered through my public library system in New Zealand 🇳🇿❤ vote 💙 to ensure Freedom Choice Joy Prosperity Democracy Diversity and a 🌎 and future for All 💖
💯🎯💯 i am me and have always been me and now I'm terminally ill and still me... I have been called an Angel and inspiring. Be you. You don't know the effect you have on random humans that are looking for strength to be themselves.
The courage to be yourself. Be the person you dream yourself being. The person you envision when you are struggling. Make your ideal self your own role model. Start taking actions to be that person. I know I need to start implementing that.
Lmao most people don't make any effort despite their stated desires. The Social Reality Effect. Just stating it in comments or telling someone is enough to trick the brain into feeling "rewarded".
I lost my cousin who wae like my lil sister on my 21st bday while her mama and papa and myself held her as they basically helped her go peacefully in the warm embrace of our love and opiate OD that i know all too well (suicidal failure since i could walk...) but in the short 8 years that lil angel taught me more about true strength and how to laugh even as you dance with death daily, how to love limitlessly others, and how to dance with death daily and do it with class and a crazy amount of courage when the music stops and you see the reaper coming to take you yet you laugh and play till the last day.... then i learned what i now believe what my last gf said will be my fate...a life i dont enjoy but endure as I see every single person i love cold and in a box before they get the big sleep i want but cant have...
@@Armor_Dillo yea an uncommon thing. A wise scientist. He uses philosophy quite a bit more than the average scientist, who will measure for years but only analyze the results for a few weeks. Mate wants to know the whys, the hows, and the story of each individual involved.
THEO VON AND DR GABOR GOOD VIDEO ON TALKING ABOUT THE REGRETS AND SAD REALITY OF ALOT OF DYING PEOPLE THAT LIVES TO THERE LIVES IN TOO MUCH FEAR TO PLEASE OTHER PEOPLE TOO MUCH AND NOT MAKE THEMSLEVES HAPPY WITH THERE ONE LIFE THAT THEY HAVE . I SHEMMAR MARRIOTT THAT IS ABOVE GOD STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE MUST LIVE IN TOO MUCH FEAR BECAUSE OF OTHER PEOPLE TO NOT FIND HAPPINESS IN THERE LIVES . ALSO THAT THEY ALWAYS HAVE TO PLEASE PEOPLE EVERYTIME AND NOT WANTING TO PLEASE THEMSELVES AT NO TIME. THAT IS NOT FAIR FOR ANYBODY TO PLEASE A PERSON OR PERSONS EVEYTIME AND NOT WANTING TO PLEASE THEMSELVES AT NO TIME IN LIFE.
As a survivor of abuses. We have to break free ..like he says your dying inside..forced to act and be happy when youre/ im not...dont let it take away what years you may have left..youll need youre strength to battle chronic illnesses alone w your belief systems.......cause you may have put those feelings of inabilities aside.. and trying hard to avoid the triggers from the outside world...i really dont care anymore, if i hurt other oeoples feelings, my "TRUTH" is setting me free.. i dont want to feel unhappiness anymore... its sucking my life away....."DONT WAIT" to feel good or feel better or great...peace 2 all.
Also having children. Children can bring such happiness to anyone, before I had my daughter I was miserable, depressed and just about finished with life, now my daughter makes the happiest I’ve ever been in life 😊
Eh. Depends on the person. There's a whole subreddit known as r/regretfulparents where people anonymously discuss how they regret becoming parents. Kids are not for everyone.
@@lindsay1375 your right, you do get the exception, but the exception doesn’t make the rule, I bet most people would love to have a child to make them happy and have a purpose in life, money and wealth will only last you so long, a family with children will last you a life time 😊
@jev4786 There's no real way to measure it, there's so many different personalities out there. I would bet it's half and half. You can have a purposeful and fulfilling life without kids - you could go after your dreams. Travel. Dedicate a life to becoming the person you always wanted to be. It really depends on the individual.
I have learned that faking happiness can be an authentic mood lifter. Deep belly laughs are good for the soul. I went to Haiti after the earthquake in 2010. The people, especially the children, smiled and laughed and played. Because all life is a gift and there is always something to be happy about.
The one thing I can say about myself is no matter how crazy people think I am for wanting to pursue my dreams, I can honestly say that I enjoyed my life because I always expressed who I was even if people didn’t like it, and I spent my life making music and making videos and doing things that I want to do on my own terms and I think that’s something a lot of people don’t really focus on. With the world of social media, a lot of people focus on making other people happy but not making themselves happy. We live as far as we know, make the best of it.
If im not happy, you'll know. I can't pretend to be anything I am not. Sometimes, it's NOT a good thing. My regret will be the opposite. I wish I had the ability to STFU.
I will always be myself. What does that entail you might ask? Well pull up a screen & lemme just tell ya. lol Being myself means Im going to always talk to myself AND answer. I’m going to talk in as many different voices as I can (cartoon voices). I’m going to talk loud and a lot at times. I’m going to randomly laugh out loud at something Theo said a year ago. It means I’m going to text novels when I’m leaving a simple comment (taint nothing simple bout me)It just means I’m going to be the real raw me & if that intimidates anyone well then I suggest they ask themselves why it intimidates em. Be you. You weren’t put here to be anybody else.
Palliative care nurses don't get the praise they deserve. They see so much and deal with so much on a daily basis. I did an internship at a hospice and they were some of the kindest people I have ever met.
I know that the way I live my life is going to lead to me having regrets on my death bed. Im almost 40 and I dont have a career because I never felt passionate about anything, and because Im afraid to take a risk so I just stay at my nice safe job. Im married and she wants to have kids soon and Im terrified that I wont be a good dad because how am I going to teach someone right from wrong or how to be a successful person when I cant figure any of that stuff out myself? And even knowing all of this is stupid to think, its hard to break out of.
My heart hurts for you reading this and I just wanna offer some encouragement. If a career is something you REALLY want, I hope you can find a way to believe in yourself. And, if your nice safe job is putting food on the table and allowing you to live the life you want that's okay too. If YOU want kids too, you don't need a successful career to be a good Dad. You just need to be there for your kids. Physically and emotionally. Be present with them, show them you love them, encourage them to be themselves. You can do that regardless of your job. I'm sure you're a wonderful person, hope you find happiness❤
Dr. Garbor is a gift to humanity. He is truthful about the Palestinian Holocaust. His heart is good . His face has character and beauty. African American woman 50s generation.
This man has the most calming voice
Sounds like he should be reading me some Russian sleeper cell phrase over the phone
@@HeartlessWon506 not correct. They’re referring to him having the ‘most calming of voices’ not ‘the calmest voice ever heard’
a life-time of vaping lungs.
and the most unsettling eyes
@@jalesbarjo4740he never said that. If you knew anything about vapes you wouldn’t say that. They are about 95% safer than cigarettes. Containing vegetable glycerin (VG) , propylene glycol (PG), flavoring and nicotine derived from some type of vegetable(usually potatoes or tomatoes). Now of course putting anything in your body besides food is risky but it certainly helps people get off cigarettes.
this reminds me of a quote: “We have two lives; the second begins when we realize we only have one.” - Confucius
MY favorite quote is "I never said all that shit." -Confucius
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Confucius also said; "he who runs through airport sideways is going to Bangkok.
Great wisdom...
“Confucius also say wife who slide down banister make monkey shine” - redd fox
I had kidney cancer at age 30 and it changed my whole perspective of living life to the fullest! #survivor
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Living with a chronic terminal illness could basically die at any time but I'm not suffering I'm more alive than ever. Every day is so precious. Time wasted is definitely my #1 regret
@@nephrotoxick8 my father always said “quality over quantity”. Father knows best. 🫶 Keep on keeping on! 💪
Really great book that teaches this exact thing: The Courage to be Disliked
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Can you expand on that? What are the other key points of the book?
Theo is the poster child for authentic self-expression 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼❤️❤️❤️
Nah, I reckon humor shields alot
I love how Theo is so respectfully listening to him❤ I love you Theo
Yep. This is the first short I've sent of Theo with him only vocalising a couple times
“Omg he’s engaging in conversation in a normal way, as a podcast host! Wow I love him!” Jump off the nuts
I'm glad you enjoy common courtesy.
Yeah, cause everyone just never listens, hey?
Theo is a good dude. I look up to him like an older brother 🎉
This is so true. I would silence myself a lot to stay in friendships and relationships. Then at the age of 26 I was diagnosed with brain tumors followed by three brain surgeries. A month before my first surgery I went to my last concert. Live music with one of my favorite things to enjoy before I got sick. In the past I was a lot more shy but I literally danced like that could have been my last time. It started a fire in me... 5 years later still dealing with chronic pain from the failed surgeries. But sitting with myself, seeing and understanding the uncomfortable parts has led to so much healing. Dr Gabor Mate was someone that really got me shift thinking. That there can be positive come out of the destruction of my health.
Do what you can, while you can❤
I appreciate you sharing this! Puts things into perspective and makes me reflect as well as I’m someone currently trying to undo all the people pleasing in past friendships. thank you and God bless ❤️
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Beautiful message, wish you well!
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My grandfather just passed from lung failure, basically suffocated to death after being taken off life support.
He was a mean man and had no relationship with any of his grandchildren. He would visit my mother once a year and complain the whole time until he left- usually earlier than intended because something minor offended him and he would cut off communication to my mother until he got over his pity party. He would always say he had a shitty life. Parents were poor- dad was a drunk- got married 3 times…..whatever. His life wasn’t at all as bad as a lot of people. He dwelled on the negative. I’m telling you a mean mean man. When I told my kids that their Grammies dad passed they said “the mean man?”. I’ll always remember him as the mean man.
Don’t be the mean man! ❤
This is wonderful advice, it has taken me many many years to realize I should not care what other people think, and that I am good enough just as I am.
I am on a path of sobriety and when he said that number one reason I lost it. I’m so glad I saw this.
Best of luck, stay strong. Maybe I’ll join that path some day but for now I wish the best for people like you ❤
Same, I feel ya! It's been a 25 year battle for me, and the primary problem is that I have many chronic conditions that are only helped by controlled substances. I'll die if I fully quit benzos or pain meds, and I'm useless wo adhd meds. I don't want to be on these things at all, but I can't escape them either. I choose dysfunction over adhd meds right now, and don't take pain meds until I'm crying, can't move and considering ending it all, but I cannot get away from benzos and I hate being dependent on anything or treated like an addict when there's nothing I'd love more than the freedom to just exist wo these chains💔 I have the most severe case of CPTSD that my therapist has ever witnessed, I don't sleep, I have 0 criminal record, I'm a homeschooling mom, have never taken more than prescribed or been asked to quit, etc., and it's maddening to both be dependent on the system AND be treated like an addict just bc I'd like to be able to parent wo seizures, panic attacks, tachycardia, vomitting, anaphylaxis, etc.🫠
One day at a time bro. You got this. I’m proud of you
Sobriety is your new addiction. Look for other ways
@@AlexKell885 I agree the human species can get addicted to literally ANYTHING OR ANYONE. It’s not about being an addicted it’s about having a mental disorder. The tricky thing about mental disorders is millions of people live with them and don’t even know it.
I was taught from a young age. To not care what anyone thinks of me. My parents modeled being authentic.
Courage is a rarely discussed concept
because we’re afraid and constantly being hammered not think critically, the elite don’t want that, they want us to be obedient
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This is the definition of enlightenment, being totally authentic.
Agreed ❤️
Cute simplification!
Nope. But finding the authentic Self is a necessary step, however, if one is to ever transcend that Self, thus achieving enlightenment. While not necessary, the "Spiritual Bypass" is often the result of such thought- so a denial of the self is temporarily and awkwardly employed. Inauthentic Self>Authentic self by subtracting identification with false self>No-self includes subtraction of identification also with Authentic Self. The Secular-Psychologization of these terms/phenomena is highly problematic for "seekers" and guides/gurus/therapists alike. No lighthouses/Too many lighthouses.
Jim Carrey kinda admitted he was fake. He's a bit whacky but I think he understands this.
We live in a very cruel and unforgiving society.....it makes sense that we shelter ourselves
I believe we all just want to be loved, accepted and happy.
Maybe you, I'm good
@@Nocoty94 sit up straight..... you're slouching
@@brandygriffiss drama queen
I don’t believe the cruelty of society has led to this. I don’t think people 60 years ago had trouble expressing themselves. I blame social media.
@@Nocoty94shut up retard
I am learning to have the courage to be authentic. I want to know what Happy is before I die.
You are good enough. You are worthy of love. We are not the things we accomplish or own.
Enjoy this spectacular, but short,experience it is to be alive.
Peepee poopoo
This is one of those things, when you hear it, you know it to be true
It's me
Love how theos deep into what hes saying
I must of listened to this about half a dozen times to really let it sink in
We are so afraid of rejection that we can’t be ourselves AT ALL
Exactly. Afraid of judgement
@@2legit2Kwit Judgment * 🎉
@@Jonathanroumie14 You’ve got it man. The people whom reject you immediately/instinctively are probably not ready for you but I recommend that you don’t allow deterrance. Somebody needs ya, now
Start Slowly if you are nervous because I finally got fed up with always being so SUPER SWEET....AND JUST WANTED TO BE QUIET/ RESERVED..Well,,lost a bunch of people who thought I became snooty and I was like:
Too bad too sad you only liked me for my CHATTY/ BLABBY / BUBBLY..BUT IM MORE COMFORTABLE BEING QUIET❤❤❤❤❤
@@lizbrown9553 yes your true self doesn’t speak
Chronic illness fighter here. It's even worse when your stuck in a dying body but have a healthy mind 💔
Yeah bro I feel you. Inshallah yo situation will bless up 🤲🏻
Blessings healing and happiness for you❤
I have always been authentic. Often people don't like that.....😢
That’s the truth. There’s a lot of people who are uncomfortable around those who are real and authentic.
My dad used to say “I’d rather be hated for who I am than be loved for who I’m not.”
This is so incredibly important for me to hear because I've always been unapologetically myself, not realizing how much everyone hates it. I was always so afraid of losing that while trying to become someone that could fit in more. And only into my late 30s am I learning how to love myself for being myself and I've truly never been more at peace. Don't be afraid of you who are. Unless who you are is really terrible. Then don't be that.
Sadly, speaking your mind and being honest, rarely gets you ahead in your career or social situations.
So true.
And that's why authenticity is the highest vibration
Well said ❤ 🤜🏼💥🤛🏼
Literally never thought of it that way. Makes sense.
It’s a concept not easy to understand when we are not aware of Self (capital S) because of layers and layers of conditioning that we think are what makes us who we are. Authenticity is up there in emotional intelligence and it’s right next to LOVE.
Less judgement, more love for self and others - what a concept. Keep speaking authenticity and it will keep the light shining ❤
I am on my next journey as a death doula and I want to bring comfort to everyone who might feel they weren’t enough in this lifetime. They were authentic in it all with the tools they had
I’d bet money on you being absolutely inauthentic 😂
Dildos have vibration, humans have consciousness, be conscious, don't vibrate like the dildo.
Never ask somebody “how they’re doing” without a natural ear & genuine, caring interest
It’s used as a greeting not because people give a shit about you. Unless it’s used genuinely to someone you care about, take it as a greeting like saying Hi or Hello. It’s not that deep.
I know what shakes. Generic greetings demean & deplete the value of real communication. Planned obsolescence has sneakily crept its way into common speech via abbreviation. School your young self before me
We are so blessed to hear this video right now. It’s a beautiful reminder 🤍
I’m blessed to have the top two out of the way. I wish peace and healing for everyone ♥️
True my mum was this. And now I am. The amount of absolute crap that life has thrown at us without knowing the truth of all is what it is. I follow selfless not selfish. Christ I follow for this very simple phrase
I’ll be listening to this tomorrow thanks to this short
Gabor Maté is the man when it comes to explaining trauma and addiction.
What a deeply profound and extremely sad statement. I want to live my authentic life now. Thank you for the reminder Dr. Gabor.
Gabor Maté always makes sense. Great guest.
I hardly ever see Theo looking that interested/intense, awesome
My experience be yourself and express yourself. Only the weak.people in your life will reject you and you are better off without out them.
You are so right. Let people see who you really are; the right people will still want you in their lives. The wrong ones will naturally fall away.
Just ordered through my public library system in New Zealand 🇳🇿❤ vote 💙 to ensure Freedom Choice Joy Prosperity Democracy Diversity and a 🌎 and future for All 💖
💯🎯💯 i am me and have always been me and now I'm terminally ill and still me... I have been called an Angel and inspiring. Be you. You don't know the effect you have on random humans that are looking for strength to be themselves.
Ok satan
This man he is extremely enlightened and sees through things lot of people don’t
The courage to be yourself. Be the person you dream yourself being. The person you envision when you are struggling. Make your ideal self your own role model. Start taking actions to be that person.
I know I need to start implementing that.
"Make your ideal self your own role model". I love this❤
Lmao most people don't make any effort despite their stated desires.
The Social Reality Effect.
Just stating it in comments or telling someone is enough to trick the brain into feeling "rewarded".
Theo has the greatest podcast of all time.
Love Theos Depth of Sinereity...
Bless the wisdom passed on
Theo Von and Gabor Maté together! Worlds colliding and uniting 🤯👏
Ive been thinking about this topic all week. I love how he is saying this on theos podcast too. Theo is definitely himself
I AGREE 💯 The Most CALMING Voice ❤
Very true,
Don’t ever care about what another person thinks about you! ❤️💫
I love the guests that Theo has on, the conversations they have feel so genuine and down to earth.
This man is such an inspiration regarding how people can change for the better ❤ And damn I love a man who wears rings
Best podcast, I just got so much from this. Thank you. I've read his books, but it's wonderful to hear him to speak with Theo.
Gabor is the f’ing man. Read his stuff people.
It's not like I didn't have the courage to be myself, they just didn't let me and I expressed my emotions but no one listened to me...
Mane is speaking truth always stay true to yourself no matter what
I lost my cousin who wae like my lil sister on my 21st bday while her mama and papa and myself held her as they basically helped her go peacefully in the warm embrace of our love and opiate OD that i know all too well (suicidal failure since i could walk...) but in the short 8 years that lil angel taught me more about true strength and how to laugh even as you dance with death daily, how to love limitlessly others, and how to dance with death daily and do it with class and a crazy amount of courage when the music stops and you see the reaper coming to take you yet you laugh and play till the last day.... then i learned what i now believe what my last gf said will be my fate...a life i dont enjoy but endure as I see every single person i love cold and in a box before they get the big sleep i want but cant have...
It is a survival instinct to be scared to be our natural self.
This just stabbbbbed me & blindsided me hard! Thanks Theo! I got my gears working now I needed this!
Started listening to this episode tonight. Amazing. So freaking interesting
Be yourself- those who matter dont mind... & those who mind don't matter ❤
I've been following Dr Gabor Mate for years now and he's absolutely brilliant
This is the first time I’ve seen him, but he seems very wise ❤️
@@Armor_Dillo yea an uncommon thing. A wise scientist. He uses philosophy quite a bit more than the average scientist, who will measure for years but only analyze the results for a few weeks. Mate wants to know the whys, the hows, and the story of each individual involved.
I am very genuine and lots of people hate me for it. The key to this is not caring what others think of you.
Love Theo!!! Love Gabor!!! What a great combination ❤
Wooh , being authentic. Freedom!
THEO VON AND DR GABOR GOOD VIDEO ON TALKING ABOUT THE REGRETS AND SAD REALITY OF ALOT OF DYING PEOPLE THAT LIVES TO THERE LIVES IN TOO MUCH FEAR TO PLEASE OTHER PEOPLE TOO MUCH AND NOT MAKE THEMSLEVES HAPPY WITH THERE ONE LIFE THAT THEY HAVE .
I SHEMMAR MARRIOTT THAT IS ABOVE GOD STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE MUST LIVE IN TOO MUCH FEAR BECAUSE OF OTHER PEOPLE TO NOT FIND HAPPINESS IN THERE LIVES .
ALSO THAT THEY ALWAYS HAVE TO PLEASE PEOPLE EVERYTIME AND NOT WANTING TO PLEASE THEMSELVES AT NO TIME.
THAT IS NOT FAIR FOR ANYBODY TO PLEASE A PERSON OR PERSONS EVEYTIME AND NOT WANTING TO PLEASE THEMSELVES AT NO TIME IN LIFE.
The truth will set you free… be truthful about yourself, be authentic, it does set you free.
Crazy how simple it sounds when you think about how much it takes to overcome these fears ig you would call it 💔
He’s like a wise human turtle isn’t he bless him
As a survivor of abuses. We have to break free ..like he says your dying inside..forced to act and be happy when youre/ im not...dont let it take away what years you may have left..youll need youre strength to battle chronic illnesses alone w your belief systems.......cause you may have put those feelings of inabilities aside.. and trying hard to avoid the triggers from the outside world...i really dont care anymore, if i hurt other oeoples feelings, my "TRUTH" is setting me free.. i dont want to feel unhappiness anymore... its sucking my life away....."DONT WAIT" to feel good or feel better or great...peace 2 all.
Also having children. Children can bring such happiness to anyone, before I had my daughter I was miserable, depressed and just about finished with life, now my daughter makes the happiest I’ve ever been in life 😊
This is a surefire way to psychologically scar your children and fill them with everything that's wrong with yourself. 🤡
Eh. Depends on the person. There's a whole subreddit known as r/regretfulparents where people anonymously discuss how they regret becoming parents. Kids are not for everyone.
@@lindsay1375 your right, you do get the exception, but the exception doesn’t make the rule, I bet most people would love to have a child to make them happy and have a purpose in life, money and wealth will only last you so long, a family with children will last you a life time 😊
@@lindsay1375dang that’s a depressing ass group
But I agree it’s not for everyone
@jev4786 There's no real way to measure it, there's so many different personalities out there. I would bet it's half and half. You can have a purposeful and fulfilling life without kids - you could go after your dreams. Travel. Dedicate a life to becoming the person you always wanted to be. It really depends on the individual.
I have learned that faking happiness can be an authentic mood lifter. Deep belly laughs are good for the soul. I went to Haiti after the earthquake in 2010. The people, especially the children, smiled and laughed and played. Because all life is a gift and there is always something to be happy about.
The one thing I can say about myself is no matter how crazy people think I am for wanting to pursue my dreams, I can honestly say that I enjoyed my life because I always expressed who I was even if people didn’t like it, and I spent my life making music and making videos and doing things that I want to do on my own terms and I think that’s something a lot of people don’t really focus on. With the world of social media, a lot of people focus on making other people happy but not making themselves happy. We live as far as we know, make the best of it.
This hit me so hard. Wow.
If im not happy, you'll know. I can't pretend to be anything I am not. Sometimes, it's NOT a good thing. My regret will be the opposite. I wish I had the ability to STFU.
as a 25 yr old on palliative care... thank you for this. ❤
I will always be myself. What does that entail you might ask? Well pull up a screen & lemme just tell ya. lol Being myself means Im going to always talk to myself AND answer. I’m going to talk in as many different voices as I can (cartoon voices). I’m going to talk loud and a lot at times. I’m going to randomly laugh out loud at something Theo said a year ago. It means I’m going to text novels when I’m leaving a simple comment (taint nothing simple bout me)It just means I’m going to be the real raw me & if that intimidates anyone well then I suggest they ask themselves why it intimidates em. Be you. You weren’t put here to be anybody else.
‘There is a man, intensive care, when he awakes he will declare - I’ve been dead for 20 years! I won’t let 20 more go by’ ~ Billy Talent
I love this man❤
When I was young I finally realized the importance of learning from the elders, and these deathbed regrets is what I always remind myself of.
I just love the times im living in. Waking up little by little
If I express my feelings 24/7 its gonna be about 1 weeks tops before im in jail tho. I definitely feel this tho.
Palliative care nurses don't get the praise they deserve. They see so much and deal with so much on a daily basis. I did an internship at a hospice and they were some of the kindest people I have ever met.
Wow. Shot me in the heart.
I needed to hear this today.
I love Theo’s face in response to the amazing Dr. Gabor. I give the same face.😲
I know that the way I live my life is going to lead to me having regrets on my death bed. Im almost 40 and I dont have a career because I never felt passionate about anything, and because Im afraid to take a risk so I just stay at my nice safe job. Im married and she wants to have kids soon and Im terrified that I wont be a good dad because how am I going to teach someone right from wrong or how to be a successful person when I cant figure any of that stuff out myself? And even knowing all of this is stupid to think, its hard to break out of.
My heart hurts for you reading this and I just wanna offer some encouragement.
If a career is something you REALLY want, I hope you can find a way to believe in yourself. And, if your nice safe job is putting food on the table and allowing you to live the life you want that's okay too.
If YOU want kids too, you don't need a successful career to be a good Dad. You just need to be there for your kids. Physically and emotionally. Be present with them, show them you love them, encourage them to be themselves. You can do that regardless of your job. I'm sure you're a wonderful person, hope you find happiness❤
ohhhhhhhhh I am so glad Gabor Mate is on Theo's show!!
great host and guest 🎉🎉
Love this man 👍
I had a terminal illness and still feel like this
I love that Theo got Dr. Gabor Mate! Everyone needs to know his work.
I am myself. I don't hide my emotions
This is an amazing book with Lessons for us all
I had cancer 3x's, and it does change your perspective on life
@@NativeWarrior2024 #survivor 🫶
Theos facial expression 😂
😂
Theo struggles with this…..but, I think his authentic self …….is beautiful 😊
He cant be normal
Oh lord now i gotta go watch this! Love ya Theo
We need to be real and honest at all times. ❤🙏
Some real perspective there wow
Definitely im constantly being somebody I'm not
Thank you for sharing this information!!
I read this book, no one said they wish they made more money❤
oh yeah,
this lights my soul.its me,unhappy because im too busy making others happy and not saying what i think.
Great guest
Theo really is up there with JRE now . Fuxkin love seeing it
Man I was like is this Joe Namath
I could fall asleep to this guys voice
Dr. Garbor is a gift to humanity. He is truthful about the Palestinian Holocaust. His heart is good . His face has character and beauty. African American woman 50s generation.