@@derekrobertson60388 my friend does too, but everyone in New Jersey is kinda a piece of shit, so he’s had a bad life. I think this video means more that you’re likeable… to people that should actually matter. Other good people. So you’re probably just around the wrong people
+Psych2go *Thanks for the list of likeable characteristics:* 0:44 A genuine nature 1:32 Good listening 2:19 Humility 3:16 An unjudgmental attitude 4:01 Empathy 4:26 Greeting others by name
The irony is that we may be likeable, but we don't meet that many likeable people...even if we do, they'll still be minding their business, rather than pay that genuine attention to us, as we do
Thanks for this list of "reasons why people dislike you!" I mean... 1: Genuine: I suppose? 2. You’re a good listener: I'm great at listening, but only if it's a topic I care about. 3. You’re humble: I have a terribly low self-esteem which gets mistaken for being humble so that's a positive I suppose. 4. You’re not judgmental: I'm judgmental as hell, but also open-minded in a sense of "so long as it doesn't harm me, it's none of my business, no matter how I feel about it personally." 5. You’re empathetic: I am absolutely apathetic. 6. You greet people by their name: I generally do not even remember names, nor ever actively address anyone by their name.
1. 0:45 you are genuine 2. 0:32 you are a good listener 3. 2:19 you are humble 4. 3:27 you are not judgemental 5. 4:01 you are empathetic 6. 4:26 you greet people by their name
1. I am pretty genuine. 2. Sometimes, I'm not that good of a listener. 3. Occasionally, I'm real arrogant, but I can be humble whenever. 4. I know I'm a bit of a hypocrite for saying this, but I'm never judgemental. 5. I've always been empathetic, regardless. 6. I love greeting people.
The name thing is so true. Until a couple of years ago, I have been in a group in which there were three girls, all the same age, not too different from each other. 2 of them had the same name (Federica), I was the third one and my name is Francesca, which isn't too different from theirs: I was ALWAYS called with the wrong name. I felt so bad, like "why can't anybody remember who I am?"
same I have two friends who have their names also starting with a D and people always get confused with our names😅 but I actually don't care being called with the wrong name
It’s not that they don’t don’t remember you, people just screw up names a lot. Especially teachers. It could also be if you look similar to them, or because you hang out with them a lot. There are these boys that I know named Tyson and Collin and I can’t tell you how many times teachers have called both of them by the wrong name. They don’t even look very alike, they just act alike and hangout a lot in classes that they have together. Edit: Some people are jerks, though, but that’s not always the case.
About the “Genuine” part. I’m partly both. I do as I’m told, but I try to get what I need out of it. Although I was raised a Christian, I have my own beliefs about it. Like I said, I’m partly both
I have the likeable traits but I don't have the likeable habits listed in this video. I don't call people by their name much and I get daydreamy in a conversation (especially in a group setting or a noisy environment) but I am also genuine and non-judgmental.
I am not likeable. I am avoidant, suspicious, on my highest guard all the time, withdrawn, untrusting, extremely self-reliant to a fault, and never allow anybody close to me for fear of some sort of cruelty. This makes for an extremely unlikable personality that nobody could ever overlook. It is with this knowledge of my personality that I have chosen not to persue any sort of social existence.
I'm most of these traits except maybe not being humble, which I'm not sometimes and something I still work on, and most people I met don't like me though lol. And this isn't a pat on the back from me, I just expect this of myself. I’m pretty sure you can use this list to also say why someone isn’t likable because I noticed those same people don’t really check anything on this list.
4/6 ain’t bad…. I don’t know how to be humble. I feel fake when I try to be humble. Empathic….🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ it’s lost on me! Because sometimes it’s stuff I can’t relate to or imagine. 🤔🤔🤔. 😅😂🤣 I’m g good with these results! 😊😊
I act very kind to people but I don’t get it back, I try to always stay calm at school and help everybody that needs it. I have severe anxiety disorder and sometimes I get bad panic attacks in class and have to go for a walk. after my first one happened (in the first year of high school) People started calling me a freak and a loner, i’m now left with no friends. It’s sad that all the horrible people get popular tbh
Proud to say I have all the traits part from the last one, well it depends who it is. I greet girls by their name and guys I just say mate. I can’t say I’m perfect but I’m always trying to be the best that I can be and the best I can be those around me and around my life ☺️
To be honest, I see myself as not "likeable" in any way and this video confirms this. Same as my comment under video about signs of being "attractive", I'm ugly both on inside and outside and I do not wish to improve. I accepted my fate as just human equivalent of trash.
I think I have these characteristics, but the results in my life so far make me believe that I am not likeable at all. Maybe it's the people? Bad luck? Maybe I am doing something wrong? I don't know and I am confused 🤔😕
i have hard time hearing out ppl sometime's in the most promimenent relationship im in i speak the most and sometimes i speak over them soo i'm working on listening
1. They Ask Questions. 2. They Put Away Their Phones. 3. They Are Genuine. 4. They Don't Pass Judgment. 5. They Don't Seek Attention. 6. They Are Consistent. 7. They Use Positive Body Language. 8. They Leave a Strong First Impression.
I have a fear of forgetting who I am. Or forgetting who or what I work for. Edit: it’s not the fear of forgetting things, it’s the fear of forgetting one’s self.
I feel like I don’t, for context I broke apart a friendship which I thought the other person was toxic because she would get angry if I didn’t talk to her every day and she was almost an adult and I just turned 15 and she had a crush on me. I gave her context and told her why and she ridiculed me saying it was my fault. A day after I blocked her I had been getting messages all day of people shaming me for what I did and just been getting attacked all day I’m at the point where I wonder if I should’ve broken the friendship maybe I am the bad person at this point I don’t know I’m just mad at myself for getting myself into this situation
It’s ok. I know once I thought my friend needed some space (also she’s my bff) so I asked her if she wanted us to kind of stop talking for a bit till she felt better. She ended up thinking I didn’t want to be friends and I nearly ruined that. I hope you feel better soon. Hope this helped.
I am enfp and you can say i had 20+ friends and aquintence at my school that sometimes i forget their name but they know me🙃 , but always wondering if they even like to be friend with me.. i would be so happy if they do!
I do all that, Well most of them, but when i do that, ppl think that i like them and it's SO uncomfortable...or they laugh saying that i'm very childish ..
I'm judgemental but also open-minded, cause when I notice that I make judgements too much, my brain says "Just Forget About It cause It Is NON OF YOUR BUSINESS " so😕😁
But sometimes people are bad. Judgements are important. We should have an open mind, but its ok to have a judgement or impression of a person. Am i wrong?
Anyone have any tips for listening better and being more genuine with your words? As a person with ADHD I personally find it hard to process words so I often just shake my head and not really think to much when I speak..
I don't want to be judgmental and I try reall hard not to be~ but I guess eyes are considered in judgmental too 😅 I'm infj so i have to see them to read them , idk if i make them uncomfortable 😅
I'm pretty sure the only one i lack is not being judgemental and perhaps greeting people by name 🤣let's be honest here, I feel kinda like I'm being judged as i walk down the corridor so unless I'm actually familiar with the person I don't greet them by name lol EDIT: tbh I don't think I've ever been liked by that many people... they never even listen to my ideas in a group project lol
I work with wild animals and they seem to like me more than any human and they love it when i pet them and rub their stomach. I love tigers but it makes me feel kinda heart broken that we lock up wonderous beasts.
I don't really do the name thing because I struggle to include someones name in a casual conversation. I just don't know when to do it. It feels weird- idk if that's just me
I literally need to use Flashcards to remember people’s names. It’s not that I don’t care enough to remember it, it’s just I don’t remember anyone’s name. My brain goes mush.
Happy Sunday everyone!
Happy sunday
What do you like to do on Sundays?
Eversince I was a kid, I always something weird during Sunday evenings.
Happy Sunday!
Monday 11th for me. :)
1: You’re genuine
2. You’re a good listener
3. You’re humble
4. You’re not judgemental
5. You’re empathetic
6. You greet people by their name
I have all those signs but people still hate me
@@derekrobertson60388 probably envy…🤷🏾♂️
@@derekrobertson60388 I guess you suck then
@@derekrobertson60388 my friend does too, but everyone in New Jersey is kinda a piece of shit, so he’s had a bad life. I think this video means more that you’re likeable… to people that should actually matter. Other good people. So you’re probably just around the wrong people
1. Sure
2. Umm idk
3. Not really
4. Depends
5. More like too much
6. No, i say "oi" all the time
Anyway, this is me hating on myself
A lot of people are attractive! But once you get to Know them, their attractiveness either goes up more or goes down.
So true 🤠
True!
💯💯💯
I don't know about mine I feel more Mysterious and Mystery and Different almost
True true
+Psych2go *Thanks for the list of likeable characteristics:*
0:44 A genuine nature
1:32 Good listening
2:19 Humility
3:16 An unjudgmental attitude
4:01 Empathy
4:26 Greeting others by name
The irony is that we may be likeable, but we don't meet that many likeable people...even if we do, they'll still be minding their business, rather than pay that genuine attention to us, as we do
Thanks for this list of "reasons why people dislike you!" I mean...
1: Genuine: I suppose?
2. You’re a good listener: I'm great at listening, but only if it's a topic I care about.
3. You’re humble: I have a terribly low self-esteem which gets mistaken for being humble so that's a positive I suppose.
4. You’re not judgmental: I'm judgmental as hell, but also open-minded in a sense of "so long as it doesn't harm me, it's none of my business, no matter how I feel about it personally."
5. You’re empathetic: I am absolutely apathetic.
6. You greet people by their name: I generally do not even remember names, nor ever actively address anyone by their name.
Me to buddy me to and it drives me insane.
Psych2go: Number six. You greet people by their name.
Me who constantly forgets other people's names: *Sweating profusely*
Same or even I be almost calling them by someone else name
Lmaoooo
Yup, and that made me feel highly guilty
@@thewolfed1687 same :(
Was watching it thinking "Why haven't I got loads of friends then?" This really the reason!? 😄
1. 0:45 you are genuine
2. 0:32 you are a good listener
3. 2:19 you are humble
4. 3:27 you are not judgemental
5. 4:01 you are empathetic
6. 4:26 you greet people by their name
Shit I’m none of those
Btw I already know I have a bad personality
Enlightening as always. Thank you. I have self esteem issues, and this gave me a boost.
1. I am pretty genuine.
2. Sometimes, I'm not that good of a listener.
3. Occasionally, I'm real arrogant, but I can be humble whenever.
4. I know I'm a bit of a hypocrite for saying this, but I'm never judgemental.
5. I've always been empathetic, regardless.
6. I love greeting people.
The name thing is so true. Until a couple of years ago, I have been in a group in which there were three girls, all the same age, not too different from each other. 2 of them had the same name (Federica), I was the third one and my name is Francesca, which isn't too different from theirs: I was ALWAYS called with the wrong name. I felt so bad, like "why can't anybody remember who I am?"
same I have two friends who have their names also starting with a D and people always get confused with our names😅 but I actually don't care being called with the wrong name
Hola
I like your name. It's pretty nice and it just sounds beautiful, in my opinion
dang im sorry ab that. i hope you're in a better situation now
It’s not that they don’t don’t remember you, people just screw up names a lot. Especially teachers. It could also be if you look similar to them, or because you hang out with them a lot. There are these boys that I know named Tyson and Collin and I can’t tell you how many times teachers have called both of them by the wrong name. They don’t even look very alike, they just act alike and hangout a lot in classes that they have together.
Edit: Some people are jerks, though, but that’s not always the case.
Thank you for this! I really appreciate that you made this. I learned more about myself that I can improve upon 😊
About the “Genuine” part. I’m partly both. I do as I’m told, but I try to get what I need out of it. Although I was raised a Christian, I have my own beliefs about it. Like I said, I’m partly both
"you're a good listener"
me, who has ADHD and struggles with processing conversations: *sweating profusely*
I love the person’s voice who voices most of these videos
That's awesome ! I found out that I'm less likeable than I thought !
I have the likeable traits but I don't have the likeable habits listed in this video. I don't call people by their name much and I get daydreamy in a conversation (especially in a group setting or a noisy environment) but I am also genuine and non-judgmental.
I am not likeable. I am avoidant, suspicious, on my highest guard all the time, withdrawn, untrusting, extremely self-reliant to a fault, and never allow anybody close to me for fear of some sort of cruelty. This makes for an extremely unlikable personality that nobody could ever overlook. It is with this knowledge of my personality that I have chosen not to persue any sort of social existence.
I always feel better learning new things
I'm most of these traits except maybe not being humble, which I'm not sometimes and something I still work on, and most people I met don't like me though lol. And this isn't a pat on the back from me, I just expect this of myself. I’m pretty sure you can use this list to also say why someone isn’t likable because I noticed those same people don’t really check anything on this list.
Thank you for this, I do have a likeable personality - however, I often feel depressed and low self esteem.
One of the biggest thing is just the person's energy and smile. That sets the tone for the relationship.
Omg PSY! You almost have 10 MILLION subs!!!! So happy for you!! So well deserved
That made my Sunday actually, thank you, I just realized I'm on the right path 🙌🏻
Same 😊
Ayyyyyyy! I have a likeable personality! Step right up people if you want to experience what a likeable personality is C:
bg music is top notch. gave it a whole feel.
4/6 ain’t bad…. I don’t know how to be humble. I feel fake when I try to be humble. Empathic….🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ it’s lost on me! Because sometimes it’s stuff I can’t relate to or imagine. 🤔🤔🤔. 😅😂🤣 I’m g good with these results! 😊😊
Woahh. You guys are pumping content like crazzyy. Great content and keep going😄
One of the last comments were so cute! "We like you, though!" It filled me with so much warmth!
I act very kind to people but I don’t get it back, I try to always stay calm at school and help everybody that needs it. I have severe anxiety disorder and sometimes I get bad panic attacks in class and have to go for a walk. after my first one happened (in the first year of high school) People started calling me a freak and a loner, i’m now left with no friends. It’s sad that all the horrible people get popular tbh
Great message as always ! This really answered a couple questions in my head
I don't know how likeable I am but something I personally like are psych2go videos. The animation is cute and the topics are interesting.
Proud to say I have all the traits part from the last one, well it depends who it is. I greet girls by their name and guys I just say mate. I can’t say I’m perfect but I’m always trying to be the best that I can be and the best I can be those around me and around my life ☺️
the animation's great as always!
Think about how what you do & say affects other people, but don't let that stop you from doing the right thing.
As always, adorable and informative. Thank you psy
To be honest, I see myself as not "likeable" in any way and this video confirms this. Same as my comment under video about signs of being "attractive", I'm ugly both on inside and outside and I do not wish to improve. I accepted my fate as just human equivalent of trash.
I love the music! What is this soothing tone
I'm a time traveler 👀
By time traveler do you mean a patreon member?
@@derekrobertson60388 no
@@DinandHarmen if you’re really a time traveler then can you help me go back in time so I can undo every bad decision I’ve made
I think I have these characteristics, but the results in my life so far make me believe that I am not likeable at all. Maybe it's the people? Bad luck? Maybe I am doing something wrong? I don't know and I am confused 🤔😕
i have hard time hearing out ppl sometime's in the most promimenent relationship im in i speak the most and sometimes i speak over them soo i'm working on listening
1. They Ask Questions.
2. They Put Away Their Phones.
3. They Are Genuine.
4. They Don't Pass Judgment.
5. They Don't Seek Attention.
6. They Are Consistent.
7. They Use Positive Body Language.
8. They Leave a Strong First Impression.
Her voice is really calming
Happy Birthday to me, the amount likes were ‘726,’ until I liked it and it made it my bday.
All of this is very true. Thank you 😊
Well sheeeeit!
This is me! :D
...although I'm slightly judgmental because i expect more out of people. 😅
I really do like this channel it helped throw my journey of exploring life ,thank you and I really love you so much !❤️❤️❤️
I have 5/6 but I actually don't have a likeable personality cuz yeah.
Funny how that works 😄
I love these videos! Can’t wait for the next one
Grow grow grow! 🌱
I have a fear of forgetting who I am. Or forgetting who or what I work for.
Edit: it’s not the fear of forgetting things, it’s the fear of forgetting one’s self.
I feel like I don’t, for context I broke apart a friendship which I thought the other person was toxic because she would get angry if I didn’t talk to her every day and she was almost an adult and I just turned 15 and she had a crush on me. I gave her context and told her why and she ridiculed me saying it was my fault. A day after I blocked her I had been getting messages all day of people shaming me for what I did and just been getting attacked all day I’m at the point where I wonder if I should’ve broken the friendship maybe I am the bad person at this point I don’t know I’m just mad at myself for getting myself into this situation
It’s ok. I know once I thought my friend needed some space (also she’s my bff) so I asked her if she wanted us to kind of stop talking for a bit till she felt better. She ended up thinking I didn’t want to be friends and I nearly ruined that. I hope you feel better soon. Hope this helped.
She sounds toxic and you did the right thing
*in my best Ralph Wiggum voice* I'm likeable. 😊
Well this makes me feel better because I have some of these traits
Thank you 😄❤️
I love your videos and the super cute animations that go with them 🥰
Finally a physc2go video that makes me feel good about myself
I am enfp and you can say i had 20+ friends and aquintence at my school that sometimes i forget their name but they know me🙃 , but always wondering if they even like to be friend with me.. i would be so happy if they do!
I do all that, Well most of them, but when i do that, ppl think that i like them and it's SO uncomfortable...or they laugh saying that i'm very childish ..
A likeable personality is a personality to be taken advantage of
unsurprisingly, I am, in fact, unlikable
huh. I check all of the boxes. that would explain the attention I am getting.
I dont understand why I have so many guys wanting me though.
I'm judgemental but also open-minded, cause when I notice that I make judgements too much, my brain says "Just Forget About It cause It Is NON OF YOUR BUSINESS " so😕😁
I have all those Signs.I have studied Psychology and Philosophy.(The Alpha is the Omega).(Nature
v Nurture)(Mind over Matter).
I'd consider myself a generally likable lonewolf :3
But sometimes people are bad. Judgements are important. We should have an open mind, but its ok to have a judgement or impression of a person. Am i wrong?
Hope everyone's doing fine, have a nice week 😁❤️. Remember to always keep going and that we all deserve some love.
Trust me I know I’m not like able, I am close to being hated by all of my classmates which I am not ashamed of it , I see it as an accomplishment
first most definite sign is the video popping up in your home page. take it. or leave it.🤷🏻♀️
Anyone have any tips for listening better and being more genuine with your words? As a person with ADHD I personally find it hard to process words so I often just shake my head and not really think to much when I speak..
Yeah, when your likable ofc some ppl will be jealous of you or hate you bc of your likable self, but ignore them.
I don't want to be judgmental and I try reall hard not to be~ but I guess eyes are considered in judgmental too 😅 I'm infj so i have to see them to read them , idk if i make them uncomfortable 😅
I'm pretty sure the only one i lack is not being judgemental and perhaps greeting people by name 🤣let's be honest here, I feel kinda like I'm being judged as i walk down the corridor so unless I'm actually familiar with the person I don't greet them by name lol
EDIT: tbh I don't think I've ever been liked by that many people... they never even listen to my ideas in a group project lol
I think I'm doing all of the signs and I do feel no one really hates me but also no one really likes me. Can anybody else relate to that?
When you see the video pop up and think 'no...but let's see where I'm going wrong...'
I like the Psych2Go team for all of the work they've been doing in these videos.
audio is good
I have all of these things!
Great video
I'm almost likeable!
Awesome.
I work with wild animals and they seem to like me more than any human and they love it when i pet them and rub their stomach. I love tigers but it makes me feel kinda heart broken that we lock up wonderous beasts.
I literally have zero of these except empathic.
I really don't like myself
This video make me ask a new question...
AM I A FAKE HUMBLE?
Amazing
I used to be disliked a lot in the past but I am not sure if people like me now. I am ok so far
Ah yes! I'm all these except that I have social anxiety
can u make a video about how to live a fulfilling life
cool i guess is this an exclusive one
since its unlisted
When you're all of these but only have one good friend
I don't really do the name thing because I struggle to include someones name in a casual conversation. I just don't know when to do it. It feels weird- idk if that's just me
I literally need to use Flashcards to remember people’s names. It’s not that I don’t care enough to remember it, it’s just I don’t remember anyone’s name. My brain goes mush.
I know the feeling. I think it's because so many things happen at once, so the "small" information, like name just doesn't get remembered.
A sign that you know you don’t have a likeable personality: you see this title and be like ‘oh~I definitely don’t have any of these’.
I can’t do the name thing. I just can’t and I don’t know why.
I’ve concluded that I’m a horrible person!!
I can Completely say that I am likeable 😂😂😂😅😅😅
Being humble and being good listener feels physically impossible, especially for my stuttering sensitive brain as an autistic looked down person.
Very interesting :-)))
Hmm so if I am all these things, why have I struggled to make friends my whole life?
I have all of these and people don’t like me for being so nice 😂
I have almost all, yet, still dont matter to the majority of people. Well, shame on them, i guess
Not everyone has good taste in people
People are probably more focused on your personality, the first impression or the things you do and form an opinion based on that maybe idk
I personally don't care if some people like me or not.